"Hey TMM What's Your Biggest Mistake In Life?" STORY TIME
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And he thinks he got it bad
when you are so handsome you cant even struggle lol imagine getting gfs to provide for you
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Lost my mom at 17 . I became an alcoholic for 13 years and finally got my shit together when I was 30. 6 years sober money in the bank and a good job. Life can be strange sometimes but you cant EVER give up
💯💯💯 that's awesome man
Happy for u bro 💪💪
late to this reply but good for you man
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TMM, you’ve just described more than half the people who follow you in this video.
I’m one.
Second here
Same here. I’ll be hitting 27 in a few months, maybe it’s a sign to make a change
Also me I’m hitting 16 next 5 months and have no friends and social anxiety
@@user-lu4jn8mr2m bro you are still very young, you better pull up your socks while you still have time good luck
@@user-lu4jn8mr2m at least u have tekken
❤️ great to see you back on your feet man, darkest points in your life will propel you to the greatest things when you keep your head screwed on. Great job man💪🏾💫
Hi
“Masku Points” love it
It's good to see mainman is doing good now
"This one time I down 4'd instead back 3-ing during a money match."
Bro your channel named tricked me so hard bc it says 100 years ago my heart dropped I have no idea why lmao
haha tricked me as well
Holy shit, really inspiring story. TMM do more stories. Its really beneficial for your viewers I feel. It hits close to home for a lot of us
I'm 20 and in uni and a lot of the feelings TMM brought up here are really relatable, having the motivation to actually progress and not letting your self conscious voices take control of your life and having courage to move forward is so worthwhile. Sometimes people aren't there to push you, so when you hit rock bottom you'll realise you're the only person who can make your life what you want it to be
Same boat bro
It’s genuinely impressive that you managed to turn your life around so fast in just 2 months tbh
When you figure out what you want and need to do, and you have the drive to do it, you can accomplish impossible things in a short amount of time. It's up to you to unlock your hidden power.
@@Guitarman5200 I know this comment is a bit old but I can relate from my own experience that, when you finally get out of the pit you were drowning in, the life force that you can get and the things you can do that didnt even dream of doing are limitless
@@josetojoestar7533 it might be necro posting to reply to your comment yet I really wanted to ask you this. I'm in a similar situation TMM was in but I don't have the same drive or any at all. Just a bad mindset and insecurities. How did you deal with that?
@@pypy9202 Hey, no worries.
It works differently for each one of us, since we all like different things and there's a lot of disparity in our drives.
I forced myself to go out, exercise and meet people and do crazy stuff, until I got along with a few of individuals that were an inspiration to me.
I used to be scared to take a wrong step in life.
All I can say is; keep a balance, be somewhat healthy, have a couple hours a day where you check jobs/careers of your interest, even if you don't find anything interesting, force yourself to do it, you will always get some experience or anything valuable even if you make a wrong choice, its always better to make a mistake than do nothing at all.
You will be fine 😃
@pypy9202 this is coming from a man who felt like he lived a full life by the age of 28. I'm 30 now. I had men in their 50's tell me I have more life experience than most people have their whole lives. Super high high, super low lows, been rich and been homeless. In my experience I can point you to the words of David Goggins. "You already know what you need to do, just do it." It may sound cliche but it's the truth. Goggins said he hates when people go to his seminars because he knows they're procrastinating and not doing what they need to do and waste their time listening to him telling them the same thing over and over. You know what you need to do, just do it.
You death-comboed that question mainman! You are the man you claim to be!
When I was on Film school (university), I met my high school classmate. He asked me what can I do after finishing film school. I replayed I would like to work on the movies. Then he said he doesn't belive that I'll get job in film industry. Now is over 3 years when I worked on Pirates of Caribbean. Don't listen to sceptic people. Believe in yourself ♥
telling other that they won’t achieve their dream job is pretty shitty tho
Im impressed my friend. Gl to u for the rest of ur life
@@berkaykilic5883 Thank you so much! Also good luck to you!
Yeah i remember when i told my high school classmate that I was entering med school. He said to my face "I wouldn't want you as my doctor". That shit hurt my self-esteem bigtime and I still question myself if I should become a doctor :/ be kinder to others
@@pavelvicik5122 what role u played
My biggest mistake was not taking anything seriously in my younger days and being extremely timid! I think about it every day. If you’re younger you need to know anything you want to do TAKE IT SERIOUS! It’s a big deal! Practice, practice, practice! So you can have the confidence you need!
Was a good student in high school, got into mechanical engineering university and then I realised I don't really like this shit. I wanted to become a martial arts instructor but I was afraid of taking that road cause I thought I was too old to do that professionally. And I thought I should not dropout of the "good university". So after 9 years of procrastination, I got my diploma, finished military service and at the age of 28 it struck me. I still had to work my ass off to land a career in engineering. So I decided to work my ass off to do something I was too scared of attempting. After I made up my mind, every new year has been better than the last.
Figure out what makes you happy and work yourself towards it. Forget what everyone says you can or must do.
Congrats man, hope your dream is getting within your reach now
How did life work out for you? I'm working on my A.S. at 28.
i couldn't help but tear up man....im currently in that state right now...22 years old , dunno what to do with my life ...i finished highschool with no problems, went to college but didn't finish it and worked for a partime job instead , that didn't last long tho coz covid raided the chat... i lost my job and I've been so stagnant that i got used to it ..i have no ambitions in life, just became totally reliant to my family , stuck inside my room gaming all day ... living a loser's life ...but when i watched this video i just couldn't stop crying , because i thought i was the only one who's going through this , this fear of facing responsibilities in life ... i feel so useless like i don't belong anywhere , like i should just disappear ..atleast that way my family would have less baggage to deal with..
but im really , really glad that i found this video cuz this really woke me up big time , like ...in my whole life i never really questioned myself to why im like this?...why im so antisocial ?..why am i so afraid ?.. why am i not doing something about it? .. why am i just stuck inside my room playing games all day?... there's so much questions that i asked to myself after i watched this video and took me an hour long to finish asking myself all that , and something really hit me .. it hit me so hard that i hated myself even more ... it is the fact that i did *nothing* ..i did nothing to better myself ...i did nothing and became the trash that i am now... that's what hit me so hard ..the answer was right there all along and i didn't even bother to look at it because i believed that the day will come where my life would turn and go full circle..but now i know that won't happen if just sit down and do nothing ....i learned that , making excuses to make myself feel better , has to stop.. from now on i will start running on the road that i abandoned ..the road that i barely even started.... and this time I will never make excuses..
thank you so much tmm, i would never have realized all this without hearing your story...
I hope you're doing good now bro. You're still young and you have time to become better and better. Keep your head up homie, much love
Stay strong
Hope your doing well dawg
@@Tigertamer01 I've been doing great dude, it's been hard at the beginning ,but yes I've managed to better myself in a span of a year and half-ish.. after posting this long ass life story, the next day I immediately went job hunting online , after a few interviews I got hired , also been doing some freelance jobs online for extra income, then after 3 months I finally moved out of my parent's house and lived in a small ass dorm room , learned how to manage daily expenses and also started saving money which I've never done before. learned a bunch of different things , encountered a bunch of people with unique personalities (even the worst ones), got scammed , got into a fist fight , went to the gym, learned how to drive and eventually got my license. got friends now (real ones), and recently I moved to a much better apartment with enough space , bought a motorcycle which I've always wanted ... so yeah there has been ups and downs but it's kinda fun ....living in your own terms .
I appreciate the concern man, I hope you're doing good as well.
my Allah guide us all.
This video came out at such a pivotal time, especially during the pandemic where there's so much uncertainty. I'm going to try and watch this video once a week to remind myself not to give up during adversity. Thank you TMM, MASKU!
Watch the Arnold schwarternager speech. That will kick your ass in to gear.
Coming from a student, this story was really inspiring. I just barely finished highschool this year. Cheating, not caring at all but when I started thinking about my future, I knew that I had to work harder cause I don't want to depend on anyone when I'm older. Thank you for this inspiring story, mainman.
*M A S K U*
I’m still in high school I think I should stop relying on other and stop cheating
This is why he’s the mainman. Not because of tekken. Because of his character.
Yea❤
Thank you for opening my eyes, man. I'm 28 right now, and I'm in this situation. Sometimes we all need a kick on the arse. I train a lot, I work part time, I play a lot of Deus Ex and Tekken, I smoke pot and I'm not satisfied with my life(and my relationship, to be honest). I am getting ready to pass the exam to be able to get into university (fourth time in my life) and become an electronic engineer. I love to solder and reverse-engineer things. I have the same thing about "I'm not good enough" with some jobs and I'm getting better with it. My life is not complete crap, but it can become worse, if I'll not do anything. I will keep the gym and lifting heavy, but I have to do something about everything else. Thank you, man. I really appreciate your story. I hope it will be heard and will help others at least a little bit.
Goodluck man. From a stranger on the internet: I wish you the best.
U got this bro
This goes to show you that there are two sides to every coin, we only get to see a small fragment of his life, we ALL go through shit, I’m glad he was able to overcome his faults because it is one of the hardest things anyone can do....DORYA
This story is really interesting and inspiring in that the way you described your previous outlook on the world really resembles the cognitive triad in the development of major depressive disorder. It's motivational to you go from rock bottom, to having a family of your own and many viewers who look forward to your content. You've been my favourite Tekken CZcamsr since 2013, keep up the great work TMM!
TMM shared a deep and a very sentimental memory. We understand and you have our support mate. It is really an inspirational story interms of how u turned your life around and setting an example for people who doubt themselves more often than not. Respect.
Very relatable story. I feel like I'm in that position now. This was a great story to share, thank you.
Man, I wasn't expecting to catch all these feels.
This is really inspirational tho, and I'm glad everything turned out for the best in the end for you
I’m so sorry to hear that about your mother I can’t imagine the pain you half to go through.
thanks dude you literally saved me from almost making a bad decision in my life. there's still much time left ahead, I just need to be brave to do it.
this was a great stream tmm i related a lot to your story glad i got to hear it live, keep it up
I actually got some motivation from this to keep going and be contented with what I have. thank you
This video caught me really off guard because i'm in this exact moment in a situation were i need to put a real big amount of effort to exit a poisonous anxiety that is embracing me for a year now. I'm literally not doing nothing and having a low self esteem on everything. I feel like i can't do anything in my life and that all that surrounds me is falling down on me. I needed to know that you can exit and be happy. really thank you tmm.
My biggest mistake was taking my father's advice seriously
what was the advice? lmao "GIT GUD SCRUB"
Sarincrow oh shit 😂😂
I ain’t gon lie I kinda wanna know myself, man
@@rid2148 He told me to do the typical "study a lot, go to college, get a degree at X university, etc." which was a total waste of time and took me more time than it should have, the funny thing is he is now telling me degrees are useless now, so basically even he admits I wasted my time.
@@boitahaki I used to blame my dad in all my problems. But then I realized that all my problems comes from me. I'm not telling you should stop blaming your dad or something . I don't know what your life is. Be confident, find your path and I think that your father just wants to see you happy. Be kind to your father try to understand him. Good luck bro
I always watch this video whenever I feel anxious about my future and how I am doing now. Thank you Main Man.
Same here
Thank you for sharing this TMM. Appreciate your openness. Mad props!
Thanks for sharing man, went through the exact same thing at 27 but still haven't got it figured out yet, really helps.
Thank you man really, I'm 19 turning 20 soon and i feel these thought creep in quite regularly for the past few years have been a spiral as you say of events that have consumed my life in ways that have made me lose motivation but you inspire me to do more and i thank you for that
Thank you for sharing TMM, really helped me to hear you talk about this stuff keep up the great stuff in everrything
Glad you posted this mainman. Going through a hard time myself but seeing you even back then inspired me :)
I joined this stream in the middle of you explaining this. I’m glad you’ve put it on CZcams.
i always had respect for tmm but soo many of what hes talking about relates with me. Thanks for sharing your story
Very inspirational!!! Glad to hear u overcome the odds and make something of yourself!!!
Damn, to get that out it needs some huge balls. We all make mistakes and learn from them. You are not alone.
Its the best thing to achieve that state of happiness that you are talking about. You can enjoy life so much more now. All the best to you and your family.
Greetings KCR
shoutout to the guy who asked the question
This is so eye-opening to not only me but so many others. Went through something similar so Thank You for sharing Mainman.
Thank you for sharing your story! You will give others the strength they need to give themselves a shot! I know sometimes people have to hit rock bottom but even then, some people may not even recognize that they are there. Not only did you share how you arrived at your lowest but also, how you made it out. God bless you Mainman!
Damn i can remember myself being jobless for years. Then i found out a job after years of self study as a graphic designer. Now i have a full time and freelance job as well. This is so inspiring. A lot of people needs to hear this. So they wont stop trying. Very very inspiring.
Where'd you self study graphic design? Or how long did it take you to learn and land a job all at once?
Very inspirational. I needed to hear this man. I'm pretty much at the same point in life and at the same age... can relate to not wanting to find another job due to low self-esteem. However, I've been asking myself these what-ifs and immediately decided to turn those what-ifs into reality! Good stuff man!
Thank you for sharing your story. While listening, I could often compare myself to the situation you were in at the time. Poor self-esteem has also been one of the reasons I struggled with myself for a long time. I am glad that I have now realized that it is important not to make yourself dependent on anyone. Only you yourself decide about your own value. Nobody can make you happy but yourself. I have been following your channel for a long time and enjoy such educational videos.
Jeeze. I'm sorry man. I lost both my parents within 4 years (one to cancer). Watching your videos is one of the few things I look forward too every day. You're awesome bro
I feel you man.
I've stayed inactive for a very long time and all this situation keeps getting the best of me.
There are many occasions that I felt utterly useless.
Although I have a college degree I really haven't taken any actual advantage of it. Covid made things even harder jobwise and at the age of 30 I feel a complete garbage,a parasite to my family.
I haven't given up but I have really stayed behind and really wondered if there was anything I could do back in the day to improve my current status.
It's really frustrating going through all this and it is something you have to figure out on your own without a tutorial of any sort.
I really admire you for having the determination and positivity to become a better individual despite the odds in your way.
Finding your place in the world and your inner balance in life is an arduous task and I wish I could do the same soon.
This is awesome, so what if you we're late with your school, job etc.. we have our own battles that we're trying to face everyday, and for you to step and do what you love, we're so happy for you you're such a genuine person tmm. God bless and keep on doing you! What an inspiration!
Wow, thank you so much Adrian. Im a 12th grader I'll be moving out next year for college and my stress levels were incredibly high but watching this gave me a lot of hope and gold advice literally I'm seriously feeling better now and im beginning to pin point a plan for the future. Thanks again, KiRA from the church of ORA
One of the most inspirational moments of adrian so far, love it
Thanks tmm, honestly really helps to hear your story.
this is absolute gold many, young people really need to hear this message big thumbs up
i have been your sub since 2018, i can say a lot of your life have improved a lot. keep up the great work.
Hey mainman I'm 17 just started working on my qualifications for being a mechanic and honestly I'm Abit scared to go into the world of adults but this video really helped me clear my head and I just wanted to say thank you❤️
Me too I’m turning 16 next month and I’m afraid to go to college I don’t know anything
A year later . How are you doing now ?
@@CGM_Raiden well I kinda got messed over by covid like everyone else but I'm doing my second year of my apprenticeship for becoming a mechanic and when I watched this video it really help me know what I was feeling is normal and it partly inspired me to carry on and keep pushing myself😁
@@nikaukarauria9660 ay that's really cool bro . 💪💪❤❤
@@nikaukarauria9660 struggle is part of life. Its important to learn from these struggles and become a better person on the other side. Keep grinding bro 💪
Then he got gifted with 2.2k subs days after.
Glad to see you're in a better place of your life MM, hope there's even better things to come
Nice video man, just when I was needing it the most. Life can be shitty sometimes (or most of it).
Amazing and identyfiable story mate. I assume many young men have struggled in one way or another similar to this.
Great content as always.
Greetings from finland🤟
Thanks for the inspiration TMM really loved the story and I relate to it a lot.
Very inspiring story mainman 🙏🏽, I felt this one
This video is really inspiring to me cause I had similar situation, I lived with my mother who psychically abused me and I've been struggling with hard depression sitting in house playing Tekken, watching CZcams and telling myself that everything is alright but I'm changing my life right now thanks for the inspiration and thanks for the great content you're uploading on youtube. Have a good day!
Very inspiring story Main Man. Thank you for sharing. 😭
Thanks for the video MainMan, it really was eye opening. Hope you continue to stay strong and grow for the future. :)
One thing for sure, now you have helped lots of people thru your content. All the work you did on Tekken series paid off, which also happens to help your brand on a platform, pre adpocalypse at the time too. You earn an extra cash via coaching on Tekken aswell. Hearing that you are much happier now and realizing mistakes is a huge plus! We all just gonna laugh at our mistakes when we look back to it; it's just useless to think what we could've done back then, we just have to go forward!
Thank you so much mainman. Come up stories help me pick myself up when I take Ls in life. Stay strong and positive. 💯💯💯
Damn... This is super relatable to me. I'm 20 and I'm living the life you described in the video. Thanks for the heads-up and tips on how not to live like that. Will take notes and atleast TRY to be brave like you were/are!
23 here and same.
Same....we can fix it.
28 and still there. I'm trying to fight it and I get better step by step, but damn, it's hard to become a decent human being :D
@@tonybloodlossgood luck, dude💪
@@user-pi7sx1gu5u thank you!
Had no idea this would hit THAT close home but it does. I actually finished highschool and went to two universities but didnt actually finish either of them, because I never believed I was doing anything I wanted for my life. I went to uni when I was 19 and now, at 26 I essentially wasted 7 years of my life for nothing. And I say WASTED instead of lost, because by saying lost implies it was out of your control. I definitely knew what I was doing. I am turning 27 in a couple months and the whole 2020 mood hit me like a truck. I am getting more and more aware of my age and the fact that my parents may die not long from now. I started working out and working towards a better future for myself. I think the key to true happiness is being able to support your own lifestyle, one that you truly love. My sympathies to anyone going through the situation. You will make it, but you gotta move. The most precious thing you have in your life is time. Don't waste it, lads. Peace.
You know what main man, this exactly describes the position im in now during quarantine and I think its the success story I need to really just go and do it ty i lov u
I feel like soon I'll go through somewhat similar shit. I've had 3 dreams, the last one was yesterday night, about me having to take a lesson of responsibility. It's good to listen to these kind of stories! Thnks TMM
timeless speech ! thank you for being so real to us. you’re such an inspiration, hope you’re doing fine now 🙏
Sometimes you dont know what everything's and your own worth until you hit rock bottom. Its like getting into the water to know its depth, you cant exactly tell by standing outside.
Quite an interesting story Adrian, Mistakes were made, but you made it right in the end, you stood up and stayed firm. most importantly you are grateful and Happy, and a Dad too :) Stay healthy and Happy man!
Quite a gem you dropped. I believe many gamers, can relate to a very similar situation of alienation from society. I think at some point all core gamers went through that. It just evolves differently for everyone. Hope this enlightens many that are only subcociously aware of this problem!
Thanks for sharing this part of your personal life manmain! Life isn't a race, everyone's got their own pace
I really appreciated you sharing this tmm. I'm currently working on getting a car and my own place rn and I'm only 23 but still. You know I feel like I'm wayy behind, because so many of the people I went to school with already have families. They moved out and got their shit together...and im just getting started. But knowing that someone as cool as you went through worse, and eventually got to where you longed for gives me even more hope that everything will happen for me sooner than expected Thank You🙏🏿👍🏿
Thank you for showing me the way, mainman, I know you don't read CZcams comments, but I wanted to say I really look up on to you, I've been watching you probably since 2012, I was 12 by that time, and ever since then, I have always thought you're a super cool guy. I used to be a Paul/King main, now I'm a Kazuya main
*MASKU*
I relate to this so hard. Thanks for sharing.
More Respect to you mate... Learning from the life itself is a great discovery of art. You're no less than an artist and I like your Work! Power to you mate!
This is the best video you did, I'm the most terrible period of my life, all the things you said touch me in the soul, I don't know when and how all this shit will end, but I'm trying, you are a great main, thanks for all.
Jesus Christ, this hits hard man. Definitely a huge inspiration for me. I'm glad you've been able to better yourself.
Its so brave you talk about this openly, inspiring and relatable story
7:38 that hits like a truck, multiple trucks.
That hit me right in the feels dude. Thank you Adrian for being someone to look to, that can relate to us a s a community. All Hail Tekken Dad.
This is inspirational. You know I might make myself happier from now on
the best video I have seen in your channel, a huge tekken fan is saying this. thank you for saying what you said
I failed my last year of high school and also I was on the brink of failure through out my entire middle school years, after I failed I was hesitant to repeat my last year I don’t know why it was just a year but I was scared and ashamed too, but I did repeat my last high school year and now I’m in college, seeing mainman talking about his life and wrong doings hit home to me as I did a lot of wrong things in my life but to see him talking how he crawled out of the shit hole he was in and reaching to the happiness he is at is really inspiring, have a great life mainman
Thanks for the vid it was good to hear and I feel like I needed it too
More power to you man. Hopefully you can pass on these lessons to Wilhelm too one day so he can be proud of his dad making the effort to make his life better
Alot of younger guys probably needed to hear this. Myself included.
Thank you for this MainMan. I hope you're doing fine nowadays. Thank you for sharing your past ☺️
Everybody got their own pace bro, at least you've done well to redeem yourself and being known all over the world (by tekken fighters) at least.
keep on working towards your inspirations man. 👍🏻
I am quite shocked that the life that you have been living up to is just like my life and I'm only 25 years old I have hit rock bottoms many times you somehow made me realize what's wrong. Your videos I've been watching I been 40 And this one you just opened my eyes that's a great advice I have gotten from you a gamer youtuber You're really good at this You're really good quote MGS
1:42 Armor King's stunt then disappearance from MainMan saying 'but' was perfect timing
Thanks TMM. I have never met you in person. But you sound like a great person. I wish nothing but good things for you and your family. Thanks for your videos and look forward to seeing more in the future.
Thank you for this MMS 🤜🏾🤛🏻
Thanks for sharing your story, real inspiring.
A good video. I find myself in a somewhat similar situation to what you described.
I flunked out of final year in College (Gymnasium in danish) due to untreated mental illness and I became a non-functioning shutin living with my parents until I was 22-23.
I'm 26 now and living in my own apartment, and I recognize feeling useless. I've lost all my social contacts and I'm still not able to maintain a fulltime job.
It feels like I might as well have been in a coma for years, but finally I'm starting to get out of that slump.
Cool to hear your story, stay safe
Cant thanks you enough for this main man im in the same spot currently I dont go to school, and im afraid to get a job, I got anxietys im sitting playing games all day. more story time @TheMainManSWE
Well Mainman you seem to have really turned things around for yourself, especially with going to law school. I’m 20 right now grinding out my BA to go to law school and couldn’t imagine even doing this level of schooling while holding down a job, streaming, and all the other things you do. It’s very admirable how well you make use of your time
Great story to hear MainMan.. what i've tried to learn is that we can't keep looking at the past, we can only act on the here and now.. The person you are today isn't the person you were yesterday. (something i struggle with myself)
Imagine meeting your future self (a year from now or even six months) and make little strides in trying to become that person (i.e. being good a Tekken Master lool, being fitter, knowing a language etc)