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I love how she isn’t toxic and doesn’t trash talk her ex. She tried to be respectful which i appreciate
I mean she literally said they ended on good terms or mutual terms
they ended on a good note tho😭 and this is social media! Dosent mean she’s not toxic
@@aerabyeolwhere did they say that
No. She doesn't trash talk him online. She's got a big following and that would make her look bad. It's entirely possible she trash talks him to her friends.
@@nukiesduke6868 Cute wheres the source that she does this???
can we all agree that erica doesnt need a glowup! she’s beautiful as she is!
Agreed! 💕
Agreed 💯❤
yes
Yep
agreed.
Just a friendly advise from someone who went through a bad break-up, don't suck it up, feel your emotions, go through every single of them. You’ve to get hurt first to be healed.
Amen amen ❤
😢 I appreciate u for saying this
I really needed this ty😊
Her breakup was a mutual decision and they went no contact a few months later
Fr
you know what i love about erica is that even after something bad has happened she puts it aside and puts herself first like she glowing up so she can put her break up aside and focus more on herself.Erica you are my role model ,we are here for you love u queennn❤❤
Ur profile pic ate😂🤪
@@kay_450 yuh so did yours
Lol
You eat
Just me but I saw here put the help sign
it literally feels like watching my bestie go through a break up. erica this is your reminder that you are loved and appreciated despite what your brain might want to tell you!! your ex was a wonderful person and a great boyfriend but youre a great and wonderful person as well and you also have the capability to love and cherish yourself like anybody else can, if not better!! things will absolutely get better and you look gorgeous as fuck the hair the make up the accessories all slayed SO HARD!! you got this we love you
This is such a healthy mindset! ❤
stop i love how u stated this😭!
erica knows shes loved why yall acting like she got kicked out the house
@thats_my_eye she literally said she feels like somebody died so like I think she feels worse than that but nevertheless it's never a bad time to remind someone they're loved!
i love how you wrote this it couldn't been worded any better than this
u can tell how bad the breakup hit erica 😭😞
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Wait did they break up i saw their vd when they were in spain u could tell they’re in love 😭what happened ??doesn’t seem like a healthy breakup to me hope she’ll move on
@@Urmo517nono she said it was just the right person at the wrong time and they still respect each other
@@Urmo517oh my 😢
It breaks my heart and still gives flashbacks about them happily on a vacation in Spain😞
Is her ex is Sean
i love how transparent and real erica is bro cus all of us be like this at some point 😂
it’s okay erica. We are all here for you. Don’t worry
she has the right attitude and positivity for this breakup you slay girl
🥰
I agree
She really does
Wait.. SHE BROKE UP?! I THOUGHT SHE WAS HEARTBROKEN CUZ OF A ACNE BREAKOUT AND GOT A GLOW UP!
dude she said like 49 times they broke up.. and even the title says "post breakup glow up" not breakout 😭😭@@user-sq4bt6ym2x
@@user-sq4bt6ym2x did you read the title bro- and shes also mentioning EX in her sentence 😐
love how she is glowing up when she doesn't need it
Yea frr✨
why are you lying
@@A2A3556 wdym im not she is gorgeous has the best skin ever, tall, pretty,funny and has swag
ur a hater
proudly @@earthtoshea
please don't try to rush it, it will take time, let your heart feel the love you have for him, and don't force it to stop feeling, let it feel the pain, and remind yourself that you are only human and this is a normal process of grief, you loved them and this pain justifies all of it! let yourself cry or feel like nothing is worth it because they are not there with you, let yourself be pathetic and vulnerable, but remember that this will pass, and you will look back in disbelief of how deep of a pain it was and how strong you were to accept it and move on...
you will be proud of yourself for being through it all with so much love, pain, and respect...
I hope the pain is not for too long, I hope it gets better for you... It is hard, hell, I know, but you are stronger!
In the past two years, I went through a similar situation as you did. I broke up with my ex, and we kept in contact as we used to for six months. However, I realized that we couldn't be the same anymore. It's incredibly painful, but trust me, once you accept it and move on, the best things will come. Don't be too sad; it's a waste of time. You can get through it! Big support ❤️
Even though erica doesn’t need a glow up I feel shes probably doing this for herself and mental health to try to get stuff off her mind I love her for that and she’s treating herself to the things she wants 🩷 love you Erica so proud of you
did erica maybe mention her ex 1000 times? yes. BUT DOES SHE LOOK GREAT??? YESS
YESSS
breakups are so so hard! especially when they end mutually, it feels even harder to let go of. the healing will always fluctuate up and down and that's okay :) it's okay to cry whenever you need to, even if it feels like a lot of time has passed. trying to resist the pain can make it feel even more insufferable. i've had a similar experience recently so i'm right there with you! the insecurity part is so real, but it does become the best time to be gentle with ourselves. i hope you feel better with your glow up, but know that even without it you're still glowing!
From a person who is going through a friendship break up, is comforting watching this video. Hope things get into place soon. Love from Brazil ❤❤
GIRL YOU LOOK SO GOOD ?!?!? this hair color is just PERFECT on you !
the amount of people in the comments saying she doesn't need a glow up or whatever 😭, y'all just stfu and enjoy the video, THESE TYPA VIDEOS ARE MY FAVEEE (from a lot of other creators too, but ofc, erica's my fave), if erica stops making makeover videos, I'm literally gonna cry + I'm going through a break up too rn, so I get comfort from watching erica - knowning I'm not alone with feeling the way I feel
Ikr they all need to understand her better. Also hope you girlies feel better
Ikr like there’s some things we all know but don’t need to say it. We all know she doesn’t need a glow up but the video is entertaining and clearly she likes doing these videos.
These people are delusional and selfish. They probably get changes here and there to make themselves feel better but have so much to say when an influencer does the same
No Fr 😂
rightt, everyone needs a reset once in a while and her glow up suites her so well she genuinely looks so happy
Erica is great that she is acknowledging her emotions cause that can help her to move forward easily. The process might be rough but soon it will be worth it. Also, letting your emotions out while trying to make yourself better by doing what you want is a big step so I'm so proud of you erica! Your hair suits you well too and you always look gorgeous.
thank you for being so real with your struggles and your grief erica ❤been on this same journey for the past few months and it truly sucks. the flashbacks that just attack you out of the blue, reminders when you see something random, and just absolutely feeling like you need a big ugly cry for no explainable reason... i think the pain also comes from the fact that a part of you literally died, but it's still kinda stuck onto you. it's the worst, but i believe it'll get better in its own time. fully with you!
been waiting for this one
MAI????
You were waiting for her to break up?!!?
@@Rosesthetic-cw1yggirl what no
ARIANA WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE??
MAIII ILY❤
I got broken up with 3 days ago 😭 We were together for over a year! He went from loving me one day to saying “this ain’t gonna work” the next. I needed this video Erica 😃
i feel so sorry for you 🥲 hopefully you find someone new!!
Erica this hair color suits you SO well!!! Not everyone can pull off the red hair color but truly I think this is your best hair color yet! Plus, all the outfits at the end were a slay especially the first and last one. 😍😍💜💜💜 the more self love you have for yourself the happier you’ll be that you won’t focus on your breakup anymore. You got this!
erica just for you know this video touched me so deep into my heart this was exactly me a few months ago, these exact same words you said and the feelings you felt were so touched to me oml. Trust me girl you'll be so back feeling happier and prouder for yourself very very soon. I had my days thinking my world is crashing down but here i'm happier and prouder! So will you erica please take care of yourself and this place is YOURS. We're here for YOU. We love to see our bestie having a rant sesh w us. AND YES MA'AM YOUR HAIR ATEEE I LOVE ITT. Lots of love from india
Love how real you are. Breakups ain’t easy but it’s also a process of knowing yourself more. It’s tough but we all know you will get better ❤ everything will get better, trust the process!
At this point she's my role model oml!!!
LITTERALLY SLAYS IN EVERY POST👁️👄👁️💅🏼
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this vid was very comforting and i heavily relate to the happiness thing, it’s been 9 months and it still feels like im grieving a death sometimes but u’ll be okay, we all will!!
Erica I love you sm your videos are like therapy to me, and also I was super sad and mad bc my ex bf cheated on me and called me bad stuff but watching your videos makes me so happy your like a therapist making millions of others happy. Sending love and support❤️
I understand how you feel Erica 🥺 breakup is hurtful and when you’re in healthy term with your ex, making a decision to stop talking is sooo hard especially if he’s a nice person and didn’t do anything wrong 😭 I’m glad to see how brave and strong you’re. It’s okay to cry and to feel like you can’t accept the ending of your relationship in some days cuz healing is up& down. Sometimes you’re okay, sometimes you’re not. Just don’t be too hard on yourself and some day you will be 100% healed. Always rooting for you and I love your new hair color btw ❤️
I love Erica sm she makes my day 1000% better
YESSS
I love how she treats herself after that stuff. I feel like I watch my bestie already healed after the breakup and put herself first. I love you Erica!!!🥺🥺🫂🫶🏻✨
Your hair colour is soooo pretty. It suits you so well. Andd your hair doesn’t look damaged at all. It looks so nice and glossy. You can do it girl!! Do not forget just how strong you are!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!
can we all agree, we just love it when erica posts? ❤
Yess❤❤
YESSSSS FR
YESSSSS
Yepppp
Erica is so real with us! When I'm watching her videos I feel like I'm on facetime with her, also I love her new hair colour, It suits her so much
OMG this hair colour looks great on you! literally obsessed. love seeing a girly loving herself!! 🎀 love watching your vlogs after a long day. love your energy gurll!!💗 basically love everything🧚🏼♀️
you deserve the whole world, queen.
I thought I was insane crying so much , but post break up withdrawal is real! Thank you Erica for assuring me that I'm not alone in this ❤
I agree with you and now ı am in the same stiation
The hair actually looks soooo good! Loved the transformation
hii erica~ im so proud of you for trying your best to move forward despite the pain you've been feeling. maybe it's just a matter of time. maybe you are feeling so different because you are not yet used to your current set up/life without him. as time goes by, i hope you'll immediately adjust to the changes and feel like healing. the only constant in the world is change, so people come and go. there are still a lot of good things that life will give you, and i hope you'll start feeling excited and happy again. you're enough, it's okay. you will get through this season of your life, erica~ ♡
You'll heal in time Erica, I'm always proud of you. Just continue trying the things you love doing❤
I’m sorry for your breakup Erica… its so true, the pain of losing someone you love and have been part of your life hurts so much, I literally felt my heart breaking, and finished boxes of tissues for god knows how long when it happened to me and the person I thought was the love of my life. It’s hard and true, you just gotta allow yourself to grief… I pray you will feel better with time, and your broken heart will be healed… slowly but surely ❤ take care beautiful
You are making everyone who had gone through a serious breakup feel normal and comfortable to be heartbroken
Rightttt
self care is so important erica! im so happy ur doing this to urself to make urself feel better
girl ilysm this is exactly what i needed cuz i'm also going through a break up rn and its been through hell and back ommggg... but its nice to know i'm not the only one. sending much love 💕
im literally obsessed with Erica's videos.she deserves the world everything will be fine erica also you're so gorgeous! love u sm erica❤
Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
shuuut up ❤😂@@user-pf1qu3gx9i
@@user-pf1qu3gx9i💗
Erica, you're so real and i absolutely love you for it. Breakups can be really freaking hard but i hope you keep reminding yourself that you're so much more than just your love life and find happiness within you. You're my favourite creator and you're only a few months older than me haha. Sending you lots of warm hugs. Love you boo
Breakups aren’t easy but just know we’re all here for you & your not alone. You can do this Erica , we believe in you! Btw your new hair is honestly so gorgeous 😮🙈
ERICA!! The hair color literally makes you glow! It’s perfect!
I love how you are really trying to take it like a champ although it’s not easy for us emotionally sensitive people so I feel you girl❤
ilysm erica, u deserve the whole world, your beautiful the way you are 🫶🏻
the hair color is so pretty!!! I’ve been there before and I understand you! But trust me you got this your literally such an admirable figure and and inspiration to me❤
자존감 미쳤다.. 얼굴도 예쁘고 몸매도 예쁘고 손도 이쁘고ㅜ 넘 부럽네요
You’re hair looks SOOOO good 🤩
Erica you look freakin amazing!🔥
Going through a breakup is not easy, but time will heal 💕 take all the time you need! You’ll feel better soon xx
The comeback you deserve, the comeback we need!!
I went through a break up in August and have been no contact since September. I completely understand how you feel, grieving someone that is still here. My 2 year relationship ended and it hit me so hard. The most difficult part for me was to accept that things were over. Please do not rush the healing journey, feel everything. Process the breakup and everything you feel. Im still healing from my breakup but things are much better. I no longer cry when I talk about it. I realized so much from it, I came to the realization that I deserved more. Anything that is meant for you will stay and anything that isn't will go. The universe is always working in your favor. Anyone that is going through a breakup or healing from one I promise it gets better!! And know that you are loved
bro erica is my big inspiration, today i literally just figured out that my bf didn’t actually love me, he just used me for past timing or for fun, and seeing her glow up just inspired me so much, and erica also makes me smile even though my hardest
TYY ERICA ILYSM~
Erica is one of the strongest people i know it's been almost three months since she's been single and she still continues to put a smile on her and our faces she's still making videos after that Breakup I seriously don't think I love any other youtuber but erica and her sisters 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
i frickin love your hair erica it looks so good with your skin tone. sorry your breakup has been rough, you can get through it i promise you. love you lots ❤
Your videos are so good!
And you look so pretty!! (both before and after) your new hair fits u so well💐
I hope you’ll heal from the breakup as soon as possible, and i hope that you’re okay:)
Love u sm🫶💗💕
Ericaaaa ❤
We love you even more... the way you stay so real to us
You LITERALLY ATE THIS GLOWUP 💟
Erica is the prettiest, amazing personality ,great fashion sense, humor is on another level...is there more one can ask?she is that person no one can be mad at for long or not want to be friends with......she is the best and it's the end of discussion...😂😂😂😂
She stands out man!!!! Damn girl
i love how erica still posts content for us even though shes going through a breakup ❤
You look SO GOOD
That hair suits you so well!
SLAY QUEEN!!
ERICAAA THIS IS LITERALLY BOSSGIRLL (gave me so much motivation ❤❤)
“When someone leaves your life, it feels like someone died.” In break up terms, yes. Because that’s how it felt for me. ❤❤ you’re so pretty Erica, and I mean that you don’t have to change for anyone, but you do you!! I think it gives my brain a fresh start😊
Girl your glowing, loved you before and after but i'm glad your feeling yourself with this hair! It looks amazing 💕💕
You're literally doing such a good job getting over your ex even if it doesn't feel like it rn bcs you keep mentioning/remembering him. Just remind yourself that the best way to get over emotions is to go THROUGH them. (You're doing this breakup thing right lol) It's good that you're feeling/crying yourself through this now so that later when you see him again or your paths cross you won't be triggered by his presence & get all crazy bcs you already got all those emotions out. Holding it in and pretending to be fine now would've back-fired on you at a later stage so Good going Erica. !!!!
thank u for ranting, we’re always here for ya !!! love the hair btw, u fr ate it all !!!
erica you look so cuuuuute and confident and i'm so proud of you!!! i'm so happy that you gathered the courage to film a glow up video which i really really enjoyed watching ❤ we will always love you and support you no matter what! you go girllll 🥰❤️🔥✨
Here's some Indian advice for your hairs Erica ...
1. never ever brush your wet hair
2. You can use coconut oil for strong hair and damage repair, leave oil on the scalp overnight once a week
3. You can braid you hair sometimes it prevents split ends
I hope it'll help you ❤
The coconut scent stays in your scalp for a few days in my opinion I don't recommend it since it doesn't do anything but make my hair smell
Gurl for me I think it's on her and maybe work on her who knows, we have different types of hair soo yuh,
@@sarina1794amla oil is a good replacement for coconut oil I’m pretty sure
@@sarina1794it works different for different people. You should look up hair porosity and that might help with what oils you should put in your hair. Also ^^^ im surprised the OG commenter put coconut oil and not mustard or amla which are far more popular in India I think, but then again idk, I’m not Indian so maybe not
@@sarina1794 in pakistan we always do it and it never leaves smell in hair maybe its about different hair but doing this gives alot of volume to your hair makes it healthy and shiny
Omg GIRL THAT GREEN FROM THE FIRST OUTFIT LOOKS SO GOOD WITH YOUR HAIRRRR I AM SO OBSESSED
Also, your hair looks so good with the emerald green omg i’m so obsessed!!! Your hair looks amazing and suits you so well
we are here with you❤
ALSO, YOU LOOK SOOOOOO GOOD!! GLOW UP IS GLOWINGGGGGG
I’m literally going through one as well, everything you said I related too. Glad to be going on this journey not so alone due to you and your sisters’ videos
Erica is so strong and she stands up high and is so brightful even if she’s hurt badly and she still gives so much respect and generosity to her ex still is amazing and how amazing she is and that she takes the situation more positively even after that she has such a great and lovely and strong heart and personality and your not Alone and you are always loved im so proud of you and for being the Brightest even at this moment and treating yourself you deserve it and you are so beautiful inside and out and beyond more❤❤❤🙏🏽
After watching this video of u, it helps remind me that people come and leave… and there are people out there going through this pained as I am now
She ate this up, but she doesn't need a glow up!! she's already so gorgeous 💕
Love your new look Erica! Just remember everything happens for a reason and that you're so beautiful and talented. I truly wish you abundance and luck!
the hair is gorgeous erica, but your personality is the best part of you!
love seeing how healthy she goes through her breakup!!!
THIS IS SO RELATABLE, im going thru the exact same thing!!!! This helped me so muchhh i love youu, pls more healing/post break up content i love youuuuu
you are literally so pretty and funny i bet anyone would wish they were you even without the glow up❤
HER HAIR LOOKS AMAZING!!!!!!!! I LUV IT MATCHES HER SO WELL
This place feels like heaven 😢So many comforting advices from so many people to so many breakup going through girlss!!! ❤
Erica makes my day better💗
oh my gosh erica your skin is glowing!! u suit your new hair so much!!
ericaaaa ive been watching you since your first vid (and on your sister's channel before that) and it's so painful watching you going through the breakup :( bUT YOU ARE A STRONG QUEEN AND THERES LITERALLY 1.64 MILLION PEOPLE CHEERING YOU ON SO SLAY YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS WE LOVE YOU !!!!!
May god help both Erica and Sean through out their break up, coz its hard like she said it really feels like you're grieving for someone's death.
Sending them lots of love 😢
omg Erica she makes so many 'glow up' 'that girl' videos and omg she doesn't need it bruh she is literally so stunning she is sooo pretty girl is amazing but also she makes such great content erica gives that girl and glow up without even knowing it love her so much thanks for ur amazing content too❤ hope u heal well tho u will definitely go through it we always here for support ✨her hairrrrr!!!!!!!! amazing🙌🏽
ERICA THAT HAIR COLOR WAS MADE FOR YOU!!! But other than that you don’t need a glow up u r already gorgeous and ur so brave to post at a time like that. Love u ❤❤
no bc that green sweater looks SO GOOD W UR HAIR!!! AHH i love the new hair color moment!!
i love how she keeps a positive attitude 💗
I’m currently going through a similar thing- me and my best friend went us being the only two people who understood eachother to complete strangers who never talk. 😆 honestly- it took me a lot of time to work on myself mentally and be ready to build new and stronger friendships- and be a new me. I believe you can do this! You’re strong ❤
You look so good girl, we're all joining you on this journey!! 😊💕
erica you're so real for this, love you girl.
You look soooooo good, it's giving model in the first outfit you showed us of the finished glow up!!!
Erica, thank you bub for being SOSOSO REAL , i mean, im going thru this same sh*t . And i feel validated. You are so damn REAL. THANK YOU, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH IT HELPS PEOPLE.
just know that i am so so so proud of you erica for getting thru this!!
ur gorgeous and i need a skin care routine bc ur skin is so clear !! hope u feel better erica we love u
GIRL UR SO FLIPPING PRETTYYY!! Generally whoever stupidly broke up w u seriously. they are and will regret it. Not in a weird way bc im a girl but if i were to be in a relationship w u then breakup id never recover. IL YOU AND YOUR VIDS