Terrifying Encounter With Mysterious Man Near My Truck | A Woman's Journey As A Truck Driver
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- čas přidán 7. 01. 2023
- I loath using the world female or girl in any of my video titles, but unfortunately for this video I feel like it is important for other girls to find this. I rarely talk about the creepy people I have run into on the road or some of the questionable actions I've witnessed out here. I strive to remain safe and I hope you do the same, what ever gender you identify as. There are things you can't predict out here. Let me know if you would like a video on how I practice staying safe on the road.
For this vlog, it is my first of the year, and I am proud to keep putting these up. They aren't my best, but I am OTR currently and it has taken me 2 days to upload this! I have been going a bit insane. A day in the life of a truck driver is what most of my videos tend to be. If you would like more specific topics covered I am ALWAYS taking suggestions down in the comments below.
Stay safe and keep trucking.
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Trust your instincts! And call the cops if it happens again. I'm also a single female OTR truck driver. When you are alone at night for your 10-hour reset, take your seat belt and hook it through the armrest of your door and buckle it and then no one can open your door. And if they try to break your window, you can use pepper spray or whatever else you have on them.
mini sledge
CCW💪little Prudence would look real nice on a rack in the back! hope it never come 2 something like that, but!
Cops don’t respond in California or New York or Seattle . Best advice is carry
Dakota seems to always be aware of what is going on outside of the truck. That’s very reassuring knowing that there are some really scary creepers out there. 😧Be careful and stay safe Shelby! 🙏🏻❤️🐾
As a woman who rides along with her boyfriend a fair amount, I've definitely had my fair share of scary walks through pilot parking lots and various "creative parking" scenarios at night. I'm lucky enough to pass as a man (despite being 5'5") with my short hair when I wear the right pair of jeans and a hoodie. Nothing bad has happened to me so far, but it's terrifying thinking about the things that could happen if I were to run into trouble. Stay safe out there y'all
Yup! I work at Pilot in maintenance and the guys tell me don't walk in the back parking lot in the middle of the night alone 🥺🥺🥺🥺😳. I carry a blade in my boot.
@@Agent_Starling next time I go out, I'm definitely bringing some way to protect myself should come kind of altercation arise
@@dibade1961 yes girl, carry something!!!! All pilot employees have to watch a video on human trafficking and the signs if a woman is in distress. Truck stops have a seedy side to them for females. And keep in mind I am a retired Marine and the guys STILL tell me to watch out. Get a "spring assisted" blade and keep it on you at all times and practice opening it in the dark!
Truckers should be allowed to carry a firearm
@@captaincupcake57 I always had a .45 on me, I didn't give a FlyingF$%^&k about the state laws!!
I love German Shepherds! They are the best trucking dog, hands down. I’m old so I don’t get hassled much anymore but my Shepherd saved me on many an occasion when I was trucking as a young woman including a stalker DOT officer that actually followed me from the scale to a truck stop! Be safe out there!
As a retired over the road driver.....I have to say it's definitely not the same out there as it was...but you have the Best protection riding in your passenger seat. No one wants to mess with a German Shepherd 🐕🦺 Stay Safe!!!
She should get some protection that's legal in all 50 states, including CA and NY. A pepper spray gun, that looks like a pistol but sprays pepper spray packs instead of bullets, is a quick alternative. There's a company called Byrna. Having something that looks lethal is an option. It's unfortunate thatnowheree is safe for a truck driver. The truck profession is undervalued and overlooked. People are stupid. Stay safe by the mile
That used to be the case, now the criminals are more desperate and plan for this and shoot the dog first.....times are getting hard and the majority of your criminals are getting braver and less fearful......keep the surprise attack on your end...they do not expect this......keep the scales tipped in your favor.....be aware of your surroundings all the time and adjust your actions accordingly ordinary...... never be the one that is in a state of not being prepared for anything.....a flaregun shaped like a pistol makes an awesome legal weapon....a d they come with a sleeve that allows you to shoot shotgun loads as well.
I carry my pistol all the time but I have a federal carry permit I don't even have to conceal it but I'm a retired marine
You have no idea how grateful we are that you have Dakota and she actually barks.
Yeah, or else this would legit be the last video we ever see before really horrible things like kidnapping (or something worse!) were to happen! 🙄🙄🙄
You’re absolutely right about the trash everywhere in Cali, I used to go from the east coast to California every week, and I was so surprised how much trash is in Cali.. And it smells bad also.. I’m sorry about the guy messing around your truck..
Please stay safe out on the road’s..
I had my trailer stolen and I haven’t worked in 5 months now and it’s really starting to hurt my pocket..
I really hope to be back working soon.. I’m a 100% owner operator and gotta pay for EVERYTHING myself.. Insurance doesn’t care though, they need to do something quickly.. But anyway please stay safe out there.. Love your videos..
As a woman, i really depend on my dog for my safety. I always have him sit on the seat if I'm up front. I also leave my door open if I need to work outside the truck since he won't jump out unless i call him. I've put alot of time into training him and it has really paid off over the years. These days I have a nice dedicated route that let's me sleep on site at both ends so I haven't had any issues with weird people.
I see a lot of people talking about bear spray. Anyone going that route be sure you get the gel. Standard bear spray is a nightmare in a closed area, wind blowing toward you, if your dog is tangling with the person or another dog, it’s difficult to pin point. It gets everywhere.
99% of us will protect you at the truck stop get onthe CB and call for help!
And that's one of the many reasons I don't go to California. I'm a 6'7" heavily built man and with all the crazy things going on only go to states that allow me to protect myself, which is why I keep it as local as possible in Idaho but go into Montana, Wyoming, and Utah. I give a thumbs up to all you ladies doing what you're doing out there alone but if you're getting tired of it I'd definitely look into local, I definitely make more take home being local than I have being away from home.
Be mindful when shutting down at the back of stores. The man in the pick up might have been looking to steal fuel or pcm/ecm out of your truck. This goes on in California a lot. Shelby stay safe out there! I no longer shutdown in the LA area because of crime. I'm 6'3" & 260lbs. Glad you have Dakota on board!
I'm glad you have Dakota to give you company and protection from shadowy characters. Stay safe, Shelby! 🙂
Great video glad you have Dakota with you on road it's scary at times in the world we live in. Prayers for safety; me and my wife always love the videos.
Always double check your perimeter anywhere you go there a lot of wackos.
Also wanted to send my thanks to you and all truckers for doing the most tough job of resupplying the whole world. We can’t live a normal life without you…….😊
Just found your channel. I’ve been off the road for fourteen years now, things are so different. You take good care of you and your body guard. I used to keep a can or two of hair spray for protection. I didn’t travel with a dog nor did we have video. Carry a baseball bat. Hair spray works, I had to use it once, it’s burns the eyes and stings. You Go Girl! May god keep you safe on your journey. I’m 68 now, keep a diary of what you’ve seen and where you’ve been……..I got into photography while being OTR. Get a frig girl, KEEP SNACKS, LOL!
I don’t know if you did it on purpose or not, but recording what you saw was great!
An audio recording to help the cops if you were to be incapacitated.
A tin of Raid is a nice deterrent.
They also make a flashlight that has a pepper ball gun mounted under it.
People in motorhomes have them.
Take care and be safe!
I actually left the camera on while he was around I just didn’t add that to the video 😉
You should have a camera or 2 outside the truck. Also should have some pepper spray and your tire thumper accessible at all times. Trust your gut feelings (and Dakotas) Stay safe Shelby!
And those cameras should have some form of night vision capabilities so you can see what is happening even if its really dark out!
I love your OTR videos! The sights and how you handle everything life throws at you out there. Please keep them coming in 2023 and most important, stay safe out there. Koda ain't going to let anything happen to you 🐶
I’m currently working towards getting my CDL class B license so I can become a school bus driver. I had to take an online course as part of my preparation. Can I say that I have a whole new respect for what you do as a truck driver.
Poor soul those kids are demons
Congratulations on your decision to become a school bus driver. If there was one piece of advice I could give you is that never get caught up in the pressure of others.
Meaning, as example, coworkers or other drivers on the road trying to hustle. As an OTR and local big rig driver that was one thing I saw and many times myself experienced. As a school bus driver you probably won’t get too much if any of that, but just remember to take your time and be patient. Safety and pride come first. Follow and trust your training. Pretrip inspection is very important. If your coworker gets done faster who cares. Do what you do and be the best you can be.
Don’t get caught up in the hype.
It is truly sad that you have to be put in a position that you are truly uncomfortable. I drove for almost 30 years and never like to see ladies feeling uncomfortable and just trying to do a job. So boys out there would think lady truck drivers are easy. I have to tell you that it does happen to men especially at truck stops you can put up all the stickers in the world but they still try. I am so glad you have a good dog with you. Don’t condemn all of us there are a lot of good men out there and are always willing to help. You be safe out there and go with your feelings better to be safe then sorry.
We run a lot of the same roads, it's always nice to recognize somewhere in one of your videos. Stay safe, trust your instincts and your companion, and keep posting. Glad to have you with us!
Shelby -- Your videos are my dose of happiness for the day. I can't put my finger on why for sure but I think it is just your filming style and the music and your personality and of course Dakota. Can't forget Dakota! LOL. Glad you are safe and want you to always be. Even as a male driver I encountered some scary situations out there when I was a driver for 13 years. A lot of undesirables hang around truck stops. Stay safe out there, Shelby!
Phew! Glad that you are safe...scary world we live in...great video Shelby!
Glad I’m retired. I pulled mostly doubles for 25 years in WA OR ID UT and MT. I had a weekly dedicated route to MT for last 15 years. I love it there. People are soooo nice and most know how to drive in winter.
Hi Shelby from Australia 🇦🇺. I had a quad camera and had recorder installed in my truck and special purpose training trailer for both driving safety and security. The gear in the trailer was just under $500k, so you can see why it was needed. Some very sketchy nights parked at overnight spots in the outback. It also came with a duress button on the key fob that activated lights and siren. Safety first always . Cheers, Mike. 🇦🇺🐮🚜📡🧪🇦🇺
Happy Blessed New Year Shelby and Dakota !! Having been in the trucking industry myself and my family running a large trucking company for 30 years, there will always be that one "creapo kind of guy out there" ~ I'm sure he would love to have his picture taken or just seeing you and Dakota giving him the attention he deserves ~ ~ ~ I enjoy and appreciate watching Happiness By The Mile ~ ~ ~ feeling like my family knows you as our friend as well as being part of your daily life ~ ~ ~ Be happy ~ stay safe ~ thank you for sharing Happiness By The Mile 🙂
I'm happy to see your back posting vids again stay safe out there and pls keep the vids coming we all enjoy watching your trucking experiences ....
That was scary but good to hear you are safe and had a good rest of your day after the creepy start.
I'm so glad you have Dakota with you. Always keep your wits about you and sleep with one eye open. Be safe!
So glad you have Dakota with you she definitely won't let anyone get to you. Be safe out there and keep the videos coming.
So glad to see another video....sorry I missed the last couple lives you did...stay safe out there sweet lady!!!
Thank you for the great content! I’ve been trucking a little over a year and always strap my doors at night. In addition to carrying pepper spray, my doggo usually goes with me while I do my pre trip. Safe travels!!
Shelby and Dakota never gets old. One of the best tubers. Even though I slack off alot, I leave with a smile on my face, everytime I stop by. You are awsome.
Shelby, you’re rocking this career🤘 thanks for addressing something that we all have to think about on the daily. There’s some creepy guys on this platform too. Ladies, a guy who calls himself “C’mon wid it” is a trucker looking to solicit sex from other truckers. The guy is married and super creepy. Heads up.
Oh gosh that’s gross
You always pick the best back round music dope beat drops
Great to see you're on the road Shelby. Keep the video's coming, and stay sharp out there. Dakota sounds awesome 🥰. Blessings 🙏🌹
I worry about you. I know I’m not the only father who see’s his daughter in you. Be careful tiny lady
Yep I’m one !
same!
Me too. I’m a dad. I understand the worry for this tiny lady. Stay safe. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
That's why she had a kick ass dog.
Absolutely love you videos!! Really glad I subscribed. Your safety is more important than anything. One thing that strikes me is how your so resilient with that lifestyle of work and ofcourse keep that dub step music going. Really like that. It gives you that feeling of believing you can knock down any type of barrier or bad circumstances. Be blessed
I don’t know if you ladies know it, but some of us sheepdogs are watching out for those around us. When creepers creep on people around me I always approach them and make it known I’m watching; they usually bug out.
There's more sheep dogs out there than you might think
Praise God for y’all who do.
Hey Shelby and Dakota! Love the scenery! Be safe out there! ❤️❤️🖐
Always love the views on your adventures Shelby, glad you're okay and you have Dakota with you too keep you safe from freaky stalkers. Keep safe, happy New year, see ya on the next one ❤️👍
Shelby, ever since I happened upon your channel, I have been an avid fan. It's unfortunate that are still some weirdos out there. Am glad to see u back on the road again. Hang in there. Little bit of a rough start with the cold weather and all. But, u are a fighter and resilient. Am glad that people in your profession treat u as a fellow driver with a job to get done without regard to gender. Keep on trucking! I have so much respect for u and the path u have chosen.
Barely started to watch your channel....OTR going on my 27th year and your positivity definitely shines a light on these darker days in the industry.Thank you young lady and Stay Safe ...do not give in to the nonsense that goes on out here nowadays...Subbed
Thank you :)
Hi Shelby, great to see you and Dakota again, please be careful out there okay.
Good to see you and Dakota. Just be careful as you are and Dakota is a great protector to have with you. Stay safe always.
You seem like a genuine soul. I wish you the best out on the road. Keep living your dream.
Love your videos! Thankfully you have Dakota to protect you when you're trucking. Stay safe out there!
I'm glad you can drive safely in the snow. I hate seeing accidents, hate it. Be well!!
Thank you for another great video!! I like seeing the views they are beautiful. Glad you are safe and stay safe. It's a scary world out there. Glad you have Dakota. Can't wait for another video!!🙂
Amazing video. Glad Dakota was with you on this trip. Stay safe out there.
My guess would be he was casing the truck for possible freight theft. An unoccupied truck in a dark area at the back of a closed store would be easy picking. You might want to consider backing close enough to the dock that the doors couldn't be opened without moving the truck.
Kudos for the situational awareness and listening to your instinct.
If that ever happen again you to get it on camera next time, as it could help you out if someone ever did try something. Please be careful out there the world is getting more unsafe every day. At least Dakota is there to protect you! That’s was absolutely fantastic you got to do a Starbucks run for the loading crew to. You did an absolutely amazing job filming and editing the road and scenery!! I was in Southern California a few years ago and spent a lot of time in industrial areas and at railroad tracks and I noticed how very trashy it was even back then. Even I got the urge to clean it up. Please stay safe.
I enjoyed your video! The start to this New Year has brought plenty of storms with lots of snow. Makes for beautiful scenery! Roll on safely as we work through the Winter. I’m glad you have Dakota as a travel partner. 😎
Sorry about your frightening experience! Please be
careful! Beautiful scenery again, wow! I agree with those that mentioned Dakota in here! C-ya!
Hey Shelby I just wanna Wish you a Happy New year and also I would like to give you and your brothers and sisters in the Trucking world a big big thank you you are the life blood you get to move stuff for us around !
Thanks for sharing I had afew of those days...please be safe alot of creeps out here in the trucking life...
so glad your safe from that scary stop with that creep bothering you. be safe always!
Thank you so much for sharing. I stumbled across one of your videos and now I watch your vids whenever I can. Take care. God bless you 🫶🏼💜
Be safe and enjoy the road! Love your vids
Great that you have Dakota with you. Stay Safe out there!!
I’m So Glad you have Dakota with you. The Protection Pup. Plzz be careful out there. Happy New Years 🥳😜💙
I'm so glad you have Dakota to help keep you safe!! ❤️🐕😍
Glad you have Dakota with you for your safety sakes. Keep up those good videos love the snow.
Happy new year! I really enjoy watching your videos and Dakota too of course lol
I like how you show us what you do. You could always take us with you when you go shopping in target or stop at a truck stop. However, I am glad to see a woman in a mans job. Keep up the good work and prayers are with you. Without you, transport would not arrive.
Shelby, stay safe out there and watch the other drivers you never know who’s gonna come up to your truck when you are parked love you videos
Thank you for this video💜, I miss this road so much. Keep going, you're the best 💜
One thing I would like to suggest is to contact the store's/warehouse's security and let them know what is happening when a creepy guy shows up. I think it would help if their security team can do something, or they could call law enforcement because you feel unsafe & some unknown person is unnecessarily circling your truck. Who knows if that guy has done that there in the past or is habitually up to no good. Stay safe Shelby!! btw I have seen those flashy discs at restaurants when customers are waiting for a table to become available.
How do you know they are not in on the crime, or care about you......this canbe and sometimes is the case .....you are better off to record and fight your own battles, how can you trust the police are honest now a days.....do not let yourself get a false sense of security.....it is becoming a small war zone, and now with the scam involving the crooked brokers, you better get yourself loaded up for war and always be on your guard...careful planning and safe and defensive maneuvers by you are always helpful.....plan ahead, do not be a "dunderhead"......correct your planning strategy, always be prepared for anything, and always position yourself for a quick exit. Stock your truck with food ,water and supplies so you do not have to leave your truck if needed....pee bottles and crap buckets can be poured on your attacker if needed.....bear spray is very strong and some squirt 40 ft., your fire extinguisher can be useful as well.....use your head for something besides a hatrack.
Thanks for putting together such a great video. Dakota is a sweet heart of a dog, and obviously watches out for you. As far as the creepy guy is concerned, could you not just phone the cops and have them do a drive past to put your mind at rest? Stay safe out there.
the starbucks reminded me of the cookies and coffee video from some time ago, you have a nice great positive way Shelby , safe travels out there, best wishes to you
Happy New Year from Prince Edward Island, Canada. Love the driving footage and the scenery. Hope you are having a decent start to 2023, except for the creep guy. drive safe, smile and a huge thank you to you and your drivers for all that you do.
Cheers from here
Hello 👋🤗and Happy New Year 2023 🎉☃️to You in Prince Edward Island, Canada.🎼🕊️ from Susie 🌺 in Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA 🇺🇲☮️💖
Please be safe out on the road I look forward to seeing your trips and I’d be upset if something would happen . Thank you again Shelby ! And Dakota!cameras on !
Great video Shelby and Dakota
Thank goodness you have Kota. She just adores you and would give her life to protect you. It's a scary world at times. Thoughts and prayers for you in your journeys...
Feel at ease just a little, there's more of us guys out here that watch out for lady drivers, you may not notice it, but we're watching what goes on around you. 😉 Be safe young lady.
There's more good guys out there than you might think that would come to your aid if someone messes with you, and having Dakota and some bear spray won't hurt either
Well thanks for taking us on a adventure the scenery is awesome.
Stay safe out there
You are amazing driving west in the winter and chaining and have the best attitude! I’m otr dry van and have my little dog with me. Stay safe out here and God Bless!
Dakota got biscuits! Amazing scenery in this one (perks of the job). Dakota protects mom. Great to see you smiling 😊. Keep on rolling. Big hug to Dakota.
Awesome video as always. Awesome of you to buy them coffee!
I live in Canada and I love your channel, keep up the goo work. You are an amazing person.
When parking at your destination, you can get it all lined up & back up to the door. This protects your load & also puts you in a more discreet position, rather than sitting in the middle of the lot. Then in the morning all you have to do is pull forward a little bit for them to break the seal & open your doors. Be safe out there
Be careful girl and keep a mindful eye out. I enjoy your streams,I’m a fellow driver and I respect you all out here too
These videos keep getting better and better. The editing, filming, and music is excellent. I would get a camera/bodycam to wear not only to protect yourself but to film. I would look at getting a taser or pepper ball gun.
Glad you're safe 🙏 ❤️
I just moved back to idaho from auburn Cali and I was there 3 years and hated every minute of it. Trash on the side of roads and freeways. It’s crazy in that state. So glad I’m back in the mountains. Be safe 🙏🏼💪🏻
I’ve lived around the Auburn area for most of my life. They have done away with those cool signs over donner summer. They were funny as hell! Glad you take Dakota with you
I always got a kick out of those signs too. But I think you're right because I don't recall seeing them anymore.
You have such a well mannered pup. She is an awesome co driver. God bless you both.
Hi Shelby,happy to watch your video with your pet 😃😃😃🌹🌹🌹
it's hard as a female in the trucking industry, not to feel like all eyes are on you all the time (most of the time you're right, they are!), and that you have more reason to be fearful than the guys.
it doesn't make things any better, but I think more men have moments like this than you'd know as well. My husband and I own our own company and we both drive. (me not as much as him anymore, I mainly drive when our drivers are on vacation and stay local other than that). I know I'm very selective about where I'll stop for the night (to the point now where if I can't find somewhere I feel safe, I'll look for a decent motel with room to park the truck out front, and book a room), and although he doesn't say much about it, I see he's exactly the same selectiveness from him, and for the same reasons.
It's human nature to be aware of one's surroundings, men do it too, it comes from caveman days of having to be aware of predators, so don't think that you're alone in the world.
only other thing I have to say is, if you start to feel uneasy, start the truck up and bug out. whatever the consequences, it's just easier.
Beautiful video great music and stay safe and healthy and thanks again for sharing ❤️ Artie
Glad you have Dakota with you. There are so many creeps out there. It’s to bad people just can’t leave other people alone. Here you are just doing your job. He was probably married with kids and he was out being a jerk. I would have called the cops and let them know he was casing you. At least they would have sent someone over and now they would know you were there and they could keep an eye on you or be close by. Well I must say another great video showing how things are out there for female drivers. Have a great day and please please stay safe. Happy trails and happy motoring.
Glad you survived your close encounter with a creep, that must have been terrifying!
be safe out there! 🙏
Ha you really cheered me up Thank you for such a bubbly video. Your dog is so beautiful and I wish you all the best for your future videos. Stay safe and safe driving take care from myself here in the uk 🇬🇧
Back when I was doing OTR Freight, I frequented that Petco DC near Reno...always nice, friendly people there!
That’s so awesome you were in Cali. I live in Hesperia, Ca. By your stop in victorville. Lots of truckers live up here in Hesperia. I’m a teamsters driver. 👍🏻👍🏻 great video love seeing theses. Stay safe and happy travels take care. Keep theses videos coming.
So glad Dakota has your back!
Be safe out there 💪🏽😤