Should Parents Punish Their Children? | Sadhguru
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- čas přidán 18. 05. 2024
- Sadhguru explains why we need to stop thinking that children need to be fixed, and instead create an atmosphere of inspiration which will allow them to blossom to their full potential.
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"We are trying to fix children into the Society, in which we ourselves are not happy with" -- Sadhguru
"Psychology/Psychiatry measures a person's adaptation to the society in which they find themselves. No inquiry, however, is made as to that society's adaptation to life as it naturally is."- Hubert Benoit ("Zen and the Psychology of Transformation)
Thats true 😮😢
This is why you don't clap when Sadhguru says something profound. Because you'll be clapping every 3 seconds!
So true.. i thought the same thing
I have a 1 year old. And I hate the matrix and the society we live in.. This video makes me so emotional.
I'd love to move to somewhere with nature and wilderness and lead a simple life but that's so tough to do these days and still have a family and relatives for your kids to have a fuller childhood
@@mayuhemant2505 That's the unfortunate truth
@@mayuhemant2505 I believe where there's a will, there is a way
That's why I chose homeschooling. ❤
How beautiful. Raise your children with kindness and encouragement instead of useless competition. Having raised 3 I wish I knew this in the beginning as opposed to the end. Thank you Sadhguru. Will be sharing this with my adult children!
Ted, you have a second chance to practice this as a grandfather! Your grandchildren will love you for it, and your adult children will be taught by your powerful example.
My adult daughter confronted me about something I had done years before. I had shushed her crying --- and she was shushing her little daughter. I asked her how she could ignore her daughter's crying, and she said, 'You told me to 'get over it' when I cried.' --- and so I replied, 'I was wrong...and when we learn we have made mistakes, we change. We do not have to continue to repeat mistakes.'
She (my daughter) was still angry with me, but the following morning my granddaughter hugged me when I told her 'I get into trouble too, sometimes.'
It is wonderful to be older and approach our children/ grandchildren with guidance, not punishment.
It’s sad that another human being has to tell you how to treat people you chose to create. There is no sympathy for your ignorance
@@maryamhamid6003 yet one cannot know what one does not know.
@@maryamhamid6003 Does u created ur children? U r finding ways to torture urself and everybody that comes in ur ways.pls keep it to urself
@@OceanSwimmer I completely agree and that was my point. I shared this with my son who recently blessed me with a granddaughter. There is no judgment here. I’m grateful to be able to see I was wrong and learn from my past. Thank you for your response.🙏🏼
When your parents say: “I won't get angry when you tell the truth”.... And when you tell the truth they get mad
Yah,this is true
So tell them - you lied to me, never do that again
Hhhhhh
That cause US some traumas
Hhhh its give you trust issue
🥺 true
that is the most funny part
so we just continue to tell them only lie
I believe it is better not to punish but to enlighten
" A child is someone who is fresh from the divine works. Try not to teach but imbibe the ways of divine"
Sadguru.
Every child is a different flower. Together they make a beautiful garden. Let us keep them happy always.
Children need inspiration not correction
This man is full of wisdom
like tooooo much
Absolutely!!
He said everything that’s in my mind.I love this man
"No missionary teaching here" outstanding sir
Full of wisdom for sure everyone should listen 👂 learn from this wise man
You twisted yourself to fit into society, he's just the way life should be! - Sadhguru
Me: genius!
I bow down to Sadhguru's lotus feet
Music doesn't comes from talent,
Music comes from soul when you remember ur best and worst moments trying feel that pain and sorrow sadness you well get the whole lyrics..feel what you've gone through.
Look at this dude, speaking truth.
I never have and never will punish my kids. I love them with everything I have and I want them to know that they are loved. I want them to have the best life and feel joyous. This is everything. I think like you on so many levels Sadhguru and I am so happy I found you. I needed this....Children need inspiration not correction. Teachers need correction. Yes!!!!
Your children will be happy, they will even be kind to you probably in older age. Other's people children will let them alone old age for the torture they inflicted on them for no reason
Your wisdom is boundless Sadhguruji 😊🙏 Thank you from Turkey ❤❤
I have 4 children I wish I was taught all this then. I really appreciate this session and I passed it on to many many of my friends I know they will appreciate it too.
it is never too late
This channel needs over a hundred million subscribers.
It's all ego anymore, the teachers are on power trips in the school where my son went. They are being extremely authoritive to these babies. I've heard and watched it and could not believe my eyes and ears. To be #1 is a mental illness.... yes!!! Too much of it in this world.
I have never encountered anyone in this world with such common sense and grace and I am so happy to know of you. Amazing.....
Parents are sadists too, everyone that supports beatings do it cause they are little, low consciousness and disgusting and sadists, and don't let your hopes up, I didn't describe minority of society but 99% of people. Won't bring any children to this world, there is no reason for that
Wish I knew growing up..
So much wisdom. So true
Thank you for your speeches. ❤❤💯🙏
Much love for this man and his mission! And these teachings come at a beautiful time for me as a man of 60 years with twin boys of only 5 months of age. My second chance at fatherhood! My daughters are 34 and 31. I’m ready for more learning from my children than I was capable of in my 20s and 30s.
@Edward Colindres that's mean. If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing and you...you need to do better
All the best
Wim Hof is 62-63 and has another young one. Wim Hof is Another you may like. And congratulations 🙏
May God bless your twins 🥰
Blessings on your journey and love to you and your family.
Suicides among children is increasing at alarming rates. That's a consequence of our corrective measures. The greatest sin of humankind.
No it's not, its more likely because of the absence of real parenting.
@@BK-hp6fv Yes anna. Talking about the same thing. Whether it is parents or teachers or the society as a whole.
@@BK-hp6fvpunishment and not having a strong bond or good relationship with them. And antidepressants as well.
This man having the guts to speak his truth and share it to the world is so liberation
Its always the teachers that inspired me, I remember them still. The ones who just focused on marks never made impact on life. Grateful to the few like Adheer Sir who lived his life in a way that looked so bright to me.
This is the best speech I have ever heard in my Life !!!! Finally the thruth !! 💙🌍💙
Yes Dashguru let them be themselves , that's what l did , supported them , thank you infinitely dear friend for your loving support to all society ! Namaste !
I am happy to hear this wisdom from Sadhguru: we GUIDE and REDIRECT our children -- correction is one thing....punishment is not a lesson, but the adult demonstrating ignorance.
I didn't know having black and blue marks on my legs was unusual until a friend at school asked me what happened.
At that moment I learned not all parents hit their children. It was a big revelation.
At school, we learned to be a disciple means to be diciplined...to be taught. When my teacher told us the meaning, I learned the difference between guidance and punishment -- physical harm for its own sake teaches nothing worthwhile.
A teacher was asked 'what should my child watch on TV?' and he replied, "It's not what they watch on TV, it's what you watch with them that matters.' He said watching a program with your children offers an opportunity to ask your child's thoughts about what they saw, and how they felt about it.
Attending to children means paying attention to them.
Wise man of India 👏👏👏
This question was in mind for a long. Thankyou this video 🙏
What's the answer
Very true...have seen parents continuously telling their kids...don't run, don't jump..don't do this n that...frustrated with kid's new activities..because kids spill, kids making noise, making chaos ...but it's actually way of kids to explore
I was punished constantly as a child...It just broke me... so I chose not to punish my children. That doesn't mean don't guide them or teach them..
THIS IS ABSOLUTE AND TRUE.....I CAN SEE CHANGE HAS BEGUN TO SHAPE THE WORLD I AM SEEING RESULTS SADHGURU JI WOW .........💥🌈🆎 MANDALA ,WHAT WE DO HERE IN THIS MOMENT REALLY IS CHANGE FOR THE FUTURE AND BEYOND.⚛🌀
You are the best Sadhguru
Thank you. You are so right. Namaste🐦🌷🙏
My school and college were full of such teachers, me being an average student I just mugged up that much which got me out of this horrible education system in one go and now I am preparing for Samyama. May sadhguru's influence is bestowed upon every single person on the planet so that we can make the world great again.
Hi bro, may I converse with you about the programmes, teachings and learnings in isha. As you mentioned you are into samayama .
at least we learned the lesson of life
Children still learn and theres healthiness and its ndcessary to lovingly correct if they are hurting or not establishing healthy routines and doing things detrimental/in excess. Everything has time and a place and context. The way it is done makes all the difference, children still need to know when it is safe to cross a road, etc. To be kept safe and learning to be self reliant Spirtually emotionally and mentally. Even God lovingly corrects all his children if they are needing it, no one is perfect!
SO needed! Positive regard, reflecting back to them the beauty of them.
What a beautiful insight. Just hits the nail on the head 💡
I am a student and tution teacher. I will try to follow what you said Sadhguru Ji 🙏 😊
If we can inspire then punishment Isn't necessary. 3 children: 30, 25 & 20 yrs old...I punished one when she was 16. I pondered how I failed myself and her for a while. She's the 25 yr old btw and it's still on my mind apparently.
Beautifully said🙏
Very amazing thank you sir, for sharing this very nice and precious advice god bless you.❣
I have faced some of the most horrible degrading people as my teacher and some ov them have transitioned, i just wished so much that they would see this video
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Wow....Nicely conveyed the obvious thing in such a simple way. You have correctly said that we all are actually crippled by society and unconsciously we are doing the same......thankyou for reminding the same........We need to unlearn and relearn without any influence of our surroundings to perceive all obvious things in obvious manner ......🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I couldn't have said this better...
@@Jen-je3jo 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I love the fact that we are learning from them rather than the other way around🙏🏿✔💯👨👩👧
Thank you so much 🙏🙏sadguruji
Thank you so much, the entire world needs to hear this louder!!!
Thank you sadhguru...
“ let’s together try to do something abc” 🌞
Absolutely....every word u spoke is the fact ...which we blind ourselves from.
Grazie Sadhguru!
you are keeping me alive everyday sadguru... May we be blessed with your presence on this planet for a long time
The Great Sadhguru 🙏🙏
Awesome video v beautiful 4 2days world tysm sadguru 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Extraordinary 🙏
Just incredible
Thank you , from the children
This guy makes me SMILE!🧘♂️❤😊
Namaskar Guruji..🙏
Pranam sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏
Absurd amount of wisdom and love🙏❤️🙌✨
Todays Parents are like kids having kids!!!
It’s disgusting 🤮
It's work in progress
It's what they've always been except were always more concerned with putting on an act "adult" (as a personality profile not themselves) rather than acting the way they naturally are.
Please explain
exactly, bring back the belt, bring back the fist!
Thank you!
Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this video 🙏 I love you sir 🙏
Absolute truth.
Thank you for being my voice and the voice of so so many children denied of their own voice
So TRUE!!!!!
thank you.
Beautiful Man, much Love to Sadhguru and All Souls 💓🙏🏻
Namaskaram sadhguru🙏
Thank you so much
Thank you for this Wonderful video! Maybe the best way to know our kids is to Play with them with 'their own rules and not our rules'. Then we will understand each move is a challenge to our ego and we are frozen in our egos.
Children are God highest form of creation,we should only try to change their paradigm that all...
Very true and it's give me a lot of guidelines to nourish my two children and Thank you Guruji 🙏🙏🙏🌷🌷
The wisest advice I've heard in my live! 💗 Sadhguru 🙏
Best sadguru
Thank you 🏴✌️❤️
100% agree 🙏
Best in the world : sadguru
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Jaya ho!
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Sadhguru 🙏🙏
Best parenting ever.. long live sadhguru
I've been waiting for this video.
What a wisdom
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Shiva Shiva Mahadev Shambho..!🕉️🙏
Grazie 🙏
My lovely guru
awesome!
"Cooperation over competition"
I wish I could give this 10000 likes Sadhguru.
God give me big panishment like parents .. suffering for 18 year ..still struggling 🙂 ..and iam always happy because i see happiness in my frnds and other
Just wow...
Missionary teachers😊
If i send my future child to a yogi ashram wouldn't he leave me ( like Sadhguru )
What should one do
Thanks for your support💪