Everything You Need To Know About Marriage In One Lecture

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Komentáře • 76

  • @arturovillalobos336
    @arturovillalobos336 Před 3 lety +27

    A key message : Become a husband instead of still being only a man (and woman become a wife instead of still being only a woman); It's the idea that marriage makes them "one", and they should not see each other as individuals. Life changing insight against current lifestyle!! Blessings!!

    • @ennisel
      @ennisel Před 8 měsíci

      ...or instead of being only a boy in a man's body, or a girl in a woman's body....
      ... I'm observing those not being brought up in godly environs; much less, those who have been, but are so influenced by the secular world that the infant in them doesn't get tamed into balanced alignment as it should, due to no guidance or acceptance of it.
      So you have a situation where guys still wanting to be 'lads' at the expense of wife and family and ladies; not being equipped about womanhood not knowing how to navigate life well. All because the secular world gives a narrative that's just Hollywood (Babylonwood)

  • @avinashnair8433
    @avinashnair8433 Před 10 měsíci +11

    Make your bedroom sacred. Leave all your complaints at the door. Leave all your worries at the door.
    Fixing the world one bedroom at a time.
    👍

  • @grissomnumber1
    @grissomnumber1 Před 2 lety +10

    I really love this. I lost my mother in 2007 and I still miss her. She listened and loved Rabbi Friedman so when I listen to him I’m very grateful and comforted. Thank you Rabbi.

  • @chelseageddes6499
    @chelseageddes6499 Před 3 lety +18

    Beautiful. I wish for my life to have such a marriage. I guess I should pray instead of wish then.

    • @user-to4lb5qw1m
      @user-to4lb5qw1m Před 3 lety

      And feel dignity and appreciation, and self regulate...

  • @rondanatan6198
    @rondanatan6198 Před 3 lety +6

    I wish I knew all this Rabbi way back... it would have saved me from marrying the man who was absolutely unfit to be my future husband. Today we are divorced and I’m in a wonderful relationship that is comprised of you’re theory. Thank God!!!

  • @elzbietabielecka9570
    @elzbietabielecka9570 Před 3 lety +9

    Hello,
    Thank you very much for all the teachings! Beautiful, clean and gentle! Funny too! ☀️

  • @CineSummit
    @CineSummit Před 6 lety +25

    Hello Rabbi. I listen to pretty much every one of your videos that are uploaded. Of course I have heard this topic by you in many other videos and I still love it every time. I must say, I think this speech you really refined and nailed the delivery in a way that the point is absolutely clear. Especially around the 16 min mark when you explain that love is a feeling to the relationship, but not the relationship itself. I want to do whatever I can to help spread this message which can save so many marriages.
    Thank you for the amazing wealth of information you consistently share!!

    • @manisfriedman
      @manisfriedman  Před 5 lety +9

      CineSummit thank you for your kind words. Yes we need to spread the word to help the world.

    • @beautilfuldoveonearth5447
      @beautilfuldoveonearth5447 Před 3 lety +3

      My gem! Love this rabbi. I was Muslim and became Christian and almost Jewish before I chose the lord...but I love Jewish people...they make sense! Love this a lot! I want to see a synagogue.

    • @nixonroger9612
      @nixonroger9612 Před 2 lety

      instablaster.

    • @houseofhusbandry5464
      @houseofhusbandry5464 Před rokem

      @@manisfriedman Shalom Rabbi This is the most practical and effective teachings on marriage . May The Most High Bless you

  • @Aaronisification
    @Aaronisification Před 5 lety +17

    This is CZcams’s best kept secret

  • @gloriaramirez2710
    @gloriaramirez2710 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Rabbi for this teaching

  • @ashcom8952
    @ashcom8952 Před 3 lety +3

    These are really shockers. No one teaches us all these subtleties which I think are universal truths

  • @romanstorozhuk9612
    @romanstorozhuk9612 Před 3 lety

    This is amazing! Only wish I saw this sooner! Thank you!

  • @marymladinich2601
    @marymladinich2601 Před 2 lety

    A new way for me to learn about our King,Thanks

  • @akiamartha6354
    @akiamartha6354 Před 3 lety +1

    The message is very beautiful ❤️

  • @nickbenning6300
    @nickbenning6300 Před 5 lety +4

    with compassion. I just started. Your words invade me, like pieces of food

  • @TheAcquibajo
    @TheAcquibajo Před 6 lety +11

    Such wisdom comes from your lips, Rabbi. I respect and enjoy your speeches so much! Thank you.

  • @errorerror1337
    @errorerror1337 Před 3 lety

    Hello Rabbi, thank you for this video and for sharing your knowledge. What do you recommend someone should read that expands on these along with some practical discussions (what to do, what not to do, etc.)?

  • @karlapinkman1592
    @karlapinkman1592 Před 3 lety

    Thank You 🙏

  • @philipdaniel9837
    @philipdaniel9837 Před 3 lety +1

    This Rabbi is goooooooood!!!!

  • @khurramkhan8547
    @khurramkhan8547 Před 3 lety

    He is the wisest man living.

  • @jonathansollisch5420
    @jonathansollisch5420 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you...fantastic!!!

  • @HaboubChampions
    @HaboubChampions Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @auntyyunike
    @auntyyunike Před 11 měsíci

    AWESOME! THANK YOU!❤

  • @danielbudiono7232
    @danielbudiono7232 Před 10 měsíci

    thank you for teaching the perspective of jewish on love and marriage❤

  • @valsmith2156
    @valsmith2156 Před 2 lety +2

    We have separate rooms and i love it

  • @Resetdallas
    @Resetdallas Před rokem +3

    Nothing you get from Your wife or Husband is As important as your Wife or Husband.

  • @beautilfuldoveonearth5447

    I watch your videos a lot

  • @lidyanaredeemed9848
    @lidyanaredeemed9848 Před 2 lety

    This is really a hidden revelation! Very helpful and insightful. I have learned lot about myself why I am still single... found out I am not generous with my space,my privacy, my independence. So good thank you.

  • @gowithjesus2010
    @gowithjesus2010 Před 8 měsíci +2

    תודה ישוע מלך מלכים!

  • @tehufn
    @tehufn Před 5 lety +2

    There were some audio issues near the end there.
    Thanks fore the speech.

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 Před rokem

    Please anyone how to view and handle disagreements because I know the anwser is simple

  • @julianalbertodelgadillomar6096

    We're watching your sermon rabbi from a tv in the bedroom

  • @rochellecaffee1417
    @rochellecaffee1417 Před rokem +2

    Proverbs says not to spend too much time visiting at your neighbors, or he will hate you. Same in marriage. Contempt happens when there are too many expectations, which is a lack of respect for someone’s space. I tell you, the woke movement by YOUNG INEXPERIENCED PEOPLE, are causing this!.

    • @cafe-tomate
      @cafe-tomate Před měsícem

      Expectations are ok.
      Problem is when you need something from your spouse, when you're using them for something

  • @kelliestledger5290
    @kelliestledger5290 Před 11 měsíci

    So what if you love the person but don’t like many things about them?

  • @albanianmuscles6476
    @albanianmuscles6476 Před 3 lety +1

    I understood everything and in the end I didn’t understood nothing 😅

  • @isaacadmassu6515
    @isaacadmassu6515 Před 3 měsíci

    Hello Rabbi! _The Lord said to his People in Malachi 1 ''I have loved You''.. But it was confusing for that time for them...What is the shame in expressing Love in Words without a doubt whether I'd love or not

  • @cafe-tomate
    @cafe-tomate Před měsícem

    The rabbi on the left of the room makes me feel so sorry. 1h40min standing up 😢

  • @Pheonix1111
    @Pheonix1111 Před rokem +1

    40:00

  • @amormfg
    @amormfg Před 4 měsíci +1

    53:11

  • @Diana-bb5wc
    @Diana-bb5wc Před 10 měsíci

  • @yerushalayimkodush5706

    May it Be, that the wife, and her parents, which Myיהוה לב אהבה Father יה has created from Hebrew earth-flesh and soul; and wrote in the eternal scrolls of Life: She be I, I be she -We be three with Heיה Her and My being rejoined here in this earth-instant as One earth-flesh of two souls intwined once again, in the holy marriage of Iהמשיע and She; had a very peaceful and enlightening shabbat shalom.

  • @karlapinkman1592
    @karlapinkman1592 Před 3 lety

    What happens when a woman is older/ still two weeks. ?????

    • @crackerackadingdong
      @crackerackadingdong Před 3 lety

      Menopausal women are no longer required to go to the mikveh so I doubt there is a requirement for husband and wife not to touch after menopause

  • @valsmith2156
    @valsmith2156 Před 2 lety

    Perhaps the sexual intimacy stops at some point? Why not?

  • @Juanita.Ackhurst
    @Juanita.Ackhurst Před 8 měsíci

    🤗 I’m so Jewish

  • @yerushalayimkodush5706

    May it be, father יה bring us all together, through and under, the eternal birthright of HAaaron האעערון expeditiously, and in safety - That earth be filled, in the rebirthing of the fore-generations of Adam, through her flesh Joined with mine, here in earth-clay begin of soul - fulfilling Ourיה יהוה לב אהבה promises of this; Era of Myהמשיע reign on Earth; and that She receive the blessing of Myאהבה Father- יה Our first child: Daughter.
    I Am The One, I AM
    המשיע, ירושלים לב יהוה אהבה
    החיים בהיי הווה

  • @susanflakes6968
    @susanflakes6968 Před 8 měsíci

    1:11...

  • @keneiloemokhatla7105
    @keneiloemokhatla7105 Před 2 lety

    .Language has been confused..

  • @shyamanissanka4592
    @shyamanissanka4592 Před 3 lety

    ☀️☀️☀️☀️🙏🙏🙏💕💕🇸🇪

  • @sarashemesh8179
    @sarashemesh8179 Před 4 lety

    He's very cuddly. I know that he's genuime and bringing about the meshiach. I'm concerned about the stories that chabad believe their previous leader to be a demi god and that this makes them non Zjewish.

  • @charlesabraham-ramirez-verdugo

    Sex has become soup! Lol

  • @rochellecaffee1417
    @rochellecaffee1417 Před rokem

    You are not understanding that men and women are not wired the same way. He is a trail blazer. THAT IS his job. The helper helps him. Read Genesis.

  • @d-rokcruise6671
    @d-rokcruise6671 Před 2 lety +1

    You could not have said it any better, Jews do not love,,,because you nailed the one and only true love on a cross

  • @adah7760
    @adah7760 Před 3 lety +1

    All this is very insightful, but it needs to be rephrased from a woman's perspective on bedroom dynamics within a "holy" , but potentially long, boring marriage (something you hinted at when you mentioned "Changing the world one bedroom at a time" - hahaha, very funny, but the ideea deserves a closer look). Just as much as rabbi Friedman dislikes the concept of love as being central to marriage, a woman could just as easily disparage the ideea that marriage IS a RELATIONSHIP - be it the holiest of them all, but still a relationship like any other - with parents, brothers/sisters, children, neighbors, and, why not, employers/employees. In fact, marriage is anything but, and, once you accept this perspective, the very notion of relationship defining our social lives falls apart. Instead, the marriage becomes an overarching, all encompassing "cloud" in which not only the two spouses, but also every aspect of daily life cease to be governed by their economic function/conditioning, adopting instead a more abstract, cultural dimension that is much, much closer to GOD. This has both political and theological implications, because it inevitably leads to a new morality that changes the world (and bedroom dynamics, even with the lights on). No more grandmas and grandpas imparting wisdoms about what is happening in the bedroom, but perpetual 30 year-old lovers... :)

    • @adah7760
      @adah7760 Před 3 lety

      ... who don't LOVE each other... :)

  • @johncraig8077
    @johncraig8077 Před 4 lety

    How does that the situation get better and better to be memorable experience in by
    Goin and Hebrew and all in all and investment in the world to come to bless the people of all the world and the idea of what would GOD SPEAKS TO HIMSELF AND speak to understand the importance of choices for the people who have a good time to arouse your love for HIS MANKIND AND ALL OF MANKIND AND EVERYONE THE MESSAGE OF TO BRING EXCELLENT EXCITEMENT AND GOD AND THE FIRST GOOD NEWS ABOUT HIM WITH THE BUILDING OF THE PEOPLE'S HOLY TEMPLE AND THE RESPECT OF GOD AND THE MESSAGE OF THE WOULD DO (IE) THE WORDS FROM HIS MOTHER AND FATHER THESE ACTIVITY AND ACTIONS THESE SIMPLE PRAYER AND INSURANCE AND INSTRUCTIONS TO FIND UPLIFTING ANSWERS OF THAT IS THE QUESTIONS ABOUT THE FUTURE OF THE PEOPLE WHO BLESS ALL OF THE PEOPLE WHOM THE A STORYBOOK ENDING AND PLANS AND THESE PRAYERS OF THE ALL WHO WHAT WHEN WHY WHERE THE REPLY WITH THE HOLY ONE IS HOW? THEN HE SAID WHAT DO YOU MEAN OF THEIR ENTIRE INCIDENT OF MOSES AND HE TOLD THE PEOPLE THE PEOPLE WERE SO AFRAID OF THEIR LAND AND THE MESSAGE WAS THE SON'S OF JACOB AND ISSAC AND ABRAM AND SO GOD SAID YOU WAITED FOR MY WORDS FROM ME AND NOW I GIVE A FIRST BLESSING OF ME WHICH IS THE MESSAGE CAME FROM GOD MY BLESSINGS TO YOU AND OTHERS WHOM I NOW CALL ABRAHAM BECAUSE YOU WAITED FOR THE SON OF MY PROMISE AND YOU WILL NAME HIM ANOTHER BLESSINGS TO TELL YOUR WIFE THAT ONE OF YOUR SON'S WILL STILL REMAIN AT HOME AND NOT RUN AWAY LIKE YOUR OLDEST SON AND WHEN THE PEOPLE OF YOUR GRANDSON IS ABLE TO HELP ISSAC AND THE MESSAGE TO ALL OF ISRAEL AND THE MESSAGES SENT AND SIGNS OF MY HELP TO A COMPLETE PEACE AND ASSISTANCE FOR THE PEOPLE WHO BLESS THOSE WHOM WILL PERSONALLY BLESS YOUR NEEDS BY STABLISHMENT OF THE FINANCIAL SERVICES OF EVERY BANK EMPLOYEE AND PEOPLE TO HELP OUT THE AGREEMENT OF BUYING ISRAEL SAVINGS BONDS WITH ISSUES AT THE TIME OF COLLECTION OF UNTIL THEY SHALL BE TRULY MATURE IN THE INTEREST AND VALUE OF EACH BONDSMAN OR BONDSMAIDEN CLERK OF THE GUIDEDANCE MANAGER AND HOST OR HOSTESSES OF THE SERVICE OF THE BANK EMPLOYEE KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE OF THE PEOPLE WHO ARE EXPERINCENCED DEALING WITH PEOPLE AND THE DIFFICULTY OF THEIR ACCOUNTS AND QUESTIONS ABOUT THE BUSINESSES WITH SOLUTIONS TO BRING PEACE OF MIND THE TIME OF NOT TO BE ANXIEOUS FOR NO REASON AND TO NOT SHOW THE SIDE EFFECTS OF FEAR EVERYONE HAS TO FACE ON THEIR SHOULDERS AND TO FACE AND TO TAKE THE BULL BY THE HORN AND SAY BY AS MOSES EXAMPLE TO HELP OUT A SERVANT OF HIS CARE THAT THE MEN WERE GOING TO WORK AND BY THE TRUPPET AND TO BUILD ROCKS AND STONES OF THE PEOPLE OF THEIR OPPRESSERS WHOM HAD BEEN EXTREMELY CUNNINGLY PUT THE EGYPTIANS TO THE UNDERGROUND TREASURES AND TO TELL THE PEOPLE I COMMAND YOU TO ROB YOUR ANSTRESTIES GRAVES AND TO TAKE ALL THE DESCENDANTS OF EGYPTIAN HERITAGE BECAUSE YOU HELPED THE PEOPLE OF MY PROSITION TO LEAVE THEM HUNGRY POOR AND EVENIOUS AND STUPID BUT BURDEN OF ISRAEL WAS EVEN GREATER BURDEN OF THE PEOPLE OF THE CHOSEN RACE AND THE MESSAGE TO ISRAEL FROM EVERYONE WAS THE EXPRESSION WAS THE EXPERIENCE TO RUN ISRAEL RUN OF THE PEOPLE WHO BROTHERS FOUGHT THE REGAURD ACTIONS AGAINST THE ROMAN EMPIRE ARMY AND TOOK HEAVY WEAPONS AND PUT FIRE TO THE BY SHOOTING AT THE FLEET OF MANY NAVAL DEPOTS AND DESTROYERS AND DIFFERENT TYPES OF VESSEL'S AND TYPES OF VESSEL'S THE PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD THE PEOPLE WERE TELLING YOU WITH THE DESIGN TO HELP THE WORLD THAT THE WORST IS YET COME ! THAT IS THE MESSAGE YOUR NEEDS AND WHY THE PEOPLE OF OUR LANDS DO NOT BOTHER WITH LITTLE THE MESSAGE TO NOT BOTH FAMILY WHO ARE OF THE SAME AREA ON THE TINY LANDS AND BECAUSE YOUR COURAGEOUS DEFENSE IS WHAT YOU NEED TO BRING LIGHT AND THE MESSAGE TO ALL OF ZION AND THE CAPITAL OF LARGEST ÇITY IN WHICH HE NAMED THE CITY OF DAVID THE MESSAGE HE WEEPED OVER ALL OF ZION THE PEOPLE WHO LOST LIVES IN BATTLE AND THE LAWS OF THE LAND CAN BE HELPED TO HAVE NEW LEADERSHIP BUT BURDEN NOT THE PEOPLE OF MY WATCH AND AS GOD SPOKE AND AS HIS MOTHER AND FATHER OBSERVED HIS POINTS OF THE LAND WAS THE SON'S POSITION AROUSED THE MESSAGE OF HOPE AND MESSAGE HIS GOD SPOKE AND THE MESSAGE WAS I POINT THE SOLOMON THE WISE AS NEW KING AND ALL OF ISRAEL AND THE MESSAGE TO INCLUDE THE PEOPLE WHO WILL PERSONALLY FEED MY FATHER'S SHEEP AND PROJECT OF BUILD MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO HELP OUT MY CHOSEN SHEPERD'S TO DEFEND A COMPLETE BALANCED AND TO DEFEAT ANGRY WOLF'S AND FOXES IN THE FIELDS OF THE THE TIME WHEN THE ANIMALS RULED THE COUNTRY***

  • @contactjohndavis2479
    @contactjohndavis2479 Před rokem

    Rabbi Friedman is a hustling styled salesman & masterful orator. His audaciousTorah citings are manipulatively designed to persuade, convince & indoctrinate that it's gotta be God's way no matter what. Presented with a plausible summation, by a quasi staged Rabbi/Actor, YT performances are generating very substantial revenues-income from ads and subscriber clicks. A Real Smartie !

    • @ennisel
      @ennisel Před 8 měsíci

      ...and what's your point?

  • @ViatcheslavFediaev
    @ViatcheslavFediaev Před 4 lety +3

    I thank God I became a Christian before a rabbi like this could get me confused. What a perverted thinking he is professing.

    • @royroye1643
      @royroye1643 Před 4 lety +8

      Every religion has its place. Based on the person's spiritual composition and level he will be attracted to religious teachings accordingly. Your first sentence is fine but the second one is not. It's like an elementary student making fun of a theoretical physicist who says "the shortest distance between two points is a curve."--what kind of perversion is that right? But who's the real fool?

    • @livingdivinepersonality
      @livingdivinepersonality Před 4 lety

      He is a programmer who is programming Human Beings to be biorobots. He confuses human attachment with real Love, he is saying that there is beauty in suffering and basically twists everything. People with God inside and Soul and Spirit will stay away from his "teachings". He misinterprets the word of God and closes the way to Spiritual Eternal Life and Love to Human Beings reprogramming them and filling them up with dead programs. Not all Jews are biorobots. I'd beware of "teachers" like him. 🙁

    • @esthers9122
      @esthers9122 Před 4 lety

      Вячеслав Федяев Wait till you live in Israel and you will be even more thankful. It’s enough to test your faith.

    • @connectedcoachingacademy
      @connectedcoachingacademy Před 4 lety +4

      Christians are funny because it's so easy for us to forget that everything that we know and understand is only a fraction of what Jewish culture teaches on a regular basis. Scripture originally does come from the Jewish, Hebraic, culture. Roy is absolutely correct in what he's saying about the physicists. This sounds so outlandish and borderline dangerous to people that can't understand where Jewish culture and belief is centered from. Love is amazing, healing, and important to have in relationships - but it alone, by itself and only having love, is not enough. That's where compatibility in life comes in (wanting the same things, similar goals, etc.).

    • @vanessacoats2726
      @vanessacoats2726 Před 4 lety +5

      @@livingdivinepersonality How's your life Julia? Are you married? Divorced? How alone are you? This lesson went over your head. This is wisdom. Stick with easy lessons like TD Jakes and such. Come back to hear wisdom when you're ready to truly live!

  • @jaimegoenaga7273
    @jaimegoenaga7273 Před rokem

    Separación, imperfección

  • @akiamartha6354
    @akiamartha6354 Před 3 lety

    The message is very beautiful ❤️