DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Davis vs. Wilson

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  • čas přidán 2. 10. 2016
  • A couple desperate for Judge Lynn Toler’s relationship advice are at a breaking point with questions of infidelity and issues of violence in their neighborhood. Can Marcus leave behind his troubled past and cheating behavior to build a family with Qiana and their daughter?
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  • @shirkerashirkera9057
    @shirkerashirkera9057 Před 7 lety +215

    One thing the judge said that I hands down agree with is ladies have your education and finances to rely on not depend on if that man will marry you or not ..so that when it's time to leave you can walk away comfortably

    • @chipakicornelio5569
      @chipakicornelio5569 Před 6 lety +8

      That's why the number of single mothers will grow up bigger

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp Před 5 lety +8

      Shirkera B This dude is a fuckin bird. Shorty is a good girl. And he on some bum shit

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +13

      Thing is she is living on her own... she don't need him financially...she just wants him there...she won't let him go so she's gonna continue nagging him but he'll never change cuz he doesn't have to cuz he knows she's not going anywhere...

    • @ninadrake2167
      @ninadrake2167 Před 3 lety

      #24YearsNarcMarriageWalkedAwayWhileHeEasatWork

    • @yvettebaker7554
      @yvettebaker7554 Před rokem +3

      These women love these men more than themselves

  • @sarahthetallest3358
    @sarahthetallest3358 Před 7 lety +146

    These episodes are addictive

    • @mylizzies
      @mylizzies Před 3 lety +2

      Judge Lynn gives the best advice.

    • @DWayne4579
      @DWayne4579 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes they are addictive !!!

    • @shatondriaanderson8899
      @shatondriaanderson8899 Před 2 lety

      I love the advice that she gives the plaintiffs and defendants. I’m addictive to these episodes ❤️

  • @MP-nj1qy
    @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety +76

    Girl don’t push him more, push yourself by getting an education and take care of your daughter, if he doesn’t get his stuff straight by the time you graduate, take your child and bounce. Peace out 👍

  • @stephthachochic1152
    @stephthachochic1152 Před 7 lety +196

    🔊Yessssss Judge !!! Put yourself in a position to be able to bounce if he doesn't come correct !!! Her BEST advice yet ✌

  • @akapbe
    @akapbe Před 7 lety +104

    She wants all these things out of life. but chose this man to do it with.

    • @AndyinMTL
      @AndyinMTL Před 7 lety +5

      HazeleyedGemini i know right

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +20

      You heard her day she's going to continue to push him to do better...her mission is to try and change him that's why she's putting in all this work...but you can't change nobody...

    • @joshandabradford3144
      @joshandabradford3144 Před 4 lety +1

      Exactly! Smdh

  • @Molly090414
    @Molly090414 Před 6 lety +351

    He says he doesn’t want to rush into marriage but he had no problem rushing into having a baby.

    • @KhemistryIBMOR
      @KhemistryIBMOR Před 4 lety +5

      Thats because ABW are reckless with their wombs. They've ALWAYS been that way...

    • @Msmac717
      @Msmac717 Před 4 lety +20

      @@KhemistryIBMOR , that is unfair to say all black women. Any woman can make poor choices by giving birth to babies their not prepared to have..look at the foster care systems and Orpanages. They have all races in these places.

    • @KhemistryIBMOR
      @KhemistryIBMOR Před 4 lety +8

      @@Msmac717
      I spoke in general. But most ABWs are "like that" in my opinion. Many dont stop with one child...they keep spitting out babies (as long as the State keeps paying them or providing them with mules).

    • @Msmac717
      @Msmac717 Před 4 lety +12

      @@KhemistryIBMOR , I understand your point however Ive seen all races of women being irresponsible. We can agree to disagree.

    • @Msmac717
      @Msmac717 Před 4 lety

      @Marga A I defend men as well. If a statement is made about them unfairly..

  • @kandb4life
    @kandb4life Před 7 lety +290

    I love Divorce Court. I'm about to watch some old episodes cause I can't get enough.

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +9

      bionicbritt
      I stay watching and rewatching old episodes.

    • @Victoria77P
      @Victoria77P Před 7 lety +2

      bionicbritt me too. i love judge Lynn. Felt like a mute who could speak and she does the voice in me... just that e parties i wanna convey to, couldn't hear it.

    • @worldwidewelds8081
      @worldwidewelds8081 Před 6 lety

      😂😂😂 Me too

    • @karenconcepcion
      @karenconcepcion Před 6 lety +4

      Glad am not alone in this club😂

    • @riskjagne3989
      @riskjagne3989 Před 6 lety

      Karen Cristina Concepción me too🤣😂2018

  • @Lovesmyred
    @Lovesmyred Před 7 lety +81

    The last 45 seconds should be played in all schools, clubs, prisons and grocery stores, hair/nail salons for women! Trust and believe if a no good man has a free ride...he will take it! That said....there are some good men out there! Sometimes you have to wait!

  • @michaelmccreary2797
    @michaelmccreary2797 Před 6 lety +162

    "I does work"...... Sigh

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp Před 5 lety +5

      Michael McCreary exactly

    • @yalondawhite8389
      @yalondawhite8389 Před 4 lety +16

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 on another episode a girl said “I sure does” haha goodness gracious

    • @MP-nj1qy
      @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety +7

      🤣🤣😅😅😂 he needs to go back to high school.

    • @nahseemx7527
      @nahseemx7527 Před 4 lety +1

      I thought I heard that ish!!!!!😩😩😩😩

    • @goodgirlvicki
      @goodgirlvicki Před 4 lety +3

      I hollered when he said that 😂😂😂😂

  • @jacintaellison1
    @jacintaellison1 Před 7 lety +90

    no no no sweetie!!! The judge said make him uncomfortable. That means put him out sweetheart! Stop providing for a grown man!!! You babying a grown man is exactly what he is complaining about. Yall are not going to make it.

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +4

      Exactly she asked for help but don't want the help she was advised...

    • @sevenheaven3992
      @sevenheaven3992 Před 4 lety +6

      I bet she makes it. I bet she takes that advice. This woman is far from stupid if we was watching the same episode. Give credit where it is do. Women always first to put a woman down.

    • @JosieF3G
      @JosieF3G Před 4 lety +11

      @@sevenheaven3992 because WOMEN KNOW the foolish hearts of another woman better than anyone else possibly could. I can call it like I see it too after years of failed relationships, divorce, abortions, adoptions, bankruptcies and homelessness..Women will settle for all kinds of degradation for the sake of " perceived security" or LOVE. Once a child is entered into the equation we settle with laziness, addiction and infidelity even more, for the sake of family " stability". People trying to build a strong foundation ( for a family UNIT) starting with the roof first. Control your fertility women...therein lies your power. Make a man work for, and earn your respect, confidence and body. Which takes years....not days. Foresight is ALWAYS better than hindsight. Make your moves with intelligence and calculation, not based on goosebumps or orgasms.

    • @JosieF3G
      @JosieF3G Před 4 lety +7

      Im sure most of us can see that she is intelligent...however she is stuck..and women remain stuck far longer than they should have once the babies start coming. They just suck it up, take on 2 or 3 jobs and allow the men to act like boys, with no sense of responsibility. Quit wearing the pants in your household!! Put those back on the men. Work first then pleasure and leisure is added after that. That's how financial and emotional security is achieved! She started with nothing and will be stuck that way for a long time, simply because of her initial choices!

  • @jessielynn
    @jessielynn Před 7 lety +160

    "I suggest you get a little less comfortable. I suggest you make him that way. This matter is adjourned." woo *wipes sweat of brow* Way to drop the mic!

  • @speakintothemicb
    @speakintothemicb Před 6 lety +131

    It's funny how a man or woman cheats and then expect their spouse to forgive them instantly. It doesn't work like that. Be faithful and let it be!

    • @mrs.camilliajones3560
      @mrs.camilliajones3560 Před 4 lety +16

      Amen! Like Judge Lynn has said its like cutting someone and get mad that they're bleeding! You did it and if you're going to stay you have to stand in your mess and you can NOT put an end date on when they should get over pain you inflected

    • @migibeats104
      @migibeats104 Před 4 lety +1

      It's either forgive and/or move on!

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety +3

      @@migibeats104 No. You eff up eff you. You are gone. I am 0 tolerance.

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety

      @@migibeats104 No or. No forgiveness.

  • @X266.
    @X266. Před 7 lety +152

    9 homicides during one week 😥 it's a war zone !!

  • @IsaacSMKenyi
    @IsaacSMKenyi Před 7 lety +61

    I like this woman, she is too nice.. She is a real queen, this dude need to start treating her well..

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 Před 5 lety

      Maybe if she stop nagging,he would start treating her better

    • @Ken-iu2zp
      @Ken-iu2zp Před 5 lety +9

      He USING her for her place

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety +2

      B.S. She's full of SHIT. She picked a thug now she wants a man. Don't feel sorry for her stupid arse.

  • @amaryllissoler7872
    @amaryllissoler7872 Před 7 lety +44

    Judge Lynn makes my days! Im a single mom because I choose to be. If no man can step up to be there for me and my child he can step out. I own my own home, my own car, Thank God to a great Job. Im just not willing to settle for less then I deserve and seeing all these couple and what they go through makes me Thank God I dont have that stress in my life.

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 Před 7 lety +7

      Ummm, watching divorce court is an unfair assessment of relationships in general. That's like watching "Cheaters" and think all people cheat. There are great relationships and some not so great but to watch a show about relationship problems, you would be biased.

    • @damionreid6739
      @damionreid6739 Před 7 lety +5

      you go girl! *high five*

    • @brandonjones6324
      @brandonjones6324 Před 6 lety +3

      Amaryllis Soler what state do you live in .... I'm single by choice too 😂

    • @Samynumberone
      @Samynumberone Před 6 lety +1

      why are american men so eager to be a step dad? like , i don't get it. Seriously why??

    • @Mrs.704
      @Mrs.704 Před 6 lety +1

      samy sosa my only guess can be that so many women in America have children out of wedlock by the same few guys so in reality most men will end up being a step dad.

  • @awhodatt
    @awhodatt Před 7 lety +140

    Nice down-to-earth couple. She's a keeper dude.
    Just step your game up a bit as the judge suggested and the sky's the limit for both of you.

    • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
      @GoogleUser-wy2vv Před 7 lety +1

      what! ?

    • @awhodatt
      @awhodatt Před 7 lety +3

      Ummm, what?
      Please elaborate.

    • @pedrodelacruz6943
      @pedrodelacruz6943 Před 7 lety +8

      A Who Dat? Keeper of taking L's you mean ..

    • @BeGood4Eva
      @BeGood4Eva Před 7 lety +8

      Shut the fuck up encouraging any women to stay with a cheater. This bitch made dude is gonna keep cheating. You know the saying.

    • @awhodatt
      @awhodatt Před 7 lety +3

      Ok...

  • @rosegreen8441
    @rosegreen8441 Před 7 lety +143

    Nagging won't change a man's behavior, honey. Either he is mature enough to care about your concerns and try hard to alleviate them, or he won't. Act accordingly.

    • @jerrywashington9541
      @jerrywashington9541 Před 5 lety +5

      After being shot nine times and living through it and going through prison you think this man would have a new lease on life apparently not so she's got to go because he is going to ban them all in trouble with his immature Behavior. 9 time if I get shot one time I'm going to see the light if I get shot at I'm going to see the light

  • @gemmahillan2337
    @gemmahillan2337 Před 6 lety +39

    since when is marriage a bigger commitment than having a child? signing something gets u out of marriage only death gets u out of having a child with someone

    • @markcleveland5275
      @markcleveland5275 Před 5 lety +3

      It's the same with marriage according to God kids grow up and live your mate supposed to be there forever

    • @MP-nj1qy
      @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety +6

      You nail it it. You can get a divorce in about 90 days, but you have to support that child for a least 18 years.

    • @jasmineetienne3361
      @jasmineetienne3361 Před 2 lety

      Amen to this comment

  • @dxlliekxx8319
    @dxlliekxx8319 Před 4 lety +46

    If she wanted to break the cycle she would have went on and got a career & a different man, meaning one with the same ambition as hers🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @tashawilliams8093
    @tashawilliams8093 Před 3 lety +5

    When your relationship becomes a full time job, it's time to roll. ✌

  • @synetriajackson9576
    @synetriajackson9576 Před 5 lety +33

    Sorry once he said 5 years in prison and shot 9 times I would've been out that's a lot I'm not willing to take on

    • @karlgabriel2861
      @karlgabriel2861 Před 4 lety +7

      She's so full of SHIT. She talks a good game but is just like him. She talks about braking the cycle but she chooses a guy like him. She talks about her addicted family but smokes weed with his unemployed arse. She knows a lot but practices very little of what "She knows."

    • @_encore2665
      @_encore2665 Před 3 lety

      @@karlgabriel2861 yess!!! You are speaking the truth!!!

    • @tashawilliams8093
      @tashawilliams8093 Před 3 lety +1

      Right.

    • @sullivancountydays
      @sullivancountydays Před rokem

      She getting prison penis.

    • @sullivancountydays
      @sullivancountydays Před rokem

      Three kids?

  • @mdniteeagl1647
    @mdniteeagl1647 Před 7 lety +41

    The key comment I saw was when he said he didn't understand her fears before, but now he does - likely because Judge Lynn was there to get the words out in an orderly fashion. Communication is key - there's an effective way to express yourself that lets your partner know what you want, understand the urgency of it, but doesn't come across as nagging or over the top. Her fears are valid - now he understands them and can take the steps to do something about it.

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +5

      MdniteEagl
      She has a great way of explaining things to people in a way they may never have considered.

    • @bcurry1772
      @bcurry1772 Před rokem

      Facts

  • @gumbs4
    @gumbs4 Před 7 lety +15

    I like how respectful he has been.

  • @RiddyOnline
    @RiddyOnline Před 7 lety +47

    Don't normally be using these phrases...but that last 30 seconds was a READ. Mercy judge....

    • @No-one20244
      @No-one20244 Před 7 lety +2

      RiddyOnline I said the same thing she went in

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +6

      RiddyOnline
      She went off!
      Had me like 🐸☕️

  • @TriaMaxwell
    @TriaMaxwell Před 7 lety +59

    Easier to save up to move out of a bad neighborhood if you don't have kids....

    • @sharonoguta8589
      @sharonoguta8589 Před 7 lety +13

      if moving out of the neighborhood was her intension, making a baby isnt gonna make it any easier

    • @TriaMaxwell
      @TriaMaxwell Před 7 lety +2

      sharon oguta That's what I said

    • @sharonoguta8589
      @sharonoguta8589 Před 7 lety +4

      *****
      and you are very right my dear,,!

    • @thisismyinferno
      @thisismyinferno Před 4 lety

      Doesn't mean you cant do everything to still try to. I think its amazing she hasn't let her stop her for wanting more now because she has a child.

    • @sammy69831
      @sammy69831 Před 4 lety +4

      Everything is easier to get done without kids 😆

  • @sirblkalot
    @sirblkalot Před 7 lety +91

    let the church say amen. now I hope she understands that she has to bounce in order for that dude to feel some discomfort and not stay with him and nag him more.

    • @No-one20244
      @No-one20244 Před 7 lety +9

      sirblkalot I caught the Holy Ghost 👻. She preached that sermon

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +9

      sirblkalot
      Yep 👍🏾
      She needs to move out and make him make the moves towards her before she considers engaging with him.

    • @sisteryaya24
      @sisteryaya24 Před 7 lety +5

      I agree, more nagging isn't going to help. An ultimatum might move things along one way or another.

    • @zephyteh2628
      @zephyteh2628 Před 7 lety +2

      sirblkalot well she made the mistake of doing adultery (may Allah forgive her) but she should give him some time and see if he changes.

    • @redrilla1082
      @redrilla1082 Před 7 lety +1

      الله سبحانه وتعالى

  • @sisteryaya24
    @sisteryaya24 Před 7 lety +58

    More nagging isn't the key. Get your stuff together or I'm steppin is the key and you only have to say it and mean it once.

    • @katherineleslie5855
      @katherineleslie5855 Před 6 lety +1

      YaYa thats the truth ,get it together or step. Its a shame that some us have to go round and round and hurt and hurt before we find the strength to leave a situation that refuses to change for the better.

  • @audi6329
    @audi6329 Před 7 lety +72

    I'm tired of these several baby momma relationships. Its too wild of a lifestyle. Now how do yall support 3 kids with he not having a job??

    • @audi6329
      @audi6329 Před 7 lety +11

      He seems like a nice guy.. He needs to buckle down, focus on his kids.. Move out of the ghetto and take care of his lovely gf. Also find a stable job..

    • @5822huron
      @5822huron Před 6 lety +2

      Au Di true

    • @tashawilliams8093
      @tashawilliams8093 Před 3 lety

      Exactly.

  • @SpecialKRNB
    @SpecialKRNB Před 5 lety +16

    13:35-13:55 PREACH IT JUDGE! YAS! WE NEED SECURITY as a Woman we need to feel safe and comfortable with not only in our homes but with our men.

  • @Blue-kb6jz
    @Blue-kb6jz Před 4 lety +3

    I always enjoy it when she addresses the woman and tells her what she is doing wrong to allow themselves to be taken advantage of.... it's so empowering and the guys always have that uncomfortable / slightly panicked look on their face because it's not about them any more in that moment. They look fearful with the realisation that They aren't in control. It's so true "he knows he has the options and you dont"

  • @TroyP20
    @TroyP20 Před 5 lety +4

    Judge Lynn preaching from the pulpit💯💯😍😍

  • @cobby7672
    @cobby7672 Před 4 lety +3

    She really loves this cat. Seems like this type of cat always lucks up and gets a beautiful, educated, loving woman like her

  • @PhilemonXIV
    @PhilemonXIV Před 3 lety +2

    Judy Toler spittin' str8 🔥🔥🔥

  • @markbrown5117
    @markbrown5117 Před 5 lety +10

    When is STD court. He doesn't seem to like her and will not apparently change.

  • @JoBunny87
    @JoBunny87 Před 7 lety +127

    She is way too wise for him. I trust that she will figure it out and get it.

    • @triad6425
      @triad6425 Před 7 lety +18

      wise really? getting with a guy who got shot nine times usually isn't a great thing. i appreciate him providing trauma surgeons so much practice.

    • @JoBunny87
      @JoBunny87 Před 7 lety +7

      triad6425 I mean her intentions... you're right though

    • @MeaghanTamara
      @MeaghanTamara Před 7 lety +18

      She had no one to give her educational and lifestyle direction. I would still say she still turned out okay. She fell victim to what many people fall victim to...love. They say if you know better you will do better. She doesn't know better.

    • @charlesmuneri
      @charlesmuneri Před 5 lety

      She knows it, but had to hear it from someone else, pike the judge. Hope she takes the advice

    • @andrewpouncil8411
      @andrewpouncil8411 Před 2 lety

      He should b wise

  • @candidphd
    @candidphd Před 7 lety +45

    That woman is way too good for his lazy ass..she should give him an ultimatum or leave. "Try a little bit harder"? How about try a lot harder? Why are the women always stronger or more independent than the men on this show? The judge has repeated herself about birth control so many times that I memorised her closing speech plus she killed it when she banged that gavel though XD

    • @12pope
      @12pope Před 7 lety +5

      Leave and go where with no money. Are you stupid he is making money selling drugs and she knows all about that. prison, getting shot she knew not to say anything else on tv.

    • @cementprint1211
      @cementprint1211 Před 6 lety +3

      1st thing I thought . Dudes a D - boy ! She caught up in the life . This another hood baby mama story sadly.

    • @qweshun1223
      @qweshun1223 Před 5 lety +5

      If you notice it's mostly African American men. I don't understand the lazy behavior. I came here homeless from my country illegal. No documents, family and didn't know no one. No I'm an architect engineer 6 income. At one time before I graduated from college I had 3 jobs. It's about your motivation, drive and discipline.

    • @cementprint1211
      @cementprint1211 Před 5 lety +4

      joseph bethrant 1st i want to salute you for your success and hard work but do you realize allot of what you have accomplished in this country is from the hard work of African Americans (Civil Rights). Don't generalize and entire group based on a tv show. African American's have done more for any minority group in USA and that's a fact. This is all coming from another immigrant who have achieved a similar success as you. Peace my brother.

    • @qweshun1223
      @qweshun1223 Před 5 lety +1

      @@cementprint1211 OK if you say so

  • @ladymaefire
    @ladymaefire Před 7 lety +4

    God be with this family. They have recognized that there are errors in their ways and they have sought help. I truly wish that guy all the best.

  • @monicaclasener
    @monicaclasener Před 4 lety +7

    He's still in the streets. Already two previous children and now a third. If I was her I would be frightened too. He should get a job at least.

  • @tabj.marshall574
    @tabj.marshall574 Před 7 lety +36

    Love me some Divorce Court! i have watched every episode!

  • @slimchick2689
    @slimchick2689 Před 7 lety +18

    You know what I really like these two... my only two cents is there need to be an life after divorce court or something for these people. I cannot be spending these minutes getting all up in these people business and all attached to these situations then not know what the after results are okay.. Yes!!! I want to know.. lol.

  • @BrownSugaRush
    @BrownSugaRush Před 4 lety +2

    You asked for a sign, got it and still ignore it.

  • @alyagotm834
    @alyagotm834 Před 5 lety +7

    Are you a lil allergic to work 😂😂😂😂

  • @01Iamme01
    @01Iamme01 Před 3 lety +1

    Judge Lynn broke his face at the end!! 💯 Let 👏🏽 him 👏🏽 know 👏🏽 Judge!!

  • @etherealeden3794
    @etherealeden3794 Před 7 lety +37

    He sounds kinda weak to me, & his excuses are trivial. He's gotta stand up and be a man for his family. If she felt secure she would trust him, if she trusted him, she wouldn't "nag".

  • @markbrown5117
    @markbrown5117 Před 5 lety +3

    Work is like kryptonite for this man.

  • @chichichobits1
    @chichichobits1 Před 7 lety +37

    they are good couple I pray that everything works out for them

  • @pedrodelacruz6943
    @pedrodelacruz6943 Před 7 lety +42

    So 2 other kids and one kid from her & in section 8 damn bruh L

    • @AndyinMTL
      @AndyinMTL Před 7 lety +3

      Pedro Delacruz sad eh?

    • @Molly090414
      @Molly090414 Před 6 lety +1

      She married a man who wants to be a baby maker .

    • @dakotachenoa474
      @dakotachenoa474 Před 6 lety +6

      I work in a HUD(section 8) office lol she said public housing which is the projects that is not section 8.The difference is If she had section 8 she could move to a house. Also if she was on the section 8 program she wouldn't be on that long because our office push for you to take classes on getting your credit straight so we can help you pay a mortgage instead of paying rent to get you off the system. ;-) only lazy people stay on that system for years.

  • @tasbar7743
    @tasbar7743 Před 4 lety +2

    That advice the judge gave!!!!💕👍👏

  • @ellajim9909
    @ellajim9909 Před 7 lety +3

    I'm proud of you Americans for pulling your shit together so early. I need to bury head in shame; at my age still not able to put myself together.

  • @whitetiger7148
    @whitetiger7148 Před 4 lety +8

    She has every reason to be afraid when he's "chilling with his Bros". They propably had a hand in him getting shot 9 times and wind up in prison. She needs to toss him out until he gets it together, and he needs some new "Bros" to chill with!

  • @ralves
    @ralves Před 7 lety +3

    I loved this girl! Smart, desire to grow and get out of the current situation... I hope this guy comes around, otherwise she'll leave him.

    • @matchhunter6055
      @matchhunter6055 Před 4 lety

      Smart??? 😂😂😂that is why she is with this loser....

  • @SheniceSays214
    @SheniceSays214 Před 7 lety +7

    Need to make serious changes with your surroundings if you been shot at 9 times.

  • @anyanelemd3398
    @anyanelemd3398 Před 4 lety +1

    The closing comments of the judge was all that's required to move this marriage forward.

  • @redlotusqueen
    @redlotusqueen Před 7 lety +110

    Sistas really need to think long and hard before they lay down and let a man nut up in them and give them a baby. It can be the biggest mistake of your life. Wrap it up, ladies.

  • @riskjagne3989
    @riskjagne3989 Před 6 lety +4

    May God bless me a wife like her🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿🤲🏿

  • @19righteously
    @19righteously Před 4 lety +2

    I hope they do well and have a beautiful, strong family. I hope the cycles she mentioned are eventually broken, and they pave the way for the next generation.

  • @lewismartin9980
    @lewismartin9980 Před 4 lety +2

    Judge is brilliant she said how sweet he is he start smiling then she broke him down with facts and he starts thinking the judge was right.

  • @howardhubbard2064
    @howardhubbard2064 Před 2 lety

    Judge Lynn is the TRUTH! I wish she'd teach ALL women accountability...lil brother is not ready to man up, and not realizing he's in a state of urgency

  • @ilovetrevorsmith
    @ilovetrevorsmith Před 7 lety +36

    she keeps saying I know. evidently you don't

    • @sharonoguta8589
      @sharonoguta8589 Před 7 lety +1

      thats what i kept saying. I you did know you wouldnt be in this predicament

    • @marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048
      @marcusfrombellsballspodcas2048 Před 7 lety +5

      She probably has heard all this before, so maybe she does know, but needed to hear it from someone else. Either way, she's not making good choices.

    • @soulstrength
      @soulstrength Před 7 lety +10

      Maybe she means she knows NOW. I think she has seen the down side and is now living where her decisions have brought her. I think she now wants better for her life, definitely the life of her child, and his life too.

    • @matrixtheory3088
      @matrixtheory3088 Před 7 lety

      ilovetrevor smith lol 😂

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +2

      She keeps saying I know cuz she does know but doesn't want to leave him...she just wants him to change without her having to change herself...she needs to walk away already and if he wants her he'll get himself together and come back a better man...

  • @Tiff0324
    @Tiff0324 Před 7 lety +3

    Love divorce court judge gives the best advice.

  • @sevenheaven3992
    @sevenheaven3992 Před 4 lety +2

    Oh she is going to make him uncomfortable 😂😂 you can tell. She is most definitely one that going to take that advice. 😂😂🤣🤣 That look was like I got you now!!

  • @melindajanel9961
    @melindajanel9961 Před 5 lety +1

    “ I took the trash out & she said, oh that girl must be in the trash can! “ 😂🤣😂 STAAAAP

  • @amenyob2661
    @amenyob2661 Před 4 lety +1

    Woooooo! Second episode I’ve seen today where Judge Lynn went totally SAVAGE on the person in the wrong lol! Can you say had enough? 😂😂😂

  • @triad6425
    @triad6425 Před 7 lety +123

    We need to start a campaign of handing out IUDs like candy. And when vasagel becomes available same deal. These ppl need to stop procreating until they become actual self sufficient adults

    • @sharonoguta8589
      @sharonoguta8589 Před 7 lety +2

      TRUE

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +1

      triad6425
      💯

    • @triad6425
      @triad6425 Před 7 lety +12

      MsHalabaloo IUDs abd implants are temporary contraception Not sterilization. No need to exaggerate. I'm simply advocating responsibility. Why do ppl immediately jump to eugenics? Is getting pregnant by accident or with irresponsible ppl better?

    • @o.m.7728
      @o.m.7728 Před 7 lety +1

      Amen XOXO.

    • @hmackprotection1
      @hmackprotection1 Před 7 lety +1

      triad6425, 👍🏽💯‼️

  • @jamsng
    @jamsng Před 7 lety +3

    OH YASSS!! Judge Toler slayed at the end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @chrissylavia1918
    @chrissylavia1918 Před 4 lety +1

    AN THIS IS Y I WATCH DIVORCE COURT 👏👏👏👏

  • @chattingwithjojo
    @chattingwithjojo Před 3 lety +1

    The last 3 minutes was a great lesson.

  • @niknakxnewz
    @niknakxnewz Před 7 lety +1

    I really really really really enjoyed this episode. That woman wants the best for her life, and the man has what it is to make that a reality

  • @terry82580
    @terry82580 Před 7 lety +52

    a baby in a month in a half by a men with no job good choice women

    • @zipporahtefari4587
      @zipporahtefari4587 Před 5 lety +4

      It takes two to make a baby don't just blame her he running around

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 Před 4 lety +8

      @@zipporahtefari4587 like the judge says, she is in charge of her own fertility...

  • @jarhondagamble4434
    @jarhondagamble4434 Před 3 lety

    Well said..Judge Lynn couldn't have said it better!!

  • @honestyone5455
    @honestyone5455 Před 7 lety +64

    American guys are like wow my woman will work and take care of me. I will just sit, relax myself and chill 🍗🍕🍹🍨🍧🍫🍎🍊🍏🍌🍉🍓🎮

  • @anwandamanfred8498
    @anwandamanfred8498 Před 6 lety +4

    She has all rights to doubt you dube because you gave her the reason to. You earn someone's trust not deserve and it's very hard to trust someone who once betrayed your trust.

  • @lkcjr58
    @lkcjr58 Před 7 lety +3

    Thanks Judge.

  • @IPrincessAshton
    @IPrincessAshton Před 7 lety +1

    All i could say is amen when Judge Lynn goin in on them. Great advice 👌👌!!
    Goodluck to the both of them hopfully everything goes well for them.

  • @markydan1232
    @markydan1232 Před 3 dny

    "I'm gonna take Judge Lynn's advice and push him harder than ever before". She completely missed the point. Don't stress yourself crazy trying to get a grown man to take care of his responsibilities. If he continues to flounder bounce and put him on child support.

  • @JosieF3G
    @JosieF3G Před 4 lety +3

    You should NOT BE LETTING ANY MAN IN YOUR COOKIE JAR WHO IS NOT EMPLOYED AND HE MUST HAVE A SAVINGS AND CHECKING ACCOUNT!! MAKE a man earn you, but that also works both ways Ladies! If nails, hair, bars, gambling or drugs are your pastimes then you have your priorities skewed and ARE NOT RELATIONSHIP- especially FAMILY- material. Do the planet a favor humans and aspire higher!!! We get what WE SETTLE FOR.

  • @kera3923
    @kera3923 Před 4 lety

    Judge Toler spoke absolute wisdom to her. I hope she listened because that information alone could change her life & help her get where she wants to be if she takes it to heart.
    If he doesn’t change his mindset they will never make it unless she agrees to settle for having a life of property & issues.

  • @markbrown5117
    @markbrown5117 Před 5 lety +4

    This guy does not want to work.

  • @queenroyalty7408
    @queenroyalty7408 Před 5 lety +1

    You tell them Judge Lynn LOL

  • @peterwebb4468
    @peterwebb4468 Před 4 lety

    Awesome advice judge 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @mohasalem3776
    @mohasalem3776 Před 5 lety +4

    She is so pretty, y r those girls getting pregnant in the states. Iam from Africa and birth control is available even here, you had a baby with the loser you have to stick with him .... sad story!! !

  • @itiswhatitis_842
    @itiswhatitis_842 Před 7 lety

    Y'all hear that? when judge said "fears" at 9:57? you could hear the tears in her voice! man my heart breaks in this episode 😦💔

  • @fatmahhusseinj9177
    @fatmahhusseinj9177 Před 6 lety +1

    "are you allergic to work"...lol

  • @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153

    Whooooaaaaahhhhhh - I just love Judge Lynn's final summary she told them both exactly what she thought her words were true and hit the message home.

  • @lavernejackson2055
    @lavernejackson2055 Před 5 lety +1

    It would have been awesome if I could have talked to Judge Lynn before I married my now ex husband. I would have ran

  • @thatsmz.ashley2u817
    @thatsmz.ashley2u817 Před 7 lety +1

    love love love that ending!! Get him out his comfort zone!

  • @kdad64
    @kdad64 Před 7 lety +7

    Why is dude-man getting shot at tho?
    I fools with Judge Lynn's assessment of the get-down
    Been together for 1&1/2 years but she was familiar with him during a 5 year lockdown?
    It sucks they have a seed together but they're not meant to be :/

  • @awisemanoncesaidawisemanon6705

    I like this couple I really do, I believe that they'll make it 💯💯💯

  • @christopherpate9560
    @christopherpate9560 Před 6 lety +1

    Damn good advice Judge.

  • @larrycalloway1724
    @larrycalloway1724 Před 4 lety +1

    He might try harder , Lady I hope that you understand clearly what Judge Lynn said .

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654

    Judge said it straight...he is toooo comfortable..He's from the streets...some things don't change. She either accept him for who he is OR leave. Plus what he shows reflects back to his kids...which he shouldn't be showing.

  • @turnerc13781
    @turnerc13781 Před 7 lety

    Woooh! Judge broke it down to the ground!!!! AMEN!!!

  • @lmckinney4303
    @lmckinney4303 Před 5 lety +3

    She is so pretty!

  • @terrencekelsey2061
    @terrencekelsey2061 Před 7 lety +5

    This is sad..Most women do not complain about a good man..

    • @MartianBlues11
      @MartianBlues11 Před 7 lety +5

      Terrence Kelsey
      How good of a man can he be if he wants to keep his kid around a place where he got shot nine times?

    • @terrencekelsey2061
      @terrencekelsey2061 Před 7 lety

      MartianBlues None at all..Very sad for any grown to stand on corners or hang in the streets..

    • @andrewpouncil8411
      @andrewpouncil8411 Před 2 lety

      They don't won't good men

  • @PRETTYESHIA504
    @PRETTYESHIA504 Před 7 lety +41

    i really dislike when women put a damn time clock on when they want there man to marry them. like come on, he'll do it when the time is right. and if its not fast enough for you then move on.

    • @ShenaeWilliams
      @ShenaeWilliams Před 6 lety +3

      504Thickbeautyy how long do you think she should wait?

    • @p.r.9982
      @p.r.9982 Před 6 lety +13

      There IS a time limit to marriage. 1 year should be the maximum once you're past 25 to 28, because your emotional maturity is SET. Ask Asia and Eastern Europe why they're keeping the commitment deadlines old school. Meanwhile the West has 50% of divorce. Chicks get engaged for 7 years then wonder why they're still not getting the ring. Marriage minded men bring that up, up to 3-4 months into the relationship. Once a dude brought it up to me after a month and a half. So we could see if we were on the same page. That wasn't exactly the case. No time wasted. Marriage oriented men do NOT even wait 6 months to bring up the subject and know where you stand. Cause they date to marry, not to "have fun and play house". Only jokers wanna wait 10 years.

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson Před 6 lety +5

      Time limits on divorce INCREASE the divorce rate when men get married out of force. I DO think a woman who wants to be married should put a time limit on it, however the problem with it is that some men will milk it, knowing they're not intending to get married, and then the women do not leave. If you give a man a year time limit, and he does not set or keep a marriage date, do not stay. Many women stay so the men keep doing it.

    • @bradmason8334
      @bradmason8334 Před 5 lety +3

      I definitely would walk if a woman gives me a timeline; however, if i feel she’s the one - i wouldn’t need a timeline. Some women could use a timeline to keep up appearances... i think if any doubt exist, a year and a half is long enough to see someone’s true colors.

    • @blairejefferson3149
      @blairejefferson3149 Před 5 lety +1

      a year might be too soon, but certainly after 3 years you should know the other person well enough, have seen enough of their emotions in different states to know if you are capable of being together long term.

  • @safiyayana
    @safiyayana Před 5 lety +4

    Shot nine times???? 😳😳😳😳 is she dating 50 Cent

    • @josephware5663
      @josephware5663 Před 5 lety +1

      Safiya Lawrence i said that too....lol...thats crazy

  • @markcleveland5275
    @markcleveland5275 Před 5 lety +6

    But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
    If Jesus will not be your God then Satan will there's no way around that and your life will reflect that to the fullest. These demons don't get tired they don't run off food they will run you and everything you love into hell fire and it's on to the next turn to the Lord and let him have your life you're dead way longer than you are alive.

  • @midnitemoon577
    @midnitemoon577 Před 3 lety

    At the very end she says she's goin to "push him" to try harder. Girl, you been doing that & it hasnt worked. PUSH YOURSELF BACKAWAY FROM HIM & TOWARDS MAKING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF & YOUR BABY. Dont waste time worrying & fretting over him. If he loves you, he'll realize he's losing you and MAYBE come back correct & work harder to keep you & his family happy and progressing financially. If not, in the meantime--you still progressing without him.

  • @naediggs4816
    @naediggs4816 Před 7 lety +1

    Great episode. I think the girl missed the point just a lil bit though. At the end of the episode, she said she would push him more. The thing is, yes, let him know he can't slack off anymore, but also worry about herself. She should work towards being in a position wherein no matter what _he_ does, _she'll_ be okay, but if he wants to stay with her and in their home, they've got to move forward together. Either they can _both_ move forward together, or _she_ will move forward, for sake of self and child, alone

  • @hotroddaddy-et4xg
    @hotroddaddy-et4xg Před 4 lety +1

    you don't get shot 9 x's and go to the can for 5 years for being a nice guy and positive contributions to the community..the only way he's going to stay out and alive is by getting out!!! take your family and run.together if possible..if not at least get her and your kid out..