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Komentáře • 399

  • @ochama197
    @ochama197 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Lady in black has great maturity n the best thing is, she's really cute !!!!!

  • @kamunturogers1948
    @kamunturogers1948 Před rokem +9

    That black beautiful lady behind has mature reasoning

  • @buwemboyusuf5847
    @buwemboyusuf5847 Před rokem +2

    The lady in black has a mature reasoning capacity I love the way she reasons

  • @youarerightbut5066
    @youarerightbut5066 Před rokem +9

    That lady in black has a well balanced mind. There are always two sides to the coin.

  • @ecstaticclips
    @ecstaticclips Před rokem +13

    Helping your wife with house work doesn’t mean she’s disrespecting him. That’s how it’s supposed to be. She’s not a maid. Me I am a man and helping a woman I love is a must.

  • @josephbagonza5860
    @josephbagonza5860 Před rokem +62

    We men we need to be flexible, helping your partner with house work doesn't mean disrespecting

  • @fountainofworshipchurchbypasto

    Lady in black has balanced maid bambi God bless you.pastor Herbert

  • @user-qd8lk6qw7v
    @user-qd8lk6qw7v Před 6 měsíci +1

    The lady in back is on point her reasoning is very good

  • @paulmujuni3081
    @paulmujuni3081 Před rokem +6

    I really love Claire Santa's comments the lady in black at the backseat big up

  • @yasridony1788
    @yasridony1788 Před rokem +2

    I do everything at home, cleaning, paying rent and buying groceries /foods, i have nothing i can't do at home but i have found it that ladies take you for granted once you open up to help these ladies

  • @Ugandansinamerica1
    @Ugandansinamerica1 Před rokem +3

    I like that Lady in black 🖤🖤🖤. Thank you

  • @hopemartine9824
    @hopemartine9824 Před rokem +9

    Both partners need to be open to each other , help yo partner share everything that brings peace in your relationship

  • @safarisamuel5654
    @safarisamuel5654 Před rokem +2

    The lady in black is the best with smart minds 👏

  • @jamman8678
    @jamman8678 Před rokem +5

    Indians are the richest and the most educated in every country they go to. This is because of their family unit.

  • @dgkalisa2130
    @dgkalisa2130 Před rokem +6

    Claire (lady in black at the back) very well said I like the fact that your impartial unlike your other friends... nandi kuwereza ka xmas present wabula.. electronic gift card oba👏👏🤙🤙

  • @mukiibilydia4278
    @mukiibilydia4278 Před rokem +3

    BANANGE BAKAZI BANANGE OBUFUMBO MUKISA ABANTU BELONDALONDANYO BWOLIBERA OMUKAZI OMUKOZI ENYO ABASAJJA BAKUTYA BWOBA OMUNAFU NAKYO KIBAMENYA NAYE OMUNTU BWABA ALINA KYAYAGALA ALINA OKUFIRILILA POINT EBERE AMERIKA OBA AFRICA TWO PEOPLE MET ON THE WAY ITS GODS MERCY TO MAKE IT

  • @migaddelawrence5362
    @migaddelawrence5362 Před rokem

    Women earn alot of money abroad and become so excited it's their nature

  • @newtonisaac6577
    @newtonisaac6577 Před rokem

    baano bankolede,i wish my fiance can listen to this.

  • @gladysssekonde9185
    @gladysssekonde9185 Před rokem +2

    Those men love slay queens nebatamanya nti slay queen anonya way out to her destination.

    • @ronniewamala5768
      @ronniewamala5768 Před rokem

      But some women also get smart wires and spend their money on them😂

  • @luwagachristopher138
    @luwagachristopher138 Před rokem +1

    Omukazi yanjoogela e Chicago😢 Irene wanjooga!

  • @hjssemmanda0
    @hjssemmanda0 Před rokem +3

    The ladies are balanced in their reasoning. i think the behavior of men and women in marriage is hell bent on the culture shocks that each of them faces in America as opposed to Uganda.

  • @jo_bryant-kl2411
    @jo_bryant-kl2411 Před rokem

    I like the way these ladies express their views.
    BUT Claire your dialect humbles any man

  • @brightfuture256
    @brightfuture256 Před rokem +4

    I also agree with Claire

  • @shukrashunks3934
    @shukrashunks3934 Před rokem +1

    A woman will never be a man and his respect period

  • @borntoridetheworld
    @borntoridetheworld Před rokem +1

    Lady in black ure no.1

  • @shaimukairanga317
    @shaimukairanga317 Před rokem +2

    It's true some men, don't want to work and women work, earn and pay all bills but still respect eachother and husband and wife.

  • @moseskazungu1158
    @moseskazungu1158 Před rokem

    Nalina omukazi e Uganda 🇺🇬 yali akola,nganange jiya nganfuna olusifuna kinene lumunangenda nenfumva emere ,nejoza ebintu nengenda okuyiya, olwadako nalina okugenda, okuyiya,safumba nesuwani sazoza,ngabwomanyi nezinja nakafera, netise yangamba kimukamwake owaye ebintu wabireke ani?okuva olwo sadayo kumuyamba, bweyafulumanga tugendafena, netwukanira kupaka,nengenda kubyange,natandika okubyeyoleza,kati abana abo kyebogera ebimubitufu,nsinga nafuna omukazi omukwabo obufumbo bwanditerede,mbakonedemu!!!!!!!I love you ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆☆☆☆☆♧

  • @samkagwa5309
    @samkagwa5309 Před rokem +6

    This is really good to educate Ugandan couples.they don’t know that they have to be on the same page like invensting for themselves and their generation.women have a say (akasente kekyikyala) which makes men helpless and hopeless in marriage.ending up to everyone doing on her or his own.

  • @SarahKitty
    @SarahKitty Před rokem +3

    Gals lots of love so happy 100% with all yo points respect comes both ways

  • @gladysnakamatte2294
    @gladysnakamatte2294 Před rokem

    Have these two beautiful ladies ❤

  • @tulyanabolukiajordan383
    @tulyanabolukiajordan383 Před rokem +1

    I have enjoyed and learn something thanks to you all

  • @piuskato2081
    @piuskato2081 Před rokem +4

    My agreement with my partner is that whoever is at home does every errands including dropping and picking.

  • @akolebirungibelinda4989
    @akolebirungibelinda4989 Před 2 měsíci

    Nice to see Claire.

  • @chanjo4549
    @chanjo4549 Před rokem +1

    __ Mujja ku kaddiyira eyo, era mifiire mu bwa nnakyeyombekedde !!! 😁kitalo.

  • @greenwebphotography622
    @greenwebphotography622 Před rokem +6

    This woman behind in black is very wise

  • @asiimwemoses9039
    @asiimwemoses9039 Před rokem

    good conversation but it makes more sense when one person speaks at a time.

  • @fatumanamakula2245
    @fatumanamakula2245 Před rokem +2

    The way am enjoying the show😘😘🔥🔥 OMG
    It's a matter of understanding each, banange nze omusaja eyosobola I don't have problem with him, but if we are sharing bills my dia don't even think of okusajalata .tweyambe yambe ekyo kigwe .

  • @jo_bryant-kl2411
    @jo_bryant-kl2411 Před rokem

    Claire and Santa, surely you've nailed it. He and she got to work jointly and totally complement each other in this capitalism era.
    Naffe abasajja tusilika naye ebimu bitumenya nnyoooo

  • @kldogsanddogservices8470

    These ladies are so understanding..bt as a man personally helping ma woman is something i would love to do

  • @fugitageneral3006
    @fugitageneral3006 Před rokem +1

    Flavia Okoze ekibozibozi mu motoka. Naye Women in diaspora are not easio.
    These ladies are tough

  • @julietnamale4540
    @julietnamale4540 Před rokem

    Wamma nze bwemba silina manyi gafumba my hubby can cook ,he can do everything ngasazeewo naye tebamulagira,,,i just thank the lady who raised hım 🙏🙏

  • @ALHAJJI-KM
    @ALHAJJI-KM Před rokem +2

    I’m enjoying the conversation with these Beautiful Souls..Have seen Brains here 👌👌 Even Next time Madam #Flavia we need these ladies bateseza bulungi 😊👌 Naye waliwo ankubye patange ☺️

  • @kariminovkarim9160
    @kariminovkarim9160 Před rokem

    The presenter's thinking and mentality is so myopic . The lady guests are upright and with good intent

  • @gloriakaahwa6098
    @gloriakaahwa6098 Před rokem

    Great episode. Keep up the great work.

  • @user-yl4li6rw8f
    @user-yl4li6rw8f Před 5 měsíci

    Hello dia
    Nze jangala kufumira muchala❤
    Siri na mukazi

  • @brightfuture256
    @brightfuture256 Před rokem +2

    First here, am watching, I think it's all about want to be equal

  • @brianssesanga9447
    @brianssesanga9447 Před rokem

    Thank you Flavia and your girls

  • @greenwebphotography622
    @greenwebphotography622 Před rokem +1

    I love this program.. much love from home Uganda.. I hope am the first to comment

  • @shemaprecious9402
    @shemaprecious9402 Před rokem +1

    Thx for the show flavia❤️

  • @akiandpawpawskits
    @akiandpawpawskits Před rokem +1

    Nice jazz Flaviana✌.

  • @Realnairah
    @Realnairah Před rokem +4

    Honestly some men not all of them have that ego “am the man” but not every man l think it’s all about communication and uu balance working shifts

  • @josekiwa38
    @josekiwa38 Před rokem

    I really love the way these ladies analyze their issues concerning relationship. Thank you so much guys. I love you all.

  • @hjssemmanda0
    @hjssemmanda0 Před rokem +3

    bambi ka Fanta Claire kalabika bulungi, koogela bulungi and she is humane. she sounds compassionate.

  • @drakekiyaga9795
    @drakekiyaga9795 Před rokem

    Abakyala bank mbagadde. Bogera mazima bambi

  • @tebusweekelawrence8178

    am in love with the conversation for sure## thanxs to u flavior

  • @SJK-qp4pq
    @SJK-qp4pq Před rokem +2

    Kyemuva temuggya kukulakulana ngamudda mu "it's his responsibility". Bakyala mukole nyo muyambagane muvve mukwewussa, I am with you Claire and Santa, a household should be joint, muvve mu byokulinda mbu omusajja yasasula bills, get your funds together and work jointly, you will have a peaceful marriage. Stop overburdening men bakyaala and being lazy. Wano kubulaaya you need to work hand in hand in order to not overstress one party. You don't lose your womanhood if you help, stop it Flavia. And women mulekeraawo okwesiba mu unhappy marriages please move on and hassle for yourself and your kids.

  • @ramulanakawooya3524
    @ramulanakawooya3524 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the show Flavia, am joying the show soo funny 😄 😆

  • @robertwasswa1631
    @robertwasswa1631 Před rokem

    Ate for all your safety bambi mwandituziiza this meeting nga temuli mu kuvvuga motoka. Katonda abakuume. bano abakyala abattelemu obwangu.

  • @nabbanjaritah8718
    @nabbanjaritah8718 Před rokem

    Cleya nze Ndi ku side yo I have to sport my husband in everything ✍️✍️✍️✍️

  • @mubiruhamidu3921
    @mubiruhamidu3921 Před rokem

    Point clear cic claire

  • @rolandhicks3282
    @rolandhicks3282 Před rokem +1

    Marriage will always be analog mujakwerimba but u will never change anything okujako okudiba

  • @antiagingug
    @antiagingug Před rokem +2

    Respecting each other!

  • @Victoriamuk17
    @Victoriamuk17 Před rokem

    loved these ladies when they were giving their views by the way start bringing such topics, thanks so much there was something to learn out of it but those men who like women to hell with them.

  • @patrickmpiima5742
    @patrickmpiima5742 Před rokem

    thank you guys for the discussion

  • @teddynamakula586
    @teddynamakula586 Před rokem +2

    Thank for the show 😂😂😂😂😂FLAVIA

  • @winmugaru6347
    @winmugaru6347 Před rokem +3

    I cook better than my wife, funny thing she's from Africa and got her from Africa but even her she was surprised that I could almost by myself and that I was self sufficient. Her parents came to visit and were very surprised how self sufficient I was but it's tiring sometimes and wish I had an African lifestyle where everything is done for me especially breakfast and all I have is to go out to work and provide for the family but here in diaspora it's hard to have such a life because we don't have maids and time. Men in diaspora need to be patient and understanding but also proactive otherwise your marriage won't survive. Another thing most women taken from diaspora have financial commitments to their own family back home and men need to accept that I guess

  • @carolinenamujju2690
    @carolinenamujju2690 Před rokem

    @claire #Keep winning gal. Looking great 👍

  • @nakandajoan7606
    @nakandajoan7606 Před rokem

    Love you ❤Flavi

  • @nakiwalaracheal1073
    @nakiwalaracheal1073 Před rokem

    Woow so beautiful ladies ❤

  • @moseskazungu1158
    @moseskazungu1158 Před rokem

    Mwebalenyo mbakonedemu, nze Moses Bukenya Kazungu UK 🇬🇧

  • @senkeziiyahayaa8974
    @senkeziiyahayaa8974 Před rokem +2

    Fravia oyagala kusasuza bawo buli kimu naye oswadde bakunyonyodde ebyo byoyogera bikoma mukyalo Kampala.

  • @Yourlocalgamer21
    @Yourlocalgamer21 Před rokem +4

    i passed through the worst wen the man brought me to the US, i was not supposed to work,he paid his bills but remember i have a family at home that i used to care for,abakazi ssi babbi naye nabasajja sibangu,i started working by force,is that nkujogga, men here are bad

    • @evaakite6390
      @evaakite6390 Před rokem

      Thanks for the aggressiveness ... working by force👍

    • @DIASPORACONNECTUG
      @DIASPORACONNECTUG  Před rokem

      Omg 😳. Do u mind sharing your story on camera??? Can locate u

    • @namubiruhope4175
      @namubiruhope4175 Před rokem

      Are you still married to him wabula such men batama

    • @Yourlocalgamer21
      @Yourlocalgamer21 Před rokem +1

      @@namubiruhope4175 Yes,i got a group of ladies that where passing through the same but staying in different states,we helped each other out,i had to go back to uganda ad rest abit then came back with i know my rights slogan, many women keep quite for the sake of culture naye the men ohhhh

    • @Yourlocalgamer21
      @Yourlocalgamer21 Před rokem +1

      @@DIASPORACONNECTUG We worked out on the issues when i went back home then came back with the i know my rights slogan,women are suffering out there ad i wonder wen bloggers come out ad say abakazi bebulaya bajoga abasajja

  • @SarahKitty
    @SarahKitty Před rokem

    Gals u look so amazing

  • @esthernamuli7119
    @esthernamuli7119 Před rokem +4

    To me I think , some men naturally bajozi , just like how they enjoy there life home with multiple women, here we share the bills we save the money together and the man goes around to sleep with different girls and giving out our savings which is very disrespective, on top of that men are very rigid because if we all go and work the same hours omusajja kimujjako ki to come back and help you with house cores and kids , we all come back home very tired and he sits at the table to wait for food , shower and sleep and he leaves all the work with kids to the wife

    • @morganbabu3105
      @morganbabu3105 Před rokem

      A man has a right to have more women. We are the seed not you. Law of nature and u can never change it

  • @fahimaibrahim3750
    @fahimaibrahim3750 Před rokem

    Thank for bringing Suzan eyali omutunzi wange kutumideko

  • @kipmedia9460
    @kipmedia9460 Před rokem

    Flavor I wish am a friend to Klear, Bambi she is so understanding

  • @akolebirungibelinda4989
    @akolebirungibelinda4989 Před 2 měsíci

    But to be honesty Flavia , things have totally changed back home some men are lazy and want women to work for them. Another thing there are so many single mothers struggling with all the bills and men don't want to know.

  • @annetnakalema3758
    @annetnakalema3758 Před rokem +1

    Respecting each other

  • @miirobrightvisions
    @miirobrightvisions Před rokem +26

    We help out women,but I was married to a Jamaican. These women have trauma from their childhood. They never got help to heal their trauma, now they destroy men's lives due to this. It's beyond men's control. I took care of my house, took care of my kids. I wanted a family more than anything but she wanted to have her cake and eat it. Am single and take care of my kids in a healthier environment. Until I find a woman who is on the same page. I would rather be single till the right person comes along.

    • @catherinenahwera3835
      @catherinenahwera3835 Před rokem +1

      Here iam 🤣🤣🤸‍♀️

    • @zion3507
      @zion3507 Před rokem +2

      I support you 💯

    • @ronniewamala5768
      @ronniewamala5768 Před rokem +1

      "Rather be alone and be happy than be with someone and be unhappy", those are lyrics from the late legend Lucky Dube. R.I.P

    • @miirobrightvisions
      @miirobrightvisions Před rokem +2

      @@catherinenahwera3835 am serious, I need to court, get to know you to build a relationship on a solid ground not sand.

    • @nakiddebrenda558
      @nakiddebrenda558 Před rokem

      Bambi

  • @mugyenyiabelmatsiko1486

    Flavia, please come back to Uganda.....we miss you bambi...you're a class apart .

  • @christinebirungi7168
    @christinebirungi7168 Před rokem +1

    The concept of perceiving a working ambitious woman as man is ignorant in itself. Thanks Claire.

  • @PAPAB-118
    @PAPAB-118 Před rokem +4

    Getting someone from home is worse honestly.

  • @flowerguld7832
    @flowerguld7832 Před rokem

    wawooooo ❤how are you Flavia

  • @professorwakho5634
    @professorwakho5634 Před rokem

    Now I agree with caleir

  • @-edward3691
    @-edward3691 Před rokem

    Good show Flavia! Please invite African women and men on MS Teams or Zoom for a deep discussion or debate. Things are far more different abroad than in Uganda.

  • @yasridony1788
    @yasridony1788 Před rokem

    Eeeh it means i should find a woman from America 🇺🇸 because sharing bills its a dream to me 😌😌

  • @geoffrey7915
    @geoffrey7915 Před rokem +1

    I have fallen in love with these two claires cos they intelligent and objective. Though nze sileta ndibotta from Uganda 😏Thanks for the show guys!

    • @cathyally8365
      @cathyally8365 Před rokem

      😄😅🤣🤣ndibotta indeed

    • @geoffrey7915
      @geoffrey7915 Před rokem

      @@cathyally8365 okitegera?? Those ndibotas are just users😏😏😏😏😂

  • @hillarysserubidde5434

    The lady in black gave a better and balanced debate thank u.

  • @LilGazman
    @LilGazman Před rokem

    One thing I will go on telling the world is, women however much you got rights blabla you are meant to respect a man. A man is a king to king the woman who respects him. If y'all are working it doesn't mean that you should think that you got above him. It is one sided thing that a man as in his manhood should after all he goes through of taking care you woman, should be respected that all we want man leave alone these laws of those west people. For a man to help you it's a by the way when he's at home.

  • @catherinetkibedi6072
    @catherinetkibedi6072 Před rokem +1

    I want to give more clarification on this topic flavia.There are three types of relationship.(1)is where a man and a woman peacefully agrees to share responsilities 50/50 i mean, if awoman breastfed in the morning a man bottle-fed in the night, if a woman washes dishes,
    the man has to do the same.they have to pay rent together and the list goes on...the duration of this marriage me and you i don't know....
    (2) is when a man takes responsibilities of everything to his family which has everything what that man desires from his family without complaining and living together peacefully.....this allows a woman to have time for her family and respect to her husband and even if this woman is working she will not strain to hard to provide for her family but only to give a helping hand to her husband....
    (3)is when a woman works too hard to provide for the family. In hear the man is the helping hand to this woman so this turns out that a woman is the head of the family and i assure you this man will never gain any respect as a man.Men suck to take care of, they are like babies so with this working woman will never fulfil both or if she trys so hard her soul will bleed filled with anger,sadness and so on and that's where the war begins so,these are men putting blame to women mbu they are bad, don't respect men and more.So,my advise goes to both Men and women know yourself and what you want before any relationship to avoid these unnecessary complains and harming each other.And my last word to men, please, stop being so lazy, work so hard to retain your respect in a relationship or before embarking on that journey.you are mean't to look for money.You have all the chances, time, energy than a woman to look for money.Money and respect is everything to a man..

  • @-edward3691
    @-edward3691 Před rokem

    Flavia, please organize a debate between men and women of African origin to that we can exchange ideas.

  • @muyanjjahenry4221
    @muyanjjahenry4221 Před rokem +1

    Hi dear Flavia greeting u, 4m I hated love coz women if they get money oh they changed their behaviors so I don't know that love is still there in the world this day byakutemesa nosiikamu maso I mean just get lady for one day and move on obuffumbo bwebulaya tebusoboka 4me I made trusted ladies but kyebatusizako I don't think nti love ekyaliyo in this world I love you, dear thanks

  • @-edward3691
    @-edward3691 Před rokem

    When a man and woman live together as a couple and both are working, it's fine to support each other financially. Forget about the treatment back home. Please organize a zoom meeting for men and women.

  • @robertkodi6755
    @robertkodi6755 Před rokem +8

    With this mentality in marriage, mujja kufa bwavu mu America!! Flavia has a natural problem, she’s ever confusing Ugandan community women in her interviews! She has even annoyed these girls! Ever on side of luring women to be mean! Wama Claire you are right!!

    • @dianahnattabi9472
      @dianahnattabi9472 Před rokem

      True

    • @nabayungaclaire6676
      @nabayungaclaire6676 Před rokem

      Thnx u so much 💓

    • @ronniewamala5768
      @ronniewamala5768 Před rokem

      Ugandan culture and way of life is completely different compared to western countries, couples need to adapt accordingly.

    • @robertkodi6755
      @robertkodi6755 Před rokem

      @@ronniewamala5768 but couples need to engrain into each other to make a solid family and develop as one component either abroad or back home, especially if they have children! But this woman’s shows are after breaking families, encouraging women do their own things while pest on men . I liked reaction of the Claire’s reaction; actually all these girls were wife materials! Thanks viewers

    • @nakyeyuneshakira8495
      @nakyeyuneshakira8495 Před rokem

      Flavia with search a mentality, u will always be single.. your thinking is so old fashion ..u so nagging

  • @kabuubienock2566
    @kabuubienock2566 Před rokem

    Respect ts what matters

  • @matovumakaveri8950
    @matovumakaveri8950 Před rokem +1

    Suzan she is beautiful

  • @adelladesire4267
    @adelladesire4267 Před rokem

    Even in Uganda some they don't provide/ support the family. As a woman when you support the family the man decide not to support the family and get another woman and the one at home suffer with her children.
    When you are still poor is polite but when a woman at home sacrifice tolerate poverty when the man becomes rich he takes the woman at home useless and rubbish even dumped with kids.

  • @alexkakooza3116
    @alexkakooza3116 Před rokem

    Susan mirembe wow, alabika ebinyumira

  • @miriam4165
    @miriam4165 Před rokem +2

    Bwoba tolina ssente on either side bajja kukujooga.

  • @hillarysserubidde5434

    Caire u are right.