The Best De-escalation Technique Ever!

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  • čas přidán 13. 10. 2020
  • The De-escalation Technique Executives, Politicians, and Customer Service Leads Use to Stay In Control! (It Worked on My Husband!) The technique is:
    Note: I apologize for the typo that appears as NOW - Should be "Here's what we KNOW" (not now)
    Here's what we know
    Here's what we've done
    Here's what's next
    For more ideas like this, visit www.MyraGolden.com and check out my Customer Service eLearning: www.myragolden.com/De-escalat...
    Grab the worksheet I mention right here: 1drv.ms/b/s!AqQNQ-VhJDoWn2ZV8...
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Komentáře • 264

  • @donnettarussell8829
    @donnettarussell8829 Před 3 lety +1

    Hello Myra. Thank you so much for these coaching sessions. Really appreciate them.

  • @wandabond3581
    @wandabond3581 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi Myra. I'm so glad I found your videos. Call center training doesn't adequately cover framework and useful phrases - how to say, what to say - in given situations. So much effort is given to getting up to speed navigating the software and technology leaving much of controlling the call up to the person's own soft people skills. Generally, having good people skills isn't enough to meet the focus on call time - 3 minutes or less (mostly less) to find a sale item, upsell, verify information, all with empathy and care to create a "great customer experience."

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Wanda. You're absolutely right. I do have a "What to Say" Guide that might be just what you're looking for: classroom.myragolden.com/opt-in-678e5ca3-6a64-4d8a-8f8a-f39163efe573

  • @jimbibanggoy8454
    @jimbibanggoy8454 Před 3 lety +1

    Again thank you for your videos Ms. Myra this is really helpful 💗

  • @luisjaen6005
    @luisjaen6005 Před 3 lety +3

    hi myra, i just start working in a call center. and listening this make me realize I could handle some situations in better ways. thank you so much. this is very helpful

  • @rosefrazier3055
    @rosefrazier3055 Před 2 lety +1

    HI MYRA! You are the best! I share your videos to my agents in my team huddles- Thank you for providing your wisdom to us

  • @mariamatt4423
    @mariamatt4423 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hello Myra. I am new in my role but have a lot of experience in dealing with complaints. I learn a lot from you! Find you fantastic 👍 will 100% have a look at your workshops. You are super practical 👍

  • @vzmkitty
    @vzmkitty Před 3 lety

    Hi! Thank you for this great video, I look forward to deploying these techniques.

  • @kimberlys3773
    @kimberlys3773 Před 3 lety

    I have really learned so much from watching your videos. Not only that I enjoy them. I also us them as training tools for my staff. We have grown and developed as a unit because of them. So I want to THANK YOU!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, Kim! I LOVE that you've been able to use my videos as a training tool for your staff. Thanks for sharing this with me!

  • @monisealbright2432
    @monisealbright2432 Před rokem

    Hey Myra. I share your videos with my agents in meeting and coachings. We love you!

  • @jarhead3065
    @jarhead3065 Před 11 měsíci

    Good Afternoon Ms. Myra! My first time here. Customer service is extremely important, even in armed bank security. Thank you for all you do.

  • @tracesprite6078
    @tracesprite6078 Před rokem +1

    Hi Myra, you seem to have very clear methods which look like they would really work.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem +1

      I think so too! Thank you for visiting my channel!

  • @frankricarte2758
    @frankricarte2758 Před 2 lety

    Hola! Hello Myra! Greeting from Mexico, your videos are amazing. To understand and implement your method is becoming a turning point in my CSR experience. Gracias Myera!

  • @jccarl5955
    @jccarl5955 Před rokem

    Hi Myra. Awlays a pleasure taking your tips and putting them to use!

  • @marxys7549
    @marxys7549 Před 3 lety

    Hello! So exciting to learn more with you Myra! ❤

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hello, Mark! It makes my day that you're joining me on this journey.

  • @imangrajo
    @imangrajo Před 3 lety

    Hi Myra! Thanks a lot for these gems..
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    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Iman! You're welcome. Thanks for visiting my channel today.

  • @user-cb2ux1tp9o
    @user-cb2ux1tp9o Před 9 měsíci

    Hello! Thank you for recording/sharing this.

  • @saffrondarryl88
    @saffrondarryl88 Před rokem

    Kia ora, I just found your videos and I am finding them extremely helpful. I work in a contact centre and I am looking forward to sharing your tips with my team

  • @msdee1p
    @msdee1p Před 2 lety

    Hello Myra, so glad to learn from you!

  • @ashleyr4702
    @ashleyr4702 Před rokem

    Hello. This is my first time viewing your channel and I am a beginner in working at a customer service company. I hope this video helps me learn, understand and use helpful tips and tricks for these tough calls that may occur at work. :)

  • @casanova33jr
    @casanova33jr Před 3 lety +4

    Hello Myra!! I have to thank you for letting us know about the course on LinkedIn. I took the course and I have all the certificates!! Thank you so much this is going to be a help on my new job.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety +1

      Hey there! I'm glad you took advantage of the free courses on LinkedIn Learning and got your certificate. Yes, I believe your new skills will help you on your new job!

    • @marthabb816
      @marthabb816 Před 2 lety

      Hello,

  • @Myishasfunstuff
    @Myishasfunstuff Před 3 lety +1

    Hi Myra...I was referred to your videos by the training facilitator..
    Love love your work

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Awesome! Thank you! I'm so glad you're here.

  • @angelaharkless677
    @angelaharkless677 Před 9 měsíci

    Hi Myra, this was a great learning opportunity.

  • @ma.cristinasario5451
    @ma.cristinasario5451 Před 3 lety

    Hello I'm not new I downloaded ur videos before it really helps me alot thnk u so much!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, Ma Cristina! I love hearing this!

  • @chachameow4668
    @chachameow4668 Před 3 lety

    Hello Myra ..thank you for sharing

  • @meldavis3462
    @meldavis3462 Před 3 lety

    Hi. Thank you for sharing this valuable information with the world!

  • @bfarley402
    @bfarley402 Před 7 měsíci

    FANTASTIC STRATEGY :' I think for many situations i've come across where an individual is display overwhelming emotions, they just want some understanding and guidance assuming they are in a position to honestly de-escalate. most people are not looking to be angry or upset. NEGATIVE emotions take to much energy and time. having the knowledge to explain the motivation behind something or action and letting that other individual understand what WE KNOW is a great tactic ...

  • @Maria-kg1nh
    @Maria-kg1nh Před 2 lety

    nice. this is so true and helpful. Thank you!

  • @kristyducharme9404
    @kristyducharme9404 Před 3 lety +1

    Hello! I just got hired as a virtual Tech Support expert. Your videos have really helped me.

  • @angela4636
    @angela4636 Před 3 lety +4

    Hi Myra! I learn a lot from you. Im a newbie in a call center industry. Hope you could have a discussion about flight concerns and how to deal with it. Thanks!:)

  • @estersouza4223
    @estersouza4223 Před 2 lety

    Hi Myra! I love your content!!! Congrats!

  • @ktrades2898
    @ktrades2898 Před 3 lety +1

    Great video. I would love to hear more about managing expectations

  • @shanicesalmon5347
    @shanicesalmon5347 Před 3 lety

    Hi am excited to learn more especially now that am new to the customer service environment..

  • @robinhuggett629
    @robinhuggett629 Před 3 lety

    Hi! You have the most wonderful advise

  • @ombegajohnnoe
    @ombegajohnnoe Před 3 lety +2

    Hi Mayra, I'm working at contact center and
    i appreciate your tips it help me a lot

  • @Landofication
    @Landofication Před 3 lety +3

    Hi! I'm already 3 videos in and I am hooked!
    How would you deescalate when you know the business practices are not in line with a positive customer experience or the information that is given to the customer is confusing, not clear, or could be misleading? I find myself often time dealing with angry customers, who are right in what they feel and what they are requesting.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      That's a tough situation for sure. But, you can do this. Keep top of mind that your loyalty is to your company. Period. You have to uphold and defend the policies, never throwing your company under the bus. So, put on your smile, clothe yourself in gratitude for your job, and do what needs to be done.

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney Před 2 lety

    Hello Myra, nice to meet you. I'm not in customer service- but having to deal with family- lol- so I need this. 🙂

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi there! My techniques worked very well with family too. :-)

  • @connieczuchna9782
    @connieczuchna9782 Před 3 lety

    Hello love your work!

  • @cynthiaspencer9525
    @cynthiaspencer9525 Před rokem

    Hi Myra you are awesome I am a general Mgr at Shirlyns in Utah. I can relate to many of these stories.😂 I am helping my employees with your videos

  • @mariaspotsville4154
    @mariaspotsville4154 Před 3 lety

    Hello your tips are so helpful

  • @sgenn99
    @sgenn99 Před 3 lety +1

    Hi and hello! I'm a Customer Care QA Specialist, and I love your videos! :)

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Scott! Thanks for stopping by and for your kind words. :)

    • @terrawilliams9550
      @terrawilliams9550 Před 3 lety

      You are a qa specialist I need tips on how yall grade calls and what to look for

    • @sgenn99
      @sgenn99 Před 3 lety

      @@terrawilliams9550 I can chat with you sometime, for sure. I wouldn't want to hijack Myra's comment thread :) If you're able to message me on this platform, please do- if not, my Gmail is my name (no spaces). Happy to help if I can!

  • @spokenbyabe8717
    @spokenbyabe8717 Před 3 lety

    Hi this is a good series. I shared with my team.

  • @alalves9398
    @alalves9398 Před 2 lety

    Precious advice to deliver bad news, it does work if applied correctly 👍 thanks Myra

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani Před 2 lety

    Thx 🙏 from very Beautiful McKinney in Dallas area very north of Dallas sister . I’m from Austin areas and live here now and would love ❤️ to have you over in the Dallas to learn more

  • @carolynwentworth9292
    @carolynwentworth9292 Před rokem

    Hi I teach de-escaltion training, and love this technique. Would love to learn more from you.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hi, Carolyn! I'm so glad you're here my fellow de-escalation trainer!

  • @darleyguti1035
    @darleyguti1035 Před 3 lety

    thanks a lot for this amazing video I´ve learned a lot

  • @jenniferconrad468
    @jenniferconrad468 Před 3 lety

    This was great information. I am going to implement this with my team immediately. Do you have (can you do) something on how to end a call when the customer insists that you hold their hand through a process when you need to move on to the next call?

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety +1

      Hi, Jennifer! Thanks for stopping on my video. I don't think I've done a video on this subject, and I thank you for the idea for a future video.

  • @meechiel5457
    @meechiel5457 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi! I am glad I found you on CZcams, you were recommended to me.

  • @JaviPotter77
    @JaviPotter77 Před 3 lety +1

    Hi Myra, always a pleasure watching your videos! Would you please make a video focusing on email interactions? How to sound friendly and polite enough. This new app is gonna be launched in a month and it's all about family and parenting. It's harder to build rapport and connect in a non-real-time interaction.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, there! I have a few videos about email interactions on this channel. Here are some links:
      czcams.com/video/v7B1zRIl9TE/video.html
      czcams.com/video/UV6UCsrA-Fg/video.html
      czcams.com/video/D7VS4XUP-Z4/video.html

    • @JaviPotter77
      @JaviPotter77 Před 3 lety

      @@myragolden thank you so much

  • @parminesingh57
    @parminesingh57 Před 2 lety

    Hi Myra. 👋 ❤ love your videos Thanks

  • @95momma
    @95momma Před 3 lety

    Enjoy Myra!

  • @jozlynheckel8404
    @jozlynheckel8404 Před 2 lety

    Hello Myra! New here. Excited to learn from you.

  • @kyledomanais3765
    @kyledomanais3765 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Myra! I learn a lot from you. Im a newbie in a call center industry. Hope you could have a discussion about financial account

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi, there! Welcome to my channel!

  • @soygandhi2264
    @soygandhi2264 Před 2 lety

    Hi, thank you for this video. I'd would like to know if it's there a possibility you show us how to deliver bad news in telephone and medical insurance companies with some examples. Or get into those industries which are the most common in call center. Thank you in advance!!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      My pleasure! Here are some fantastic resources for how to deliver bad news: www.myragolden.com/blog?tag=how++to+deliver+bad+news

  • @valeryvega7750
    @valeryvega7750 Před 2 lety +1

    Great

  • @kandiceitskovich777
    @kandiceitskovich777 Před 3 lety

    This works if you are able to do something about the situation. Can you do an example of this when the situation is that you can't do anything for the person.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Kandice. You make a strong point. Yes, I can teach on this challenge. Thanks so much!

  • @beverlyscarbrough1753
    @beverlyscarbrough1753 Před 2 lety

    Hi I'm new here. I am a parent coach always looking to learn more!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Wonderful! I'm so glad you're here! Welcome!

  • @SairynOfficial
    @SairynOfficial Před 2 lety

    Hi Myra,
    I just recently got promoted to Assistant Property Manager (APM) at a community that is a lease up. I am always looking for ways to improve my skills in de-escalation. I would love to see if you are available to do any type of virtual meeting with my team. I would love to learn more as well!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi there! Thank you. I spend a lot of my time facilitating virtual de-escalation workshops. Here are details on my live digital training: classroom.myragolden.com/virtual

  • @nathanspells5028
    @nathanspells5028 Před 2 lety

    Hi, Myra!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi, Nathan! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @user-vm4cn3tb9r
    @user-vm4cn3tb9r Před 4 měsíci

    Hi Myra!

  • @marthabeth25
    @marthabeth25 Před 2 lety

    Hello Myra!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi, Martha! I'm glad you're here!

  • @EuphonicSoundz587
    @EuphonicSoundz587 Před rokem

    GOOD DAY MATEY

  • @dumbdogg4234
    @dumbdogg4234 Před 2 lety

    Hello! I'm new here , Just subscribed 🥳

  • @meerakarunanidi3404
    @meerakarunanidi3404 Před 3 lety

    Hi Myra

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hey, Meera! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @kellyanndyer730
    @kellyanndyer730 Před 2 lety

    Hello there looking for some tips for my kiddo he’s 11

  • @tonihawkins4008
    @tonihawkins4008 Před 2 lety

    Hi Myra, I love your video! Please check the 1st page. You are saying 'know', but mistakenly spelled it 'now.'

  • @ThinkForYourselfMind
    @ThinkForYourselfMind Před rokem

    Hey where’s the other video about when thrown off guard

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hi, Vincent! Search de-escalation on my channel and you'll find many resources.

  • @beatrizliwanag5499
    @beatrizliwanag5499 Před 2 lety

    Hello Myra

  • @bitsysworld
    @bitsysworld Před 2 lety

    Hi, deescalation project I have at work

  • @Ludim29
    @Ludim29 Před rokem

    Hello, Mayra 👋

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hello Yadilu! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @gelatiarte7387
    @gelatiarte7387 Před 2 lety

    Could you pls make roll plays ?

  • @alicemayfield3891
    @alicemayfield3891 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hello I want to engage with you and your content,
    THANKS!!✨

  • @terrawilliams9550
    @terrawilliams9550 Před 3 lety

    Hi

  • @desireeanderson5112
    @desireeanderson5112 Před rokem

    Hello!

  • @Behappy-rf8gl
    @Behappy-rf8gl Před rokem

    Hi.

  • @joecalleja2531
    @joecalleja2531 Před 3 lety

    HELLO THERE YOU GO

  • @jimbibanggoy8454
    @jimbibanggoy8454 Před 3 lety

    Hi Ms. Myra it's kind of embarrassing but is your courses is for free?

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      No need at all to feel embarrassed! My courses on LinkedIn Learning (four of the seven) are free through March 31, 2020. Here's a link: opportunity.linkedin.com/skills-for-in-demand-jobs/customer-service?trk=li-jobsindemand-customer-en

  • @MJ-qy7ix
    @MJ-qy7ix Před rokem

    Hello Myra. Interested in all you have to say.

  • @t-row7909
    @t-row7909 Před rokem

    Hi myra am new and I want you to chit me how talk with the costarms

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Yes, with tact, you can. I'd say, "It's my job to answer questions and support customers. Will you give me a chance to do that?" This statement psychologically nudges the customer to let you help. It won't work every time, but it will help you in many situations. The key is not to straight out say that a supervisor cannot help.

  • @sohousama
    @sohousama Před 3 lety

    Ayyyyyyyyyyy

  • @myxinia
    @myxinia Před 3 lety

    Hello!!!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hello Xinia! I"m so glad you're here!

  • @elizabethbond2636
    @elizabethbond2636 Před 3 lety

    Hi!!!!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Elizabeth! So nice to meet you!

  • @hosea4_682
    @hosea4_682 Před 2 lety

    Hello there

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hi there Hosea! Thanks so much for visiting my channel!

  • @denisebaesler2969
    @denisebaesler2969 Před 3 lety

    Hello

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Denise! I'm glad you came by, and that you took the time to say hello! :-)

  • @mariaveater4035
    @mariaveater4035 Před 3 lety

    HI!

  • @rameshkurup9788
    @rameshkurup9788 Před 2 lety

    Hi😊

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi, Ramesh! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @ellenhelfrick7989
    @ellenhelfrick7989 Před 3 lety

    HI

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Ellen! So nice to meet you here!

  • @victoriatucker3414
    @victoriatucker3414 Před 2 lety

    hi

  • @abubakarodey4233
    @abubakarodey4233 Před 2 lety

    HELLO.

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hi there! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @MissMeAmor
    @MissMeAmor Před 2 lety

    Hi 👋🏾

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem +1

      Hi there!!! I'm so glad you took the time to stop on my channel!

  • @ginalacanaria702
    @ginalacanaria702 Před 2 lety

    Hello😊

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hello 😊 - I'm glad you're here!

  • @empoweredtransportationllc6085

    Hello 🙂

  • @MuhammadAli-cf3ph
    @MuhammadAli-cf3ph Před 2 lety

    Hello ! Do you hear me?

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 2 lety

      Hello there! I'm so glad you're here!

  • @illzwillzwatuz963
    @illzwillzwatuz963 Před 3 lety +1

    #Northphillypeacepark loves #koredetails

  • @jdguitar6145
    @jdguitar6145 Před rokem

    Well Hi! :D

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem +1

      Hi there, JD! I'm so glad you're here!

    • @jdguitar6145
      @jdguitar6145 Před rokem

      Oh my God hii btw I love your videos, I’m starting a new career in customer service and your advices and techniques have helped me a lot! ❤️

  • @myxinia
    @myxinia Před 3 lety

    I want to meet you

  • @Fat-two-Fit
    @Fat-two-Fit Před rokem

    Holaa

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hey there Shubham! Thanks for visiting my channel!

  • @leticiakapper1487
    @leticiakapper1487 Před 3 lety

    hello :)

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před 3 lety

      Hi, Leticia! Thanks for visiting my channel, and for saying hello!

  • @rhinecielo
    @rhinecielo Před 3 lety

    hi Myra, you live up to your last name, thanks a lot

  • @augustcorley5512
    @augustcorley5512 Před rokem

    Hello Myra!

    • @myragolden
      @myragolden  Před rokem

      Hello there August! Thanks for visiting my channel!