How Do I Know If I Have Anger Management Problems?
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- Do your temper go way out of hand more than usual people? There are 10 signs of anger management problems that you should be aware of. Anger can be destructive so it's best to get ahead of it.
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Could be worse wanting to hurt others
Your child is severely mixed up? Condolences.
I have anger issues and I looked this up because I punched a huge hole in the wall, my mom is coming home soon, pray for me guys
lms_apollo, I hope you are able to watch the video with your mom and have a talk about what you need to do to control yourself. Good luck.
Live On Purpose TV he’s dead
How are you doing buddy?
Is he dead?
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My sister always says I have anger issues I get really mad when she says that.
elba olivo, this sounds like an old joke I heard years ago...
My sister says that all the time
😂😂😂
@• peachyy • OMG IM GOING THRU THE SAME THING-
@• peachyy • saaaaaaaaaaaaaaame😭
He said feeling like your surrounded by idiots
I don’t think I’m surrounded by idiots
I know I’m surrounded by idiots
Got that right....
Thanks for watching, Cameron bayles.
Yep same here
Got ur back CASUE IM ALWAYS SURROUNDED BY ASSHOLES apart from my parents
Cameron bayles same it’s not a glorious reality.
I got pissed when u said number 1
@Cess Outdoors
I got triggered from the H in "How".
Looooooooooool me too I'm dead i was about to cuss him
Thank you for watching anyway
😂😂
I got pissed at number 2
10. People tiptoe/are defensive around you.
9. You often feel regret over what you said.
8. More than one person has pointed out your anger issues.
7. You regularly feel like you’re surrounded by idiots.
6. You focus on thinking that life is unfair.
5. You blame others for what’s going on in your life.
4. You yell a lot.
3. You feel frequent, intense surges of rage.
2. You’ve been referred to anger management classes.
1. You searched for and found this video.
-for those of you like me that are too impatient!
Thanks, Snow Owl.
I got angry as all of this is correct.
I think it's best to get it all out. It's better than doing drugs. Where's the love? It's better than bottling it all up.
AHHHHHHHHHH
That's how it feels
6-4-3 is it considered having anger issues?
Video: the idiots around you-
Bakugou, sitting with his legs crossed and hands on his lap: i know right
Thanks for watching, •Blushii Natzz•.
True
True
He's not wrong tho.
Yes
Litterally everyone sees me as a calm person but i get angry all the time. I just don't show it. I go to my room or something and litterally punch the shit out of my own stuff
Thijmen Kamp, Hopefully you can figure out where that anger is coming from and deal with it. This isn't healthy behavior.
Invest money on a good and very, very, very durable punching bag!
same bro hopefully i stop punching walls cause my hands are hurting so much and improve on my feelings and emotions
Think this is a healthy response as long as you are not destroying stuff or doing it in front of others. If you are doing this often, try counseling to fill out your toolbox.
Same.. My parents and sisters see my violent side most
I’ve held in my anger for the past 21 years and now I get angry quickly. I yell and break stuff now. I’ve punched holes in the wall
Knee Grow, please seek the help of a coach to get your anger under control. The consequences are going to be more severe as you are older.
Live On Purpose TV thanks I’ll look into it.
You think you have anger issues? I beat some kid up back in elementry school with a big rock till his face was covered in blood.
It took 6 teachers to restrain me and got the cops called on me and arrested.
I want to be comic book writer, I was under control of a violent, narcissistic and controlling brother. Everytime I draw he would interrupt and control what it did, 20 years later I have the freedom to draw now, but I was conditioned to put off my dream for other problems, so while I blame every problem on why I can't get a issue done, but the more I work on my project I realize I'm replicating what I escaped, just remember if you like yourself, good things will come and you'll realize the only thing that matters in your goals, kids, etc. 2 years on my own and just not understanding I always had control. can't control your feelings, good luck finding what make you whole. Long ugly path you must get through, although understanding yourself, ripping off the ego and defense may feel like a death sentence, it's better to take a leap and die than to lead a life of misery.
You’re not alone
I don’t know if I have anger issues. Around my friends and others I’m always laughing and joking, but at home I become frustrated and become violent with my parents. What should I do?
I’m 16 if that has anything to do with it
Thank you for watching, Prodigy. It's an honor to be on your team. Perhaps you have some stories (true or perceived) that you are telling yourself about your parents. Those stories are influencing your perspective of and emotions toward them. Would you be willing to watch some more videos? I believe these might be relevant and answer your questions:
"How Do You Know If You Need Anger Management Classes?" - czcams.com/video/rONqZQW2hDQ/video.html
"How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html
"How To Stop Being Angry At Someone Who Hurt You" - czcams.com/video/DjZn2K3gj0I/video.html
"How To Deal With Frustration And Anger In A Relationship" - czcams.com/video/cNI7rvpBM-c/video.html
Im going through the same situation. My parents infuriate me but I'm not physically violent although I shout at them and I get extremely angry. At I'm 21 now and I've calmed down slightly, at 16 hormones, school stress and bullying plus home stress were too much for me and I can't even describe how angry my mom made me all the time. And now I'm here also trying to find help 😳
Same here I’m fine with my friends and other people but when I get home I get so angry
Well kind of same for me too don't worry ur not the only one!!
Same
Smiling for at least 15 seconds will raise our vibration level and you feel better while doing so because our subconscious doesn't know when you're "faking it". A little something I learned from a law of attraction channel. I hope this helps someone. Thanks Dr. Paul for your humorous yet informative videos!
Thank you for the positive suggestion, Kultrick The Kulprit.
Kultrick The Kulprit But I get angry if I try to act happy or smile. Like I physically can’t.
Kultrick The Kulprit this is awesome advice! Thank you! Do you remember what channel it was?
"vibration level"?
Everytime i try i start crying and getting angry again
Honestly everything you've said in this video is exactly how I feel. It makes me feel bad about myself all the time. Lost a few of good friends with this negative attitude. I wish nothing but the best for everyone honestly.
Thank you for your honesty. We are all works in progress and it sounds like you have learned quite a bit. Glad you are here.
Ever since I was about 3, I struggled with anger. At the age of 6, I had gotten myself expelled from my local elementary school. I remember the time I got angry at my brother (he was 16 and I was 7 at the time) and we were playing football with my older cousins. I was calling for the ball and they wouldn’t pass. I started to get worked up and I picked the ball up. My brother let’s call him Jack, picked me up and started to tickle me. He then tipped me upside down and started jumping up and down. Now Lucia, my cousin tried to take the ball whilst jack was busy tickling me. I ended up so mad at him, and my dad had to take me to *HOSPITAL* because I had fainted after being so angry.
Now I am 12, and my brother still does the same sort of stuff to me, but I can manage it much better than I used to.
Brother on brother,
GAMES ON
idOmge, I am glad you have figured out better ways to deal with the anger. Your brother definitely is not respecting you.
Boundaries aren't being respected in your family/people don't listen to no. If you can, find a friend with a better family and spend your time with their family.
Same I have remembered when I went back to my mother's village and met my cousins and they just wouldn't pass me the ball it's making me think that they won't pass the ball to me but In reality it's just me that's how always mad and just inpatient some of them tried to make me laugh by doing funny things I guess and I did giggled a little but I was still mad and it didn't worked out that well. Edit:when I was *7* also
I just get a bloody nose of it gets too intense, probably the blood is boiling too much.
You remember what you did at the age of 3? I need that kind of memory
I dont really know what makes me happy. I think everyone is annoying especially dumb people they drive me crazy i punched someone once because they were talking about me.
Mirna Hanna, you might want to consider some anger management training or seeing a counselor to discover where the anger is coming from. I am not an advocate of punching people.
Same
okay but me
i like how he talks, like a parent figure
Journey2Finland, thanks for watching.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV my dad has anger issues, isn’t that usually a gene that Dad’s pass on?
That’s the best part!
Wish i had a parent figure to look up to
@@kyngjiga9909 no emotions can’t be transferred
I internalized anger for most of my life. I’m 39 years old and have had struggles with alcohol addiction since I was about 16 years old. I am sober 2 months and have been feeling a lot of anger/resentment bubbling up inside of me and don’t know how to process it. I used to let people walk all over me and I don’t want to do that anymore. It scares me how much anger I have inside of myself. I don’t know what to do.
Liquidgrin, you are at the first step, recognizing, now reach out for help.
I have a similar story. I’ve struggled with addiction and after getting sober I’ve had a lot of anger. I also was a people pleaser and I’m realizing I have multiple rage fits in a day now.
I always had anger issues since I was a kid, and I still can’t control it. I got told by 6-7 people that my anger has worsened and my anger has led to self-harm. So now I’m going under intense therapy for this next week...
Humaira Islam, I hope the therapy has helped you, as well as this video. Thank you for watching. If you are interested in more, here is another video that might be useful to you:
"How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html
Me too and I hate myself for it why I can’t I just be normal!
Being a child with learning disabilities and emotional issues and having strict Asian parents in my early years and trying meet demands of western authority standards attributed to a lot of my anger. Now I learn to compare myself to both genders and I rage very easily.
felix121984, it's a good first step that you see where there can be improvement in your life. It's another great thing that you are searching for help. If you are open to watching another video, please consider this one: czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html. Thanks for watching Live On Purpose TV.
i also have learning disabilities and emotional issues and (not asian) strict parents. i get how hard it is.
What lol
I can always feel the rage before it come out and no way to stop it... 🥺😢
Juan Medina, you can learn how to control it.
The holes in my walls are crying tears of joy
Interesting, HoodNaruto. If you ever want to stop creating holes in your walls, please consider watching this video: "How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html. Thanks for watching.
no 💯
ok this made me laugh
I have serious anger issues simply from unforgiveness. Just became so bitter. And people most of the time don’t wanna be around me. Trying to get out of it but it’s so hard.
KD_, keep trying, it is worth it. Consider a membership to go.liveonpurposecentral.com.
I'm working on my anger issues, my whole life I've been told I have anger problems. ...i can't continue getting mad for nothing. Even during heated arguments with a loved one I watxh what I say regardless of what they say to me. I don't curse at ppl anymore or yell at people. I just walk away to prevent things from getting worse. I'm grateful my life has gotten better but the anger is still here..
I am glad things are better and even better days are ahead.
I’ve been angry journaling and it helps but sometimes I can’t calm down enough to grab it. I need like several techniques.
So many amazing points here, I always get so “poor me, poor me.” When I’m angry and things don’t go my way. Thanks for bringing these things to my attention 🤗
Thanks for sharing!!
I love 💕 that you speak about serious issues in funny way. Wonferful sense of humor, Dr. Paul 👌
Thank you, Good Wife. I just want people to talk about the issues. Humor is a good way.
I don’t know how I should feel.. My sister took my phone and search this on CZcams, then gave my phone back. I don’t think I have anger issues, but I’ll watch this video because I respect her input.
That is very open of you. You are on the right track.
I just had a blow out because of all the school work my school gives me, and how much anxiety and stress it causes me. And this isn’t the first time. I never considered I had anger issues till the age of 10, but even before I’d get angry easily and couldn’t control it. I have been seeing a therapist for three years now, and I think I’m going to mention this to them. Now I’m just sitting her scrolling through anger issue videos and trying to get my life together. I always hide my emotions, and then once a situation comes, I have a huge blow out. I’ve also self harmed myself in the past because of how overwhelmed I get, and not just because of anger. In the end, I just start crying privately
『 koyato 』, I am glad you are in therapy and getting help. It is a process to learn to control our anger, but it is possible. You explained yourself well and know what you need to work on.
“Do you know what others think? No. You. Do. Not.” ITS REALLY FLOPPIN BOLD OF YOU TO ASSUME I CANT READ MINDS
Ember Worth, thanks for watching.
Wow you have really good points and I love your personality
Thanks, Cool Guy.
Why i laughed so hard idk😂 i have anger issues clearly😂
Ayeesha Tifa, well I'm glad my video made you laugh instead of yell at the screen. :)
Lol same
My family is stressing me out and making me paranoid by going through my room every time im not in there, once i went into a seemingly random blind rage and hurt my dog, i didn’t want to hurt him but i did and then i cried and apologized and i can still cry over this incident. I love my dog and he’s the only thing in this house keeping me sane
Aydens cat house_27, I hope you are getting some help. This needs to get under control before it causes consequences that you don't want to deal with.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I would but if my mom wants to send me there because she thinks im “depressed”, wich makes me not wanna go but I’d gladly go to jail if i can see my father burn for that.
I'm gilt of it. I'm not proud of it but I embrace it & I am DAILY trying to do something about it. For example accepting & listening to advice(how to be better at it to keep it under control). Thank you do much Dr. Paul🙏🙏😔
Oh, ROSIE112109, I wish everyone were like you and would just listen to others. Run it through their filter of truth and keep trying to improve.
I specifically typed this title in my search box..out of concern for my brother and my son....and found out that ...I'VE got work to do on MYSELF.
Deborah Ross, that has happened to all of us. You are not alone. Lead out.
This is the first test I've ever scored 10 out of 10 for 🤣 I finally found what I'm good at in life 😂
Makes it easy to know where to start on your path to self-improvement.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV so what do you advise?
your views and the way you portray things is amazing. Simple and true, but we all need to remember these principles and get practical advice on how to apply it. I am truly grateful for your videos! Thank you
Addelien Naidoo, you are very kind. I am truly honored to be on your team.
I came here is because i have an issue with my anger management as i broke my phone for throwing and punching due of work for the first time. My mom tried to calm me down and told me i got an anger issues. I found out after looking for a video that regretting and blaming yourself is a key factor which it indicates to anger issues.
It is great you are here and understanding what you can do about this issue. You got this.
I have extreme anger issues that were so bad that I had to teach myself how to handle them and even now I don’t think it’s enough. Normally when you look at me, you’ll see a bright, happy social girl. But when I get angry, the first thing I want to do is tear everything apart.
Basically I go through what I call stages of my anger. The first stage is me beginning to feel the anger build up. In that moment, I try not to focus on it. Stage two is when I really start to feel angry but I try very hard to hold it in and keep people from noticing. Stage three is basically when I rage. When I get like this, I want to tear apart whatever I can get my hands on. Although I have to try super ultra mega hard to keep my physical anger to a minimum, but on the inside, I just want to rip something apart. That’s always been the only thing that has ever calmed me down. Basically, if I get angry at home, I go straight to my room and I start beating up one of my pillows, biting it and flipping bunny kicking it like a cat. I genuinely don’t like it when I do this. Everyone always tells me bull poop like “take deep breaths! Count to three! Focus on something else!” None of that works. I’m on the higher functioning area of the autism spectrum and I can’t control half of what I do. I’m in middle school, so I have to make extra sure I keep my voice down and keep my desire to destroy something to its lowest, but what bugs me is that on the inside, I want to rip someone’s spine out and play a violin with it. Any advice would be helpful, because I know that relying on destruction and tearing things apart really isn’t a good way to help my anger ;-;
You seem self-aware and we need to intervene at stage 1. Can you play a song that will help to change your mood? Does journaling help to get things down on paper, not that you would ever show them to someone, but to get your feelings out. How about naming the feeling and understanding why it is triggering the anger. I hope you can get some help, there is so much that can be done with your self-awareness.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV thanks man, I really think that writing my feelings down would really help me a lot. I’m glad you understand :)
This is s life saviour. I shared this because some people won't admit or realize that they have anger management issues. Thank you doctor. I love you.
Virgie Mata, thank you for sharing.
I literally almost cant control it.
Its like when i get mad i have to punch somthin or yell somebody. I find to blame anybody. Like if i dont harm anything i wont feel satisfied. After i did these actions i always regret it.
Jahir, Great! You know where you need to work to develop yourself. What is your plan to get on top of this?
@@LiveOnPurposeTV meditation, definitely meditation and trying to do breathing techniques. This anger can not only harn me but others around me.
Like bro i have the same issue
Before quarantine I'm a silent person. I don't talk if not ask. Typically an introvert. When the quarantine starts and having an online/offline class. I'm starting to be moody. Not only on my classmates, friends, teachers, other peaple but also to my family. I don't understand myself, my behavior. I also think I'm experiencing anxiety (¿). I don't want to talk to anyone even my family, I'm always in my room and I only go out to eat, bath and doing household chores. I feel like I'm avoiding everyone yet I'm 60% active on my social media, 40% facing gadgets.
Kei Rehiya, it is time to start transitioning out again. Take small steps and hopefully you can reverse this.
Whenever im angry in class, i try to shut up and just carry on with my work untill i cant take it anymore, then i ask to leave class for a moment, say to get water or something. I go to the washroom then scream- litterally just screaming, swearing about why im angry and its class time so no one is there, when im done i check in the mirror to see if it looks like im crying. If it does, i stay there for my eyes to go normal again then i leave and pretend nothing happened 😃 im too scared to tell my parents, i once told my mum that i cant control my anger and she just said “well you better learn how to! You might kill someone in the future like this” and since then i have never spoke about it to anyone and tried my best to calm myself down or just punch myself or something like that untill i have alone time to scream 😃
Tetsuro Kuroo, does your school have a counselor that you can reach out to? They often have programs to help kids deal with their anger.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV im not sure, i guess i never asked, im always too scared. I start school again on monday, ill see. Thanks for the help!
Anger consumed me throughout university, especially when being rejected for my sexuality. I'm still recovering from the health problems from it.
I wish you a speedy total recovery.
I've hand anger issues my entire life, and I'm gonna be honest, I love it. I get sudden and frequent bursts of rage, I love the adrenaline, even though it sometimes causes issues, it makes you feel powerful.
Such an interesting comment.
My son's father literally does everything this guy said. People don't realize how bad not being able to control their emotions is. I requested an order for him to take an anger management class through court as he now wants visitation with my 5 year old son. He is going to go nuts when he gets served with the court documents but I am 100% sure the judge will grant my request. My son deserves the best.
Ariana Valenzuela, I wish your son the best.
I've had anger issues since I was a kid, been working on them the past year and just wanted to see another's perspective on what anger issues could be.
Well I hope you found some value in the video, toordog. Thanks for watching. We have another anger management video on the channel, if you think that might be helpful to you:
"How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html
This video saved my day good video how he talks in the camera he feel real and genuine thanks man !
Honored to be on your team.
What scares me is some days I dont even know Im close to snapping, this makes me my own worst enemy
digi 83, I hope the video is helpful.
Anger/stress/hate is one of my strongest emotions, I don't really have anger issues, but if you really draw me out I can sometime fly at you.
If someone draws the blood from my nails, or if someone repeatedly does something I told them to stop I can blow up.
(not just a few times, it has to have been going on for months)
Nathan Lebacq, Have you tried talking to them sooner, before the feelings get too intense?
@@LiveOnPurposeTV I've already lost count.
I think you don’t have anger issues, your reaction is normal when people disrespect your needs/borders. There are some people who use kindness of others as a tool to get what they want. This is where you need to show that they can’t ride you like pony.. 😏
my mom just calls it an attitude when it’s really not.
Dawn, we can get into some problems with definitions.
In 2015 hi got into a heated argument with my child’s mother and was so angry and frustrated. I hit myself with a glass jar and split open. My whole forehead ended up in the 5150 for three days on a medical hold self harm and harm to others is serious if you need help get it don’t wait talk to somebody let them feelings out I was just stressed out and overwhelmed it defeintly made me though never broke me whoever reading this you can get through it trust in the process just breath and think and out the good things you can have if you just focus and work !
Thanks for taking the time to comment. Glad things are going better for you now.
I’ve taken toons of quizzes on yt if I have anger issues, and I think I have it...but I’m scared to tell my parents
I appreciate you watching the video, Lara Purple. If you think you have it, your parents probably suspect it as well. Parents should love you no matter what and "even if," and they're here to help you. However, if you're still uncomfortable talking to them at the moment, please consider watching this video and practicing the principles and techniques I teach:
"How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html
I have more for you on our "Just for kids and teens" playlist: czcams.com/play/PLq2mRDkHEBPCicx6xcJ5ZJzVe9UBlRTQV.html
That horse analogy was actually goated 😂
Thanks for watching.
When you reached #1, I said aloud, "Oh, man, well played..." 🤣
Thank you, Dan.
I think I was a nice quiet person ,but was always angry deeply inside. Now I notice people taking advantage of me, now my anger being express on people without me even noticing. Like I'm changing from the good person and I can't control it.
SelfMadeTray, you can control it. You can decide what kind of a person you want to be.
@Jonny Nobody I do everyday for some reason gaming doesn't get me to express my anger. While I see everyone else screaming at a tv.
Passivity leads to anger, hatred and rage.
Glad i came across this video by accident. I have had anger problems most my life. But over the years have learned various ways to deal with my emotions.
One of the most severe incident happened 5 yrs ago while out of state on a business trip, i was referred to an anger management class by my employer at the time because they thought highly of me as a very good employee that goes above and beyond. I had brought my grandmother who at the time was battling cancer and other illnesses mostly caused by her heavy alcohol and tobacco use all her adult life, a 15 or 20 dollar prepaid gift card and mailed it to the hospital where she was staying. A week or so later when she received it, she criticized me telling me the amount on the gift card wasn't enough to buy her cigarettes and whatever else. This was on my lunchbreak while sitting in my truck. I flew into a fit of rage, screaming at the top of my lungs, cussing her and threatening to kill her and her family if it were not for me being out of state. I then smashed my cellphone right through the driver's side window of my truck.
Kyle 1500, I hope the video is helpful for you.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV it was, thank you.
Tbh my friend called me autistic and I went into the rabbit hole of if I have autism, turns out I do. They were the first person to say that
I wish you well, Micheal.
I have anger issues but I have things that I punch, like my mom buys tough pillows and etc.
honey, I am glad you have specific things you can punch that do not destroy anything (like the walls), however if you're interested in diffusing the anger before it becomes physical, you may want to watch this video: "How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html. I offer this because what happens if you get angry and you don't have one of your pillows with you? What would you hit and regret? We also don't want you to accidentally hurt someone. Thanks for watching Live on Purpose TV.
Any mistake done by my loved ones around me can make me angry so quick, I yell and started saying things which is unbearable for them and it satisfies me but after sometime I felt so bad for causing the bad atmosphere around the house hold, Started to felt guilt, emotional and promise myself to have selfcontrol but later it repaid again 😭😭. I love my parents, brother and sister so much.
Olivika, start from that place, love. It can be powerful and start a gratitude list. Changes everything.
If I was your brother and yelled at me, That would make me just want to please you more.
I have all of these things that you said
Sara Loprete, glad you are at the channel and working on it.
💞💞
I really do understand now that I have an anger issue. I’m married at the age of 21 with 3 kids. Of course I need help instead of leading my family into disasters! Everything you’ve said here is definitely me
Roger Jackson, you can do this!
Thank you for this Top 10! You made me chuckle a couple of times... and I recognized myself in 8 of them, including #1, which I thought was very smart to end the video with. I will definitely seek for help with this, thanks !
I am honored to be on your team, Caroline Vallée! Thank you for watching.
I have really bad anger issues and i’m so glad i found this video. Like every time i lose in a wrestling video game, I tend to yell and break things out of anger. Like 3 days ago, I lost a wrestling match in a WWE video game and after 5 seconds of staring at the screen, I went absolutely spare and started hitting my PS2 with my controller as hard i could until my disc was scratched to the point of no longer working. Why can’t i ever play a WWE game without being angry now and without me having to break things every time i lose when i get angry.
Steve Anthony, Doesn't sound like video games are a good option for you until you get this under control. Good luck!
When I get angry, I bite the insides of my cheeks as hard as I can and I immediately start looking for sharp objects to cut or injure myself. I often throw up and end up with tension headaches.
Abigail 101, There are other ways to deal with your anger, I hope you reach out to learn some of the tools.
THISSSS
I like how’s he’s talking to us like we do have anger issues and I do
Then this video is for you. Thanks for watching.
Well I never got mad easily but now I did I think my mum has anger issues I get mad really easily and I am surrounded by idiots like get annoyed because people are talking slow like I get mad easily
KawaiiMoon, you would want others to be patient with you so extend the same to them. Learn some calm breathing or other techniques to help manage the emotions.
I don't know if I have anger issues, but I get angry so easily, my brother yells at the games he plays, I get angry. Someone at school wants to know my grade even if I just got the test back, I get angry. Someone is ignoring me, I get angry. Just these little things and I get angry, and the problem is, I get so angry that I could punch or destroy everything that comes across my way.
loki,stan_, I hope you can get a handle on this. There are other ways to be assertive and get your point across or get noticed. I hope the video is helpful, we have many more on the channel.
he: you think life is unfair?
that's fking deep, and maybe the root cause of my anger..
*brb, crying*
Tames, I wish you the best.
The number one hit so deeply. I need things to work and THAT IS my life.
You can do this!
you know you have anger issues when you get mad at this guy for no reason. sorry dude, it’s not you, it’s me.
Glad you are here.
I am mostly angry at politicians. Now that I am on Prozac it feels like it is pointless to be angry at them and the best I can do is to live my best life.
It really is. Do good in the sphere of influence you have now.
I punched a mirror on my birthday. I'm sometimes scared of myself.
Dhruvi Jain, I hope you get some help.
My anger is internalized and usually comes off ass passive aggressiveness. I realize how that is my fault, this video has been very insightful.
Peaceful Moon, thank you, please share with others who may benefit from the content.
Yes, I watch
this video for my self!
Genet Misganaw, glad you found us.
I keep getting so enraged nowadays about the kids in my school and how easily angered I am by them, and I honestly think I'm doing the right thing by firing back.
I just have major anger issues. It's sort of genetic for my family 😂
I hope you get it under control. Too many videos on tik tok of adults out of control. We need to show the kids a better way.
I can't help laughing at his expressions xD
Vivian Marie, thanks for being here.
I couldn't finish the video because he is so calm and talks gently like everything is smoothly cool and Ughhh that made my nerves
Thanks for giving it a try anyway, Mary keshkha. Would you be willing to give me one more chance? If so, I recommend this: "How To Stop Being Angry All The Time" - czcams.com/video/4ef8LRHB5AI/video.html
Discrimination is not a self made problem. But I enjoyed the video! Anyone with a good brain and a sense of reason will learn from this video! Superb! Thank you so so much! It helped me immensely!
Absolutely! Honored to be on your team.
2:16 that’s exactly how I feel when I play among us
no -gracious, thank you for watching.
There's this girl in my class at school called Patricia. She says she's got anger issues but she didn't even go to a doctor about it. She said she tries to hide it at school, but you can't hide anger issues! Logic, jeez. So, me and a couple other people decided to go up to her and expose her. If she actually had anger issues, she would have gotten mad and screamed or maybe even hit us, but she just cried! Anger issues, Depression, anxiety, etc. is not something you should joke about. She usually lies about stuff like this just for attention. One time, she said she was insecure about her looks. Bruhh.. sus...
Derp, it might be time to just leave her alone and let her figure out what she needs to.
I know I have anger issues I been arrested for it and I had to take anger management classes and I’m worse then I was before 💀
Trucha Foo, what are you doing about it?
Live On Purpose TV ima be honest I haven’t done nothing because I struggle with mental health problems as well because of the neglect anxiety and stress I go through
@@SaintsLuvv it’s ok I have social anxiety do you know the hell it is to live with this!??? I also get angry fast and can’t stop shouting once I’m 😠
Since the start of quarantine I’ve gotten so mad at the tiniest things I just want to break something or fight someone
YunoAudiosxx, Sounds like a good time to get some help and get on top of what is happening.
They say I am mad and I don't notice what they're talking about it might because of a joke or something it happens really often is that bad?
El General, just listen to the feedback and decide if you can do something about it.
I’m a woman and I have broken doors and walls, got kicked out of a county for threatening a police officer and almost caught a felony. I scratched doctors punched staff in the face, fought girls twice my size, had to have 7 men hold me down and I broke out of psychiatric restraints at 120 pounds.My anger has nothing to do with my gender or race it’s a mental illness which is what I have to constantly struggle with. Anger has become my only friend and strongest emotion.
Dance In The Moonlight, there is a difference between anger problems and mental illness. I hope you are getting help for this. Happiness is possible.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV no there’s something called bipolar Anger witch is a form of extreme mania and anger mixed together. most sever anger issues are caused by depression,bipolar, addiction and other mental illnesses.
I just get a burst of anger mixed with adrenaline i can controll it in my own way but now always.
JayDaGr8esT_23 2k20, I am glad you are getting it under control. That will help you in the long run.
Many people don't recognize they have underlying issues of hidden anger; such as passive aggressive, indifferent attitudes. Then, their are people who have explosive anger; just a little irritation can cause this person to explode. Signs that anger is deeply rooted, inability to control the anger.
Good point, Cynthia. Thanks.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you, very informative information on anger.
i’m 15 years old and i have anger issues... great.
lorenct., all hope is not lost. May I suggest browsing through the "Positive Personal Development" playlist at czcams.com/play/PLq2mRDkHEBPCYtqYUCuzsyYpAlzKZDVVV.html, or "Just for Kids and Teens" playlist at czcams.com/play/PLq2mRDkHEBPCicx6xcJ5ZJzVe9UBlRTQV.html.
I'm 14 and i have anger issues
#3. I sometimes would like to get in a fight. But, the thought of going back to prison, and losing my family. Stops me. I just want to learn how to not let things bother me so much. Even if I do have the right to be angry.
chilin m, I admire you. Keep that as your inspiration. You might benefit from some time on our membership site at go.liveonpurpose.com.
Damn... Everything were on point
Steffanie Chan, thank you.
Ok well I don’t have anger issues but I do get annoyed and then it escalates to anger.
E Y, deal with the primary emotion, the annoyance, so you don't go to anger. Check out my blog at www.drpauljenkins.com/blog. There was an article on this just this week.
I feel like My niece and my younger brothers are afraid of me. Even when I'm just walking beside them or just look at them they'll feel uneasy and even sometimes they'll flinch. My anger is out of control that sometimes i tend to hurt them so bad and i also hurt my self, like pinch my self, cut and punch myself. At first i thought i was just being too emotional and irritable but I'm aware and i know that almost stabbing someone is nooooooooot fine. So I'm searching for ways that could help me calm down.
Find out what resources are available to you, insurance, through school, etc. You will be much happier and have more positive relationships when this is under control.
I have anger issues, I looked it up , cause I was sleep an my sister poured water on my face ,and I went upstairs an punch a hole in my mom wall in the hallway.
Tears Log, that wan't nice of your sister, hope you can find a better way to express your anger. I would start with a talk with your sister or mom.
I have adhd anger issues and rage problems and sensory processing disorder and when I was in elementary I was In padded rooms a lot and now I am in middle school and am a. Little bit better
Norah Hannon, make the goal to be a little better every day.
Yes I threw a pen across a room today
Dj and James, I hope this video helped you.
I threw so many things today
Oh my gawd the truth hurts dude stop 🛑😶🌫️😭as a kid I had anger issues but I noticed how I hurt my loved ones so I change hunny!! Im doing good 👍 I’m 17 now
Thanks for letting me know.
Through out while u were sayin dem I was like yeah yeah yeah but once u reached 3 and 2 I was like Yup .one pissed me off tho I was just looking for a song and got curious
Taina G, thanks for watching.
I have been hurt by my family a lot and was never told even a sorry. I have a lot of anger bottled up against the world because of this.
J C, I wonder why you are angry at the world when you say your family caused the hurt. Don't make others pay for things they are not guilty of. This shift might make the world easier to live in and with.
@@LiveOnPurposeTV Maybe the way i worded my comment was weird but i am not the kind of person to hurt others, be it friends, partners or strangers. What i meant is that sometimes i get feelings of hopelessnes, why did i had to live through abuse as a child. I was innocent, others were granted a better life. Its more of a why me, univerese/god question. These days ive been feeling better and better but sometimes i would get triggered and those kind of depressive thoughts come back
I feel like I'm boiling playing video games and when people tries to take advantage
minorguy admin, I hope this video helped you then. If you find yourself getting upset while playing video games, are you willing to play them less? Or less intently? As for being taken advantage of, you may find some value in this video: "How To Develop Assertiveness" - czcams.com/video/mr2Y2gAYqn8/video.html. Thank you for watching.
I Searched for this to understand if my mom had anger issues, because she always yells at me and gets mad for stupid reasons, not just with me but in all social contexts. Well, apart from the regret one (she has just NO REGRET) and the obvious "searched for this video" one, she has all of the signs. I want to help her but when I try she gets mad at me saying that she doesn't need help and that I don't trust her when I answer by offering help instead.
You can't help someone who doesn't want help. Let her know that when she is ready you will be there for her.
you made me laugh when you said the first one....but thank you anyways....I enjoy you channel very much Sir. Keep it coming ....the best of luck
Thanks for watching and being patient with us, juraj zbojnik.
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I don't think I have an anger management issue, but I struggle to stop myself from yelling whenever I do get angry.
I really don't want to, but I sometimes just can't stop myself. Living in student housing, I know how annoying it can be when others are loud, so when I have had people knock on the wall before, I get really embarrased and ashamed. This has happened three times in two years, and I fear I could get really angry again any time. I generally don't yell at people, so I don't think it hurts my relationships, but I do frequently yell at small things that frustrate me such as my computer not working, me being clumsy and dropping things, or a video game feeling unfair.
One habit I have found can help is repeatedly tapping the head of a bobble- head figure I have, and watching its head bounce around. That isn't always an option however, as I can't always bring it with me, and usually forget to use it.
The vast majority of advice I have found is just "breate" or "count to 10", and I find that really unhelpful. I really just feel like my best bet is to try to find another habit (like tapping my bobble- head) that is easier to perform anywhere at any time.
Good hack. Thanks for sharing, it could be helpful to others.
I have anger issues
isabella thepranster, which of the ideas are you going to tackle first?