Keke Palmer & Lori Harvey! Life lessons for young ladies!

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  • Keke Palmer & Lori Harvey! Life lessons for young ladies!
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  • @karinealourdementalgems
    @karinealourdementalgems  Před 7 měsíci +78

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  • @Cocoarunway
    @Cocoarunway Před 7 měsíci +2004

    Any woman that escapes Future without a BABY deserves a standing ovation. Lori is doing what most young girls should do. Spend your 20s finding what works for you.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity Před 7 měsíci +220

      I read “Standing ovulation “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @skindippedingold
      @skindippedingold Před 7 měsíci +33

      @@Goddess_Infinityme toooooo!!!! 😂

    • @rissilient85
      @rissilient85 Před 7 měsíci +15

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Cocoarunway
      @Cocoarunway Před 7 měsíci +16

      @@Goddess_Infinity 🤣🤣🤣

    • @saxonkush2376
      @saxonkush2376 Před 7 měsíci +11

      AKA being dung out and beat out and snatch out

  • @chrissya9994
    @chrissya9994 Před 7 měsíci +1280

    I love how Lori walks away from relationships when she knows the relationship has come to an end. Why stay in a relationship when it’s no longer serving you? Life is too short!

    • @jadajen4
      @jadajen4 Před 7 měsíci +45

      I wish I'd had this sort of guidance in my youth

    • @chrissya9994
      @chrissya9994 Před 7 měsíci +47

      @@jadajen4 lots of women didn’t have this kind of guidance growing up.
      It’s never too late to level up and start putting yourself and needs first.

    • @jadajen4
      @jadajen4 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@chrissya9994 It was actually this lady's channel right here. That started me on that journey back in 2020

    • @chrissya9994
      @chrissya9994 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@jadajen4 oh that is great! Good job!

    • @thebonecollections4478
      @thebonecollections4478 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Do you feel like that straight to easily remove a man may have hurt her in one of those relationships instead of fighting for one that was probably worth it she just cut the cord does she not have emotional tolerance for a rough patch

  • @alley0908
    @alley0908 Před 7 měsíci +778

    People are insanely jealous of Lori. Men do the same thing with women and create broken homes and people are never in an uproar. Projection at its finest.

    • @conversationswithadrianne
      @conversationswithadrianne Před 7 měsíci +36

      Exactlyyyyyy!

    • @angelbeauty8
      @angelbeauty8 Před 7 měsíci +56

      True . Future Drake Leonardo DiCaprio and the list goes on !
      That is why I'm happy Lori is breaking this.
      Young women can really learn from her.

    • @TheLoveweaver
      @TheLoveweaver Před 7 měsíci +55

      Yup! For the men who call her a ran-through would never get a sniff of her! They kill me! Lol

    • @watermelonlover745
      @watermelonlover745 Před 7 měsíci +34

      They are jealous of the power she has from being raised with love and confidence

    • @errolmaloney2819
      @errolmaloney2819 Před 7 měsíci +1

      The world is truly different now when women are inspired by a beautiful young lady playing the field!

  • @callmemunashe
    @callmemunashe Před 7 měsíci +639

    I met Lori at an event last year and I remember how beautiful and petite she was. I didn’t realise how small she was. She spent the whole time complimenting the women around her while smiling in the midst of making conversation with me and my friends. It’s such a shame she gets so much hate online but it was clear to me that night that it doesn’t touch her and she has a wonderful glow about her that radiates from deep within onto others. Meeting her is exactly the experience I imagine people had with Marylin Monroe.

    • @swiitdoll
      @swiitdoll Před 7 měsíci +121

      That glow is why men and pick Mes are so mad and upset

    • @twillybbe
      @twillybbe Před 7 měsíci +37

      Very cool. Thanks for sharing

    • @purpleskies4553
      @purpleskies4553 Před 7 měsíci +41

      Wow that's so cool. Yeah that kind of inner beauty radiating out plus outer beauty makes people all kinds of mad

    • @MN-hv5xv
      @MN-hv5xv Před 7 měsíci +32

      She don’t have to settle! I like that about Lori😊

    • @mammi3577
      @mammi3577 Před 6 měsíci

      I don't know her , but I believe women who say nice things to lift up women around them are the best , specially besides the other women who deliberately embarrass you with rude questions or passive aggressive talk, I'll forever trust my gut ,I wasted so much thinking girly girls are shallow or mean ,the reality is so much different only the pick mes who will go further to diminish you

  • @EnlightenedFemme
    @EnlightenedFemme Před 7 měsíci +907

    I was once a Keke until I took the time to get some therapy and heal. Now I’m a Lori. I put myself first and I know my worth. No man is allowed to shake my inner peace ❤

    • @karinealourdementalgems
      @karinealourdementalgems  Před 7 měsíci +53

      This 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @wendypope9668
      @wendypope9668 Před 7 měsíci +12

      Me2 girl. Props to us💃💃💃😊

    • @nowthatsacookie
      @nowthatsacookie Před 7 měsíci +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @thebonecollections4478
      @thebonecollections4478 Před 7 měsíci +12

      If I was you I wouldn't claim either one of those women we didn't know what Kiki was going through until it came out everybody was cheering her on. Something to come out in the future and you might not want to be a lori

    • @EnlightenedFemme
      @EnlightenedFemme Před 7 měsíci +25

      @@thebonecollections4478 I’m allowed to change my mind when the time comes. People are human and I do keep that in mind. Until then, I’m team Lori

  • @marisolsanchezhernandez7287
    @marisolsanchezhernandez7287 Před 7 měsíci +367

    This is Steve Harvey’s kid😂 are people really surprised, she literally “ think like a man and act like a lady” people be hating for her playing the game right😹

    • @tolanisimpson5360
      @tolanisimpson5360 Před 7 měsíci +60

      Honestly, I'm not mad at Lori Harvey.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

    • @karinealourdementalgems
      @karinealourdementalgems  Před 7 měsíci +81

      Right! Steve Harvey drops so many gems, I’m sure she’s always taking notes. And her mother also understands the game very well. ❤

    • @icequeen491
      @icequeen491 Před 7 měsíci +30

      And Keke had the game given to her on a platter by Steve and she was arguing, not a very smart lady when it comes to matters of the heart.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@icequeen491 If you’ve seen older interviews with Keke, it makes sense why she became a baby momma to someone like Darius. She was raised in a certain environment.

    • @pancake949
      @pancake949 Před 6 měsíci

      wait wdym?@@tiahnarodriguez3809

  • @Brandy205
    @Brandy205 Před 7 měsíci +439

    Lori is living her best life. She’s child-free, beautiful, wealthy and unbothered by ending a relationship. We all need to get a little “Lori” in our game and start cutting these guys who no longer serve us a purpose LOOSE.

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife Před 7 měsíci +8

      Preach 🎉

    • @mushmouth610
      @mushmouth610 Před 7 měsíci +21

      Exactly. Taylor Swift does the same, without as much hate (she does get some). We all know why.

    • @greatstoic2297
      @greatstoic2297 Před 7 měsíci

      When is my turn to be pumped and dumped?

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Did she say she was child free? Just because she doesn’t have kids now doesn’t mean she’ll never want any. And I don’t understand how that’s “living your best life” you can be a mother and live your best life.

    • @Brandy205
      @Brandy205 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@Las645 Lori doesn’t have kids 😒

  • @iloveeelau
    @iloveeelau Před 7 měsíci +400

    It’s crazy that Steve Harvey had the foresight to see the type of men keke would end up dating. I absolutely love kekes energy and these type of relationships dim your light. It makes me sad.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 7 měsíci +27

      Because he was one...

    • @nonya8193
      @nonya8193 Před 7 měsíci +75

      Which is why I get so confused when women say they don't want his advice because he's a divorcee.🤔 The man gives women advice on how to vet men, why would you reject that? His daughters are examples of his teachings, either happily married (his twins) or exploring their options and remaining drama free (Lori). It makes me wonder what Keke's life would have looked like had she listened to his advice. 😔

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 7 měsíci +48

      @@nonya8193 Right, I don't understand that, he has been there. A person that has been divorced can definitely tell you what not to do. But, you can learn something from anyone.

    • @bulalingcayicibi3062
      @bulalingcayicibi3062 Před 7 měsíci +22

      Steve Harvey saw it from a distance. But using common sense though Keke Palmer is famous, most men would date her because of what she has, look at Britney spears and Kevin Federline, Halle Berry

    • @danib915
      @danib915 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Steve Harvey been peeped Keke was a dusty. It didn’t take her son’s child to prove that. Oftentimes it seems as if folks mistake celebrity for high self esteem. She’s a prime example of such.

  • @Digital_logbook
    @Digital_logbook Před 7 měsíci +121

    Funny how us women will bash Lori for dating and not settling for anything she doesn't want, but stay in a 10 years old stagnant relationship in the name of "commitment" just for these men to leave us and marry someone in two months...its insane.

    • @cianamartin3932
      @cianamartin3932 Před 6 měsíci +6

      That’s because you weren’t a wife. He would’ve married you in two months if you were a wife. You allowed yourself to be a 10 year place holder while he was looking. Men have time, women don’t, so date smart

  • @Ducky190
    @Ducky190 Před 7 měsíci +475

    Every woman regardless of the age group should move like Lori. This young woman truly moves in silence and allows us to see what she wants us to see. Much respect. As for the beautiful unproblematic, Keke Palmer. Her story like many women in her exact same situation is very tragic. Doesn't matter the tax bracket. I pray that she gets the appropriate therapy and healing she truly deserves. God bless her and her beautiful baby boy that they stay safe and protected, and that she knows and understands it was not her fault for that guy's disgusting and disgraceful behavior. He will rot as she prospers.

    • @Sweetheart0189
      @Sweetheart0189 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Love this perspective ❤

    • @kathydelarosa1286
      @kathydelarosa1286 Před 7 měsíci +17

      I don’t think she moves in silence but I like how she has high standards for herself and knows her worth

    • @Meron_23
      @Meron_23 Před 7 měsíci +19

      No thanks, I'm not ever learning anything from Lori

    • @gft4285
      @gft4285 Před 7 měsíci

      She is for streets..changing man far to much is disgusting and the choice of the man 🤮🤮

    • @glamjam9695
      @glamjam9695 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@Meron_23no really

  • @shauns4244
    @shauns4244 Před 7 měsíci +121

    Steven Harvey was giving out gems. I agree with him. It’s important to date in your tax bracket.

    • @erind2261
      @erind2261 Před 7 měsíci +30

      He also tried w/ KeKe. Wish she would've listened. IMO reformed womanizers give the best advice about how men move

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Před 7 měsíci +8

      👍🏾 I agree. "It's important to date in your tax bracket."... Or, *above* !!!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci +3

      King David in the Bible started out tending sheep. It's about what he aspires to. A man with a plan.

    • @macym57
      @macym57 Před 5 dny

      Tis true, but Marjorie wasn't in his tax bracket

  • @maridiyaibrahim8210
    @maridiyaibrahim8210 Před 7 měsíci +126

    People like to assume the worst about others just to make themselves feel better 😅

    • @tolanisimpson5360
      @tolanisimpson5360 Před 7 měsíci +31

      Yes, it's a coping mechanism for a lot of people.

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Před 5 měsíci

      It’s the truth, Lori is living in that exploitative Hollywood world and Steve has pumped her out. She was underaged hanging out in yachts with grown men. Keep idolizing these sickos

  • @ioanafilipescu2327
    @ioanafilipescu2327 Před 7 měsíci +151

    It seems like everybody’s biggest concern is girls’ sexual lives…Society can’t get past that🙄🙄🙄

    • @angelbeauty8
      @angelbeauty8 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Men have always been desperate to control EVERY aspect in a woman's life .
      But luckily there are some men that aren't like that. And women need to go where men let women be humans with our flaws and all.

    • @dreamchaser7603
      @dreamchaser7603 Před 7 měsíci +11

      So true!
      I’m a swifty and seeing comments people are making about her and Travis is absolutely sickening 🤮 They use those vulgar terms and prey their noses into every single detail…

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci

      I have news for you. GOD is very concerned about everyone's sex life. The Bible is crystal clear. We are to flee fornication. It opens doors to demonic attack. It's very serious. I hope both these ladies come to Christ. It's the only way to peace, purpose and fulfillment .

  • @Holmnielsen-
    @Holmnielsen- Před 7 měsíci +180

    i honestly don't think Lori Harvey has dated an unusual amount. I definitely dated around when i was that age, but no one ever knew about it so i didn't get a reputation.

    • @ioanafilipescu2327
      @ioanafilipescu2327 Před 7 měsíci +30

      Yesss, as most of us do. Honestly being ‘anonimous’ akka not being in the spot light really is a privillege apparentely

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I don't know what happens behind closes doors but I'm sure she was sleeping with these men. The issue isn't her dating . The issue is fornication. Soul ties & I'm not condemning anyone. Keekee too. God will judge fornicators
      & that's the word . Not my opinion .

    • @ioanafilipescu2327
      @ioanafilipescu2327 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@danilaroche1156 It’s everyone’s PERSONAL business what they CHOOSE to do with their PRIVATE LIVES. Not anyone’s business how a grown up woman or man decides to do with their lives, bodies etc.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci

      @@ioanafilipescu2327 You are correct. I was just stating my opinion. It's not a big deal. Thanks.

    • @Holmnielsen-
      @Holmnielsen- Před 7 měsíci

      @@danilaroche1156 yeah you are making too much of it

  • @teralecole316
    @teralecole316 Před 7 měsíci +187

    Keke is a Queen, she’ll bounce back like Ciara🤍 Lorrie is not moving like the typical blk female and it is stirring up spirits. She’s not like Summer Walker and many other bw who collects babies after each relationship. She’s sexy, graceful, rich and carefree! Halle better proceed with caution. Ddg about to do worse than Darius.

    • @schmaelepaulection1431
      @schmaelepaulection1431 Před 7 měsíci +52

      I really hope you're right about Keke. I just feel like she's a little hard-headed and may not learn from this 😅but as for Halle and DDG? I 100% agree with you. The red flags were GLARING and sis still let that man get her pregnant.

    • @Meron_23
      @Meron_23 Před 7 měsíci +5

      No she's not

    • @soupafleye
      @soupafleye Před 7 měsíci +6

      i know.. i hope halle is 3 steps ahead.

    • @nakithajones
      @nakithajones Před 7 měsíci +2

      Stop it ddg an Halle is married

    • @themango9644
      @themango9644 Před 7 měsíci +9

      I hope he don't do anything horrible we should stop speaking things into existence. But seeing how he said it in that song...we should believe men when they tell you about themselves

  • @Sweetheart0189
    @Sweetheart0189 Před 7 měsíci +124

    Teaching our daughters the art of walking away is important ❤

  • @no.6377
    @no.6377 Před 7 měsíci +148

    Lori living her best unbothered life and it's got some people pressed. 😂
    How are people this bothered about a woman not "settling down" in her 20s??
    Steve taught her well.

    • @AfuaYmani
      @AfuaYmani Před 7 měsíci +12

      Right. The nerve of her

    • @TheLoveweaver
      @TheLoveweaver Před 7 měsíci +34

      The insanity! I've never heard of this until Lori Harvey. Also everybody so mad she didn't settle down with MJ. I mean what about him? He's almost 40 or something and didn't settle down already? No one spoke on that. They made a 24 yr old woman a villain. It was insane.

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​​​@@TheLoveweaverlol yeah it's her looks they got clot off her I've heard some black women say the reason there relationships never seem to work out is because the men are always trying to compete with them she's a very attractive woman so seeing her unbothered like that after they tried to humble her is the ultimate payback.
      You can't humble somebody like that I actually seen a white woman that looked really hot like that too several years ago when I worked at a Walgreens.
      She was the perfect image of a sex doll and she told me her date stood her up at a coffee shop.
      That's how I know some of them are gay or really blind because someone like that can easily replace them for another date these women move on quickly and they play hard to get it's also intimidating for a lot of men because he needs to feel like the prize in the relationship so they try to humble her not just to make her feel bad about herself but so that they will have easier access to her they don't want to compete for her but they still do it. They are also never around when I see these goddesses.

  • @sharoneniola9304
    @sharoneniola9304 Před 7 měsíci +137

    Lori’s my type of girl because that’s exactly how I move. I’m 26 & All 3 of the relationships I’ve had, I broke off within the 1st year. My BS tolerance is low af😭 I just hope Lori’s next relationship stays off the internet, for at least the 1st year!
    Now as for Keke, it’s a sad circumstance but I’m just glad she didn’t marry that bum. That alimony cheque would have been HEFTY!!! It’s very unfortunate she didn’t take Steve Harvey’s advice but I know she’ll bounce back.
    Thanks for your take Karine💕

  • @Yocyndie
    @Yocyndie Před 7 měsíci +158

    I love how Lori navigates her relationships. Her ability to detach from ppl so easily is truly something. The only thing I would change is putting the men on socials.

    • @deborah8056
      @deborah8056 Před 7 měsíci +18

      Same I feel like the only mistake Lori is doing is posting the men she's dating online. I feel like she should wait to post them at least a few years into the relationship but she post them right away or blogs catch her.

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Right I’ve been saying why does she need to post them?*🧐

    • @itzkaydayz5408
      @itzkaydayz5408 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Those were PR relationships. They have no choice but to post on social media to get the people talking. Best believe Lori getting to the money behind the scenes. I’m not mad at her

    • @mmaya772
      @mmaya772 Před 7 měsíci

      I definitely agree and have heard people say that before.*@@itzkaydayz5408

    • @tamaraford6634
      @tamaraford6634 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I want her to date out too, to open up her dating options! I feel like she can possibly find the man for her if she does that!

  • @restlessfae2407
    @restlessfae2407 Před 7 měsíci +245

    Shoutout to Steve who is a wonderful father raising her right. A lot of fathers ( not saying all) out there don't teach their daughters that they are the prize.

  • @desiglamroll9703
    @desiglamroll9703 Před 7 měsíci +86

    I h8 the way keke sounded on the Steve Harvey show as if all wealthy/well off men are horrible. Then she goes and dates the loser because he “loves her”. Sure, men can’t be perfect and match all the qualities she wanted but all those bachelors she’s around and they weren’t good enough? 😩 Unc gave her massive game. Even at 23, trust I’m dating the engineer, analyst, guy in medical school because they have a plan.

    • @catcoffee7958
      @catcoffee7958 Před 7 měsíci +19

      She is delulu,, and still delulu,, she got pregnant by him, she didn't change her door locks when they brook up, and finally she didn't press any charges,,,, she belive in rough violent love

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Před 7 měsíci +20

      that entire clip did not age well...i wish she would have listened to him. but honestly ppl can tell you a million times but you wont believe it until you experienced it. i wish she would have just trusted him tbh. these boys love getting women pregannt and then putting their hands on them

    • @sidology1.0
      @sidology1.0 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@catcoffee7958 makes me wonder if thats what she seen while growing up. She really too grown to do stuff like that, my friend was in the same position but in her early 20s acting like that

    • @desiglamroll9703
      @desiglamroll9703 Před 7 měsíci +21

      @@sidology1.0The part that aggravated me is when she said “those guys just want to buy you & they aren’t faithful” - I think she doesn’t understand that men and women love differently and thus, she ended up with a feminine man who became emasculated. No one told her she needed to date a billionaire but truly someone who has what she has & will be faithful. Her mindset was already tainted.

    • @user56gghtf
      @user56gghtf Před 7 měsíci +4

      As much as people hate to admit. Most, not all, most wealthy black man are not the nicest people. A lot of them are insecure, arrogant, that hate themselves... well. Again I'm not saying all. But I'm sorry not amount of money is going to make me deal with that even if you are on my level.

  • @f1dassia
    @f1dassia Před 7 měsíci +93

    Moral of both stories: Listen to Steve Harvey.

    • @courtneypalmer53
      @courtneypalmer53 Před 7 měsíci +21

      I did not see that episode with KeKe but from the sounds of it he was giving some good knowledge. 👌

    • @elizabethanuforo9171
      @elizabethanuforo9171 Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you 😅🎉

    • @mammi3577
      @mammi3577 Před 6 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gailainsley6939
    @gailainsley6939 Před 7 měsíci +141

    15:20 Girl bye. These ‘money don’t matter’ girls are going to have to learn the hard way. A man without nothing, has nothing to lose 😂😴

    • @ms.x1669
      @ms.x1669 Před 7 měsíci +38

      And by the time they'll learn it'll be 4 kids too late

    • @MissRobotica
      @MissRobotica Před 7 měsíci +20

      Sheesh this is facts, I was one of those people before. Now I understand!

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Před 5 měsíci

      No we won’t, I don’t value money and material things. I’m a simple minimalistic person. I want love and stability. I want someone who’ll have my back and be my ride or die. I don’t want a fake transactional relationship. I know many women who married men who weren’t rich, had kids and built their lives together happily. Not everyone has the same mission in life. I could care less about evil capitalism that makes people slaves to paper.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Před 5 měsíci +7

      @@Las645 You must be young. You will wake up one day 😂😴🚮

    • @goabaone6655
      @goabaone6655 Před 3 měsíci

      @@ms.x1669 4 kids late and broke too! making recovery and chance to date again even more complicated. which man will accomodate a broke woman with a brood of babies?they start calling us liabilities

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan Před 7 měsíci +182

    Steve Harvey wrote the best dating book…Act like a Lady and think like a Man.
    His daughter lives that…it seems she isn’t settling for any relationship that doesn’t feel good to her.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa Před 7 měsíci +8

      How many will she date though

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@TheMwendaaexactly my point

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@Ashleyunfiltered =Envious pickme

    • @Kariberri208
      @Kariberri208 Před 7 měsíci +65

      ​@@TheMwendaaAs many as it takes...people assume that if you are dating someone you are having sex with them. I dated lots of men, but never had sex with them....and to this day they all still have mad love for me.

    • @no.6377
      @no.6377 Před 7 měsíci +27

      ​@@TheMwendaaas many as she needs to. 😊

  • @chailatecookies7341
    @chailatecookies7341 Před 7 měsíci +144

    Lori is doing the right thing for herself, anyone who thinks otherwise is obviously jealous of her life choices as she doesn’t get trapped by men. This is what men deserve

  • @tanesha8514
    @tanesha8514 Před 7 měsíci +187

    Lori evokes the "who do you think you are" sentiment. Most people are so insecure that they want you to box yourself in because they are too afraid to venture out of the lines. Youd love for your daughter to be so self assured. Most people are not like this. Now God needs to be the source but she's a guided young lady with a great support system and a lot of people dont have that...hence the ankle weights theyre trying to assign to her. Find like minded people and place yourself in environments that are conducive to your growth and greatness.

  • @sidology1.0
    @sidology1.0 Před 7 měsíci +75

    That video of Keke and Steve harvey did not age well at all.I feel like he was giving some great advice. These men with no plans, no goals, nothing to lose... they can and will destroy your life and everything you have going for you. Ive seen it. I wish this wouldnt have happened to her because all it did was create yet another broken black home, as usual.

    • @queenreg7
      @queenreg7 Před 7 měsíci +23

      Yes. That played out like Steve said. Steve talked to her about not just going for the pretty boys and to not try to drag someone not at her level into her level and lifestyle. She got her “simple” guy who is now acting simply dreadful and now seems dangerous. I’m so sorry he turned out to be so awful and she and her son are in physical/emotional danger.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Keke and Darius were never married so no homes were broken. Their relationship just created another baby momma and fatherless child.

  • @sivialove475
    @sivialove475 Před 7 měsíci +53

    “Just remember that you’re the prize always, not compromising my value my happiness my peace not settling for less then I deserve. Not being afraid to walk away from relationships if it’s no longer serving me.” THAT RIGHT THERE!!! That’s pretty much the universal dating advice for women right there!

  • @truly_masego
    @truly_masego Před 7 měsíci +118

    I suspect her dating scandals, could also be publicity stunts. old hollywood, new york socialite type of thing. i am entertained by her!

  • @truly_masego
    @truly_masego Před 7 měsíci +73

    with Keke Palmer, I am reminded that tax brackets are a thing, because power dynamics are ignitions to abuse. Also, Tia Mowry is an example. and, settling. the fear that life is missing you, but honestly do not settle, so long as you are not dead, you have the opportunity to make your dreams come true.
    I am weary of successful woman who date/marry lower- could be an insecurity thing, could be a saviour complex thing.
    idk if Nicki Minaj is legally married to that murder and rapist man, but I was disappointed. I am well aware that as individuals we want what we want.
    deny it all we can, in life there is a formula. embrace individualism, but we know when a breadwinner woman is with a bum, things do not go as smoothly.

  • @AsMaineTheOrijinalGeisha
    @AsMaineTheOrijinalGeisha Před 7 měsíci +270

    Lori is gorgeous & has status & power & both men & women are intimidated by her & I’m not gonna lie I’m here for it! & I love her mystery allure… ❤

  • @needes8559
    @needes8559 Před 7 měsíci +35

    A couple of women got into it with me when I defended Lori Harvey under a post. When I saw what they looked like, I understood why they had so much disdain towards her…….
    That young woman is just living her life. My dad, my mom, my uncles gave me the same advice. Don’t settle.

  • @eprahs1
    @eprahs1 Před 7 měsíci +37

    Date with your brain and intuition, not your heart.

  • @truly_masego
    @truly_masego Před 7 měsíci +51

    this video, is reminding of how as black women we want other black women to behave, because they are representing us "black women". People thinking LH is "promiscuous" and KP (before the released footage) is a mother with her bums out at that Usher concert and how she is disrespecting the black family and she is destroying the black family with her actions. and how others felt justified about the comment the baby daddy made on her.
    Now that we are aware that he is abusive- the narrative has changed, but all eyes are on KP because she is the famous one and she is a black woman.
    my heart goes to Keke Palmer, she also went through so much with Trey Songz and the backlash she received. I am so proud of her because this time she has actual evidence. Since people did not believe her about Trey Songz.
    Argh, also, the responsibility of keeping the family together falling on black women. Tia Mowry got so much backlash for leaving her husband. No one is blaming the husband and reminding him that he messed up the black family too.
    my heart bleeds so much for women. Because, it is not just decentering men, it is also working with our internal misogony and understanding/accepting that we are affected by patriachy, and taking deliberate actions to centre ourselves

  • @kalista9962
    @kalista9962 Před 7 měsíci +32

    She IS gorgeous to be sure! But how does she not phenotypically look like MOST black women? The lips, skin color, the hair? She's beautiful and I see LOTS of black girls (not as refined) but look just like her. I wish her and ALL black women the very best.

    • @nbrown5602
      @nbrown5602 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Right! She looks like a gorgeous Black woman, of which there are many!

  • @allen9584
    @allen9584 Před 7 měsíci +223

    I love how your videos are so honest and not just slander and hate! Very well put together

    • @karinealourdementalgems
      @karinealourdementalgems  Před 7 měsíci +12

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 Před 7 měsíci +5

      My thoughts, too. Alot of other content creators are ruthless, but Karine comes with thoughts, facts and compassion.

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Před 7 měsíci +4

      I agree!

    • @cynthiaisako
      @cynthiaisako Před 7 měsíci +4

      Just discovered her and when I heard “dedicated to leveling up”, I subscribed.

  • @banterbabe
    @banterbabe Před 7 měsíci +100

    If you’re jealous of Lori Harvey and you’re a female you’re a Pickmesha period !! And Keke Palmer is beautiful and strong she’s going through what majority of us have been through behind closed doors she will forever get Grace from me both of these strong beautiful black queens are blueprints mistakes and all I’m here for Lori’s movements and I’m here for Keke finally choosing herself over that dusty…. And I’m sorry but you can’t say Lori “don’t look like us….” What? 😂😂😂 black women are not a monolith have you seen what African women living in africa look like??? Baby Lori’s look is average over there…. Americans gotta get over features and hair texture we can make every single shade and hair texture to ever exist DONT let Jim Crow fool you

    • @simba8665
      @simba8665 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I will never understand black men who are eligible bachelors crying over women in the western countries. Africa is a whole continent is full of women who are well round, naturally beautiful and are raised l to reciprocate love and respect towards a man. Unless you are a “bum” whose geographically locked in, what’s the point of dating/ marrying American women?

    • @banterbabe
      @banterbabe Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@simba8665 I’m not about degrading my sisters around the world black women are queens period what I’m saying is that Lori’s look is extremely common in africa you see women like her everyday and I’m sorry but African women are nice and friendly but f around you gone find out far worse than any American woman would do you Africa is the headquarters women run the household and they never come to play no disrespect to you but no slander against black women on this plant will be tolerated x

    • @ThreeLittleBirdsssss
      @ThreeLittleBirdsssss Před 6 měsíci +2

      Right… black women don’t have one look. Let’s stop saying stuff like that. Its like you’re down playing all of us

  • @rissilient85
    @rissilient85 Před 7 měsíci +41

    Lori Harvey’s love or sex life choices are not our business or for us to judge.

    • @tolanisimpson5360
      @tolanisimpson5360 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Exactly!!! Like people should worry about themselves instead of constantly nitpicking someone else's choices, Lori's not hurting anyone.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@tolanisimpson5360 If you’re gonna put your business out there, then it shouldn’t be surprising that people are gonna judge. I personally think Lori leaks stuff about her relationships to stay relevant like Kim K did back in the 2000-10’s which I don’t really care, but from a celeb point of view it’s pretty smart. Wouldn’t surprise me if this theory is true.

  • @lowkeylibra
    @lowkeylibra Před 7 měsíci +54

    Honestly Lori should keep doing what she’s doing BUT next time she should maybe try to not post them… and just DONT get pregnant

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Před 7 měsíci +24

      Absolutely. Do not post them and do not get pregnant.

    • @victoriaknowsbest
      @victoriaknowsbest Před 7 měsíci +7

      I agree but side note: even she doesn’t post them paparazzi will so I feel like it’s maybe also a form of controlling the narrative especially as a public figure.

  • @TheQuietStorm630
    @TheQuietStorm630 Před 7 měsíci +283

    I respect Lori and all women like her. Nothing wrong with what she's doing at all. As for Keke, I hope that she and her family are ok. There's nothing that makes what Darius did Ok abuse often starts off as verbal and emotional then physical. I'm very sad that there's a baby caught in the middle of this madness.

  • @Jahshona
    @Jahshona Před 7 měsíci +20

    They want Lori pregnant and run down- that’s why they’re upset

    • @Rubyjones100
      @Rubyjones100 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Yup ! And she’s so smart to avoid that ! 😂❤

  • @katherinebrown2841
    @katherinebrown2841 Před 6 měsíci +8

    You can tell Steve Harvey was getting actually frustrated. People were laughing, but you can tell Steve meant every word he said. You can tell Steve really cares about Keke, and that’s lovely to see such parental figures looking out for younger people in the industry. You hear all these stories of Hollywood figures extorting and taking advantage of young stars. It’s refreshing to hear about a positive and appropriate relationship like how Steve treats Keke.

  • @ASlovealways
    @ASlovealways Před 7 měsíci +63

    Another Karine gem 💎 ♥️✨ Prayers for KeKe & shout out to Lori. 😮‍💨 Black women keep your morals and values high, read your Bibles and move strategically. 💕

  • @muzna510
    @muzna510 Před 7 měsíci +31

    I don’t think any men who dates Lori is serious about her. But she’s stunning, beautiful and rich I think she will always be happy even as single

  • @BlackNella
    @BlackNella Před 7 měsíci +13

    I agree with you. Let's not act like these men don't be trying it. I'd rather someone think I'm a "pass-around" than stay in a relationship with someone who is disrespecting me. Say what you want, NEXT!

  • @AFocusedLiving
    @AFocusedLiving Před 7 měsíci +68

    We need more videos on how to decenter from men.

    • @karinealourdementalgems
      @karinealourdementalgems  Před 7 měsíci +27

      Yes 🙌🏽

    • @TheQuietStorm630
      @TheQuietStorm630 Před 7 měsíci +18

      Agreed!

    • @erind2261
      @erind2261 Před 7 měsíci +6

      After Shannon Sharpe said he'd take a sinner (nasty B) over Yvonne Orji that was final straw for me.
      I know Shannon wasn't going after a black woman but the whole red pill about body count is bs.

  • @terrifields3014
    @terrifields3014 Před 7 měsíci +12

    She's young, she's beautiful, she's rich and,she's successful! More power to her! Keep God first in your life and your legs closed you'll be alright!!

  • @orlandorobinson9369
    @orlandorobinson9369 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Steve said to Keke Palmer "I done told you about them pretty ass boys". Now I understand why they say a hard head make a soft ass. He was spot on. 💯💯

  • @nadanalia3000
    @nadanalia3000 Před 7 měsíci +29

    Her dad Steve was a great teacher to her about maintaining high standards with men

  • @noona514
    @noona514 Před 7 měsíci +32

    I have nothing but respect for Lori Harvey.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Před 7 měsíci

      Why? She's very much in the world and she's immodest. Pass.

  • @Beautifulchild22
    @Beautifulchild22 Před 7 měsíci +39

    I love this video! It’s sad that people want to humble Lori so bad because she puts herself first and leaves situations and people who don’t work for her. She loves herself and her life. People don’t like her audacity to dare love herself. I love beautiful Keke. I hope that she will come back better than ever from this situation ❤

  • @RedneckBeautywithDebra
    @RedneckBeautywithDebra Před 7 měsíci +8

    WE SHOULD ALWAYS STRAIGHTEN EACH OTHER'S CROWNS 👑

  • @amaj_lex
    @amaj_lex Před 7 měsíci +43

    I just hope Lori continues to move how she does. No children. Focus on your bag and happiness. Keke, ugh no more kids and focus on your career and son. Love them both.

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Před 5 měsíci

      What’s wrong with kids? If you’re ready for them people should be able to have them when they want. It’s her life, you’ve got no right telling someone you don’t know “no more kids” you can live your best life with kids.

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Před 7 měsíci +29

    the thing I adore about Lori is because she's mysterious I do not know her or what she do but i see how she move and I can relate so I like her

  • @fah232
    @fah232 Před 7 měsíci +11

    With Lori, it's just the competitive thing with women. Women have been taught subconsciously to compete with other women for absolutely no reason. Rather than look inside themselves to figure out why, they go with it and are comfortable there.

  • @4evermistyblu
    @4evermistyblu Před 7 měsíci +10

    Lori Harvey is STUNNING!!! Drop dead gorgeous and I’m glad she’s living her young life on her terms. You will only be in your twenties for so long, travel, date, experience life to the fullest before you settled down with a husband and children. Now for KeKe I’m so proud she choose herself and her baby.

  • @athomewithhollie
    @athomewithhollie Před 7 měsíci +4

    Uncle Steve was so frustrated lol

  • @caroroj2395
    @caroroj2395 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Karine, what I enjoy about your channel is the non-hater approach! You have such a sound and rational take when advising women.

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold Před 7 měsíci +9

    The hard part with letting the young girls see, their consequences are so much more permanent and detrimental.

  • @internetmachine
    @internetmachine Před 7 měsíci +7

    Thank you for calling this behavior out. Heaven forbid a beautiful woman exist and have a mind of her own! How dare she! This attitude is so tired.

  • @faye_bulous
    @faye_bulous Před 7 měsíci +8

    It’s funny that those men asking what Lori is doing are the same men who’d say that they don’t care about women accomplishments,wealth or career you got. Let it make sense! 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @TherissaET
    @TherissaET Před 7 měsíci +12

    Lori is a girl who knows what she wants and needs.

  • @shakkyasutherland4575
    @shakkyasutherland4575 Před 7 měsíci +18

    Aww, both of Steve Harvey's babies are having a hard time this week. Amma stick beside Lori though, haha.

  • @Muybonitacoco22
    @Muybonitacoco22 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Lori triggers so many ppl!😂😂😂 it’s very strange.

  • @vikki8699
    @vikki8699 Před 7 měsíci +14

    100% agree with you about Lori. If anything, I feel she's damned if she do or damned if she don't. I bet she's not even sleeping with these dudes because she knows they are using her as a stepping tool to social climb. Men, especially rich, do that.
    Lori knows her worth and that irritates a lot of low self esteem people. Hence the platent jealousy and envy towards her.
    I send so much praise, love and kindness to Lori. She has it much harder then I do while dating because her beauty, fame and wealth is a target for users and abusers. So I pray she keeps walking away from people who don't measure up to her. I bet half those men she dated wish they made her their baby mamma. I am so proud Lori is smart and walks away from that noise.
    I wish her all the best and I hope she finds a useful, kind and thoughtful man worthy of her.
    We all should strive for a man like that ❤
    Excellent video Karine. I'd love for you to talk more about Lori, her manners, beauty, grace and health. She us definitely the Melena of our era (pre court room thing). ❤

    • @butm5125
      @butm5125 Před 7 měsíci +3

      I just don't understand the hate she's gaining. I adore her❤

  • @okayyygrandewerrkk7406
    @okayyygrandewerrkk7406 Před 7 měsíci +16

    In my personal opinion, I believe if any one supposedly seeing in public with Lorie it would be considered pretentious to be in a relationship at this point.

  • @gjinkalla23
    @gjinkalla23 Před 7 měsíci +16

    Adore Lori, Love Keke

  • @nvb7752
    @nvb7752 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I think the hardest thing I've ever had to overcome is learning to walk away. I love that as a young woman, she inspires other women to know their worth. Brandy once said, "Almost doesn't count." It Might have come close, but that won't it, my boy! 😂😊❤

  • @chickennuggsd4094
    @chickennuggsd4094 Před 7 měsíci +11

    Watching the Steve Harvey clip was sad to witness... Where is keke's father? Ijs

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I remember when I seen that video of Steve and Keke and ik she wish she listened. I mean look at Lori and her uncle Steve was right.

  • @IsSalvationReal
    @IsSalvationReal Před 7 měsíci +4

    All the photos of these two are crazy! Just gorgeous

  • @pianotnt
    @pianotnt Před 7 měsíci +25

    I love how lori harvey is private and she's not quick to have sex with just anybody and staying child free

    • @kekeliw5348
      @kekeliw5348 Před 7 měsíci +7

      I like her too but how do you know she’s not quick to sleep with anyone? She doesn’t seem say anything. None of us will know and that’s fine.

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@kekeliw5348 Considering the dude’s she’s with it wouldn’t surprise me to find out that she’s sleeping with them. I don’t really care. I just think it’s weird that women are acting like Lori is celibate/ a virgin when the name of the game in Hollywood is sex, and her dad is very clear in what he preaches.

    • @glamjam9695
      @glamjam9695 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@tiahnarodriguez3809💯

    • @Las645
      @Las645 Před 5 měsíci

      How do you know she’s childfree? And why do you love it? So if she chooses to have kids one day with a guy she’s chosen then you’ll lose respect? You people are insane

  • @chicanapunkLA
    @chicanapunkLA Před 4 měsíci +2

    I truly don't understand when women are misogynistic towards each other. The way I see it is, that there are so many more important matters in life than worrying about another woman's life. I don't care if it's the girl next door or a celebrity. It's not going to elevate my life by criticizing another woman 💜

  • @brahmabkitty03
    @brahmabkitty03 Před 7 měsíci +16

    Keke is like every other woman who wants to make it work with the man you had a kid with. She thought he would change and left in her time. I’m glad she pressed charges bc we protect our abusers too much. Say nothing if you haven’t been in this situation bc you never know what you’ll do until you’re in it.

    • @kimcham9949
      @kimcham9949 Před 7 měsíci

      People get to say whatever they want... Social media is built on it.

  • @f3042
    @f3042 Před 7 měsíci +5

    _Steve Harvey is a good father figure. I don’t care I don’t care. She should’ve listened_

  • @theshelbscopyme6678
    @theshelbscopyme6678 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Also dating doesn’t automatically include sex. You are getting to know someone and see if it grows into something long term

  • @wilson8979
    @wilson8979 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Stand up for Keke as woman and black woman!

  • @babyjamesssss
    @babyjamesssss Před 7 měsíci +12

    What a stunning insightful video. Thank you for speaking on the moves that need to be made and avoided, all while resting within ourselves 🌹

  • @eprahs1
    @eprahs1 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Lori the only one listening to Steve. Shirley and Keke fell for the okie doke, hopefully lessons are learned.

  • @favoured2025
    @favoured2025 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I swear !!! You are one of the the best CZcams channels!!! Your voice is so smooth and you’re not biased !

  • @Kalamolng
    @Kalamolng Před 7 měsíci +6

    Harvey wrote the book,Think Like Man and that's what Lori learned.

  • @sharonemordi
    @sharonemordi Před 6 měsíci +2

    Some of these relationship are PR relationships. They get paid to be seen with somebody for a few months.

  • @sheng3229
    @sheng3229 Před 7 měsíci +18

    Wow, great video! I love Lori and Keke ❤ I still love Keke's song first crush. But yes I agree with Steve in marrying someone at your level. Thank you for the video love, hope your Friday is going well 🥰😘

  • @juanitacurrey2689
    @juanitacurrey2689 Před 7 měsíci +15

    Love your commentary. And you told the truth.

  • @MONEYM723
    @MONEYM723 Před 7 měsíci +2

    You said EVERYTHING i been saying and thinking. Hit the nail on the head. People have lost their minds.

  • @zamorapakalolo1389
    @zamorapakalolo1389 Před 7 měsíci +1

    It was over months ago looking back at their publicity photos 😂

  • @gbsalse
    @gbsalse Před 7 měsíci +5

    They are both so so gorgeous!!

  • @Harleyxjokerforever
    @Harleyxjokerforever Před 7 měsíci +14

    I don't know who Lori Harvey is but I feel for Keke.

  • @SpanishBarbieWorld
    @SpanishBarbieWorld Před 7 měsíci +8

    Finally someone realistic!!🙌🏻 this was a breathe of fresh air. don’t have to agree with everything in this video to recognize the authentic delivery, the genuine logical opinions rather than coming from a place of jealousy or being brainwashed by the hateful media.

  • @shaniavincent6457
    @shaniavincent6457 Před 7 měsíci +2

    She said these billionaires crazy yet ended up with a broke crazy🤣 LISTEN TO STEVE!!!!!!

  • @monikagracia2697
    @monikagracia2697 Před 7 měsíci +1

    My favorite video on this topic so far❤ I sent this to some young women in my family❤

  • @t.w.8174
    @t.w.8174 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This was an unexpectedly very good video. You made some nice, simple points, and definitely dropped a few pearls of wisdom. Nicely done.

  • @doreendoreen9508
    @doreendoreen9508 Před 7 měsíci +4

    😂👀💅
    Thank you Karine 😘❤️

  • @christschild818
    @christschild818 Před 7 měsíci +6

    If we say we are " Christians", we are not to pattern after sinners in Hollywood who are not good role models. God's way is ALWAYS the best way. 😊😊😮

  • @Cynni393
    @Cynni393 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Lori is Steve's Step daughter but this is her life and she wants this. I love this for her.

  • @user-wo4jb7gr7r
    @user-wo4jb7gr7r Před 7 měsíci +5

    At some point I was soo sad 😢 that I broke up with guys instead of getti g married 😂 but now I see that its a strength to leave as soon as you see incompatibilities 🎉😊

  • @MsCheriecoco
    @MsCheriecoco Před 7 měsíci +10

    Oh yeahhh, kiki wanted to see for herself and SHE DAMN WELL IS SEEING. I remember the Steve Harvey episode. I was so angry watching her saying out loud that someone like her will ALWAYS have a BIG, BIG, regret that would be with them for the REST OF THEIR LIVES. She is NEVER going to be free from Darius until her dies. For every event that has to do with their son, Darius' name will come up. Her son graduates, gets married, she will get to say the name Darius. The grand kids come along, DARIUS. They live to both see their great-grand-children, DARIUS.
    Either way, if they end up being civil with the break up or end up being extremely toxic, that name DARIUS WILL NEVER LEAVE HER LIPS. And if she is still alive and outlives him, SHE IS GOING TO HEAR HIS NAME, DARIUS. Someone's going to tell her about his passing or she will have to tell her son the news and tell close family about what has happened.
    So, ladies, YOU SEE, it is VERY, VERY, VERY, important who you chose to make a child with. Look at Ciara, 7+ years into her happy marriage and the man FUTURE is still a thorn to her. Never leaving her be.
    Lori Harvey, is EVERYTHING EVERY WOMAN WISHES THEY LOOKED LIKE. .... The girl is DROP DEAD GORGEOUSE!!!!!!..... She has ALL the TOP SINGLE black men in line WAITING TO DATE HER!!!!! She does the accepting, she does the dumping, THE POWER SHE HAS over ALL THE MEN she dates is visible. You see HOT MEN HURT that their relationship with her ENDED.... I MEAN EVEN FUTURE WAS HURT and kept shading her, Michael B Jordan WAS HURT, everyone hurt.... Rich, Freaking Beautiful, Knows her WORTH, Talentless and A Banging Body......!!!!!!!!!!!!! Of course salty people won't like her.

  • @soupafleye
    @soupafleye Před 7 měsíci +9

    this makes me sad coz i’m remembering the convo keke and steve harvey had on his show some years back. keke was dead set on believing that any man regardless of his success or income will be just as if not better for you and we’re seeing in real time yet again what insecurity does to abusive narc men. i get where she was coming tho men in general are a mess but i really wish keke had understood the importance of a confident self assured emotionally mature kind man which unfortunately often requires money :/ she settled for less and i’m sure there were moments before she got pregnant that she knew this man was not going to bring her peace or fulfillment. ugh. i’m happy lori stands her ground tho she gets so much hate it’s ridiculous

  • @aderoprescott4461
    @aderoprescott4461 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Even if Lori is sleeping with every guy that she dates, that’s her business. Set your own standards and worry about ya own.