Healing After Heartbreak | How I Moved On

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Komentáře • 352

  • @InnerBeauty
    @InnerBeauty Před 4 lety +597

    After heartbreak comes happiness, I’m engaged and getting married in less then one month...never thought I could get over my ex and here I am with the true love of my life about to get married soon.

    • @christinabermperian3883
      @christinabermperian3883 Před 3 lety +26

      this gives me so much hope

    • @mrobinson757
      @mrobinson757 Před 3 lety +6

      Me too

    • @LwaziGwegwana
      @LwaziGwegwana Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you for giving me hope. Recently parted ways with someone and I'm going through a healing process.

    • @STUIPEDCHICKEN
      @STUIPEDCHICKEN Před 3 lety +3

      I want this one day

    • @JD-tp6ei
      @JD-tp6ei Před 3 lety +7

      So happy to hear that. It’s so crazy how real that feeling is of feeling that you really will never let go of or get over an ex.

  • @Coralt30
    @Coralt30 Před 4 lety +672

    Ladies here are more tips: delete him off social media. Delete his number. And by all means do not check up on him. It’s all for the best. Leave that man in the past and focus on your future and goals. God will send the man you NEED at the right time. Love the video Melissa 💕 God bless

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 Před 3 lety

      Yessss

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 Před 3 lety +4

      It is soo hard my heart is in soo much ache now it is even the 4th month im still the same. I wonder if I will ever heal.

    • @Coralt30
      @Coralt30 Před 3 lety +6

      @@nomsantsoane3984 well, find something that fills your soul and commit to it. Seek God first and the rest will fall into place. God bless🤍

    • @nomsantsoane3984
      @nomsantsoane3984 Před 3 lety

      @@Coralt30 thank you

    • @yanismota3378
      @yanismota3378 Před 3 lety +2

      I needed to hear this…thank you 🥺🤍

  • @hillarymarie6335
    @hillarymarie6335 Před 4 lety +182

    Heartbreaks are the worst. Imagine caring, giving your whole soul to somebody, pouring your heart devotedly to that one person to only know they didn’t appreciate it all along 🥺... when people say “get over it”, but you want to but hearts says otherwise.

    • @unknownprettygirl4030
      @unknownprettygirl4030 Před 2 lety +1

      I know the feeling!!! Currently me now.

    • @calig4993
      @calig4993 Před 2 lety +2

      I seen Everything for myself tonight. I was so connected to this man. He had this power over me. No matter what we went through we had always overcame it. But this time I'm ready to let go and move on. This hurts so much! I had given him everything and been there for him since day 1. The part that will be painful and difficult to get over will be our connection and the memories 💔

    • @Loveskelly-hr
      @Loveskelly-hr Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly what im feeling right now, I thought I finally found true love and someone who really gets me and he just changed out of nowhere, I'm glad im not the only one feeling this

  • @Heatherkc1995
    @Heatherkc1995 Před 4 lety +261

    I'm going through a break up as well from a 4 year relationship. It's extremely hard as we had a great relationship and I really don't want to move on. At first I felt frustrated that I couldn't distract myself with going into the office, going to the gym, hanging with friends, etc. But I almost look at it as a blessing that it happened during quarantine. It forces you to do the deep inner work instead of distracting yourself. Every morning I wake up and spend my time journaling, meditating and reading. Some days are good and I feel like I'm happy, and other days I can't stop crying.Trying my best to lean into the discomfort and fully surrender to God's divine timing :)

    • @avibella4576
      @avibella4576 Před 4 lety +4

      I never respond to comments...but I can relate with you and wishing you the best on your new journey!!

    • @Libambe
      @Libambe Před 3 lety +3

      How are you now?

    • @brwnskngem_1725
      @brwnskngem_1725 Před 3 lety +4

      I'm there with you. Dealing with a breakup after 5 years. It's HARD

    • @yoongis.tangerine
      @yoongis.tangerine Před 3 lety

      i just broke up w a 4year relationship. its been a week and i feel much better by meditating. how are you now?

    • @tshwarelom8949
      @tshwarelom8949 Před 3 lety

      How are you today?

  • @mariasantiago4978
    @mariasantiago4978 Před 4 lety +149

    Been there. You will move on. When I look back , i think why did i cry so much. It's his loss. Muchas bendiciones.

  • @_ohniki
    @_ohniki Před 4 lety +115

    Please dont rush your healing process, it takes time and the longer you take the more sure of yourself you become.

  • @teedee643
    @teedee643 Před 4 lety +127

    God will always show you how strong you really are and you are so strong and resilient. Some of the best advice my mother has always given me and has always worked. 1. Never completely. give all of yourself to anyone. Always keep something for you. 2. Treat a break-up like a death. Give yourself time to mourn it, cry over it, put some dirt on it and bury it and let it go. 3. Never ever let them see your pain. She would say, I dont care how much you cry, scream ect behind closed doors or with friends. When they see you, you better look flawless. They dont deserve to see your pain. I always carry this advice with me and appreciate those words alway. I guess being married for 50 yrs taught her somethin...lol.

  • @diction4453
    @diction4453 Před 4 lety +77

    I met my ex when I was 17 he was 19 a baby, a couple years and engagement ring shopping later he left me "out of the blue" I had such tunnel vision of what our future together would be like, that when he broke up with me If someone asked me where do I see my self I could only see black, I felt so lost. I planned my life with him and around him. I swore to never do that again. Well anyway, I met my now-husband a month after my break up, we got married 6 months later and now we are going on 2 years of marriage. 🥰God is the Greatest

    • @sbaa33ii96
      @sbaa33ii96 Před 2 lety

      im happy for you

    • @SunnnySkies
      @SunnnySkies Před rokem

      That’s awesome 👏🏽

    • @anenaobote1339
      @anenaobote1339 Před rokem

      Wow I resonate with you about the tunnel vision about your future with your ex. I had my break almost two months ago and I’m slowly learning to see my future without him. Thanks for sharing your testimony it’s very encouraging.

  • @katrinabryant9873
    @katrinabryant9873 Před 4 lety +90

    Melissa, fun fact about me is that I love Palm Trees. They stand tall, are beautiful, and always continue to flourish. Even though storms and winds come they bend but DO NOT break. YOU are a Palm Tree! You have gone through the storm but you stand STRONG, BEAUTIFUL and UNBREAKABLE!! You will continue to flourish!!! 🌴🌴🌴🌴

  • @xashology
    @xashology Před 4 lety +96

    I appreciate this video so much. My relationship ended after 5 years and girl, I was devastated, lost and frustrated. I was in a funk for months, I decided to reach out to a therapist and it was the best decision I ever made. Losing someone after being with them for a long period of time is extremely rough. I cried everywhere, public and private. Fast forward to today, I’m much better, it gets to me but I’m doing better, focusing on myself since I sorta lost myself those years. I’m rediscovering myself, what I like, dislike, etc. Thank you for speaking on this, it’s not easy but I appreciated this. 💕

    • @ashvamo
      @ashvamo Před 4 lety +7

      Aww, I went through the same thing. Finding yourself again after being lost in a relationship is so hard. My ex and I broke up after 7 years I didn't know who I was without him. You're going to make it through this. It's so hard, but you're going to come out of this stronger than before, trust me. ❤️🙏

  • @ashvamo
    @ashvamo Před 4 lety +54

    Aww, I'm so happy you made this video, people don't talk about it enough. I know exactly what you're going through. I went through heartbreak when my ex of 7 years and I broke up. Finding yourself again can be super exciting and you need to focus on that. Mourning comes in waves though so it's normal to go through ups and downs all in the same day or hour. But let me tell you, it's worth it. Being single and finding yourself, realizing what you really want in your life and in a partner is worth it. I made a list of things that were super important to me in a partner to help me stay focused on myself and what I deserved when the f boys tried to get my attention. My current boyfriend literally checked off every item on my list! 5 years later with him and I've never been happier!💕 True love does exist, your partner is still out there and God is waiting for the right moment to bring him to you ❤️🙏

  • @leesteal4458
    @leesteal4458 Před 3 lety +14

    Breakups are hard. Therapy is important for breakups not because of childhood things that role over but because a breakup in itself is extremely difficult.

  • @LissetGamino
    @LissetGamino Před 4 lety +22

    This is why I love Melissa! I have been following her for almost 2 years now. She was at about 80-90 k followers. Always has been super real and let us into her life. Break up is a topic not many people talk about (idk why) we have all experienced at least 1 heartbreak that has changed us. Some for better some for worse. It took me about a year and a half to get over my long term relationship. I can sit here now and say i am 100% free of that negative space he still reaches out to me and I don't even respond anymore. As much as I care for him as a person I know no conversation with him will bring me anything beneficial. Take time to heal, love yourself, love those around you and cry as much as you want.

    • @breezyentertainment5764
      @breezyentertainment5764 Před 3 lety

      Nice talk baby girl
      Who would want to break up with a beauty blossom like yourself???

  • @karenuquillas3316
    @karenuquillas3316 Před 4 lety +20

    Hey Melissa - I’ve been there and done that. Therapy and praying to GOD are two amazing things. I agree. I can still you in pain and it’s normal to still be sad and cry. We all need to. Your family and friends are your biggest supporters. Friends are a big part of your life! You’re still young and healing. Enjoy your new chapter and live your life. Have fun getting to know you again and when you’re ready to meet other people you’ll know. Don’t rush. Life is so short & living alone is a good thing too. Your heart will heal & GOD will send that person to you who will love you and respect you Melissa. And I can’t wait to see him one day here with you ❤️😍 Stay strong and have fun !!!

  • @nehagupta8473
    @nehagupta8473 Před rokem +1

    Hey thanks for sharing. It's been a week since I broke up and i feel so lonely..this video and the comments made me feel like I am not alone. Thank you for putting this out.

  • @mommyyyeni3067
    @mommyyyeni3067 Před 4 lety +11

    God Has BETTER & BIGGER PLANS FOR YOU TRUST & BELIEVE ♥️♥️ LOVE YA!YOU ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVORITE YOU TUBER ♥️

  • @evettevasquez9378
    @evettevasquez9378 Před 4 lety +22

    Well from the looks of it, you doing awesome!! New place, new chapter. Hoorraayy!!! You got your own place. No cooking, cleaning, picking up for anybody or answering to anyone. Enjoy your time alone with Max. 🙏🙏🍾🥂💐🤗😜

  • @cubanjewlzz
    @cubanjewlzz Před 4 lety +8

    I wish I can give you a hug. It's okay to cry. When you go through grief it's hard to get through and it takes time. I have been through 2 heart beaks in my life time. Also lost my brother and my dad and it's been tough to be positive in life. However, God had blessed me with an incredible husband and 3 beautiful kids. Just know that someone special will find you. Also getting through a heart ache is it will make you stronger and you will find yourself. I'm proof you hun, keep killing it. It's his lost 😘👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @BlueAngel2397
    @BlueAngel2397 Před 4 lety +8

    I swear your vlogs give me peace. I’m going through a messy divorce and i’m in a bit of a dark place. But your videos always cheer me up and bring me positivity. Your energy is healing. Please don’t ever stop making videos.

  • @yupmsblk
    @yupmsblk Před 2 lety +3

    A broken heart brought me here... When I clicked on your profile I see you're over your broken heart, in a new relationship and expecting!!! So inspirational. Congratulations! I can't wait to be on the other side of where I am right now. 😥

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      Hi, I would Loved to recommend you to Dr Steve who can help you get your Ex Back to beg you for a second chance and also help you attract whosever you want in your life (Sp). He helped me restore my 6yrs broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep to his words and I would advice you seek his help now thanks.

    • @emmaava9935
      @emmaava9935 Před 2 lety

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two days.....

    • @emmaava9935
      @emmaava9935 Před 2 lety

      He helped me restore back my ex three days ago he does a perfect work text him, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 💞💞

    • @emmaava9935
      @emmaava9935 Před 2 lety

      WhatsApp him for help....

  • @sunshinejewel2952
    @sunshinejewel2952 Před 4 lety +70

    It’s okay to cry Melissa! ❤️❤️

    • @chosenone4897
      @chosenone4897 Před 3 lety +1

      U are so sweet,, I also have a hard time crying in front of people,, it makes me feel weak

    • @sunshinejewel2952
      @sunshinejewel2952 Před 3 lety +2

      @@chosenone4897 thank you ❤️I can be the same way mostly in front of my family. I dont want them to see me weak but I know they care and sometimes it’s okay to be vulnerable.

  • @katyfl3849
    @katyfl3849 Před 4 lety +17

    I don’t know you personally but you seem strong, smart and go-getter.... Don’t look back!!!... Wish you the very best XOXO 😘

  • @helenpadilla7003
    @helenpadilla7003 Před 4 lety +16

    Thank you for being so open. You are so inspirational not just because of your breakup situation. But because of how positive and kind you are. Mija tu te mereces todo lo bueno en esta vida y se que dios te va a bendecir.

  • @doyenvillarin9178
    @doyenvillarin9178 Před 2 lety +1

    It's really hurts like dying inner inside heart pain....I hope all who suffer this pain we heal

  • @Just.Jennifer
    @Just.Jennifer Před 4 lety +29

    Damnnn this is none of my business but i want to know the full tea 😩 !

  • @EmmaMayo93
    @EmmaMayo93 Před 4 lety +12

    Therapy is a amazing tool to use. But i watch every video even though this video doesnt relate to my 1000 year single azz. But yes queen the glow up is showing. Push through

  • @Megan-19
    @Megan-19 Před 4 lety +11

    Honestly....the hair, the outfit, the intro...YAASSSSSS!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @LeshaAnnMarie
    @LeshaAnnMarie Před 3 lety +3

    The sun always shines after a storm !

  • @Sheesh8
    @Sheesh8 Před 4 lety +2

    100% agree that cutting ALL contact will extremely help when getting over a heart break. Literally THE most important step. (If you share kids obviously this can’t be helped). Melissa thank you for opening up 💕 we love you and we got you 💛 UK 🇬🇧 fam xxx

  • @_iiamdenisem
    @_iiamdenisem Před 4 lety +5

    Therapy definitely helps! It helped me while i was going through a tough breakup as well; also self empowerment books, videos, and podcasts help sooo much! 💜

    • @mishapersaud95
      @mishapersaud95 Před 4 lety

      do you have any recommendations for books & podcasts?

    • @_iiamdenisem
      @_iiamdenisem Před 4 lety

      misha per any podcast, videos, or books about taking your power back is great in my opinion; often when we’re put in these situations we forget the power we have which leads to low confidence etc..some of my favorite videos are from Isabel Palacios, MJharris as well he’s great and his energy is contagious! I also follow a few accounts on Instagram that help with healing overall; check out these accounts @the.holistic.psychologist @lizlistens @sitwithsharon @dr.thema

    • @_iiamdenisem
      @_iiamdenisem Před 4 lety

      misha per also look up @Derrickjaxn on instagram and youtube HES AMAZING!! He also has a book out called Don’t Forget Your Crown

  • @andreasolera9066
    @andreasolera9066 Před 3 lety +4

    Sitting here crying my eyes out because everything you said you did, I have chosen to do for myself previous to watching this so this video validated my healing journey so much. Thank you for this video 🥺

    • @auwalidris4306
      @auwalidris4306 Před 3 lety

      Hello dear,I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who help me restore my 6years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you, begging you for a second chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise,I will advice you seek his help, thanks

    • @auwalidris4306
      @auwalidris4306 Před 3 lety

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      @auwalidris4306 Před 3 lety

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    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 Před 2 lety

      Hello lovely I can introduce you to the same powerful relationship restorer who helped me to recover back my ex fiancee. He can also help you to get back with yours and make your relationship to blossom Forever.

    • @christabelhaneul4939
      @christabelhaneul4939 Před 2 lety

      Message him on whatsapp

  • @susyvallejo217
    @susyvallejo217 Před 4 lety +5

    Thanks for sharing your story. I went through. A huge heart break a year and a half ago and besides praying, therapy helped me too. I cried a lot there but it helps especially with anxiety and overwhelm. I’ve been single since and feel at peace and happy now that it happened. Loving myself and working on my work and small business. Glad you’re doing well too and no worries Diosito got us🥰

  • @kiaracaraballo8935
    @kiaracaraballo8935 Před 4 lety +7

    Everything really does happen for a reason. You’ve discovered yourself !!! Thank you for this, inspiring XO

  • @funcolorfulandsafespace4693

    I am going through a very hard, tough and Immature breakup. I was with a guy that I thought I was going to marry ( I'm a gay man) and 3 days after my birthday he broke up with me. What transpired after that was even more bizarre, I found out he was telling his close friends he broke up with me because he didn't like our place where we lived and also I didn't satisfy him sexually. I also found out he was texting another man 1 week prior to our 2nd anniversary where he was inviting them to an art show. His treatment towards me after all of that craziness was cold, he cut me off like a piece of trash. What hurts is the fact that I invested so many beautiful things with him and treated him like a king. I've never been through anything like this before, it's been almost 6 months and I am healing very well but I still have my moments . The disrespect of this person is crazy. He texted me saying he thought of me which i find crazy. haven't told anyone this and already I feel great. 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @Morecorecore
    @Morecorecore Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this video ❤️

  • @lennyladd3253
    @lennyladd3253 Před 2 lety +1

    You given me the strength to block this person so I can move on, my heart is broken and I feel this is the start I need to heal my heart, I'm so lost so empty and the grieving I'm feeling my heart ache so much, but I know this is the best for me and need it to do this for my self to start my healing because I whorty, this person crush me and I have to pick up the pieces and start to put my life together, this men only was manipulative and narcissistic, right now I have anxiety medication and going to therapy because he only give me heart break this help a lot because made me realize I'm not the only person dealing with this, like you said you deserve better and I'm with you I deserve better and I don't deserve for him to treat me like crap.😥

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 Před 2 lety

      *i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man 🇺🇸 that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*

    • @thetarotcottage7262
      @thetarotcottage7262 Před 2 lety

      *➕2349159558749⏯*??????????

  • @claudiacalderon201
    @claudiacalderon201 Před 4 lety +4

    You glow different when you grow different 🌹 So happy to see you blossoming into this new you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us 🤍

  • @courtneymorgan9227
    @courtneymorgan9227 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you sm for mentioning therapy. Im a therapist & I really believe in the importance of ending the stigma of going to therapy!! Praying for your continued healing 🤍

  • @browngirl5905
    @browngirl5905 Před 4 lety +4

    Great info! Therapy is good for many reasons , especially anxiety. I’m so happy that your feeling much better and that you have your new apartment. 💕💕💕💕💕💕 I wish you nothing but happiness and good health.

  • @amandaleighplans
    @amandaleighplans Před 2 lety +1

    This is so wild, I’m reeling after a long term relationship has just ended and her name is Melissa, she’s also from NJ. We currently live in MD together. I move out in one month and I’m devastated, I don’t want this. But thank you for making this video, I’ve been watching similar ones all day and it really helps. I hope one day I’ll get over her.

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 Před 2 lety

      Maybe I cannot feel your pain, but I can understand it. It feels as if thousands of needles just pierced your heart when you part away from someone you truly love. It is equally true that we want to live with them at any cost. We would be ready to do anything to be with them. But we also have to understand the fact that we cannot force anyone, even if they are the love of our life, to be with us. Ask yourself, do you want to live with someone, who does not want to live with you? I have seen many youtube channels running with content like, manifest your ex back, etc. Do we want to get that kind of love using such methods? Love is supposed to heal us, not degrade us. All I want to say is that don't suppress your emotions. If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, scream. But never suppress them. I know it is very easy for me to tell you all of this, but believe me, I have been there before. I know whatever I am talking about here won't make any sense to you right now. Gradually you will see you are making certain progress. Try to connect with spirituality. It will help you. With spirituality, I don't mean that you should become extremely religious. What I mean is that you should connect with something, that liberates you. I hope you will be fine. Sending prayers and love sister ❤❤

  • @juanameta
    @juanameta Před 4 lety +1

    It's all good girl!!
    Therapy hands down works! Especially because they don't know on a personal level which helps them see you from another perspective.
    I can relate from a personal level from a break up and starting over, new place, new mind set, etc.
    You will get better, just take it one day at a time and don't feel like you have to hold in the tears, let it out!
    Much love and thanks for sharing.♥️♥️♥️🐕🏡🙏

  • @helisabetespitia4817
    @helisabetespitia4817 Před 4 lety +3

    So proud of you♥️ I swear every time I watch your videos I feel like you’re my soul sister lol we’re SO ALIKE and think exactly the same. Better things will come, PROMISE! Something I had to remember during a similar situation years ago was sometimes you have to let go of what you “want” to be able to get what you NEED and deserve. I’m so happy you’re enjoying yourself! Praying for you! Xo

  • @stepha3735
    @stepha3735 Před 4 lety +2

    You're an inspiration and everyone goes through there struggles and I commend you for making it public. You're strong and have a great head shoulders. God bless you!!!

  • @DL-vibes
    @DL-vibes Před 3 lety +1

    And here I am watching this. :( First I feel you and yes therapy is my step too. I just signed up for BetterHelp. Sooo good. To be real it hurts a thousand times what we are feelin rn. It’s sooo painful and you can’t get the thoughts out of your head. I hope I get stronger over time but now it’s hard.

  • @Sara-mq6wq
    @Sara-mq6wq Před 4 lety +2

    Girl, I just love you so much!! I'm not going through a breakup and still got something out of this video. Thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @shandrigonsalves
    @shandrigonsalves Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this will benefit so many women and men. Relationships are hard as it is especially having when having long term one but you pulled through and made it. Anxiety isn’t easy and I know it. Trust me. I’m glad you are doing much better. If you need anything girl we are here to pull you up. God is your strength. 🙌🏻🙏🏻 Therapy is an amazing opportunity!!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @BraveModesty
    @BraveModesty Před 4 lety +3

    thank you May God bless you and remember get lost in God first and your husband will find you.

  • @ceeairig.beauty3836
    @ceeairig.beauty3836 Před 4 lety

    thank you for being so open and honest with us, you have no idea how much your story helps others and helps us knowing we’re not alone🤍🤍🤍

  • @MwenyaM
    @MwenyaM Před 2 lety +1

    Recently got out of a 4 year relationship and honestly I cry everywhere 😔😭and all he said was get over it while he’s happy and I’m hurting . I drag myself to work all the time and it’s taking a toll on my mental health and everything 😭😭😭💔💔💔😪

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      @ehinmowoigbala1570 Před 2 lety

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      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

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      @christabelhaneul4939 Před 2 lety

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  • @kiara4037
    @kiara4037 Před 4 lety +1

    Yes Melissa its okay to cry and trust me god puts things in our life to make you a better version of yourself ❤️👏🏻🙌🏽

  • @rosariovarela1551
    @rosariovarela1551 Před 4 lety +3

    You're so strong 👍God heals every wound 🙏 Great advice but the process is so hard have been there before ..

  • @kayjay6908
    @kayjay6908 Před 4 lety +5

    I deeply feel everything you’re saying. My ex and I broke up at the end of last December and I really had a hard time getting to know myself again. Definitely brought up some child hood trauma I didn’t know was affecting my relationship at the time also. I still cry and have dreams and nightmares about him. Healing is a continuous process. I haven’t talked to a therapist yet though but it’s something I’d still like to do. Thank you for this vid, you’re doing amazing and it’s very inspiring to hear someone else say they just want to be single for now also. Keep thriving ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ambermir7023
    @ambermir7023 Před 4 lety +2

    The first tip: having good frnds or someone to talk to! I have no one and when I say no one,I mean it. I just don't want to talk to anyone during this time. 😢

    • @PatriciaCV9
      @PatriciaCV9 Před 3 lety

      You have a whole community in here 💕

    • @ambermir7023
      @ambermir7023 Před 3 lety

      @@PatriciaCV9 aww. That's so kind of you 😢😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @salinacuffy6064
    @salinacuffy6064 Před 4 lety

    Watching this video now as I am catching up on your videos. This made me emotional. I am so glad you are mentally in a better place now. Break ups are so hard especially when you’ve been with the person for years. It’s like your whole world kind of revolved around that person. You are worthy! You are loved! Life is not over! 💜✨

  • @shantalltroncoso
    @shantalltroncoso Před 4 lety +1

    We love you, Melissa. Please continue to take care of yourself. You’re doing great✨

  • @drq1561
    @drq1561 Před 4 lety

    Sticking to your family and friends who care is the best way to get through this ..

  • @lindokuhlejele4627
    @lindokuhlejele4627 Před 2 lety +1

    Going through u first heartbreak.😭😭😭

  • @helenaslifestyle8595
    @helenaslifestyle8595 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing Melissa. It took a lot of guts to post this video. I wish you continued happiness and success. 💕

  • @roseh2103
    @roseh2103 Před 4 lety +2

    Hey Beautiful 🥰 You’re such a genuine person ❤️ Glad ur able to be open up and be vulnerable. That takes a lot of courage. Stay blessed 💕

  • @JackieG18
    @JackieG18 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing and being the strong babe I know you are.. sometimes in a relationship we lose ourselves but now u have a chance to find yourself again!!! Wishing u the best of luck on your new journey.

  • @yesenaigutierrezmua
    @yesenaigutierrezmua Před 4 lety

    thank you for being so vulnerable with us, this video made me like you even more. your videos really make me feel like im just chatting with a friend. i don’t share that i also went to therapy but i can say now it was an incredible experience for myself and my future. stay strong
    🙏🏼💛

  • @veronicagiron3486
    @veronicagiron3486 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing girl. 💗 You’re so strong and I’m so happy to see all your successes.

  • @dalajiawilliams9737
    @dalajiawilliams9737 Před 3 lety

    Simple tips, but your genuine approach was everything and more. ❤️ Thank you…❤️

  • @Motherofreeds
    @Motherofreeds Před 4 lety

    Appreciate you being so open. You are and always have been genuine, kind, beautiful,etc.

  • @brownies7184
    @brownies7184 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Melissa for being so open. You have helped a lot of people just hearing your story. I sooo admire you. I love the new you she is AMAZING can’t wait to see why you have for us!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @KaFe
    @KaFe Před 4 lety

    Awesome tips. I strongly recommend therapy. It's life changing. I'm so happy you're taking care YOU. Loved this video!

  • @Energyglow
    @Energyglow Před 4 lety +2

    💕💕 Just want to show you love! I have felt this pain before. Your heart heals! Love the new intro!!

  • @amandat8273
    @amandat8273 Před 4 lety +2

    You’re solid gold Melissa ✨. Thankful for you!

  • @osiriscampos4871
    @osiriscampos4871 Před 4 lety +6

    The one and only therapy is God ❤️... BTW you look beautiful can we have a makeup video like this 😁😁😁... I’m glad you are moving on! 😘

  • @Bella-ei6gv
    @Bella-ei6gv Před 2 lety +1

    I don’t have literally anyone to talk to and it’s so hard

  • @TheJuiicymelanie
    @TheJuiicymelanie Před 3 lety +1

    I’m watching this after going thru a break up. It’s only been like a week, but I’ve felt pain for almost this whole year. We’ve broken up so many times during this quarantine, we were only seeing eachother once a month since corona virus started and that’s where I feel where we started just growing apart. So many arguments and disagreements but this time, I feel like it’s real. It’s come to that point 😞 especially since it’s a new year. And he’s been in another state for about 2 months now... probably moving there soon. So this hurts.... I’ve been feeling so lonely.

  • @eileenemilybeauty
    @eileenemilybeauty Před 4 lety

    You are such an inspiration love and I love seeing how strong you are🙌🏽you have come a long way the sky is the limit🙏🏽sending you lots of love and hugs💕😘

  • @stephaniegomez1987
    @stephaniegomez1987 Před 4 lety +1

    You are so Strong! Life will get better! 💕thank you for sharing.

  • @aivah07
    @aivah07 Před 4 lety +1

    Melissa. I’ve been there believe me but THANK YOU for being vulnerable and sharing this with us ❤️

  • @mercedezlasiter3675
    @mercedezlasiter3675 Před 4 lety +1

    you made me want to go bar hopping but I was at work. This is a good video! Probably my favorite because you're learning about yourself.

  • @tashalynnx13
    @tashalynnx13 Před rokem

    I searched “how to heal after a long term relationship” and your video popped up. I never envisioned myself to be in this situation. And I never thought that it would affect me as much as it does. But after eight years with somebody, doing everything with that person, it obviously is going to affect somebody. It was my decision to leave the relationship because my ex partner refused to get help for his addiction. It is a hard pill to swallow to know that you did everything you could, But ultimately that person still chose the addiction over you. I’m having a hard time getting over the fact that even after he had hit what should have been, rock bottom, so many times, it still wasn’t enough. I had left him and took a break from him, hoping he would decide that he wants his family back and he would get better, but that did not work either. He actually enjoyed his time alone and would just use drugs and alcohol more. He didn’t have me hanging over his head telling him not to do it so that plan backfired on me because he actually decided he’d rather be apart than together. I had already started mourning our relationship before it ended. I’m still in mourning now. This all happened while I was finishing nursing school, during my graduation, and trying to find a new job. I had to move into a place by myself because I could not afford to live in the home that we shared. He moved with his family. This has all been so hard on me that I don’t even want to get out of bed and go to work most days. I am obviously taking the necessary steps to go back to therapy and exercise more and try to take care of myself but I’m just here to say that your video resonates with me a lot. I think a lot of women and a lot of people in General have been through this and it really is enough to make a person want to give up but there’s always a reason to keep going. My reason is my little pug, she needs me. I have to keep chugging along for her and my mom and sisters. Find your reason and keep living!!! And also yes, I 100% agree with a clean break. My ex was still text me as if we are friends and I have to just ignore his messages. He doesn’t understand the pain he has caused me any thinks he can just still be a part of my life. You definitely have to just ignore or block. Otherwise you are going to have a hard time moving on!

    • @laurenmorgan9946
      @laurenmorgan9946 Před rokem

      Yeah, 12 years here. Same exact story as you. Mine was in and still in addiction to and he's living at the damn druggie house I moved in with my dad. I also left mine and he keeps future faking and texting me so casual like. Sometimes I do wonder if me walking away was worth this pain. It's been about a month

  • @taylorstryker
    @taylorstryker Před 4 lety

    i've been following this story for a while because i am a jersey girl living in PA and i;m moving to Baltimore to be with my long distance relationship for over a year I cant wait to finally be together. you will be ok girl. you are resilient! fall 7 times stand up 8

  • @Jennnxoh35
    @Jennnxoh35 Před 4 lety

    being kind to yourself is also so so important 💛

  • @roxannebalerio3600
    @roxannebalerio3600 Před 4 lety

    You are beautiful inside and out. Im so proud of you beautiful. Talking about relationships is always hard. You got this beautiful. 🤍

  • @sarahferreira5708
    @sarahferreira5708 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video.Glad you are doing much better, take it day by day and dont rush into another relationship.I believe that what you went through was a learning experience.keep praying and god will answer.🙏😘

  • @evitahouston6348
    @evitahouston6348 Před 4 lety

    Thank you, Melissa, for sharing your heart with us. God knows what's best. he will provide always

  • @lilyn830
    @lilyn830 Před 3 lety

    I hope you’re doing better! I broke up 8 months ago, and I did my best to forget about the whole thing, but still I hear about him and what he does accidentally and my heart wants to explode! I really don’t know how else I can try to heal.

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      @auwalidris4306 Před 3 lety

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  • @nathaliemora4933
    @nathaliemora4933 Před 4 lety

    I am so glad you made this video!! Continue to take care of yourself beautiful!

  • @shannonalyssa9140
    @shannonalyssa9140 Před 4 lety

    Loved this video and the vulnerability you showed, therapy is such a vital part of self care💕💕

  • @JenSumma
    @JenSumma Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing. Your words still help so many other people struggling with life

  • @jeseniadiaz4762
    @jeseniadiaz4762 Před 4 lety +1

    Melissa thank you for sharing. You seem to be such an amazing person. Can you do a video about your anxiety. I’m someone that has been dealing with anxiety for many years. I like listening to others experience and what has helped them.

  • @mildredmedina4325
    @mildredmedina4325 Před 4 lety

    You are a strong women ! Keep your head up and never give up on yourself . ❤️❤️🙂

  • @getbusydrizzy5296
    @getbusydrizzy5296 Před 3 lety

    I needed this video. I appreciate. Your very patient and honest. Very helpful please keep these videos coming

  • @chulie7879
    @chulie7879 Před 4 lety

    I am so happy for you!! And thank you for making this video!! I too went through a hard break up at the beginning of the year and watching this video I understand how it takes you back to a dark place. Hearing your pain reminded me of mine. And like you I am in a better place now and talking about the hard times takes you back. Time really does wonders. I appreciate you doing this video and wish you nothing but the best❤️💕

  • @gillianbaez8427
    @gillianbaez8427 Před 4 lety +1

    Love you Melissa! Loved this video of being so vulnerable. Sending you so much love!! ✨✨✨

  • @jamieavernaa
    @jamieavernaa Před 4 lety

    the new intro is 😍😍😍 you're so strong for sharing this though. love you forever ❤️

  • @Gery
    @Gery Před 4 lety +6

    Ahh this intro is soo good 😍😍😍 and thanks for opening up ❤️

    • @itsmelissaflores
      @itsmelissaflores  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment 💕

  • @6last3d
    @6last3d Před 2 lety +3

    like 2 hours ago i got blocked by the guys i thought “loved me” but was just using me for my body. we’ve broken up 6 times, he doesn’t even break up with me he just blocks me, moves on, then comes back and i take him back. i dont know how to stop the habit because i cry so much about him and still manage to have some type of feelings for him.

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  • @sarahlalla
    @sarahlalla Před 4 lety

    Great video. !!!! Alot of great advice. Again I'm so sorry what you when through and still going through... keep strong. Keep being you ! ⚘⚘🌷🌷🌷🥀🥀🌹🌹🌹🌹🐶🐶🐶🐶🙂🙂🙂☕☕🐕🐕🐕🐕✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼😍😍😍💐♥️💋💋💋💋💟😎😎💟💟💟🍾💜💜🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @marciafab7
    @marciafab7 Před 4 lety

    Very difficult times. Been there. ❤
    Be gentle with yourself.

  • @PeaceloveKathy612
    @PeaceloveKathy612 Před 4 lety +2

    I loved this video! it helped me so much just now. It's appreciated

  • @cynthiatoro3929
    @cynthiatoro3929 Před 4 lety

    This is amazing Melissa, thank you for sharing and being so open with us ❤️

  • @abarb2009
    @abarb2009 Před 4 lety +1

    🙏🏻💕You are the same person just stronger.

  • @AlgebraNerd06
    @AlgebraNerd06 Před 4 lety

    Hi! I’m a new subscriber. I had seen your other video that wasn’t long ago. I’m not in the same position as you, but I appreciate you opening up and giving advice that anyone can use! I think once someone starts watching your videos they genuinely want to know how you are doing. I’m happy for you in finding happiness and tranquility. I know it’s not easy. And even more now during quarantine. I pray all the best for you. I’m excited to continue supporting your channel💖

  • @vlogsbycaitlin3337
    @vlogsbycaitlin3337 Před 4 lety

    Love this video! Thank you for keeping it real and being so open and honest.