navigating heartbreak - finding self, healing, learning
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- čas přidán 28. 10. 2022
- Hi friends - Keeping it real here with a very vulnerable video about what I have been going through for the past month and just felt right to show up and share this. Rather than it being breakup-focused, I want to make it more about navigating back to yourself through heartbreak because it comes in many forms for various reasons. A few days after this happened I immediately turned to the internet and tried to find something to hold onto and what I found were stories about the breakup specifically but I wanted to make this more self-focused since every situation is so different. I hope your heart feels comforted by this insight into my heartbreak. I hope you feel seen and heard but also hopeful for yourself and possibly inspired to try any of these things. I hope this is a reminder to be gentle with yourself and that no one really knows how to handle heartbreak and you are never alone. I love you! Hang in there
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A soulmate is not found, it is made. Partners should choose each other every day and unfortunately he decided not to choose you. But don’t let that lead to questions of why. It’s not your fault. You are worthy of all the love, someone that sees that, and someone that chooses you over and over again.
I disagree. I don't believe you "make" a soulmate any more than you can make someone else "be" anything for you, people are what they are and I don't believe that is up to you or within your realm of control. It seems arrogant to me, to think you get to decide something like that.
I hope your doing better. I was literally dying a couple of months ago. I am not there yet but I am in a good space now. I'd never wish a heartbreak on anyone even on my worst enemy
Girl I think the same as you❤
the pit in the stomach is such a real thing.
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Especially the pain in your heart . It’s a stabbing pain. I’m going through it
I'm going to a breakup right now. I never felt so much pain. I feel like there is no future for me, no life, no happiness. I will never feel safe as I felt with him...
Found out he cheated last week at a party, received oral. I thought he was my best friend. But he did not choose me after I chose him for 4 years.
You are safer with yourself than in the arms of others who have the potential to destroy you.
I don't feel safe too
This really helped me. I just had a marriage ceremony with my ex 2 weeks ago and the day after our honeymoon he decided to tell me he wasn’t in love with me anymore and didn’t see a family with me. Therefore, he refused to send our license in. I had no clue whatsoever and was extremely confused since we just had a ceremony. I’m def going through the grieving stage since we were together for 6 years, but this video helped me a lot. Thank you for posting this.
He is cruel gosh
Sending you big hugs! Experiencing heartbreak as well. Thank you for your honesty and for sharing this video. It helped me to feel less alone. You're so strong ♥️
This was honest raw and beautiful! You are moving through this with so much grace! Thank you for sharing
This video is filled with raw emotion that really got to me. I feel your pain and it reminded me of my own heartbreak (had to cry all the time :D) It sounds pathetic but time will heal your wounds. I just want to thank you for your honesty and authenticity!
I followed you a few months ago because of the ceramics. And I was really worried on your IG stories that you're going through this. I thought you guys were just so happy. I'm also going through a heartbreak right now. I have to watch this video because it also helps me on how to move on with the feelings.
I hope you're doing well these days. I wish you the best.
I hope you will pass this time and feel everything without resistence
We are here for you
So much love ❤❤
wow. that felt like i was watching myself the last two months. thank you for making this and sharing with the world. your vulnerability is inspiring.
you are so strong!! I'm going through the same thing right now, worst heartbreak I've ever felt, but I see the growth already, even if it's one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. We're gonna get through this and come out a higher versions of ourselves, everyday is a different - and that's actually the beauty of it. sending you so so so much love.
Send you a hug, im feeling the same.
Thank you so much for sharing something so emotional, vulnerable and personal. I’m sure it’s important for many people, as it is for myself
Oh my god, I've been watching youtube since it was a thing and I think this was one of the most interesting videos I've ever came across. You are amazing and the only thing I could think of throughout the video is how you are a great example of women just being incredible. Sending love
beautiful, wonderful teya. thank you for sharing this. i had to let go of the man i believe might be my person on friday, for reasons beyond my control. and it’s been so hard. this felt like a much needed hug. so thank you 🤍
hhis video reminds me of myself at a stage, where I felt like nothing could ever make me feel ok again.
I had a heartbreak and it felt like the world ended in a way. your video showed me, how far I've come and how much I learned from it all. thanks :)
I'm going thru it now.. I feel for you.. big hugs
just got out of a year and half relationship, I was with him until I moved away to the Philippines so the second half of our relationship was LDR. told me he lost feelings for me, and it hurt the most because he was my number one support system. nobody was at fault and the breakup was mutual, but it just hurts so much losing somebody you love. thank you so much for sharing, I hope to get through this pain one day at a time.
I'm so proud of you
You literally have my dream hair
Bless, Wish the best for you and your journey ♥️
Thank you for sharing your healing process, it made me cry but also feels good to see that we are not alone. Sending you lots of love and hugs Teya
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two days🥰🥰
Sending you love ❤Thank you for sharing
❤❤❤❤❤ Sending lots of love and healing❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing 🦋🦋
your words are so accurate
You're beautiful queen
Thanks a lot for sharing this video! It is definitely so inspiring and real. So glad to have found your CZcams channel! All the love!
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two days🥰🥰
Whatsapp him☝️☝️☝️☝️
I hope you are doing okay and im glad of the changes you showed towards the end of the video. i am going thru my first heartbreak right now. i find talking about it reduces the pain by 2% at least. my partner of 9 years decided to left for the reason that i didnt treat her good enough and shes done with me. ive been trying to win her back for 4 months but today she asked me to let her go fully cuz shes dating someone else. shes been dating few people a month after it happened. it was never a breakup for me cuz i didnt want it so seeing her w someone else kills me cuz to me shes still mine. i feel like my whole life has ended before it even begins, im 27 now which the most important agento be stable and get married but its over for me. i dont think i'll ever love someone else ever bcuz im tired and i think its pointless. if a partner who knows everything about me, my strength, my weakness, bad and good, for 9 years together can get up and leave, why not anyone? its pointless. i dont know how to move forward but setting new goals for me helps a bit. i am ambitious and brave and loyal. and being loyal backfired on me. i loved her too much so now its hurting too much. idk
Going through a similar situation. I know it's hard. But let's try our best to stay strong. Sending healing energy and hugs!! We're not alone.
@aiden I hope you're doing much better now, that sounds incredibly painful
Aiden, I hope you are feeling better, and have hope. Be the best person you can be and love others, love will find you.
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I got broken up with about a week ago, after nearly 6 years together. He was living abroad for 4 months, and when he returned we were gonna move in together. But about halfway through, he came home for a weekend and it was an amazing weekend, too. We went camping and talked and hiked and sat at a campfire together. I visited him the weekend after (travelled 6 hours!!) to get there, and after going out for dinner, walking around his city and discussing the rest of the weekend, he waited until nearly midnight to tell me he hasn't had feelings for me since before he moved away. All that time he told me he loved me and that he missed me, but he wasn't in love me anymore when he said those things. Gosh, it physically hurts and the future we had discussed is now gone.
You will get through this! Sending you so much love 💗💗💗
The fact that I relate so much to thins-The pain really is physical😭It's tangible LMAO ngathi I'd die and resurrect when the pain is little lesser.
I'm really going through a really hard times and i have exams n it's so hard to go through breakups 😭
Im just exhausted from the mental strain it’s put on my mind and my emotions. I keep journaling and it provides temporary relief but god do I miss him everyday so much. I want this to end and not knowing when it will is the part that kills me like I don’t have any hope that this will end soon. I want nothing more than to text him but im not going to. Im two months in god does it suck. He is never more than one thought away weather im working cleaning driving. My heart hurts and my brain hurts god does this consume so much energy. I don’t know if I’ll ever be okay again but I hope the rest of you guys heal up all the way❤
Just because still makes you cry doesn’t mean you aren’t moving on. I’m 2 months in too, and yes I miss him, I have accepted the fact that I’m always going to love him, bc at some point he was a really important person in my life, but we live without them before and we’ll do it again, let yourself be sad and cry all you want, but don’t think about the what if’s, try to wash it off, hope is the worst when going thru a heartbreak, but remember the love you gave them came from within you. You were always a lover, already someone who could love deeply, just bc they’re gone doesn’t mean that goes away. THEY DIDNT GIVE YOU THE CAPACITY TO LOVE, THEY JUST GAVE YOU A PLACE TO EXPRESS IT. And we shall fall in love again!!! We got this girl, don’t text him, remember he decided to walk away and you’re worth it, he’ll come back, bc they usually do but don’t let him, remember he broke you when you never deserved that, you probably always going to love him too, but just like you love an old friend, you’ll fall in love again, pray and pray and pray, sending you lots of love girl🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
English is not my native language, so sorry in advance for the misspelling 😭🫶🏽
@zuriii03 I’m only seeing this now❤ thank you so much for all the positive words of encouragement. I might not know you but you definitely helped me even today he crossed my mind especially with it being the 14th of Feb. I hope your heart is doing better and so are you. We will get through this and love again someday. I hope your doing well today sending love from South Africa
Three months for me today, and I feel the same exact way that you do. Sending you a comforting and empathetic hug your way. 🥺
Thank you so much for this video. Im feeling so lost and lonely but now i realise im not alone in this.
im feeling like a dead. so much hurt and sadness
send you a hag, you Are so cute 🫶🏻
Sorry about my english..
I'm going through a break, i don't know what to do I'm stuck
First and foremost I’m going through the same thing and you’re not alone. For me it happened a couple days ago and what has helped is just letting myself feel every emotion. Our thoughts and feelings don’t really define us, it’s how we react to them is what defines us.
@@angelocastorani8744 yes, I'm getting better now. Thanks for your concern