Steven Sharp Nelson: How to find peace with loss through music | TED

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  • Music can act as a guide, says cellist Steven Sharp Nelson. It has the power to unlock the mind, tap into the heart and bring light in the darkest times. Take a deep breath as Nelson takes you on a melodic, meditative journey that could reconnect you with your closest loved ones -- no matter how near or far they may be.
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Komentáře • 157

  • @StevenSharpNelson
    @StevenSharpNelson Před 2 lety +161

    I’m so grateful for these comments! I read every one of them. Hearing your heartfelt stories feeds my soul. Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @anupomasharminanonya4756
      @anupomasharminanonya4756 Před 2 lety +2

      I was having an anxiety-ridden day. Thanks for the melody man!

    • @norsyazwaniahmadsazeli3885
      @norsyazwaniahmadsazeli3885 Před 2 lety +2

      you are my inspiration ❤️🥺

    • @stayarmy4797
      @stayarmy4797 Před 2 lety +3

      I lost my grand-father 3 months ago...and i couldn't get out of the situation....but thank you so much Steven , you really helped me a, my family and a-lot of people out there by sharing your story and playing the sweetest and hear-warming melody...thank you so much for lowing down my stress .

    • @user-uc7wb2sv8e
      @user-uc7wb2sv8e Před 2 lety +3

      My father had a serious anemia when I was 7 years old. Doctors also said that he may live longer than 5 years, but he loved me so dearly, he struggled to live and always standing by my side to support me. When I was 15, his condition was worse than ever, but I was so traitorous that I didn’t even have the chance to say goodbye to him, I didn’t have the chance to give him a hug, a kiss. I suffered a lot whenever I thought of this regretful memory, but just now, when I followed your music, I got that chance. I finally able to rewrite the memory with him. Thank you so much Steven. You healed me.

    • @TheKingofHearts777
      @TheKingofHearts777 Před 2 lety +2

      You were amazing in this performance! Thanks for being you!

  • @melissahendrix2830
    @melissahendrix2830 Před 8 měsíci +2

    The tears are still streaming down my face. I have always felt my dad near me since he passed nearly 4 years ago but I had so many things left unsaid, so many regrets for lost chances to tell my dad how much I love him, how thankful I am for everything he did for me, and how precious he is to me. How sorry I am for the trouble I often was.
    Thank you, Steve, for using your God-given gift to lead me through a chance to say all of those things to him and to feel his strong arms around me around me again. My tears are now tears of joy.❤

  • @avani3339
    @avani3339 Před 2 lety +68

    Watching him enjoy what he's doing only makes us love it even more!

  • @cmucodemonkey
    @cmucodemonkey Před 2 lety +22

    My high school band teacher passed away earlier this year and it was devastating. Although I had already been playing an instrument for 4 years prior to high school, he was the one who really ignited that passion for music that still burns inside me to this day. A piece of music in his honor has been commissioned and will be played for the first time in December.
    Miss you everyday Jason. RIP my friend.

  • @janakmachchhar3298
    @janakmachchhar3298 Před 2 lety +44

    His face resonates the music he produces! Lovely!

  • @bevblackburn8686
    @bevblackburn8686 Před 2 lety +7

    My brother, Jason, died by suicide earlier this year & my mother, Linda, has latter stage FT dementia. Watching this video brought me to tears, not only because of its passion but because of its beauty. I did close my eyes & imagine as Steven suggested...& the tears flowed freely. RIP Jason, I love you & miss you every day

  • @monongahelacats
    @monongahelacats Před 8 měsíci +1

    I’ve never seen anyone project so much joy as does Steven when playing his music.

  • @rnedlo9909
    @rnedlo9909 Před 2 lety +52

    Thank you for sharing that with us. My mother too had the voice of an angel. She had a full paid scholarship to Julliard but gave it up to be a wife and mother. I often was a one person audience and when she hit that high 'C' note I felt like I was levitating.

    • @jmarie4056
      @jmarie4056 Před 2 lety +4

      Beautiful! May The Perpetual Light Shine Upon Your Mother, and May She Bring Harmony in Heaven with her Angelic Voice!

    • @StevenSharpNelson
      @StevenSharpNelson Před 2 lety +8

      Thank you for sharing! Sounds like we’re in the same “C Note Levitation Club” - 😁 so grateful for mother’s who sacrifice so much! ❤️❤️

  • @sauravrao234
    @sauravrao234 Před 2 lety +56

    You can literally see music emanating from his fingertips when he plays his cello in the beginning

  • @carolynhardy8212
    @carolynhardy8212 Před 2 lety +8

    I almost stopped the video when you started to play the song at the end… I haven’t been ready for 9 years to willingly, really FEEL the loss and pain associated with our first miscarriage. And when you started playing (I’m crying as I type this), I could feel those walls coming down. I talked with our little girl and told her how much I love her... Thank you so much for sharing this with the world and with me :’-)

    • @StevenSharpNelson
      @StevenSharpNelson Před 2 lety +3

      This comment lifted me, Carolyn! Thank you for your courage and for sharing your story!

  • @ekam8770
    @ekam8770 Před 2 lety +15

    This is F**king Amazing.....Agree?❤️

  • @userhandle-l
    @userhandle-l Před rokem +2

    I have always loved this song, and especially the Piano Guys rendition of it

  • @shreytripathi5683
    @shreytripathi5683 Před 2 lety +72

    can we start every ted talk with a music piece ?

  • @patriciak8720
    @patriciak8720 Před 7 měsíci +1

    When I listen to this I feel my mother near, I remember my father, friends that in the last 6/7 years passed away tragically. Thank you for helping me to remember them with love and forgiveness. Through music I feel all that I put behind closed doors (feelings I mean 😉) in my head.
    Also my children are the reason I resolve my issues and family troubles that I refuse to pass on to the kids.
    It sounds you have a beautiful and strong mother that was remarkable and raised a beautiful son. Thank you for your story and music. 🙏🍀🕯️🤗 8:22

  • @Audiogeek-kf2ez
    @Audiogeek-kf2ez Před 2 lety +16

    Music, every one's best anti anxiety drug. It have worked for me for decades

  • @patsyfivek4555
    @patsyfivek4555 Před 8 měsíci +1

    And so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Mother. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @samanthagarner2926
    @samanthagarner2926 Před 2 lety +28

    I've seen him perform live a few times and it's truly magical!

  • @margrettaylor2228
    @margrettaylor2228 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you so much for this incredible experience. I lost my dad when I was 14 and through this exercise and the power of your music I was able to connect again🙏❤

  • @enoughothis
    @enoughothis Před 2 lety +16

    If you've never heard of the Piano Guys look them up. Their work is amazing!

    • @aidialisleachman130
      @aidialisleachman130 Před 2 lety +3

      Extremely amazing 👏

    • @bravozulu0380
      @bravozulu0380 Před 2 lety +1

      Hard to imagine anyone who hasn't.

    • @smxstreet3561
      @smxstreet3561 Před 2 lety

      @@bravozulu0380 it ain't hard really 😂 I'm one of the people who didn't hear about them till now

  • @hawkmanz1620
    @hawkmanz1620 Před 2 lety +2

    When you started playing the second song, I sincerely lost myself in it and started crying. I’ve heard it before, but never with such emotion and depth behind it. It’s insane.

  • @huyuc6346
    @huyuc6346 Před 2 lety +4

    I believe that somewhere in paradise, your mom is still looking after you and she'll proud of you so much. Anyway, this is the extremely thrilling speech that I've ever heard.

  • @riaadhoosain
    @riaadhoosain Před 2 lety +5

    this brought me to tears thinking of my dad who I lost 11 years ago - and it feels like yesterday. Thank you for this beautiful message and music.

  • @cactuscanuck6802
    @cactuscanuck6802 Před 4 měsíci

    I lost my best friend in the whole world just 5 days ago. As I closed my eyes and listened, I thought I'd become a watery mess. But I actually smiled hugely instead, as I pictured her in my mind, and just enjoyed these moments and memories. I have been a musician and singer all my life and I understand the power of music, but this was profound. Thank you for this video.

  • @meenadusane6780
    @meenadusane6780 Před 2 lety +2

    Your guitar music wonderful.

  • @MrDarshD
    @MrDarshD Před 2 lety +6

    Music heals! Such a great mother!!

  • @vincent82799
    @vincent82799 Před 2 lety +2

    He is so happy the vibrato is really rich

  • @sopeace9968
    @sopeace9968 Před 2 lety +25

    Steven and Jon are just a bless to the world :') Have been following the journey of them as Piano Guys since the beginning ♡ Thank you, you two wonderful human beings! :')

  • @BBsVinyl
    @BBsVinyl Před 2 lety +1

    Man I wish I was my dad so I could have been in the same mission field as Brother Nelson lol. My dad literally had jam sessions with him and now my whole family is like the biggest fan of The Piano Guys. I still remember my dad showing me my first Piano Guys video in 2012 and me being hooked ever since. Literally my siblings when they were babies would watch Piano Guys and it would cheer them up and we would just watch them as a family all the time so thanks for all the joy you've brought my family Brother Nelson!

  • @dannythomeczek185
    @dannythomeczek185 Před rokem

    I lost my oldest brother in 2007, my parents, mom 2014, father 2015, my oldest son of 5 boys died at 19 in 2021. I needed this!

  • @homajam3051
    @homajam3051 Před 2 lety +1

    that was the most beautiful thing that i have seen for last 2 months

  • @rajeshchristian6197
    @rajeshchristian6197 Před 2 lety +2

    hallelujah. The negative energy of the mind is known to gradually disappear by listening to this wonderful musician.GOD bless you

  • @Christina-ox3bg
    @Christina-ox3bg Před 2 lety +1

    He is shining on stage.

  • @tienvan7878
    @tienvan7878 Před 2 lety +1

    Playing music as the beginning is not only creating positive vibe but melting my heart. Thank you for your great music and your talk, I had a good morning with that.

  • @ligiasommers
    @ligiasommers Před 2 lety +9

    What a beautiful and emotional Ted ! Thank you 🙏🏻💖🌹

  • @preetimaurya4897
    @preetimaurya4897 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Thank you again because of you I got the chance to meet my grandpa and even now I can say him goodbye it ends on a good note and I feel that.
    That seems impossible to me to meet him again but just because of you I meet him even spend time with him. lovely

  • @akankshasingh6471
    @akankshasingh6471 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this! ❤️

  • @VlogsxLottie
    @VlogsxLottie Před 2 lety +1

    I just love how the music makes me forget all the bad things in life and only think bout calmness and peace....

  • @patsyfivek4555
    @patsyfivek4555 Před 8 měsíci +1

    In 2015 I lost my Dad then my husband and a year later my grandson. It was hard but as we know grief has no expiration date. ♥️

  • @MoniCastApp
    @MoniCastApp Před 2 lety +20

    “Without music, life would be a mistake.”

    • @MoniCastApp
      @MoniCastApp Před 2 lety +1

      @@romanski5811 music is always there with different form, right? from nature, from different sounds.

  • @jayasangariganesh9022
    @jayasangariganesh9022 Před 2 lety +1

    His expressions....waaaaahhhhhh!!!!starting play mind blowing......I lost myself in his music...❤️

  • @patsyfivek4555
    @patsyfivek4555 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much means everything to me.♥️🙏🏻

  • @isoramispalacios8289
    @isoramispalacios8289 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for giving me such beautiful music, it is wonderful

  • @johnhixson9805
    @johnhixson9805 Před rokem

    This brought me to tears. Unexpectedly lost my brother a little over a year ago. Stings everyday that things were left unfinished and that I never got to say goodbye. This really helped me. Thank you.

  • @TheLifeline-by-Advocate
    @TheLifeline-by-Advocate Před 2 lety +1

    I have no words to explain my feelings of love for this person!!

  • @NicoleKoch
    @NicoleKoch Před 2 lety +6

    I need the downloadable version of this

  • @keepshining7748
    @keepshining7748 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you!! Really need this today. God bless 🙏🏻

  • @surlyduckling844
    @surlyduckling844 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing this with us. Your mom would be so proud of how you make so many people happy with your music.

  • @PleaseViewMyChannel
    @PleaseViewMyChannel Před 2 lety +1

    I dont sing anymore but music is where I run to, aside from praying, when I need comfort. ❤️

  • @kylejordan7454
    @kylejordan7454 Před 2 lety +4

    Nuh uh, im not crying! You are!!!

  • @adityabhavsar3986
    @adityabhavsar3986 Před 2 lety +2

    Lovely 💖 You're the best gift your mom has given to this world🎈

  • @slowerdude
    @slowerdude Před 2 lety

    That song at the end - amazing… Thank you Steven…

  • @toolisbalance
    @toolisbalance Před 2 lety +1

    Wow. Just wow!

  • @LauraSeijo
    @LauraSeijo Před 2 lety +1

    aqueceu meu coração nestes dias mais difíceis 🇧🇷
    warmed my heart in these hardest days

  • @John-zc5ip
    @John-zc5ip Před 2 lety +2

    Love these videos.

  • @amanswami6896
    @amanswami6896 Před 2 lety +2

    Thankyou thankyou thankyou for this video

  • @selenabrady7391
    @selenabrady7391 Před rokem

    This is really beautiful, my own Mum passed away on Christmas Eve and so this was equally heart breaking and heart warming …but I totally agree those we have lost can be found 💕

  • @happytappingchannel3355

    This video really calmed my nerve and totally relaxed...love his vibration.

  • @ritanurjanah8612
    @ritanurjanah8612 Před 2 lety +1

    He looks enjoying his music!!!!!

  • @nargizquluzada5706
    @nargizquluzada5706 Před 2 lety +2

    sooo
    amazinggg

  • @robertcrosse6809
    @robertcrosse6809 Před 2 lety +1

    You play beautifully , Thank you .

  • @anuraghazra4772
    @anuraghazra4772 Před 2 lety +1

    It's just......beautiful.

  • @MrDaswood201
    @MrDaswood201 Před 2 lety

    thank you for the music!

  • @KeatonAnderson
    @KeatonAnderson Před 2 lety +9

    Love to see Will Forte playing the cello again

  • @nkstorm4
    @nkstorm4 Před 2 lety

    Thank you...

  • @Ayman0Ayman
    @Ayman0Ayman Před 2 lety

    Thank you.

  • @kateburk2168
    @kateburk2168 Před 2 lety +4

    Music helps one's brain to 'reorganize' I have learned over the last 75+ years. Prefer instrumental as vocalists tends to guide the thots.
    What an amazing tribute.😊

  • @aidialisleachman130
    @aidialisleachman130 Před 2 lety +1

    Love piano guys 💕

  • @Uplifting_sfbay
    @Uplifting_sfbay Před 2 lety

    Thank you for that final piece. I was able to find closure by imagining my ex lover walk into the ocean of our once favorite vacation spot. ❤️

  • @lawrencebestpsychology

    Life is a collection of moments each moment have a different meaning some moment are very special there are few moments that you don’t wanna remember. This video is special and I wanna remember.

  • @aliaskuriankunnumel3419
    @aliaskuriankunnumel3419 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent

  • @frenchi1
    @frenchi1 Před 2 lety

    Thank you brother 💙

  • @dingleberries3158
    @dingleberries3158 Před 2 lety +9

    i love this so much i've been grieving over my grandma's death just this sunday :( i'm really glad i clicked on this video thank you

  • @S._P.
    @S._P. Před 2 lety

    Music's helped me....👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Music does help🌹💕

  • @mr_mahathir
    @mr_mahathir Před 2 lety +1

    That’s nice ❤️

  • @hasnaelboudani67
    @hasnaelboudani67 Před 2 lety

    I love it

  • @oumaimahamila1130
    @oumaimahamila1130 Před 2 lety +2

    "Isn't true that our lives' most sublime melodies tend to be written during the darkest symphonies of our struggle?"

  • @ekam8770
    @ekam8770 Před 2 lety +11

    He and his Family is Damn beautiful 🤩 Sweet as sugar yk😊

    • @octopops5414
      @octopops5414 Před 2 lety +3

      YEAH lol i Got crush on his mother hehe just like love at first sight

    • @lomaddevta5723
      @lomaddevta5723 Před 2 lety +2

      they are cute :)

    • @eshmember719
      @eshmember719 Před 2 lety

      so true mate

    • @ekam8770
      @ekam8770 Před 2 lety

      @@octopops5414 lol yeah she is Damn beautiful

    • @ekam8770
      @ekam8770 Před 2 lety

      @@lomaddevta5723 ❤️

  • @user-eq9uj1zw1x
    @user-eq9uj1zw1x Před 2 lety

    q hermoso ✨💐💐

  • @klrmsg
    @klrmsg Před 2 lety +1

    I went through 3 tissues with this one. :)

  • @kineticenergy9613
    @kineticenergy9613 Před 2 lety +1

    This guys cool

  • @theyogidentist
    @theyogidentist Před 2 lety +1

  • @shukorabunad3133
    @shukorabunad3133 Před 2 lety

    " the very thing that had wounded me
    was the same thing that healed me .."

  • @timamiyp
    @timamiyp Před 2 lety +1

    omg Piano Guys!!!!

  • @61laishramrama53
    @61laishramrama53 Před 2 lety +1

    I know this guy

  • @honeylavenderbakery
    @honeylavenderbakery Před 2 lety

    👏👏👏

  • @NSLFood.
    @NSLFood. Před 2 lety +1

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @isoramispalacios8289
    @isoramispalacios8289 Před 2 lety +1

    Blessings that great talent thank you it is magnificent congratulations great thank you it is beautiful music

  • @arunverma3402
    @arunverma3402 Před 2 lety

    old video re uploaded... anyways so brilliant

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici Před 2 lety +6

    Music helps me get through so many things. It brings out the feelings of both highs and lows in my life and I'm grateful it exists!

  • @annaeleanor5390
    @annaeleanor5390 Před rokem

    Does anyone know the name of the song they are performing? Genuinely moved me to tears

  • @joyceglasgow2356
    @joyceglasgow2356 Před 2 lety +1

    ❤️🙏🎶🙏❤️

    • @amytaylor8487
      @amytaylor8487 Před 2 lety

      Hello there👋,how are you?hope you’re having a wonderful day?GOD BLESS YOU!!!❤️❤️

  • @c4os79
    @c4os79 Před 2 lety +1

    heart breaking
    what if the person I've lost is the young myself and the missing piece is getting heavier day after day?

  • @rizvaldo7209
    @rizvaldo7209 Před 2 lety

    😢

  • @Andreadelatorreq
    @Andreadelatorreq Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much!
    Pd. Please someone could tell me the name of the song? Thank you in advance

  • @joshbishop
    @joshbishop Před 2 lety +1

    Yo, what was that last piece he played??? It was gorgeous...

    • @heddabedda306
      @heddabedda306 Před 2 lety +1

      Nessun dorma (from the play Turandot, written by Carlo Gozzi).

  • @MeghanQueen
    @MeghanQueen Před 2 lety +1

    what is the music name?????so amazing!!!!!love it

    • @userhandle-l
      @userhandle-l Před rokem

      Serach "The Cello Song" by The Piano Guys. Check out their other music videos as well!

  • @river2139
    @river2139 Před 2 lety +1

    I need to write an essay about this and its due at 11:59 I am so screwed.

  • @sirarpisolomonyan1915
    @sirarpisolomonyan1915 Před 2 lety +4

    How can we download and listen to your music? 🤍

    • @bravozulu0380
      @bravozulu0380 Před 2 lety +6

      Look up the Piano Guys. This particular song is called The Cello Song.

  • @ronalddancaliva883
    @ronalddancaliva883 Před 2 lety +8

    When the earth was being created by God all angels were singing at that very moment.. according from the Bible..
    So music had been existing ever since from eternity that's why human learned music it's been passed down to humans from the highest authority.

    • @kineticenergy9613
      @kineticenergy9613 Před 2 lety +1

      Trippy! One of my favorite quotes is “if you want to know the Secrets of the universe, think energy frequency and vibration” ~Nicolas Tesla

    • @ronalddancaliva883
      @ronalddancaliva883 Před 2 lety

      @@kineticenergy9613 I didn't know universe had a secret 😁

    • @kineticenergy9613
      @kineticenergy9613 Před 2 lety

      @@ronalddancaliva883 now you know haha

  • @Watthexe0815
    @Watthexe0815 Před 2 lety

    Nessun Dorma was my mom’s favourite too 😭