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  • čas přidán 28. 03. 2024
  • In this eye-opening conversation, Open Field and New York Times bestselling author, clinical psychologist, and narcissistic relationship expert @DoctorRamani shares how you can spot and heal from a narcissist, whether or not they can change, what it means to be in a "trauma bond" relationship, and so much more. Become a Sunday Paper PLUS member or sign in here to watch the full conversation and hear Dr. Ramani Durvasula's paradigm-shifting insight from her new book It's Not You: www.mariashriversundaypaper.c...
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Komentáře • 23

  • @kevinscott9930
    @kevinscott9930 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Dealing with a narcissist means you're on your own in many ways, people aren't able to appreciate the complexity & dynamics at play when they hear your story. Breaking it down to what it is can be difficult to navigate! Awesome topic Maria❤

  • @TheDarkPlace00
    @TheDarkPlace00 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Dealing with a narcissistic relationship can be very challenging, but it is not our job to be their therapist or life coach to fix them. All we can do is focus on being ourselves and setting boundaries.

  • @stayitive4343
    @stayitive4343 Před 2 měsíci +4

    People pleasing/making yourself as a secondary character to your own story by playing a role in someone else's story is disrespectful and self abusing to yourself by silencing your authentic self. Leave uncaring people who do NOT see or interested in YOU.

  • @brianbrenton1025
    @brianbrenton1025 Před 2 měsíci +10

    I appreciate how real Dr. Ramani is. She doesn't fuck around with words or information.

  • @shirleyfrost9909
    @shirleyfrost9909 Před měsícem +3

    I love you Dr. Ramani for helping me live a life after "hijacking my soul by my Narc mother.
    You make it possible. Thank you.💞

  • @makaylahollywood3677
    @makaylahollywood3677 Před 10 dny +1

    Two of my favorite people, role models - as mother is gone.

  • @patriciasalem3606
    @patriciasalem3606 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Dr. Ramani is truly the best on this topic. Thank you for having her on. I agree, there is overuse of the word "narcissist" (especially since 45). But personally, I feel it's better for the zeitgeist pendulum to swing in that direction than for people to be dangerously unaware of this personality disorder.

  • @drjonathanvrban706
    @drjonathanvrban706 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Thank you Maria for being another great platform for Dr Ramani. I absolutely love the work that she has done in the field of narcissism. She is the expert on this topic., and can explain the subject in a clear and understandable manner.
    Thank you for the work that you do on so many fronts. You are both examples of being an architect of change.

  • @NancyBrown1975
    @NancyBrown1975 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Maria you have an excellent, expert here with keen wisdom on narcissism. Thank you for having this conversation of knowledge to share with your listeners.

  • @thebigl156
    @thebigl156 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Terminating the relationship with a narcissist, especially a family member, is a decision one likely wrestles with for a lifetime. That said, wrestling within one’s head is grace compared to actually dealing with the narcissistic, for it’s manageable and bestows the ability to move forward.

  • @m.e.tuthill8874
    @m.e.tuthill8874 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF THE SCANT ATTENTION PAID TO NARCISSISTIC SIBLINGS!!

  • @rebeccacharles5758
    @rebeccacharles5758 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Where is the whole interview? @MariaShriver

  • @ronniemoore685
    @ronniemoore685 Před 2 měsíci

    Dr. Ramani is a great source for this information. She speaks well and makes this subject easier to understand. I had a hard time with Maria's face. She can barely move it -- too much surgery and injections. Very strange.

  • @BigIndianBindi-jy1cz
    @BigIndianBindi-jy1cz Před 2 měsíci

    adhd meds help me with controlling behavior. like yelling. so i wonder if narcs lack dopamine to change behavior, because dopamine is needed to take the wheel of the car, otherwise it's in autopilot.

  • @bittu-kd7zy
    @bittu-kd7zy Před 20 dny +1

    Dr.Ramani, is it my role to fix my son in whom I see narcissistic tendencies? He is almost 19 and has a grandiose narcissist as a father.

    • @mystrength5640
      @mystrength5640 Před 6 dny +1

      It can be learnt Behaviour( observed ) and genetic.. 🎉

  • @tobytopaz921
    @tobytopaz921 Před 2 měsíci

    What u think of Prof. Sam Vaknin?
    need real input here!!
    he explains the
    chemical"" change as a jung child
    in the body and it made sense to me , why A narc needs the" Same chemical change , again over and over as a grown up ..
    I know I didn't explain that right ,
    does anyone know what I mean , and Dr.Ramani , what do You think of that explanation?
    please
    Anybody ??
    much appreciated..

    • @earthrooster1969
      @earthrooster1969 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I listen to both and both have valuable inputs..take what works for you...

    • @tobytopaz921
      @tobytopaz921 Před 2 měsíci

      @suhitamitra
      Thank you. Much appreciated.
      . to me the special 3 do it , a mix of
      wisdom , heart, and facts
      of Dr. Ramani ,
      Sam Vaknin and Andrew, NARCDAILY
      it helped , still alive, and on my way out, yes the third try, but it does not count how many times you try ,
      it counts how many time you stand up and go !!
      btw,
      never never ever leave evidence, he will hunt you..
      all the ❤️love ❤️ ❤️

    • @critchie
      @critchie Před 2 měsíci +1

      Narcs can definitely cry at a movie, and be nice to so and so… but if the same thing or similar thing in real life happens to YOU… nope… no tears… and when it’s time to be nice to YOU instead of over-the-top kindness to that stranger acquaintance… nope. Not for you.