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  • čas přidán 14. 08. 2024
  • My life has forever changed. Here is my story. ♥
    Thank you for all of your prayers, thoughts, kindness and concern. You guys are the BEST!
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    Jennifer V.
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    Wayne, IL 60184
    U.S.A
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  • @judym.1613
    @judym.1613 Před 2 lety +123

    I'm so very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. No matter how old we are, or they are, we're never prepared for the loss. Praying for peace for you, your dad, and your family.

  • @rosemariemello8221
    @rosemariemello8221 Před 2 lety +173

    I’m sorry for your loss of your mother. I just lost my husband two weeks ago and I’m grieving a lot so you are in my prayers

    • @Autumncraftz
      @Autumncraftz Před 2 lety +14

      I am so sorry to hear about your husband Rosemarie. I hope the grieving gets easier for you as time passes. Xx

    • @lisas2802
      @lisas2802 Před 2 lety +6

      Thinking of you xxx

    • @dmeyerification
      @dmeyerification Před 2 lety +8

      So very sorry for your loss.❤️

    • @offgrid24seven
      @offgrid24seven Před 2 lety +8

      So sorry for your loss of your husband.

    • @clpr2023
      @clpr2023 Před 2 lety +7

      Thinking of you.

  • @mrskaa7584
    @mrskaa7584 Před 2 lety +97

    I literally just started watching your videos today. I was a nurse for 20 years in Oncology and Home Care. I also lost my mom when she was 66, she had MS and ultimately a fall caused a brain bleed, and she passed away from that after several days of being on a ventilator. She also lived out of town from me, 3000 miles away...and I'm an only child. So, tough situation.
    It was 11 years ago today. So today is hard, this whole time of year is hard. But it is so interesting that I ran into your videos today.
    What you guys have been going through just sucks. There is no other way to describe it. It is an emotional roller coaster. It is also physically exhausting. And it can be financially devastating, depending on the circumstances.
    I am so glad you guys got to say those goodbyes. I also got to say goodbye for a long time. We had several family visitors, and I did some minor crying, and lots of talking. One thing I remembered the other night was that at one point I was sitting in her room alone, and the pastor of her church came in, a woman I had never met before. She introduced herself, I introduced myself, and burst into tears. The hardest crying I had done, just ugly crying, in front of a stranger. And she held me for the longest time, not saying anything. just let me cry. It was the only time I did that while I was there.
    So the kindness of strangers really is a thing. I think sometimes with people we don't really know, we don't have any history with them, there is no pressure. And as strangers, we can still care about you and your family. And we can send loving supportive thoughts and messages. You are not alone at all in this grief, and this is simply hard. One of the most difficult if not the most difficult things in life. I appreciate you sharing, and that I saw it today. That is brave of you because it is hard to get in front of a camera and talk about such a difficult time. But you may also be helping someone else going through this experience. Another stranger helping a stranger 🙂 So thank you sweet lady. I am so sorry for this loss and the void it leaves. You are in my thoughts ❤

    • @MyCleverHandle
      @MyCleverHandle Před 2 lety +8

      With your empathy, experience and training, you could be so rewarded if you could find a way to give back a little. Maybe just one evening a week? Visit some long-term care facilities nearby and inquire about volunteer opportunities. Just sitting bedside for an hour or two and talking about anything - or not talking at all - would benefit you as well as your new friends. Give of yourself as you can, it will come back to you in spades! Thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes a good cry can open your eyes and heart to so much goodness that still can be found in this world. I cry too, Mom's been gone almost 14 years. And I was there through every moment. I wouldn't trade that time for anything in the world, and I found a way to sustain that nurturing side of me by sitting with older women who remember things no one else cares about. Hug yourself for the New Year, and may your holiday be everything you want and need it to be.

    • @helenmygdal2368
      @helenmygdal2368 Před 2 lety +7

      Mrs Kaa,
      What a kind and loving thing to say. Lovely that a pastor was so wise!

    • @dianebaker5243
      @dianebaker5243 Před 2 lety +4

      ♥️

    • @maviewavie2326
      @maviewavie2326 Před 2 lety +3

      I lost my mother due to complications of MS also.

    • @rachelburgener819
      @rachelburgener819 Před 2 lety

      Ladies, this is so heartwarming to share🥰 God bless each of you ✝️🙏🏻❤️😀

  • @susanhadrous8785
    @susanhadrous8785 Před 2 lety +157

    To this day I still have moments when I think “Oh, I’ve got to tell Mom” but she passed in 2012 but I have her in my dreams.

    • @chellejack3480
      @chellejack3480 Před 2 lety +14

      Three days after I put my mom in memory care, my cat died. And I wanted so much to tell her and have her comfort me, but I knew she wouldn't understand what I was saying. She and I both are big animal lovers. Even though she's still alive, I miss her so much. She was/is my best friend.

    • @tracyfrederick5606
      @tracyfrederick5606 Před 2 lety +6

      Same here.

    • @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook
      @Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook Před 2 lety +12

      My dear Child- she still LIVES- within YOU- those memories full of laughtet- the JOY- the GOOD TIMES

    • @kstoner9734
      @kstoner9734 Před 2 lety +8

      So sorry you have gone thru all this. So good you are seeing your Mom at peace.

    • @Jessalyn032
      @Jessalyn032 Před 2 lety +14

      Just lost my mom a month ago. I still pick up the phone to call her… but then realize. So I just talk to her like shes in the room with me. It feels like she can hear me. :/

  • @StyleWithCathyOver50
    @StyleWithCathyOver50 Před 2 lety +119

    Hi Jen, my heart breaks after hearing everything that your poor mom endured before passing. It truly has been an awful year for you. I hope that you can find peace and comfort in knowing that she is at peace and no longer suffering. Take it day by day and give yourself time to grieve. We will all be here for you when you feel up to it. Sending you love and hugs. xo 💖

  • @offgrid24seven
    @offgrid24seven Před 2 lety +18

    You just came up as a suggestion to watch, and I am so glad it did. I thank you very much for sharing your journey. I have an 87 year old mother who has been in Mild Cognitive Impairment/dementia since she was 80. I just took her on a 5 day cruise, just the two of us. It was the most wonderful trip together. I did have to be the Caregiver with her meds, c-pack, walker, and questions galore, but I would do that anytime with my mom, instead of without her. I am sorry for your loss!

  • @AmandaTory67
    @AmandaTory67 Před 2 lety +50

    oh, girl. I stumbled onto this video and I'm so glad I did. I lost my mom this year too and it has been brutal. She had some dementia and it was so hard to watch. We managed to keep her home with her beloved GRACIE pup (now MY baby!) but it was HARD. And losing her was hard. I am feeling your pain and sending you love and strength from Boston

    • @susanmulvey6311
      @susanmulvey6311 Před 2 lety +7

      Bless you for taking the puppy, Gracie! You know, dogs grieve too, and this will help the dog go through it. Condolences on the passing of your mother! She’s smiling down on you and proud she raised you to know, to take on the responsibility of caring for her doggie.

    • @savagetwin52
      @savagetwin52 Před 2 lety

      Heartfelt condolences to you. Losing those mothers are the roughest losses we who loved them will ever encounter. But we knew that love, as did they. You take care of yourself. Give time to grieve and mourn. I know the pain. It never goes away. But we learn to live with it.

    • @AmandaTory67
      @AmandaTory67 Před 2 lety

      @@savagetwin52 Thank you so much! Sending all the best to you

  • @dwtccr
    @dwtccr Před 2 lety +97

    So sorry, my mom is in the late stages of dementia. It’s absolutely heartbreaking!🙏

  • @sherrif3062
    @sherrif3062 Před 2 lety +38

    I'm so very sorry, Jennifer. Even when you know it's coming, it's so heartbreaking to lose your mother. It's easier to leave than be left behind. Your grace and composure would make your mom so incredibly proud. Wishing you love and healing. ❤️

  • @deborahkilgore3040
    @deborahkilgore3040 Před 2 lety +55

    Jen, I work in a nursing home and see what family’s go through on a daily basis. Dementia is such a sad and cruel disease!

  • @mdnghtsun3759
    @mdnghtsun3759 Před 2 lety +17

    Thank you for this. My Mother is going through exactly the same thing that your mom experienced.. She is 89. My Dad is 92 and very active. It's an ordeal and I completely understand what you are going through. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @HandbagDiva
    @HandbagDiva Před 2 lety +7

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My Mother has dementia, is 84, and just fell on Thursday night. Dementia is a horrible illness, and it’s very hard to hear your mother cry & be scared. I honestly hope she passes before it gets too horrible.

  • @annmark9150
    @annmark9150 Před 2 lety +27

    Condolences dear Jennifer on the passing of your Mother.
    Blessings…….

  • @adellkupa2335
    @adellkupa2335 Před 2 lety +74

    This music brings tears to my eyes. God is wonderful, I can’t thank him enough. People who know me and my husband in our area. They know what we have been through and how long it took us to be successful and where we are at the moment. If you are familiar withe scriptures, I mean the word of God you can tell that Jesus always talked about destiny helpers and I met mine 6 years ago.. I met Mr Andrew in a church seminar 6 years ago. He is a young man with a good heart. God used him to change my life and the lives of people around us. It was a huge step we took and we do not regret it. I always talk about him everywhere pardon me. If you are out there and loosing hope I want you to know that God has plans for everyone of us. i feel my story should encourage a lot of people. I will drop info of him below

    • @adellkupa2335
      @adellkupa2335 Před 2 lety

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  • @anacastillo8023
    @anacastillo8023 Před 2 lety +15

    Jen, everything you described I went through with my mom. Dad just passed away this July. It was not an easy task to care for them,but it was a journey in strength and faith. They are with their Savior now. Blessings to you.

  • @sharonvik7643
    @sharonvik7643 Před 2 lety +7

    My mom passed 2 years ago after a short cancer diagnosis, 1 treatment, 3 strokes. It was such a blessing to be able to say good bye to her. And I am so glad you had the same opportunity with your mom! It is always going to be raw, and you will always miss her, but it does get easier. Just love everyone around you and hold on to the wonderful memories!

  • @lynne9597
    @lynne9597 Před 2 lety +10

    Oh Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My heart just breaks for you. Watching our parents age and decline is so difficult. It does not matter how old we are when we lose them it is truly absolutely devastating. I hope you can find comfort in knowing your mom is no longer suffering and is watching over all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 🙏

  • @catandjamie
    @catandjamie Před 2 lety +9

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I lost my mom three years ago just days before her 92nd birthday. I also had those last days to say goodbye. On one hand it was wonderful to be able to say what you needed to say on the other hand it was so sad and scary. Hugs to you and your family.

  • @murrayjs27
    @murrayjs27 Před 2 lety +6

    This video clip just happened to come up on my feed. I decided to click on it. Wow. Thank you for sharing. Your story is inspiring by how strong and faithful you are. I’ve never seen a video by you before, but this has inspired me to watch more of your videos. God bless you and your family. You have a tremendous strength & devotion. It is contagious! I feel stronger in my own troubles just watching how you handle yours. Thank you. 🙏🏻♥️😘

  • @kirstenson1
    @kirstenson1 Před 2 lety +10

    So very sorry for your loss. Even when it’s something you’re expecting, it’s still hard. Nothing like a mom’s love ❤️

  • @ingamintz9931
    @ingamintz9931 Před 2 lety +20

    So sorry to hear about your mom. I’m going through this too with my mom so your description really hit home for me and was so helpful! Thanks for sharing your experience and God bless!

  • @gingernicole465
    @gingernicole465 Před 2 lety +7

    Bless your heart, Jen. I see this same scenario so much as a Memory Care Unit Director. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. You're exactly right that she is at ultimate peace now. Don't question your choices and let "what ifs" creep into your head. You did great by your Mom. Just think she gets the best Christmas of us all, spending it with Jesus.
    Merry Christmas and Happy New year. Much love.

  • @kbmkj
    @kbmkj Před 2 lety +8

    With a title for your channel like “just Jennifer” I know you’ll understand when I say simply, I’m praying for you, you are on my heart. There is more than words can say…. you dad is especially in my prayers. Sending love 💕

  • @debs1717
    @debs1717 Před 2 lety +10

    Jennifer, I’m so sorry to hear about your. May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family and give you peace. Sending prayers for your Dad. They are truly blessed to have a daughter like you. Just remember that all your Moms love and all the great memories you have with her will always be close by in your heart. Sending thoughts and prayers.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Tayzerfun
    @Tayzerfun Před 2 lety +7

    Oh Jen, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I've been caring for my mom with dementia since the summer of 2018 after my dad passed. My mom is 74 and I'm 34, I also have a 5 year old daughter. The illness is so hard and I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family as you navigate this hard time.

  • @marsigorman1099
    @marsigorman1099 Před 2 lety +8

    I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mother. She was clearly an amazing woman, great mom and wife. Sending you prayers and huggse. Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @rosemarycardenas2756
    @rosemarycardenas2756 Před 2 lety +5

    So sorry Jen for your loss I lost my mom on 2019 it has been so difficult 😥 to deal with the loss of my best friend, my world and my everything! I understand you. I will never get over this she was 84 and full of life, so I understand you!

  • @rachela.5736
    @rachela.5736 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm so very sorry for your loss Jennifer. I lost my mom Dec 4, 2017 and it still hurts. Big hugs to you.

  • @wendybee8854
    @wendybee8854 Před 2 lety +7

    Dear Jennifer, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. I went through all this last year and lost my mom this past February. So much of what you shared resonates with me. Almost daily I am reminded that I can't call my mom and share my thoughts with her. I was blessed to have her 95 years and it's still hard. My thoughts and prayers are with you Jennifer. I hope you can be comforted with memories of your mom and be able to enjoy the holidays knowing that is what your mom would want you to do🙏❤ My thoughts are with you.

  • @neverthesamelovetwice
    @neverthesamelovetwice Před 2 lety +9

    My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Thank you so much for sharing. I completely understand how being with someone as they transition does have a beauty in it. We were with my grandpa earlier this year as he passed and although it was devastating, I also look at it as a privilege to be able to be there in that moment. Take care 🙏

  • @jenniferjanes1589
    @jenniferjanes1589 Před 2 lety +5

    Jen, I feel for you. I had the same situation with my parents. You’re very lucky to have grandchildren. It has been 5 years since my parents passed. Just getting better now. My dad passed a few weeks after my mom. My brother passed a few weeks before my mom. It was so lonely. My mom was always busy and made everything and every occasion special and watching her afraid and unable to speak was so sad. I had a stent put in when my mom was sick. Be very good to yourself and don’t fret about Christmas obligations. My heart is with you.

  • @cathyhodge5574
    @cathyhodge5574 Před 2 lety +8

    I just lost my sweet father to dementia on Christmas day 2021. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

    • @SENSUALBLISSINSFL
      @SENSUALBLISSINSFL Před 2 lety

      I am sorry 😪

    • @jetmechgirl9022
      @jetmechgirl9022 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m so sorry. I lost my mother on Christmas Day 2020. She had Alzheimer’s.
      It was such a horrible time. The pandemic kept us out of her care home. So she died alone. It’s still a struggle for me.

    • @julieoconnor2011
      @julieoconnor2011 Před 2 lety

      I am so sorry Cathy Hodge and Jetmechegirl. :( I lost my dad in late April and it still doesn't seem real. Thinking of you. ❤

  • @kimkushmerick132
    @kimkushmerick132 Před 2 lety +5

    I’m so sorry, I know how hard it is to lose a parent and see them decline and suffer. My heart goes out to you and your family.

  • @lisamorand9607
    @lisamorand9607 Před 2 lety +3

    My deepest condolences. This video came up on my feed. My mom passed from ovarian cancer in 2016. She was treated horribly by our Canadian health care. I wish you healing.

  • @dianescott3515
    @dianescott3515 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss of your mom recently. When you talked about wanting to call your mom about certain things I can certainly understand. My mom has been gone ten years and I still find myself wanting to call her to ask a question that only she would know the answer to. What a blessing it is that you were able to spend those last days with your mom and family together ❤️

  • @marilynmccormick1658
    @marilynmccormick1658 Před 2 lety +3

    When my mother passed away she had dementia; the doctor said, "she was 89 and she couldn't live forever". Yes, that was so true, but in reality I wanted her to live forever!! She was a wonderful mother and my greatest cheerleader. She always made me feel special, even though I was one of her five children. A loving mother will be forever missed by every child who knew her love. I hope your shared times together will bring you joy and warm memories for as long as you live.

  • @cindyn3383
    @cindyn3383 Před 2 lety +4

    I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard losing your mom. Even knowing she is at peace, it’s still hard. My heart goes out to you. Big hugs

  • @susanf4857
    @susanf4857 Před 2 lety +6

    Big hugs to you, Jennifer! You've had so much to deal with! My sweet next door neighbor who has always treated us like family has Alzheimer's and it's so devastating. ☹️

  • @sweetdogfarm
    @sweetdogfarm Před 2 lety +5

    It's so hard to lose the folks who love us unconditionally. Take care.

  • @suzannehall5200
    @suzannehall5200 Před 2 lety +4

    Dear Jennifer, I so feel for you at the loss of your mum. Everything you have described was my life in 2019. The journey through dementia is a truly terrible one and I am so glad that you had the chance to tell her that you loved her before she went. That will help you going forward. I will be praying for you and your family and your dad.
    Best wishes and take care of yourself.

  • @beverlywalker4111
    @beverlywalker4111 Před 2 lety +4

    Almost two years ago, I went through a similar situation with my mom. I know the feeling and I am so sorry for what you and your family are experiencing now. Please don’t worry about getting back on your channel until you are ready. Be kind to yourself and enjoy the holidays. Joy and peace to you and your love ones.

    • @emilyhops2566
      @emilyhops2566 Před 2 lety +1

      Me too. Just the other day i wemt to phone my mum! 2yrs on!

  • @agentbagreviews
    @agentbagreviews Před 2 lety +20

    Jen, I can tell you’re trying to hold it together for this video. Oh honey, giving you hugs. My mom is my best friend, and I can’t imagine losing her. My prayers are with your daddy too, and your entire family. 🙏🏻

  • @trishf2184
    @trishf2184 Před 2 lety +1

    OMG
    This is a CLASSIC case of horrible medical management of our elderly.
    I wish I could talk to you.
    The care home docs, didn't give a hoot about your mom based upon how they isolated her in the process.
    MAY HER MEMORY BE A BLESSING.
    ❤ 💙 💜 💖 💗 💘 ❤ 💙 💜 💖 💗

  • @MariettaFarley
    @MariettaFarley Před 2 lety +2

    What an incredible year. Wow. My husband has been in an assisted living/memory care home since 2014. I'm so grateful for all the fun we've had together despite his slow decline over this time. I can't imagine how hard this has been for you. My mom died in 2001 and I STILL want to call her when I'm sick or sad or something special happens. My sister and I said we'd be Mom for each other. And we are.

  • @melissam.941
    @melissam.941 Před 2 lety +3

    My heart breaks for you and your family! My mom passed 12/5/2015 at age 65, I completely understand how you feel, wanting to celebrate while grieving. My family and I drew our strength from our faith and our love for we shared for my mom. I'm so sorry and thank you for taking the time to share with us. Sending Love and Prayers for your family!

  • @lynnshepard7485
    @lynnshepard7485 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’m going through this with my dad now, and it’s very painful. We lost my mom 20 years ago this month, and I still find myself wanting to pick up the phone to call her. I’m so happy you have other family to support you and grieve with you in this journey. Sending you all the hugs and comfort you can bear and wishing you a lifetime of wonderful memories. 💕

  • @nancyderryberry6472
    @nancyderryberry6472 Před 2 lety +2

    My heart go out to you. My Mom is 89 and she has dementia.😢 I’m glad your mother is at peace. I understand the situations of dementia.

  • @debbieloes5903
    @debbieloes5903 Před 2 lety +5

    Blessings to all of you. I feel your pain, as I’ve been through it, like many have. You gave your mom the best gift ever, being with her as she died. And it will be your biggest gift also, as you journey through the grieving. Hugs.

  • @JR99675
    @JR99675 Před 2 lety +3

    So sorry to hear this sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏 ❤️

  • @silverluna8835
    @silverluna8835 Před 2 lety +1

    I lost my mother in August. She was 56 years old and had 20 years of battling cancer behind her. I experienced the farewell you are talking about. When she died, I started waking up at dawn and photographing the sunrises. Now, after almost half a year, I have a strong connection with her.

  • @cLyon-xi9os
    @cLyon-xi9os Před 2 lety +1

    I, too, lost someone just a few weeks ago. Lost my mom and sister several years ago. You never stop missing them. Give yourself plenty of time and grace. It is hard.

  • @brookscline3775
    @brookscline3775 Před 2 lety +4

    Jen you are a sweetheart. I feel like you’re a friend and my deepest sympathy is with you. It’s at times like this that you realize just how strong you are and you are amazing!! Take comfort in your many fond memories and with your sweet family. I’m sending my best wishes for you all this Christmas season and for the new year. Take care.

  • @IoanaNeamt
    @IoanaNeamt Před 2 lety +3

    This amazes me because it sounds exactly like what my grandmother went through this year. She had dementia as well, had a hip replacement, kept walking around at night and falling, and eventually we had to move her to a facility. That only aggravated her dementia and she declined very very fast, in a matter of days, and she died on Easter Sunday, alone..They called us to say that she was already gone, which was quite sad. We also couldn't visit her at all while she was in there, because we were in the middle of a Covid wave and no visitors were allowed in hospitals or facilities. So that was difficult to process, but at the same time, maybe it's for the best that we didn't see her like that. She was very out of it as well by that point so I like to think she wasn't aware of what was going on. You're lucky you got to spend those final days with her and say your goodbyes! So many people don't get that chance these days.

  • @JFlower7
    @JFlower7 Před 2 lety

    I totally understand--my mom was in our home on hospice--the most wonderful but exhausting time of my life. Our cat, TooToo always slept with her and was with her when she passed.

  • @susieq4567
    @susieq4567 Před 2 lety +1

    You are so in my Prayers! I’m crying with you! I lost my Mom in 2019 and I miss her terribly! But I know she’s better off! Your sweet Mom is thinking clearly now and is whole again! Sending hugs and lots of Prayers your way! God Bless! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @lindachapman9765
    @lindachapman9765 Před 2 lety +3

    Oh my jennifer, i absolutly feel your pain, my sweet stepmum also has Alzheimers the last 18months has been just awfull, everything you have talked about is exactly how my mum is its just so awfull to watch your loved ones go through this horrible illness, as you say she is at peace, sending you lots of love and thankyou for sharing xxx

  • @sandrasmith5943
    @sandrasmith5943 Před 2 lety +3

    I’m so sorry for you and I know how you feel. I lost my Mum exactly the same a few years ago. I’m like you and miss being able to tell her things. I have no Dad either.
    She’s with you all the time. Sending lots of love to you xx💖

  • @dasheast1
    @dasheast1 Před 2 lety +1

    God bless you! I went through this with my mom almost two years ago, right before Covid. She had some of the same problems as your mom, the paranoia and anxiety but also some of the meaness that can occur with dementia . My sister and I moved in to help her and my father for 8 months. It was so difficult. I still miss her so much. Time does help, we lost her right after her 83rd birthday in January 2020, but I think of her everyday still. Take care of yourself and remember that she has no pain and has peace, it helps me to remember that. 🌹❤️❤️❤️

  • @carolstanford8294
    @carolstanford8294 Před 2 lety +1

    Jennifer.....I am sorry to hear of your loss and the accompanying difficulties. My family has endured much the same. I lost my brother in July 2021 and it is hard to believe that he is actually gone! Sending you a virtual hug. 💟

  • @mimischateau_chic_9
    @mimischateau_chic_9 Před 2 lety +4

    Dear Jen, I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. My heart breaks for your pain on the loss of your mum. Sending you love ❤️

  • @danieledem1
    @danieledem1 Před 2 lety +4

    Jennifer, my heart breaks for everything you have been going through. I am glad your mother is at peace now. Happy holidays to you and your family. Wishing you love and light for the new year! ❤️

  • @flautalee3090
    @flautalee3090 Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry for your loss. What a hard time you’ve had. So glad you and your family could say good bye to your Mom.
    Your making this video is a true gift to those of us who are seeing our elders age and trying to make their lives the best possible.

  • @sandrapfauenglund8729
    @sandrapfauenglund8729 Před 2 lety +2

    Thx for sharing. I’ve been going through similar experiences moving my parents into assisted living. Mom at 85 has increasing memory loss. Stepdad is 92 and more and more confused. It’s helpful just to not feel so alone and hear your story. Merry Christmas. Love and hugs.

  • @jodie3278
    @jodie3278 Před 2 lety +1

    Really tough. I can so, so relate to all of this. My Father's devastating health crisis went on 13 plus years. My Mother's health crisis began before that and has had contunual flares to this day. That load really has never lifted for anyone of us but it is no longer that feeling constant crisis. Afraid to go to sleep, dread waking. I was so happy the pain left him. It was financially devastating for my parents who worked so hard for the good life they made. We all suffered in too many ways to mention. Never ever the same but for the grace of God the strength. Peace, love and strength to anyone suffering.

  • @theseasonedteacher3574
    @theseasonedteacher3574 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m a new follower and very sorry for your loss. I’m going through a similar situation with my aunt. I’m praying for you and your family. May your mom Rest In Peace. ✝️💚

  • @Spokenfan
    @Spokenfan Před 2 lety +1

    Poor Dear, I’m sorry for the terrible pain you are going through. My Daddy passed away when I was 6 and my Ma when I was 25. You know that saying “Time heals all wounds” well it helps but doesn’t heal and it does take lots of time. You are stronger than you think and you will make it through theses difficult times. We will keep you in our prayers ✝️❤️

  • @CecesQuiltingEtc
    @CecesQuiltingEtc Před 2 lety

    I just came across your video. My 84 yr old passed this past Friday the 18th. She had end stage COPD. We spent 3 days watching her struggle to breathe but given comfort care of morphine and adivan. Your story is so similar to mine. Thank you for sharing.

  • @teresaestes7073
    @teresaestes7073 Před 2 lety +1

    Jennifer, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. I needed to see this right now. Praying for comfort for your family.

  • @sophi1964
    @sophi1964 Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry to hear of your heartbreaking year. Be kind to yourself as you navigate through your new normal.
    Your dad now will be your main focus as his life has been turned upside down. As you know, often times depression sets in during the grieving process.
    I will be praying for comfort and peace, healing of your broken hearts.

  • @pameehanson3866
    @pameehanson3866 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss and I am caregiver to my husband of almost 50 years this month. He has vacular dementia and it is getting close to making a decision to place him in memory care as he is very forgetful and anxious. Thanks for sharing things about dementia that I did not know. This is the time in our lives when it seems to happen so fast and yet we have many years, wonderful and memories.

  • @kefirheals7383
    @kefirheals7383 Před 2 lety

    Wow - I'm not even one of your viewers! I just happened to see the tagline and clicked on it. I'm so sorry for your loss. What a heartfelt expression, the point where you say, "if I'd get a cold, I'd call my mom", etc. I totally get it. It's a void that you wonder how to navigate going forward. But slowly, it just fades a little bit every day, every week, and so on. The circle of life. It sucks, but none of us get to circumvent it. Take care little one.

  • @luckysuzful
    @luckysuzful Před 2 lety

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is heartwrenching. I totally identify with what you're saying. My dad was also in a memory care center, fell and broke his hip, then passed away only 1.5 months after his fall and the major surgery. He was much like your mom....very active and no mobility problems at all prior to the fall. Continued to try to get up after his surgery. Hospice came in and they were wonderful, but it was still very hard to deal with. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May you find comfort in the fond memories I'm sure you hold of your mom.

  • @chellejack3480
    @chellejack3480 Před 2 lety +2

    My mom just went into a memory care facility in October. My parents have been married for 62 years and this is the first time that they've ever been separated. This is a really hard time for our family. I could so relate to your story and my heart goes out to you. ❤

  • @kimberlyhummell9866
    @kimberlyhummell9866 Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry for your loss Jennifer. Went through it this year also with my father. One of the hardest things for me thru it all was seeing my Dad…who could solve any problem for me turn into the person this awful disease destroys. What I am finding now is my memories of him are going back to before he was ill, which is so comforting to me. Hope the same happens to you…take care!

  • @aimeehveem8618
    @aimeehveem8618 Před 2 lety

    I just came across your video today. We lost a lovely nurse nurse today at our office. Your video comforted me. We are all in this together. Sending my love. ❤

  • @loridontcaretotellu6497

    I am so sorry for your huge loss! It's never easy but the holidays can add another layer of coping because inevitably, every year as Christmas approaches, you will probably find the memories of this time flooding in --and then over time, less intensely. The key is to somehow navigate a way to still celebrate and honor your family traditions, still find pockets of peace and joy while acknowledging all of the "remember when's" as you keep her legacy alive along with others who love her. God bless you and yours...

  • @misa623
    @misa623 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom must have been a wonderful lady. I can imagine that from how you are to us.

  • @lavondadye8091
    @lavondadye8091 Před 2 lety

    So sorry for your loss! We lost our dad very similar to the same situation. He had a form of dementia called Lewy body syndrome. He was at home with our mom for 3 years with those symptoms and she and my brother who lived a couple miles from them helped with his care. He fell in September of 2018 and broke his hip. He went into the local nursing home where we visited every weekend. He was combative with staff and was put into a behavior center. His health deteriorated quickly and we brought him home a few days after Thanksgiving and he passed peacefully a few days later with all his family there with him. I visited with him on Thanksgiving day and he was so in touch with reality that day and I have that wonderful memory that I'll cherish forever!!

  • @virginiaschott4482
    @virginiaschott4482 Před 2 lety

    So very sorry for your loss. I've never watched you before, but you had a message for me. Been caring for my mom with Dementia for the past 3 yrs, she's 95 in march. While dad was alive she had an anchor, without him, she has slipped fast. It's a strange thing Dementia, no easy answers. Happy Christmas to you.

  • @donnacook3107
    @donnacook3107 Před 2 lety

    So sorry for your loss. My mom too had dementia. She passed in April 2020 in the beginning of the Pandemic, but from natural causes. It does take time, as you know, however having the support of family and friends is so wonderful. Extra prayers for your dad & your family. 😇🙏🏻

  • @keetkatt25
    @keetkatt25 Před 2 lety

    Just stumbled across your video at random.. and idk what caught my attention but watching your video reminded me of the days I worked with elderly people with dementia.❤️ I’m sorry to hear about your mom. 🙏🏼 Prayers for peace and comfort. May you and your family feel His presence in your life now more than ever.

  • @stageluvr91
    @stageluvr91 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m so sorry for you loss. I lost my mother to dementia also. Such a Hard disease to handle. My mom was completely unconscious for several days before she passed, but I was so glad I was at her side when she did. Prayers for your family.

  • @bitsnbags
    @bitsnbags Před 2 lety +2

    My condolences, I'm so sad to hear xx my father went through a similar situation with his Parkinsons and dementia. He passed 2 years ago, and I'm grateful he missed the whole pandemic situation.
    She's alive in spirit around you xx

  • @janetw2147
    @janetw2147 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m so very sorry. I know how hard it is to loose a parent, especially around the holidays. Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. 🙏

  • @rosieschweebie
    @rosieschweebie Před 2 lety +2

    Prayers for comfort and peace during this difficult time. I’m so very sorry. I’m glad to hear that you’re taking time to heal and grieve. Sounds like you and your precious mom had a beautiful relationship.💕💕

  • @ATM9490
    @ATM9490 Před rokem

    Thanks Jennifer for sharing your story, my family and I are going through this with my dad. I’m so very sorry for your loss. He was diagnosed with early stages of dementia 2 and had years ago during the pandemic and a month after he was diagnosed with multiple myeloma bone cancer. This is very overwhelming for me and my family & taking one day at a time. Dad is doing good, he has good days & bad days but we are so blessed to still have him here & enjoying the time we have spending with him. God bless. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @melissareid640
    @melissareid640 Před 2 lety

    I don't know your channel until today but both my grandparents had dementia and Alzheimer's and I tried to be their as much as possible. It was hard and beautiful as you say. Prayers for your family and I wish you peace. My you reflect on happy memories and know you did everything right for your mother, father and family. I wish you health and happiness in the New Year. 💝🙏💝

  • @oddanneout
    @oddanneout Před 2 lety

    It is beautiful to be able to send her off surrounded by the love she tended during her life. My condolences to you and your family.

  • @Lilbit_0813
    @Lilbit_0813 Před 2 lety

    I just happened to stumble upon your video, I just lost my mom to lewy body dementia on December 29th, I was her sole caregiver and it absolutely heartbreaking and also it was sudden . It has been absolutely devastating for me. Losing my mom brought on some health issues for myself. I find myself not wanting to live the house because she cant be alone. And I also went to call my mom to tell what my lil one with ASD had said and done and realized that i couldn't. I am.having to learn how to live my life without my bestfriend. Prayers for you and your family.

  • @candiaulbaugh3959
    @candiaulbaugh3959 Před 2 lety

    I just came across your video and I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 84 year old mother on 1/14/2022. I found her in her home where she had a heart attack. Your story is beautiful, you got say your goodbyes. I didn't get to say good bye to her, we are processing there is nothing more painful than losing a mother. No one can explain till it happens.

  • @peggymarshall5671
    @peggymarshall5671 Před 2 lety +1

    Bless your heart! So sorry to know she went so quickly. My mother is still suffering with Alzheimer’s. My prayers are with you for healing and taking time to grieve, heal and find comfort that your mom’s spirit is with you always! ❤️❤️

  • @lisastratton5145
    @lisastratton5145 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m so very sorry for the recent months of stress and sadness, and above all, the passing of your mother. May God wrap His arms around you and your family while facing the days ahead.

  • @laurieanne9712
    @laurieanne9712 Před 2 lety

    This was in my feed for some strange reason. Tracking you EXACTLY. Once the drugs start, all those negative things like you covered happened. This with a woman who only took 1/2 aspirin for a headache. She fell, broke hip, too, etc. Now with The Lord, too. Prayers.

  • @francesquinn2003
    @francesquinn2003 Před 2 lety

    So very sorry for your loss. I went to the same thing with both my parents. They were totally healthy & independent until they hit 86. Then they went down rapidly. Mom had Alzheimer’s & dad had early dementia. Moved them to independent living but then in 1 week had move my mom to memory unit. They didnt want to be separated so dad volunteered to go to the memory unit, But its a locked unit for the patients protection & my dad tried to escape. Then he signed them out against medical advice or my permission. I told him he needed to stay & that I wouldnt help him move. The social worker asked bow he was foing to get home.

  • @barbaradoolin4514
    @barbaradoolin4514 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m sorry for your loss!

  • @fashionablelena8696
    @fashionablelena8696 Před 2 lety

    I lost my grandmother to dementia in May. I could not understand why I wasn’t sad, but I realized that I said good-bye to the woman that I knew as my grandmother a couple of years ago. Like you, I was glad that she was no longer in pain. She met so much to me because she literally took over when my mother (her daughter) died when I was 22. She helped me plan my wedding. She was there when both of my children were born. This is my first Christmas without her.
    Dementia is such a cruel disease.

  • @sharonb.7867
    @sharonb.7867 Před 2 lety

    I just stumbled on your channel in my CZcams newsfeed. I am so sorry for your loss! It was a comfort to me to hear you say your daughter was reading your momma her favorite Bible verses. When we lost my brother 37 years ago it was my comfort in knowing we would see him again someday in Heaven that was my hope and comfort. I am so glad you have your dad and pray you all have many good years with him !! God bless.

  • @poppies1215
    @poppies1215 Před 2 lety

    I stumbled upon your channel today. I am so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. I lost my Dad about 3 years ago at the age of 95 and that was a heart wrenching experience as I was his and my Mom’s main caregiver. He is at peace now and my Mom is now slowly declining. I see it daily but am ever so grateful for the times I still have to share with her no matter her mood or memory. We as children get our strength from our faith and perseverance. With time it does grow easier. I would not change anything about my being there for either of them. It is the circle of life that we all must pass through. Stay strong. Holidays are still rough for me. The first year of any celebrations without them are the toughest to bear. Bless you and your family. She is indeed at peace.

  • @joycelopez2767
    @joycelopez2767 Před 2 lety +1

    Bless your heart...Honey the pain never really goes away but in time it lessons....hugs and prayers.

  • @andyplans_843
    @andyplans_843 Před 2 lety

    So sorry for your loss. Sending healing prayers to you and your family. Watching your parents grow old has lots of different emotions