Demanding Bride Looks For Perfect Sophisticated Dress | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 7. 03. 2022
- With a very tight budget, finding the perfect dress for picky bride Marion becomes an almost impossible task to do. Will consultant Rina be able to help this difficult bride and find her the dream dress?
From season 3 episode 1.
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She was very rude and arrogant. The consultant was smart to show her that the real problem was her budget.... That humbled her immediately.
on the one hand, yeah, she was looking for champagne tastes on a beer budget, on the other hand i understand when she pulls the dress she likes and they say "that's $4000" and she says "that's not reasonable." she's right, the prices at bridal shops (and especially this one) are just extremely unreasonable from the get-go, unless the bling on that dress was actual hand-sewn diamonds $4000 is insane. she could have had what she wanted if she had just commissioned a seamstress to make it for her, i've seen dresses like that on etsy for less than $1000.
No wonder why her fiance is embarrassed of her. When she "speaks" her mind. More like being rude
Exactly. She was so cheap. Wanted the best of everything but wasn't willing to pay for it! She very quickly changed her mind!! Cheapskate!!
While working in the women's department at a famous out let store My boss who was from France was the same way arrogant, self important, rude and to top it all off she also was a narcissistic bully who got her jollies on playing associates against one another. Or creating an atmosphere of somewhere the next shoe will drop and you entire shift walking on eggs shells.
She wore a different dress.
give this consultant an OSCAR for her patience.
The consultant was rude as hell, and must be fired!
She almost punches the client, for CHrist sake!!!
@@pasadena8546, what episode were you watching?
Wow! Hat's off to the consultant! She handled the bride's attitude well. Maybe if the bride had gone online and looked at dresses prior she would have realized the price point of the dress she wanted and adjusted her budget accordingly? And you have to learn how to talk to people.
I'd agree but when I have looked at wedding dresses the websites don't seem to list the price but maybe I'm not looking hard enough. That being said she was still ridiculously picky and I got a bit cross when she talked about the consultant not being able to do her job! She was doing such a good job with a very difficult client đ
@@eleanorwilliams7771 Yes, that bothered me also. How can you say that about someone. She was doing quite well especially with someone that picky and rude. She held her composure. It may have helped if she would have brought in a picture also of the type of dress she wanted.
I totally đŻ AGREE! Becoming engaged and not âHAVING A CLUEâ about looking at/for Wedding dresses is something that usually would take COMMON SENSE for the Bride-to-Be, you would think đ€???
@@eleanorwilliams7771 I also have been unable to find dress prices online unless youâre looking at something common like Davidâs bridal or companies that donât have physical locations and only sell online
@@brittany6954 The prices for the dresses depends on a lot of factors. How many alterations, when they need the dress for, how much or little fabric needed, fine details that would be added or removed that they don't show us on the episodes, etc. A dress for me (5'3" and round) would cost more that one for a petite 5'3" woman in the thought of how much fabric. And then on top of that, it also depends on what they're able to do when it comes to pricing per person per heart to heart. At these boutiques, the ones they're showing them are samples. Depending on the shop, you can buy the samples sometimes, some may be still getting made but they are out of season, just a lot of things can factor into price. Since all of these can't really be accounted for they don't put prices online too often. The issue this bride had was that she didn't see that her demands were just too much even when she was telling her bluntly until she had her do it herself. She was belittling her because she thought the consultant wasn't good at her job when in reality, the bride was just too demanding.
This client is so rude. Hats off to the consultantâs patience to deal with her. Loved it when Rina asks her âIs this WOW enough for uâ đ
Prayers...for the groom. He's gonna need them.
Amen đ
He needs to RUN!!
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When she said, a minute in, that she is straightforward and expresses herself too much and too loudly in public, so much so her partner is ashamed.. and then called it quite funny.. I knew we were in for a ride. Thatâs a nice way of saying she often makes a scene. Yay.
more embarrassed than ashamed I'm sure
Wow I didn't pay attention to that part! That's a red flag in any relationship nevermind marriage. She must be a nightmare
She's french!! There's her excuse.
I noticed David Emmanuel didn't stop in to help, just gave commentary from the sidelines. That consultant is good, not just in this episode, but in dozens. She deserves more credit than she gets.
Yeah, I really like her, sheâs genuine and beautiful I must say.
@Chevin Gladden ??? You realize that this is TV, right? David may or not have been in the store at the time of the appointment. Are you saying that the consultant should have called David if he was not there and tell him to make an emergency entrance to the shop?
Besides, lots of you hate David personally. People hate whenever he is involved. So now he is at fault for not being involved?
By the way, the bride found a dress she loved. So crisis averted!! So maybe David was not needed, yes?
@@catladyfromky4142 David is never needed. Thatâs the point lol he always goes over budget, blames the costumer when HE canât find the dresses, and whenever consultants find a dress he takes credit for their work. She was obviously having a hard time heâs the boss ofc he should step in. She handled it like a boss tho.
I understand but sometimes you have to learn how to overcome objections and be a problem solver and you have to do that on your own. Bravo for the way she diffused the negative situation. Great training clip
Yea itâs good for rating to have the rude person carry on lol
Well done to the consultant, especially with telling the bride the straight up truth about why she's having such a hard time.
Yeah, the bride was rude trying to blame the consultant for not giving her a decent dress to try on, when it was only because of the bride's very low budget.
The poor consultant was so patient as this bride continued to be rude. I can only imagine what that marriage will be like!
I feel the friends just said yes so they didn't have to go on anymore trips
short & painful
How can you be so judgy to someone getting married in 30 minutes video. Just be happy for her
This is the first time I think I heard a consultant from this store tell a bride prior to putting on the dress that it was over budget and give them the choice of whether to try on the dress or not. Nice job!!!!
Notice that David didn't seem to be working that day đ
True, they don't usually stay within budget straight away. They push all expensive dresses. Rina did a great job.
It's quite possible they discuss price on over-budget dresses (obd) but the footage never makes it to air. I have come to this conclusion as I don't recall a bride looking shocked at the obd prices.
@@Janexcalibur Thank goodness. The less I see of him the better.
@@cheekypiper512 He's the reason I rarely watch the UK SYTTD. Gok, all day, every day. Atlanta, Australia, and Canada - always.
Nothing says " I am classy" when you embarrass your fiance and treat ppl like crap
Absolutely the truth!
Sometimes consultants don't do their job or listen to their clients, but honestly don't think its the case here. The fact the customer blames the consultant straight away instead of thinking 'maybe this particular store just doesn't have the styles I'm looking for' or 'maybe the list in mind is unrealistic'. The things she said during interview were so rude. Saying things like 'I have to do her job and find the dress'. Its one thing to have standards but its another thing to have an attitude. The consultant was doing her job, and very well in fact. Even noticed she was pulling out dresses then saying 'she wont like this', 'she may like this' shows she did listen. Gosh, I'm so annoyed.
Me too - she' so awful!!!
I give the marriage two years tops.
I hope the bride reads these comments and actually takes them to heart. Congratulations to the consultant, excellent people sills. My daughters dress was purchased in that shop and the staff were wonderful
And to top it off, she never even wore the dress. She ended up with a rather underwhelming lace top with lace straps and sweetheart neckline and A line tulle skirt.
@@kp4911 the exact opposite of what she told the consultant. After saying âshe didnât listened to me. She should do her job. She doesnât know what I wantâ well you didnât either obviously
This bride is too arrogant to ever think let alone admit that she could be wrong. Borderline Personality people never accept the blame for anything, and the other person is never allowed to be right. Ask Johnny Depp what it is like to deal with someone like this woman.
@@kp4911 What episode shows that? Love to see it.
Iâm a fashion sales lady and I deal with such rude clients very often. Their standards are much higher than their budgets, but the attitudes are lower than anything. Hats off to this consultant for her patience and understanding
Rina is the sweetest consultant ever, especially in SYTTD England you won't find any other consultant struggling to find the bride a dress respecting HER BUDGET đ
As a French girl, I just wanna say... We are not all like that at all. Her behavior was rude even by French standards. We value politeness too. It's one thing to know what you want but you can be nicer about it.
I would have stopped her from being so rude. To me she has a narcissist bossy controlling manipulator attitude about her throughout the video. I give the bridal consultant stars for being so nice. She went way beyond her duties. She was very patient
You can't STOP someone from being rude. They'll be rude no matter, and if you said something how do you think the segment and the consultants job would go?
No. Shes just direct
How did she go beyond her duties? In what way?
@@TK-ij2xi It depends what type of boss they have. If I were her boss I'd understand & probably tell the bride to leave myself because my workers wouldn't deserve that kind of attitude.
And THAT is what tact looks like. GREAT bridal consultant and.....I hope the bride sees the video and makes an effort to speak to others in a more positive manner. We can always learn to do better when we realize we are in the wrong.
I'm French and I have to say : we're not all the same ! I find this bride so annonying...
She's a snob
She is the classic French stereotype but most stereotypes are driven by the loudest, most obnoxious people not the average person. I'm American and I don't want to be judged by Meghan Markle's behavior. She certainly doesn't represent me or the people I know.
As a french girl, I reaaaaaally hope the production ASKED her to play on the rudeness and thick accent clichĂ©. Otherwise, well done on spreading a real positive image of French girls đ
I was going to say, sheâs just being French đđ€Ł
Well you have redeemed French girls with your cute comment.
Unfortunately, every french girl I've met had an attitude. Thank you for saying not everyone is like that.
@@Karenswalk1207 I've lived in France and met only one woman with that attitude.
I thought the exact same!! We are not all like that AT ALLâŠ
Bride- I will do the job myself.
( gives a random look at a dress in the racks)
Bride- U see, this is my dream dress.
Consultant- u see, your dream dress is expensive.
what a savage line.
Yikes... hope this bride watches herself in this and learns from it.. she doesn't have to be so rude.
I had a former friend who's also French and was the same way. She said that's just how they are and everyone just has to deal with it or stay away from her.
I was about to mention the same thing. She thinks she is damm gorgeous like a Queen. She must bring its her job. Really? I mean no need for it.
When you speak a (new) Language there is a new personality that comes with it because every Language has a cultural backround, apropriate tone voice,.. As you can notice she isnât a 100% in english yet and therefore hasnât been able to develop the personality that goes with english yet. What you can say in one Language in a totaly normal way can be totaly rude in another Language. I speak 5 languages I know what Iâm talking about. Greatings from Germany đ
I see someone replied but deleted it. Yes I know that it's a huge country and not everyone is like that. That's simply what was told to me by someone else from there. Regardless of where a person is from rudeness like in this video is uncalled for.
She wore a different dress. She seems to have lots of friends and family who adore her. That's the impression I get from going through her family's online social media. Maybe the show upped the drama.
Loved the consultantâs attitude even when the bride was rude. She handled the whole appointment v well! đđŒđđŒ
I resented the way she implied that Rina wasn't able to do her job properly.
Part of the problem was yes she was VERY condescending and rude behind Rina's back but I also don't think she had any idea what dresses cost so she thought Rina was being just lazy or incompetent when Rina was working within HER budget. Many people don't know that buying a nice dress normally which might cost 50-100 bucks in the bridal world means you are spending 20x plus that for a dress.
But she had tried on many dresses at other stores.
@@dsquared1950 Doesn't mean they took the time to tell her about pricing or she wasn't so rude to the other staff they said screw her lol.
people are used to buying stuff that has been manufactured on production lines in countries without a minimum wage and in generic stores where you have to find the clothes yourself. Wedding dresses are made to order and made by hand. Beading takes many many hours of work. Plus you are also paying for the prestige of the designer and the fact that you have someone waiting on you hand and foot for an hour. I agree wedding dresses are overpriced for what you get thanks to PR- but that is the business you are shopping in so you suck it up or get something made.
I believe that brides should be able to find their dresses on their own by looking at the dresses themselves because they know what they want. The consultant can just direct them to the price-range and styles. It is also less time-consuming because it will be the bride picking from the collection instead of describing what they want which many seem to fail to express properly.
Yes that's what I did when I chose my dress! I was told where the ones within my budget were and told to choose 5-6 I wanted to try on, it was great!
AND also give them a realistic scope of what their budget has to offer
Ha! I love it when the consultant politely, but basically, said: you may have all the requirements and the "taste" but can you back your talk with actual money?
I find her "taste" , as demonstrated by what she wore to this appointment, to be questionable.
God bless her husband đđ€ŠđŒââïž she is a piece of work đ€ŠđŒââïž. And huge clap for Rina, you are so damn good girl! đâ€ïž youâve just nailed it đȘđŒ
Gold medal to the consultant! When her friend said it brought out another side of her, she wasn't kidding! Hopefully, bride will learn kindness one day.
Rina did a great job dealing with this woman with absolute grace. How many of us would have been so composed?
I would have had to go to the restroom and hit the nicotine vape so I wouldn't smell like cigs, and THEN come back. Commercial break TLC = smoke break lol
@kia b I think, I would just go back to smoking. One of the camera men is bound to have a cigarette.
This just sounds like first world problems lol
Her budget is waaaay to low to be that picky, arrogant, rude and pretentious. She thinks more of herself than she really is. Be modest, humble and realistc and you will find a perfect dress.
Your comments were perfect. I couldn't have said it better if I tried! The bride was incredibly rude and soooooo full of herself!
@@vickicrisler6360 đ„°
bride's really honouring the 'rude french' role
I sometimes wonder if a person is truly arrogant, or using it as a shield to protect themselves.
The consultant very professional, showed the bride the reality of how much each dress cost and why. (Personally I think all bridal dresses are overpriced) once the bride understood, she had know choice but to open up to other possibilities. Best wishes to the couple. They're going to need it.
I donât think she is arrogant. I think she was anxious about her wedding and that is how it came across. I canât imagine trying to describe something so abstract as how I would like a dress to look and make me feel in a language that is not my own. Also, keep in mind she is French and some of the ways she worded things would not come across as rude in that language. I a francophone and I work in an English school with a population that is Indigenous. Communication issues come up regularly and patience and understanding are a must.
Don't wonder, she is really this demanding and rude. Look at the way her mouth shows her impatience. It is actually reflected in her whole face.
@@rachelchiasson1767 saying âI donât think the consultant can do her jobâ because sheâs super hard to please is not anxiety. I experience anxiety and I would NEVER talk to someone that way. She was arrogant. Probably to hide her insecurities those dresses looked good on her but she probably doesnât think so.
@@rachelchiasson1767 This was not an issue of anxiety or language barrier. When a person tells you who they are, believe them. She literally told us from the beginning that she's a difficult person. And she is. She is a narcissistic person, and it doesn't matter why right now. You don't treat people badly, especially someone that's trying to help you, and then later fake humility because you realize you just ate sh*t. She's a spoiled, entitled brat. If you can't interface with the world because you're so internally angry, then don't.
I disagree with your opinion of wedding dresses being overpriced, as someone who sews. A LOT of the beadwork is VERY time consuming and hand-stitched, so you have to factor in labor costs, besides materials to make a dress. It adds up very quickly, especially in these times. Not like a few years ago, when everything was cheaper.
Rina was super patient with this bride Her expectations were too high.
Her expectations were too high within her budget.
A+ for consultant...she worked hard and was honest with her client....it paid off....great choice....
She didn't buy it. Look for Denise Mensah on Facebook, profile pic of a woman with a baby. You'll find the image on her front page.
She was so rude with Rina! Rina is a great person đđ
"She has to..it's her job" and "I will do the job"
Sorry..what??! That bride is so condescending
ugh i remember this bride the first time her episode was uploaded. how is anyone supposed to bring her what she wants when she describes a single dress as "too simple, too sparkly"? it can't be both. it's like she doesn't know what words mean.
I get that a lot of people here think the bride is annoying but I totally understand what means with that. Just cause the dress is sparkly doesnt mean it's suddenly interesting. A dress can be sparkly and boring at the same time
@@alena6049 sparkly and boring, yes. Sparkly and simple, no. Simple literally means undecorated.
@@LakeB-zw7hc for something this important, I would at the very LEAST bring pictures of what I like. Besides, she did find what she wanted in that shop. The word she was looking for is "expensive."
As a French, we don't claim this girl !
Hey David, you need to give Rina a raise! She earned it!
"Do you think you can?" đđ„ I would've been fired from that job that day if I was that consultant, lol.
The consultant has patience, she have a good attitude
I found her wedding picture on Facebook and she did not wear that dress. LOL
Share the link, please! Would love to see it.
Too bad I didn't see your comment before, but good job finding the picture. I did too and it wasn't so easy as some are. Her mother-in-law is Denise Mensah and she has a picture.
The consultant is highly professional, humble and cool â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž love from Pakistan
Give that consultant a raise, sheâs awesome! The bride had ridiculously high expectations for ÂŁ1,500. Iâm glad she realised she needed to change her attitude & expectations. The dress she chose was truly beautiful, largely due to Rinaâs extreme professionalism. Great outcome with a pretty demanding client. Great job!
This is an old one, I have never forgotten this one! Lol. She was so rude. Hat's off to the consultant for her patience!!
She's very direct! She might come across rude, but I've known French people and it's more of a culture thing. Also she said it's the consultants job to find her something she likes,which is fair enough as she's paying. I'm glad she found a dress she liked. Maybe she should have gone to Gok because his dresses are more reasonably priced and more WOW! And I think Gok would of brought out another side of her that's more likable.
Everyone: the bride is so arrogant
Me: wowww the consultantâs hair is so pretty
The trigger word of this episode is âunreasonableâ.
Not sure this marriage will work with this womanâs attitude and holier than thou attitude. The consultant was absolutely amazing!
WAIT - her budget was a measly $1500 for all that attitude??!! WTAF??!!!
The consultant, Rina was trying her best to keep in mind the bride's wishes for the dress while also keeping within budget. Some consultant's would immediately go over budget, David himself. Rina was incredibly respectful and kept her calm, while the bride was being quite rude. When she said behind Rina's back "I'll have to do her job", I was so annoyed with her. I understand Marion wanted to find the perfect dress for her wedding, but sometimes you need to pay extra for what you want. Other brides have also had a wake call when they've seen the reality of how much these dresses are and what they've been asking for. I'm glad Marion came round to being a little more open minded when it came to the style of dress and price. The dress she chose was gorgeous.
as someone who works in a bridal shop⊠Iâll tell you this is something that happens very very very often
In this business you need a lot of patience. When the bride realized that she should be more open to suggestions she was less rude and arrogant. You definitely have to pay more for something you love if the options are small.
If she can't handle the price of the Dress she wants in her dream ... she should dream within the limited budget she has... or be polite & respect ... but I love the consultant she is always nice & professional with all brides ... Bravo Consultant ... lots of respect to you
She wore a different dress.
I feel like the only person who didn't find the client that rude. She's just direct, has a dry delivery, and was frustrated that she couldn't find what she wanted after trying on so many dresses. Her expectations weren't reasonable and she needed to be brought back to reality, which the consultant did. I'm surprised no consultant set her straight earlier at any of the other shops.
Picky bride??? No, Rude is the word!!! As we see on this show time after time, it is absolutely possible in life to be picky and "straight forward" without being rude... and this bride is incredibly rude!!! Rina is adorable and incredibly patient!!
The consultant needs a pay raise dealing with this bridge. She handled her very well.
Wow đł The consultant isn't doing HER job, and if the gown she wants is over budget, then the price is unreasonable. Unbelievable.
i mean that price WAS unreasonable, $4000 is an absolutely stupid price for any dress, much less one that was basically "embroidered flowers and a bit of bling."
@dietotaku Do you realize how much embroidery adds to the time and effort into making a dress? Yes, real embroidery instead of appliques costs significantly more.
Maybe some of the dresses were overpriced. IDK. However, the bride chose that store in particular, so she should have been aware of their stock and price points.
@@dietotaku maybe. But you pay for material (silk, etc.), Labor (hand stitched embroidery and beading), and the name.
People buy Tiffany because it's name, not because the no name unbranded stuff isn't quality.
Don't get me wrong, a $4000ÂŁ dress isn't even in my orbit. My wedding cost $200 for the flowers and I did all the arrangements, bouquets, and boutonnieres. No way was I going over $500 for the entire wedding.
The bride and consultant clash with their personalities. They simply donât like each other. Thatâs the first time I have seen that. The tension was strong.
When men say âb*tches be crayâ, theyâre talking about this girl
Hat's off to the consultant for giving the french bridezilla a hug at the end đ„¶
I think everyone is being extremely nice to this woman here in the comment section, very proud of this audience!
I resisted the impulse to be nice.
Kudos to this Consultant for being so patient with this very picky and rude bride I wouldâve lost it
The consultant getting the bride to go from 'if she can't do her job and get me the perfect dress under budget I'm walking out' to 'I'll be open minded and try on what she chooses' deserves a medal
The French are known for their rudeness but she wins the prizeđ
It surprised me that she kept pushing that she was French, but had such a low budget for a "perfect dress". I kept thinking don't the French have Haute Couture which have insanely priced dresses?
True they have haute couture but that doesnât mean everyone can afford it. Bentley is British, so does every British person drive one? Or at least a similarly priced car?
@@evaebner370 Yeah, but she basically sounded like she expected that type of dress!
The way her friend talk about prior shopping experiences tells EVERYTHING. đ€Ł
Consultant is amazing! I ADORE and respect her for talking to her about budget instead of making her cry after she fell in love with the dress and spring the price later
Consultant has the patience of a saint..she did an amazing job.
Bride found that frosted pink lipstick I lost in the early 80âsâŠ..
Money hard earned and WELL DESERVED! Glad frenchie found a dress she liked. Hope she continues to address her approach to communicating with people who are just trying to help her.
This consultant deserves ALL of the praise for her patience.
Love the assistant: so pleasant and careful, even in the face of unpleasant and ignorant patrons.
This consultant is beautiful and so sweet
Bridezilla! Rude! Arrogant!
Prayers for her husband ⊠he will need it
The consultant did well to help this bride! What a challenging client! Glad it all worked out!
The consultant is a boss..
Moral of the story: if you're gonna come in with an attitude, better have the bugdet to go with itđđđđđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Itâs ok to be picky, but always be KIND.
The first dress with the "belt" would have actually looked really nice
Love the consultant. She actually stayed within budget. I've watched lots of episodes that asked for budget but always give over budget dresses causing heartbreaks. Brides should always come to a realization and agreement to the price before trying on more dresses.
Bride was rude but consultant managed to get her the dress of her dreams.... consultant was very kindâ„ïž
I love this consultant shes honest. Really great
I think that french people are different culturally and can be difficult but Rina ruled the day.
Wow .. this was a total reality check for the bride! Loved it!
this consultant deserves a raise............for her patience..........because of this rude bride..............smh
I think some things coming across as "rude" are also things that get "lost in translation"..meaning that even tough this bride speaks English quite well, it is not good enough to explain properly and she answered with very short answers because she probably didn't have the words to say it better.
The last dress - the one she chose - looked beautiful on her.
Chile I couldn't have been this consultant!
Bless her heart!
One of my Favorite episodes. The bride looked AMAZING and learned some pretty good life lessons.
I fee this is one of the most scripted episodes of this show with very clear message to future customers and critical audience as well. :) It's about realistic expectations and doing your homework before you choose where to look for what you want within your budget. There are many bridal stores out there, charity and second hand shops which carry beautiful gowns in very different price range. It's up to the bride to get informed about how far her money goes in each particular store. The same amount might not be able to buy you a belt in one store, but may be more than enough to buy you lovely gown in another. There is designer bridal couture, Charity shop and hundreds of options in between for every budget. This store has certain price range. All she needed to do is go elsewhere. She wasn't particular about antique lace or raw silk and handwork beading, her demands would be easily met in many stores. With more suitable price.
What a nightmare. Whenever I think a Bridal Consultant would be an awesome job, I am shown why it wouldnât. Hats off to the team and good luck to the groom! Youâre gonna need it!
Retail work is not always simple. Tact and diplomacy are often required. This sales agent should be the lead of this show!!! She is FANTASTIC! đ
The B word comes to mind and it's not Bride! She should of been more open minded regarding her expectations she might of been able to find an even more amazing dress if she would of allowed her bridal consultant to do her job.
Rina deserves a raise after dealing with her.
WHOA RINA ISN'T SAYING SHE CAN'T DO HER JOB, SHE IS SAYING THAT WITH YOUR LONG LIST OF DEMANDS FOR YOUR DRESS YOUR BUDGET WON'T MAKE IT HAPPEN.
6:28 she finally understood SHE was the problem NOT the consultant.
OMG. Lady was so condescending, quick to blame and unapologetic. Sad. She had a lovely smile, needs to use it more often. Hats off to the consultant. Deserves a bonus.