Unc & Ocho debate if they could handle their partner cheating on them | Nightcap
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- Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson asks Shannon Sharpe how he would handle finding out that his partner had cheated on him. Later, Chad claims that he and his fiancée, Sharelle Rosado, schedule their sex via a calendar on their fridge... which Relle has something to say about.
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Some people will never cheat, no matter what the struggles are. Some people will always cheat, no matter how good they have it.
Facts
Well said, I'm very promiscuous when single. But I've never cheated based on principle. I also have friends that can't stop cheating even though they desperatelty want to.
True. Hardest lesson to learn sometimes.
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Right! It's about their CHARACTER!
The worst pain ive ever felt was when I found out my girl was cheating on me like I was broken I dont wish that pain on nobody. I wanted to break everything
Stop acting soft
Man I was balled up like a baby cryinn lmao
Sorry bout ya girl but I couldn’t help it.
Clearly you never been in love @910kiqs2
It’s truly awful but you gotta use the pain as fuel to better yourself and make sure it never happen again. We only get 1 of these lives, can’t sit around and feel sorry for yourself. I learned the hard way
Was married to my daughter’s mom when I was just a kid myself at 18. She eventually cheated and I’ll never forget what my dad said. He told me, “Son, you can absolutely take her back and forgive her. You might even live happily together forever like nothing happened, but don’t kid yourself. Things will NEVER be the same as they were…ever.”
Nothing was the same.
Same happened to me and he's right, nothing is the same after the trust is broken
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Your dad is real af for that quote
If you forgive a cheater they will cheat on you again because you took them back. The cheater will never respect you for doing that.
Cheating is not a mistake. That kind of betrayal is difficult to repair.
100%
Yup I agree
Dont mistake, romantic love, its not forever, and they dont love you, they just love what you give them. That goes for all relationships actually, even family. So keep 10% of you, for you. Always. You can do what you want with the other 90%, but as long as you keep that 10% of yourself, for yourself, youll never get truly broken, ever.
Facts
Cheating is the ultimate deal breaker in a relationship for me. Women are way more forgiving towards something like that even when they shouldn't be, but as a man it's just something that's way too disrespectful to take a woman back. You step out on me, I'm done. No going back. I'll be in pain, but my dignity and self-respect means more than anything.
You speaking the gospel, my friend
I agree and I am a woman.😊
Women are more forgivable about it because it means that other women at least want you. It helps validate that they made the right choice in a mate. Men on the other hand are territorial and don’t want anyone else near their woman…..or at least shouldnt.
One reason women are forgiving is because it gets harder to find someone when we get older.
Nope can’t do it
Cheating is not a mistake, it’s a choice. Male or female cheating is unacceptable because it showcases the deceit in their heart…and the selfishness of it all😤
Yeah for sure. It's a choice.
It's a mistake also
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nah.
how do you sleep with someone by mistake the answer is you don't, you made a conscious choice to betray your partner.
Ocho is soo underrated, he’s has great critical and rational thinking and he displays very positive energy
We can like and appreciate ocho without lying dude cmon. He definitely is a positive guy tho
Chad adding 10 years 2 himself 🤣
@@persephone9360 y'all don't know or understand. That's the LEGEND of ocho. He literally has done soooo much and as a Miami dude. They shoot the shit. Meaning they joke a lot and let you figure it. With Chad, his legend is you never know if he bullshitting or not.
Ocho, is A REAL DOWN TO EARTH CRITICAL THINKING GUY, HIS MORAL COMPASS IS ON POINT
Ocho has a VERY HIGH EQ and I LOVE IT
If I get cheated on idgaf how long we together I’m GONE
On god
Exactly
You just know, deep down, she won't respect you for taking her back after betraying you.
I love how Chad lit up when his wife came into the room. That's love! Yes Lord!
Shannon lit up too. I’m just saying lol
Yea okay
Yeah that joy is real! Happy for bruh
That's his FIANCE. Let him light up like that when she's his wife THEN that would be special.
😂😂😂Yup I saw that lol@@trustplanet
If you let someone disrespect you once with no repercussions they will continue to do it until misfortune lands on them.
Facts!!
This real!
Real Truth, never said better
Nah. When I was in highschool a couple years ago I found out my girl was cheating. I was hurt because I was in love with her but I forgave her and we got back together. And after that she had no respect for me and it was obvious. I was so unhappy but wanted it to work out for some reason. After it ended I promised myself that I would never get back together with someone who cheated or showed any type of disrespect like that.
@@harriso575best thing to do is to take a break from her completely, few weeks. Then start dating other woman and youll get over her faster. But once you start dating thats when ur ex will beg for u to come bk. No matter who she is or think she is.
@@harriso575the realization is he breaking ur trust. Thats the most obvious.
@@harriso575the fact she cheated on you in the first place means she never respected you and doesn’t care about you the way a partner should. If you’re still with her , Get out of that relationship and don’t look back. Time heals the hurt but don’t force yourself to be around people who are willing to hurt you like that.
High school relationships are for simps lol
If you’re that young you haven’t gotten a dose of real life experiences !! Am 62 so here some advice for you!! Except your heart to broken more than it’s not!! However whatever crazy shit you do that’s on you !!
I’ll never know how someone can cheat, knowing that their partner will never fully recover from such a breach of trust
It's only cheating the 1st time. If the person sticks around after being cheated on ,they are giving permission to have it happen again.
Ever notice the trend of women having no consequences at all after cheating in so many movies? It's as if it is encouraged
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@@123jayb3 movies are not real life.
Everyone is on probation in my life one purposeful misstep they gone like water going down a drain !! With looking back wondering what happened it’s over that’s it!!
" Falling into some who-hi aint no mistake " 😂😭😂 Unc too funny lol
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I'm watching way too much of NIGHTCAP. I find myself hearing Shannon repeatedly saying Ocho Ocho Ocho when I'm not even watching the show.😂😂😂
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😂😂😂Oh nahhh🤦🏾♀️🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 Lmao
Yo UNC hilarious 😂😂 he said I'ma tell her the dress look good.. and it's finna be on the floor in a couple of seconds 😂
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I came here to hear Ocho say "stay with me now", and i was not disappointed.
I was married. She cheated... and I TRIED to forgive her.
But problems arose when I would point out the red flags that I learned to look for that told me "Hey, she's doing it again."
Well, she cheated. Again. I'm happily divorced. Point of my story: you can forgive, but you won't forget. And tigers don't change their stripes
My worst nightmare. I'm terrified of having to go through that. Respect to you.
WOMEN TAKE US BACK. MEN WE GOT PROBLEMS W TAKING BACK PIDD
@@MarkusBracey-cs5rmBecause physically the imagery is so different. And it takes waaay more interest for a wmn to let a man enter her.
Never take her back because shell never respect you
But what if u have kids n want them to be happy
I cheated on my ex wife and she let out the most gut wrenching cry I’ve ever heard. I am still remorseful and regretful to this day. I broke her. It took me over 10 years to finally be able to forgive myself for it but when I think about it, it still hurts.
Cheating is a tough thing to deal with.
Damn been there bro
@@sthomas730 Glad you understand. Sorry it happened, though, bro.
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I still feel disgusted with myself for cheating. Men should strive to be above that.
@@Bankrollprimo i cheated on one of the most amazing women i had in 2008. Im still mad at myself. But shes moved on. Shes married with 2 kids. Im still single and getting the worst era of dating.
At least you are man enough admit how it hurt not just her, but you too. Though you are no longer together, it would help hee to heal permanently by owning up to it, apologize and let her know you felt her pain when she wailed. Also, the decade long it took to forgive yourself and that upon until today, it still affect you each time you think about it
From what I observed, when it becomes public, people can’t handle the embarrassment. This is especially true for fellas. No one wants to go into the barbershop and everyone knows your lady is busting it open for the UPS driver.
it’s a primal instinct in men because before dna test, the only way to know is if she didn’t cheat
100% . My uncles wife cheated and ill never forget what he told me "the cheating is not why I didn't take her back ,it's that the whole neighborhood knew about it "
That is what I live by “Do not Embarrass me, ever”
Ocho cheesing when his baby comes around 😁😂😂😂 I know that’s right
Fuck no, she cheats once, and you forgive her, she'll keep on doing it.
You can forgive her but just leave afterwards and let that be that.
Vice-versa and I totally agree
@@jonpapi_2247just leave? lol that’s weak too. You man sure they remember you for at least one year when they look in a mirror and then leave.
I love how Ocho is crazy about his wife..love to see a man excited about love💯
Ocho is the only adult that lies about being older. Lol
He looks 35 years old
My mom always almost says she’s 10 years older than she is. I asked her to cook something years ago, she said “I’m almost 60 yrs old, that’s too old to be cooking.” I said you 51. She said close enough 😂
And heavier 😂
You can't control what a person does with their body. But you can control what you do when you find out. Stay in shape,stay fly,and stay papered up
Yes, place wallpaper all over your body when you go out in public. You might make a lot of rustling noises, but at least you papered up. Respect.
I don't think these two are the ones to ask about fidelity. Shannon comes across as the type of dude that cheats but would never forgive cheating, and Ocho comes across as a dude who cheated in the past but would act like he didn't and be heartbroken if it happened to him.
And then you and your 12 likes are the perfect 13 🤡
If I can't trust you to be faithful, I can't really trust you with anything.
“I woke up, that’s the schedule” “skin 30” 😂😂😂
Unc be having the gems 😂😂😂 skin 30 love it
Aye
thank you Ocho.. you brought out a side we didn’t know we needed to see out of unc 😂
Trust takes years to gain and seconds to lose 💯
Ocho dropped a bar. Manage your expectations when dealing with people. 💯💯💯💯💯
Word
He sure did 💯💯💯
I got my pad and wrote it down.
Even before my first ever relationship I wouldn't have been able to bring myself to do something like cheating. Then when I got into my very first relationship, and it ended with her cheating with a friend of her brother's, that tore me up. Like most people say, I would never wish that pain on anybody.
How did you find out
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@@MrMan-fx3ow her brother's gf told me, and her (my ex's) brother confirmed it. Then I saw a post on Facebook (when I had Facebook) of them kissing.
Unforgettable and unforgivable. It’s life endangering with all the stds.
I told my young son, don’t have sex unless you trust that person with your life, these are different times we’re living in….
@@MaddieLivingston42069and even then he shouldn’t bc we all know _we could trust them wayyy more than they value us._ Better safe than sorry.😣
@@MaddieLivingston42069 times are not different. Aids, & other stds been around before you & your son were born. Best thing is to tell him to wrap it up.
It is interesting that a man will be quick to leave a women for a mistake but a man expects the women to take cheating over and over again😮
That’s life
its because women have set that standard of forgiveness so its expected
We don’t expect y’all to stay y’all do that on y’all own
Of course
God didn't put a Hymen on a man.
Ocho is the coolest cat ever. I wish I could hang out with him. :)
U can
Me too..He’s like the fun but cool cousin 😂😂
🎉🎉🎉😮🎉😮🎉🎉😮🎉ocho would be my favorite nephew
No other podcast covering real life situations like unk and ocho. 💯🤝
UNC said I woke up that's the schedule get it in 😂😂😂 pause
I love the commraderie that the two of you have. Your conversations are on point, and there is accountability on both sides. Thanks for transparency. People want to see your heart and not surface truth. Good on ya!
If you forgive a cheater, that's giving them permission to do it again. Also, cheating takes more work than being faithful. So why would you be with someone who puts serious effort into doing the one thing you're not supposed to do in a relationship?
But it’s still the more comfortable choice
@@0Shane13no df it's not 😂
It’s actually not that difficult for the Wmn because they generally have a more willing participant.
It’s far easier to work hard for something you’re passionate about than something you’re not.@@JACQUEZJOHNSON23
As a woman who doesn’t like football I can say I really love this show 😂 and I’m slick learning a lot about the sport. And imma say everytime , Relle we need Selling Tampa back!!! And the way he looked at Relle when she came in with just pjs says it all. Stop the cap ocho 😂
Yeah she wasn’t having it😂😂😂
Being cheated on is one of those things that will always be in the back of your mind. It’s unforgivable to me.
Betrayal is worse than death.
Facts
Doesn’t matter who it is,
Betrayal or cheating means it is the END.
It was their choice.
Take accountability and the consequences.
OUT!
Cheating is a deal breaker. It’s cowardice, selfishness and immaturity. A real adult will say what the deal is. “ I’m seeing someone else so if you can’t deal with it let me know now”. Some people are not into monogamy and that’s ok as long as everyone is all the same page. Don’t lie to yourself and don’t lie to those you’re intimate with.
I LOVE RELLE'S COMMENT; "A LIE DON'T CARE WHO TELL IT." 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂. Ocho is NOT 56. He's 46. There are 10-yrs btwn him & Unc.
He stay lying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If cheating is so forgivable why don’t men forgive it?
I'm glad y'all talking about this. There's always double standards with me. You have to remember and understand- what you put out, you will get back. Don't do what you don't want done to you. Cheating hurts everyone, and it's never a mistake. It's a conscious choice
Cheating is a automatic relationship ender. I would never forgive a cheater.
Ocho you ain't gotta be perfect to not cheat bro
lol Ocho be cheezin so heavy when Rell come around😂❤
In my opinion, cheating maybe forgivable but not forgettable. Once that trust is gone, it is gone forever. But, to each his own.
I got cheated on it was more of a relief because I saw the signs I just needed the proof. I was hurt because I gave my all did everything I could to be the best I could be but it wasn't enough. I found out she cheated I moved out and never looked back, it takes only onetime to cheat on me. Now she getting cheated on and abused and I'm married to a beautiful woman and we are happy and enjoying life together.
Worst pain I ever felt is when my ex wife cheated on me n not only that it was with one of the first friends I ever made in the military that she did it with. I learned a lot from that marriage.
Do you have trust issues now?
Well no shit he does
Bruh it’s sad to say but people in the military with a spouse gets cheated on the most.It’s a terrible thing
@@listeningviayoutube7229 yea I definitely do but therapy has helped
@@User69-699 it really is
'I'm with you when you right" he tryna say unk usually wrong 🤣
I’m a woman and I’m married. Down for mine like four flat tires, if any dude gets out off pocket I’m telling him and he’s does the same for me. He knows about any guy I’ve ever talked and know about his, no secrets and no surprises. Thanks Unc, you said that!
Yall make a great combo for this show
Nobody is loyal. Once you understand that, life is simple
Sounds like projecting.
@@Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH do you comprehend what the word nobody means? But let me guess, you heard some goofball say that. So now you go around and use it frivolously.
Man she had me laughing on that one. Ocho talking about she drunk but she just woke up, smh. These boys are off the chain.
That part 😂😂😂
Yeah Relle said a lie don’t care who tell it 😂😂🤣
I’m on my cycle. I can’t do nothing. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loyalty is in you or its not. No in betweens. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Ocho I’m on my cycle! 😂😂
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Just remember some people will live by double standards. They will cheat but can't stand it if their partner cheats on them. It should be a given if you cheat in a relationship you can't sit on your high horse if the partner you cheated on does the same to you. Do I think it's healthy, not necessarily. But talk about fairness. What I'm saying is a cheater shouldnt be upset if the partner they cheated on, cheats on them
Getting cheated on doesn't allow you a get out of jail free card for cheating though.
I’m telling you the pain of finding your spouse cheating is mentally and physically draining on the heart body and soul I’ve been through it I’ve done it and I wouldn’t want anyone to experience it or vise versa
No excuse for cheating. Ever.
If you can’t communicate to your partner that you are dissatisfied to fix it, you go your separate ways! It’s just that simple! 🚶🏾
I left when I saw it with my own eyes. I had suspicions, but seeing it is a whole different ball game.
Don't wish that on nobody ...lol
Oml the worst thing ever
There's a big difference. When a man gets caught, the woman expects you to confess in order to continue the relationship. When a woman gets caught, she expects the man to let her die with the secrets and still continue the relationship 🤔
Ocho just makes me laugh man😂😂 0:16
3:43 as well. His smile and head bob is great.
Us as men *feel* deeply, our hearts break too.
How can we get to a point in this period at the top of 2024, get to a place where men and women become co-creators in shouldering the responsibility of building/sustaining a home rooted in fidelity (preserved by both members of the partnership).
A ‘family-first, household protection’ mindset should be a priority more than ever in our day. Cheating obviously is a trust breaker, telling of the union’s worth to the party that must own an indiscretion.
Not impossible to reconcile, however but the instance exists in the relationship’s timeline permanently, like scarring that has healed.
Yes. Unforgivable. Even contemplating is enough to know your partner isn’t the one.
Okay, I've been tuning in to Shay since Steve Harvey interview, and these nightcaps are hilarious. Between the both of you, I be cracking up and gaining knowledge at the same time. I agree.. once the TRUST gone, itz a WRAP! you gotta Manage the Expectations UPFRONT.
Great discussion
I ain’t built to handle that 😂
Facts 😂😂
That's why you have to not put yourself in those situations. Cheating starts with a conversation. That's why I'm not that friendly men. If a man speaks I say hello and keep it moving because I have my own man. I don't need another one. You make these friendships with men or women and then when you're not in a good space with your person, things can happen. I don't want to do anything to jeopardize a room what I have. Ruin your whole relationship for a half an hour. That's stupid
"My baby just woke up"
6 minutes later: "She's drunk"
I just love these 2 they are so funny 😂😂😂
I got cheated on and he was shocked that I left! Lol. I left and never spoke to him again. He was coming to my mom’s house and all kinds of mess.
The pain I had was I trusted a female, broke up with her because of my gut feeling. Felt bad that I didn’t handle the situation right, tried to fix things before it was too late. We started talking again but the truth came out she really was cheating. The thing that pain me most is I knew that I was right all along but I didn’t even trust myself to come terms with it. So in the process I was taken advantage of by being lied too. Say woke fellas
Can't be woke if already been known
I be missing the News and everything Watching yall
this topic is so touching everyone got there own personal story 😢
That's right Unc!! Don't mess up the hair! Skin 30!!🤣🤣🤣
If you love someone you WILL NOT CHEAT! Correction if your “IN LOVE” with someone you won’t do anything to hurt that person nor that relationship🤷🏾♀️.
Great show guys
You guys are the best!!
Unc know how to send a lady outside properly 😂😂
Yes! 😂
Yep....without messing up hair and makeup 😂😊
When a person cheats it has nothing to do with u but them. It’s a choice- u choice to do what u want and what u are feeling. The lying to someone u claim to
Love is what hurts people to the core. I think people can be forgiven- now if it’s a serial cheater that’s different. How can a woman forgive but a man can’t - fairness must be had
Do your thang Shannon Sir! We are proud of you over here!🏆
"Managing expectations", you got me thinking about that Ocho.
Cheating on your partner is sharing secrets, plans, finances, and other things.
A subject near and dear to my heart. Children make the decision so much more difficult because it isn't just about you anymore. Love and duration like Unc says also makes it so challenging to just walk away. Now let's throw in grandkids!!! Lasting effects for everyone.
The trust is broken completely!
The schedule I woke up get in you ahhhhh. Real shit
I Truly Love Your Platform… Because You Speak Facts and Honesty… May God Continue To Bless and Strengthen You… As well As OCJ… Positive Black Kings ❤️
AMEN❤️🖤💚
If a woman would cheat on one of you two dudes, what hope is it for the rest of us. lol
Quickly becoming my favourite channel on CZcams
Thank you to my two uncles I needed to hear this
Love Ocho being on the show
Never cheat. I only date men I respect, and let them know when I'm no longer interested in the relationship. I also don't tell when their friends try to crack on me. I firmly convey it's a "hell no". At some point I let my man know who I feel his TRUE friends are. (wouldn't want to cause friction in his friendships)🤷🏾♀️
At some point huh? Not right away? Fellas keep this chick away from ya homies and male family members. Even if she respects you she won’t tell you right away but wait for the right time.
@@KingCarolina_ I would never tell because I am considerate of my man's friendships. I would quickly tell the inappropriate bastard to knock it off. I can handle myself, it doesn't need to get messy. He can't get hot with a cold look. You seem a little naive. Most women don't tell.
You ain’t to be trusted bye
@@andresavage9109 Your ego is fragile. It's exhausting protecting it, trust that.
@@joemincer8882 my ego is fragile because your untrustworthy ok that’s fine
Schedule for excitement is crazy
🤣🤣🤣🤣 The Dynamic Duo
I never hated someone more then when I saw they had an unfaithful heart.
I have a good friend since high school. He’s been with a girl for a while. She’s cheated MANY times on him. He allowed it once, forgave her and there you go she kept cheating.
As messed up as it is. I put the blame on him as well because he keeps accepting her back.
Yeah, he’s a sucker for that
You can only be a victim the 1st time.
Man, I love these guys they are funny as I don't know what.
Nope, I could never trust the person ever again, cheating is never something I would allow