Narinder Kaur and Nana Akua CLASH over Narinder's 'coconut' jibe at Rishi Sunak

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  • @micksouthwales
    @micksouthwales Před rokem +190

    She doesn't realise that she is the biggest racist of them all.

    • @ae-ribae6426
      @ae-ribae6426 Před rokem

      She is incredibly ignorant, that's for sure. She can't grasp the simplest topic. Her mental capacity is pond -life as best.

    • @Chris-gs8kc
      @Chris-gs8kc Před rokem +7

      Well I'm guessing that as she isn't English that she won't understand irony.

    • @sh.4409
      @sh.4409 Před rokem +7

      And she knows her and her family wasn’t welcome and they chose to force themselves on us anyway.

    • @therespectedlex9794
      @therespectedlex9794 Před rokem

      But she's a gorgeous sexy noise maker.

    • @therespectedlex9794
      @therespectedlex9794 Před rokem

      Yes, and she's a facile ignorant person. It's to do with her racial background, in the wrong country for them.

  • @terrysmith5168
    @terrysmith5168 Před rokem +128

    Delusions of grandeur 😂

  • @Magizmo2007
    @Magizmo2007 Před rokem +195

    Riddle me this: Is it racism that she is experiencing or the sheer dislike of her personality. 🤔

    • @Maggie55124
      @Maggie55124 Před rokem +6

      Not a riddle … just fact … same could be said of MM🇦🇺

    • @megansummersides4255
      @megansummersides4255 Před rokem +3

      👏👏👏👏

    • @TheCWMHALL
      @TheCWMHALL Před 10 měsíci +9

      I don't like argumentative women , her Indian heritage is no interest , full marks to Nana , as always .

    • @maryduffy2036
      @maryduffy2036 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Her personality, absolute gob

    • @taffyddu
      @taffyddu Před měsícem

      If it’s so awful for big mouth, why doesn’t she go and live somewhere she would be happy.

  • @brianstubberfield2116
    @brianstubberfield2116 Před rokem +148

    This woman is out of her mind.

  • @EdVanMeyer
    @EdVanMeyer Před rokem +444

    Nana is one of the best journalists around.

    • @armaghjane
      @armaghjane Před rokem

      Nanawanted anyone who didn’t take the jab to have a criminal record,she’s as bad as the rest

    • @Whiskey0880
      @Whiskey0880 Před rokem +12

      Not really. She's recently had some disgusting views about people who didn't want mandatory needles.

    • @sh.4409
      @sh.4409 Před rokem +2

      That wasn’t recent. It’s like everyone has had a memory blank because I totally forgot about the way she went on to.

    • @kym1160
      @kym1160 Před rokem +10

      I love her fiesty attitude..she's very clever and self confident.

    • @Maggie55124
      @Maggie55124 Před rokem

      @@Whiskey0880 so what… it’s all about freedom of choice…, the dratted Pfizer nearly killed me… they can shove their useless vaccine that neither prevents transmission nor gives long term immunity 🇦🇺

  • @myrescuecats3028
    @myrescuecats3028 Před rokem +171

    Can’t stand Narinder.She is always in your face. Narinder is the reason I turn over

    • @brucedunn6845
      @brucedunn6845 Před 10 měsíci +7

      narinder Kaur, absolute go shite . legend in her own mind 😂

    • @TerryStewart32
      @TerryStewart32 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Who is she and how old is she

    • @kathleenmatthews6145
      @kathleenmatthews6145 Před měsícem +2

      Never heard of her before. I don’t want to see her ever again.

    • @Spriteside
      @Spriteside Před měsícem +1

      argh, this woman's everywhere! All noise and nonsense.
      Sorry Nana, can't listen anymore.

    • @pennybaxter4
      @pennybaxter4 Před 12 dny

      I can’t stand her no wonder Brian fell out with it .

  • @sue6337
    @sue6337 Před rokem +346

    Please educate Narinder on the fact theres a difference between people wanting to protect the borders/safety and racism.

    • @LuzdoSol00
      @LuzdoSol00 Před rokem +4

      Excellent point! People forget that a man like Baraca Obama has a nickname " Deportation and Cheff" deportation more than Trump's term in comparison.
      .

    • @sue6337
      @sue6337 Před rokem +7

      @@LuzdoSol00 Thank you. I wasnt aware of Obama's nickname, thank you for the info. Whilst I'm not a fan of Rishi in my opinion its extremely racist that Narinder refers to him with that name simply because he represents all the people in the country and not specifically his culture.

    • @ld7321
      @ld7321 Před rokem

      It’s SO true! And also there is a massive difference between legal and illegal immigration so I don’t know what she was on about saying ‘that’s not a valid point.’ There are laws for a reason, there are borders for a reason. If the radical leftists got what they are calling for the country would collapse in a matter of months. As lovely as it sounds to say “everyone is welcome” in reality it is just physically and structurally impossible 🤦🏽‍♂️ Nothing to do with racism, it’s just the logical vs the idiots.

    • @sh.4409
      @sh.4409 Před rokem

      Fancy knowing people don’t want you there like her parents and still choosing to force yourself upon the natives and then complaining if you get called a few names.

    • @alexedwards6509
      @alexedwards6509 Před rokem +3

      It would be a waste of time. Narinder (it's ok when I do it) Kaur is exactly the same as Gary (it's ok when I do it) Lineker Whom, surprise, surprise she defended.
      Footballers and reality TV stars are not best suited to discussing complex issues.
      You'd have more luck explaining unified field theory to Baldrick and farther Dougal Maguire

  • @unitedkingdomoffiveeyes9765

    Well done, Nana, for calling her out...

    • @LEEJEROME1
      @LEEJEROME1 Před 12 dny +1

      She didnt call out the vaccine though. She called out those who were wise enough to refuse it. Said we should be jailed. She's strangely quiet on the subject now.

  • @suethompson6497
    @suethompson6497 Před rokem +153

    Sorry Nana, please stop assaulting our ears and intelligence with this gibberish from Narinder. 🌸🙏

    • @Paula-lu6ke
      @Paula-lu6ke Před rokem +4

      I think that they had to bring Narinder on again to set the record straight from the previous interview she had done.

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty Před rokem

      Racist

  • @hellsbells7271
    @hellsbells7271 Před rokem +223

    Anyone who cries racism at the drop of a hat are usually the people who are most guilty of it , ay Narinder.

  • @pauldraycott4803
    @pauldraycott4803 Před rokem +213

    What Narinder Kaur has just said so aggressively describing certain politicians as "Coconut" is racist. How is this person still given air time when the likes of Lady Susan Hussey was made to resign for making an innocent comment whilst trying to engage in polite conversation with someone. Kaur should be banished from our screens, but we all know she won't be...... and we know why she won't be.

    • @berniefynn6623
      @berniefynn6623 Před rokem

      WE are not the racists in our own country, the other ethnics are,trying to push their backgrounds on us, this is racism and I do not care who is offended by MY country's attitudes and customs.

    • @jujutrini8412
      @jujutrini8412 Před rokem +5

      It’s not racist. She does not have a negative opinion or look down, mistreat or discriminate against an entire race of people BECAUSE of their race or culture. In this instance she is talking about a few people who belong to her own race and as far as we know she loves her own people as we do not hear of her talking down her own race.

    • @viviencockle2116
      @viviencockle2116 Před rokem

      @@jujutrini8412 …. You are well wrong, Narinda is extremely racist, using the term Coconut is being extremely racist against white people. She has the most offensive mouth on GB News.

    • @NessieT
      @NessieT Před rokem

      👍🏻👏🏻

    • @skontheroad
      @skontheroad Před rokem +9

      I just found out why she even has air time! She needs to go! Reality TV gives her no background or justification to speak on issues!

  • @kimberley9410
    @kimberley9410 Před rokem +92

    Narinder is overbearing, doesn't listen, and loves the sound of her own voice, yet Nana kept her under control.

  • @barrycastles5168
    @barrycastles5168 Před rokem +48

    Woke mouth piece

  • @alambyant
    @alambyant Před rokem +159

    @9:50 she says the Indian tv channels told her she was “too Western” so they wouldn’t hire her. That is literally the definition of racism and that means she’s admitting her own Indian people are racist. Amazing.

    • @mediacenterman8583
      @mediacenterman8583 Před rokem +6

      That is not the definition of racism.

    • @lumpyfishgravy
      @lumpyfishgravy Před rokem +13

      India has the caste system based on birth not skill or achievement. Racism's a close cousin.

    • @alambyant
      @alambyant Před rokem +13

      @@mediacenterman8583 What if GB news told her she was too Asian to appear on their channel?

    • @alambyant
      @alambyant Před rokem

      @MD The overwhelming vast majority of racism in this country is against White people and it’s not even close.

    • @lumpyfishgravy
      @lumpyfishgravy Před rokem +3

      @MD Statistics not a strong point then?

  • @janecooke9151
    @janecooke9151 Před rokem +105

    I watched that interview where she called Sunak a coconut and what she also said was “he’s a coconut because he isn’t looking after his own people ie brown people. She is racist!

    • @MHack-xl2dh
      @MHack-xl2dh Před rokem +9

      I watched it, too, and the racist rhetoric just spills out of her mouth at every opportunity.

    • @craighart9278
      @craighart9278 Před rokem +8

      She also said on Dan's show, 'we (meaning asian people) hold asians to a higher standard'
      Imagine if Dan Wooton said to her, 'we hold white people to a higher standard' omfg!! All hell would break loose.

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Před rokem

      Calling Rishi a coconut is not racism😂

    • @craighart9278
      @craighart9278 Před rokem

      @Lea Beauty Why is it not 'racism' to refer to a person of colour as a 'coconut'?

    • @leabeauty837
      @leabeauty837 Před rokem

      @@craighart9278 because coconut is an expression in every non white community; that simply means a person of colour who acts white. No hate involved in the term, it just is what it is.

  • @ireallydontthinkso
    @ireallydontthinkso Před rokem +445

    Well done Nana for calling this woman out for her vile views.

    • @MarieN8959
      @MarieN8959 Před rokem

      Indian woman complaining about racism when indians are most racist 🙄 at least towards us blacks , they purely hate us .

    • @mohammedibrar3299
      @mohammedibrar3299 Před rokem

      Can someone shut her up

    • @Nora.........
      @Nora......... Před rokem +17

      Narinder, GB News "put you on" for a reason. Just as you were "put on" by Big Brother. Is it worth the fee?
      Nana is so good at her job, she covers it.

    • @geoffreymollart7311
      @geoffreymollart7311 Před rokem +6

      @@Nora......... I thought Shouty Woman was going to be calmer but shouted again. Worth the fee for comedy.

    • @normankennith7919
      @normankennith7919 Před rokem +1

      i think '' coconut' is a funny remark!

  • @laurameszaros9547
    @laurameszaros9547 Před rokem +93

    Nana Akua gets more eloquent with every presentation she gives. Shame the same cannot be said of her overtly racebaiting guest.

  • @jamiejames6952
    @jamiejames6952 Před rokem +95

    Rent a gob.

  • @langolimerance9641
    @langolimerance9641 Před rokem +40

    Nana is so professional!

  • @myrescuecats3028
    @myrescuecats3028 Před rokem +36

    Nana you need to remove this Racist Narinder is Rascist

  • @cindyfaulkner5725
    @cindyfaulkner5725 Před rokem +80

    Sorry but Narinder is very racist about her own race.
    I find her very offended, I don’t know why you have her on the show, she seems to think the louder she shout the more right she thinks she is.

    • @julienorton1067
      @julienorton1067 Před rokem +1

      That's exactly what I was just thinking. Speak fast and loud and you're right.

  • @PAUL25926
    @PAUL25926 Před rokem +44

    Love Nana can’t stand Narinder.

  • @johnschofield3418
    @johnschofield3418 Před rokem +56

    It's not racist when I do it
    That's basically what she is saying

  • @cristinedookie2697
    @cristinedookie2697 Před rokem +47

    I'm indian and this lady narinda is never wrong loud and obnoxious and yes racist. And Nana from one indian to another u should have kept her face blurred just saying

    • @Sthmohtwenty
      @Sthmohtwenty Před rokem

      Hmmmmm don't have that name ....racist

    • @enochpowell8607
      @enochpowell8607 Před 10 měsíci

      You Indian's look down on dark people 💯 the darker they are the lower class they are... You won't get darker than nana just saying.

  • @LolaMarigold
    @LolaMarigold Před rokem +91

    I can't watch Narinder when she comes onto other panels. She runs roughshod. I thought maybe this would be interesting and pleasant, not argumentative. I find her so obstinate, so angry. It didn't take her long to dive into her complaints. I guess being like that keeps her relative.

  • @catherinedonoghue3508
    @catherinedonoghue3508 Před rokem +53

    Nana Akua is brilliant, that other lady is out of her mind.

  • @colinreay2678
    @colinreay2678 Před rokem +44

    I wonder what Narinder,s husband thinks. All rounds to Nana.

  • @malkeh53
    @malkeh53 Před rokem +55

    She is sitting next to the brilliant, beautiful, indomitable Nana and daring to cry about racism.

  • @pjduff7577
    @pjduff7577 Před rokem +53

    I would guess narinder only gets airtime because of her colour, its not for her views

  • @gtvrossa
    @gtvrossa Před rokem +198

    So because SHE grew up with 'racism' she is fixated with the subject and everything she sees is racist, the country is racist, the media etc etc? Everything apart from her that is. She undoes her arguments by being racist herself and justifying it due to what she saw in her younger years. The moment you become what you claim to hate is the moment your case and cause falls apart!

    • @alambyant
      @alambyant Před rokem +26

      She also said the Indian channels told her she was “too Western” for them to hire her. Imagine GB News telling somebody they were too Indian.

    • @daveduck4315
      @daveduck4315 Před rokem +11

      What sort of racism,these two want to have a few days in the 70s

    • @lumpyfishgravy
      @lumpyfishgravy Před rokem +5

      And just like that the whole cause of "social justice" disappeared. Except not - because there will always be people willing to set aside their brains for the sake of futile anger.

    • @mikechapman8896
      @mikechapman8896 Před rokem

      she is racist and should cancel herself

    • @abazely2743
      @abazely2743 Před rokem +6

      Born and bred in an echo chamber saves having to think.

  • @borderlands6606
    @borderlands6606 Před rokem +62

    Nana has the patience of a saint.

  • @lyndahorgan3306
    @lyndahorgan3306 Před rokem +63

    Once I knew she was coming on next, I switched over. Seems like many other viewers do the same. What a waste of money GBNews. This woman just speaks, I mean shouts total drivel.

  • @craighart9278
    @craighart9278 Před rokem +105

    When speaking to Dan a few days ago, Narinder said, "we (meaning asians) hold asians to a higher standard"
    Could you imagine a white person saying to a black person "we (meaningl white people) hold white people to a higher standard " OMG! We would never hear the end of it, and I want GB News to question her further about that comment, too.

    • @lyndahorgan3306
      @lyndahorgan3306 Před rokem +2

      She’s extremely racist. Don’t watch her, switch over once she starts.

    • @aliross2720
      @aliross2720 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Narinder goes round projecting and deflecting from her own racism and biases. She's a narcissist in my opinion and wouldn't face the truth about herself no matter how many times its pointed out to her.

    • @jameshogan6142
      @jameshogan6142 Před 10 měsíci

      You are right that it would not go down well but the statement itself is actually true, at least in my experience of Asian communities which has by and large been very good.

    • @aliross2720
      @aliross2720 Před 10 měsíci

      @@jameshogan6142I think what makes Narinder so blind to her own hypocrisy and double standards is her pathological narcissism. I think on some level She really thinks she see's racism all around her because she projects her feelings onto her environment and can't see past it because of her cognitive distortions and because shes psychologically dysfunctional and rigid .Im sure she has experienced some racism in her life but not nearly as much as she believes. A cognitive distortion that many narcissists have enormous trouble with is emotional reasoning. Narcissistic personalities believe, perceive that feelings are facts. This is the way narcissists seem to perceive many of their experiences. Cognitive distortion are sometimes known as negative thinking patterns. They are thinking errors that result in an incorrect or exaggerated interpretation of events or experiences. With emotional reasoning in narcissistic personalities the situation is often interpreted completely through the emotions which can cause it to be interpreted incorrectly.
      The narcissist's feelings are considered to be evidence or proof of the reality of things and are therefore relied upon more than the actual facts of the situation and carry more weight in their interpretation of heir experience. It is a very serious dysfunction in perception and usually ends up coloring most of how they see things. Feelings are not facts. They can be-and often are-illogical and unreasonable. That's why it's not a good idea to make big decisions when we are really emotional because we may not be thinking clearly or be able to appreciate the big picture of something until we calm down. The majority of us know this and are able to control our emotions and ourselves. We are able to separate reason and emotion and prevent feelings from clouding our reason, perception, and judgment.
      Most of us, meaning those of us who are not narcissists, fit our feelings to the facts. That means we react appropriately and reasonably to what has actually happened. The event influences our feelings. We are able to view the event clearly and understand it on its own merits. We then process the facts of the event and decide how we feel. Narcissists don't do that. They essentially do the opposite of that. They fit the facts to their feelings. This means they interpret events in a way that agrees with how they already feel. The narcissist's already-existing emotions influence their processing of the event rather than the other way around. This usually results in very skewed perception. Emotional meaning is attached to things that have none. Malice and bad intentions are read into things that are innocent. It's usually all negative. This happens because the narcissist's feelings are clouding their judgment and the narcissist already feels bad. Their perceptions are colored by feelings they've had for years, feelings that are actually often completely unrelated to the person or event they are perceiving. theirfeelings is the only perception they truly rely on.
      What they feel overrides what they can see and hear. most people, if what their eyes and their ears are telling them does not match up with what their feelings are telling them, they will adjust their feelings to be more appropriate. The narcissist does not do that. When what they see and hear-when reality, in other words, does not match up with what their feelings are telling them-they adjust reality to match their feelings. Or they dismiss it completely. The narcissist's mindset is, "I feel it, therefore it's true." r I feel like you don't like me therefore you really don't like me, I feel like you're intentionally trying to anger or embarrass me therefore you really are trying to intentionally anger or embarrass me. For narcissistic people this goes even further into a circular logic that is impossible to penetrate. It isn't just that i have concluded you were trying to anger me on purpose, the fact that i feel angry in the first place is undeniable proof that this was in fact your goal and there is no other possible interpretation of the situation. The fact that i got angry about what you said or did is proof that you did or said it specifically for that reason, I wouldn't feel like that if it wasn't true. My feelings are not just the facts, they are also the evidence that proves the facts.
      This is not about gut feelings or following your intuition by the way. This is about believing something to be true just because they think it is with no other evidence or supporting factors at all. It feels like someone doesn't like them so that means that person definitely does not like them even if the reality of the person's behavior doesn't actually support that conclusion at all. Anything that doesn't reinforce this perception is discarded, dismissed or denied. This ends up with the narcissist living in an almost-constant state of denial, trying to protect all of these erroneous perceptions and defend all of their invalid assertions. The stronger the proof to the contrary is, the harder they will dig their heels in. This in turn simply embeds the misperception into their head more Instead of examining their feelings to see if they make sense or explore where they're coming from narcissistic people take them as facts that are reflecting how things really are. They're actually reading through their own emotional lens and these emotions are distorting the input. You'll often see that when they try to read others or interpret other people of supposedly hiding something, it's always something about them in some way and it's always something negative. That's not a coincidence. This unfalsifiable and egocentric auto reinforcement of their own skewed interpretation of the events creates a negative emotional reaction in the narcissist that is often way out of proportion to what's going on and it's all based on what they are telling themselves about what's happening. This leads to or occurs in tandem with more emotional reasoning and more cognitive distortion such as over generalization and mind reading until the situation has become totally out of control and even delusional.
      This is when we often see the abusive behaviors narcissistic personalities are known for such as exploding or the silent treatment because now they believe the other person deserves it. Many times the things narcissistic people are upset about are overblown, misinterpreted just not true or didn't happen and the only so-called evidence narcissists actually have of any of it in these situations boils down to their own feelings. Feelings are important considerations in any situation but they're not necessarily evidence of anything and they do not necessarily reflect the reality of things at all. Narcissists view their feelings, particularly their negative feelings, as reflective of reality, even though many times they're not. Especially for narcissists who tend to have a chronically negative and egocentric view of things anyway. These negative feelings are the result of their inner landscape, their negative thoughts and their perception problems. So feeling bad after a compliment becomes proof that the complimentary person was trying to shame or upset them. They experience their feelings as coming from external sources and this is usually other people.
      The most unfortunate thing about this kind of reasoning is that it's so off the beam but you can't argue with it. How do you argue with someone's feelings? you're not trying to but many times that's exactly how it's interpreted. The narcissist angrily insisting you are trying to tell them how to feel. You're not of course. Their feelings might even make sense if what they believe happened actually did happen, but it didn't so all you can do is keep trying to tell them that they've got it all wrong. You are arguing facts and they think they are too but they're not . They're arguing feeling. They are arguing their emotional interpretation of the event as a fact. The conversation is about the fact that you intended to upset them on purpose or anger them on purpose or whatever rather than entertaining any other possible interpretation of the situation. As any other non-pathological person keep trying to explain to them what your actual intentions were doesn't work. They're having a thinking error therefore their conclusions make perfect sense to them. Not only does the conclusion make sense, their feelings are considered evidence for this conclusion. This means they have irrefutable proof that what they're saying is true along with whatever else has happened that they now view through this same distorted lens.

  • @markmarshall7972
    @markmarshall7972 Před rokem +37

    Why this women when there are so many more interesting women out there.

  • @nalinimenon641
    @nalinimenon641 Před rokem +72

    Narinder needs EDUCATION -- she is really quite lost. Maybe she knows another island where she can house all these immigrants? Well done Nana! You are one of the few journalists who call it as it is! Bravo!

  • @mattyo2291
    @mattyo2291 Před rokem +117

    We ALL know you read the comments, Narinda. Narcissistic people always do.

    • @janx8695
      @janx8695 Před 11 měsíci +1

      lol you know what they say any attention is good for narcissists, even negative attention will do. You can tell how much she's loving having any kind of spotlight again. She's vile and I remember how bitchy and what a nasty piece of work she was on big brother. She was so envious and jealous of another girl Helen and any attention she got.

    • @boshankers12
      @boshankers12 Před 10 měsíci

      @@janx8695that’s not true. Narcissists hate negative attention.

    • @janx8695
      @janx8695 Před 10 měsíci

      @@boshankers12 Any attention given to narcissistic people can be used as supply. They will gladly accept negative forms of attention if that's all they can get. Some even seem to prefer this type of attention; they behave in ways that provoke negative reactions from people as it validates their self-hatred and enables them to perpetuate their fantasies of victimhood. "You see? I am a victim because everyone is mean to me." Narcissistic supply is. It is attention and energy from other people - either positive or negative - that supplies the narcissist with validation of their worth. They can never receive enough of it. The moment they stop receiving it, they are empty again. This is why they provoke arguments, why they make up stories, why they twist people's emotions. People's reactions to all of these things say to the narcissist, "You matter."
      The behavior and needs of narcissists usually coincide with how they receive and process this narcissistic supply. This is the supply of admiration, sympathy, attention, sex, power or whatever it is they need to validate themselves as worthy human beings. A narcissist who needs to be feared may be a bully. A narcissist who needs to be desired may be promiscuous, either physically or emotionally. A narcissist who needs to be pitied may behave like a victim. A narcissist who needs to be needed may behave like a hero. It all depends on what they have learned means "power" in their lives and how they have learned to get their needs met. For a narcissist, "getting their needs met" usually translates into "feeling better." This is why it doesn't matter if the thing making them feel better is actually detrimental to them or anyone else in the long run. If it makes them feel better now, that's all that matters.
      Narcissistic people cannot create, regulate or sustain their own self-worth. Without a constant supply of validation and attention from others, the narcissist's self-worth cannot be regulated and will drain away. Think of a pitcher with a hole in the bottom. When any human being loses all of their self-worth in this way, a suicidal crash at the bottom is essentially inevitable, and the true narcissist is much closer to the bottom already than a person who has healthy coping mechanisms and who can build their own self-worth. Where it might take a healthy person months or even years to reach that dark and terrible point, a narcissist can often reach it in a matter of hours. In order to function at all within this horrific handicap, narcissists need a steady supply of the necessary feedback from others that they then convert into momentary self-worth. Because they can create no self-worth of their own and cannot sustain whatever they receive from others, it does not last long and they are soon teetering on the brink of collapse again.
      the "positive feedback" or supply the narcissist is seeking from others doesn't always mean things that feel good to the other person. It means things which feel good to the narcissist, and these may not be the same thing. It can be things like admiration and approval, but it can also be things like pity, fear, anger or anything else. In the same way, the "good" image they are presenting of themselves doesn't necessarily mean what we think of as a "good person," though it often is. It just means something that will create the reaction they are looking for from others and that is usually the opposite of what they believe themselves to be.
      For example, if they feel they are a weak person, they may create an image of themselves that is intended to inspire fear or awe in others so that they can be validated as strong through other people's reactions to them. If they feel they are a monster, they may create an image of themselves that is intended to inspire pity or sympathy in others so they can be validated as a victim through others' reactions. But it can also be less specific; anything which validates their existence in any way can be enough. As an example of this, we might think of the narcissists who get supply through arguing, or of internet trolls, who are only looking for any attention of any kind. The life of the pathologically narcissistic person is a performance of one for one by one, and other people are the props narcissists use to make the fiction more believable to themselves. If others believe it, that makes it more real. And when it's more real, they can believe it and convert it into self-worth - at least for a time.
      Without other people to create feelings of worth inside the narcissist, they will not have any. This is why negative types of attention often work just as well as positive types. If someone is yelling at you, you exist. If someone hates you, you are important. If someone argues with you, you matter. Even though they are not positive, these things still help validate the narcissist's worth - usually by simply acknowledging their existence.
      Narcissists exist in a world of self-hatred, pathological shame and deep-rooted insecurity. They have very unstable or even nonexistant identities. They look to other people to validate them and their worth because they are unable to validate these things themselves. Left to their own devices, they feel worthless, useless and unloved. Narcissists generally have a sadistic superego that abuses them nonstop. They have no internal way of fighting off this onslaught. The only weapon they have against it is the reaffirming of their self-worth from other people. They attempt to secure this by creating a false-self that is the opposite of what they believe themselves to be. They don't believe anyone will love or even like them if people can see what they really are. So they create a persona that is the opposite.
      If they believe they are stupid, the false self will come across as smart. If they believe they are weak, the false self will seem strong. If they believe they are a victim, the false self may be a predator. Or it may be someone that helps others. Whatever is the opposite of the horrible thing they believe themselves to be is the face they will show the world. When people buy into the false self, they are validating the narcissist's worth as a person. This creates momentary self-worth. If other people believe the narcissist is a good person, it helps them to believe it. They can then lean on that when their internal abuse becomes overwhelming.
      Of course, they never truly believe that they are good people; their self-hatred and shame is too entrenched for that. They resent the fact that they have to rely on others and they resent the fact that they have to pretend in order to get others to like them. This is experienced as something being wrong with themselves, but is denied and projected as something being wrong with the other people. "There's nothing wrong with me. Something's wrong with them. They dislike me for no reason!" This, even though the other people may have done nothing to actually show that they dislike the narcissistic person. It's all in their head, partly paranoia that the lie they are living will be seen through and partly projection of their own self-hatred.

    • @janx8695
      @janx8695 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@boshankers12 The narcissist's fictional structure is very fragile, yet their entire well-being is dependent upon it. The slightest deviation from the script disrupts this fiction and tears holes in it. Pathologically narcissistic people become very distressed when people don't perform according to the script. If you've ever seen a child playing with Barbie dolls or something like that, you'll understand sort of how it works. The child moves the doll, speaks for the doll, creates the doll's personality... the doll is an extension of the child and the child's fantasies. This is similar to how narcissists view other people. When the doll does not fit correctly into the role or function the child has in mind, the child discards that doll for another. The child may become frustrated when the doll does not perform as they wish, the same way narcissistic people do when others do not do what the narcissist wants them to do. This creates a feeling inside the narcissist that they are not in control and worse, that their fiction has been seen through.
      To their way of thinking, when someone is "good," they deserve everything they want and they will get it. If they are not getting everything they want, they must be bad. If people think they are bad, they must be able to see the defective self the narcissist is trying desperately to deny and hide. Narcissists cannot tolerate imperfection - in others or themselves. That's the point of the false self: to be perfect. Only when you are perfect will you get the needed validation from other people. This is what the narcissist believes. Of course, they cannot meet this standard because it's unreasonable. Nobody is perfect. The people they surround themselves with are held to the same standards. Be perfect or be punished. It's important to remember that "perfect" here doesn't have to mean perfect in general, but it always means perfect for the narcissist. The people around them can have no flaws, make no mistakes, have no needs and above all, they can never behave in a way that makes the narcissist fear even for one second that their defective self will be exposed. And anything that deviates from the script will trigger this fear.
      Narcissists idealize others until this happens. Other people are mirrors that narcissists see themselves reflected back in, and as long as the person has given them no reason to believe the fiction has been exposed, the reflection will be good. Once this happens, the reflection becomes negative. The narcissist believes they will be abandoned and their life-sustaining supply will be cut off. They feel betrayed that their perfect mate has betrayed them and tricked them. So they begin to look for other ways to find that supply, either through other people or by changing the dynamic of the relationship. Instead of drawing sustenance through the reflection from this amazing perfect person that loves them - which made them feel perfect and good, they draw it from punishing and shaming this person who lied and betrayed them - which makes them feel strong, superior and vindicated. Or perhaps they simply leave the relationship altogether when they find another person who will again be their perfect reflection. For now.

    • @TheBadBunny87
      @TheBadBunny87 Před 19 dny

      Everyone hates negative attention 😂​@@boshankers12

  • @norabarry7694
    @norabarry7694 Před rokem +131

    She doesn’t get that it can be offensive to white people because she’s saying the person she’s aiming it at are white on the inside and brown on the outside so it’s obviously meant to be offensive to be white, she said she had a lot of racism herself but she’s targeting others and being racist to them

    • @craighart9278
      @craighart9278 Před rokem +23

      Absolutely! It certainly comes across as if she sees white people as lesser people.

    • @ifunanya24
      @ifunanya24 Před rokem

      I don’t think Narinder cares about offending people that the Left has put at the top of their oppression/oppressor pyramid. She can’t see her own hypocrisy and racism.

    • @alexedwards6509
      @alexedwards6509 Před rokem +16

      It's odd that she's too western for Indian media but not too Indian for British media, and yet Britain is the country she labels racist.
      I don't think Indian media is racist. I think they said "you're too western" because they didn't want to tell her "you're too gobby"

    • @therespectedlex9794
      @therespectedlex9794 Před rokem

      @@alexedwards6509 You mean Muslim Pakist-arnee media.

    • @uniquevideosUk
      @uniquevideosUk Před rokem

      She's always hated white ppl it's obvious.

  • @kellyrobinson6663
    @kellyrobinson6663 Před rokem +143

    Braverman has a degree in international law, so she is in the right job, nothing to do with race or colour.

  • @sunflower-oo1ff
    @sunflower-oo1ff Před rokem +23

    Nana, the best again!💕

  • @quinnitaj4653
    @quinnitaj4653 Před rokem +25

    'Coconut'? Wtff is Narinder on about? What's colour got to do with running the country?
    I definitely missed something along the way here....

  • @dorothyramser7805
    @dorothyramser7805 Před rokem +122

    One minute she is saying the British public are lovely, then the next minute she describes them as almost akin to the KKK. Are we sure this women is being strictly truthful?

    • @ifunanya24
      @ifunanya24 Před rokem +12

      She’s certifiably insane

    • @annekett6326
      @annekett6326 Před rokem +8

      She needs to move to the USA and see what it is 👍

    • @Maggie55124
      @Maggie55124 Před rokem

      It’s her currency… 🇦🇺

    • @lightup8492
      @lightup8492 Před rokem

      She is hypocrite fool 🙄

    • @evapatrick4107
      @evapatrick4107 Před rokem

      Narinda Kaur is a disgusting racist Bully and I won't watch GB news Chanel when she's on the panel. Dan woottan Get rid of her people like her causes racism in This country. Nana akua is brilliant.

  • @rkieper5819
    @rkieper5819 Před rokem +14

    Oh Narinder…’shut your coconut! Please’

  • @sandieclarke8139
    @sandieclarke8139 Před rokem +14

    She's TOTALLY hung up on colour ... poor, poor thing.

  • @chrisbuster6947
    @chrisbuster6947 Před rokem +14

    If you don't like it here, we do have some airports left.

  • @whitesteamerstephens1379
    @whitesteamerstephens1379 Před rokem +20

    not a good idea giving Narinder Kaur air time, However we find out what she is like, thus, why has she this length of air time? Please move on , better people out there to interview

  • @martina6611
    @martina6611 Před rokem +33

    Nana is my favourite. She talks a lot of sense. That lady who’s supposed to be so famous I’ve no idea who she is. She is just another victim and I strongly disagree with her.

  • @loyaltytoroyalty
    @loyaltytoroyalty Před rokem +15

    Hugely famous? Sorry, Narinder, this is the first I’ve ever heard of you.

    • @spherevision360
      @spherevision360 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Ha ha, me to but then I've never seen Big Brother, thank goodness.

  • @adulthumanfemale265
    @adulthumanfemale265 Před rokem +24

    Gotta love Nana! 💜

  • @marlenewolffe4613
    @marlenewolffe4613 Před rokem +20

    Nana well said. You are so very right.

  • @rosemundyee6863
    @rosemundyee6863 Před rokem +19

    Good for you Nana you control your panel. Bravo!,,,

  • @LS-xs7sg
    @LS-xs7sg Před rokem +16

    If her notion of being brown is that it must always be oppositional to the native people and culture (which is what the coconut jibe implies) then why should the native population suffer the presence of settlers here in the first place?

  • @rymkervic123456
    @rymkervic123456 Před rokem +15

    Go Nana. Coconut is a term used for Islanders in the pacific but its derogatory, like "he's just a dumb coconut'.

  • @justme-tt7pv
    @justme-tt7pv Před rokem +19

    Narinder is being ridiculous comparing that Dylan person to model Kate Moss, just because Kate Moss is very thin doesn't make her any less of a woman.
    Also, whilst Narinder is entitled to her opinions like the rest of us, the problem us she shouts other people down, and has a forceful personality, I've seen her on other GB news threads. She called Jeremy Clarkson sexist, misogynistic and dangerous to women just for joking about Meghan Markle, yet he apologised for it. Yet, at the same time would happily have a man go into a woman's toilet or changing room, just because a man identifies as a woman. And thinks we should welcome Shamima Begum back home with open arms. As far Narinder being called the 'P' word, in her case that stands for 'Pain.' That's what she is a pain in the ear.

  • @sharonlaurence5356
    @sharonlaurence5356 Před rokem +20

    There is no justification for racism whether it is targeted at brown, black, or white people. Narinder, please do think carefully about these views you have.

    • @redbaron932
      @redbaron932 Před rokem +2

      (Narinder, please do think carefully) good luck with that happening anytime

  • @william01529
    @william01529 Před rokem +51

    I’m offended by her no apology needed Nana your right about that woman though she’s racist no doubt about that she seems to have a lot of issues with her past and the resentment is there for all to see RACIST

  • @Wicklesschic74
    @Wicklesschic74 Před rokem +15

    Hi Nana , watching you from Texas !

  • @HighHoeKermit
    @HighHoeKermit Před rokem +32

    Couldn't they have kept the blurred face thing

  • @markbrooks324
    @markbrooks324 Před rokem +27

    Nana is absolutely brilliant!

  • @paulmorris8775
    @paulmorris8775 Před rokem +17

    No,Rishi got the job because he rightly can do the job regardless of race, It seems to me me that certain people for what even reason are keeping racism alive for the wrong reasons 😢

    • @antonykirkwood7341
      @antonykirkwood7341 Před rokem

      Rishi got the job to keep the wef and king charles and the eu happy,meanwhile brits get screwed because not one person voted for him.Even his party.

  • @BaronSpamedi
    @BaronSpamedi Před rokem +21

    Of course, it's racist to call people coconuts.
    It means brown on the outside and white on the inside. It's racist to black/brown people because it assumes they all have to think one way, and if they don't, then they are somehow deficient as black/brown people. It's also racist to white people as it puts a negative connotation on being white, or having certain values that she feels are negative and associates with skin colour rather than character.
    This makes Kaur appear to be a thick racist. However it might not be entirely her fault, she waffles on at such a pace in an attempt to bulldoze those she's talking to, It's probably preventing her from properly oxygenating her brain.

    • @MP16298
      @MP16298 Před rokem

      I’m brown and have been referred to like this and can’t agree more. We can’t all think the same…where’s the “diversity and inclusion” in that?

    • @Andy-Bodhi
      @Andy-Bodhi Před 9 měsíci

      One can say words without being racist. I'm wife is a coconut and isn't bothered by it. She isn't like her older Jamacian relatives and her step dad is white. She is very English. Up until recently England homogeneous and a white country. Offense is taken not given. Words aren't racist. I make silly jokes all the time, my kids are Asian and black. I couldn't be less bothered by this so called race category we put ourselves in. But I'll say, black America culture is a disaster and they need to fix up (for the most part) doesn't mean I judge individuals. Doesn't mean I'm a bigot. Saying words and stating facts used to be ok...

    • @BaronSpamedi
      @BaronSpamedi Před 9 měsíci

      @@Andy-Bodhi calling someone a coconut IS racist. It's not a discussion.

  • @pommieforever
    @pommieforever Před rokem +35

    please dont give Narinda air time, she needs educating on why she is not always right, its about the safety of this country, women and children, protecting the borders is not racist or far right

  • @bexyweewaggys
    @bexyweewaggys Před rokem +10

    She was vile on Big Brother really two-faced and bitchy to the other contestants

  • @AniWatX
    @AniWatX Před rokem +33

    Also Nana puts forward a meaningful and intelligent argument. Narinder doesn’t period.

  • @AniWatX
    @AniWatX Před rokem +45

    Wow, that woman is so offensive ! Well said and well controlled Nana. Narinder causes division with her opinions, I don’t understand why she can’t see that for herself.

  • @paulcoulson2584
    @paulcoulson2584 Před rokem +8

    There's nowt like a racist who doesn't think she can be a racist because off the colour of ther skin or there family heritage.

  • @yorkshiretea6662
    @yorkshiretea6662 Před rokem +14

    Well done Nana on confronting this lady's obvious racist views. The idea that all asian people should have the same views, opinions and beliefs is stereotyping and prejudiced, not to mention the obvious slur towards white people. The ethnicity of the person holding such views does not change these facts.

  • @redcurrant2023
    @redcurrant2023 Před rokem +9

    This woman is seriously wounded by Rishi’s wealth. She is the racist and works hard at maintaining her status quo. Don’t worry darling…..you will never have that wealth.

  • @Adam-sd2ow
    @Adam-sd2ow Před rokem +7

    Can you not send Narinder and Butterworth on a permanent holiday?

  • @francishughes2016
    @francishughes2016 Před rokem +27

    Jeez, Nana ran rings around her, i lost count of the number of times Narinder contradicted herself.

  • @redbaron932
    @redbaron932 Před rokem +10

    oh goody its Narinder that's it I'm out

  • @sarahtaylor3950
    @sarahtaylor3950 Před rokem +15

    Thank you, Nana 🙏

  • @hilarydeacon9024
    @hilarydeacon9024 Před rokem +13

    I am very offended by Narinder every time she opens her mouth!!!

  • @mazp936
    @mazp936 Před rokem +5

    Love Nana can't stand Narinda, I think she's a racist baiter, I usually turn GB news off when she appears I can't stand her big mouth and bullying, no one get's a look in.

  • @myallotment1714
    @myallotment1714 Před rokem +10

    Narinder is way out of touch with many British people.well done Nana for standing up to this woman and her comments

  • @sharonlaurence5356
    @sharonlaurence5356 Před rokem +16

    GBNEWS keep bringing Narinder to the show. I love to hear her ridiculous views.😂

    • @dylanblack8487
      @dylanblack8487 Před měsícem

      She is so thick she does have entertainment value. you cannot reason with such a thing.

  • @pattipride9731
    @pattipride9731 Před rokem +13

    Nana, love you!🌹Give me a break, I have so much trouble when you all talk so fast! I can't keep up with the accents! Coconuts stand for boobs in America!🌲🇺🇸

    • @supernova7848
      @supernova7848 Před rokem +1

      I guess the American version of coconut would be “Oreo”. In France coconut also just means boobs 😂 , but the French version of the derogatory term coconut is “ bounty “ which is a type of chocolate with a coconut filling

  • @outpost31737
    @outpost31737 Před rokem +5

    Nobody calls Narinder nasty names she's making it up.

  • @byronburns5684
    @byronburns5684 Před rokem +10

    What a hypocrite

  • @tonyteo7778
    @tonyteo7778 Před rokem +6

    Narinder speaks the language of verbal diarea.When I was a struggling actress, didn't realise she was a actress.😅

  • @alicec8287
    @alicec8287 Před rokem +10

    I’m a black women and I get called a coconut, it makes me feel sad and identity crisis

    • @enochpowell8607
      @enochpowell8607 Před rokem

      Why do black people always play the race card?

    • @mememe290
      @mememe290 Před 10 měsíci

      Do you know what a glasgow kiss is? Next time someone calls you a coconut give them a glasgow kiss and shout yeah baby yeah lol

    • @tonywoodham3760
      @tonywoodham3760 Před 9 měsíci

      I'm really sorry people call you this nasty word, you know that you are a lovely person so please just ignore them they are ignorant

  • @mariakovacs9867
    @mariakovacs9867 Před rokem +10

    Here in the United States we love coconuts as food and drink. But, on another topic teenage boys used to refer to womens breasts as coconuts!

  • @cashkitty3472
    @cashkitty3472 Před rokem +8

    A reality star who sit to take in big brother.. Seriously no thanks

  • @sakhter4044
    @sakhter4044 Před rokem +6

    She does not make sense the immigration issue is a concern for all those in the UK no matter what race or religion you are because laws are being broken allsorts of people well men mainly are gaining entry who are not known. The UK was majority white look at the history no matter what's happened in the past we got to forgive and move on. Recently we do have criminals, paedophile and allsorts of problems people with no identity this is a serious concern for any country Britain does need to address this issue seriously it is not racist.

  • @markscript5746
    @markscript5746 Před rokem +6

    Narinder is too left and too loony, surely someone else can be found?

  • @CrackedSociety
    @CrackedSociety Před rokem +7

    Nana love you! Ty for schooling that’s lady about dylan. I never heard of this lady but again i’m in America. She is a great example of ppl not understanding why it’s a huge deal that woman fight for our rights. If she can’t understand why it’s a big deal now, let’s hope one day her daughter never has to compete against a trans woman in sports or has to face any uncomfortable situations with someone who claims to be trans but is just faking it, just as that rapist did in Ireland.

  • @voightk7895
    @voightk7895 Před rokem +8

    "They are there because of the colour of their skin actually. Because, Rishi Sunak, he would not have been voted in by members"
    No, he wouldn't. Because the most popular candidate amongst the members was Kemi Badenoch.

  • @Hope-oz6ug
    @Hope-oz6ug Před rokem +4

    She is a headache. She loves hearing her own voice 😁

  • @stratfordbaby
    @stratfordbaby Před rokem +5

    Is it better to call her PakiSTANI? Not much difference honestly.

  • @Sinsteel
    @Sinsteel Před rokem +18

    Weren't welcomed? What do you call allowing you to emigrate to a much richer, more prosperous country, if not welcoming you? If there's resentment from the public blame the government, who has NEVER asked ANYONE from the public what THEY want about people entering THEIR country.

  • @Lpanz
    @Lpanz Před rokem +17

    It’s like listening to absolute intelligence talking to a narrow minded teenager so painful!!!!

  • @MaggiePigg
    @MaggiePigg Před rokem +6

    I worked in a professional world with every colour & accent under the rainbow. We were hired because of our skills. This guest is wrong to say skin is a factor.

  • @michealrcnicholson9342
    @michealrcnicholson9342 Před rokem +8

    Get her off GB News!!!!!

  • @christinawilkinson5376
    @christinawilkinson5376 Před rokem +6

    Narinder needs to stay at Big brother cos she spouting nonsense

  • @FireFortuna
    @FireFortuna Před rokem +9

    I love Nana ❤️

  • @simplyurbanozee
    @simplyurbanozee Před rokem +4

    Not that shouty....I could hear her from Australia. 🤣🤣🤣She doesn't like when people are racist to her yet she can be racist to others. Unbelievable.🤦‍♀

  • @louisenurse1234
    @louisenurse1234 Před rokem +7

    Love Nana! Wonderful insight on the pulse of the media giving us her honest thoughts! Thank you!

  • @jm162
    @jm162 Před rokem +5

    Go Nana...Narinder is ghastly.

  • @Fre667Roger-Ring
    @Fre667Roger-Ring Před rokem +6

    The Smiths sang the lines in a song I think it’s very fitting BIG MOUTH STRIKES AGAIN. She’s famous for what oh yes Big brother it’s kinda fitting big brother ,big mouth 😂😂😂😂🤡

  • @mikechapman8896
    @mikechapman8896 Před rokem +5

    i like the show but switch off when nutter kaur or butterworth are on-please ban them from your station-the figures must drop drastically when they are on

  • @PammyR56
    @PammyR56 Před rokem +5

    I still love you Nana especially since I now know you’re a Georgie lass but I still hate your guest she is totally racist.