Sam Feher | Not Skinny But Not Fat
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- čas přidán 18. 01. 2024
- Summer + Winter House’s Sam Feher joins me on the show to break her silence on her breakup with Kory Keefer. Sam has not confirmed the breakup until now. Hear her open up to what happened, when it happened, why it happened , and where they stand now. Also how she feels about not being called to join Winter House as a cast member and which cast mates disappointed her!?
Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast
Hosted by Amanda Hirsch
Produced by Dear Media - Zábava
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Incredible episode. Sam is so wise beyond her years and emotionally intelligent to the nth degree. I sincerely admire how mature and self-actualized she seems to be, I love how she allowed herself to be so vulnerable and raw but also took accountability for her blind spots and didn’t throw Kory under the bus in any way whatsoever.
She’s quite the gem and I really really hope we get to see her in some capacity in the future Bravosphere.
Also I’m on pins and needles waiting for that lash link !
1000%! I feel like she is the first person Bravo has cast in a while that has actually added to the show. She isn't about the drama, she is real as fuck, understands herself really well, and always has something insightful to say. Unlike the "influencers in bed" road Summer House had been going down the past couple years. She is so interesting to watch, I hope nothing but the absolute best for her.
The only thing interesting about Kory is that he was dating Sam. I'm so glad that she chose herself first. She is so vulnerable here, I just want to hug her.
I didn’t break up with him because I don’t love him. I broke up with him because he doesn’t love me ❤ powerful!
Sam! You are a just a DOPE human being! So self aware, vulnerable, and deeply real! Be super proud of yourself everyday 🥹
This should be mandatory viewing for every young adult dating- without disparaging him, Sam explained how they each viewed the relationship and, despite loving him, she understood at her core that she had to end the relationship because being with someone who does not love you is no way to live. As a mom of three, I hope my kids will make the same decision if they find themselves in Sam’s position because the thought of them (and Sam❤) being in love but not loved in return breaks my heart. Thank you Sam for opening up and thank you Amanda for a wonderful interview.
Sam, so pleased that you ultimately chose yourself. I did just notice at the end though - the comment he made about how he wouldn't be awful to you as friends or something similar "because I respect you too much." That's a clear case of words not following actions. He didn't show you regard and respect and especially not with the 48 hour silent treatment, which I believe was a form of "punishment" for asking him about new year when he had the relationship nicely controlled as something less than that. He knew that you were trying to play it cool which he translated as not feeling able to keep him if you expressed your own wants and needs - and he took advantage of that the whole time. Why is he still trying to convince you that he "respects you?" because you and he talk about marketing and you're a professional - free marketing advice? useful, when you're opening a chain of gyms. He also doesn't want his public image tarnished more than necessary. I think you can see through elements of that because of the details you gave in this interview. I can't know how deep Kory's manipulation went but I think you've been dealing with something of a narcissist. Most likely a covert one. I'm so pleased for you that you're free of that and free to find someone that makes you happy and feel safe and secure.
such a real ass interview and responses about relationships. So many lessons learned but she said the quiet part out loud about relationships and not being treated right
I wish Amanda would have kept going at what she was trying to say. Kory is not all that good looking to be acting like that. People (understandably) get distracted by his height and body but the face card declines.
😂
I was thinking the same! Sam deserves respect & love
I actually do not find him attractive at all, honestly he makes me ill. A dude that carries himself the way he does, and tells people including his gf that all the women he’s met in the house want to sleep w him… gross. Men didn’t talk or act like that when I was their age…. And I’m only in my mid 30s. I could never ever date a dude like that. It’s weird
Where would Kory really be if not for these shows? Honestly, they (Shep, Austen, even Craig) get some much attention because they are on tv. If they weren’t, would anyone really care for them?
Your comment is hysterical. 👍
I just love her so much. She’s learning so much invaluable information about herself. This is a part of growing. Cannot wait for her to find the love she deserves.
I wish I had this self awareness at 26.
This interview was so cute! Amanda was so
engaging with her questions and Sam is such a gem 💎 one of my favorite episodes so far! ❤
Sam is the most underrated in the Bravosphere. ❤
She’s needs a Kelce man
Love Sam! So glad she did this and shared her truth. Sam we all have been there with a toxic relationship where one deserves more. Your true partner will not only love everything about you, but protect and embrace your emotions and feelings. ❤️
I’m excited for this one:)
And also where can I find the link for the lash serum?
Sam is an absolute breath of fresh air. A lovely, genuine, wonderful girl. Hope she finds true happiness and success, I want to see her back on tv!
First time watching absolutely great show❤! You are both beautiful, continued success to both of you🙌🙌🙌
Sam is so articulate and kind and obviously gorgeous!! She should be so proud to tell her side and have realised her self worth. Hope Kory grows up, he’ll never get another Sam!!
Over here just looking/waiting for those lashes links?!!!
Yess!
For real!!! …but she did convince me to finally try the thrive mascara!!!
EssyNaturals Eyelash and Brow Growth Serum & Thrive Cosmetics Liquid Lash Extensions Mascara.
She’s gives the link to the serum in her IG highlights under “links III”.
Such a great interview!!!! Sam is a GEM! She deserves all the happiness in the world. Wise beyond her years. So smart, beautiful, and ambitious! The sky is the limit for this girl!!! ✨💕💕✨
Great interview and so honest - it’s why I love Sam so much ❤ #BossWitchEnergy 🎉🎉🎉
As long as you are happy you are allowed to be quiet, loud, whatever is authentic to you
You deserve so much better and you should be a movie star. Beautiful well put together and deserved the best and someone that gives you the world. Please know your worth .❤
Love her & now you!! !st time I've watched you so now new sub! Can't wait to watch more
Been soooo excited for this episode. Sam is incredible and I’m so excited to see what’s in store for her future ❤
I feel like Korey told production YOU thought you guys were dating but he was like nah man I’m single but Sam likes me, their production eyes start twinkling and they’re like like oh this will be good, let’s get him hooking up with other girls and then bring Sam. Exactly what happened. Sad. But I think true.
Love Sam so much. So many great tidbits of advice and her confidence is so impressive. I could imagine her writing a great book one day!!
still in the beginning of the episode..does anyone know what serum she’s talking about for her eyelashes?!
This interview hits. Moving out of that phase of your life when you’re accepting less than you deserve, from that one relationship that breaks your heart. It’s one of the hardest times. But also teaches you so much ❤️ proud of you Sam.
Did anyone else see Korys post from his Gyms Christmas party? Suspicious 💃
We love you, Sam
Love her! Also NEEED the lash serum🥰
I absolutely love Sam!! I’m so happy that she is away from Kory. He absolutely did not deserve her nor treat her right in any way. I’m so happy for her to be single this summer❤️🥰
Sam deserves everything and more. All my best to her as she goes on to better things! ❤
I really hate it whenever a really strong type a big personality bubbles up the room enjoys to talk just like any guy would be praised for gets put down just because they’re a girl. These are all very very good character traits to have and there is nothing wrong with them and it’s actually exactly why you got the career you were looking for and everything is because of how boisterous you are so anyone telling you to quiet down in social situations is maybe not understanding that people are different and that they are who they are not necessarily coming from a bad place, but you have to let people be who they are authentically and not shoot them down when they are being authentically who they are
Did no one see his relationship with Jess on the first winter house? He’s not stupid..he literally said playing hard to get works and then did the same thing to her. Hot and heavy then..who are you again? From what Sam’s saying, it sounds like he led her to breakup and then played shocked/wish it could have worked out/yadayada
I don’t know if I’m the only one that notices this but Sam has very similar communication as Lauren Conrad. Her facial expressions and her communication reminds me soo much of her
I guess more so mannerisms? Lol wonder if anyone else noticed!
Such a good interview!
Sam is an incredible incredible person. I so appreciated this interview 🤍
I don’t feel personally like I got to know Maya and I didn’t get to see enough of Maya or get to know her personality enough but I feel like I got to see Sam’s personality and I’m really interested in it so I think what she’s doing is working and my advice, so it may not have come from a bad place may not have been advise that needs to be taken
Been waiting for this one! Love Sam ❤
You are such a darling Sam. When you first came on Summer house, I didn’t know what to think about you. You can call it stereotyping, because I thought you might be stuck up, or a mean girl.
But really Sam, I think you are beautiful both in side and out.
Kory is cool, and he’s very magnetic, he’s got that spark people need in their life’s.
I truly believe you’ll find a man that you will later look back at this time with Kory, and thank God, it didn’t workout.
Loneliness or just wanting to be a pair, and not be alone can blind us. And you said it well when you said ‘in so many words’ that you overlooked the obvious, and your ego thought you were doing all the right things, and thinking to yourself I’m pretty and I’m smart, what’s not to love.
It just breaks my heart that your heart was broken, darling. Saying I love you is such a vulnerable position, and when it’s not reciprocated, it’s crushing.
You will rise above this and, you’ll be stronger, as you well know.
Little more patience.
I prayed for my husband 45 years ago. God knows each and everyone’s heart, and He knows better than we, what’s best for us, and it might be completely different than we could ever have imagine.
I like Sam even more after this. Love that I ran into her at Equinox too on Bond St. Shes so cute!... I love this convo and growth and Im annoyed they didnt bring her for this upcoming summer like what the heck... so over these bones they have on the show
The relationship was like Taylor and Shep, but she’s not a Taylor.
Where is this eye serum link?
Love the host!❤
Sam you seem like such a truly genuine great person! Sure he's a good guy but he doesn't deserve you. You'll find your forever when your meant to. You deserve the best! Glad you love yourself enough to see these things.
Enjoyed this but the part about being upset about Jordan - need to remember that although Kory told Sam he’d told them he was in a relationship he actually didn’t! He gave a half assed “sorta seeing” story about their relationship so those girls ultimately thought he was fair game
I love Sam! She deserves the world.
Love Sams ambition! Wow! Impressed ❤
Someone gimme the serum link
Great interview. I don't agree with all her conclusions, but Sam was VERY relatable. Bottomline Kory doesn't seem ready to forsake all others yet for anyone... Sam please find someone that is looking for what u want on a relationship, it's easier when u do. U r q catch and it's so not worth ur time trying to convince someone of that.❤
I love her. I wish they didn’t produce so much on the show and we could have seen her personality more and not her stress reaction from being dropped into drama where they tell her how not to act while forcing that reaction- it’s manipulative.
Soooo does anyone know what the eyelash serum and the mascara are??
Thrive cosmetics
She said Thrive tubing mascara, and that she doesn’t remember the brand of the serum.
OMG could not even get through the first few minutes of discussing HAIR. OMG!
I wish the best for her… better than Kory bc she deserves more! Shes smart, beautiful, sweet and funny. He’s gonna kick himself for losing her. I hope she keeps choosing herself and through that she will be complete in so many ways through life
Love sam❗💕I cant wait to see summer house
I can’t understand how ppl don’t like her?? Sorry she has a personality and she’s pretty?
love you sam! rooting for you!
Hope she finds what she wants
I feel like we have all dated a Kory. Hoping they will become a reformed f-boy. I feel for her but I also don’t think she should’ve expected anything solid knowing he was going on Winter house and didn’t commit to her beforehand. In his eyes since he never hooked up with anyone he didn’t let her down. They never change. She’s better off.
Much love for Sam.
What’s the lash serum!!!
Sam is an absolute gem! I just love her so much! She deserves a great guy and Kory ain’t it! She can do so much better, looks wise, personality, and everything! Malia is a pick me and deserves the sort, Jordan came on the scene celebate on Martha’s Vineyard turning all them dudes down but quickly wanted to jump Kory’s bones on Winter House just about knocking the door down hmm Sam is the Winner here!
You’re better off in the long run. You deserve better.
❤❤❤❤❤
Sam, you are amazing! You’ll find the perfect guy!! ❤
Yes lash serum links pls 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm waiting too
I cried.
This made me love Sam so much more
I think Sam is amazing but she said it herself that as an adult she needs to work on how she picks her men...Kory is a great example of this. She deserves so much better.
Love Sam, she is a real girls girl. Wish her the best!
Yeah you would of not worked with Clayton from Columbia, Missouri 😂 you never know but these boys can be either extremely independent country and making good money or in Clayton’s case- mom bought everything 😂
you dodged a bullet girl!!!
i LOVE Sam. she was done dirtyyy and she still remained respectful and clean. a queen of a human.
She has class and grace. I wish her the best life has to offer.
Aww I like her. She can and will do so better than Kory.
Kory isn’t even good looking👎🏻sam you are beautiful you can do way better and get a man who doesn’t cheat and respects you.
The viewers knew he was a Fboy. I saw it and knew he was in it for a time but not a lifetime…He’s a Player
She’s adorable
I only liked Cory because of Sam!
When I grow up I want to be like Sam!
……. And I’m about to be 32 😂
When a girl does well for herself people can’t stand it 😂
SAM IS IT!
Love Sam! Maybe I am in the minority here but I do NOT find anything attractive about Cory/Kory, definitely not his looks, not his personality, nothing!
Amanda stop talking over Sam!!!!!!
Sam- run your pretty ass to the bank!!!!!!!!!!!
You are dope and Kory is a narcissist.... It will always be about him
What's the lash serum she uses? Lol
It’s made by Thrive cosmetics
Thank u
The mascara is by Thrive, the serum is off of Amazon she didn’t say the brand.
EssyNaturals Eyelash and Brow Growth Serum.
She’s gives the link to the serum in her IG highlights under “links III”.
Very naive girl
Sam seems like such a good person to have round. I'd love to have a friend like her! she's got so much more depth than shown on a reality show & that's why I love interviews like this. He couldn't commit girl u deff do deserve better. NO MORE SHITTING! that ridiculous 😒 😢❤🫶much love✌️