Why You Should NEVER Marry An Alcoholic Momma’s Boy

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  • čas přidán 27. 04. 2024
  • On the 28th of May 2023, officers were dispatched to a suburban home at 2 am. Apparently, a recently married couple has been arguing to the point where it got physical. When they arrive, the officers are met by the husband.
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Komentáře • 820

  • @andythomas9564
    @andythomas9564 Před měsícem +412

    Does the “M” on his belt buckle stand for “Mommy” too? 😂

  • @cynthiatolman326
    @cynthiatolman326 Před měsícem +580

    I'll say one thing, inlaws don't belong with their young married children.

    • @jackiemarini3203
      @jackiemarini3203 Před měsícem +22

      Agree 💯

    • @GhostRider-eq3ki
      @GhostRider-eq3ki Před měsícem +18

      Well If i kick out my son and his wife and my grandkid they be homeless and that well not happen on my watch ! I mean his wife is my in-law my house i still work full time and they all young 20 and me grandchild son is not one year no way in hell i well have the infant living in a tent life is not as easy as this posted comment seems 😐 I mean I could give them the house get me a small apartment but i still o 33 K on the home they cannot pay it and if me rented a place i can not pay the bank well take it so ya !

    • @DiMaggio82
      @DiMaggio82 Před měsícem +2

      Looked like mom and grandma

    • @trumphater1789
      @trumphater1789 Před měsícem +2

      ARE YOU JOKING GOOD THING YOUR NOT A COP AS SOON AS THAT BRUTE OPENED HIS MOUTH ABOUT HIS MOTHER IN LAW..YOU WOULD OF BEEN AGREEING WITH THE GUY. WITHOUT CONSIDERING THAT HE'S ANGRY AT HIS MOTHER IN LAW FOR CALLING THE COPS. HE KNEW HE DID WRONG BY HITTING HIS WIFE HIS OWN SISTER KNEW HE DID WRONG, SHE EVEN SAID SO, BUT ADMITTED SHE DIDN'T WANT HIM TO GO TO JAIL, WHICH MEANS SHE SAW HIM GET VIOLENT. THE WHOLE FAMILY WAS THERE THEY SAID THEY COULDN'T CALM HIM DOWN. THIS WASN'T ABOUT THE MOTHER BEING THERE. HE WAS ANGRY AT THE MOTHER IN LAW FOR CALLING THE COPS, WHICH HIS OWN SISTER DIDN'T OBJECT TO. HE DIDN'T WANT THE COPS, HIS SUGGESTION WAS GOING TO HIS MOMMY'S HOUSE.
      HE'S A MOMMIES BOY.

    • @journeysalkebulan
      @journeysalkebulan Před měsícem +23

      ​@@GhostRider-eq3kithat comment went over your head didn't it? Mother in law shouldn't move in with newly married couple!

  • @pooh_berrybear
    @pooh_berrybear Před měsícem +385

    did he say his mommy?!? 😂😂

    • @angies.4961
      @angies.4961 Před měsícem +48

      I know, I went back and replayed it just to make sure... Yep, He said Mommy 😂

    • @j.lingle4713
      @j.lingle4713 Před měsícem +25

      More than once

    • @kenmarelove9176
      @kenmarelove9176 Před měsícem +12

      @@angies.4961 lol, same!

    • @Bubby869
      @Bubby869 Před měsícem +11

      Oh yes he did 😂

    • @nicoletor8604
      @nicoletor8604 Před měsícem +8

      With kneck tattoos...shameful.

  • @DoncasterLass
    @DoncasterLass Před měsícem +511

    although he obviously has a drink issue, never EVER have your mother in law live with you when you are newly married.

    • @cass0516
      @cass0516 Před měsícem +17

      Yes!

    • @brucescheiman4888
      @brucescheiman4888 Před měsícem +6

      Touche

    • @mackcappel844
      @mackcappel844 Před měsícem +13

      lol Bidenomics , hahaha sorry folks.

    • @GhostRider-eq3ki
      @GhostRider-eq3ki Před měsícem +8

      WHat if you wasted all your $ on the wedding then company closed and you had to move into her house 😐

    • @honestyisadyingvirtue
      @honestyisadyingvirtue Před měsícem

      ​@GhostRider-eq3ki depending on the circumstances you may have no choice but do what you can to GtfO fast. And for those that haven't done it...don't spend all your money on ONE FREAKIN DAY!

  • @sydneysawyer1493
    @sydneysawyer1493 Před měsícem +265

    This boy said mommy. Girl, no. RUN!

    • @southernsass2937
      @southernsass2937 Před měsícem +6

      😂😂😭

    • @msbee5183
      @msbee5183 Před měsícem +4

      I'm 59 and my mothers name is Mommie! My brother is 70s THATS HER NAME! PeriodT.

    • @xMorganbrittnyx
      @xMorganbrittnyx Před měsícem +16

      I'm from the South so "mama" and even "Daddy" are still common for adults to still say on occasion... But male or female, an adult saying my mommy is wild to me lol

    • @briannorman4691
      @briannorman4691 Před měsícem +1

      💪👌😹😹😹😹

    • @plynwow
      @plynwow Před měsícem +3

      She's as much of a problem in the matter as he is. She drove the man to be angry enough to attack back, that's a legitimate issue. Men can be assaulted too.

  • @UnicornTears12
    @UnicornTears12 Před měsícem +238

    There's an age when you stop calling your mother mommy. That age is 10.

    • @aliway4136
      @aliway4136 Před měsícem +12

      Nah. When you really really need something it's acceptable to say. 🤣🤣🤣 When I was a teen I would say "mommy you look so pretty today" she would turn around and say "what the hell do you want now" 🤣🤣 I am a woman tho. Is that different?

    • @mommyshark1124
      @mommyshark1124 Před měsícem +4

      ​@@aliway4136No. For me it's Daddy😁

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +2

      Or before.

    • @msbee5183
      @msbee5183 Před měsícem +6

      NOPE!

    • @8213apice
      @8213apice Před měsícem +11

      I called mines mommy until I was grown

  • @davidcarroll1883
    @davidcarroll1883 Před měsícem +151

    Too many people are in this marriage. Mommys have got to go

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +15

      Sister needs to find other place of residence, too.

    • @princesspiplaysbass
      @princesspiplaysbass Před měsícem +14

      Too many women in one house.

    • @AbsurdCats
      @AbsurdCats Před měsícem

      2 is too many. This marriage is an abomination.

    • @badpapa8252
      @badpapa8252 Před měsícem +7

      And wife too - don't ever stay w/ someone who will put his/her hands on you! Ever!!

    • @badpapa8252
      @badpapa8252 Před měsícem

      @@princesspiplaysbass And one too many drunk, abusive MALE!!

  • @knockeledup
    @knockeledup Před měsícem +175

    When he put his hands in his armpits I thought he was going to sniff them afterwards like Mary Katherine Gallagher 😂 SUPERSTAR!

    • @laughs150
      @laughs150 Před měsícem +4

      We all know that's a woman thing doesn't stop at armpits either.

    • @Emsavannah
      @Emsavannah Před měsícem +2

      😂😂😂

    • @nicolemariee7940
      @nicolemariee7940 Před měsícem +4

      Lmaooo best comment ever😂😂😂😂

    • @glitter_fart
      @glitter_fart Před měsícem +2

      same, same.

    • @KvngOfMars
      @KvngOfMars Před měsícem +3

      💀😭😂 my fav comment

  • @carlariggs525
    @carlariggs525 Před měsícem +123

    for those of you that didn't watch the video until the very end; the narrator say both the husband and wife were arrested. If you are a newlywed and your arguments are turning physical; it's probably time to head to divorce court.

  • @borobinson7005
    @borobinson7005 Před měsícem +51

    30yo dude says, "i can have my mommy pick me up" 😹🤣🤣

  • @Sumof28
    @Sumof28 Před měsícem +127

    Alcohol is such a destructive drug.

    • @brandyeldridge3332
      @brandyeldridge3332 Před měsícem

      All drugs are destructive... Especially in 2024, they're more OD's then murder and natural causes...😢 We're living in a Mad World...

    • @dickfitswell3437
      @dickfitswell3437 Před měsícem +1

      And most ppl don't know alcohol kills more people than guns do. Twice as many. If I had it my way.... alcohol would be banned. Thousands of innocent people die because of drunk drivers every year

    • @user_kH9bw3ns1
      @user_kH9bw3ns1 Před 23 dny +1

      for real. i see lots of fights from caffeine and sugar use too, when people crash and have nasty tempers.

    • @rustygribbler1380
      @rustygribbler1380 Před dnem

      It’s destroyed my marriage of 6 years

  • @manifastation11
    @manifastation11 Před měsícem +87

    He is mad about her mom, but he is running straight to his own mom? Well……

  • @maxinenall9950
    @maxinenall9950 Před měsícem +82

    Why the hell are all these people living in the same house 😱 Everyone needs to get a job and move to their own apartment 😠

  • @MeHappy-il8fu
    @MeHappy-il8fu Před měsícem +222

    Thats why you shouldn't let 13 year olds get married.

  • @yahmadoss6860
    @yahmadoss6860 Před měsícem +54

    Mom needs to Go. She's probably instigating problems in the Marriage and she wants Hubby out the way cause she has nowhere else to Go

  • @tomh.7586
    @tomh.7586 Před měsícem +161

    Aw, I felt bad for the sister crying about her brothers behavior. Must have a history of a bad temper against females.

    • @whereisyourhumanity7557
      @whereisyourhumanity7557 Před měsícem +22

      Mom is a Narcissist, she's been playing the Long Game; and she's finally getting things the way she wants. She's hoping they'll have babies, and Gramma can get custody and make everyone crazy.

    • @CreativeCreatorCreates
      @CreativeCreatorCreates Před měsícem

      @@whereisyourhumanity7557yes. This. My ex’s mom is a narcissist, and he is too. She was so bad he disconnected from her too. You can’t give them an inch.

    • @julieandrews1193
      @julieandrews1193 Před měsícem +6

      I’ve been in the same situation with my brother and his girlfriend or wife.

    • @damien81981
      @damien81981 Před měsícem +8

      oh bs, the sister came up and even said she attacked him. you all are horrible people for always blaming the man.

    • @daniellebyers352
      @daniellebyers352 Před měsícem +7

      I'm part way through but I disagree. The sister is giving Meth vibes, too dramatic

  • @Alan-gx8gf
    @Alan-gx8gf Před měsícem +128

    I stopped drinking Alcohol 24 years ago , best thing I ever did !

    • @1962sherrynurse
      @1962sherrynurse Před měsícem +16

      Spent 28 years working in the Emergency Department, stopped my alcohol use permanently. Saw too much of it's destruction.

    • @markc13579
      @markc13579 Před měsícem +4

      congratulations !!!

    • @flormorena8627
      @flormorena8627 Před měsícem +9

      Much respect ! I’m 3 years in and forever going. Alcohol is a different beast!

    • @oldbatwit5102
      @oldbatwit5102 Před měsícem +7

      16 years for me.
      Life is a little less fun, but a whole lot easier.

    • @tinaanthis8598
      @tinaanthis8598 Před měsícem +2

      I've been told it's a very damn hard thing to do and you did that congratulations I've seen what alcohol to the one you love and those around that love them and another thing it's hard to tell the alcoholic no to that liquor because when there sick they really do need it to get by those withdrawals can kill you so those 2 last bottles I bought my brother was only to jeep him alive long enough to get him to help ❤

  • @lauriehoule9889
    @lauriehoule9889 Před měsícem +101

    All he cares about is just wanting to go home to his Mommy… grow up boy!

  • @Carleysnumber1tv
    @Carleysnumber1tv Před měsícem +44

    they definitely are not ready for marriage! 😢 he needs to address his drinking & her mother needs to MOVE OUT OF HIS OUT ASAP!!!!!!!

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Před 29 dny

      The mom maybe the only protection she or he himself gets

    • @Carleysnumber1tv
      @Carleysnumber1tv Před 29 dny

      @@See-if_I_care if either of them need protection some things need to be rethought out

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Před 29 dny +1

      @@Carleysnumber1tv Agreed ...they need to leave each other alone. Clearly a mess together ...

    • @ece282
      @ece282 Před 29 dny

      @@See-if_I_carehe’s the mess and the violent one, she needs to do better snd he needs to be in jail for assault and then therapy..

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Před 29 dny

      @@ece282 But we then heard the sister say she hit him first

  • @thomaskaiakapu2672
    @thomaskaiakapu2672 Před měsícem +45

    Alcohol and drug abuse will always destroy a family. It's so important how one chooses a partner or spouse for life.

    • @dingo1666
      @dingo1666 Před 28 dny

      Depends on the drug and the amount of alcohol being used entirely. Also the willingness to stop whatever makes you misbehave. It's not clean cut.

  • @hollykane4000
    @hollykane4000 Před měsícem +19

    Grown married man says "can I call my mommy?"

  • @Ena48145
    @Ena48145 Před měsícem +59

    I know he did not say that he was waiting for "mommy" to come pick him up

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +1

      How do you know that? That is exactly what he DID say, that he was "waiting for Mommy to come pick him up".

    • @keeper6458
      @keeper6458 Před měsícem +5

      ​@@jacklow9611Woosh

    • @YokoPoko56
      @YokoPoko56 Před měsícem

      @@jacklow9611old asf 😂😂😂

  • @Schnuki_________
    @Schnuki_________ Před měsícem +34

    Just don’t get involved with an alcoholic, period. Run, run, run!!!!!!

  • @penni11
    @penni11 Před měsícem +92

    mama needs to go

  • @sjohnson5813
    @sjohnson5813 Před měsícem +21

    So wierd for a grown man to call his mom, mommy.

    • @Lyfe164
      @Lyfe164 Před 29 dny +1

      So WEIRD an adult cant spell weird 😂

  • @HardRockMiner
    @HardRockMiner Před měsícem +105

    Never let your mother-in-law live with you !!

  • @tomfoolery342
    @tomfoolery342 Před měsícem +23

    I really wasn't expecting a grown man to actually say "Mommy"!!🤣

  • @TheLexiechey
    @TheLexiechey Před měsícem +133

    Don't date or marry anyone with a substance abuse, YOU cannot change them, don't bring kids into it, come on ladies, you can do better !

    • @daniellekreviazuk
      @daniellekreviazuk Před měsícem +8

      Agree. But a lotta these females LIKE this. Not like it, but, They WONT STAY AWAY from the males that act like this ..

    • @darrylsouthard252
      @darrylsouthard252 Před měsícem +17

      Not true
      I’m a convicted felon and ex drug user , was my whole life
      Met my wife that had two kids, she’s never even had a speeding ticket lol, long story short I got with her and she changed me along with her kids
      We’ve been together for 15 years and have a child together
      Haven’t been in trouble with the law nor did drugs

    • @mirandaadmiri5555
      @mirandaadmiri5555 Před měsícem +7

      @@darrylsouthard252and I’m just like you except I’m the female version and mom! Yup people can stop good for you man and tell em

    • @beebop90
      @beebop90 Před měsícem +3

      Wrong. YOU couldn't change someone

    • @darrylsouthard252
      @darrylsouthard252 Před měsícem +6

      @@mirandaadmiri5555 they gave me something to live for and to give a fk about
      I knew if I wanted them in my life I couldn’t be the person I was
      I didn’t change over night by any means but her and those kids stuck by me
      U show someone love and compassion it could change the Fkn world

  • @Mark-qz2nu
    @Mark-qz2nu Před měsícem +65

    What is with the so-called adults today that need Mommy and Daddy when they get in trouble? WTF.

    • @Julie-sz2zv
      @Julie-sz2zv Před měsícem +6

      Right? They all act tough until the cuffs come out and they start crying for "mommy" and "daddy". It's ridiculous.

    • @ScarletBrimstone
      @ScarletBrimstone Před měsícem +7

      Because mommy and daddy spent all those years validating their feelings instead of slapping them with facts.

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +7

      They've never been taught to take personal accountability.

    • @defeatSpace
      @defeatSpace Před měsícem +2

      Bidenomics

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +2

      @@defeatSpace : What does that have to do with the price of tea in Sri Lanka?

  • @rachelmcconnell1278
    @rachelmcconnell1278 Před měsícem +20

    This was going on way before they got married, I hope she's not the type to think having a baby will make it all stop. I say these things out of experience unfortunately. But I made my stand, and moved on.

  • @TheLexiechey
    @TheLexiechey Před měsícem +33

    Mom been living there, now you've got to go thru the civil courts to oust her, good luck with that, depending on state you live in. IF you moved in, move you're ass out!

    • @kimward5746
      @kimward5746 Před měsícem +8

      so mom is living there in his home, but feels entitled to give him advice? that says it all doesn't it.... arrogant and clueless is NOT a good houseguest.

  • @johnhanson1st
    @johnhanson1st Před měsícem +9

    I would likely start drinking if I had to live with relatives.

  • @robertyoung8289
    @robertyoung8289 Před měsícem +12

    A family that drinks together fights together. 💪🥂

  • @lilaworley8935
    @lilaworley8935 Před měsícem +34

    As a mother of 3 and my oldest is newly married... I would never ever ever live with them. I would rather live in my car before living with my adult children at this stage in their lives.
    Stop calling your mommy young man.
    Good luck with all this. Alcohol is poison.

    • @lisaschuman3156
      @lisaschuman3156 Před měsícem

      I agree, alcohol IS poison! Why do people feel like crap the next day? Because alcohol can kill you!

    • @tinicoleofficial
      @tinicoleofficial Před 29 dny +1

      💯💯💯

  • @michabarlev4449
    @michabarlev4449 Před měsícem +6

    The guy got married and the bride got a house, a car and a house for her mother and threw the guy in jail.

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Před 29 dny +1

      Sounds about right....but he himself has no emotional intelligence

  • @brendataylor1361
    @brendataylor1361 Před měsícem +24

    They're both too young and immature to be married at this point. Her husband needs to get help for his drinking and the wife and her mother need to leave his home and find a place of their own to live. They both need to let go of mommy.

  • @mjgasiecki
    @mjgasiecki Před měsícem +15

    Punched a hole in the wall? Is his name Kyle?

  • @Flamingtorso
    @Flamingtorso Před měsícem +34

    "Officer, if we get a divorce, will she still be my sister?"

    • @Julie-sz2zv
      @Julie-sz2zv Před měsícem +8

      I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MomentsInTrading
      @MomentsInTrading Před měsícem +3

      A joke I will tell is- If a couple goes from (state name) to (different state name) to get a divorce, are they still brother and sister?

    • @Ombudsman08
      @Ombudsman08 Před 9 dny

      Lol

  • @toastnjam7384
    @toastnjam7384 Před měsícem +9

    Before getting married always ask yourself. "Will this person make my life better or worse?" Clearly the latter here.
    She probably thought "I can change him."

    • @cowboyx9380
      @cowboyx9380 Před měsícem +2

      She was arrested too🤡 She was the fool her let her mother move in 🤡. She is the problem here!

  • @chevy266nova
    @chevy266nova Před měsícem +10

    When a mother lives with their child and the childs spouse, it will end with trouble.

  • @whereisyourhumanity7557
    @whereisyourhumanity7557 Před měsícem +8

    Don't drink.
    When the cops show up, YOU want to be the one who says "I have not had one drink."

  • @Julie-sz2zv
    @Julie-sz2zv Před měsícem +8

    They're newlyweds? Omg! If it's like this this now, how will it be a year from now? 5, 10 years? They have to fix this crap now. Keeping "mommy" at a distance might be a good start.

  • @fireflyrn
    @fireflyrn Před 29 dny +3

    If she hit him first, she should be going to jail. That's not an excuse for what he did but if she started it she definitely needs to go to jail

  • @SensiProductionzBlindDogVideos

    She wasn’t arrested. She was cited. She provoked and was first to swing, she is the responsible party, that’s messed up that they arrest the person that got hit first.

  • @xMorganbrittnyx
    @xMorganbrittnyx Před měsícem +11

    This grown ass man said Mommy. I just can't.

  • @choosewisely6994
    @choosewisely6994 Před měsícem +10

    What I can say from my experience as a female with a abusive man is you should leave the first time he pushes, hits, kicks, slaps, grabs, pushes you down, punches, spits on you, throws anything at you, hits the wall etc, destroys anything in house, car, belongings, blames everyone and life , drinking, drugs, and you for his abuse emotional and physical or otherwise then says it will never happen again or if you don't make him do abuse against you because you have a opinion or you want to be treated nice etc.
    They also make lite of thier abuse against you, its no big deal they feel. Always they are the victim somehow 🙄🤔🤯
    If the female defends herself that is a problem as well. For the record females do abuse as well and not right to do either.
    When fighting off your abuser you can be charged as well unfortunately. Its best to call police and get somewhere safe until the police come like a neighbor or in your car locked etc.
    Never have I heard of the abuser changes thier ways in this matter, it could happen I guess but usually they keep doing it over and over with you or the next relationship and each time at greater levels of abuse , they seem fuled by rage and can justify it every time in thier minds and thier family members as well will throw you under the bus and make excuses for the abuser!!!????
    Alot of so-called men/ women have extreme ego issues and victim mentality in this world as well as entitled beliefs. Its sad. Even small kids and teenagers, we see it on videos, out in the public, neighbors , cop videos etc. Nothing is thier fault and everyone owes them something and they can do whatever they want 🙄🤔😒🥴🤢😤😖 the rules and how to carry yourself in life is not important to them.
    Most of these people are narcissistic as well and have never been told no growing up or made to take accountability for anything 🤯👎.
    Just my experience, observations, opinion.
    I think this boy man would abuse regardless of anyone living with him and his wife or not. He has the demeanor of a poor me victim, rage full fool. I agree family members are not easy to live with when you are married or in general when it comes to a couples relationship.
    He is immature and a momma boy for sure its a recipe for disaster I should know.
    For the record I was so called married for 26 years and dated him for three years prior to marriage. I was 15 he was 18 when we meet. Married at 18 he was 21. I wasn't pregnant if that matters.
    I saw signs dating he was a controller and saw how angry he got. I made excuses for his behavior 😔 🤔.
    His mother run the show for sure and lived with us after her divorce from a fool that was abusive as well my ex's dad.
    I could write a novel about all the hell and abuse and family members and excuses during my life I wasted with this foolish man .He was and is a successful man makes alot of money has a college degree and puts on a show for the world but behind closed doors well the mask comes off. My point is all types of men can be a abuser or women as well in all economic situations etc.
    Please leave these people ASAP they don't change in my experience, just get worse.The first time they show you who they are believe them!!!! LEAVE
    I have been divorced thank God for 12 years now I love it and free from a toxic existence with this foolish Man. No amount of money or things are worth being abused. I have a house and pay all my bills myself but most of all I have peace and freedom and happiness 😊 something he said I could never do or have without him🙄🤔.
    Also keep in mind my son learned from this toxic situation we all lived in so please don't stay for the kid. I was with this abuser 13 years before we had my son and after having my son my ex got worse because it wasn't all about him anymore 😞🥺
    Not a good idea to have children with a abusive person. I love my son 😍
    His mother got remarried, he got remarried and his brother is married for a long time he is a good person. My ex family members was always at our house or we at theirs and most weekends, it was a problem. My parents died in my twenties so it was hard with no family members of my own but I made it out and doing well.
    Take my advice and experience with this topic at hand 🙂
    To the negative unhappy beth that wrote a immature comment below mine about my experience and length of comment I hope you find happiness and positivity and self respect in life .
    I pray you find some way to help people in your life, give something back positive.
    Life is short you should love more than you hate, like more than you don't it's just a much more fulfilling life to live.
    Positive things can come out of a negative situation you just have to look for it and learn from it .I am blessed to be able to help people that are going through what I did and my son.
    Take care Beth💪🥰🙌

    • @bethewalt7385
      @bethewalt7385 Před 29 dny +2

      Good lord, you have waaaay to much to say, we all need to NEVER let you move in, I have a feeling you love the sound of your own voice too...
      Blah blah blah😂😂😂😂

    • @choosewisely6994
      @choosewisely6994 Před 29 dny

      @@bethewalt7385
      I can write as long as a comment I want to and say what I want. It's called freedom of speech.
      You are not obligated to read my comment or agree with it or like it in anyway and most definitely you don't have to make a immature, bully comment to make yourself feel something inside that you lack in life.
      I don't care about your opinion or views on anything most of all my comment I have a right to make. You can't stop me ❤️
      You sound like you have issues you need to deal with if you felt the need to write a comment like yours about mine regarding a serious topic.
      In the end I am sure you will always be a miserable hate filled human with bully traits and you probably are in a situation in your life you feel inferior about and feel about yourself as well.
      You don't like people who go through abuse apparently and get out of it and do good and are strong for getting out it's a positive thing.
      I council abused people mostly domestic violence women and young girls, and the elderly. I also volunteer as a safe house for victims to come while waiting for transition to a new state or city. It's a dangerous time if your abuser knows you are leaving or thinking of it.
      I can only say how I got out of the abuse and the steps it took to have freedom from a asshole abuser and start a new path, it is helpful for many people.
      You sound like you hate me for writing my experience in the Hope for helping others in a abusive situation it's something people who are abused learns from and appreciates I am told. This video is a reflection of domestic abuse and how it starts.
      You should love more than you hate and like more than you don't. Also most people don't get off on attacking a stranger writing thier experience in domestic violence and how they got out of it safely, alot of people die in domestic relationships and the kids as well.
      I hope you get help with your anger in general and for a stranger on social media who means well and helps people in need to find a better life and their kids as well because they have experience in it.
      You need to do some reflection on yourself as to why you feel the way you do about my comment I wrote and why you wrote yours . Why does it make you angry?
      Hmmm 🤔
      Good luck, choose positive and happy thoughts it's a better way to think and feel. Find a way you can help people or yourself rather than being a hater for no reason.

    • @choosewisely6994
      @choosewisely6994 Před 29 dny

      @@bethewalt7385
      I can write what I want on my opinion and experience on this topic as well as how much I want to write. You don't have to read my comment if it's to much for you to read or understand it or care about in your life which comes off as unhealthy and unhappy.
      I don't really care about hater's and negative mentality people in general and on social media who find pleasure in being negative and immature and do laughing emojis about a serious topic and someone's experience in it.
      I wrote my experience in the hope it may help someone in a domestic violence relationship so that they might be able relate to my situation and want to get out of their situation.
      Also I volunteer in helping men and women, elderly in counseling them and a place to stay while they wait for housing in a different city or state. If a domestic abuser thinks you are leaving it's a dangerous time for the person and kids as well. Every year many people and kids are killed by their abuser in general and if they think someone is leaving them or going for help to police or a shelter.
      It's not a laughing topic for most mature adults.
      I think you should do some reflection on why you find my comment and length of it so terrible and my experience with domestic violence and how I got in it and out of it and why people stay in it. It's a motivational and a positive account of a personal experience from someone.
      I bet if truth be told you are insecure about yourself and probably have troubled relationships with family and couple relationships.
      You come off angry and hateful over a comment that doesn't hurt you and you don't have to read my comment either or agree with it.
      I hope you find help with your attitude and anger if you do life is easier and positive and more fun.
      It's a better feeling to love more than you hate, like more than you don't like. Helping people is a good thing and feeling.
      If you don't have anything good to say or positive in anyway that's a reflection on your personality. Maybe don't say anything is best because you clearly have issues if you felt the need to write what you did about a serious topic and a helpful comment for someone going through domestic violence.
      Read about Freedom Of Speech you may learn something positive. I find it interesting you used the word Lord in your immature negative comment.
      I don't think the Lord would approve of your comment and negative mentality.
      Take Care ❤️

    • @choosewisely6994
      @choosewisely6994 Před 29 dny +2

      @@bethewalt7385
      I wrote you a special comment under my original comment.
      Take Care ❤️

    • @choosewisely6994
      @choosewisely6994 Před 29 dny +2

      I have my own home and car furniture etc etc . I don't need to move in with anyone Beth. I am so happy I am a independent woman helping others in life it's very rewarding considering all I went through and my son in a toxic relationship with his Dad.. I feel blessed
      Beth try to find the positive everyday.

  • @Mermare
    @Mermare Před 29 dny +5

    Did no one watch the video? She hit him first, and they both got arrested. They're both idiots and they need to divorce asap.

    • @Zola_6
      @Zola_6 Před 28 dny +2

      Nobody seemed to have watched the video 😂 with the comments I’m reading

  • @JaclynCoffman
    @JaclynCoffman Před měsícem +21

    They both should have went to jail. The MIL has no business being in their relationship….. aaaaand he needs to call his mama something else …

    • @Zola_6
      @Zola_6 Před 28 dny

      They both ended up getting arrested .. shows at the end of this video

  • @l3adl3oyl2ick
    @l3adl3oyl2ick Před 29 dny +2

    As soon as the mom said she didn't want involved, I knew her daughter was guilty too.

  • @Trouble-Clef
    @Trouble-Clef Před 22 dny +2

    And there you go! Exactly what I was just posting about. He’s standing there questioning everyone in front of everyone else. You’re never going to get to the truth that way. That’s the first thing this cop should’ve learned about domestic violence. You don’t talk to the people involved with everybody else standing there listening. And don’t always assume it’s the husband. Which is what that cop did. “I see a red mark on your leg, and a mark on your lip” but he didn’t see either. And when he shown the flashlight in her face the first thing is he said is there was no bleeding so your lips not busted. In other words, he didn’t see anything. And not one person said he smacked her in the mouth. He needs to go back for more training on domestic violence! One day he’s going to question a victim in front of their abuser and one of two things is going to happen. Either the victim won’t be comfortable telling the police exactly what happened, leaving her/him vulnerable after they leave. Or the victim is going to say exactly what happened and when their abuser is released from jail the victim is going to pay dearly for it. Maybe even with their life.

  • @edthomas6548
    @edthomas6548 Před měsícem +5

    It is so…weird, for a grown man to call his mom mommy or dad daddy.

  • @akitalady
    @akitalady Před měsícem +20

    I would never be so desperate that I would pick him.

  • @msterious-zt5pq
    @msterious-zt5pq Před měsícem +3

    Toxic couple , time to depart

  • @franbreedlove9392
    @franbreedlove9392 Před měsícem +4

    Sorry, not sorry. Ole girl should have gone to jail too. She hit him first. & Mom should not be there.

  • @mikehall8036
    @mikehall8036 Před měsícem +3

    No they both weren't arrested. He was arrested even though the independent witness said the wife hit him first. He was arrested, he got a ride, with a bond. She didn't. She got a criminal summons, a ticket, no cuffs, no ride, no bond. Blatant Bias from the cops. They both SHOULD have received the same charges, the same treatment. It's never OK to hit your wife, but to push her off you after she hit him isn't assault. Hopefully, he gets an attorney and leaves her. A domestic assault charge is a life changing charge. He no longer has a right to own a firearm and other negatives that will follow him for life.

  • @ladygumshoe7402
    @ladygumshoe7402 Před 29 dny +2

    Never allow parents to stay with you newly married and you never allow your parents to put down your spouse. Especially in their own home.

  • @dawnwilliamson5309
    @dawnwilliamson5309 Před měsícem +3

    Should have taken both

  • @Official.IntuitionQu44n
    @Official.IntuitionQu44n Před měsícem +3

    I’m just trying to figure out why the cop would go and tell her that the sister said she hit him first knowing damn well the whole reason why the sister told him that in confidence was because they stay in the same house and she didn’t want to cause anymore issues.

  • @angelalake200
    @angelalake200 Před měsícem +7

    never allow a grown person move in

    • @angelalake200
      @angelalake200 Před měsícem +1

      p.s. his homeless mother in law needs to mind her business and get out of his house

  • @MTG-sl3dd
    @MTG-sl3dd Před měsícem +3

    “From the man’s suspicion behavior” did we watch the same first two minutes??

  • @skyyy9603
    @skyyy9603 Před 29 dny +2

    they both should’ve gone to jail if she hit him first

  • @cynicalbeast6033
    @cynicalbeast6033 Před měsícem +3

    Sooo she hits him, it gets physical, he goes to jail and she gets a summons. That’s total crap. Both of them should’ve been taken to jail. Cops are a joke.

    • @karenneill9109
      @karenneill9109 Před 29 dny

      She’s injured, he isn’t. And while she may have hit him first, he shoulder checked her before that.

  • @fawndesilva1607
    @fawndesilva1607 Před měsícem +4

    RED FLAG #1...
    Husband: I can have my MOMMY come pick me up.
    Officer: As long as she's willing.
    Mommas boy: OFC she is.
    😂😂😂
    I have only made it this far in the video.....I can already tell who the problem is...I'd be willing to bet money on it even that the problem is not the wife and her mom 😂

  • @SilentEchoes91
    @SilentEchoes91 Před měsícem +13

    So he laid his hands on her daughter and shes talking about giving advice and wisdom. If someone did that to my grown child i wouldnt put up with it.

  • @davekiwiwebb5914
    @davekiwiwebb5914 Před měsícem +2

    She hit him first. I could tell. Work all day and come home to family and mother-in-law…. No thanks

  • @Albert-the-Astro
    @Albert-the-Astro Před měsícem +7

    Three sides to every story his side, her side and the truth. I personally don’t trust these women.

  • @kingDaJoe
    @kingDaJoe Před měsícem +7

    Funny how the cop went frm cop to therapist.😂😮 & the sister real af.

    • @jacklow9611
      @jacklow9611 Před měsícem +1

      Sister needs to stay out of it, too. Why is she even there in the first place?

  • @DeRock401
    @DeRock401 Před 29 dny +2

    She lying for sure. But they all drunk as shit

  • @steppy3736
    @steppy3736 Před měsícem +5

    It seems to me this is a mutually physically abusive relationship. I hope they divorce after this.

    • @HowardDaniels-uw8tj
      @HowardDaniels-uw8tj Před měsícem

      They won't. It's a match made in heaven

    • @steppy3736
      @steppy3736 Před měsícem

      @HowardDaniels-uw8tj sadly, I believe you're right. She said, "He always does this." The sister said they're newlyweds. The cops said they were out there previously. So, yeah. But I try to remain hopeful

    • @HowardDaniels-uw8tj
      @HowardDaniels-uw8tj Před měsícem

      @steppy3736 So do I but the track record in these situations is abysmal

    • @steppy3736
      @steppy3736 Před měsícem

      @@HowardDaniels-uw8tj I know. I spent many years working with DV cases.

    • @HowardDaniels-uw8tj
      @HowardDaniels-uw8tj Před měsícem

      @steppy3736 yeah, so have I. Easy to get discouraged

  • @richsuykerbuyk7983
    @richsuykerbuyk7983 Před měsícem +2

    She punched first, he goes to jail, he does not. WTF!!!

    • @Zola_6
      @Zola_6 Před 28 dny

      If you watch the whole video.. they both ended up getting arrested

  • @EricFullwood
    @EricFullwood Před 29 dny +2

    That many women in one house will never work.

    • @BetoOro62
      @BetoOro62 Před 29 dny

      Bro it’s the worst especially when they get on the same cycle

  • @CatDogWalk
    @CatDogWalk Před měsícem +9

    Mommy? 😳

  • @timw6546
    @timw6546 Před měsícem +1

    This woman saw him and thought im gunna get that house

  • @karlafevang7898
    @karlafevang7898 Před měsícem +3

    Haven’t even watched the video but the title alone is telling me I’m living this shit

  • @rebeccapotter3413
    @rebeccapotter3413 Před měsícem +4

    For a start send your mom to live some place else, what's up with the mommies! Ugh! Maybe get a divorce!

  • @scottjohnson7877
    @scottjohnson7877 Před měsícem +2

    Why wasn't the wife placed in cuffs & hauled off to jail on the same charge as her husband? She hit her husband first according to her sister... Not condoning the husband's behavior by saying that either.

    • @crackrawkz
      @crackrawkz Před měsícem

      That's his sister. She probably lied and said he was hit first to try and stop her brother from being arrested.

    • @scottjohnson7877
      @scottjohnson7877 Před měsícem +1

      @@crackrawkz She received a court summons so obviously she provoked her husband at the very least & should have been cuffed/hauled off to jail regardless.

  • @timw6546
    @timw6546 Před měsícem +1

    That woman is pushing him to his limits tobtake his stuff

  • @journeysalkebulan
    @journeysalkebulan Před měsícem +2

    Nope I don't agree with this one! When was the wife arrested because I didn't see it! She hit him first and ended up getting the worse of it.

  • @theresahvassman9965
    @theresahvassman9965 Před měsícem +2

    They’re obviously too young and immature to be married
    Mother needs to get out of their house

  • @Vassild
    @Vassild Před měsícem +3

    He has a belt but doesn't even know how to use it to keep his pants up...

  • @pamelawalker859
    @pamelawalker859 Před měsícem +1

    They don't need your advice. They need to figure it out on their own. They ask for advice, give it, otherwise leave them alone.

  • @katmadison7607
    @katmadison7607 Před měsícem +1

    A grown, married man called his mom, "Mommy." That is grounds for an arrest by itself.

  • @MickeyStartraveller
    @MickeyStartraveller Před měsícem +44

    Never marry ANYONE. You don't need more problems.

    • @dothemostrav
      @dothemostrav Před měsícem

      This like the best advice on the internet 😂🫱🏿‍🫲🏾💯

  • @JoeMama-eg4zv
    @JoeMama-eg4zv Před 28 dny +1

    I aint EVER heard a grown man call his mother "mommy" 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣

  • @nikki0817
    @nikki0817 Před 28 dny +1

    My jaw dropped when he said mommy😬

  • @Blissfullyunaware13
    @Blissfullyunaware13 Před měsícem +3

    Why can’t people have a glass of wine or a beer with dinner and leave it at that 🤦‍♀️

    • @honkhonkv2236
      @honkhonkv2236 Před měsícem

      because it taste like shit, why would you drink if it's not to get drunk? like wtf

    • @horrorqueen3577
      @horrorqueen3577 Před 28 dny

      ​@@honkhonkv2236Aaaannnnnd you're another walking problem.

  • @sjohnson5813
    @sjohnson5813 Před měsícem +3

    So why is he the only one going to jail? How convenient she just gets a summons for domestic. Thats crazy man. Bith should of been hooked up

    • @Zola_6
      @Zola_6 Před 28 dny

      Watch the whole video … they both got arrested

  • @tashashouse
    @tashashouse Před měsícem +2

    What grown man calls his mother, mommy?

  • @cherryvanspice829
    @cherryvanspice829 Před měsícem +1

    With so many people and mother-in-law in my house, I would start drinking too 😅

  • @Annakaydyct
    @Annakaydyct Před měsícem +2

    Mother in law may be the reason for his drinking problem

    • @kaylas3105
      @kaylas3105 Před 27 dny

      He’s responsible for himself

  • @merryhineline7781
    @merryhineline7781 Před 16 dny +1

    He keeps calling his mother “mommy?”

  • @marxisthoodlum
    @marxisthoodlum Před 29 dny +1

    His the momma boy but she has her old ass mom living with them 😂.

  • @whereisyourhumanity7557
    @whereisyourhumanity7557 Před měsícem +2

    Sis doesn't want to talk, because Brother and Mother are going to punish her.
    And who's going to protect little sister, when Brother and Mother turn against her?

  • @jessJBIRD1981
    @jessJBIRD1981 Před 29 dny

    If she doesn't want him to go to jail, the cops shouldn't have been called.

  • @tammytroutman734
    @tammytroutman734 Před měsícem +1

    Never let your mother in law move in with you!!

  • @simplyshirene8833
    @simplyshirene8833 Před měsícem +15

    So, the woman hits him first and She's not going to jail but he is? 🤔

    • @BoringOats
      @BoringOats Před měsícem +1

      according to HIS mom. cop didnt buy it I assume

    • @Jennylove.
      @Jennylove. Před měsícem +2

      They both went to jail for domestic abuse

    • @LucasJackson_37
      @LucasJackson_37 Před měsícem +3

      ​@@Jennylove.Well definitely maybe .. the narration says she did, but the cop definitely said she wasn't going to jail and he was just citing her for DV

    • @Jennylove.
      @Jennylove. Před měsícem +1

      @@LucasJackson_37 You aren't wrong. However police tend to change their minds in circumstances like this. Who knows the truth I guess.

  • @krishelfferich3487
    @krishelfferich3487 Před měsícem +1

    "Any kind if physical altercation?" Him- ummm..not that i can recall...+someones been to court before)

  • @BeautifulRiot
    @BeautifulRiot Před měsícem +1

    They're both a problem.

  • @Naptown5-0
    @Naptown5-0 Před měsícem

    Hold old is this cat and he still says “mommy”?😂😂😂

  • @laughs150
    @laughs150 Před měsícem +3

    I think they are all lying tbh