Dirty Divorce Tricks Spouses Play | How to Avoid Them During Your Divorce

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  • Dirty Divorce Tricks Spouses Play | how to avoid them during your divorce
    There are few events in life that are more emotional than the very beginning of a divorce process. Emotions such as anger and distrust that have built up over months, or sometimes even years, can boil out and cause even the most rational, good, and sane people to act irrationally and treat their other spouse in a way they never would. In this video, we are going to go over 11 of the common dirty tricks that we see spouses do to other spouses.

Komentáře • 444

  • @jcnlaw
    @jcnlaw Před 2 lety +201

    Great video! PA divorce lawyer here. Best thing you can do: don’t get married! Go live your best life! Low stress! Travel wherever, whenever you want! You can still have terrific intimate relationships without bringing in state divorce laws. Stay safe out there!

    • @leehughes7747
      @leehughes7747 Před 2 lety +13

      Amen to that.. going through divorce right now.. its devastating

    • @sonyareyes9596
      @sonyareyes9596 Před 2 lety +1

      So if my sociopath narcissist already screwed me mentally and monetarily and it's done in 2016. Nothing can be done? He took my life literally. He came back and I had to take him because he left me broke in many ways. I signed what he wanted under using something to cope with it all. I took antidepressants bc of his abuse. Another abuser stole 5k from me and the abuse can be listed from.other sources. So all I got is Karma to help me???

    • @vantrajuane9740
      @vantrajuane9740 Před 2 lety +8

      Yep you are right. Once the Hallmark movie new wears off some spouses want out like my wife did. No ground faults but she still filed and swiped our whole entire bank account. Not only did I hire an attorney, I went to work part time with them so I could over see my own divorce case and in my off time I helped build a very strong case. Got most of my money back! which from what I hear is very rare. If I ever get married again, accounts will stay separate and the marriage will only be under God's contract, not the state.

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      @jamesnestorlatronica917 Před 2 lety

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    • @go5582
      @go5582 Před 2 lety

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  • @lpsglitterpaws8536
    @lpsglitterpaws8536 Před 5 měsíci +9

    I am a California woman who was blindsided by divorce after 20 years of marriage. He served me mid-December. I am still in shock but managed to maintain my silence for our teenage girls. I didn’t want to ruin their Christmas. Today I meet with an attorney to find out where I stand.

    • @fayechamp4156
      @fayechamp4156 Před 4 měsíci +5

      He has a younger woman. It happened to me after 20 years but he tried to destroy me out of nowhere just hate. They found out he left me for someone younger

    • @lpsglitterpaws8536
      @lpsglitterpaws8536 Před 4 měsíci

      @@fayechamp4156 I have my suspicions about this too. Our kids are 18 and 16 and both girls. About a year ago I noticed that someone ordered toys for boys (4 yo kids) on our Amazon account. I asked the girls if they accidentally ordered these and they both said no. Then I asked my husband if he ordered them and he got all defensive about it and I said no big deal I’ll just return them and he said no, that he would take care of it. I didn’t follow up on it because I was not suspicious. Then another suspicious package came and I opened it…viagra! Finally, about 6 months ago I found a stack of cash in the top drawer of his desk. I didn’t ask him about it but a week later it was gone. So yeah, I totally agree with you about the fact that he is leaving me for another woman 👩

  • @lafrancetitanic4428
    @lafrancetitanic4428 Před 5 lety +132

    Thanks, i will never marry and start investing wisely.

    • @Steezealways
      @Steezealways Před 3 lety

      EMOKIRIEMI ABEDNEGO ABED um ok

    • @graceditchfield123
      @graceditchfield123 Před 3 lety +2

      Can someone explain please how on earth our justice system is giving a green light to this behavior at least in Chicago.....
      MOREOVER some lawyers that are on the payroll of those con rtists and crooks will.not hasite to compromise their professional conduct of ethics and their duty as an officer of court.

    • @MrSmith-on1qz
      @MrSmith-on1qz Před 3 lety

      Wise man!

    • @lgp415
      @lgp415 Před 2 lety +1

      You know what you're absolutely right for choosing not to. But you know what 24 years I give my loyalty I invested sweat blood and tears, and all I got in return was lies betrayals and hurt including wrongful accusations with life changing repercussions. I cannot take those 24 years back but now I've been single for the last year, and you know what as much as he hurts me to garden ripped out on my own home and my family, however if I want to do bad I could do that all on my own. And now I understand some people choose and don't want to change their evil narcissistic ways it is no longer my job

    • @pajeetsingh
      @pajeetsingh Před 4 měsíci

      How long will government allow this? We need to go back before women voting rights. Either that or make a singular head of the family, either a man or a woman. In that way people consciously choose what gender role they wanna play. There are some men who don’t want to work, sit at home and play video games and take care of children and there are women who just want to go 9-5 job.

  • @Researchedthat
    @Researchedthat Před 2 lety +29

    Unfortunately there is no restraining order from emotional abuse. It is hard to prove , so an abusive parent will get 50% custody. Physical abuse if not documented through law enforcement won’t count and an abuser will get away . Many don’t know when a spouse throwing garbage , items , punching walls , damaging property is a physical abuse and have to documented!! Even if your spouse -- mentally inadequate and dangerous emotionally- the spouse still will get a custody. Dirty trick -- when a spouse fears the mom will get custody during his negligence and her being a good mom- he may propose a foster care . True story.
    Lie -- courts often do not act the best interest of the child . Kids become a product for a price the highest bidder is whiling to make. In the situation -- mediation is the worst option. If dealing with a narcissist- mediation is the worst option. Find those extra money to go to a trial and the court . Painful lesson is learned.

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      @jamesnestorlatronica917 Před 2 lety

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      @jamesnestorlatronica917 Před 2 lety

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    • @Janisg616
      @Janisg616 Před rokem

      Parental alienation is so effective that it is hard to tell who is the abusive parent. If a child strongly aligns with one parent and is hostile toward the other - chances are the child is brainwashed and aligns with the abusive parent and most professionals who are not trained in parental alienation get it wrong. 50% custody for both parents is a safer bet until proven that a different % is better for children. It is way safer than giving full custody to one parent because he was unemployed and therefore spent much more time with children than the employed parent or for one parent there is an "incredibly strong bond" with the child. In the case of 50%/50% custody, it is hard to do parental alienation because the children have a chance to see that the alienated parent is not so bad. And the assumption that a child is always better with a mother is obsolete, so 50% by default is a much better assumption. There should be less weight on what children prefer(children are easily brainwashed and aligned with abusive parent) or how it was during the marriage. A common situation is a stay-at-home mom and working father who is labeled as "absent" or "not interested in children" because he has to work overtime to compensate for the lack of his wife's income who refuses to be employed. In that situation giving full custody to the mom, she will not be motivated to get a job and the children will have even less chance to see their overworked father. 50%/50% custody by default is great progress and in most cases best for the children.

  • @johnroberts3824
    @johnroberts3824 Před rokem +25

    When my wife filed for divorce, I had to find an attorney. I set up an appointment with one, and spoke to him and gave him a bunch of details and voiced concerns. Then he said wait a moment, it appears I am already representing your wife. Umm, excuse me? You tell me that AFTER I give you all those details?

    • @MikeT-yt4ql
      @MikeT-yt4ql Před 3 měsíci +1

      Looool 😅

    • @anetaintegra8543
      @anetaintegra8543 Před 3 měsíci

      This happened to me too.

    • @julzluvzdollz
      @julzluvzdollz Před 2 měsíci +1

      That’s when you ask the attorney to represent you both to ensure an amicable divorce. My parents did that they both agreed it was the least amount of stress and what needed to be done and divorced was without a fight.

    • @lukebaehr3851
      @lukebaehr3851 Před 22 dny

      OMG!!!! BRO!!! That sounds like a massive kick in the balls!

    • @daw3221
      @daw3221 Před 14 dny

      That attorney needs to recuse himself by reason of conflict of interest and having compromised himself by not disclosing that information immediately.

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens5117 Před 4 lety +77

    I won't ever get married again

  • @SirenOffspring
    @SirenOffspring Před 2 lety +19

    If either one is having an affair, they are a BAD PARENT. They don't deserve custody of the children they disregarded. Cheaters are not good parents...the end.

    • @Icecat21
      @Icecat21 Před rokem

      100%
      They are morally and ethically bankrupt.

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    @emiehan1593 Před 10 měsíci +6

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    @mustafaozturk8823 Před 10 měsíci +24

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    • @hernadezrita4226
      @hernadezrita4226 Před 10 měsíci

      I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.

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      @NanaWilson-px9ij Před 6 měsíci

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  • @paulinekhoury5223
    @paulinekhoury5223 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video . Very informative and interesting.

    • @jamesnestorlatronica917
      @jamesnestorlatronica917 Před 2 lety

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      I know how that can be divorce is a terrible thing to go through mostly if you don't have proper evidence to back up your case you might just be tossed I got lucky a man I meet in court told me about this team who helped him got evidence from my wife without are knowledge I know it's sounds wired but it's was worth it's cause legal documents and other good evidence we're found and I had a good case in court I'm super glad it's all over and i have 60% of my money back thanks to the team above I'm free to live my life now

  • @booie291
    @booie291 Před rokem

    Very helpful info. Thank you

  • @shimagholami3500
    @shimagholami3500 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this video!

  • @WilliamsLovesToLearn
    @WilliamsLovesToLearn Před rokem

    very informative. Thank you

  • @chrislambert1617
    @chrislambert1617 Před 4 lety +14

    Dirty Trick Number 7 is exactly what happened to me

  • @doyourbest7655
    @doyourbest7655 Před 2 lety +9

    Rule no. One: Spouse is to have a budget and live by it. Separate checking and credit card accounts. This is the standard of living de facto. Never joint accounts. Play fair but never get tangled up in fixing her financial screw ups, late payment, over draft on checking. It’s on her. If it becomes a problem early out of the gate and you want to stay together, get legally separated. That means you are married but your finances are separate. Note this is a common practice for the elderly to save their loved spouse from economic catastrophe when they themself, will have extreme medical expenses in the forward future, and can only receive government help after their personal finances are exhausted. So no it is not unusual to be married but legally separated.

    • @osmanvincent1975
      @osmanvincent1975 Před 2 lety +1

      In community property states, there is the very strong presumption that all income after marriage and sometimes all assets are community property. You can have total separate property agreement and practice, but extremely difficult to do in practice.

  • @m.saltun764
    @m.saltun764 Před 10 měsíci +2

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  • @LilmissJ111
    @LilmissJ111 Před 2 lety +14

    I wish I had known this in 2014, so much was used against me and hurt our daughters. Yes much of what you covered was used on me.

  • @kingsamoanOG
    @kingsamoanOG Před 4 lety +14

    My soon to be Ex wife did # 7 #9 against me when I came to pick up my kids for a few weeks its too bad some ex spouses really don't want to co parent but to make you pay in any way possible for leaving and trying to move on.

    • @terrancecheatham2629
      @terrancecheatham2629 Před 2 lety +3

      Going through that right now

    • @kathianapetitfrere6584
      @kathianapetitfrere6584 Před 3 měsíci

      I’m so sorry 😢. I’m begging my ex would get involved in the kids life. He’s motive in court is about the house money money money forget the kids 😢.

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    @PubgMonilSevenler77 Před 10 měsíci +13

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    • @hernadezrita4226
      @hernadezrita4226 Před 10 měsíci

      I deeply appreciate *JohnsonSpy* for helping me get the divorce I deserved from my toxic wife. We are married for 3 years now and I never even had the balls of cheating on her but I discovered she didn't feel the same way. She was still sleeping with her ex lover claiming the had a good relationship.

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      @NanaWilson-px9ij Před 6 měsíci

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  • @ervaa3782
    @ervaa3782 Před rokem

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  • @ChrisH930S
    @ChrisH930S Před 4 lety +28

    How about #7 where the wife cheats on the husband then tries to take him for all he’s worth while she’s the one who broke the marital vows.....

    • @jimcole6423
      @jimcole6423 Před 4 lety +14

      The adulterer should be required to forfeit everything to the victim spouse. And the adulterer is out on their ass to start over themselves. There is a war on men in this country.

    • @certaindeed
      @certaindeed Před 3 lety +2

      @@jimcole6423 We Do need to enforce adultery and other laws .,,you see when you marry if the government becomes your three is a crowd partner on the alter at least it should enforce a set of basic marriage rules both parties play by..otherwise there will be a penalty.

    • @delgreat168
      @delgreat168 Před rokem +2

      Like an attorney told me. Its immoral but not illegal. We are here to redistribute assets and liabilities.

  • @Fhyyjvda
    @Fhyyjvda Před rokem +6

    Yeah, it's all nice and pretty but lawyers cost $$$ and if mom is a stay at home mom, where is she going to get $$$ to pay for a lawyer??🤔

  • @emperessdee5117
    @emperessdee5117 Před 5 měsíci

    Great video.

  • @kirancromie1772
    @kirancromie1772 Před rokem +11

    After 29.5 of a relationship, it’s sad to know the ppl we love most are cheating financially

    • @Lexilea68
      @Lexilea68 Před rokem

      So sorry if this is your story.

  • @timjohnson1199
    @timjohnson1199 Před 4 lety +9

    All of these things are complicated. The law tries to neatly pigeonhole the issue and sometimes turning grey into black & white dosen't work except for the lawyers.

  • @carlaraimer718
    @carlaraimer718 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you

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    @mfimabefig9822 Před 5 lety +6

    This is a great 👍 Video,!
    Can I get some information about your law firm

  • @williammaldonado3516
    @williammaldonado3516 Před 2 lety

    One word.. THANKS 👍

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    @ferqanealyeva2920 Před rokem +2

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  • @pubgmobile-mj1uq
    @pubgmobile-mj1uq Před 10 měsíci +8

    I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the great work mate well done Respect

  • @hectorsilva3340
    @hectorsilva3340 Před 4 lety +13

    Wanted to renew my vows in the US legally. Never... I'll deal with Mexican courts if ever need it.

  • @controlavirus9839
    @controlavirus9839 Před rokem +4

    Dirty truck #7 on steroids is what happened to me. I have two children that doesn’t know me because their mom hated me more than she loved her children All was going good until she got a new lawyer and called me one morning saying that I done things to our daughter, at that moment it was a good thing I was 100 miles away because I would’ve been in prison for a real reason if I could’ve seen her that moment. So the day we went in front of the “judge” I was not only slandered and accused of extremely sick things, I also lost the rest of my life that day. I left there contemplating suicide. I went through three “attorneys”. EVERY ONE OF THEM DROPPED ME It was too complicated for them. So yea I ended up a lonely depressed angry apathetic man. A woman school teacher (that had issues as a child) against a construction worker (that would never even have thought about someone lying on such a sickening scale) and now ruined for life and had rights taken from me but never served a day in jail.

  • @sintony69
    @sintony69 Před 3 lety +2

    Question, my wife and I are trying to apply for divorce. We own $80k on the house we live in and have 2 children. We want divorce, however, we will remain living together, like we have been doing for the last 11 years. We will continue living with the girls, under our same roof. What do I need to do? or who I need to contact? Miami based

  • @onway78
    @onway78 Před rokem +1

    Good morning, I one thing to ask my soon to be ex-wife won't a divorce the reason for the divorce on her part, she won't me to agree on (cruel and inhuman treatment)She won't me to sing this and get it notarized, I dont agree with her choice of words should I sing this? Thank your for your time....

  • @DonnaNJersey
    @DonnaNJersey Před 5 lety +10

    Mr Denmon your information and that of your firm has been so very helpful to me, although I moved here to Florida I filed in NJ where I left. Had I waited 6 months in FL to file I would have been a client of yours for certain. Thanks for putting your educational videos and your eBooks out there. Denmon / Pearlman excellent advise !!

    • @alexvidu4517
      @alexvidu4517 Před 4 lety

      Kudos for the video content! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you thought about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (do a google search)? It is a great one of a kind product for learning how to stop divorce minus the hard work. Ive heard some super things about it and my best friend Jordan after a lifetime of fighting got amazing results with it.

  • @voulapetrakos8336
    @voulapetrakos8336 Před 3 lety

    U are honest good for u first time I wached ur vedeo I'm going through a devorce after 47 years had had hedin all the money we have 6 grown children!

  • @SLR.e14
    @SLR.e14 Před 3 lety +1

    Does anyone happen to know the best Forensic accountant in Florida ?

  • @Kadir39
    @Kadir39 Před rokem

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  • @chrislambert1617
    @chrislambert1617 Před 4 lety +5

    Dirty Trick number 3, is perfectly Legal in the UK

  • @jessicaketelsen8416
    @jessicaketelsen8416 Před 5 lety +2

    Yep

  • @jaysunkreuze1466
    @jaysunkreuze1466 Před rokem +1

    This is a good advertisement for a corporate prenuptial contract and avoiding state sponsored marriage. Do that and we can pretty much cause most of these divorce attorneys into a different area of law practice.

  • @anetaintegra8543
    @anetaintegra8543 Před 3 měsíci

    My spouse took money from my pre marriage home that I placed in a Joint account for purchase of our home into his personal account. As it’s more than 7 yrs they tell me the credit union can’t trace it and my lawyer tells me it’s fruitless to try to trace it, is it true ???

  • @lolipopsandfancypants7257

    lol... my ex accused me of hiding assets because I had an item that had been in storage at my brother's house for a few years when we got divorced. I tried to explain to her that hiding assets had nothing to do with physically hiding objects and instead referred to concealing the existence of control or ownership over money or assets from the other party. That the divorce process doesn't really care who has physical possession of what asset and where it is physically located. It concerns itself with who has financial interest/control of which assets after separation and how much is the value of those assets in their favor when calculating the balance for a divorce. For me to be hiding an asset she would have to not know of it ever being my possession. And that since she knows that I have it I would have to provide papers to the court regarding the ownership and or dispersing of the item. But she didn't understand and ran around telling everyone and the court that I was hiding assets.

  • @pattyzavala925
    @pattyzavala925 Před rokem

    Yes ! I'm going through all this dirty tricks. Wow how sad is this

    • @jmonie02
      @jmonie02 Před rokem

      they don't win in the end. Keep your head up and stay positive.

  • @ritahayworth4705
    @ritahayworth4705 Před 3 lety +8

    My soon to be ex husband sucks. He purposely works at Walmart with a college degree so He doesn’t have to pay child support.

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    @PHONK_PLAYER Před rokem +1

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  • @forsure2283
    @forsure2283 Před 4 lety +22

    Hey stop saying him and start saying they, because I am male and the stay at home parent and this same shit happens to "him" as well.

    • @jamesmanter8731
      @jamesmanter8731 Před 4 lety +2

      sissy boy

    • @forsure2283
      @forsure2283 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jamesmanter8731 haha sexist

    • @jamesmanter8731
      @jamesmanter8731 Před 4 lety +2

      @@forsure2283 proud of it

    • @gondolacrescent5
      @gondolacrescent5 Před 3 lety

      For Sure I’m make and in the middle of divorce. I think the lawyer presenting the 11 dirty tricks was reasonable in his application of gender carrying pronouns.

  • @dsstudio76
    @dsstudio76 Před rokem +2

    Interesting to see the lack of real integrity in American society, generally speaking. I had the opportunity to do many of these things and I haven’t and won’t do it. It’s a mere of true values and principles. I was born and raised in a corrupted country in South America, but my parents taught me really well what is right and what’s wrong. Being honest and loyal is a task to the brave ones. Good bye to my dear abusive American husband! Today I celebrate my freedom and my true worth , filing for uncontested divorce ! Thank you very much for your valuable content. ❤️🇧🇷

  • @KatieReyna
    @KatieReyna Před měsícem

    Some have always been this way and would use these tactic on anyone no matter the relationship. Narcissists. The bread and butter of family court

  • @julietoneill1268
    @julietoneill1268 Před rokem

    I'm going through it now 💯💯💯👌

  • @PucciNYC
    @PucciNYC Před 3 lety +1

    One very important information it depends what state/country you getting divorce. Different states/country have different rules. NYC is the worst. Only thing they do right is 50/50 retirement split. Oh and lawyers/divorce are expensive. It’s really sad.

  • @thelizardking9382
    @thelizardking9382 Před 4 lety +15

    Don't get married!!

  • @groundloopevents6078
    @groundloopevents6078 Před 3 lety +4

    What if your spouse quit their job voluntarily and moved away to live off of their inheritance and has been “unemployed” for almost an entire year voluntarily? Especially when they are now wanting 50% time with the kids (due to remote education and Covid) so they can pay $0 in child support?

    • @vernonu7314
      @vernonu7314 Před 2 lety +3

      Are you in America? We have the 13th Amendment that protects the spouse who chooses not to work. The other parent deserves 50% custody. No child support is a good thing.

    • @mbyrd6713
      @mbyrd6713 Před rokem +3

      Keep tax records and as much financial info as humanly possible. My ex-husband tried something similar and thank God it back fired. I was able to prove that he intentionally took a lower paying job to try and starve us. I used to let my son visit his parents as much as he wanted and my husband tried to use that to say that he shouldn’t pay child support. The judge not only made him pay back for all the years he gave us nothing but he used the income that he should’ve been making to determine the amount. It’s hard when a spouse uses dirty tricks, but if you stick with doing the right thing, things have a way working out. I know your comment was from 2 years ago and I pray that everything worked out for you and your family, be blessed.

  • @buckblowdownski5306
    @buckblowdownski5306 Před 2 lety +1

    funny to see this cause i played the wage game by voluntarily paying my ex after our split from my corporation and taking no wage myself so she was doubly screwed when we finally got to court never paid her a penny after the case

  • @davidlucey1311
    @davidlucey1311 Před 3 lety +9

    Wait until you are old to get married. I’m 56 on Tuesday. Met my wife when I was 48. So far, so good.

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      @beckyrouse6115 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @oama2009
      @oama2009 Před 2 lety +1

      This is an ancient wisdom from the times of the Bible. I have read it in a book from the same time the bible was written and they advised the same thing. Dont marry young, marry old.

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 Před 2 lety

      @@oama2009 what's the difference?

    • @georgesontag2192
      @georgesontag2192 Před rokem

      Men should know that the women usually drops the husband off at the nursing home and never returns when he gets sick. The husband always returns for the wife. Go ask someone that has worked at a nursing home for 20 years.

  • @adrii9996
    @adrii9996 Před 4 lety +10

    All of this information is great, but to investigate and prove stuff. Your lawyer will charge you hundreds

    • @ChristianDenmon
      @ChristianDenmon Před 4 lety +5

      More like thousands. But if a spouse is hiding hundreds of thousands of dollars, it is the logical thing to do. Spending a dollar to recover ten dollars makes business sense everything.

    • @certaindeed
      @certaindeed Před 3 lety +3

      Tens of thousands

    • @sg-cg6lr
      @sg-cg6lr Před 2 lety

      @@ChristianDenmon makes more sense to do but what if there is no money to pay the lawyer? Do they wait to be paid? Does the earner foot the bill once it's done? Thanks for your comment I hope you answer.

  • @MrTwins3950
    @MrTwins3950 Před 2 lety +5

    What can parents do when they put half of the marital property in the name of the daughter in law?

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    @oyundelileri4354 Před rokem

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  • @christabelokonta9645
    @christabelokonta9645 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wow marriage is supposed to be beautiful but it's sad that two people that once was in love will become enemies after a while

  • @Zikore82
    @Zikore82 Před rokem +1

    Financial starvation for eight months, hiding assets, trying to keep the kids when he didn't care, and the courts ignore everything I bring up. He emotionally abused me, and then turned it on the kids. He quit his job and tried to block them from church all so he wouldn't have to pay as much child support. I wouldn't have ever filed had he helped keep the home the kids were born into (and that mortgage was two hundred less than what he wound up having to pay in support).

  • @PrettyFourU1
    @PrettyFourU1 Před 4 lety +40

    Why is the mother at fault in these scenarios? The most common factor is cheating spouse who hides assets and starving the less bread winner who’s raised children maintain the home .

    • @suzy1750
      @suzy1750 Před rokem

      No matter whose 'fault' it is - and it's highly debatable that it's always the man's - no one is entitled to be supported for the rest of his or her life by an ex-partner. Relationships end for a variety of reasons and we live in a time when women can work to support themselves (and their children) if necessary. And that is what she should be prepared to do if a marriage ends. That means that even if they agree she will be the primary caregiver to any children, she can and should work part time to keep herself marketable and take responsibility for keeping her skills at least somewhat up to date when the kids go back to school. One of the primary reasons that ex-husbands end up supporting ex-wives forever is that the women stop working once they have kids and then claim that they've 'sacrificed their career' or ability to get a decent job after being out of the workforce for so long. Even if they never had a career or wanted one.
      To be clear, I don't mean that a father shouldn't pay a fair amount towards his children (as well as being given 50% custody assuming he's a decent parent,) but this nonsense of an ex-husband being responsible for an ex-wife for the rest of his life, as if she is a helpless child or as if we were still living in the 1600s when women had no opportunities to work, needs to stop.

    • @PrettyFourU1
      @PrettyFourU1 Před 25 dny

      @@suzy1750it does matter hence the dirty tricks video !

  • @johnathanjames6127
    @johnathanjames6127 Před 2 lety +12

    During the 1980s in Utah spouses would file sex abuse charges that sometimes sent the husband to prison and walked away with everything. It was a real headache for the husband.

    • @TeslaBoy123
      @TeslaBoy123 Před rokem +1

      Still happening today that is typical in divorce cases everywhere

  • @thomaskatt4450
    @thomaskatt4450 Před 3 lety +9

    Greetings from Florida, land of no-fault divorce and permanent alimony after 17 years.

    • @jeffinjordan
      @jeffinjordan Před 3 lety +1

      Unilateral no-fault divorce is a curse on our nation. It is forced divorce. It violates the federal and state constitutions in multiple ways. Do a US Supreme Court docket search for Pankoe v. Pankoe.

    • @sg-cg6lr
      @sg-cg6lr Před 2 lety +1

      Trying to understand... Why would it make more sense that the taxpayers foot the bill for your family member if you are making enough to continue support the person you vowed to love and care for? Just wanting to understand. No hate no nothing like that, please know that.

    • @Mrs.T305
      @Mrs.T305 Před 2 lety +2

      @@sg-cg6lr taxpayers? The spouse needs to get a JOB and earn their own income

    • @writtensword173
      @writtensword173 Před rokem

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  • @arielx444
    @arielx444 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My husband has been dating his Paramore for almost a year. They are now engaged, and we are still not divorced.

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 Před 2 měsíci

      Sounds familiar, my husband has been shacked up with his coworker for 10 plus months, he won't settle HIS divorce from me and it's going to trial. He filed 🤷‍♀️

  • @FatherX2022
    @FatherX2022 Před rokem +3

    It's clear to so many of us that family court needs to be overhauled or abolished. If a dad wants equal or primary custody he has to move mountains. It took me over 3 years to prove that, as a father, I was a better custodial parent and I got primary custody. Nobody else should have to go through that effort.

  • @LesterLester-dl2ls
    @LesterLester-dl2ls Před 2 lety +1

    How much say do 11 and 12 year old kids get on who gets custody?

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      @jamesnestorlatronica917 Před 2 lety

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  • @user-rd1lq6zm4g
    @user-rd1lq6zm4g Před 3 měsíci

    What happens if yr joint estate should be shared yr husband refuse married incomunity of property n divorce il

  • @jidazhu5805
    @jidazhu5805 Před rokem +1

    Dirtier tricks - keep all the money in the company first, then “sell” the company to a shell company. He now has no income and no company. All of a sudden, He can not support the children! But he can afford two lawyers to keep filing law suits against the wife! Drained the wife’s saving as she has to hire lawyer too. If she can not afford. Then let settle. Wife does not want any money - no he insisted giving her one of his companies which is in deep debt! So now in front of the judge she is the bad one who woukd not settle!!
    I want to know who can help someone who is penniless with 3 children with a psycho after her!

  • @kimrader7271
    @kimrader7271 Před 2 lety

    Please give me guidelines for Separation divorce in Ohio

  • @raed0822
    @raed0822 Před 4 lety

    whats your website please

  • @christinasantiago7098
    @christinasantiago7098 Před 2 lety +7

    Husband asked for divorce then 6 days ago filed for divorce. He has been so bad to me and he hired a lawyer. I have no money for a lawyer. He did so much emotional physical financial and adultery to me our whole marriage. I don't even know where to begin since I can't afford an attorney.

    • @thenewdavinci1852
      @thenewdavinci1852 Před 2 lety +2

      Money is nothing move on be happy brrathe a fresh air.
      Dont worry you will be fine.

    • @osmanvincent1975
      @osmanvincent1975 Před 2 lety +3

      Most or many lawyers will take the case to the first hearing, with first item is husband paying the lawyers fees.

  • @dannymartinez8314
    @dannymartinez8314 Před 6 měsíci

    What if a spouse opens saving accounts for their kids, and moving money to the kids accounts, and what if the saving was opened before divorce was wanted?

  • @johnmerton3630
    @johnmerton3630 Před 2 lety +4

    By the time you finish with them there be no money left anyway.

  • @trdrockwarrior_sport4432
    @trdrockwarrior_sport4432 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m filing a divorce because I petioned a woman from the phlippines I feel she used me we got married November 9th. Of last year we live in central California I bought my house way before we got married married is it possible she’ll get my house?

  • @godstomper
    @godstomper Před 9 měsíci +1

    Glad Im not marriage material. I do what I want, eat what I want, sleep with whomever I want and nobody to tell me shit.

  • @2shortshorty436
    @2shortshorty436 Před 6 dny

    This Video is very unrealistic at least in Illinois. NOT CHICAGO, I am in Midwestern Illinois! And it’s HARD!

  • @carolvevle8190
    @carolvevle8190 Před 3 lety +1

    I'm in a long marriage. I reported my husband, for abuse, over 30 years ago. Wasn't believed. He is in prison, for hurting our children. Not by me, but by a granddaughter. He has abused me so bad & used our children as pawns. They are plenty old enough, with children of their own, that he also hurt. He's recruiting other narcissist. There has been attempted murder, by black smoke. While recovering from a heart attack, there was attempted arson & tried to blame me. Police were out twice, in one week & once over the phone. I saw a patrol car going down my street slowly today Tues. 10/13/20. Now, there is insurance fraud, there is financial abuse & it's not just one narcissist. There is, at least, six narcissist trying to destroy my creditability & my health. I'm an advocate for any kind of abuse no profit. My organization was also attacked. He illegally threw me off our joint acct & pays my rent only. He is trying to scare & control me, to stop my claim over 270 pages with the CFPB. My family has tried to stop me & so did the property manage of this apt. complex. So far, my doctor raised my BP medication to try to get my BP down. If it hasn't, he said, "I will look into your stress level." I'm in Pa. There are laws against throwing someone off a joint acct., unless it's legally done, by both parties. Laws against stalking. 302ing without a judge is illegal, but they get past it. I left my husband & my family. Not in a relationship, not after this. Do not want a man personally near me. If a man is honestly being nice or we have to work together for whatever reason, I can accept the fact, but don't cross me.

    • @petercherry8517
      @petercherry8517 Před 3 lety

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    • @B3Band
      @B3Band Před rokem

      You sound healthy and sane. LOL

  • @kylehayes6498
    @kylehayes6498 Před 6 měsíci

    What if you’re wife is the one who wants to leave and has committed adultry in the relationship before and she has got a epo against you and gets your kids and your stuck with all the bills and everything as before and she wants money for child support or any support? Should she get anything for leaving on her own and expecting you to still support her?

  • @lindamartin3042
    @lindamartin3042 Před rokem

    Can't still believe people do this. I love my husband not like before , but all I want is joy and prosperity for him. I am divorcing him but all I want is to forgive him and be forgiven and provide support to each other during the process. Most of all our son can learn from us how to divorce right.

  • @brandywinecolby9652
    @brandywinecolby9652 Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks but I had. Wife cheet on me and when I wenf to do my monthly amry weekend reserves I came home to nothing she took the car and everything we owned didnt pay the rent money before and then Went to my bank every time I get paid and take every single dime of my pay check and when you believe me enough money for gas she also took the car the only real car we had that I cosign for and never made another payment and still to this day is not returned it which I have been sued for then she plows for divorce in a state that we didn't live in and I absolutely could not show up because again I was working and had no money what should I do

    • @wendyisafarmer
      @wendyisafarmer Před 4 lety

      Maybe if you were smarter you would have had better luck

    • @BlkOnyx0508
      @BlkOnyx0508 Před 4 lety +1

      CHANGE YOUR BANK ACCOUNT! When she left with the car you should have hurried to a dealership and got another one to offset the repo of the other one. Simple. Also, you could have sent a letter to whomever served you for divorce if you couldn't show up for court.

    • @wendyisafarmer
      @wendyisafarmer Před 4 lety

      @chuck wood some are, some aren't. You just cannot be blind to the actions of those who aren't, so you can move on from them and find one who is.

  • @Youdidsept11
    @Youdidsept11 Před rokem +1

    People are sick that way, dirty tricks

  • @jamesmanter8731
    @jamesmanter8731 Před 4 lety +8

    50/50 is fair in a divorce.. not a dirty trick

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm Před 3 lety

      Women did not earn it!!! How is that fair ?

    • @RustyYorkThievery
      @RustyYorkThievery Před 2 lety +3

      @@Mark-go7qm how long were u married?

    • @Mark-go7qm
      @Mark-go7qm Před 2 lety

      @@RustyYorkThievery what are you going to do about it ?

  • @rolandraggio1798
    @rolandraggio1798 Před 4 lety +23

    Don't get married. Don't have kids. Avoid family court. Even if you get the best lawyer the courts favor the mother in custody disputes. Simple. Don't do it. Marriage rates and birth rates are declining. Take heed.

  • @go5582
    @go5582 Před 2 lety

    Hi handsome. I enjoyed your dirty divorce tricks video. Great job.

  • @georgesontag2192
    @georgesontag2192 Před rokem +1

    Have you noticed all the solutions are going to cost you $25,000 ? Tell your lawyer, get a professional, call a tax accountant and financial specialist, call CPS. Your going to lose everything you worked for once a divorce starts. If you had it, it will be gone. Keep your money and house, don't sign the state contract that just allows them to transfer your wealth.

  • @prohalil6590
    @prohalil6590 Před rokem

    Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear usespy online. First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.

  • @arda334
    @arda334 Před rokem

    The quality of your spy job is so incredibly high. If you don't have team usespy online behind you, then you are clearly a multi talented individual. The way the access is structured are perfect, the visuals are stunning, the narration is engaging, and of course, the project is itself intriguing. You are a professional !!

  • @williamjackson261
    @williamjackson261 Před 2 lety +3

    This makes me sad

  • @Gatorgetfresh
    @Gatorgetfresh Před 7 měsíci +1

    Why are you saying that “ HE has “

  • @katelinstach6995
    @katelinstach6995 Před 5 měsíci

    I dont rly think if a dad wants 50/50 custody during a divorce, but he didn't spend as much time with them as the wife did during the marriage that its a dirty trick. Maybe he wanted to be home.with them too but was forced to go work and provide for everyone, and now that she'll be providing 50/50 financially, at least that's how it should be, he'll get to spend more time with them.

  • @Drainman
    @Drainman Před 6 měsíci

    You forgot dirty trick number twelve where your spouses lawyer becomes the victim first and calls for police protection to create narrative that judge is saving this poor woman from this monster

  • @harshitmadan6449
    @harshitmadan6449 Před 4 lety +9

    MGTOW!

  • @needgardenhelp4037
    @needgardenhelp4037 Před 2 lety

    My husband says he hates “liars and sneaky” people. But he doesn’t share everything with me, and doesn’t know what “lies by omission” means. Either way, he doesn’t work and hasn’t worked in years. Can i leave the marriage and not tell him where I’m going? I dont want to pay him alimony support, he’s a liar and he cheats on me with every waitress at the bars we visit. OR are there CONSEQUENCES for abandoning the relationship? (P.S. we have no joint accounts just a home with a high mortgage- he can’t afford) #Florida leaving w/ our 16 yo

    • @B3Band
      @B3Band Před rokem +1

      You sound sane. lol
      Can't imagine why he wants nothing to do with talking to you hahaha

  • @arshad1578
    @arshad1578 Před 2 lety

    It's all common human own interests and safety try to safe there hard earned money of loosing because of unjustified system and the creators of the system want only one gender to lose money 💰 it's not dirty. You have all right to save your interests from loosing them bc of unjustified system.

  • @2shortshorty436
    @2shortshorty436 Před 6 dny

    Ok I’m Illinois this is not TRUE! There is no help, if you are in a abusive situation it doesn’t matter at least not in Madison County Illinois calling the police will only get your ass beat worse soon as they leave! 😢I had a plan in place and still halfway do my problem is he found the hidden money I had saved for 2 years, I have no idea how to even start saving money again I need help!!! No I am not in Chicago I live in Midwest Illinois Madison County. Now I am sure he will see this video and again be worse for me! 😢😢

  • @yusuf_alisan
    @yusuf_alisan Před rokem +1

    Often the difference between whether a person is identified as a hacktivist (or Batman vigilante as described here) or a terrorist is whether the person describing the hacker agrees with their ideology or not. One of the reasons why doing real harm with hacking is not a good idea. usespy online all the way. No worries about breaking the law, and you're actually building value for someone by ensuring they know of all their system's vulnerabilities. A great place to start practicing is on your own devices and networks.

  • @salehyttv5459
    @salehyttv5459 Před 10 měsíci +3

    *Brian hacks online* dedication to my case was evident from the moment he stepped in. His unwavering commitment to ensuring the best possible outcome was truly remarkable. With each step he took, it was clear that his genuine concern for my well-being was driving his actions. His dedication was not merely a job requirement but a heartfelt mission to bring about a positive change in my circumstances.

  • @janetharrison6994
    @janetharrison6994 Před 8 měsíci

    Wow spot on our joint account seriously hemmrogine money but he doesnt know were its gone to ??? But i found bank statement his usualy shredding before i see it . 2 can play that game seems been set up tele acc to name i no nowt about or heard off . £5000 mth ?????? His the one betrayed me numerous women . Tried con me out of my half share of home joint owned said i think it is but not i no i sgned the deeds . Offered me half of wat im entitled to . He was in army got pensions n says im not allowed nowt ??

  • @CurtisReese-tl7ip
    @CurtisReese-tl7ip Před 5 lety +6

    Dirty trick #1 is not a dirty trick. Making less money is a personal issue.

    • @B3Band
      @B3Band Před rokem

      Right? This guy desperately wants to hand over free money to the person who didn't earn it.