Embracing Our Flaws
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- Being flawsome is all about realizing your flaws are what make you awesome and unique! Let’s be REAL, owning your flawsomeness takes time. Watch hosts share how they’ve learned to embrace their insecurities and love the skin they’re in.
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Andrienne looks beautiful, she's lessening on the make up and her beauty is just shining
She actually looks a whole lot younger
Hadiah Peters Yesss, she looks so fresh faced and glowy.
I know! Great decision her eyes are sparkling
Is that what it is? Thought she got Botox :/
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i like adriennes minimal look
yup! She is sooo beautiful!!
it looks refreshing.
Diana Muturia her skin is beautiful
High key her best look. Which is compliment because its her face. Gorgeous
One of my flaws is actually the opposite of Tamar. I'm soo quiet and it's not even like I purposely do it. I just have nothing to say and so when I do have to talk especially in a social setting it's just weird. And the sound of my voice when I hear it on a video, recording or whatever I just don't like but God's working on me lol
Yeah, I don't like to hear my own voice on recordings either. Heck, If I be on Tv. I probably wouldn't want to watch myself.
amysorel12 Right!! it's just weird even when I hear my singing and it's not like I can't I just dislike it for some reason.
Wow this is so me
Danielle A. omg same here. like everyone referred to me as the quiet one. like I'm not antisocial, i get along with everyone I'm not scared to talk to people, I'm not shy i just don't really have nothing to say. I'm even quiet AMONG my friends, because i just have nothing to say sometimes. like people call me quiet till they get to know me.
I'm the same way!!
Tamar's loudness makes me like her actually, that's what draws me in ♥. I think it's because I'm completely opposite. She's like the secret part of you that will say what you wont!
Yes, I have a friend that's like her
Lashaun Gordon i think you totally nailed why I like her so much....
xoxo7x7 LOL, THNKS
Lashaun Gordon I love Tamar's personality, too. I couldn't imagine her any other way.
I agree! I'm so soft spoken and I constantly have to repeat myself or overcompensate... I kind of like when people have a nice, clear and loud voice.
Thank GOD He saved me. I used to hate myself, being small, skinny, big eyes. I even wore baggy clothes JUST to hide them. But after getting so close to God, I've grown up so confident. I love my skinny legs!
Miss Chansa good for you girl! Be beYOUtiful! God bless!
CoCoGemel Thank you so much! Many blessings to you too!
You're beautiful. Don't ever forget that.
***** Awww - how sweet of you to comment. You can't dictate what my beliefs are JUST like I can't dictate yours. Enjoy your night and GOD bless!
sassqueen11 Thank you so much; CZcams is rather encouraging sometimes with people like you :)
I'm living for A's light makeup!
MADEbySOUL YASSSS!
Sister Jen Her skin is beautiful 😍
I like Adrienne's natural beat today. It's pretty! I used to hate my lips, they are full and I was so self conscious about them but now I love em! Also I don't have to stick my mouth in a glass to get em lol
i know this was 7 years ago, but as you should queen !!!
Dang i was looking at a picture of tamera wearing above the knee skirt and i remember admiring her legs and knees! So crazy how one person can percieve flaws and another sees pure beauty
Jermaine Jackson Thats incredibly true! One of the main things I found attractive about Rihanna (random I know) was her legs. I loved how thick and toned they were. I just thought she had the "perfect" hip, thigh, and calf ratio. At one point it was even suggested that she get them insured because they were considered that attractive. But then I ended up hearing her say that one thing she was always insecure about was how "fat" she thought her legs were and how much she always wanted them to be thinner. I was shocked when I heard that because I just remembered thinking how sexy I thought they were and she is thinking the exact opposite. So yeah, its definitely crazy how differently people perceive the same things.
Jermaine Jackson yess like even now on the real i'm always eyeing her legs lol
+Jermaine Jackson you mean pure makeup
+Jermaine Jackson you mean pure makeup
yeah who ever said flaws were a bad thing
"You better wear what that man likes."
Mason Perry Lmao Oh Tamar
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I'm sorry, i can't stop looking at how gorgeous adrienne looks.. without all the makeup i prefer her this way
Every time Loni talks about a "flaw" of hers she quickly tries to give a positive message so she wont say too much or go to deep...This is the real boo.. Spill your tea as well.
Yes i realise that to...& i know she has real stories when it comes to her flaws
Chastity B. The Entrepreneur Lol so true
Realising that God created me and that I am truly fearfully and wonderfully made has really helped me. I can really see myself through His eyes and not the world's
Realising that God loves me (like really loves me) is my source of confidence, the fact that someone that amazing could think of little old me, it floors me every time, it makes me feel so beautiful and like I can do anything, I don't need people's stamp of approval, I have His and that's enough :)
C Fas How did you get to that point? I'm almost there but I keep getting in my own way with comparing myself with other women(like family members) and wondering why I don't look like them and we are in the same family.
Kim Johnson Aaahh. I understand what you're going through. I struggled more with my body shape... Getting into the word of God has really helped me. Not just pulling out verses as an antidote, but reading it daily so that I could really understand my heavenly father and understand how He sees me. When we think like the world we get tempted to see ourselves through the world's eyes, but God doesn't see us that way at all. He sees His beautiful creation and he's concerned about your heart and your mind. You're precious to Him.
Here are two verses, which relate to that:
Psalm 139:14 (KJV)
14 I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
or
1 Peter 3:3-4 (KJV)
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
Thank you so much
Kim Johnson You're welcome ;))
Jeannie and Adrienne look especially beautiful today, I just love what Jeannie is wearing and Adrienne is so beautiful with this laid back look.
It's so important to love who you are, let people say whatever they want to say, people will only have as much power over you as you are willing to give them. You don't need to bow to anyone's standards of beauty.
Anita agree with your entire comment! Jeannie is giving me 90s r&b video teas. Like she's wearing Jordache jeans. Adrienne looks so good!
I get wat Tamar saying cuz my voice carries...my teachers used to always say something but I couldn't help it. I find myself consciously talking quiet so i wont sound so loud
I know what you mean I have bass in my voice so I can whisper worth a damn... Lol
912nelle I once made a comment in a discussion at church and was asked if I swallowed a microphone. I've since learnt to control it when necessary but still loud as hell in my day to day life!
dj_oldskool Oh my!
912nelle i was the opposite. I always spoke too low. Even though, in your head you feel like you're loud enough.
Man. I annoyed my Kindergarten teacher so bad with talking so much that one time she picked up my chair and turned it around to face her... With me still in it! Lol I embraced me being talkative a long time ago and I hope to make a career out of it! Embrace everything ladies ;)
How do I use stretch marks to my advantage....?
Ash for real! same here....like am i closer to looking like a zebra or something lol
Ash i think of mine as a sign i went thru puberty. they're part of what make you look like the adult you are
4real!
Ash I guess try to pretend you're Tamar with her attitude: I'm beat to death, honey. All of THIS? You betta get your life! Won't he do it.
Ash eevvverryyyy body has stretch marks. yes, not just even women. some have less than others or some skin tones make it harder to see. but most people have stretch marks so don't even consider that a "flaw" lol.
tamars voice in the background "why yo knees dark" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I feel you Tamera on the hyper pigmentation and Loni on the body image. My weight fluctuates often enough that I start having insecurities about my size which affects my confidence. It's a daily struggle!
I understand what tamar is saying, everybody is always telling to talk softer, I think it happens if you grew up in a big family, you always trying to get heard.
Adrienne's glowing! she looks amazing, so dewy and fresh
Love how Adrienne rocked the relax outfit and especially no makeup. That inner beauty shines so bright. Definitely would be cool for them to do natural look one episode.
Aw I wanted to hear the rest if what Tamar had to say
MissRimaKagé That was it. Adrienne went on to say that she's been told the same thing, too and it just moved into a redundant conversation about people saying they're all so loud on the show.
***** OneLoveRSR Thanks guys!
Adrienne looks prettier with less makeup!!! 😍😍😍
oh my god Tamar, that was HILARIOUS. LMFAO
All of the ladies are beautiful tho.
Omg, Queen Bee
IfTheApocalypseComes BeepMe and you are???
IfTheApocalypseComes BeepMe i'm not though? I only have Beyoncé as my name, what's your problem??
Beyoncé and you look like her too, for what reason will that be? Enlighten us
Kitoko no I don't? Beyoncé is my queen, are you a blue man? wtf, y'all make no damn sense.
I can relate to Loni...I was always a big girl even through my school years which made me look older than all my other classmates, but as an adult now, I have definitely learned to embrace it and I'm 1000% more confident and yes I strut my stuff too 😅...that's how my man noticed me and he always says how sexy and beautiful I am! Yassssss🙌🙌🙌💏 #OwnYourFlawsTheyAreBeautiful
Aw good for you :) Beautiful !
I wish I would embrace it more also.
loni's reaction when Tamar was talking about how she was loud.
.. 😎 LMMFAO
Heather Pimental 😂😂😂 ikr
Real Comment Section Confession: My biggest flaw is probably my skin, I feel Jeannie on this, scars and pigmentation that wont go away some I was born with. It's hard because I never really cared as a child, but once I got older it became the focus point. I try my best to just live life and forget about what others think, especially when they don't even know me. #RealCommentSectionConfession
+Lashaun Gordon I have a birth mark on the right side of my face.
Mines my skin too because I've got acne and it's the worst
I can relate on the loud voice. Even when I whisper, it still projects. But, it helped in Speech and Debate.
Speaking of flaws, does Adrienne have any make up on? Her skin is glowing and flawless!!!
Lip gloss maybe * Adrienne looks the same, in a previous ep * Where she took off all her makeup.
Having a kid Tamar maybe, it's her stretch marks.
I died laughing, when she said that.
I have the opposite of what Tamar does. My voice is naturally low and quirt and sometimes when I talked no one could hear me
Same and when I speak they say I'm shouting :( what a girl suppose to do
Dominique Benton I am THE SAME. Especially at work, when I say hi to people, they don't hear me so I feel like they've ignored me. LOL. Gotta speak up!
NORMANI?!?!
Same
Same, i'm always asked to repeat what i said!
I LOVE how you guys talk about your insecurities. Shows us the audience that even celebrities aren't perfect. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!❤️❤️
Loni got that 2009 Kate Gosselin haircut
Lol!
I have the pigmentation issues on my elbows and knees!): Haiz...#Colouredwomenproblems
Girl i have them on my knockles too..
Clau. Diatje Me too!!!
sizzleyou My feet, elbows, knees and hands are maybe five shades darker than the rest of my body. I'm really concious of it and it doesn't help that some people ask me if I forgot to bleach them. -_-
sizzleyou my sister is really insecure about that. she says her booty is darker than the rest of her body too. she just started bleaching.
You can lighten them naturally if you want it to match the rest of your body. You can use baking soda combined with milk on your knees and elbows. I'd say give it a month and you'll see results!
Tamar knows her flaws are deeper than just her voice lol cmon
DreSweetheart Yeah she seem really insecure about a lot of things.
look at yours first gurl...them judge Tay she us successful and rich and gas everything she wants ....judge u first then try to read goodnight
Natasha Genard you probably fat and ugly ..shut up and don't hate on Tay she better than you
DreSweetheart she's spoken about a skin disorder before.
Fabulous Divo lmao ok honey.
Omg Adrienne looks perfect today!
I absolutely love their videos. And I love that Adrienne isn't wearing makeup. Such a wonderful message.
lol the way Loni be lookin at Tamar sometimes be like...."girl can you stfu"
I'm loving Adrienne's makeup no makeup look in this episode 😍
I'm always slower than everyone else I don't know how I could change that to a positive
You can say maybe it takes me a bit but I always get there😂
*Tamera & Tia have thee CUTEST LAUGH 😂🤣😄...It's contagious*
Real Talk
My flaws is my eyes being that they are 2 different color ... I'm still dealing with it but I'm coming more into loving myself. It's hard living in this society when people judge you by your looks and think you get everything handed on a silver plater when in reality I have to work twice as hard.
I tell myself I'm beautiful everyday ...
Still struggling with it though
Well I think having different colored eyes is cool, and anyone who judges and makes fun of you is jealous. Embrace that uniqueness chile!! 😉
Mine is the opposite of Tamar's. People say that I don't talk loud enough, that I "mumble" (I find that to be an exaggeration though). Having gone through puberty, my voice has become deep and somewhat husky, so I really don't have the range to be so loud. It's not that I can't talk loudly, but it doesn't come with ease, so I refrain from doing so.
great segment about accepting what you (already) have and making it work for yourself, regardless of what the playround peers stay to/about your physical appearance or voice level.
I absolutely love how they built each other back up.
OMG Loni was cracking me up when Tamar was talking about herself being loud!!! haha
I have more flaws than I can count and I'm still trying to change them. Even the flaws that people don't care about but I notice EVERYDAY. most of them have to do with appearance because it's the ones that I can see. Point is, seeing this makes me want to embrace them and own them so THANK YOU The Real and THANK YOU GOD for making me the way I am.
Although this show was about embracing flaws, to me, Adrienne looks more flawless. Absolutely beautiful!
I love this segment. I'm really blessed and happy that God has slowly shown me the good in my flaws and the reason I look the way I do. Growing up I HATED my stomach, my arms, I always had big shoulders. I also had insecurities with my smile and chin. It's amazing looking back at old photos and realizing how INSANE I was to thinking I was chunky and comparing myself to my friends. I was actually very thin too which is the weird part lol. But I was also extremely depressed from a young age and I guess that presented itself on my outer appearance too, which made me feel even uglier. I was a mess back then lol. but God was faithful to me then and He's continued His faithfulness and carried me out of that dark place for good.
So long story short. ladies, God designed you the way He did for a purpose. No one on earth is ever gonna look EXACTLY like you and that is okay! What God did was He healed and restored the depression that I had and everything else in my that was ugly, and once that left I began see better in myself as well as when I looked in the mirror. Your body is going to keep changing and developing for a while and you will soon see how precious and beautiful you are because they're is no one like you.
No one is perfect, each of us has our own flaws but we always keep in mind that we have to love and accept our self and be thankful for everything that God's give us.
Great video ladies :) I think a lot of the time we are our own worst enemies because we often give ourselves such a hard time and give ourselves insecurities. Growing up I always hated being tall, my mother and sister are 5'2" and I'm 5'7", so I was always the tallest girl in my family and one of the tallest girls in my class at school. The issue with being quite tall for me was that in my teens and early 20s I was shy and introverted and when your taller than a lot of the people around you get noticed more. Also I think women need to be more kind to each other because something that I experienced in school was that guys would always compliment me on my height but I had lots of bitchiness from girls ... and I think that happens a lot in society. As you get older though you become more confident and you learn to let go of things that made you insecure in the past. Now I'm 30 years old I actually love being tall. Everyone is fine just the way they are and when you have people in your life that make you feel good about yourself that's everything 😊😊😊
Tamera I know exactly what you mean. Big thighs and crazy knees. It's an everyday process to accept mine too but I'm getting better every day
Omg, the ladies with less makeup look just GORGEOUS! Now that's real (.... almost) 🙌🏻👌🏽 But with/without makeup, big love and respect to all you ladies 😘
Love how adrienne looks so fresh and natural on the show :) GET IT GIRRRRL
Tamera is sooo adorable!
The way Loni sipped that tea, she knew that wasn't the only flaw Tamar had... Lol
Dang, Adriennes make up is alot more natural here. nice
“You better wear what that man like.” I know that’s right Tay💯
lmao Im mad at the camera guy zoomed in on loni`s face when tamar was explaing about her voice
Ambii_Ambii_ 1/2 but
Ambii_Ambii_ 1/2 i laughed soooo damn hard
I will be forever calling every Friday Flawsome Friday :)
I feel Tamar... When I'm in class, I talk to really loud and I can't control it. in my head I'm not that loud... I'm still trying to cope with people saying "gurl you are way too loud, calm down", it makes me feel 'less than'. I'm not gonna change but I'm improving myself. ❤ yourself. - H xxxx
I'm insecure about my dimples because in the 1st grade some kid said "eww you have holes in your cheeks." Even though it sounds ridiculous now I'm still learning to love them ahahaha
MissEthiopia I LOVE dimples I've wanted dimples my entire life their just so cute ugh I would die to have dimples I hope you learn to love them and can I just say you look so beautiful from your profile picture I hope that's not creepy or anything but I would love to look like you
+Elizabeth Roy aw thankyou so much. And no its not creepy haha xx
I love dimples as well, I can tell you are a beautiful woman, don't let something that someone said MANY years ago get to you. To me dimples are a blessing and I would LOVE to have them😊❤
+RatGurlTay you're so kind. thankyou xx
MissEthiopia girl I wish I had dimples! I'm glad you love them now. It's beautiful !
Adrienne looks so beautiful and refreshed.
I love Loni with that hair!! So Gorgeous, and suits her perfectly:)
I like this show too much!! Lol just love seeing women coming together in a classy way. Hell even if they just talking makes me feel good.
Adrienne you look so beautiful, I love the natural looking makeup on you today!
Tamar, that was hilarious! I actually busted out laughing! And Jeannie is speaking my life with the whole scars and legs thing. I'm super tall so my legs look extremely skinny even though they're not.. I never wear shorts because of this.. It's a working progress..
I have so many flaws , and I did embrace them.. my negative is my positive and it does not even bother me as much ;when beautiful women also are as delusional as I am ... we are all beautiful.. you are beautiful..
If Tamera and Jeanie’s personality’s were meshed together, that would be basically my personality. Both are my fav too💜
tamera's laugh gets me every time lol! 😃
love her laugh all the time
Tamar and Loni are hilarious and Tamera is beautiful. I love when Jeanie imitates her Mom and she has pretty skin. Adrienne is so tiny and cute. Loved watching the Cheetah girl movies with my daughter.
No shaded eye rolling or sacrasm in this segment. I love it.
I was loud too, now people say I should talk louder but when I was young I got so much critic for being loud that I am super aware of the tone of my voice
I really hate that i'm loud, people always tell me to be quiet but i can't help it. My voice is just loud, and it gets even louder when i'm excited. UGHH
The comments here always give me such life. Sometimes i feel like we all a lil "Real" family because how i relate to your comments. They are very refreshing. not rude. Like everyone is building someones confidence. im just happy. God bless you (Numbers 6:23-26)
I believe that feeling good in your skin and beeing happy that's when we are the most beautifull...I haven't felt that in years...😑
really loved this segment I'm glad to am not the only one with flaws :) we notice things that others don't about us :( i hope we all embrace especially us women
WOW ADRIENNE! That fresh faced look is so beautiful
OH MY GOD..... THANKS SO MUCH FOR THIS SHOW. MY FLAWS IS MY TEETH AND ANYTIME I LOOK IN THE MIRROR I BECOME UPSET COS I HAVE OVERLAPPING TEETH BUT ANDRIENNE JUST MADE IT CLEAR TO ME THAT MY FLAWS MAKES ME UNIQUE. I HAD ALWAYS LOVED TO BE A TV HOST BUT COULDNT BCOSI WAS SO MUCH CONCEREN ABOUT MY OVERLAPPING TETTEH. THANKS SO MUCH
lmfaooooo I'm like Tamar.... "Maria you so loud" "OH MY BADDDD"
omd i completely understand Tamar, I'm always being told that I talk too loudly but I've come to the point now that I dont really care. If someone wants to be in the same room as me and wants me to quieten down maybe they should speak up.
Adrienne looks so pretty with light eye makeup!!
They are all beautiful in their own way I was always insecure about my looks still am
it would be really connecting if the audience took part in these types of conversations so that they can relate as well
Adrienne is so naturally beautiful
I'm the opposite of Tamar I get told my voice is too soft but in my head it sounds loud so I have to find a happy medium.
I get that all the time
omg!!!! idk if Tamar is serious or not but that is my biggest flaw. im loud. and trust me ive tried almost everything but if you get me in a situation (happy or angry) i get loud. never was a quiet shy girl. i loved excitment and was always voicing my opinion. still trying to cope with it but hey my flaw made me step leader at school, birthday chant girl at my job, and unapologeticly me. lol
I actually love my flaws because that makes me unique and different
Love Adrienne's natural look!
Adrienne looks amazing 😍 I love Loni’s short do 😍
I am like Tamar, I've always talked super loud, and I'm always told I need to speak in a lower tone and quieter- I hate my voice I hate that I'm loud and I hate how high pitched it is. Also, my legs are really skinny too but yeah, I'm starting to embrace my body more. ANd I realized- I am the only one who actually cares that I have a high pitched voice. No one else has ever made fun of me or seemed to care.
The SHADE Loni threw at Tamar and Tamera when Tamar was talking about her stomach here lololololol. Ya'll I went DAMN!!!!
"You betta wear what that man like." lolol
Hyper pigmentation has always been a enemy of mine as well as acne and stretch marks. But you can also say being shy because I use to always get yelled at.
Tamar omgosh I'm in tears. I did not expect that lmfaoooo
the way loni explained exotic made my day
I agree with Tay Tay I still struggle with being the loudest person in my school and im a sophomore .
I can relate to jenni I have skinny long legs with bruises I had chicken pox...mrsa scars (4)...and I rolled down a hill when I was a kid and my legs were itchy sooo bad I scratched some of the skin off but everyday I'm accepting those flaws
Adrienne looks AMAZINGGGG
I love the real!! They keeps it 💯!
i'm actually experiencing what loni experienced...being a big girl my biggest insecurity and i'm really trying to overcome it...i don't understand why i can't
An add for the channel All Def Digital came on before the video played and it was hilarious! I love J Snow and Cynthia