r/AmITheA**hole For Getting an ENTIRE Family of Thieves Arrested?
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 9. 04. 2021
- r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP gets his $2500 bicycle stolen by some spoiled teenager. Luckily, he's able to find that his bike is being sold on Facebook marketplace, so he goes to confront the teen. He's surprised to discover that the teenager's mom is there with the bike, trying to sell it. He calls the cops to get the teenager arrested, and later the teen's dad calls up OP for some good old-fashioned witness intimidation. Surprise! The father got arrested too!
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It's not even funny that some people think that just because "It's been so long ago" makes something more forgivable
It's one thing to say that it's another thing that one didn't know and two never resolve it.
If op had known about it from the start then it'd be reasonable to expect them to have moved on. It was a fresh wound for them in this story tho so it's like the stepdad just stole the cat.
@@gnralZTT And calling a grown mans conscious choice to drive an HOUR to get rid of the cat and waving it away as a âmistakeâ? Yeah, what an oopsie to have mistakenly misplaced that cat and then the adults pretends it ran away...
My parents have another son who will forever remain dead to me no matter how much time goes by. Some things aren't meant to be forgiven.
I honestly think it depends on what he had done. Here, he clearly an asshole, no matter the time. But imagine someone said something rude 6 years ago. That was just an opinion and he could've changed. But, if he was constantly stalking and harassing the other, most certaintly wasn't just an opinion, and if he defends himself about that, it just makes it worse.
I looked up the reddit post for the kid-friendly-easter story. There's a huge detail that wasn't in the original post, OP's husband was murdered. She lost her husband in one of the most tragic ways possible and instead of consoling her, her family has been treating her like this.
That's fucking horrible, and I feel so bad for OP.
Ah, so family is now 8/5 buttholes.
Holy crap. =(
That makes it 1000x worse.
OH so instead of it being a weird child upset family, this is a family that's being emotionally abusive.
That puts them in 5/5 range
Telling someone who just been through that that it wouldn't be just them sisters ever again is kinda... Too much
I'm glad she had one sister to talk with
I hate when people go "they made that mistake years ago!" Going out of your way to do something bad isn't a mistake, it's an active choice. And then never apologizing shows they didn't regret it
This is the biggest reason why my mom's side of our family isn't spoken to by us these days. Those good memories are either long gone or tainted with things that put them in a different context.
Many things could be excused by the same logic if it worked but it just... Doesn't matter what matters is that you have done something
Kidnapped decades ago, larcened ages ago, murdered as a teen, abused be it an animal or another person years ago, we can continue listing but the fact the act itself was done is one that needs to be punished and treated if not at least acknowledged
Exactly. If he'd gotten rid of the cat because he somehow mistook it for a stray and didn't realize the truth until it was too late, *that* would have been a mistake. Getting rid of the cat deliberately was a wrong. Don't call it a mistake when it was fully deliberate. Even if you think it should be forgiven, at least acknowledge that it was a wrong that requires forgiveness instead of pretending it was some sort of accident.
"Oh I killed a man some years ago. -Really? Yeah, and i don't feel bad at all, i hate him anyway. -Ok cool." That is basically what those POS said.
Besides that point "it happened years ago" only works as an excuse if you'd known about the mistake and had time to forgive. This effectivly JUST happened as the secret was revealed. Its not even just the cat, its all the years of lying and secrecy. A huuuuge betrayel of trust from both parents
OP said he spent months looking for his cat. As far as Iâm concerned, every day his mom let him go out looking, every time she said something to âcomfortâ him is another betrayal and another instance of her choosing an abusive ass over her own kid.
Agreed. That family should have gotten the full 5/5 score for their abusive behavior and complete lack of remorse.
The cat story: no, no. It may have been "years ago" for everyone else but OP only just found out the truth, its a fresh wound. NTA in anyway shape or form.
Exactly, if stepdad had killed the youngest child, hidden the body and never been caught for a decade would everyone still say "it was years ago, get over it"?
@@gryphenicedancer8796 yeah exactly!
I was going to comment the same thing. That step dad is a horrible human being, and the mom is just as guilty by association for allowing all the horrible shit to happen
It was years ago and she never told him. She deserves an ultimatum. Either she devoces that emotionally abusive pet napper and throws him out on his face, or she goes no contact with her son. She knew what he did and kept that from her son and thinks he's being unreasonable for being upset? Screw that.
Pets aren't just objects or tools, they are extensions of your family. If my parents gave away my pet and asks me to get over it with as it was years ago, I'm never talking to them EVER AGAIN. No if, and, or buts about it.
Lily is a child. Laura is a adult. She was happy to dish it out but then couldn't take it when it came back. She then played the "I'm disabled card" OP is empowering it. OP, you can't just kick out your teenage daughter, you have to deal with the situation that you created.
I'm legally blind without my glasses. It sucks, but its been my life. I can still see enough not to trip over stuff - blobs are VERY good warning for your brain to say, "hey... something's there, be careful"
Yeah, it's been scary when my glasses broke, knowing I'd have to wait at least TWO WEEKS for replacements to be made (they usually cannot be made "in house" due to a combo of bad eyesight, astigmatism, and something that's supposed to help my lazy eye stay on track better).
But... I deal. While I no longer drive (seizures), I just didn't drive those weeks I waited. I was extra careful with everything I did.
I didn't ever require people around me CONSTANTLY. I'd get extra help for things like cutting stuff in the kitchen - and only because I don't trust myself. People to drive me. Shopping. Other than that... I'm good. I just see BLOBS.
In fact, when my seizures first started, I stopped wearing my glasses as much around the house. At first, I wore them on a chain arpund my neck. As I grew more confident, they stayed on my nightstand except for important tasks (kitchen, documents, etc) and when I leave the house. I hold my phone at the 1 spot where things are only about 25-50% fuzzy to watch youtube, play games, text, etc. I rarely watch an actual TV.
So...
Laura, IMO, is just playing the sympathy/disability card to get rid of her sister. Yeah, what Lily did was wrong, but a very important thing to note: she felt bad about it immediately. Not ONCE in that story does it sound like Laura gave a crap about what she did to her sister that caused her to lose her lenses.
Here's another thing that bugged me. WHY DIDNT A PARENT TAKE LAURA BACK TO HER CAMPUS TO GET HER OTHER SET OF GLASSES, and leave the other parent with Lily? It was only "a couple hours" away, close enough that Laura was home on weekends.
I sense a "golden child"... or at the least, spoiled/entitled. No punishment for hurting lil sis. None. But lil sis gets SENT AWAY for retaliating the only way her young mind could think of that would be equal to her own pain.
@Chris George itâs not a crime whatsoever. She is a child and makes mistakes. She felt bad about it immediately. But Laura deserved it for all that bs she was putting Lillie through. If you can justify that then youâre a pos
@Chris George love how you ignore the golden child syndrome
Honestly Lily deserve more BH points for crippling her sister like that and destroy one of her sister expensive glasses. 3/5 for lily cause two wrongs do not make a right.
@Chris George
If you insist on the cost of the glasses and how it's a crime well... emotional abuse is also a crime.
Laura tormented her sister and seeing how the story is written this wasn't a one time incident. Even more Laura is just a drama queen who knows how to wrap the parents around her little finger and her parent show clear favouritism.
OPâs mom is lucky her kids even talk to her! I would make rules like Ben isnât allowed at my house or family gatherings and if she brings him then I guess sheâs hitting the pavement with him đ€·đ»ââïž then itâs on mom to decide whoâs more important to her.
Lily will remember this and her parents will be so confused when she leaves and goes low contact/no contact.
Exactly
For that cat story, not the butthole. Parents shouldn't roll over and let their 'partner' do whatever they want to the kids, especially people like THAT! How or why would she stay in a relationship with that guy?!
she clearly chose the man over her child.
Imagine letting their kid search for months. Honestly it'd be better to lie and say it died.
Anyone that gets rid of a beloved cat is scum . I had my dad do that before and I still feel pain from that. At least I know he went to a good neighborhood and that someone would care for him but itâs emotionally damaging
@Chris George nah my stepdad was great as was my dad. We had relationship with both, mom just explained how they marriage didnt work but parents love us very much
@Chris George Yes, deprive yourself of adult companionship because bad people exist. Youâre aware bio fathers and mothers can also be abusive, right? Actual advice would be to heavily vet any new partner you hope to eventually introduce to your children, and never choose them over your kids. OPâs mom failed her children in that story.
âAm I the butthole for committing a crime, then intimidating the witness?â
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how did you do that 666 years ago thing?
@@sonicwindsk4 it's just the name
âą 2000 BC
@@sonicwindsk4 hue
Ye
In the story about the two sisters, the older sister acted âscaredâ of the younger one even though the younger one, as it is described in the story, wasnât being violent at all and when she realized her mistake she apologized.
The story about the stepfather getting rid of the cat: I would never ever speak to my family again of they did that. My cat is literally all I have in the world.
Person who wrongs op: commits crime or ruins life
The person's family: It HAppEnEd SO LoNg AgO, or YOu NeEd To LeT It gO!!!
Look, it's an argument you can't win against
@@whatevername4873 big brain move, don't argue.
@@The-Shagster My family does it all the time. They just say a thing like "You're too young" and it's just "Alright, you aren't willing to understand, f off"
@@whatevername4873 yeah it's some real bologna.
@@whatevername4873 yep same here my dad has a short temper heâs an amazing guy just a short temper and he never lets himself even be slightly in the wrong he will bring out every excuse on how he is the good guy
Ben literally made his stepchildren pets!
They werenât allowed on the couch, to go outside, have friends over, had a specific set of food they could and couldnât eat, etc. thatâs literally a doggo!
My dog can go on the couch and it' s a german sheperd
@@wazson3178 oh god
@@wazson3178 Mhm. My dog and cat can also use the couch
Except you have pets because you want them, and you want them to be happy too, just not really on eye level.
The kids here don't seem so much like pets, more like their presence is the price Ben has to pay for being with the mom.
only dogs tend to be treated better.
good grief i cant imagine what growing up was like for those poor kids.
"It doesn't matter that the Teacher was wrong, she's an authority and must be obeyed with respect and deference!" And we wonder why some adults are so easily led into obviously bad situations.
Anti- vax, flat earth, essential oils...... and the list goes on
@@filipe.sm31 I mean essential oils in and of themselves aren't bad, it's just how some people think they're a cure-all.
@melodieangelique3385 unfortunately, they are. Many of them can develop rashes or skin lesions. Also, some of them can even be poisonous if absorbed through the skin. They also can lead to hormonal complications and cause prepubertal gynescomastia and even interfere in pregnancy. They can be bad for pets too.
â@Filipe Yeah for medical stuff they're garbage, but essential oils on their own are neutral, they're just meant to smell good.
@@littlemau1360 but the point is that they aren't neutral. They can cause harm. Even though they're meant to smell good, they can still be bad.
For the one with the kids who were blinded and emotionally destroyed, no, op is insanely mean. Her kid was being emotionally attacked by her sister, and she fought back. Not to mention the irony, âHe left you for I prettier girl, I donât blame him.â Well she couldnât see who was pretty at all without her glasses.
I recognize that Profile pic. I recognize it well.
@@ShursGarden you wouldnât be the first.
"My birthday means a lot to me", that cat meant a lot to them. I still cry over my first pet and it's been over 10 years. I still have nights where I get sad over things that happened decades ago. Connections and Memories don't have an expiry date, things can still have intense meaning years after the fact. Honestly that mother was horrible just for getting with such a horrible man.
I made an essay on how she could fix this
"Bitch, you have like 80 birthdays! I had ONE MR. WHISKERS!"
My dog died in 2015, her successor is 6 years old, and hell yeah I still cry about her sometimes.
I will never understand how some single parents marry people who don't treat their kids right. If you can't get along with my kids, it's over.
Agree I mean he doesnât need to love them but he have to respect and treat them will loving them will be a bouns
Agree and though itâs off topic I love your profile pic!
To be fair many times such behavior doesnât show until the marriage has already occurred and many hide the behavior from the partner
For most people that would be a deal breaker, but sadly some parents really care about whatever partner they have at the moment more than their own kids. Poor kids honestly.
the cat story: ghost your mom and ben. just ghost them. your mother is responsible for your pain every bit as much as ben.
My vision is literally 3x worse than Laura's. Losing your glasses doesn't make you completely, in-the-dark-and-terrified blind. Granted, I wouldn't be cooking anything more complicated than a pot of coffee or driving my car, but to say that I would be helpless & terrified - no. Stop coddling that overly dramatic narcissistic bully & take care of your more vulnerable child.
2nd story: Barely 1 sentence in and I heard the part where the new husband bought separate food/milk for himself that his wife's children weren't allowed to eat. OP not the BH. Screw that guy!
Mom and Stepdad both get 5/5.
I sometimes wonder how fu**ed up you have to be to bring such a abusive person into your children's lives. I don't have children and I don't really care for them, but if I had kids you'd better treat them right or I would make your regret your very existence.
@@chastitymarks2185 I'm remarried after losing my wife to illness. Part of what made me love my now wife is that she loved my son as if he was hers. The kids come first. This mother is a horrible human worse the step-dad. The step-dad is a loser and a lowlife but the mom let him into their lives and let him stay when she saw how he treated her kids. I'd have tossed his butt so far out he'd have ended up in the neighbors house.
right??? like, if you're gonna be THAT person, either don't get married period or don't marry someone with kids. and if you DO get with someone, for the love of god, DON'T have kids or get pets (newsflash: most animals WILL SHED. THEY ROAM AROUND. its what they do! learn to love it or get a pet rock). wth did op's mom actually see in that jerk, anyways? he must've really gotten into her head or something.
BH?
Cat story: OP endured years of systematic abuse, and your mother allowed it. It's not just about a cat, you should have removed yourself from their abuse ages ago!
For everyone who ever says âit happened a long time ago.â Deserves to have something they care about ruined by you and then you say âwhatâs? It happened a long time ago.â
Exactly. Since WW2 happened 80 years ago what you just forgive Hitler?
The school calling in the parent, betting it's Texas. đ
I'm from Houston TX
Never really happened to me but I'm sure it does happen
My algebra 2 co teacher said the r word once
Cat story: Op moms betraying and not caring their children feelings.....alright this is stupid of a parents
Not to mention everyone berating Op degraded what Ben did to nothing more than a âmistake.â
Not to mention, ops mom didn't even try to get the cat back. Just awful.
She invited a man into her life who refused to feed her children.... I don't know why OP was even still talking to his mom. She allowed the abuse.
poor kitty
@@OfficialTrainzGod What about me :c
as a person who needs to wear glasses to see any damn thing, i laughed out loud at lily's revenge against her sister.
maybe she shouldn't have done it but sis had it coming. i'm sure lily has spent her entire life being bullied and belittled by her older sister. parents obviously spent the older sister's life coddling and spoiling her because of some weird guilt for her disorder that she was born with and that's why she gets away with everything and why she thinks she can do anything.
sister needs a reality check. op sucks.
lily deserves better.
Also to add, maybe OP and Laura could've bought some temp glasses online. Hell I'm looking into buying my next glasses online since they're cheap and just come in the mail. Plus I can get prescription heart glasses. Gotta look cute while seeing /hj
I wouldnât be surprised in Lily wanted to stay with her aunt after seeing that her parents are going to choose their eldest daughter over her. In OPs own words, Laura was tormenting her sister; she also didnât seem to show remorse since she KEPT doing it whereas Lily felt bad for her retaliation immediately. Also, from the aunts reaction, this isnât an isolated incident. OP YTA!
at least lily's remorseful. laura just straight up has no remorse.
Also this lady is a guest. "What are we supposed to do when she's blind and crying?" She's not the victim here! Lily just did that to try to get Laura to stop, and even then she was remorseful. Op tried and failed at punishing Laura but there's an easy solution to this. KICK LAURA OUT. Its not that hard, she's causing his daughter hardship and when Laura gets hardship back, lily gets kicked out? Nah that's just playing favorites or just plain ignorance.
So what, op should let Lily get away with destroying accessibility aids? Is that ok to you?
@@bryn1063 yes, let's just kick out a blind person with no help because she was mean to her sister. It's ok to ruin accessibility aids but not be mean.
And if Lily was really sorry she shouldn't have a problem with her parents taking Laura to go get her glasses. Whining to her aunt because her parents took care of Laura shows she wasn't sorry.
Parents driving Laura to get her glasses and not taking the person who hurt her along is not favoritism, that's practically the bare minimum decent behavior, even if Laura wasn't their own child.
Absolutely nothing gives you the right to fuck with someone's accessibility.
@@lahlybird895 I have glasses myself and legally blind without them, so this is stupid. She was verbally abusing lily. Lily is a child Laura is an adult. LAURA SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN BULLYING LILY OFF NOTHING. What's favoritism is completely not kicking laura out when Laura messes with her mental heath but kick lily out when she breaks and does this. She shouldn't have done this THAT'S OBVIOUS. But this would of never happened if Laura acted her age and didn't abuse lily, also she could of easily got insurance on those glasses or if she didn't not harrass someone. And shut the hell with up with this "it's ok to ruin accessibility aids" I have glasses and I wouldn't be as stupid as to verbally abuse someone over a break up. She wasn't just mean, she was straight up evil to a child who is going through things. She's kicking lily while she's down and you're ignoring that just because she has glasses. No sympathy for this lady she got exactly what she deserved. Laura is a guest and yeah they should of paid for it but kicking lily out is disgusting. Terrible take from you.
âAITA for defending my adult daughter who bullied my teenager?â
DEFINITELY!
IT'S JUST NORMAL ADULT BEHAVIOUR, YEAH?
THE TEENAGER PROBABLY DESERVED IT
*YEAH!* YEAH. yeah...
geez this world is fricking messed up
@@I_the_Taco agreed
âšGotta love favoritismâš
They're siblings. Siblings fight, and that doesn't magically stop when the oldest reaches adulthood, which has barely happened anyway. Laura can't even buy a pack of smokes yet. And as inexcusable as her behavior was, it didn't happen in a vacuum. There's a history there and what we know of Lily's treatment of her sister makes it hard for me to see her as an innocent victim.
Laura was being cruel but teasing isn't crippling. They're not even in the same ballpark. Both myself and my brother fought growing up, as brothers often do, and we teased each other just as mercilessly. But we never fucked with each other's glasses. It never even occurred to me as an option until just now. Maybe it's indicative of Lily's treatment of Laura; maybe not. But for the two of them to be going at each other like this there has to be a back story. I'm not willing to just slap the "bully" label on the older one without hearing that story.
@@thrdeye7304 theres a line you dont cross with your siblings. I tease my sisters all the time but I dont cross the line and start making fun of them for things that generally do upset them. Laura literally called her sister ugly by saying her boyfriend left her for a pretty girl, even after seeing how upset Lily was over the break up. She sent the girl, her own younger sister, to bed in tears with all that torment. If I were her I wouldve lost myself in the frustration and anger too. But the thing is, even after Laura bitching about Lilys boyfriend leaving, once she realised how severe what she had done was and saw how Laura got upset, Lily immediately regretted what she did. Lily should be punished for what she did but kicking her out, a teenage girl with nowhere to go, is going way too far. The parents are just enabling Lauras EMOTIONALLY abusive behaviour towards a child, shes an adult now and should know what she was doing was wrong.
How can OP's mom see how terribly Ben was toward her children in her house, and stay with him, it's obviously not because he's a good person
Who doesn't let kids sit on the couch in their own home, and also not let them go outside, when he obviously hates having them around
Ben is manipulating the mom. My stepdad would sucker punch me and then convince my mom that it was "discipline".
Abusive people just always suck.
She either keeps him around because A) she relies on his finances to keep them afloat, B) she's genuinely been brainwashed by him or C) she puts her kids needs second and hers first
A buddy of mine had a situation like that happen to him when we were Juniors in High School. His parents got divorced (turned out mom cheated but we didn't know that right away), dad moved a couple of hours away back to his family's farm. Mom decided to let her paramour who she was cheating with move into their home about 3 months later after the divorce was final. The guy was a grade a douche but he and my buddy's mom were a perfect couple because they were both kind of skanky and drank a lot. Hell, his mom hit on me several times when I was over there and before and after she was divorced and I was 16 years old.
Anyway, this Douchey Guy started laying down all kinds of laws on my buddy and his 3 sisters who were younger than my buddy. He would walk around the house like a dictator and mom was too drunk or drugged out to object. He was very verbally abusive but wasn't physical because even he was smart enough to know he would end up buried in farmer's field if he did. Douchey was also acting (non-sexual touching) and saying inappropriate things to the sisters, even when mom was around and she would just laugh it off. My buddy's dad had left many tools in the garage for us to use as we were rebuilding the motor on a 1970 Ford Mustang Fastback that had been sitting in his grandpa's barn at the farm for several years.
Douchey didn't like that he had to park his newer and very plain Chev Monte Carlo outside and couldn't put it in the garage because we had the Mustang in it and parts scattered all over the other stall of the garage. We had a baseball game on a Saturday that got rained out part way thru and so we got back early and when we got back, the tools were in the process of being loaded up into the back of some losers truck and the mustang was on a trailer hooked behind this truck.
As you can imagine, all hell broke loose. Mom was in the house in a near pass-out drunk state and also on a few quaaludes so she was useless and didn't even realize what was going on. We told Douchey and the other guy to unload the mustang and the tools or we would call the cops and before the cops got there we would kick the shit out of them. My buddy was a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and I was a 6'7" 265 lb State Wrestling Champion so it would not have gone well for them.
Douchey tried to argue and the other guy actually started to unload the stuff from the truck. It turns out he worked with Douchey and had "bought" all this stuff from Douchey. Except, it wasn't Douchey's to sell, and when we explained that, the dude quickly relented. Douchey was still trying to act tough and argue but my buddy had had enough. He called his dad and had him come over there and also the cops. When the cops came, he had his sisters who were like 8, 10, and 13 talk to the cops about the things Douchey would say to them and his "touching" he liked to do. Also, it turned out his "touching" had ramped up to "rubbing" when he would sneak into their bedrooms at night. He threatened the girls and said to them that if they told anyone that both their mother and brother would get seriously hurt and probably die and then he would throw the girls out of the house and they would end up in foster care far away. They didn't know any better so they didn't say anything.
The cops tried to talk to mom, but she was too out of it. They ended up arresting Douchey and mom, but mom was taken to the hospital to dry out first because she was so unresponsive from the alcohol and drugs. The dad ended up moving back into the home because once mom got bailed out she had to go right into a treatment facility to avoid serious jail time and Douchey had a restraining order against him and my buddy either sold or threw away all of his clothes and things lol. The dad ended up back in court and got full physical and legal custody of the kids and got the home as well for them to all live in.
Over the years we would see Douchey at a bar from time to time and whenever we did, we would harass him unmercifully and on several occasions, he ended up beaten in the bar parking lot by "unknown assailants" lol. The mom had some issues for a few years and eventually cleaned her act up and joined a church and swung to the other side of the pendulum and went bat shit crazy with her religion. Sadly, that didn't work out well for her and she ended up alienating all of the kids and her side of the family and a few years later, reverted back to drugs and got into Crack and Heroin. She died of an overdose shortly after that. We heard Douchey ended up in the State Penn for armed robbery or something like that and never saw or heard about him after that.
So, we had a very eventful summer that year and when we started back at school for our Senior year, our antics were widely known. It also turns out, there were many kids in the school that had similar type issues with new "stepfathers" and boyfriends of their mothers. We helped where we could but you can't fix the problems of the world. I stepped over the line once and spent my first night in jail and the only thing that saved me was I was still 17 and the 2 guys I was in a physical altercation with were in their 30's. My parents were pissed and I got "grounded for life" (again lol). Once I got ungrounded (this happened when I drove my mother insane from me being around all the time lol), my father explained the theory of "Stealth" to me and how things are only against the law if you get caught so you always want to make sure you never get caught lol.
I dealt with the same type of trash growing up. My mum's husband even had a kid with my 15 year old sister! This is a case of a selfish mother. She chose her husband over her kids...
OK. Laura lost the lenses to her glasses from constantly making fun of Lilly. Understanding this, Laura is a goddamn adult who should've found her own way back to her spare glasses that she only needed because of making fun of her teenage sister.
And how was she "terrified" of her kid sister, whose worst offense was taking her glasses?
yeah i have worse vision and i didnt have glasses for years cause i always forgot to wear them. i got by, i just couldnt read or see detail on anything. lily def crossed the line but laura did the same thing way before her.
Story four:
So wait.... you sided with the bully?!
I dont think i have to say more...
Um no, he sided with the target of bulling who lashed out because she was being bullied and no one was helping her.
@@Mr_Timi1 They're talking about OP, not rSlash.
The bike incident. We learn through consequences. I can't believe how people try to rob people of these learning experiences because the FEEL sorry for the person.
The parents must have known that the bike was stolen, how did the son get a $2.5k bike that she was selling?
@@johnparker2252 the son stole the bike and the mom was trying to sell it
@@galaxygod5205 most parents would ask some questions about a new $2,000 bike... not just put it on facebook.... lol
Yeah, I feel no sympathy for thieves. I donât care that you were just trying to find drug money, and that addiction is a âdiseaseâ if you steal from me expect to feel physical and financial pain
I would have shown leniency to the kid. He's 15 years old and the rest of his life will be damaged because that felony will follow him. He's had a pair of silver bracelets slapped on him and he's been sitting in a jail cell for a few days if that didn't scare him nothing will. As for the father leave him where he is it will serve as a reminder to the kid and the father shouldn't threaten other people in the first place
Any parent that lets a stranger into their home and treat their children like that deserve to be punished in the worst ring of hell.
We can count it as betrayal of your kin - at the least!
Appropriate ways the teacher COULD have responded to the student (varies depending on how snot nosed or disruptive the kid was being):
- "That's very interesting, Bobby! Thanks for teaching us something new!"
- "Bobby, I want to hear what you have to say, but now isn't really the best time. We're watching a movie right now. Will you tell us more about your uncle after lunch?"
- *opens up discussion about falcons and airplanes and the eating habits of different birds with all the kids in the class*
- *after class* "Bobby, I know you wanted to tell everyone about falcons as soon as I made that mistake about birds eating other birds. But it wasn't really appropriate for you to interrupt me while I was talking. Next time, if you're worried about something I said, please raise your hand first and wait for me to call on you, or come up to my desk to tell me privately, and then if I give you the OK you can tell the rest of the class."
People who use âthat was years ago!â As an excuse to forgive and forget probably are too stubborn to accept that they were wrong and will use any excuse possible to prove that the victim is in the wrong for acting out at something they are mad at.
So let me get this straight. a TENTY YEAR OLD can brutally harass and bully her 15-year-old sister and all; she gets is a "don't do that" then the 15 year old retaliates and she gets KICK OUT because the TWENTY-YEAR-OLD "doesn't feel safe"
what the actual fuck. the ADULT sister was verbally abusing a child and somehow the child is the bad guy?
Fuckin Amen
Thank you! That's what I was wondering the whole time. Like she's a grown woman. She knows better.
Did you read the story or no because she litterly cant see without her glasses.
Let's rephrase the story about the sisters "Am I being a butthole for not addressing the fact my adult daughter has been bullying my younger daughter, who has suffered heartbreak for the first time, and when this bullying didn't stop I didn't tell my adult daughter to stop this behavior or leave? Am I playing favorites by instead of sitting down and talking this out with them both, I tell my younger daughter to leave the house after she did one thing in retaliation after her sister made her feel like crap multiple times?"
(deep inhale) Bruh, wft?
He's got over 3 thousand replies all saying he and Laura are TA and he's not responded to any of them. He knows what he did and was looking for validation for his terrible parenting and got reamed instead. Serves him right
@@saxchick9 and thatâs a dang shame because looks like nothing in the family is gonna change anytime soon. I feel so bad for Lily sheâs only a year younger than me. I hope she gets out of there soon.
@@HackiePuffs dude. why are people public shaming him. he went to that sub reddit for a reason. he wanted to know if he is the butt hole.
@@randomdude6827 Iâm saying itâs a shame that heâs likely not gonna learn from this and was just a stubborn jerk who wanted validation itâs a shame that Lily probably wonât get treated better
I agree that Laura is a bully and a butthole, but honestly, taking or destroying aids of disabled people is never okay. So Lily, while a victim, is still a butthole here for doing this. Had she destroyed anything else like jewelry, a computer or Laura's clothes, I'd say it's just sweet revenge, but going after a person's disability really irks me.
My dad's side of the family has something called "Sister's Weekend" where all the women get together (Or as many as possible) and spend time with each other, and the kids stay at home. We shop, have nice dinners, go to the beach, it's really fun! The moms do talk about their kids and even buy stuff for them, but we also discuss way more than that! It's healthy!
The cat story: OP's mom has made it very clear that she loves her abusive husband more than her own children. She shouldn't be surprised when they all go no contact.
I hate this idea that when people, or let's be real here, women, become parents, that their life outside their kids just disappears. Theyre like, oh youre a mom? You now only exist in relation to them.
Ikr! Parents don't stop being people just because they had kids and enjoying some time with only other adults isn't wrong at all.
@@shayenne15 go to the child free subreddit we talk about this
Thank you. My mom has 3 including me, my brother and sister. She still does her own thing with her friends because she knows she has a life outside of us
Agreed! It just really blows my mind how many (young) women around me are completely dissolving in that mom-identity, and practically refusing to do anything without their kids, or accept that their children are not the center of other people's worlds. Silently reading Facebook threads I am just astonished how aggressively some of these "super moms" defend their self chosen Identity, while at the same time degrade and shund other women's wishes not to have children at all. My cousin recently had her 2nd and 3rd Children, two twin girls. Of course a lot of family conversation is about the kids at the moment, that's totally normal. But my cousin is still able to talk about other things and enjoys having some time to herself. It's a healthy balance between being a mom and being her bold and hilariously cynical self. And I guess once my sister has kids, she won't be a momzilla either, because I know she is independent and totally her own person. For me I just pass the whole kid thing all together, I have my ferrets and snakes lol.
It's completely normal to take a break from your kids. It doesn't mean you hate your own children when you want to have a conversation with someone that doesn't revolve around Baby Shark, it means tiny humans are exhausting
"My son was arrested for breaking the law, my husband was literally just arrested for intimidating the victim, so I'd better call the victim too"
Durr
Yep, not a family of thinkers
It's kinda sexist that mom isn't in jail too
@@averxion how
@@averxion
Nah, she didn't threaten OP like the dad did, so OP didn't call the cops again.
In response to the last story of this episode- my school was like that. They didnt want kids to have their own opinions and were constantly calling my parents in to discuss that they more or less could make me be obedient. However it's even harder to do that with an ADHD child in the first place, my school sucked and I'm glad I went to a different school later
I corrected my math teacher once in high school when he made a mistake. He stopped, looked at me, looked at the whiteboard, and then said "Oh, you're right. Thanks for catching that" and continued the lesson. Good teachers appreciate when students correct their mistakes, it shows that the students are learning and understanding.
That title alone deserves a NTA not to mention the teenager is too old for the excuse Iâm a teenager and I donât commit crimes
Unless they charge the son as an adult, the felony will be sealed on his 18th birthday. However, the dad now has seriously screwed himself over. You can usually get away having a misdemeanor on your record and not have to report it on job applications- a lot of times they may only ask for felonies. Dumb people!
If it was a mistake and his first crime, the court will take leniency on him. Not the OP's job to show leniency, his job is to report the crime
@@andrewlewis9266 yeah I do blame bad parenting for both his actions and the consequences
@@ericwilliams1659 exactly
tbf if he grew up in a family of thieves who encouraged him to steal for them ever since he was a kid (yes, I am assuming this but it is usually the case) I can kinda understand the teenager's position. Doesn't mean he did nothing wrong but it's not like he could refuse his parents.
"Birds don't eat other birds!"
*looks over at a live shot of a bald eagle nest where they're plucking the feathers off of a coot (a type of bird) before feeding it to hungry eaglettes*
Someone should tell them that they don't eat other birds....
Also the multiple videos of pelicans eating pigeons whole đ
Allow me to introduce you to the skua a bird that eats baby penguins which are also birds flightless but still birds
Iâve seen gulls eating pigeons here in my city. Like, regular sea gulls. Birds are vicious!
@@Kamechan98 and I've seen video of pelicans attempting to eat pigeons but pigeons putting up a fight in the bill
@@Kamechan98, "vicious" makes sense. Former dinosaurs, and all that.
For that bird story, I can confirm that I hunt other birds at the airport
Hush, teachers out there could have different opinions.
@@stechuskaktus8318 I don't think the falcon cares lol
@@erynncollier8672 What did you say? I didn't hear a thing over the sound of avian detention.
On that story with the woman sick of CONSTANTLY talking about the kids, when asked if she was ok and how her feelings aren't normal, if she gets that again, she should respond with "Are YOU ok? Because it's certainly not normal to live vicariously through your children."
That last story: I've corrected a teacher once. She was my math teacher and was showing everyone a method that I was able to disprove in front of the whole class. And that teacher wasn't angry. She was able to be mature and admit to her mistake.
Let me predict everyone clapped after and the president came and gave you a high five and Said how much of a smart person you are. Iâm not done one more prediction are you by any chance someone who frequents r/thathappend and did this on purpose
@@jays.2823 huh
@@jays.2823 Wha....
@@jays.2823 his story wasnât that outlandish. He literally just corrected a teacher and she didnât get pissy over that
@@tahamohammad8842 yeah I made that when I was very tired looking back Iâm confused by myself
For the family-friendly story, I don't think OP is crazy. In fact I guarantee you that the kids also want time away from the adults so they could play with their cousins because that is what kids do. In other words, "think of the children" also means let the children play among themselves and stop forcing them to hang around the adults every single time they have a family get-together. Also it is normal for siblings to do stuff without their kids with them.
I would rather hang out with my cousins at that age than talk with adults. They are around my age, make great play mates and I don't get to see them often cause I'm 3000 miles away from my maternal cousins and about 3 states away from my paternal cousins. Sometimes the only times to see them was during spring, summer or winter break.
I wonder what will happen when the children grow up and want time away from their parents?
Agreed! My older sister has 4 kids and relishes having adult sibling time like going to dinner or going to the store to grab last minute holiday stuff with just the adults. We love our nieces and nephews, but we also want to have time with just our sister. Itâs weird to me that OPâs family is so focused on making their kids their entire lives
I don't understand op's family yeah kids are important but the adults should also have plenty of time to catch up.
Yeah when I was a kid that was pretty standard to be shoved into one room to play with my cousins while the adults talked and probably drank coffee and/or wine. I'm not sure why that seems to be such a foreign concept to these ladies.
âThey can protect from bird strikesâ
My dum brain: âSPARROWS FORMATION ALPHA, AND STRIKEâ
Iâm so glad you feel the same way I do about Laura and Lilly, everyone I seem to talk to seems to think that op was in the right, it you cannot just kick a teenager out in favour of another kid.
"What kind of school prioritise obedience over education ?"
Uuuh... all of them i think
The reason everyone hates school:
They ignore the reason why they were created and prioritize feeding their egos and look like absolute idiots when fighting off a reasonable parent
BiRds dOnT eAt BiRds
@@axlr8deathpls294 Exactly my teacher made me miss out on eating because I didn't hand in homework from a week ago mind you this was first break and I rarely eat breakfast so I was starving
usually private schools
Did you know, if it weren't a school, most punishments they do are technically human rights violations, an example is if you aren't allowed to drink in class or go to the bathroom, and they also like to commit a lot of state crimes/federal crimes depending on where you are
Credit to @R Nickerson for correcting my example because it was wrong
Op: "Tired of only focusing on kids"
OP family: "Are You Depressed?"
This is why we need feminism
@@whatevername4873 ????
@@Chriscraft-ug3sz I mean OP's family is literally trying to deduce she has a mental illness simply because she doesn't want to be defined solely by her offspring
Can relate. I've encountered people asking if something's wrong with me because I decided I never wanted kids from a young age. It's exhausting trying to put up with such people
@@whatevername4873 They are just some weird people feminism won't solve this
THE STEPDAD STOLE THE CAT???!!! Okay, OFFICIALLY the butthole!
He's a dead man walking
Back in my school days I had a teacher that every now and again would deliberately make mistakes. The reason being was to make sure we were paying attention and to encourage us to speak up if we believed something was wrong. I thought this was a great idea then and think it's a genius way to encourage us during class. The were never pretty simple errors but not blaringly obvious
For the Laura and Lily one, to be fair, Laura is 20. Because she is an adult her parents can't punish her the same way they can punish Lily. They should have just told Laura "If you don't stop tormenting Lily, you will have to leave. We will not let you torment your sister like that in her own home."
"You're grounded and if you object we're cutting you off" seems pretty effective.
Yeah but she's the obvious favorite lol. Snobby, older by a few years, long enough to be the only child and remember the birth of her sister, the immediate jump into abuse like it's perfectly natural, the parents doing absolutely nothing to her but KICKING THE OTHER DAUGHTER FOR FIGHTING BACK! This is an obvious case of Lily being an accident later on and the parents letting Laura run all over her for it
They literally punished the younger kid the way they should have punished the older kid... by making her leave.
@@ninjafaceify Clear case of favoritism, itâs just sad. At least Lily has the aunt on her side so I hope she realizes sheâs not the one in the wrong. Iâm not saying destroying the glasses was right but Laura was 10x worse to her
@@ninjafaceify Clear case of favoritism, itâs just sad. At least Lily has the aunt on her side so I hope she realizes sheâs not the one in the wrong. Iâm not saying destroying the glasses was right but Laura was 10x worse to her
I got in trouble a LOT in school for correcting my teachers, it's actually a pretty common thing to punish students for this, as if it actually helps and doesn't just make some kids misinformed, some distrustful of authority, and some afraid of standing up for themselves.
It's like they say. School isn't for learning, it's to train people for the work place later in life. Respect is earned. A teacher isn't entitled to it.
I have had mixed experiences with this. There were teachers who were cool with being corrected or shown a better approach to solve a problem (mainly math or physics teachers that I've had. No wonder I loved math and physics at school). Then there were the buttholes.
May I ask what country you went to school in?
I think that often, it is the way you correct the teacher. If you say, âWell actually, teacher, there ARE birds that eat other birds.â In a nasally self satisfied tone, and then sit back in ur chair and smirk, that is insubordination. However, if you raise you hand, and then say, âwell teacher, my uncle has a falcon that he uses to eat other birds at the airport.â In a nice tone, and not in a way that indicates you think you are better, teachers tend to take it more in stride.
I have mixed experience with this. In the Czech Republic, the older generations (mainly women, but they're the majority in elementary schools) are like this, they don't like noise in class, if the kid point a mistake they scold the kid, especially in elementary school, younger generations are more relaxed, they allow drinking in class, going to the toilet. In high school (I was going on engineering) some teachers even told us to correct them, but still, you'll find some that are let's say uncomfortable with it (also in my high school we had more male teachers). At the university where I'm now, I would be surprised if the professor reacted like this. From my experience, women are angry when kid points a mistake than men. But to the defence of older generations, they were raised during socialism which encouraged authority and stepping out of line was considered rebelling.
Edit: I've never heard of a kid having big problems only for pointing mistakes, usually it's for disturbing in class which is punishable by write up, many write-ups and your mark of behaviour will drop or you could be expelled.
Mom: I can't imaging having family time and excluding you girls from it- that's not normal
Also mom: * excludes Serena because she doesn't have kids *
Last story thoughts: sounds like a catholic/religious school.
Sounds about right.
Some people say they're always right just because they want.
That step dad isn't the only villain in the story, the mother who marries a man who treats her kids like garbage is even more guilty
I would add that the mother's birthday isn't an important day, she's not a 5yo. And even if a mistake was made a long time ago, when you hear about it it feels like it just happened
The kid in the falconer story wasnât just correcting the teacher, they were sharing something they had experience with via their uncle. Thatâs awesome. The teacher getting mad about being corrected needs to rethink their practice.
With the Ben story, itâs not just the cat OP was mad about. It was all the other horrible things they had suffered at Benâs hand.
For the story about the sisters, OPâs feelings are totally reasonable, but some people are just like this when it comes to their kids, especially not knowing their spouse situation, etc. When I want to hang out with a friend who has kids who money may be tight for, Iâve sometimes offered to pay for a babysitter. The mom usually appreciates having some time away. Maybe OP could do the same.
They don't know the spouse situation because won't give her a chance to tell them as can't have any conversation that's not about the kids or that the kids aren't involved in
CZcams was auto playing your videos and when this one started I was a bit confused. I heard an echo and assume it was the room I was in until I remembered there is no way to echo in my room. I love the way it sounds though, especially compared to your new ones. Gives a laugh and would be perfect for when I'm driving.
Lots of schools would rather teach mindless obedience over fundamental learning. It happens to me everyday.
When I was in third grade, I found another way to do the math problems that took a much shorter time and was easy to apply to most anything.
The teacher not only called me out on my 'mistake,' but then she constantly berated me on it for the entirety of the year.
She also:
- Kept me away from other kids
- Painted my desk black as opposed to the typical white/brown ones to signal how bad I was
- Didn't teach me anything at all, only plopping workbooks and assignments on me at the end of the day.
I never really talked about it, but I did find it really weird how she acted totally nice and normal in parent-teacher meetings. I spoke up about it in some of them the first few times (even showed the desk), but then she shot me down in front of my parents. They didn't really believe me, but instead brushed it off as me 'probably doing something wrong again.' My little head was so offended at that, because I was an A+ student and I didn't ever cause any sort of trouble at home OR school.
She didn't even bother helping me out at all when I was struggling. She treated me like absolute shit for the entire year. Her defense was: "If Mack is such a genius, then she doesn't need my help."
âAm I the jerk for doing my civic duty by reporting a crime and avoiding getting arrested for accessory charges for not reporting them?â
Edit: I thought the crime was witness tampering. Not intimidation. Good to know.
My thoughts on the last story can be summarised like this.
"Respect for authority" =/= mindless obedience or just being a total yes man.
This! Also: respect =/= fear
True authority and respect do not rely on pressure, extortion, threats or violence. If people respect you, you don't _need_ to abuse them or your power over them. And if you resort to these kinds of abuse, then people will never respect you, only fear and resent you.
Yeah, people expect respect without it being earned but only dole out respect when it has been earned.
I'm a teacher, but If a student corrects me validly, then hey, good. That's the purpose of a classroom. To provide a good environment where conversation can occur.
Exactly
@@artemossyn1254 youâre a good teacher
The story about the kid being sent to the principal for being correct:
Principal: wait thatâs illegal
The kid: why are you booing me Iâm right
Why was everyone in the first story saying op ''took it to far", and the wife thinking that too is a red flag.
About the teacher story:
Best. Mom. Ever.
I HATE people who think they can be monsters and punish innocent people just because they are âauthorityâ. You are a human talking to a human. Act as such.
@@benjiro8793 here's an insult for you to use: "That's something I'd expect to see in an American school.". Given that our school system is totally f***ed, and some states can't even agree to teach kids that Trans people have rights, that should come off as the (unfortunately) sick burn that it really is.
Third story : Looks like you might need to spend less time with your sister, since she clearly doesn't want to spend time with just you. The fact she thinks you're the weird one for wanting to only do things with HER and HER alone, makes me think she's the weird one.
Forget just being weird
According to another comment the poster shared that SHE JUST LOST HER HUSBAND, not just lost him he got MURDERED recently and they aren't even giving her time and space to talk about it with them without kids hearing about it even if she wanted to
@@kal-muzel875 Suddenly, the story has gotten another dimension!
It's basically about contrary coping mechanisms: OP needs someone to talk to, but the other family members cope through repression...
Obedience over education? Thatâs literally every public school ever.
The kid correcting an incorrect teacher is relatable. When I was in 3rd grade. Some different teachers came in to teach us about US geology. When they said that Texas was the biggest state I raised my hand and asked âisnât it Alaska thoughâ and then I got in trouble by our teacher for making them look dumb
About the story with the glasses. It was not right for Lilly to pop out those glasses, but Laura had it coming. I guess Lilly saw that as the only way to get back since her parents really didn't do anything to help her. And why is Laura suddenly afraid of Lilly? Is it because, for the first time little sister showed her claws and fought back?
She can dish it out, but when it comes to her, she can't take it. The whole family needs therapy to counteract the golden child syndrome.
"We tell our adult daughter to stop it but don't do anything when she doesn't. We send out teen daughter away when she retaliates against her bully." Yeah, that makes lots of sense. /s
No, itâs a power play to use her disability to manipulate the parents, which to her credit works because mom referred her adult child as her baby. Itâs just a tactic for her to continue to bully little sister and get what she wants. If her parents see her as the victim then they will continue to cater to her and push little sister to the side. Laura is a drama queen, very narcissistic in nature.
That mom brought an abuser home, just let him abuse her children and did nothing, I would have cut contact as soon as I got out of the house.
I feel for that kid. I got punished for correcting the teacher on how to spell my name when I was in school
Lol! That teacher correction story reminded me of what happened at my school one time but didn't go quite as far as the principal calling parents. The difference between cavalry and calvary is great.
What a good way of giving your school an image. "We punish students for correcting our teachers!"
I don't understand how is it possible for anyone not to know that bids eat other birds its just shocking to me.
Too many "educators" put their own egos ahead of the search for knowledge. Presumably, they only became teachers to relive their school days with themselves in a position of power, not to help children actually learn anything. After all, the most important thing to teach children about knowledge is to always believe anything that anyone who happens to be in a position of authority tells you: If Big Teacher tells you that 2+2=5, questioning it is double-plus ungood.
Seriously, anyone who hates being corrected by an "inferior" has no business being in education, any more than a veterinarian who's deathly afraid of dogs or a hospital worker who faints at the sight of blood.
NTA in the cat story. If anyone did that to any of my cats I would never speak to them again. A cat isn't just some animal you can throw away, it is FAMILY
Exactly same thing for dog if my spouses get rid of my dog they will be out of my life right away
The family-centric story is exactly like my sister's in-laws: constant get-togethers and the matriarch always expects EVERYONE to attend.
Oh hell no. If I found out my mom did anything like this with a pet, I would cut contact immediately and NEVER entertain further contact.
She put my cat to sleep while I was living elsewhere without even telling me, until WEEKS after the fact, that already pissed me off.
Yeah, he was 18, but in my opinion he had a good two years left.
I can't believe I'm still surprised how foolish people can be, when I'm literally listening to these stories every day.
I feel like a lot of these stories are exaggerated....well at least I hope so. lol
The worst ones are the sort where a rotten dishonest person tells a lie (even worse when they make a serious life-ruining one or one with ZERO evidence to it) and they get believed like they were the golden goose laying golden eggs and the OP of whichever story it is gets treated as the villain when they aren't, and it gets infuriatingly difficult to get them to pry their heads out of their butts and get the truth through to their thick skulls.
"Everyone else is telling me to let it go already because Ben made that mistake years ago." Cool, here's the problem with that, yeah they did that shitty thing years ago but this person just found out NOW that they were the ones who put them through so much pain back then.
If anyone took my cat away like that, they'd better have medical insurance.
Disney land has an army of cats that they release at night to get rid of any rats and mice throughout their park. It's a similar principle to the Falconer thing.
Run Mickey!
@@iAstra who, you think, release the cat-tastrophe?
maybe they should do like they do in Japan. have a cat petting cafe.
@@ninirossau2304 The one problem with that idea is that some people are allergic to cats. My mom is allergic to them and she swears they go out of their way to rub themselves on her legs, even more so than other people.
@@NLoett absolutely and dogs do it too. many years ago we had a small hairy dog and every time my grandmother came to visit she would sit in the chair with her bag in her lap to prevent him from jumping up and he always managed it anyway. it was just her and he was trained to not jump up unless given permission. cats think it is their right to be adored.
To "Ben" and op's mom I say:
"IF THE INCIDENT ABOUT *MY* CAT WASNT IMPORTANT TO YOU AND YOU THINK THAT ITS NOT IMPORTANT BECAUSE *IT WAS MANY YEARS AGO*, THEN YOUR BIRTHDAY IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ME AND NEITHER ARE YOU CUZ WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE *MANY YEARS AGO* AND *IT ISNT IMPORTANT ANYMORE* "
Basically...
Well, mom, you were born in 1962 (obv, use the real year lol). It happened so long ago, I don't consider it important anymore, and you need to get over wanting to celebrate it.
She threw out your best friend and the only thing she can do is defend herself and call YOU the asshole for missing her birthday.
She's not your mom, OP. She married a man who abused you and your siblings and stood by while Ben threw out your cat. She's a monster.
If I had to go to the principal's office whenever I corrected a teacher I would've spent about 5 minutes per day in class. What people don't seem to realise is that schools don't really care about education. Entitled parents have basically warped schools into day-care centres.
Omg this cat story is killing me. The stepdad is a monster.
Can we just thank Rslash for uploading everyday
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@DRBH oh i didnt know
"What kind of school..." sadly, most American schools prioritize obedience over learning, or at least did when I was in public schools. This is the reason I got so many hours of detention/ISS/regular suspensions/etc. That and not ever having a damned *blue* ink pen. I refuse to use blue ink pens to this day.
Rslash getting excited about planes and bird hunting grounds has been my favorite thing so far today
"What on earth is wrong with your school that they prioritize obedience over education?" Welcome to America.
You mean every place with an education system
@@ethanmacleod1721 I mean, it depends on the teacher really, I had a bunch of teachers that sometimes made mistakes and when corrected they'd check it if they weren't sure and if the student was right they'd sometimes give some extra points for tests. Sometimes they'd even say the wrong thing to see if we were actually paying attention.
@@frostkilling I mean school systems at large though not individual teachers
RSlash : tells a really ridiculous story about birds and airplanes.
My Brain: *CALL IN THE BIRD STRIKE*
I think I would've told that principal, "nah I won't teach him to respect Authority, because I don't."
Iâm gonna tag on 1/5 buttholes for the brother, who saw the cat being taken and said nothing for years. He did apologize but still
At best, the little brother could've been intimidated into being quiet. But yeah, he sat on this for years without saying a single peep about it knowing how much that cat meant to OP.
"What kind of school prioritises obedience over education"?
Mate - where have you been these past few years? XD
Oh my God, l don't care who it is, if someone took my cat l would go John Wick on them. Scorched earth, you taking my pet is like you taking my son.
My cats are my daughters. I will literally beat the living sh!t out of anyone that harms my little girls.
Same here. Someone would be eating buckshot.
If it was the first time I'd totally sign that, but unfortunately I've grown too used to our cats getting stolen. Yeah, it's not a good thing growing numb to that. But if you had neighbors steal a pregnant cat, later bring back the mother and most kittens and urge you to sign a stupid paper saying you'll take them back bc neighbors only wanted one kitten (as if that would work, cats know where they get the best food and will go there), and some other similarly stupid stories, then someone just taking your cat because it looks nice doesn't seem like that big of a deal anymore.
It still sucks, but we learned the hard way that especially cats with nice colours were not going to be around very long, which goes double if you spent a lot of time with them and made them trust hoomans.
Yeah what Geneva convention this man isn't remotely human
The one about the kid correcting the teacher I can so relate to. My oldest corrected her first grade teacher about Columbus. The teacher not only demanded her to go to the principalâs office, but further demanded that she be suspended. When I fought back, my daughter didnât get suspended but we spent the next month fighting for fair treatment. The teacher was caught encouraging girls in the class to bully my daughter. Her glasses were broken 6 times in 6 weeks. When the school wouldnât do anything to alleviate the problem, I removed both of my children not only from the school but from the district. We later found evidence that the group of bullies had broken nearly every one of her ribs, and bruised some of her internal organs. It took me years, but I finally got that teacher canned. Sheâs also been black listed and canât teach in California ever again. This was but one example of this schoolâs incompetence.
For the cat story, OP is not in any way, shape or form TA, the mother owes OP a huge apology for allowing the low-key psychological abuse to go on for so long, and the stepfather can sod off into the sun. If OP's mother cares more about her own birthday than OP's (resurfaced, raw) feelings, she's just not a very comforting or understanding mother.
Anyone else kinda confused with rslash's rating system? Like sometimes he gives someone a rating of 3/5 and I'm just left here thinking, what else could the a-hole in question do to get the max 5 out of 5 rating, murder somebody?
Still love your vids tho!
Maybe thatâs actually it
Yea I was thinking the same thing.
The family of bike theives got less buttholes than the bad stepdad...
@@bigbootros4362 cause being a emotional abuser who gets rid of cats is kinda worse then mom and dad defending their bike stealing son. Yes they're criminals but they just seem like oblivious hot heads, the stepdad was malicious on a calculated level
@@dezdandy3417 good point đđŒđ
I think he once gave a near 5 rating to someone wanting to keep a dog they rescued because the family that lost the dog over a year prior wanted it back.
The mother of the kid who was trying to sell the bike should've been arrested for receiving stolen goods.. LOL