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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • It’s the inconveniences that matter most
    Here's How: As you go through your day, look at the shoulders of the people around you. Their shoulders will give away the burdens they carry. Pray for them; carry their burdens with them. If you feel emboldened, ask someone what they’re going through and take one step toward carrying it together.
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Komentáře • 59

  • @lynngreen1138
    @lynngreen1138 Před měsícem +6

    So glad that you inconvenienced yourselves for us. Your time in the mornings have helped me(us) navigate some very difficult times. Thank you❤

    • @lyddavetrov8176
      @lyddavetrov8176 Před měsícem

      I fully echo the sentiments of this 'listener just like me'. Thank you! 💖

    • @susane919
      @susane919 Před měsícem

      There is a person in my life who needs help and to do so I am inconvenienced
      It is ironic how I ask God to use me to make a difference but when the opportunity arises I balk at it, not wanting to be inconvenienced!
      Today's message reminds me that putting others first is a service not just to them but for the Lord. And joy is derived from this service
      Often I do feel joy in being able to do something for someone. It gives me a sense of purpose. Lord help me to serve willingly.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Wow this is so encouraging to us
      @lynngreen1138. Thank you for sharing this. - Brad

  • @vinceeisaman4585
    @vinceeisaman4585 Před měsícem +5

    Powerful. Throughout my 40 plus years of ministry I have tried not to allow the inconveniences of other people get the best of me. There were times and even today I have to dig deep to allow those inconveniences to become opportunities to serve God. Not easy. Thank you for the encouraging words. It's fun watching John fiddle with his glasses. Now that he has gray hair, he needs to hang them around his neck. Smile

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Yes, I can relate to this as well. Allowing those inconveniences to become opportunities. - Brad

  • @tracykamemoto4602
    @tracykamemoto4602 Před měsícem +4

    Another great lesson John and Nancy! Thank you! 🙏 ❤😊

  • @user-wh6mj9zg1u
    @user-wh6mj9zg1u Před měsícem +3

    Thank you All for sharing your stories. My Dad was a great story teller. He gave me the ability to listener well. I love hearing people's stories as a caregiver,
    help folks do that is wonderful. But inconvenience is sort a way of life for me, I appreciate your encouragment. Empathizing is how I improve their lives and mine. God bless you. Aloha~*

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Aloha! Thank you for this encouraging note. We'll continue empathizing together, as Jesus does for us. - Brad

  • @carolford5197
    @carolford5197 Před měsícem +5

    Encouraging words to continue this phase of my story. It’s sometimes lonely until I receive a reminder thatJesus’ “burden is light” and I’m walking with him as I try to share other’s burdens.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem +1

      This is so true and encouraging to us! - Brad

  • @elaineh1041
    @elaineh1041 Před měsícem +5

    good morning ☀️ oooh, I just love today’s encouraging words and one of my fav hymns, “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus.”
    Nancy, I too have a Joy, but her name is Gayle. Our parents became great friends because of our friendship…w/in the past few years she lost both parents. About a month ago, she texted a picture she found in one of her dad’s coat pocket, it was my dad’s program from his Celebration of life.
    We didn’t know how much my dad meant to hers. It was an amazing gift 💝 to discover~my dad passed away in February 1999. Her dad passed away in June 2019.
    Relationships are so precious 💕🍃

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing your tender story - we appreciate sharing your day with us. Bucky

  • @user-bh2dv2ww4s
    @user-bh2dv2ww4s Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for sharing your story Nancy. 😢 it touched me very deeply. May I be inconvenienced today Lord.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      So encouraging. Thank you for expressing this. - Brad

  • @maliabergstrom
    @maliabergstrom Před měsícem +6

    Story matters, and stories told touch our hearts in deeper ways than almost anything else. This story has me in tears, and that is unusual for me. “I do it for Ellie…”.
    My mom died of Alzheimer’s at 72. A few years before that my dad was in the hospital an hour away recovering from a quintuple bypass, and I was in the local hospital ER with my mom, who was horribly ill with food poisoning. I was going to take her home and stay with her that night. The doctor had picked up on enough of our story to realize the burden I was carrying. He said, “ I’ll hang another IV bag. You go home and pack up some clothes and pick her up in an hour.” He saw my story, he lightened my burden. May I have eyes to do the same.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing this with us. May we all have eyes to do the same. You are loved. - Brad

  • @kathykenny8491
    @kathykenny8491 Před 28 dny +2

    This episode brought me to tears. My husband has late stage Ahlzeimers and I can relate to the story of your friend in a nursing home, just being present as God is with us

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před 28 dny

      Thank you for joining us today and sharing, Kathy - Rob

  • @elizabethclark4722
    @elizabethclark4722 Před měsícem +4

    Well, you've done it again!
    Thank you so much!
    Ties in beautiful with remaining interruption friendly! 🗝️🗝️🗝️
    🙏🏼🎁🙏🏼,
    Miss Bitty

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Ah, so good Miss Bitty! Thank you for this encouraging note. - Brad

  • @jwwarner28
    @jwwarner28 Před měsícem +3

    So many people have inconvenienced themselves for me... Help me Lord to do the same for others!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Yes! What a sweet, sincere prayer. - Brad

  • @wicklessbydesignwithmimi
    @wicklessbydesignwithmimi Před měsícem +3

    I LOVE you both ❤ What a blessing today was for me and I intend to pay it forward.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Thanks for this encouragement! - Brad

  • @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le
    @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le Před měsícem +1

    Beautiful 🥰thank you thank you thank you dear John and Nancy ❤️

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Thanks for listening - we are happy you are sharing your day with us, Bucky

  • @ritadove7910
    @ritadove7910 Před měsícem +1

    Very powerful!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      This makes us happy to read. We're so grateful for Jesus' love and power. - Brad

  • @candyboyer
    @candyboyer Před 11 dny

  • @cheryloechsle1880
    @cheryloechsle1880 Před měsícem +2

    Beautiful!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      We're happy to see this from you, Cheryl. - Brad

  • @Karen_richwillo
    @Karen_richwillo Před měsícem +1

    Oh my lord these are so powerful in such simple ways. I think we’ve made it so complicated and it isn’t and I think we over spiritualise our life or I maybe have. Practical, simple love for others. Thank you.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem +1

      Yes. Practical, simple love for others! - Brad

  • @barbsimmons4185
    @barbsimmons4185 Před měsícem

    Wow! Loving this series and the lessons. "Inconvenience". Good word!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před 29 dny

      Glad to hear it! So grateful you are with us Barb!! Thank you for your blessing Bucky

  • @lindaclaxton3817
    @lindaclaxton3817 Před měsícem +1

    Love this!

  • @beanfeld
    @beanfeld Před měsícem +2

    Love this. I have to go for an uncomfortable procedure today, and this reminds me to look at then and let God bless them through me-smile, be kind, and be patient. ❤

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Yes! May God's presence surround you with peace during your procedure, and may his peace be felt by those in the room. - Brad

  • @lauradaniels6956
    @lauradaniels6956 Před měsícem

    Flannelcraft❣️❣️ I, being older than you Nancy 😮 also grew up with those marvelous stories. My Grandmother was friends with the blessed woman who originated it. I'll never forget visiting her home & going down to the huge basement room stacked with thousands of flannel stories❣️ Somehow, that childhood memory led me to another: going to a Billy Graham Crusade❤ thousands of us❣️ I don't remember much about the sermon😮‍💨 but that awesome tenor George Beverly Shay 🎶🎵🎼 still rocks my world. 'God is still on His Throne' *Sigh* Those were the days...

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      This memory is amazing, and the impact of that Billy Graham crusade is incredible to read. - Brad

  • @garymcree4086
    @garymcree4086 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you. Also, happy that you are able to enjoy our beautiful state.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Hi Gary. I guess you're in MT. I was just there myself last month. Our love to you. - Brad

  • @Meadow-qe9xd
    @Meadow-qe9xd Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Thank you for sharing a part of your day with us. Blessing. Bucky

  • @jmjj8437
    @jmjj8437 Před měsícem +1

    …and when I do pay attention to the stooped shoulders, it’s most often that I’m sure I’m the one most blessed. God works in mysterious ways! Always. Dependable. Loving.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Always dependable and loving. Always. - Brad

  • @jameystuart8473
    @jameystuart8473 Před měsícem

    Thank you John and Nancy for continuing to pour into the community of the withered hand...even while you are on vacation. I'm grateful. Side note, did your luggage get lost? ;) Same clothes every day!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Haha. And we're so happy you're a part of the fellowship of the withered hand. - Brad

  • @susannecromwell3461
    @susannecromwell3461 Před 28 dny

    Thank you!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před 28 dny

      You're welcome! We appreciate you listening. Bucky

  • @raimondasdagelis7022
    @raimondasdagelis7022 Před měsícem

    Love you guys ❤

  • @daniellemeadows8291
    @daniellemeadows8291 Před měsícem

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  Před měsícem

      Glad you share a part of your day with us. Be Blessed. Bucky