How NOT to Get Your Heart Broken

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  • In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the signs of a f boy, red flag photos for men and women on social media and dating apps, and how to treat your special someone to a perfect Valentine’s Day!
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    Timecodes (Episode #146):
    00:00 - Intro
    00:23 - Skip Intro
    04:03 - Wootak's Surgery
    10:02 - Analyzing F Boys
    17:36 - F Boy Fashion
    27:07 - Dating Someone Who Has A Kid
    39:13 - Two Dates On One Day
    42:32 - Signs You're Dating A Player
    1:01:08 - Wootak's Infamous DM Slide
    1:07:28 - How To Get Your First Kiss
    1:19:30 - Dealing With Awkward Silences
    1:30:32 - Worst First Date Location
    1:35:29 - Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater
    1:42:12 - Can a woman change a man?
    1:51:41 - IG Farming
    1:58:29 - Valentine's Day Gifts
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Komentáře • 195

  • @josss_ie8083
    @josss_ie8083 Před 3 měsíci +337

    we've missed you Brando 😭

  • @xtrarxses
    @xtrarxses Před 3 měsíci +284

    the way viet is sitting is so baby girl coded

    • @clos2965
      @clos2965 Před 3 měsíci +24

      He looks extra tiny in between them lol

    • @xtrarxses
      @xtrarxses Před 3 měsíci

      @@clos2965 he's a cutie patodie

    • @andreamurillo1309
      @andreamurillo1309 Před 3 měsíci

      LOLLL

    • @CarineWG
      @CarineWG Před 3 měsíci +1

      57:50 😂

    • @saturbaby
      @saturbaby Před 3 měsíci

      😂 facts. he’s literally the babygirl of UTI

  • @Offlineee_
    @Offlineee_ Před 3 měsíci +139

    no way they just re-defined f-boy so they wouldn’t fit the mold 😭

    • @mochipark3675
      @mochipark3675 Před 3 měsíci

      exactlyyy. a fboy is literally just a boy w many sexual partners not a manipulator by definition 😭😭

    • @anarchistsalute
      @anarchistsalute Před 3 měsíci +8

      Wootak even tried painting people who sleep around a lot are better than those who have a few partners or none. It was literally him trying to frame it in way that made oh I don't know HIMSELF look like a catch because he had a lot of those opportunites. It was weird and it seems like it was his way cleaning his slutty image haha

    • @bunnykandi69
      @bunnykandi69 Před měsícem +1

      Right

  • @lucidlemonarts7597
    @lucidlemonarts7597 Před 3 měsíci +154

    Viets looking like Brando and Jordan’s adopted child😭

  • @bictorsuave2102
    @bictorsuave2102 Před 3 měsíci +38

    Aint no way they hyped the line so much just 4 them 2 cut it 4 patreon😅 some1 from patreon leak it lol

  • @SamIsInHereSomewhere
    @SamIsInHereSomewhere Před 3 měsíci +123

    Finally omg 😭 and don’t let it happen again while we’re at it 🤨

  • @Sainte-adresse
    @Sainte-adresse Před 3 měsíci +20

    Ok after hearing everyone, Jordan is the most romantic. Writing letters? To the girl you love?? Made my heart swoon 🥺💓

  • @ona1691
    @ona1691 Před 3 měsíci +52

    1:09:40 Brando was made by a lesbian couple who needed the perfect boyfriend for their straight daughter

    • @lizbvth
      @lizbvth Před 3 měsíci +2

      girl what lmfaooo

  • @CassandraL666
    @CassandraL666 Před 3 měsíci +27

    It just makes me so happy seeing Esther and Jeremy be public. Like I done knew y’all were a good match from the very beginning. Both just pure hearted goofs. Especially cause it’s Valentines I’m all soft seeing them together this episode.

  • @nubiavergara19
    @nubiavergara19 Před 3 měsíci +44

    Missed our AI Robot Brando 💗💗

  • @ariannacontreras3360
    @ariannacontreras3360 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Ophthalmic technician here. Astigmatism is when the shape of the cornea is irregular. Myopia or nearsightedness is when your unable to see far away and your eye grows annually with your prescription.

  • @ona1691
    @ona1691 Před 3 měsíci +36

    Brando looking extra fine😭😍

  • @user-ii6xi4ex5p
    @user-ii6xi4ex5p Před 3 měsíci +21

    jordan’s sweater is so coquette😍

  • @raysaif7235
    @raysaif7235 Před 3 měsíci +36

    Bro not even kidding I have been checking everyday since the last upload for a new ep sometimes even twice a day 😅
    Let’s just say you guys are my favorite podcast ❤
    Keep upppp the great work ⭐️👍

    • @UnderTheInfluenceShow
      @UnderTheInfluenceShow  Před 3 měsíci +18

      You win the cutest comment award 🏆😎 we love you and appreciate your support

    • @raysaif7235
      @raysaif7235 Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@UnderTheInfluenceShow I am proud to have that award I will accept it with pride this is better then any Grammy award out there 💪🏻👑🙏🏼⭐️

  • @kinageez
    @kinageez Před 3 měsíci +22

    I’m so down bad for Brando 😭

  • @haechanbollo
    @haechanbollo Před 3 měsíci +44

    why is no one mentioning THE RING

  • @TranAnnette
    @TranAnnette Před 3 měsíci +6

    I went to Dave & Busters with a guy for the first time and was surprised that they have a bar in there. It was fun playing games with him and we had a great day. We did not date, but I still think about how fun and simple it was till now. Sometimes we don't really have to think too hard about first day. Something simple and easy will work, but it might be different if the girl likes super fancy things

  • @rachelgriffith7191
    @rachelgriffith7191 Před 3 měsíci +7

    I agree with Esther! Jordan is definitely the most romantic just by the way he answered the questions, he gets it

  • @Carlos-dm5fo
    @Carlos-dm5fo Před 3 měsíci +14

    yall really pay-walled the line :o

  • @Sainte-adresse
    @Sainte-adresse Před 3 měsíci +8

    OMG OMG lmaoooooooo I just had a realization. When Wootak said he would touch a woman's hand to look at her nails or the rings she's wearing and see how she reacts then proceed forward. LMAO this guy did that to me but I honest to god thought we were just friends. He was definitely trying to make physical contact with our hands and I felt that he wanted to go further but I just wasn't into it. I didn't know this was a thing omggggg
    Edit: I fully agree with Brando on the physical contact. I think that naturally when two people just have that bond or chemistry then you won't require words to know when is the right time to touch one another. Your bodies just flow together and the physical contact happens naturally.

  • @munaosman7563
    @munaosman7563 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Love this podcast ❤

  • @Swantekk
    @Swantekk Před 3 měsíci +4

    Aye Lasik gang! One of the best decisions Ive ever made. Just make sure to follow the doctors instructions for aftercare. 1 year our and I can still see 20/20

  • @MsTee349
    @MsTee349 Před 3 měsíci +18

    I swear this whole episode was Jeromy pointing out all the characteristics of Jordan, Viet, Brando and Wootak, and them acting like he’s not describing them 🤣
    Edit: y’all ain’t s#!t for making Viet sit in between those guys 💀

  • @jocelynarevalomanzano4438
    @jocelynarevalomanzano4438 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Talking about the “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Yes up until a certain point but it depends on the guy. I was in a 2.5 yr relationship. I stayed after multiple times of getting cheated on. I got over it for some time but then I became insecure and kept bringing it up. I eventually got tired. I lost patience and care for that person and they changed once they realized I stopped getting mad and trying in the relationship.

  • @Darlingartee
    @Darlingartee Před 3 měsíci

    Omgg finally I’ve been waiting since yesterday guysss

  • @mrsincara407JJ
    @mrsincara407JJ Před 3 měsíci +4

    gatekeeping the line to the paid platform is insane LMAO i respect it 🤝🏼

  • @morganeb2403
    @morganeb2403 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Me watching this whole video despite having a boyfriend of 2 years lmao I just love listening to y'all talk

  • @skiigainz4958
    @skiigainz4958 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Another banger 💪🤙💙

  • @radioheadchica
    @radioheadchica Před 3 měsíci +5

    Viet has been cracking me up this entire episode! 😂

  • @rebeccaazevedo7096
    @rebeccaazevedo7096 Před 2 měsíci +1

    My tongue rests on the top and that was a very interesting topic

  • @elenaoshino
    @elenaoshino Před 3 měsíci +10

    good to see Brando 🤧

  • @yobreathstank131
    @yobreathstank131 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Been cheated on a few times by my fiance and stuck out to get ditched at my lowest. Long story short don't do it it's game over at that point.

  • @PhamNoodleCup
    @PhamNoodleCup Před měsícem

    Regarding “once a cheater, always a cheater”, I believe it’s yes and no. If they’ve cheated on you once, they can/will most likely do it again. However, just because they’ve cheated on one person, it doesn’t mean they will cheat on the next.

  • @ncklo1466
    @ncklo1466 Před 3 měsíci +4

    JORDAN? PLUS BRANDO?!?! BEST FEB UPLOAD

  • @qiqueqiqi
    @qiqueqiqi Před 3 měsíci

    Astigmatism I think is the pupil and keratoconus is the eyeball. I also have both on my right eye. Thankfully my vision isn’t terrible

  • @ken9922
    @ken9922 Před 3 měsíci +1

    from someone who’s parents went through a rough patch, yes i do believe people can change, if not then what’s whole point of being a human being. i will say it take work, for my family it was with the help of god, my dad went from being an alcoholic to now being sober for half my life now. yes people can change yes relationships can work out if you really care and love someone. people make mistakes, not saying you should stay with someone who cheats but to think someone can’t change is insane

  • @passfern
    @passfern Před 3 měsíci +10

    Omg I’ve missed Brando so muchhh😭😭

  • @shakirasmith6454
    @shakirasmith6454 Před 3 měsíci +10

    Why is Brando looking so GOODT!? Like sir…we see you 😎😍❤️💕

  • @saturbaby
    @saturbaby Před 3 měsíci +4

    Viet was funny af this entire episode. “I’m many things but never a liar” took me OUT 😂

  • @user-ru9yr1lh5c
    @user-ru9yr1lh5c Před 3 měsíci +2

    if yall are near oc i would recommend taking a girl to any kei concepts restaurant (nep, rol hand bar, vox kitchen etc etc) has an upscale dining feeling without really breaking the buck

  • @shaielsantiago6607
    @shaielsantiago6607 Před 3 měsíci +2

    One quality that was not mentioned was when the guy only text you at night

  • @jtrix34
    @jtrix34 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Love you guys, but not gonna lie, that blue balling on the woohtak line is annoying as fuck.
    You could have just made the clip referring to it as the CTA. The way you edited it just made the 8 mins before that feel incredibly wasted.

  • @Sainte-adresse
    @Sainte-adresse Před 3 měsíci +4

    I generally don't wear scents for the same reason Wootak mentioned however, you really aren't supposed to spray perfume or Cologne directly on your skin. Also, look into Eau De Parfum, they tend to have a higher concentration of oils rather than chemicals. Perfume or cologne generally have the bad shit that disrupts hormones. Notice when you look of Eau De Parfum of whatever scent you're looking at, it generally costs way more than the eau de toilette or the the perfume/cologne because Eau De Parfum is the higher quality it costs more

  • @NailzbyKaren
    @NailzbyKaren Před 3 měsíci

    Youuu guysss can’t ever be late(jkloveyouuuu) I was worried about yall tho but can’t wait to watch this vid❤

  • @ashrose15
    @ashrose15 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I feel like Wootak would be a good dad to a daughter, like she'd be a daddy's girl for sure ❤❤

  • @shanelektro
    @shanelektro Před 3 měsíci

    1:57:00 😂😂😂 “whaaatt” love how Wootak kept laughing about it

  • @adrianacastro5212
    @adrianacastro5212 Před 3 měsíci

    Great pod, loved the guests!! 🩷✨

  • @versaii5519
    @versaii5519 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Missed brando heavily and that banh mi joke was genius

  • @sweetkiy
    @sweetkiy Před 3 měsíci +1

    the way my ex literally wore dior sauvage is persian wears a chain, but drives a mercedes 😂

  • @saraiurbina2586
    @saraiurbina2586 Před 3 měsíci

    Jordan’s answers were top tier

  • @kylacherice9811
    @kylacherice9811 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Nector needs to be in New Orleans!!! Literally the drinking capital like mardi gras would go UP

  • @brisspace
    @brisspace Před 3 měsíci +4

    There’s a spot at the top of your mouth for your tongue to naturally chill on. Esther’s right 😇

  • @seewave544
    @seewave544 Před 3 měsíci

    Fire episode 🎉🎉

  • @SamIsInHereSomewhere
    @SamIsInHereSomewhere Před 3 měsíci +18

    OMG BRANDOOOOOOO

  • @its_artea
    @its_artea Před 3 měsíci +1

    Bradno's hair looks so good

  • @cvlmaia
    @cvlmaia Před 3 měsíci +3

    Wootak kicking his feet is sooo cuuute❤❤❤😂😂

  • @zoepark3163
    @zoepark3163 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Didn't notice the first censor so i only heard "can we define the word boy for the audience"🤣🤣🤣

  • @kasuusak4792
    @kasuusak4792 Před 3 měsíci +5

    1:38:57 I think Brando talking about one of the try guys

  • @robyngentle9185
    @robyngentle9185 Před 3 měsíci

    What happened to the next episode 151? It was on a couple days ago here on CZcams, and now it’s not. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @elsyalonzo2436
    @elsyalonzo2436 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Can y’all do this same concept but for the girlies plsss

  • @BTSLiveUploader
    @BTSLiveUploader Před 3 měsíci +2

    3 mins ago? Nice!! 😂👏🏼❤

  • @jessicajean7563
    @jessicajean7563 Před 3 měsíci

    Awww Brando!!! 🥹🥹

  • @ruthdsouza169
    @ruthdsouza169 Před 3 měsíci +12

    Is it what I think it is on Eester's Finger

    • @lemonrosa5931
      @lemonrosa5931 Před 3 měsíci

      She bought it herself I think? She said it on TikTok

  • @bonjoursophie
    @bonjoursophie Před 3 měsíci +4

    Brando. Oh, Brando. Swoon.

  • @ruthdsouza169
    @ruthdsouza169 Před 3 měsíci +19

    Yo has anyone seen Ester's hand

  • @jkfortyseven
    @jkfortyseven Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’m from Alabama and yeah..folks most def give babies whiskey on their gums, we call it a “hot toddy” lol

  • @BK-DNA
    @BK-DNA Před 3 měsíci +4

    Eddie is so beautiful hope to see him more

  • @sammo9467
    @sammo9467 Před 3 měsíci +7

    "😯 is that psy" LMAO 😂

  • @B00TYclapperCLUB69
    @B00TYclapperCLUB69 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Well, they never explained how to not get ur heart broken

  • @Offlineee_
    @Offlineee_ Před 3 měsíci +7

    ya'll be talking so casually about first date sex.... like that shit normal... I caaaannntttt

  • @bonjoursophie
    @bonjoursophie Před 3 měsíci +10

    Most to least toxic:
    1. Viet
    2. Wootak
    3. Esther
    4. Jeremy
    5. Brando
    And I don't know enough about Jordan to make an assessment

    • @lamma746
      @lamma746 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I agree with this list lol

    • @alexare6655
      @alexare6655 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I disagree with this list. Esther is 100p less toxic than jeromy.

    • @Offlineee_
      @Offlineee_ Před 3 měsíci +1

      Brando should be at the #3 spot

    • @bonjoursophie
      @bonjoursophie Před 3 měsíci

      @@alexare6655 Really? Why do you think that?

    • @bonjoursophie
      @bonjoursophie Před 3 měsíci

      @@Offlineee_ Brando can do no wrong

  • @TheBizkit75
    @TheBizkit75 Před 3 měsíci +1

    lmfaooo " is that PSY!!" 4:30

  • @Myhalamanz
    @Myhalamanz Před 3 měsíci +4

    This episode is so male-centric

  • @SirGeorge-uu2eq
    @SirGeorge-uu2eq Před 3 měsíci +9

    FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸 🗣️

  • @NabiBeautyBar
    @NabiBeautyBar Před 3 měsíci

    BRANDO!!! where you been 🎉🎉🎉

  • @clarSVTV
    @clarSVTV Před 3 měsíci +2

    YEYY BRANDOO I missed him!!

  • @stephy917
    @stephy917 Před 3 měsíci +17

    You guys need a long couch 🛋 lol

  • @qianhongxiang8385
    @qianhongxiang8385 Před 3 měsíci +14

    what's wootak's line?

    • @imjai9071
      @imjai9071 Před 3 měsíci +1

      facts does anyone know?

    • @2levitate
      @2levitate Před 3 měsíci +1

      I too was wondering if I missed it or something.

    • @robertvang1003
      @robertvang1003 Před 3 měsíci

      Ik it

    • @imjai9071
      @imjai9071 Před 3 měsíci

      @@robertvang1003 then say it

    • @robertvang1003
      @robertvang1003 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@imjai9071 I can’t I’ve been sworn to secrecy

  • @freedamnsweetcree7235
    @freedamnsweetcree7235 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Cringiest F boy line was "I bet you wondder why i even picked you" After i ran my idgaf about you game.. #lmao in my head i was like uhm because i dont really care and your ego was challenged duh. But i said while batting my eyes "no. Why"? Haha omg

  • @kaylaoverzet
    @kaylaoverzet Před 3 měsíci

    Bahn mi was hilarious actually

  • @matthewbrocious7436
    @matthewbrocious7436 Před 3 měsíci +1

    What’s the line?!

  • @Spydel2
    @Spydel2 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Don't rely on gum/mouthwash. Go to a dentist/hygienist to clean out that calculus, that's the stuff stinking so bad.

  • @palakrao3218
    @palakrao3218 Před 3 měsíci

    I NEED TO KNOW WHATS THE LINEEE😭😭😭

  • @Aceleazy
    @Aceleazy Před 3 měsíci +1

    they started the BB Simon trend??????? they definitely dont know how the whole NYC was wearing BB Simon belts all throughout 2005-2014 with Marmot biggies or pellepelle leather jackets with true religion jeans and Nike ACG boots or timbs

  • @ynot482
    @ynot482 Před 3 měsíci

    Where was wootaks line?

  • @tunsofjunk
    @tunsofjunk Před 3 měsíci

    What’s wootaks line !?

  • @chrisrangel192
    @chrisrangel192 Před 3 měsíci

    What’s the brand of the shades thooo

    • @yuki12th
      @yuki12th Před 3 měsíci

      Wootok is probably from gentle monsters

  • @jasminevelasquez6592
    @jasminevelasquez6592 Před 3 měsíci

    I just wanna say the best cologne a man can wear is Valentino Uomo Born in Roma! Better than the Dior Sauvage

  • @B00TYclapperCLUB69
    @B00TYclapperCLUB69 Před 3 měsíci

    Jeremy is pretty hilarious

  • @vnss_wav
    @vnss_wav Před 3 měsíci

    Jordan is 1000% the most romantic, y’all need to take notes!
    Also - trust the only woman in the room to tell you who is the most romantic guys lol

  • @Solarreviews123
    @Solarreviews123 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yo
    Idk if they address this at any-point(only 15:13 min in)
    But why wutok so cranky this episode lol

  • @nonishanegi
    @nonishanegi Před 3 měsíci

    whats the line pls

  • @carbee123
    @carbee123 Před 3 měsíci

    I knew this episode was gonna be juicy from the title 😝

  • @shanicethompson3196
    @shanicethompson3196 Před 3 měsíci +4

    They twinkify my boy viet😔🙏

  • @John-ud1kd
    @John-ud1kd Před 3 měsíci

    W line up

  • @ksav8641
    @ksav8641 Před 3 měsíci

    yo wootak i’m beating you already yk i have one lil one sooo tufff

  • @iSell1nsurance
    @iSell1nsurance Před 3 měsíci +6

    I've never been so early

  • @clos2965
    @clos2965 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Whats a guy gotta do to get some NECTAR HARD SELTZER in Vegas !?

  • @metalbxrbie
    @metalbxrbie Před 3 měsíci +3

    ily but high value is a stretch

  • @paigemoloney
    @paigemoloney Před 3 měsíci

    BRANDITOOOOOOOO 😭😭😭😭