tunde and marie's blue therapy journey | in love and toxic: blue therapy | 4reality

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  • čas přidán 15. 11. 2023
  • tunde and marie have been on and off for over 10 years, will blue therapy help them navigate their issues and commit or will they choose to end it and part ways for good?
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  • @KpTheG
    @KpTheG Před 7 měsíci +92

    She ruined a good thing with what seemed like a good, RICH man to go back to an ex that disrespects her every chance he gets?! She’s part of the circus…

    • @m.just.like.mukaji
      @m.just.like.mukaji Před 6 měsíci +12

      Exactly. Like she said this man cheated, had a child then had two others children, then the other man showed her how she should be treated and was riche but here she is Crying over that relationship who haven’t change since before that riche dude like I don’t get it… how??? Why??? Lol girl you did it to yourself… 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Celti_
    @Celti_ Před 6 měsíci +51

    Water really seeks its own level. Marie really fell for Tunde's manipulative stalking schemes to win her back. Meanwhile, his whole plan was to sabotage her relationship with the millionaire boyfriend just to appease his ego, hence the mistreatment he gives her now. He doesn't want her, he just doesn't want anyone else to have her. She played herself.

  • @tyisha2105
    @tyisha2105 Před 6 měsíci +16

    He said, “it’s my way or the highway”. Girl he’s giving you the exit plan! TAKE THE HIGHWAY!!! Anyone who will blame you for their behavior instead taking accountability is not the one. Also has this man ever heard of a condom?!?

  • @emefakgbedemah3464
    @emefakgbedemah3464 Před 6 měsíci +16

    Run Sis!!!! He’s controlling and manipulative. Pure sign of a narcissist. Go get your footballer boo back Sis!

  • @nadialabady3641
    @nadialabady3641 Před 7 měsíci +71

    Girl you better run!!! He’s classic narcissist and controlling!!! He’s cheating and will never make you a wife! You’re worth more!

  • @mstt3530
    @mstt3530 Před 7 měsíci +42

    Girl, take your two legs and go! That guy is a walking red flag 🚩He has four children!!!!!! Don’t end up being his 4th BM! What Juju is this man using!?

  • @daisyvono
    @daisyvono Před 7 měsíci +67

    The pain in Marie's voice comes from all the pain Tunde has put her through, she is beautiful but the pain is written all over her face.

    • @doug46745
      @doug46745 Před 5 měsíci

      she aint a victim lmfao

  • @kristalcampbell8646
    @kristalcampbell8646 Před 7 měsíci +36

    Gurl look how good you look!!!! Wake up. You are way too beautiful to be doing this to yourself

  • @fitp74
    @fitp74 Před 7 měsíci +32

    I’ve decided to be single for my peace. Why is she going through this. And the three children he has. He wouldn’t be with her if she had children.

  • @MT-nf1ls
    @MT-nf1ls Před 7 měsíci +165

    Girl, i get it - its scary. You spent 10 years with the man and now feel like you dont have enough time to start over with someone new. But i can tell that this guy isnt going to give you a single day's peace. He will use you and abuse you. Please leave, i guarantee you will find someone better. Life is too short to spend it being miserable. I would rather be alone than with that man.

    • @elysianlagom2113
      @elysianlagom2113 Před 7 měsíci +5

      I don’t think Marie is the type of girl who needs to worry about age. In the U.K. 27 is still young and she can find someone pretty easily. It’s a matter of, if she is ready.

    • @betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359
      @betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359 Před 7 měsíci +3

      She’s been attached to him for so long must be hard to detach-

    • @MT-nf1ls
      @MT-nf1ls Před 7 měsíci

      @@michaelwhite2968 probably but if not, i want her to see this. Girls like her are a dime a dozen

    • @kristalcampbell8646
      @kristalcampbell8646 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359that is exactly how it is

    • @user-ep2pi9od7b
      @user-ep2pi9od7b Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@michaelwhite2968wait what is this not real

  • @Celti_
    @Celti_ Před 6 měsíci +20

    Lmfao I could never be Marie. Tunde the type of man that make you resort to physical violence due to uncontrollable rage. Just absurd.

  • @christinamorrell7911
    @christinamorrell7911 Před 7 měsíci +27

    It’s sad to see how a person can be punished for being in love with the wrong person. I know what you’re feeling, did it for 20+ years. Looking at your situation was quite triggering, but seeing you leave was empowering. Please keep that energy with this man because the more you forgive him, the more he’ll punish you for it. He may be a good person, but he’s NOT good for you. Best of luck in all of your future endeavors, leave him in the past where he belongs.

  • @akeodafe532
    @akeodafe532 Před 7 měsíci +34

    Girl get a restraining order cause he keeps coming after you

    • @salimatakere1180
      @salimatakere1180 Před 7 měsíci +2

      no literally. idk why they slid past the fact that he literally stalked her

  • @Everevolvingbub
    @Everevolvingbub Před 6 měsíci +9

    My girl dodged a bullet with that one!! Thank God she didn’t end up another one of his baby mothers! They will have nothing but a headache with him! Hope she’s smart and go spread her wings Marie, that guys nothing but a Fboy 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nikoyia16
    @nikoyia16 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Omg y did she leave the footballer!!! This guy is something else😮‍💨

  • @CJ-jy4vd
    @CJ-jy4vd Před 7 měsíci +15

    She’s fine af! I hope she left his ass.

  • @nyanya-ray7235
    @nyanya-ray7235 Před 7 měsíci +19

    Should have stayed with the footballer😅

  • @bigmak-jr.
    @bigmak-jr. Před 6 měsíci +8

    5:50 The footballer guy showed you how a real woman is to ne treated, but you broke up with him, abd git back together with Tunde? Yiu can't make this up 😭😭🤝

    • @Painandprofff
      @Painandprofff Před 6 měsíci

      😂😂😂😂 some jbag

    • @Informativeconvo
      @Informativeconvo Před 5 měsíci

      The footballer boyfriend broke up with her cause Tunde rented a flat on same building and they (her&Tunde) were seeing each other too.
      They are both chronic cheats and they deserve each other.

  • @Tamilore_o.t.a
    @Tamilore_o.t.a Před 6 měsíci +5

    Both of them are actually MAD!!

  • @nimmikaur3737
    @nimmikaur3737 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Girl you need to get away from him

  • @tharcianekarlla2044
    @tharcianekarlla2044 Před 7 měsíci +8

    You are beautiful, let go of this shit, he is clearly wasting your time, which is the most precious thing in the world, he doesn't love you because otherwise he would have taken different actions

  • @zainabtembo9756
    @zainabtembo9756 Před 7 měsíci +11

    girl you've been tolerating this guy too much he now things his something

  • @yoginikawi9515
    @yoginikawi9515 Před 2 měsíci +1

    She is so pretty and really deserves more than he can offer! I hope they both figure out they are not meant for each other and let it go.

  • @salimatakere1180
    @salimatakere1180 Před 7 měsíci +11

    10 years on and off? there's no next level bc he hates you!! move on

  • @tahcecilia9611
    @tahcecilia9611 Před 16 dny

    Have the energy and the power to walk away from anything that doesn't bring you peace.
    That is Strenghth

  • @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153
    @ebonysweetnesssweetness5153 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Ten years .... Do you really need marriage??? If you try to force anyones hand it's setting up a relationship for failure. Marie your guy has double standards, ya need to call things a day he makes ya have ugly face.- I think you've had your time cos Tunde has no balls don't let him use up any more of your good years.

  • @missyheavenz
    @missyheavenz Před 7 měsíci +16

    She allowed this shit to end something beautiful with the footballer 😢

    • @bkandy7165
      @bkandy7165 Před 4 měsíci

      Beautiful where? @baby mama 1,2,3 or the i dont want to marry you part🤔

  • @LBC22123
    @LBC22123 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Do you love her enough to let her go? And he basically said no. Nice 👍 🙄

  • @nikapooh9286
    @nikapooh9286 Před 7 měsíci +6

    I hope she broke up with this man. He doesn’t know what a condom is so kids is only one concern.

  • @bevbuckley521
    @bevbuckley521 Před 7 měsíci +2

    You are a queen... Run xx

  • @gloriamudany4419
    @gloriamudany4419 Před 7 měsíci +1

    4:09 - 4:11 Whaaaaaaat?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This man is RIDICULOUS!!!!!!!!!!

  • @betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359
    @betterwithwinebetterwithwi2359 Před 7 měsíci +21

    Dude thinks his something he ain’t nothing look how he speaks on her

  • @vibes_with_coco
    @vibes_with_coco Před 6 měsíci

    Please where can I watch the full episode of this?

  • @boutdamntime
    @boutdamntime Před 2 měsíci

    What I got from this is that once you feel you are incompatible with someone you love that it becomes so toxic and you start to hate them like these two obviously, just BREAK UP! Why do people torture themselves like this. Staying with someone you hate hurts more than breaking it off. Just make a clean start I beg all of you

  • @hannahhb3432
    @hannahhb3432 Před 2 dny +1

    The therapist is so rubbish, why is she just sat there while he’s shouting her? At least say it’s a safe space and to not communicate like that, just for television, she did the same on other series, ugh she makes me sick, such a sell out for tv

  • @mikebean.
    @mikebean. Před 6 měsíci

    Where can i watch the episode

  • @masakumoise1983
    @masakumoise1983 Před 7 měsíci +4

    She is 26 she can still start over

  • @ImsorPrEpPy
    @ImsorPrEpPy Před 4 měsíci +1

    She needs to run because she has not physical ties to him like a child. A man who respects her will find her.

  • @keishablombe
    @keishablombe Před 7 měsíci

    anyone know where I can watch the full episodes from?😩

    • @mazal9895
      @mazal9895 Před 7 měsíci

      Yes they are on 4reality I think

  • @cassC16
    @cassC16 Před 6 měsíci

    Omg. Please please run away and never look back girlie.

  • @islandgem4328
    @islandgem4328 Před 6 měsíci +2

    This is how the “rich” men that a lot of you are after acts.

  • @justinemae2968
    @justinemae2968 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Guys actually think that when women get quiet that they're right.

  • @ashleyclark1500
    @ashleyclark1500 Před 2 měsíci

    3?!!!

  • @deborahbrown559
    @deborahbrown559 Před 6 měsíci +1

    She looks nice but lacks self worth, that’s the problem cause there’s no way you’ll leave someone who treats you better for someone who has 4 baggages, does nothing for you and treats you bad. She’s a joke , she needs to elevate her self worth like looks and she’ll be able to move on

  • @Tamilore_o.t.a
    @Tamilore_o.t.a Před 6 měsíci +1

    Both of them don Kolo!!!

  • @frances-salt7382
    @frances-salt7382 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Did tunde say that marriage in African concept is when a man sees a beautiful lady, he will just say..come here…sit and then that’s it! He’s a Buffon🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MoonChildlove
    @MoonChildlove Před měsícem

    He is a Narsisist. That is a full blown Narsisist. I would run girl

  • @gdup1728
    @gdup1728 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Who’s the footballer she dated?

  • @utilisateur2508
    @utilisateur2508 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Please tell me she left this troll

  • @charlalar14
    @charlalar14 Před 7 měsíci +9

    She is way out of his league!!!!

  • @aifluence7
    @aifluence7 Před 5 měsíci

    Yoruba men 😂😂😂😂... They will show you premium pepper

  • @lucianabarros172
    @lucianabarros172 Před 4 měsíci

    It is so painfull to watch this video.I feel so sorry for this lady.The guy has 3 children with 2 differents women and has the audacy to say he would not date a woman with children. I just hope he will not date again anybody.

  • @Boomwhat-st5jw
    @Boomwhat-st5jw Před 6 měsíci +1

    They both clearly cheated. The girl in nogeria, they guy with some chick. The should open their relationship. They r a perfect fit

  • @proagate7392
    @proagate7392 Před 4 měsíci

    He needs her to pay child support 😢😂

  • @goksuackan162
    @goksuackan162 Před 6 měsíci +1

    He is nothing but a lame narcissist. She looks way better than him and he not giving you not what you want. Just move on please

  • @Kamrisss
    @Kamrisss Před 2 měsíci

    Three kids? Two baby mommas ? Girl please

  • @user-tb5fb8bq8d
    @user-tb5fb8bq8d Před 4 měsíci

    He don't love her he keeps cheating and having babies that not his wife and has the nerve to say if had kids he wouldn't be with her cause he already has 3 kids too many let him go cause he not serious about marriage or the fact his having babies without protection is damaging lot of people.

  • @liyandayi1409
    @liyandayi1409 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Karamo just needs to talk to these two

  • @olufemiwilliams9200
    @olufemiwilliams9200 Před 4 měsíci

    D guy is a loser, he lost his chance when he left her the first time he cheated Just because he was her first love dont mean he got to wreck her.
    Lady go look for your prince in another castle,this castle is full😂

  • @reginamcadory674
    @reginamcadory674 Před 5 měsíci +1

    He talking about she act like a … But he having babies with multiple women.

  • @boyeadediran
    @boyeadediran Před 3 měsíci

    she's insane omg. she's vexed he had kids but he's boasting about her dating some millionaire😂😂😂

  • @Locdinwithdr_
    @Locdinwithdr_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂ah no this guy is too much you mess around but you don’t want to lose your girlfriend and yu treat her like she mean nothing.

  • @NinaBlow
    @NinaBlow Před 5 měsíci

    Girl I should’ve BEEN gone. And when he got that flat near u, u should’ve filed a restraining order.. tf .. u fumble a good man who treated u right and had a coin and a future over this idiot

  • @bukeemooh4931
    @bukeemooh4931 Před 7 měsíci

    Cool script🔥

  • @Bambazi01
    @Bambazi01 Před 6 měsíci

    What I understand from this, is, both of them are cheaters and deserve each other.

  • @judyneno4492
    @judyneno4492 Před 7 měsíci +6

    She doesn't know her worth

  • @belindaoyendo7885
    @belindaoyendo7885 Před 6 měsíci

    This Tunde guy is so annoying... I wish she can just leave him and do better

  • @ruthford111.
    @ruthford111. Před 2 měsíci +1

    Walk out. He has kids with other people

  • @nhlanhlanzimande4001
    @nhlanhlanzimande4001 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Girl why are you going back to this fool?

  • @MP-qb6lv
    @MP-qb6lv Před 6 měsíci +3

    They both need some one else; her more than him

  • @Obalufon
    @Obalufon Před 7 měsíci +6

    Yoruba demon at best................lol She's for the street tho

  • @Tamilore_o.t.a
    @Tamilore_o.t.a Před 6 měsíci +1

    Tunde is foolish….period

  • @Abbas_babygirl
    @Abbas_babygirl Před 6 měsíci

    This guy is a wicked person

  • @NSRELV
    @NSRELV Před 25 dny

    WTH!! Girl, you picked the boy OVER the actual man that could provide for you. He wants to play games, YOU NEED TO MOVE ON! I hope she actually moved on. He is just going to drag her down. He better leave

  • @jackoenyegue
    @jackoenyegue Před 6 měsíci

    She wants the marriage certificate to have the leverage and the possibility to take him to the cleaners and yet she is trying to sheath it into this cementing of an emotional connection.
    This man's words are rather brutally honest, however..he is being honest. Clearly, she wants to take and take and take.. and take and take.. and take and take and take....

  • @PWING1000
    @PWING1000 Před 6 měsíci

    The acting isn't as good as good as the first season

  • @Celti_
    @Celti_ Před 6 měsíci

    There has to be something behind the scenes that caused her to put up with him for 10 years. Sure he's handsome but he's an awful partner like he's literally mentally ill.

    • @Jen-qy4ol
      @Jen-qy4ol Před 6 měsíci

      Not handsome enough for all this shit. Dude is very much average in the looks department. He's no Keith Powers 😂😂😂

  • @Locdinwithdr_
    @Locdinwithdr_ Před 6 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂ah no this guy is too much you mess around but you don’t want to lose your girlfriend and yu treat her like she mean nothing.