BLUE THERAPY: EPISODE 2 - "Why Would You Respond To 😍 Comments On Your Insta?"
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- čas přidán 5. 05. 2021
- On this episode the couples dig deeper into couples therapy and more is uncovered! Enjoy.
Cast:
@debofamo
@jdfitnessuk
@mrpaulbridges
@chii_neke
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Can we link Chioma and Jamel, pls?
Good shout
Yes please!
Yes please!
Amaraaaaaaa baby mothhhherrr
honestlyyyyyyyyyyyyy they deserve better
Deborah needs to stop saying “we as females...” no ma’am lol that’s YOU.
Likkkeee
Likeee maa'm we who!!!😂😃😂😃
Oh you speak french now??
Exactly
right, like girl who is "we" ??
Paul: this is a safe place right?
Denise: yes everything you say in here stays in here.
Everyone watching on CZcams: 👀👀👀
I thought the same thing 😂
i'm dead💀
yea im so confused, does he not know that???
@@CMLi-qh2mz he knows 😂😂
I know 😂
Paul has the unique talent of saying so much whilst saying absolutely nothing at all.
Its called bombastic gaslighther
Sounds like my ex.
It's annoying the world keeps creating more like him these days
Thats why he's into trading he's a scammer
I'm dead😂
Moral of the story: Paul wants a slave not a girlfriend, Deborah wants a bank not a boyfriend.
Yeah I get that synopsis. I still think they should swap partners! Not swinging or sharing but a straight swap!
@@AfricanEmpress01 like Paul and deborah will be perfect match ,there will be no love in the relationship and it will be fulfillment of roles in which both of them are keen on. And it’s all clear they don’t really need love in their life , they just want to fill in a role.
@@oluwatobiosanyintuyi3151 Very true!
Spot on!!
hahahhahaha best way to put it. hahhahahha
Therapist: Anything you say here doesn’t leave this room
Cameraman: *recording*
Literally
All of us watching , that’s even worse lol
haha that part was hilarious
Nah she’s a beginner man! Like wtf😂😭
@@missjasyj9905 yea that’s what the original comment was saying
Not me skipping the other couple to watch Paul make a fool out of himself 😂😂
Same here 😂😂
SAME 😂😂😂
When Paul said “brand,” he confirmed everything Chioma said in episode 1 about him caring more about appearances than the relationship
Shes talking about a Prada bucket hat and he is talking about buying property. Ok you're with the wrong person.
On god he’s in a wrong relationship
I feel sorry for young single guys if this is what’s out there in the market 😭
Thank you
He’s in the wrong relationship 😂😂
😭😭😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bald ✅
Darkskin ✅
Gaslighter & emotionally dead ✅
Paul is the perfect cast for a Tyler Perry movie villain
very much giving “Why Did I Get Married?” vibes
😂😂😂😂
Omg 😂😂
@@diri.k26 omg this is who he reminds me of!!! 🤣😂🤣😂😅
No because why was I thinking the EXACT SAME THING... he’s the same as the bald one from why did I get married
"Are you really telling everybody this is my first relationship? That's so embarrassing." She literally brought it up immediately first episode lol
Jamel is trying to build a castle for the princess while the princess is trying to wear princess dresses in the streets with no home 🤦🏾♀️
And she's not even all that ugh, he can do better
he needs to run now
Likeeeee
In a bucket hat haha
I agree
Both couples break up. Treatment done
Honestly.
To be honest
they legit just need to switch girlfriends that's it.
100% 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I honestly don't know why they are still together. They all should break up.
Deborah doesn’t want a boyfriend, she wants a suga daddy.
word dkm
😂😂😂😂😂
So true
She’s literally looking for a father, her father can’t have been that great if she feels she still needs one ffs 🤦🏻♀️
She is a gold digger
Aren’t therapists allowed to end relationships? Because someone needs to set Chioma free😩
😂😂😂
@@saturnteatree
Chioma is Nigerian… and this man has a lil bit of money….she isn’t going anywhere…..
@@Queensofafrica8I peeped that instantly because anyone can tell this dude is a complete ass and has a horrible personality so she clearly haven’t stayed this long for no reason hell he not even tapping it
Both couples on here need to end their relationships
Chioma is an intelligent woman. Her story flows well
Sometimes couple therapy is to realise you shouldn't be a couple
💯
FACTS
💯
Looool FACTS. Chioma and Jamel, go find better ones. Quick!!!! Se kiyaaaaa
Women file for divorce often these days. You guys are excellent at breaking up families.
Jamel's girl is an example of what men who want to build a future should avoid.
Truth
He should run that, the girl bright n facety
😂 I haven’t heard bright and facety in a while. I love it lol.
Wanna run a set MK11? Ft10
@@ukamedodi518 sure what's your PSN?
Poor Chioma...I really feel so sorry for her. She seems so intelligent, patient, confident, emotionally intelligent and stunning! And she absolutely is in love with Paul, but he just wants someone to jump when he says jump. She deserves way more than he is providing. Paul, there is more to financial stability, she can support herself on her own anyway!
Paul is actually entertaining as he comes off as someone from such rough background and a broken home yet in his world he is an affluent, well mannered, rich, and educated 😂😂😂😂😂 he delusion level is pretty insane yet the way he delivers is brings comedic quality to it. and the best is : he isnt aware of himself on the level of how he is perceived . hahaha
That guy is mad hilarious
Bro Paul must deal with mafia the way he’s talking about these ‘clients’
which mafia exactly
Lmfaoo 😂😂😂😂
He's a scammer of some sort. I'd bet money
LOOOOOOOL
As innn😅😅😅 him and his high clients
Debra is with the wrong guy. She needs a “sugar daddy”.
Mandem AHLIEEE?
I agree
100%
True
@@cazftk AHLIEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Paul is a textbook avoidant. It’s unlikely he will ever change. Chioma is stunning, ambitious and you can tell a very good woman. He will never be able to give her the love she needs. You can’t get milk from the hardware store. She should just move on.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 well said!!
Chioma should listen to her facial expressions 😂 They are on to something lol
Yo this the comment right here 😭😂🤣😂
If you took a shot for every time Paul mentioned his clients affluence, you’d wake up on Sunday.
Literally 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yooooo 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Sis is out here acting as if Jamal is obligated to buy her expensive gifts. Girl go buy them yourself
That’s her definition of « As a man, he needs to provide »🤦🏽♀️
Nah some gold digger I swr down
Facts like… he’s not your father…
Right
She's such a child!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I cannot take Paul seriously at ALL! “Let me give you a bit of coaching” 🤬😂
Jamal: "What do you ring to the table?
Deborah: "Are you joking?"
Jamal: "Did I stutter?"
His next question should've been, "Do you even have a table? "
Debra is exactly why men think we only want them for their money.
You can see that she is there as long as he can provide for what she whants (dinners, shopping etc.) Once he wont be able to provide or wont want to she will jump ship.
She's solo selfish🤦🏾♀️
She is a definition of a gold-digger debra is asking for alot while the guy is out there hustling getting that bag
literally.
Frrr, and she keeps on bringing up what her dad did for her she might as well date her dad tbh
Chioma carries herself with such dignity and confidence!
But she should run and love herself more to not entertain the gaslighting and insecure low self esteem kind of person. Passive agressive broken guy. Paul you need to heal yourself inside out first before moving in any relationship.
She is such a lady,and really hopes she can find love in the right place,I don't think this is it
Like she is such a beautiful woman
U know
Seriously, even when he flew up at her, she was under control
I actually think it would work out if they swapped partners, Paul could be the provider for Deborah
factsss
Once Chioma said “Yes, MHHM” I knew she was Igbo! Ha! You go gehl!! 🇳🇬🙌🏾
Deborah wants a sugar daddy. (temporal relationship)
Chioma wants an affectionate man.(serious relationship)
Paul wants a housewife he can manipulate and put into his cave/boundage.
Jamelia want a supportive and understanding partner.
Simple😂
Period.
so they should swap😂
@@harishussain7569 good point but then Jamel wouldn't meet up to chiomas expectations
They need to switch partners..
you can tell deborah’s entire perception of what a healthy relationship should look like is based on social media and what her dad did for her (a man who is not her partner) - extremely immature, she has a lot of growing and understanding to gain
Facts
All I was thinking is in first two minutes she's a gold digger 🤣
She is NOT A GOOD WOMAN. He can do sooooo much better!
When jemal asked her what she brings to the table and she couldn’t answer instead be defensive that’s all I needed to know the type of girl she is. She’s one of them tl babes who let’s social media blindsight her into thinking relationships are just about girls getting materialistic things etc. And deep it that’s her first relationship.... she needs to relax man and she needs to get her head out of the clouds and face reality that relationships are not just on material things alone. There’s so much more than that
Proper sket
Debra is still on "when i was younger my father 😂😂my daer girl u r older now"
I love it at 1:32 when the therapist says everything that is said in there stays in there & here we are listening to their problems on CZcams 😂😂😂
Deborah needs to marry her dad at this point honestly 😂😩
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Honestly!! She might aswell. I blame her dad for spoiling her wayyy too much cuz now that’s a childish mindset of thinking that settling in relationships just so to aquire materialistic things, is a gold digger behaviour. It’s no wonder that’s her first relationship.
She needs to leave this man and go marry her dad fr. Find herself another man rather than dragging this guy along 😩
She definitely needs to Mary her dad
Yes. She has to marry him at this point 😂😂😂😂
nobody:
Paul every five minutes: I associate with people in high places, people with a lot of money. Influential celebrities.
So full of himself... So irritating. How much does he even have?
Very annoying...I roll my eyes everytime I hear that
You forgot “you name it”
@@taissamakiadi9787 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Chioma is just the perfect wifey. I hope that Paul will understand how lucky he is .
Paul is just a master manipulator. Biggest deflector ever 😂
I’m sure Paul has a job but why does he sound so jobless.
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 true!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Probably a forex trader😂😂
😭😭😭😭
Deborah needs to go in the bin. She doesn’t value her boyfriend Jamal.
He is too good for her, hope he finds a good girl.
I think Deborah and Paul need to date 😂🤷🏾♀️👩🏾💻
Deborah needs to come with a trigger warning honestly!
I just dont get why people are dating people who want different things to them - why are women trying to mould men into what they want them to be - just find a man who meets your expectations
@@Viathe11one facts 😂
The more I watch this, the more I need to take a yoga class
😂😂😂 me too
She wants to be taken care of and looked after financially, yet she doesn't realize that not wasting money on expensive gifts is part of looking after her financially.
It's ironic ain't it
Deborah is not ready for a relationship, she just wants someone to sponsor her high budget life... The guy should run ooo
Exactly my point. That guy should run for his life
She has a lot of growing up to do
Marry her dad
Thank you this mean are weak
Jamal run bro.
After watching this I’ve realised I’m taking my single life for granted 😭😂😂
Haahahahahhahahahahabshshha the realest comment on there
frrr 😭😭
Hahahaha
As in ehh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Deadass
Him: Brings up a valid point
Her: "You see that not what we're gonna do"
My brain hurts watching this
Paul : "Babe! Babe! You're taking a fucking piss" 😂😂😂
that girl is so materialistic and if she doesn’t respect her partners financial boundaries she’s gonna end up with somebody that will shower her with gifts but give her absolutely no emotional stimulation. be careful for what you wish for.
Or worse, she'll end up alone
With a couple of cats.
Facts!
Bruv. I always end up with this type and I’m not even into money I have my own these kinda aesthetic image boys just follow me
@@TB.32433 until they run out ☹
Deborah does not have any long-term plans with that man. Her goal is to collect, rinse him and then move onto a guy like Paul next year
😂😂😂😂😂
Facts
@@sheenarehema27 she sounds like a teenage, childish and too entitled.
exactly
You're damn right😂🤣
A moment of silence for Chioma and Jamal🙌🏾🙌🏾
Deborah said her dad treated her like a princess, so was my sister and I. My dad also taught us to never solely depend on a man, work hard and have your own. My sister and I got our first diamond rings from our dad at the age of 12 and 13. When I got married my then husband couldn't understand how I had money when I was on maternity leave for 6 weeks and still handled my business while off payroll as we both worked in law enforcement. Build ur own table just incase things don't go as planned
Deborah is scary honesty this man has goals and she’s chatting about expensive gifts
@Giovanni Myers yeah but if u in a relationship with someone alcholic wouldnt you want them to stop demanding alchol and help them out of it so that perspective is useless
@Giovanni Myers massive ick for a woman to have a love for expensive gifts but not be willing to graft for themselves to achieve them? He's means to be her boyfriend not a sugar daddy.
@Giovanni Myers Great point, if you can’t meet her standards then someone else will lol, there are men out there who will incline to her needs
@Giovanni Myers raised that way or not people should fend for themselves. Relying on a bf to feed your addiction to materialistic things is such an immature way to live. She needs to get off her arse, get a job and bring something to the relationship
Deborah is a spoilt twat..
I honestly think Paul has a hearing problem, cause the way Chioma says one thing and he hears another is baffling
Nah, he's manipulative af!
Nope: he heard her, but has to control her, and yes extremely manipulative. He’s insecure!
If she tries to leave he won’t let her! And he’s rude as fk!! Ass
I love the sarcastic look in Chioma’s face when he goes “ my clients are influencers and celebrities”🤣🤣🤣
He’s sooo manipulative
I feel sorry for Jamal
Bro is just trying to grow and she’s just complaining about being treated like a princess
Paul and Deborah belong together. Chioma deserves so much better 😭; when he said “you wanna be tamed” I damn lost it
Therapist: “Everything you say stays within these four walls”.
*me staring at my phone* : .....
Right 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😧😧
I am in tears! I thought the same thing!
😂😂
😂😂😂
Same 😂😂😂
Deborah is pissing me offffff how’s she calling him childish when she’s the one whose behaving like a child😭😭😭
She irritates me already...I don’t wanna keep watching her session...She’s so childish
Like damn. She ain’t value the love, she value the price. She a bitch.
projection
@Deeno in other words she’s in there just for the money
She’s so annoying fr
Paul bout to start a fire with all this gas lighting 🔥
“this is your first relationship don’t do that” 🤣🤣🤣🤣Got her real quiet
I don’t understand how you could choose Gucci bags and fendy hats over a house and a business project in Ghana lmao the man has plans, just take the backseat for a few years and you’ll be living comfortably for the rest of your life.
They’re unequally yoked
literally!!!
She needs to go
She’s a Jackass
She doesn’t love him she loves what he can buy and service her like a butler or sugar daddy. She doesn’t care about a house she wants an atm. Like someone else said she doesn’t have long term plans w him and he doesn’t seem like a idiot so I hope he picks up on her schemes and leaves
Paul is a pure example of a narcissist, he’s been gaslighting her all along
She is Delusional he just tells reality her in a condescending way
💯
@@abelcarrillo927 no hes a narcissist
My thoughts too!
Oh please he's busy being a man and refuses to take her shit. This doesn't make him a narcissist it makes him an intelligent man. I've been with a narcissist, it's an insult to say that about him, it degrades those of us who have been with them legit.
I realized today that I couldn’t be a therapist, I would have lost it and slap Paul silly
She's pissed he said its her 1st relationship, she done told the world in episode 1 😂
Deborah would have Santa run out of gifts with the amount of shit she demands smh
Word
fr shes too spoilt like calm tf down
Bro she's moving like Beyonce.
Nothing wrong with a woman having high standard she's just with the wrong kind of man🤷🏾♀️ she needs to go find one rich OAP that will spoil her and give her lifestyle 🤣
@@theeone4500 i swear
Is Deborah okay in her head ? Her boyfriend is trying to build for the future and she is here talking about designer ... Drip is really killing our generation because huhhhh
He seems like a nice guy, she better count her blessings because another man would have kicked her to the curb after she tried to clown him on camera.
To be honest though 😂
Fortune 500 men aren’t going for 6/10 asking for money. Some people have no shame practical begging for money and gifts. She’s broke and wants a father figure in her life
@@LondonsPointOfView1 Fr I don’t get these guys self patience I respect but I could never handle it
I don't think she is 🤔
Shout out to the therapist for not telling them where there wrong telling them where their right or doing her job in the SLIGHTEST
A lot of woman wanted to be treated like a princess/ queen because that’s how they grew up. However, they never talk about how their mothers treated their fathers after having been given that treatment. It’s like reading a book half way through and say you already know the story😂😂
Deborah really said "buy me a house and I'll do my part". An extremely dismissively person of her partner's feelings and experiences. She has one priority, materialistic possessions and she simply sees Jamal as a fulfiller of that need. She has no interest in bringing value to the relationship. Only taking what Jamal can offer
U deserve more than 24 marks for that. 👏 English teachers are shooketh.
Amen 🙏🏽 so true
For the entire episode I didn't take away a single thing from her that made me see her in a positive way
Deborah is actually acting so needy, like she can’t live without someone providing for her, even if she has a boyfriend he’s not her FATHER even your father can’t give you everything you want, so Deborah is totally wrong, I don’t agree with her!
I don't agree with her neither a bit to much for me
Deborah is spoilt, and for a 24-year-old very immature, you can't take designer bags and clothes to the grave the younger generation is messed up everything is temporary
Because she expects the man to be her father and not boyfriend
I got so irritated by her
true, i agree with you. she needs t be supportive of her bf hustle and build together.
Deborah doesn’t realize how she gonna cause that man to commit suicide with the pressure she’s putting on him
Chioma dear let that fool go you will do so much better on your own
I heard someone say the only thing keeping chioma and Paul together is the word ‘babe’ couldn’t agree more
Deadass
Hahaha
Sure hahahaha
No. They use it in a condescending tone. They may as well be cursing
Im screeeaaming 😭😭😭
"If you’re educated...like myself" Paul needs to shut up 💀
I Burst out laughing 😂.. he's a funny guy
🤣🤣 fam! I was shook!
🤣🤣🤣
I swear my exact thought 😂😂
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The craziest line ever heard on the net"everything said here stays within this four walls"🤣🤣🤣🤣
The funny part when Paul says everything stays in this room as confidential right ?? Even tho millions of us know your business this guy is epic !
This therapist is sooooooo patient , me I would have thrown my shoes at Paul’s face
LOL not your shoes!!
😂 😂
Please let me add my shoes😫
@@TejuAdultFace & mine😩
I think black people should go to black therapists. Easier to relate.
Can someone please set Deborah & Paul up pls.. they are literally perfect for each other 😭they are both equally as toxic 🤣
Nah don’t disrespect Paul with that little girl
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL all facts
Deborah needs to relax bruv. Ain't no other man buying her nothing
Fax
And that's on period! 😄
Denise getting me tight cause she not telling nobody off 😂
She clearly is not Iyanla she not fixin shit😂
Paul: “so what I’m hearing is you want to be tamed” 💀💀⚰️
I laughed so hard and long my next door neighbour messaged to ask me what I’m watching that’s so funny.
Deborah checked Jamel for embarrassing her by “telling the world” this is her first relationship... am I the only one that heard her say it herself in episode 1 or?
Yes
YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE!
I HEARDDDD IT TOOOOO
She said it 👌🏽
Fr I was like ???
When Deborah gets dumped by Jamel it's gonna be EPIC 🙃😂
Literally 😂😂
@@Esther_xox I hope they show it on air😂
@@minahlaugh I will be waiting to see that😂😂😂😂🙌🏾
Deborah is a good digger
If she wants a lavish lifestyle, then she better chose a man with a lavish budget. She knew that guy, was not a multi-millionaire when she met him. Why is she complaining? She chose him. Lol
Ibr this show needs a season 2 this show slapped🤣🤣🤣
chioma is such an emotionally mature person
i want to be her
Deborah really said “you’re gonna tell the whole world this is my first relationship” when she announced it in episode one with CHEST , girl bye. Jamal needs to leave her
Ohhh myyy fucking days EXACTLY 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I said the same dang thing
100%
Why would deborah ask for so much. Shes just a gold digger
She is doing well for a first relationship
Deborah is a child.
And a gold digger.
She’s looking for Sugar Daddy, not a partner.
Jamal, RUN!
I know that's right!!!!
Facts
Facts
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes she is a longer throat and she is too young for this type of attitude,she will end up lonely,boys her age don't like people like her
Yo Paul is WILD! LMAO
"Everything said in here, stays in here." And here I am watching them on CZcams😂😂😂😂
Deborah needs to come back down to earth! Her immaturity is really showing. Jamal seems like a good guy, she’s too occupied with her perception of what a relationship should be as opposed to building a true foundation.
Lol guys make demands all the time from women that they aren’t married to, so why is it a problem for Deborah to demand such? Obviously she’s with the wrong guy, she needs a rich guy who doesn’t mind gifting her luxury and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It’s just not Jamal. And that’s ok too
@@marychristina3413 her priorities are fucked
Tooooooo materialistic
She knew where he worked and what it all meant. She new his age, so why on earth does she want weekly gifts.
Who asks for an expensive vacation from a working class man who just bought you a Gucci bag 🥴.
Can’t stand her 🙄🙄. Clearly a damn gold digger and as soon as he can’t give her these things she will leave. So immature and needs to grow up, anyways she don’t know shit about relationships
Paul is probably one of the worst guys to be in a relationship with. He’s full of himself, only think of himself, always think he’s right, and doesn’t care or allow others to share their view. Smh
His a narcissist
Very defensive
I totally agree with you! Saying he's "calculated everything", "being at home with is equal to love" ...How??! Boy bye abeg.
The way both of them walked out 🤣
“Woah woah this is your first relationship, don’t do that” lmaooo
It looks like Paul and Deborah are made for each other, he wants a housewife and Deborah wants someone to buy her stuff
🤣🤣🤣
I swear. Dem fit 😂
My thoughts too
True very true
exactly what i thought
Why is Paul acting like he's giving us content, I actually never want to see him on TV again lmaoooo
🤣🤣🤣🤣 ugly ass content
You didn't have to go there LMAO🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Same here Paul is too much
Chioma come beg me like that, i promise to never break your heart 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣
Paul is a big G “answer the question “ lol
Chioma girrrrrrrl bless the parents who raised YOU! You have so much patience with this man. I would’ve walked away, burst into tears, or just stopped talking. He is taking me through so many emotions right now & he ain’t even my man!!
She cried a lot hun over him till she is used to not crying anymore
FRFR
Chioma is such a lovely girl. She’s so self aware and clearly just wants to fix things. She deserves better
Girllllll
I don't even get what she sees in him, this guy doesn't LOVE her, all he cares about is him and apparences
Jamal, if Deborah is acting like this, bear in mind you’re not married and don’t have any children! Imagine how it’s going to be when Marriage and children comes into the picture! Leave whilst u still can! Immaturity is at an all time high with her! 💯
my guy they are both Acting lol this is not real lol
@K where's your proof?
@@zola1249 leave this guy man, just another delusional human being on earth .
Honestly
Thank God someone said it ! She is NOT a good woman and he do A LOT BETTER. He seems like a decent, hard-working man. For as attractive as she is, I promise you there are equally stunning woman out there; who are kind, caring, loving, patient, understanding and who will bring you peace. A woman like Deborah is not where you'll find any peace or happiness! Get rid, whilst it's easier to do it and there are no kid or marriage involved.
“I don’t have hair”😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The use of “Babe” in this episode is hilarious