I need a damn break after this one! || STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
- Steve Harvey goes in too deep on a woman's problem with her man and his "sick-close" sister.
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"that's *my* baby, that's *my* son" hurt my heart, man.. sis was hurting
Yea that part got to me real bad
Does she live in Alabama or something when her hubbie does that nasty sht?
she did all that movement to hold in her tears.
+tehtarikhalia1 That's what I saw too, and I was right up til the end when Steve was asking her those questions, you can see the water in her eyes about to form.
Exactly what I was thinking. The sister of her man should know the sister role. This ain't Game of Thrones. She really deserve better. I feel bad for her but she also should have known from day one the relationship with his sister is too Game of Thrones (Brother Sister weird love) and get that hell out and not make babies for his.
My World & Yours I'm expecting to see that brother and sister on Jerry Springer talking about they're in love with each other.
+LaShea69 That would be sooooo weird. I could not watch that to be honest. But with this world you never know, they could come on tv
My World & Yours Weird? Yes. Jerry Springer weird? Nah. I've seen stories like that on his show; it would just be interesting to see this particular one.
This girl needs her own reality show. I love her expressive nature.
Exactly
Deal breaker, he doesn't respect
He doesn't respect you nor pretend to care about your feelings - not that I would wish for him to pretend. What lie can you tell yourself when he doesn't even pretend to value you?
what’s her name?
I agree!🤣🤣🤣she needs her own show or would be a brilliant actress!🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰
the saddest part is she felt like she had to apologize at the end.
She was trying so hard to hold back her tears. I feel bad for her
yeh I can hear it in her voice that she wanted to cry. People making fun of how she was moving but that's kind of natural when you tryna hold back tears.
She was
Kitso Ntuli you mean hold back the crazy 😂😂
Caesar Slim
Kitso Ntuli I do not feel bad for Her because she doesn't deserve to be made a victim on his account. That's exactly what he wants... for her to feel so insecure about herself that she has no other options than to go back to his abusivness!
That's sweet of him to go to break for her. They all knew she was about to break down. What a beautiful lady, nobody deserves that
OMGEEEEEE you are beautiful too, and yes it was very sweet of him!
She's adorable and a beautiful woman
...she deserves a better man.
Yeah he noticed how hard it was for her to maintain.
Amen
Erika D. You're Beautiful Too
For a sister to sit on her bros lap, with arms around his neck and feeding him, that's not normal sibling closeness anymore. NOT NORMAL AT ALL!
Seriously tho. I’ve seen close siblings before… but not so close that they do that. (Especially as adults with full on relationships dude)
Like for real. I have a sister myself, to whom I am very close with, but even we are not doing what the lady on this video described. It is weird and awkward, that is not right...
Hey bro! I'm stuck in the dishwasher, come help me!
That's called enmeshment. Enmeshed relationships destroys husband and wife bond.
Yes that’s exactly what it is.
The fact that she was questioning whether she's the one being unreasonable even after "all" that shows how hard she really tried to reason with all of it and somehow still kept trying so hard to make it work. That's what makes me sad. That's how so many of us end up in vicious cycles because we think that somehow we are the ones that might be at fault and keep trying to "fix" ourselves. My heart goes out to her for that.
she's such a southern bell, she seems so genuine and for her "man" to treat her like that is horrible. she's a beautiful woman.
wtf is wrong with you woman........and why you say the word man in quotes and treat her like what?, how is that "horrible "...like for god sake that man just happens to be close to his sis and she has mode exp with kids so its obvious that he thought it would be better to call her regardless of whos baby it is........and about the apple bees thing ,all it was , was a brother and sister sharing food, that had nothing to do with her let alone disrespect her...she is just insecure and cuz she shed some tears ya all talkin like its his fault or whatever
@@samuelsstuff6256 there is something wrong with you if you think their relationship is normal 🤔🙄
Omgee thank you so muchhhhhhh much love babygirl!
samuel's stuff Fr I saw no issue that’s his blood. His sister so what if they share some food over the table. Acting like she got most manners foh
@@cubanteebager you all are disgusting smh
I thought she was an actress! but then I relised she was holding her tears. ppl judge quickly
Just Saleh Me too! I saw her staring at the ceiling and just thought, "oh please don't cry. I'll cry if you cry." I hope she got out of that situation and found someone who made her feel loved.
Just Saleh Agree! She is so hurt! It pained me to hear her tell her story. 😢
Ms Rana a
Yes, people do yet the only judgement I care about is the judgment day when God calls me home!
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She is doing everything in her power just to hold her tears .. she is heart broken from all of this .. and no one deserves to deal with these type of problems
Steve is so transparent with his emotions! His facial reaction cracks me up everytime! Im glad he made her laugh though because she was really about to cry. Poor lady. I feel bad for her.
It was not her who laughed it was the woman in red
Why y'all saying she crazy for her gestures and moving her body? That's dumb. Ain't nothing wrong with this lady. She's hurt that's all.
Yes its really Hard . I hope she dump already the jerk. She is a lady.
I agree, she's really hurt.
yes her gesture is just showing how upset she is
Yeah, I think she was trying really hard not to cry, that’s why she kept moving and looking up, ‘cause it distracted her from crying
well you are just as much crazy if you support that craziness
People are being so harsh on her for moving her head but did no one notice how close she was to crying? I laughed when Steve started waving around but she honestly looked so hurt, my heart goes to her
+rzg101 Right, especially after she mentioned how he called his sister to help w/ her child after she gave birth, most women would have lost it.
rzg101 maybe she shouldn't have had a baby with a guy she's not even married to #ghettolife
Mike Nelson u have a serious problem
Emily Thomas Actually Mike Nelson makes a valid point. This woman been dating the man for years, she said. And then had a baby with a man who don't respect her. She made some really bad choices, and those choices are very common in urban communities. 70% of black people grow up in broken families. And now her baby might fall into that statistic. That is a serious problem because broken families are the greatest cause of poverty and social problems.
I was very hurt, so hurt that I couldn't look at the comments until now.... 2 years later!
Steve was such a gentlemen. Seeing how bad she was hurting, he turned the spotlight back on him so she can keep her dignity on TV. He didnt want that idiot of a man to see her shed no more tears for him. Way to go Steve. God bless you girl. You take the high road with you and your baby!
She has a lot of pain and deserves better...
She is absolutely beautiful to me. Her mannerisms, looks, voice, phrasing of sentences, the way she sits, the way she moves... Everything.
Thank you so much this is the best comment I've read. God Bless you and yours!!!
@@Hervsshe are you and him still together or have you worked it out?
@@jasminevaliente96 I saw one of her posts (closer to the top) that the show helped her to move on. 🤗
She's gorgeous I guess the sister is jealous
She is absolutely gorgeous, and sorry I am late ☹️
If your man is all over his sister like that, definitely deal breaker
You got that right, sounds like incest to me.
Jake Sanders exactly people 2 damn dumb to see that
Sounds like Cersei and Jaime all over again.
@@ladydavinci9914 black version
@@DCFresh hahahaha
I can totally feel her pain. Nobody deserves to be treated like that
I hope she left him and she's happy now.
Run sister RUNNNNNNNNNNN!!! Leave them crazy bastards alone!!
+Belletaina Yeah there must be some truth in it maybe not 100 percent. In any case if she's this upset. Gotta go before real bad stuff happens.
The actions were so funny but I can't help feeling so sad for her in the situation she's in :(((((((
+Kheerah912 Yeah, you can tell it hurts her
Yea lol u could see the jealousy in her yes 😕.
yeah but i'm will to bet that she is stuck up,insecure and very bitchy just goin off her movements and the way she speaks and is exaggerating just everything
straight up hater that sister is!!
well its her fault for being a baby momma
I can’t believe how awful of a partner she has that when HER baby’s umbilical cord came her partner called his SISTER instead of her!!!!!!
She said his sister had more experience than her with babies I understand shed feel hurt but would you to your significant other to fix your cars engine or to a mechanic who has more experience
She is just being real, and I love how she is being real and took a lot of strength to hold such pain and emotion like that. You go Iris!
I really want to give her a hug. If she didn't have a child with the guy, she wouldn't have gone thus far to ask Steve. She's desperately wants direction. God bless her. 😳🙏
I really thought Steve of all people could help, guess only God and my talent could.
PRAYER CHANGES THINGS
I just this it's so stupid to be having a kid with someone, not have a RING on your finger FIRST and then complain that this is what it has come to!!?
Omg these people are mad!
I never understood how ppl can have a baby like that with no real commitment and ignoring all the toxic signs!! Deal lord!! And now what??
She got to be a lonely losing single mother with a baby-daddy with this trump for the rest of her life!!!
Why do people have babies before real SOLID COMMITMENT?? It's so ret@rded!!!
@@bluebellcrushedvelvet How would that change anything? She is still gonna be his sister even if they were married.
She deserves better for putting up with all that!
love girl number one... so sassy and adorable... poor thing.
Crystal Duke she's insecure, jealous bitch,i wouldn't ve surprised if she over exaggerated
OMGEEE thank you I have never been referred to as GIRL NUMBER 1 how great does that sound? Much love dear!!!
Definitely the creepiest brother and sister relationship I've ever heard of.
I completely know how she feels. I have the same problem with my partner, we have a baby on the way, and the way his mum acts is disrespectful, over-the-top and just downright gross. So I feel her!!
Hey ! How’re things goings with you and yours ? And how’s your baby ?
@@andrastivadar5721 why do you wanna know?
men with sisters like that should not be allowed to put babies in y’all!!!!!
Steve just helping her laugh (relax/calm down) whether people realize it or not.
He may be trying, but I am not sure his he is succeeding with Iris- the woman who asked him for help.
@@yesterdayitrained The REASON he took a break.
I wish Todd Chrisley was here for this!! :-(
I feel like I wish your farax was there
Snap Back
lmao :-D if you find him, invite him for me!
lmao :-d Heeeeyyy Xalimo!! :-D
omg yes! lol
omg yes! lol
I love her. She's so funny and clearly hurt. I hope she leaves that loser
I started off thinking she was crazy, but then as the video went on, I started to feel so bad for her. She’s not crazy. She was just trying really hard not to cry. She’s so beautiful, and you can tell she has so much love to give. You can see that this really, really hurts her. And I hope God helps her out as soon as possible. She deserves better.
awwww she so beautiful. definitely doesn't deserve that. wishing her the best ❤
youre kidding right? it sounded like she was being sassy acting like he should only care about her and not his BLOOD sister. blood is thicker than water. its just jealousy
That whole blood thicker than water thing doesn't really apply here or in other instances.
wow!
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Are you saying if she wasn't that beautiful, she deserved it?!
i felt so bad.... she was holding her tears in ... :(
I could hear her talk ALL DAY!! hope you find happiness for you and your child girl
You can tell she's legitimately hurting. Kinda messed up that Steve was making fun of her...
Steve is hella funny!! I died laughing watching his facial expressions!
+Li Fong me too.... she is actually being real..
+MrSolaeli feel bad for her. u can tell she loves him, but that sister goes out her way to make sure all her brother's women are temporary, cuz she can be the only one. girl, run away from that mess.
yes. she is purposely trying to hurt her. it is obvious
Li Fong #1 is way too much! 😓
Her bf is the crazy one ! Everyone calling her crazy just cause she moves her neck? Wtf. I feel bad for her its sad for anyone to be in that situation. The dude and the sister is sick. Ew. I hope this pretty lady moves on and get a better guy :)
OneLove I agree the woman was boutta cry in this clip here
When she said she is sorry in the end 🥺 she’s so beautiful my heart goes out to her ❤️
She needs to be In a movie 😭 I love her
The lannisters send their regards.
Gísli Stefán OH MY GOD THATS ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WHILE SHE WAS TALKING
Lolol8l best comment everrr
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Gísli Stefán wahahahaha 😂
HAHAHAHAHHAHA
Iris is beautiful tho
you are beautiful
Wtf?😂😂
These comments lmfao I can't-
shima shahadifar she's really not. She even had a baby with a guy she's not even married to #hoodlife
VERY BEAUTIFUL
She's too sweet I felt her pain wish I could hug her all the best your BEAUTIFUL
I absolutely died when steve started that head movement. LOL
her boyfriend and sister sound like damn husband and wife. hell naw. I'm all for being close to your siblings but I'm not about to be sitting on my brother lap and whispering in his ear with my arms around his neck. they sound like they're sleeping together!
They are
I'm glad he dealt with it professionally. He told her it is out of his field of expertise, he still gave her a solid quick answer to show her some temporary resolve, then he took a break and claimed it to be for his own self.
I respect his judgement and calculated response on this.
That's exactly what I thought 👏🏽now that the problem is solved she can move on with her life
It seems to be pretty obvious, that this lady is not welcome in her boyfriends family...it is not uncommon for siblings to detest the spouses of their brothers or sisters, the real problem though is the way her boyfriend shuts her out of his life and treats his sister, as if SHE was his sweetheart.THAT is the real problem, not the sister!
When she almost cried saying what happened with her newborn 😭
I think she was just trying not to cry.. that's why she was acting like that. it obviously really hurts her. plus she was probably a bit nervous too
Iris is so pretty bless her she don't need that in her life
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Beautiful lady I hope she gets the happiness that she deserves ❤️
She's so hurt I feel her pain the tears was about to fall am sorry for her
I feel her though... #idontthinkshescrazy
I don't think. she's crazy too. like she's hurt ! you can see it in her face and hear it in her voice ! she was tearing up and one point and staring at the ceiling to fight back tears. poor woman
I don't think. she's crazy too. like she's hurt ! you can see it in her face and hear it in her voice ! she was tearing up and one point and staring at the ceiling to fight back tears. poor woman
Exactly
yes she is hurt but she should not be..its just a lovey dovey bro sis situation ..like god damn she kinda gives me those diva vibes with like a ton of attitude ....that woman is just insecure .
she is beautiful and seems to deserve better, but she's also crazy. Wow
She deserves to GET better, but not better men, I mean it's obvious that she is cray cray and a better guy is not the answer. She needs therapy and parenting classes not another relationship.
+andrewjacksonbr Why does she need parenting classes?
+RinaPinxz22 She clearly has mental, emotional, and maturity issues. And if your relationship with your co-parent and their family is not functional, Parenting Classes are needed. Dysfunctional families are created when mental health has not been maintained. She clearly needs help (she's asking Steve) when she should be in counseling.
+andrewjacksonbr No she does not. Anyone can tell that she was doing all that movement to keep from crying. And why does she need parenting classes. How is she proving to be a bad parent. Really?
+Maureen Gordon My last reply clearly stated why parenting classes are needed and if you think the environment she is raising her child in is healthy, then that speaks to your low standards for heathy interaction when behaving as a parent and adult.
I feel you Ms. Iris. A big hug to you
I watch this so many times to this day and it always feel like it’s the first time I seen this. Steve Harvey never let me down🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
YOU ARE A ABSOLUTLY GORGOUS WOMAN & ANY MAN WOULD BE SUPPER BLESSED TO HAVE YOU IN THERE LIFE GORGOUS! WATCHING HER HOLD BACK TEARS BREAKS MY HEART!!! GO BABY GIRL GO GET YOU A MAN THAT WILL GIVE YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE, CAUSE YOU DONT NEED TO HURT NO MORE, LOVE & HUGS SENT YOUR WAY!!!
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She is soooo prettty omg.
She is so beautiful and seems so sweet, I hope she's happier right now.
She has been truly hurt by this mans action, everyone needed a break and she needed a hug .
tyler perry must get this woman a job
BlaqPearl Magic right😂😂😂😂😭🤧🤣
BlaqPearl Magic I just want to clear up that she was holding in her tears not being dramatic but I agree he definitely should.
People getting on this chick when she ain't the issue. Yeah she moves around a lot, but she's also what's called down-to-earth. Probably from a ghetto background and not ashamed of it either. Regardless, you all looking, but not listening: She has her morals on straight, but the siblings CLEARLY do not.
I got a sister too. Parents went through a divorce and we relied on each other. We're the rare few siblings who never fought, that's how well we got along. We still get along like that even in adulthood, but all that?
No.
That's line crossing from both him AND her. They're sick and need to seek some professional help before the forbidden line is crossed.
The forbidden line probably has already been crossed
amens and nem!
+TwilightFaze ZeroOne Preach!
Maybe/probably. Some women think they can "fix" a man (Ladies this is a major lie! If you think you can "fix" us, you already made a mistake dating this guy) and other just misunderstand the situation and take it over the top. Which is she? I don't know.
All I do know is that even if it's over the top, the sibling bond that causes friction on THAT level, doing THOSE things, and saying all THAT? Crazy or not, that's not the right person you need to have your focus on. Ask yourself: Why would you get at this woman for being crazy when you a brother and sister are overly (and I do mean "overly") intimate and deliberately putting their relationship over the family's? By attacking her, you're silently saying you're defending the siblings.
Whether you are or not is not up for debate. I don't know you or your stance and I won't even pretend to. Whole reason I even wrote that is just to make you aware of what you write in the future. Inflection, tone, emotion, etc. poorly carries over text. It's usually better to say too much than not enough.
I feel so bad for her. Her holding back her tears hurt my soul. She's beautiful, articulate, and intelligent and she deserves a man who treats her with respect and not creepiness. I agree with Steve. I hope we great an update from this gal
I think she’s great ! Love her personality
Wish we could see what happened with her. . . .
Iris is Drop dead gorgeous I’d take her to Applebee’s and show her how a true Gentleman treats a lady
We need a strong black women like Tod Chrisley to give her an answer, I wish he was on the show at that moment...Steve went blank! Love Chrisley
The one and only way to describe Todd Chrisley
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Steve’s face reaction 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can tell she's in pain. She is fighting to keep from breaking down into tears. Lord have mercy to the man who causes any women that kind of pain, weather it's his fault or not.
she doesn't deserve this treatment from Steve and from the crowd
hosam6xavi steve was in fact wrong for clowning her... the audience should not be laughing at her either... she was really hurt... poor lady!!!
Steve's a comedian hosam. You ask a comedian... he's gonna find what's funny about it. Anyway, laughter is great at stress relief.
@@Dayvit78 True, you can try to justify it for him, but even he realised it was a bad call when he actually looked at her after, then he got serious with her. To be fair, he attempted to make a very awkward story light-hearted but it was a bad call to put her at the butt of the joke. In general, yeah, laughter is great stress relief but you have to be tactful with the timing, direction and theme of the joke if you're trying to successfully ease the tension for a specific individual.
@@juicienyad7582 he saw she was holding back tears and made her laugh. In no way was anyone being clowned
@@maxim_beatbox come on you are lying to yourself, he even accused her of being the crazy one until he noticed how serious the issue is!
I feel for Iris. I really do. I can’t imagine being out in that situation
Her body language and the way she express herself 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I feel for her, you can tell that she was/is very hurt by this whole ordeal. It's nasty to be honest. And despite all the craziness of the situation, she still fine as hell and I like her a lot.
She sound like a nice lady
I admire her. That. That is called QUEEN COMPOSURE
4:39 me when I complete only 5% of my hw
Haha She's fabulous!
The siblings have a Lannister-esque relationship, for sure.
This reminds me of that Friends episode and Joey exclaiming: “They’re BROTHER AND SISTER???”
Awwww I can see her getting a bit emotional 🙁 keep ur self together girl ,God bless u
them facial expressions doe!
uh..... whose sister is doing this? Nah. Ma'am I hope you packed your bags as soon as you got home. That's just.... no. You deserve way better.
After 7 years, I hope she is in a better place now..
I rly want to know where she is now
She’s such a well out spoken & gorgeous woman. I hope she find some peace and a good man who take care of her and her son
Yooooooo when Steve started rolling his neck n moving I lost it 🤣🤣🤣
Can someone say INCEST!!!! Iris I'm surprise you've stayed with him that long, because clearly he will never put you first.....EVA
I don’t think that she’s crazy
She’s just trying to stop herself from crying
Wow she is absolutely adorable !!! She deserves to be treated better than that ! I think she has a LOT of charms. She is feminine, expressive, strong, honest, a beautiful woman !
The way I could hear her tears through her voice is heartbreaking.
She can play cookies sister.
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@@Hervsshe is that you singing??
The moment steve reacted "She Crazy" at 2:23...i lost it 😅😅😅
She broke my heart, hope she’s happy and doing well where ever she is.
God bless u Iris u r very strong women may all ur wishes come true.. 🙏🏻 I can feel you u were almost holding those tears😢 this video almost touched me alot🙏🏻😐
She crazy...to still be with that dude! It's good for siblings to be close, some are very close; but, there IS a line! Seems her dude and his sister crossed that line a long time ago. She already knew that was a deal breaker, but thanks for coming on the show.
Iris, you deserve better. THEY are sick.
I’ve been in a similar situation. I know it’s hard, but you’ve got to love Yourself first. Take little steps to make sure YOU feel appreciated. I hope you’ll stay strong and take care of yourself and your baby boy. ♥️
2:04 He's wrong for that. 😂
i love her tho.. i like how real she was... so different and funny.x
Steve looked scared af at that one point... And I just laughed my ass of!😂
Scared because brother is sleeping with his sister.
I'm sorry, but Steve's face when she talks 🤣🤣🤣😩😩☠☠☠ I'm dead!!! I'm so dead rolling off the bed!! Omg I can't hold it! 🤣🤣🤣😝😝
So on point!!
Girl you crazy!
*Steve’s hair flips 😭☠️😂 got me dead. His sister is wrong though*