Cutting Ties With Your Ex For Good! 👋🏽 II STEVE HARVEY

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  • Letting go of your ex can be challenging, but ‪@SteveHarvey‬ is ready to help these guests move on once and for all! #steveharvey #advice #breakup
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Komentáře • 175

  • @Jimreb80
    @Jimreb80 Před rokem +91

    They are already dating (Benjamin and Trish.) and don't even know it. Bless them.

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 Před rokem +12

      I wonder how this ended up.
      Seems like she's his best choice!

    • @luwamalem9537
      @luwamalem9537 Před rokem +1

      Lool right! 😩😂

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy Před rokem +44

    "Some people don't realize what they've until it's gone, but that does not mean they're supposed to get back again"..

    • @kivemaleonard2757
      @kivemaleonard2757 Před rokem

      Hello how yo doing I'm kivema from Tanzania can you email me plz,I got some thing I need to tell you!?

    • @HarrisonWells-se9fo
      @HarrisonWells-se9fo Před 11 měsíci

      Sometimes getting divorced is not the solution… we just have to live and learn to respect each other ❤❤

    • @MyWayWendy
      @MyWayWendy Před 11 měsíci +1

      This video was more than 3 months ago..

  • @Salibob
    @Salibob Před rokem +84

    The break up. The blessing 😂

  • @TimeWithTea
    @TimeWithTea Před rokem +83

    I love this so much . You can tell she really loves him by the look on her face ❤ so glad Steve saw through them

    • @generosembe6951
      @generosembe6951 Před rokem +5

      Uncle Steve is the best 👌🏿😘

    • @Apocol
      @Apocol Před 13 dny

      Does he love her though ?

  • @markbirchette8740
    @markbirchette8740 Před rokem +108

    I was married 28 years before I filed for divorce. When they don't love you anymore it's over.

  • @Amelia-vr1qe
    @Amelia-vr1qe Před 8 měsíci +16

    We need an update with Benjamin ☺️

  • @Str885
    @Str885 Před rokem +32

    I need an update to see what came of the date.

  • @pattygauvin5479
    @pattygauvin5479 Před rokem +76

    You always tell it like it is Steve keep up with the GREAT WORK

  • @michellehosley6259
    @michellehosley6259 Před rokem +34

    Uncle Steve was nosey asl. Luv it😂😂😂

  • @marciaduncan9040
    @marciaduncan9040 Před rokem +29

    It's the ego. It's that closure he didn't get from the ex going behind his back. Even if she said it was her and not him, it's affected his ego to the point where he needs validation from the one who made him feel inadequate. The contentment comes from within once he truly accepts that he was not the issue and that she just had her own issues.

    • @jonathancasais6491
      @jonathancasais6491 Před rokem +1

      You just perfectly explained why i was out and about so much after my ex cheated i was beyond egotistical. Thank god ive calmed down a lot and hope to continue but thank you for putting my thoughts of why i acted how i did into actual words

    • @JamieModelvsDirector
      @JamieModelvsDirector Před 2 měsíci

      Well said ❤

  • @CcBeautiful94
    @CcBeautiful94 Před rokem +19

    Mm it’s kinda annoying that ppl can’t just accept that a woman and a man are just platonic friends! That would make me so damn uncomfortable.

    • @NBaBall3r26
      @NBaBall3r26 Před rokem +3

      In this situation, they both traveled together and share the room!?! That is definitely more than friends.

    • @CcBeautiful94
      @CcBeautiful94 Před rokem +2

      @@NBaBall3r26 And? Lol I’ve shared a room with my guy friends and we don’t sleep on the same bed. We’re just on vacation. Especially if it’s like a brother figure

    • @angieg38
      @angieg38 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Men think differently about bring just "friends" with females

    • @concernedcitizen4824
      @concernedcitizen4824 Před 3 měsíci

      You single?

  • @colleenoldham1245
    @colleenoldham1245 Před rokem +11

    An x is an x for a reason. Have no desire for ties with mine. He is married again and so am I. The break up is the blessing. Thank you Steve. Lot of lessons learned.

  • @slinkybucks
    @slinkybucks Před rokem +101

    I have more respect for Benjamin than Steve at this moment. Benjamin respects her so much. We need more men like Benjamin in the world.

    • @YourRoyalHighness88
      @YourRoyalHighness88 Před rokem +3

      Maybe they're friends with benefits.

    • @luganoessom1464
      @luganoessom1464 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Are you straight? just curious 🙂

    • @tejanissimo
      @tejanissimo Před 7 měsíci +2

      He was honest though...I have friends..that are just friends.,and the respect is so great we never crossed the line....buy have I thought about it...shiii... I'm thinking about it now

    • @ADayInTheLifeOfJames
      @ADayInTheLifeOfJames Před měsícem

      And that’s why Sims keep on sipping and women will keep on acting up with the attitude you have

    • @everykneeshallbowzao
      @everykneeshallbowzao Před 24 dny

      The truth is, if one of them was married or attached, they couldn’t fly together and stay in the same hotel room just as friends. Perspective is everything people.

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- Před rokem +11

    We need a update on this couple Uncle Steve

  • @denisemcdougal6445
    @denisemcdougal6445 Před rokem +8

    There’s no price tag for peace of mind

  • @madyedzomunyonga2036
    @madyedzomunyonga2036 Před rokem +23

    I visited my male friend, we stayed together for 5 days sleeping in the same room talking laughing and playing music. Nothing nothing happened I trusted him. Until his sudden death 2020 , MHSRIP., he was still my best friend, treated him like a brother.

    • @homonaledi640
      @homonaledi640 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Just because nothing ever happened doesn't mean nothing ever crossed anyone's mind

    • @jojos3338
      @jojos3338 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ❤❤❤... Sorry about your loss.

  • @melissaborges679
    @melissaborges679 Před rokem +25

    You got to love the Steve Harvey Show Lmfao 😂

  • @kimberlybryant3954
    @kimberlybryant3954 Před rokem +21

    Respect is the ultimate goal. Old things are passed always and now it's time to be Majestic and create a new life as a Butterfly. Yes I was a victim of a 28 yr of an unfaithful marriage and now I'm doing what God has me to do... Blessing

  • @lolojen794
    @lolojen794 Před rokem +19

    I Hope Trish and Benjamin have/had a lovely time.
    As for the lady waiting 25 yrs on her husband to pay his $500 dollars half for their divorce is mind boggling. She wasn’t ready for Steve’s straight facts answer

    • @goldentiger4435
      @goldentiger4435 Před 3 měsíci

      maybe she don't want a divorce, and blaming her man for taking this long!

    • @lolojen794
      @lolojen794 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@goldentiger4435 maybe.. ridiculous

    • @goldentiger4435
      @goldentiger4435 Před 3 měsíci

      WOMEN! ☕@@lolojen794

  • @lorisullivan327
    @lorisullivan327 Před rokem +33

    Steve’s got more sense than most! Perceptive as all get out!

  • @sunnymoses1297
    @sunnymoses1297 Před rokem +13

    Uncle Steve is an architect 4real

  • @maureenlaakila3813
    @maureenlaakila3813 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I laughed my heart out🤣. And yes, they're genuinely good people. Hope you have a great life together ❤️ 🙏. Blessings from PNG 😄

  • @jonicandjaden9597
    @jonicandjaden9597 Před rokem +22

    She just needed to set aside 40$ per year for the last 25 years and she would've had enough money for the divorce proceedings!!! Lol!!! 😂😅

  • @chibuzormartin2143
    @chibuzormartin2143 Před rokem +24

    I love you Sir Steve, a fan from Nigeria 🇳🇬 👏👏👏

  • @vickieharper3390
    @vickieharper3390 Před rokem +1

    Yesss!!! Every one has been a blessing for me!

  • @crystallinemaven888
    @crystallinemaven888 Před rokem +11

    😂😂😂🤣 army crawled, Steveeeee

  • @rubybrown3803
    @rubybrown3803 Před rokem +4

    This lady is not interested in getting a divorce. She just wants to be on television.

  • @stimpyfranklin8052
    @stimpyfranklin8052 Před rokem +8

    Good advice, Steve.

  • @lilianwangui1077
    @lilianwangui1077 Před rokem +6

    U don't tie your self to someone who isn't ready to change once you decide to break up with someone let him/her go and move on . Lady should pay the charges for devorce proceedings, and she will be free to love again hoping she isn't the cause for break up this might be extended to the next relationship

  • @tikiyitzhakgreenwald1418
    @tikiyitzhakgreenwald1418 Před 4 měsíci

    Hey Steve!!!
    Just wanted to tell you that you're a great inspiration to me!!! Mostly when I hit rock bottom....
    Thank you!!!
    I really want to come to your show!!!!

  • @janetkirsten6233
    @janetkirsten6233 Před rokem +3

    I don't think this man is comparing. I just think he hasn't unpacked the hurt yet. You can't move on until the hurt is sorted out

  • @ishakeister6725
    @ishakeister6725 Před rokem +5

    Good advice Steven

  • @Trinny256
    @Trinny256 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Sending love ❤ from uganda 🇺🇬 to u uncle Steve and the fans❤❤

  • @tinadbina
    @tinadbina Před rokem +1

    Love me some Steve Harvey😇🙏🏾❤

  • @thetwobrotherskigali389
    @thetwobrotherskigali389 Před rokem +2

    Greeting from New Rochelle NY. USA, From Rwanda Easter Africa. I have a dream to meet Mr Steve you inspire many people !

  • @hamoteinelalelei5152
    @hamoteinelalelei5152 Před rokem

    Omg Steve Harvey’s a trip fr😂😂😂

  • @iliovilma9732
    @iliovilma9732 Před rokem +2

    Steve is the best wingman 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥

  • @brendah4773
    @brendah4773 Před rokem +9

    6:35
    Just pay for the whole thing, girl. Or you gonna be married forever 😩

  • @KrishnaTiwari1437
    @KrishnaTiwari1437 Před rokem +4

    Love u steve ❤❤

  • @generosembe6951
    @generosembe6951 Před rokem +2

    😂😂😂😂😂I love my uncle steve

  • @KINGSU2U
    @KINGSU2U Před rokem +2

    Steve said "oh wow" lol......

  • @ewegladys3024
    @ewegladys3024 Před rokem +4

    Love you Sir Steve 💕💕💕💕

  • @nancyhoward7005
    @nancyhoward7005 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Benjamin and Trish . More please. Follow up

  • @ambertorres4444
    @ambertorres4444 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Steve said "Oh wow" when he heard that he tried to work it out with an ex that was so trifling that she went behind his back on a cruise with another man. He responded like that because typically it's usually women that justify or are foolish enough to tolerate that sort of disrespect and betrayal.

  • @michellehosley6259
    @michellehosley6259 Před rokem +1

    Yep he thought 😂😂😂

  • @krishanimanjula4974
    @krishanimanjula4974 Před rokem +3

    Awesome video.keep up with the great work.bless you.❤💕❤

  • @thaivg4547
    @thaivg4547 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Well they’re great friends now 🤣

  • @utubesue8
    @utubesue8 Před rokem +3

    Benjamin is not into Trish there is no chemistry. The way he introduce her says it all.

  • @marie8300
    @marie8300 Před měsícem

    Steve made that so plain❤

  • @vulsaintwildor7700
    @vulsaintwildor7700 Před 11 měsíci

    I like the way Mr. Steve says I suppose you got a Date with her and be honest.

  • @LucaDinazario
    @LucaDinazario Před rokem +2

    I love that ❤😂🎉😊

  • @meditatetheartandscienceof1841

    My best friend for more than 20 years is s a woman and I love and respect her. I have been with several women and when those relationships gets rocky or fail, my best friend is my counsellor. My best friend is my Oprah. Steve don't get it.🤗

  • @user-lh9fi9jj9z
    @user-lh9fi9jj9z Před 7 měsíci

    Such stop period it 😂 👏🏾

  • @nancyhoward7005
    @nancyhoward7005 Před 4 měsíci

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @louise-qn5yi
    @louise-qn5yi Před 7 měsíci

    I agree

  • @tgreen8946
    @tgreen8946 Před rokem +9

    Steve, I've been seeing my ex of over 15 yrs and he is now married with three kids! I want to move on so bad and find the love of my life and get married one day soon. But I keep messing with my married ex. 😢😢 Help!!! I care about him so much, and can't seem to shake him.

    • @reginalda.bellsr.249
      @reginalda.bellsr.249 Před rokem +6

      “I think you better let it go. Looks like another love TKO”…..🙏🏾💙

    • @tgreen8946
      @tgreen8946 Před rokem

      @@reginalda.bellsr.249 eaiser said then done. I have been trying to let it go for years now. No luck. I even blocked him, deleted him .etc .

    • @mckinleylouis7691
      @mckinleylouis7691 Před rokem +8

      Every time you are with him in that way you are creating soul ties that won't allow you to let go. You are going to have to be honest with yourself and then decide that you deserve MORE! Im almost positive since he knows how you feel, he is using it against you. KNOW YOUR WORTH BABY, AND THAT GOES FOR MEN AND WOMEN

    • @krissmgvlogs
      @krissmgvlogs Před rokem +9

      how can you go from being a girlfriend (or a wife) to the bit on the side. Respect yourself. Love yourself. Free yourself!

    • @imacayebazibwe6412
      @imacayebazibwe6412 Před rokem +5

      Why do you accept being used?

  • @kimberlybryant3954
    @kimberlybryant3954 Před rokem +1

    He doesn't want to let you go. If you really want out PAY FOR IT ALL and enjoy the peace of mind. Trust me... the interest is more than $500 when you're living that freedom life... hallelujah

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 Před rokem +3

    She can file for the divorce she can pay her 1/2 $500. Tell the attorney he will pay his 1/2 $500. They can get this amount from him

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 Před rokem

    Your right Steve she's letting her ex get his way NO she has to turn the tables be firm to put her foot down it's not about her ex

  • @aloneboy8072
    @aloneboy8072 Před rokem

    Hii steve I'm from India 🇮🇳 and i am big fan of you and you are such a gret man

  • @alindabrendah8607
    @alindabrendah8607 Před rokem

    Am looking for a good guy too

  • @NaturalDivineGoddess
    @NaturalDivineGoddess Před rokem +1

    *I wish this message would REACH MY EX!! **#BIBLE* 👌

  • @PhearomGame
    @PhearomGame Před rokem

    Good 😊😊

  • @ashleybruton3599
    @ashleybruton3599 Před rokem

    Yes 👋 ♥ tho

  • @michellehosley6259
    @michellehosley6259 Před rokem +1

    Army crawl 😂😂😂

  • @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995

    I’m in the same situation been separated going on 13 years.

    • @rubybrown3803
      @rubybrown3803 Před rokem +2

      If you wanted to be divorced, you would make it happen.

  • @sofiaisabella3317
    @sofiaisabella3317 Před rokem

    I want an update on Benny and Trish

  • @denisemcdougal6445
    @denisemcdougal6445 Před rokem +4

    Sometimes staying married keeps you from getting hurt

  • @Paula-mr5wf
    @Paula-mr5wf Před 2 měsíci +1

    This woman is still in love with her husband. That why she putting it off

  • @Dimaz42
    @Dimaz42 Před rokem +2

    is it really that cheap to divorce? coz I looked it up and it costs on average $4000 for uncontested divorce, and more than $10,000 with lawyers.. I hope someone could enlighten me here 🤔

  • @carolynlogan8011
    @carolynlogan8011 Před 5 měsíci

    My x and I never got a chance. We were young, he was in the service, lost contact and then he showed back up but I was dating someone. Now 40 years later we have been texting. But he is not interested as far as I can tell even though if asked he denies. But actions speak louder. Now he is making the moves but I am ignoring him. He has already shown me he's really not into me. He hasn't called me and even tells me he has to stop chatting cause he has to call someone. He has not asked me any questions about my life from over the last 40 years etc, it's only me asking him stuff. I wish I could message steve, LOL

  • @yrellim
    @yrellim Před rokem

    When it's over exit them for treble that and pay if they don't the women got it twisted!
    You are worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Peace of mind, sanity ect
    This a grown woman???

  • @terrancehackett4369
    @terrancehackett4369 Před rokem +2

    Real Talk some of the best relationships start from friendship first

  • @hazelanglin5907
    @hazelanglin5907 Před 7 měsíci

    I want to know what happened after the dinner date

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Před 11 měsíci

    4:14 army crawl.

  • @perismukami4962
    @perismukami4962 Před rokem +1

    Hello Steve I have been separated for 27 yrs. I need a God fearing and loving man. I have been searching but in vain. How can you help me? Am 60 yrs old

  • @YourRoyalHighness88
    @YourRoyalHighness88 Před rokem +1

    Bemjamin: They're just friends with benefits.

  • @kerethajackson2435
    @kerethajackson2435 Před rokem +3

    Of course, she's being so so petty , waiting on $500 to be free , SMH

  • @shayshay2068
    @shayshay2068 Před rokem

    Can we get an update on them haha

  • @generosembe6951
    @generosembe6951 Před rokem +1

    Woman you don’t really want to divorce lol! Hell no I’m wait for this long to divorce . No way

  • @treasurearhewoh327
    @treasurearhewoh327 Před 3 měsíci

    Separated for 25 years no divorce? That's not fair

  • @lynettehall4849
    @lynettehall4849 Před rokem +1

    Why would he go to all that trouble to army crawl?Come on Steve .This is grown people stuff.

  • @heartspeaks
    @heartspeaks Před rokem +1

    She can pay for the divorce… or wait it out… if he has been that petty for 25 years and neither one are in a long term relationship… honey you may want to wait it out! 😂 You may end up with some NVM

  • @melissafalconer4079
    @melissafalconer4079 Před 9 měsíci

    @Adam

  • @peekaboots01
    @peekaboots01 Před rokem +2

    He's not attracted to her. Not all men are P hounds like Steve.

  • @hunter2442
    @hunter2442 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Maybe they are not attracted to each other and I think Steve made it awkward between them.

  • @binitapandey5400
    @binitapandey5400 Před 6 měsíci

    😍😍

  • @rahabkamau9352
    @rahabkamau9352 Před rokem +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @digthewarmth
    @digthewarmth Před 5 měsíci

    I would definitely pay the $500 dollars to get a selfish man out of my life. That's a great deal. She must not want to get divorced that badly.

  • @denisemcdougal6445
    @denisemcdougal6445 Před rokem +1

    Steve ain’t right

  • @barbh4148
    @barbh4148 Před rokem +1

    😅😂

  • @reginaward8092
    @reginaward8092 Před rokem

    *A thousand dollars? My son had to pay more than $6K in MA to get a divorce.*

  • @BombshElle_7
    @BombshElle_7 Před 10 měsíci

    Who stays happily separated for TWENTY FIVE YEARS and then gets huffy over a $1000 divorce? Girl, sit down.

  • @fatenibrahim4698
    @fatenibrahim4698 Před rokem

    😂😂😂😂

  • @ScorpioBeauty
    @ScorpioBeauty Před 11 měsíci

    Why didn’t Steve offer to pay for the divorce?

  • @alanamatthews6204
    @alanamatthews6204 Před rokem +2

    Why can’t a man and a woman just be friends?

  • @mickeyyoung472
    @mickeyyoung472 Před 4 měsíci

    Girl pay the other half ($500)

  • @ashleybruton3599
    @ashleybruton3599 Před rokem

    Who cares who wit who bye 👋 now ♥ tho

  • @Ericajohnson-dy4rm
    @Ericajohnson-dy4rm Před 19 dny

    25 year separation neck nawl go to agency that handle divorced for a cheaper price

  • @Bdphonorat
    @Bdphonorat Před rokem +1

    Just pay the $500 and be free