Healing from the Collateral Damage: Sex & Relationships Part II

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  • čas přidán 7. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 51

  • @kingalenart4216
    @kingalenart4216 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Thank you for sharing and being so honest about your healing journey ❤

  • @nataliemiles4430
    @nataliemiles4430 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I feel this. My husband of twenty years is so supportive, but I can’t even think about sex. But he is understanding and forgiving and he reassures me that my lack of libido is temporary. And I know it is. Going from loving makeup and hair and sexually open, now I live in pajamas and no makeup. And sex is more making myself feel it. I know it will come back around. But I feel like half a wife. Happy dating and that one person is out there for you. It may be someone that is familiar with your recovery.

  • @user-lm7hl8zr8q
    @user-lm7hl8zr8q Před 7 měsíci

    God work Angie 💜

  • @shan4145
    @shan4145 Před 7 měsíci

    Angie, I love the photo of you and the Peonies. So gorgeous 🦋

  • @Mythics1
    @Mythics1 Před 21 dnem +1

    You are really brave to me.

  • @courtneyjohnson315
    @courtneyjohnson315 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this. I didn’t date forever and then did and he ran. Broke me down. Struggling with same thoughts on how to explain this and when and with what words. Appreciate the no wrong words for right person quote ❤

  • @idesigncutethings2196
    @idesigncutethings2196 Před 7 měsíci +2

    You're so awesome. Thanks for sharing these very deep things that you are experiencing. You are so down to earth & easy to connect with. I have an "outfit/clothes" idea that I think will look stunning on you. ☺️. We can discuss it on our coaching session next week. ☺️ - Shelly Mayer

    • @paulwalton4980
      @paulwalton4980 Před 7 měsíci +1

      So glad you are doing well. I reckon I have PSSD and have been 4 years now . PSSD is not the best description really , the sexual disfunction is the least important symptom for some of us when it is often accompanied by anhedonia nearly 24/7 for years. There does appear to be a disproportionate number of young people affected though who SD will be more serious. I think there is probably a big overlap with protracted withdrawal and PSSD ?

  • @daninrecovery
    @daninrecovery Před 7 měsíci +1

    I told my girlfriend once I knew she was interested to keep coming around, I didn’t want to lead her on without that kind of information, I didn’t go spill everything, but I gave her a quick rundown. It’s hard for people to understand, though, I don’t think they ever fully do, but you’ll know the people that will try because they won’t run away easily.

  • @b.b.884
    @b.b.884 Před 7 měsíci

    Love this Angie ❤ Thank you! Miss you!

  • @djammer
    @djammer Před 7 měsíci +3

    Good stuff Ange! Do you take requests for interviews? I’d like to request Dr Jenn , Baylissa, Mikhaila Peterson & Coach Powers

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 7 měsíci +3

      Thanks for the requests. I don’t think I want to interview fellow coaches though. They all have their own channels and platforms. One made a video about me I found pretty hurtful so that person won’t be given any airtime from me.

    • @Cymanable
      @Cymanable Před 6 měsíci

      @@AngiePeacockMSW Interviewing Baylissa would be nice

  • @Cymanable
    @Cymanable Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this video. Did you recover from PSSD in a windows and waves pattern?

  • @icecreampaintjob1697
    @icecreampaintjob1697 Před měsícem +3

    Did you have cognitive symptoms like total apathy and anhedonia as well? Like just no feelings at all and absent mindedness?

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před měsícem +2

      Yes I had all that. I felt completely removed from life. No good feelings. No joy or pleasure. For many years. It’s all come back.

    • @icecreampaintjob1697
      @icecreampaintjob1697 Před měsícem

      ​@AngiePeacockMSW that's dope. Was it mainly just time and healthy lifestyle for you? And just trying to re-engage with your emotions?

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před měsícem

      @@icecreampaintjob1697 Yes all of the above, and not being so focused and concerned with every damn sensation in my body. I just slowly got used to suffering as they lessened in intensity and just began my life and brought my symptoms with me.

  • @Benji-gq9gx
    @Benji-gq9gx Před 6 měsíci

    Were you off all drugs before healing from pssd?
    If so how long?
    Thanks for video btw I found it very helpful

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 6 měsíci +4

      yes off all drugs about 6 or 6 1/2 years when it started to come back. I'm 8 years off everything right now.

    • @Benji-gq9gx
      @Benji-gq9gx Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AngiePeacockMSW ah good to know. Good luck on your man hunt. Don't think you'll need any though x

  • @tinoslaponi8514
    @tinoslaponi8514 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I'm sure Angie won't have trouble finding someone to help with that pent-up energy 😉

  • @reneeraw6927
    @reneeraw6927 Před 6 měsíci

    I have a somewhat different question for you. I’m a licensed psychologist, now retired. I’m just starting to taper off 1mg xanax daily that I’ve taken for over 30 years. I have a therapist who is trained in trauma and she’s been helpful. But during our last session via computer, she didn’t seem very understanding about the benzodiazepine situation and she even said, “they have their place” in certain treatment settings such as alcohol detox. I was disappointed because we’ve had a good therapeutic relationship for years. I’d be interested in hearing your feedback on this. Thanks in advance.

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 6 měsíci +1

      the FDA pamphlet for benzos states short term use (think 2-4 weeks). They are very helpful in settings like the dentist, for a colonoscopy, when someone is is agitated and in psychosis and hasn't slept. But beyond that? I think they ruin lives. I watch it every single day. Here's a letter I wrote for therapists: docs.google.com/document/d/1Tlw-xEpRWk_K6177V_A_xnfbUUHq2n_ktdeFr3Un4-s/edit?pli=1

    • @reneeraw6927
      @reneeraw6927 Před 6 měsíci

      @@AngiePeacockMSW Thanks so much, especially for the attached letter for therapists/doctors. I just read it and printed it out.
      So for people who have successfully tapered off of Benzodiazepines; Do we ever allow this into our system again in a situation such as prior to a surgery? Sometimes patients are given things like Ativan prior to/during the anesthesia process. Is this to be avoided once someone has successfully tapered off the benzodiazepines?

  • @christopherp.8868
    @christopherp.8868 Před 6 měsíci +1

    When it comes to PSSD, did you experience genital numbness? Any idea what caused your recovery or was it spontaneous?

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 6 měsíci +3

      Time healed it and staying away from drugs. We have to let our bodies heal from all the medications we took. Yes I had genital numbness for years. It's gone now.

    • @christopherp.8868
      @christopherp.8868 Před 6 měsíci

      @@AngiePeacockMSW thank you so much!

  • @edgargonzalez6173
    @edgargonzalez6173 Před 19 dny

    Hi Angie I saw you in endeavor video about you in the military I’m very sorry about what happened but I hope your doing better are you in the van life i was to two years ago message me

  • @rayanmeftah1
    @rayanmeftah1 Před měsícem

    I don't know how to get out of this permanent curse!?

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před měsícem +1

      It’s not permanent

    • @rayanmeftah1
      @rayanmeftah1 Před měsícem

      @@AngiePeacockMSW What does it mean that many people have not recovered from these damages for decades?!

  • @edgargonzalez6173
    @edgargonzalez6173 Před 19 dny

    But it’s me again hey Angie I’m in my 34 years old inturned in June but speaking of sex my libido has decrease I don’t have a girlfriend but I’ve been bullied in the past so I would like to talk to you

  • @annidee
    @annidee Před 2 měsíci

    You so deserve a really good partner. Maybe pray on it

  • @user-mj9fs4eh1o
    @user-mj9fs4eh1o Před 4 měsíci +1

    Angie this Is witdrawall non pssd

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 4 měsíci

      Hi. I’ve had PSSD for 16 years while on and then later off. Please don’t tell me what I experienced.

    • @user-mj9fs4eh1o
      @user-mj9fs4eh1o Před 4 měsíci

      Ciao Angie, congratulazioni ma io ho perso la sessualità con una sola dose di zoloft! È morta l'eccitazione mentale e fisica da 3 anni! penso sia permanente

    • @user-mj9fs4eh1o
      @user-mj9fs4eh1o Před 4 měsíci

      Mi fa piacere che sei tornata alla normalità ❤❤❤

    • @user-mj9fs4eh1o
      @user-mj9fs4eh1o Před 4 měsíci

      Ma penso che sia permanente!

    • @user-mj9fs4eh1o
      @user-mj9fs4eh1o Před 4 měsíci

      Non parlo inglese, scusami!😅

  • @DeeKay1301
    @DeeKay1301 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Pssd might be something completely different. I am not sure you can make a comparison at all.

    • @AngiePeacockMSW
      @AngiePeacockMSW  Před 7 měsíci +9

      I'm not sure what you mean. My libido was GONE, sensation GONE, orgasm - ZERO. FOR. YEARS.

    • @DeeKay1301
      @DeeKay1301 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@AngiePeacockMSW
      Yeah I totally believe you. I have those problems too, medication unrelated, because of muscle spasms in the pelvic floor. I just think that the mechanism in pssd might be different, even though the symotoms are the same.

    • @Uma921
      @Uma921 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I think she knows what her own experience is.

    • @DeeKay1301
      @DeeKay1301 Před 6 měsíci

      @@Uma921
      Good job! Take a cookie

    • @Uma921
      @Uma921 Před 6 měsíci +4

      I would be offended, but that attempted insult doesn’t even make sense.