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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2019
  • Today I'm sharing how I survived my 1st year of being separated/going through divorce.I hope this is helpful to those of you who might be going through this also!
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  • @OliviaAshrei
    @OliviaAshrei  Před 4 lety +315

    I hope this video is encouraging and/or helpful if you are currently walking through this. We all have our own experiences and I wanted to share mine in the hopes that it helps someone else feel less alone. I still have so much to learn and grow through and I look forward to sharing more of my heart with you all. Thanks for all your support, prayers and words of encouragement for my family over the last year!!

    • @beecos08
      @beecos08 Před 4 lety +5

      Thank you for this.

    • @ngrady2
      @ngrady2 Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you for sharing, blessings to you!

    • @ShonShon-ed5dd
      @ShonShon-ed5dd Před 4 lety +2

      Bless you on your journey!!

    • @Whatthemess
      @Whatthemess Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you

    • @lqmitchell
      @lqmitchell Před 4 lety +2

      You just don’t know how much I appreciate your videos! This has truly blessed me

  • @pearljannah2623
    @pearljannah2623 Před 3 lety +665

    Divorced,no money,no work, struggling with two kids 😭😭😭 pray for me guys

  • @maggie1158
    @maggie1158 Před rokem +176

    I want to tell everyone in this situation, Don't blame yourself for your (ex)/spouse behavior. My husband cheated on me multiple times too. I forgave too much and tolerated it for too long and the lying was just insane. Am glad am not in it anymore because I would have lost my mind. I felt depressed and the thought of hardship but am not gonna give up on myself, I was lucky to meet a woman who helped me building the little finance I could get off from the marriage during separation. Now am a single mom with healthy kids, who are enjoying their best life. I remember my ex husband threatening me that I can never make it without him, it's been 18 months. Am glad to prove him wrong !!!

    • @jaluriaja6294
      @jaluriaja6294 Před rokem +6

      I've been there! The mental torture, anxiety, and depression are brutal. Am happy you are at a better place today, Queen! 🙏🏿❤

    • @steffan683
      @steffan683 Před rokem

      Oh darling I’m so sorry you’re going through this I pray for your peace and ease and anyone going through a difficult time. Am curious to ask what did this woman in question do in particular to help you.

    • @maggie1158
      @maggie1158 Před rokem

      @@jaluriaja6294 thank you

    • @maggie1158
      @maggie1158 Před rokem +1

      @@steffan683 Her name is Ms Loretta Wilkinson, she helped me in earning passive income through her cryptto trading. Truth is then, I couldn't settle for business. I had to quite my job because I was taking off days, the headache was much, sometimes I overthink and didn't notice I was bleeding some of the times. Remembering makes me tear, I felt pain.

    • @gwendolyngwen9065
      @gwendolyngwen9065 Před rokem +2

      In my case I was the one who was left behind and my soon to be ex is happy and in a new relationship already. I could not sleep well for a couple of weeks until I saw a doctor and got pills few days ago. But I am trying to be more compassionate with myself and stop blaming myself for everything. And just today, I decided to start viewing my divorce as a blessing and told God I trust his actions and plans with me. I believe time will show why certain things happen the way they do...

  • @faymoosa5064
    @faymoosa5064 Před 9 měsíci +26

    I am 60yrs old and about to go for a divorce. I put my trust only in God Almighty ❤

  • @Tj-jf9tb
    @Tj-jf9tb Před 4 lety +505

    Going thru a divorce right now and the pain is unbearable.

  • @capricorn11112
    @capricorn11112 Před 4 lety +378

    This is what emotionally healthy looks like. Thank you for being an example

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 4 lety

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @carlwana.b1985
      @carlwana.b1985 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes very emotionally healthy great example

    • @ScaryToRemarry
      @ScaryToRemarry Před 4 lety

      Facts. Getting the proper healing is vital during a time of divorce

    • @PSALMSOFSONGS
      @PSALMSOFSONGS Před 3 lety +3

      This is so goals right now. 🥰
      I can't wait to get to this point.

    • @johnwadie337
      @johnwadie337 Před 2 lety

      Hello pretty lady
      How are you doing today hun
      I guess we can get to know each other better if you don't mind

  • @brittb688
    @brittb688 Před 4 lety +328

    This video has given me insight . Yes this is difficult but I need to strive to take care of MYSELF instead of worrying about who he is talking to or spending time with .

    • @niquabain7071
      @niquabain7071 Před 4 lety

      Amen sister

    • @mailzubairahmad9499
      @mailzubairahmad9499 Před 4 lety

      Hi

    • @happiness504
      @happiness504 Před 3 lety +8

      Omg yes same here
      I say that’s Beyound me
      I need to live my life because I know I was a great wife

    • @johnwadie337
      @johnwadie337 Před 2 lety

      Hello pretty lady
      How are you doing today hun
      I guess we can get to know each other better if you don't mind

    • @janemuller2066
      @janemuller2066 Před 2 lety +13

      @@johnwadie337 this is NOT a dating site. You on the wrong platform brother.

  • @billybungwhole7871
    @billybungwhole7871 Před 2 lety +50

    It’s been 8 months since my divorce and I went to a restaurant by myself for the first time ever. I’m 40. I started to get emotional when the food came for some reason and I had to gather myself. It sucks…

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 Před rokem +2

      I understand I get a bit overwhelmed going out sometimes too.

    • @DriversOfLife
      @DriversOfLife Před 10 měsíci +3

      I been doing this as well and you get used to it.

    • @billybungwhole7871
      @billybungwhole7871 Před 10 měsíci

      @@pocahontas4583 Thank you! I hope you’re doing well.

    • @billybungwhole7871
      @billybungwhole7871 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@DriversOfLife I appreciate you telling me that. It’s good to know that im not the only one.

  • @be_ingtyler7703
    @be_ingtyler7703 Před rokem +45

    I know this video is 3 years old, but I want you to know it is still helping women today. This video has helped me and blessed me so much while I’m navigating this new and difficult season of my life. Thank you ❤

    • @n.snoozzz9377
      @n.snoozzz9377 Před rokem

      Watching now too :)

    • @ruth.k.mbumba8076
      @ruth.k.mbumba8076 Před 4 měsíci +1

      It's sad but yes. I am currently watching it.

    • @golebaonedonaldmoreki6900
      @golebaonedonaldmoreki6900 Před 2 měsíci

      It's not just women it's helping. I am going through similar storm as a Christian man, and i find a lot of what she said very helpful.

  • @stephaniefythm
    @stephaniefythm Před rokem +110

    I went through a lot of financial crisis during my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college.

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 Před rokem

      I'm a single dad. Not quite long I started investing. I'm very curious and need help on how to enhance and increase my returns. Any good investment tips would be appreciated

    • @stephaniefythm
      @stephaniefythm Před rokem

      @@eadad4371 Generally, investing requires higher knowledge. For this reason, It's important to have a solid support structure (financial consultant) to guide you through especially in asset picking. I operate with (Regina Louise Collaro) an investment advisor who partners with a licensed wealth management firm. For the record, the experience has been the best for my finance.She is quite popular for her services so you might have heard of her.
      She made me financially stable investing through her help, now I earn on a monthly basis through her passive income strategy... So I’ll advise you do get a good Investment advisor for yourself.

    • @eadad4371
      @eadad4371 Před rokem

      @@stephaniefythm That’s great , your investment advisor must be really good,I have seen testimonies of people using the help of investment advisors in making them more financial stable. Do you mind sharing more info on this person?

    • @stephaniefythm
      @stephaniefythm Před rokem

      @@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located

    • @emeldcentor1474
      @emeldcentor1474 Před rokem

      @@stephaniefythmAfter I ended marriage last year, I have had the intentions of starting investing. But I always thought it was late and I think I need to stop procrastinating. I will definitely 🔍 Regina Louise Collaro and see what she can advise .Thanks a lot . This was of so much help to me .

  • @bsmith-kf8zd
    @bsmith-kf8zd Před 2 lety +10

    Im seperating from my wife of 8 years. The past 5 months she has ran off on me more times than i can count, and shes admitted to sexually cheating on me. I fought and fought to keep her home, but ive finally given up hope and told her not to come back. We have a 5 year old daughter together. Im in so much pain its crippling. I just pray God strengthen my faith and give me guidance.

  • @djst9792
    @djst9792 Před rokem +11

    “I never wanted this to be my story” can definitely feel that simple statement

    • @djst9792
      @djst9792 Před rokem

      @Trace Adkins peace, thanks …meaning I never seen myself as the “divorce” type …but no ..our separation is for the best for both of us …but again…appreciate that response

  • @loweandtbaby
    @loweandtbaby Před 4 lety +232

    Thank you, I'm going to watch all your videos, I'm going through separation right now, and the pain is unbearable. Trusting God is so hard when you cant see what's ahead.

    • @OliviaAshrei
      @OliviaAshrei  Před 4 lety +27

      I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this pain. Learning to trust God is not easy, but the journey is beautiful. When you have time, meditate on Psalm 23 -it’s been a chapter I’ve clung to in this season. ♥️

    • @vanessalomeli1494
      @vanessalomeli1494 Před 4 lety +19

      Tamara, I know it’s difficult to trust God but be patient with yourself... you’ll get there . This is where we grow stronger in faith , when we don’t know what lies ahead. Think of it this way ... if you had everything under
      Control and you knew what was going to happen then would there really be a need to trust God ? God allows us to take charge of our lives , relationships, jobs etc but when we’ve realized we’ve done everything humanly possible and yet things got out of our control ...then that’s when God steps in and he tells us “ Now let me do this my way “
      Just know that regardless of how hard things are right now, God has good plans for you , and this is just a season of your life...not your final destination. God bless you !

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 4 lety +1

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

    • @carlwana.b1985
      @carlwana.b1985 Před 4 lety +2

      My heart goes out too you❤

    • @frashiermwihaki7453
      @frashiermwihaki7453 Před 4 lety +1

      Tamara listen to pastor Vlad he has powerful message

  • @anitaukagbor6124
    @anitaukagbor6124 Před 4 lety +92

    Always remember to thank God for what you already have for example your kids, parents, friends, job, and so on. When life gives you 100 reasons to cry, give life a thousand reasons to smile. Do have a lovely day.

    • @fernandocabanillas8133
      @fernandocabanillas8133 Před 2 lety +2

      Very easy to say when you have the kids. 9 times out of 10 the men suffer the most because the woman at least has the kids, we are left alone in the dark.

  • @yungmoe0703
    @yungmoe0703 Před 4 lety +115

    I’m going g through this now..... my husband thinks he should get back with me after he gets hisself together! No , once you leave you can’t come back. Go live your life and I will grieve in peace! I’m not an option, nor will I be on the back burner. I’m glad this happened , now I can say I didn’t stay any longer than I should. He wanted to go see what life was without me, bye bye! Divorce party soon

    • @joshuafalade4754
      @joshuafalade4754 Před 4 lety +1

      yungmoe0703 I feel absolute trust shouldn’t be overemphasized in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they have this excessive interest or admiration of themselves and they’re very toxic!. My greatest disappointment was discovering my husband cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned his cellphone and i was able to read all his messages and uncover my husband’s infidelity without having to touch his phone. All i did was share my husband’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to his Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a remote link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him Via Gmail ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call and WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.

    • @dionavaughan3071
      @dionavaughan3071 Před 4 lety +1

      I am casting producer working on a new series looking for married couples in crisis. Would love to speak with you. You can email me directly at dvmankcasting at gmail.com

    • @bartaynoloshicusbeyd8103
      @bartaynoloshicusbeyd8103 Před 3 lety +1

      Wooow intelligent comments how is going on your life known sister

    • @accountcompromised2166
      @accountcompromised2166 Před 3 lety

      💃💃💃💃💃💃💃

    • @teresaadams4420
      @teresaadams4420 Před 3 lety +3

      I had a similar experience.

  • @amadeon827
    @amadeon827 Před 4 lety +124

    Girl you are a God send. I'm 24 and currently going thru the beginning stages of divorce.. He emotionally divorced me before the actual process. I held onto the hope, fraught to the very end, and he still wants it. So I definitely went through the stages of grief.. I was sooooooo depressed and I still have days were I'm hurting but I feel so much better for not running from the pain.
    Thank you sister I will definitely use your videos as a blueprint for healing

    • @amadeon827
      @amadeon827 Před 3 lety

      Yes ma’am

    • @rinchhensherpa6972
      @rinchhensherpa6972 Před 3 lety +2

      Going through this now. Hope you are better now.

    • @moriahmatters4113
      @moriahmatters4113 Před 2 lety

      Going through exactly what you were. Hope all is well

    • @janemuller2066
      @janemuller2066 Před 2 lety

      Guys God understands your pain & suffering thats why His Word warns us that He hates divorce. When you can't see His hand Trust His heart. When jess in the vessel you CAN smile @ the storm 🙌❤💪

    • @okororpraise185
      @okororpraise185 Před 2 lety

      My dear if you seriously want to recover ur relationship / get ex back or a specific person
      Mr williams is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you

  • @irenelafrance
    @irenelafrance Před 4 lety +134

    Thank you so much! This was meant for me to see. I recently separated from my husband of 9 years and we have 2 young children and it's been a real struggle for me very painful. Some days it's a struggle to get out of bed. I pray God to heal my heart everyday

    • @teeepsody4124
      @teeepsody4124 Před 4 lety +2

      I am 3 weeks in

    • @bethsaidabest
      @bethsaidabest Před 3 lety +4

      10 years married almost 3 years separated, we have 3 kids and it's have been hell but I am trusting God.

    • @joyashiya5525
      @joyashiya5525 Před 3 lety

      Sorry about that

    • @johnwadie337
      @johnwadie337 Před 2 lety

      Hello pretty lady
      How are you doing today hun
      I guess we can get to know each other better if you don't mind

    • @fernandocabanillas8133
      @fernandocabanillas8133 Před 2 lety

      @@bethsaidabest how you holding up brother?

  • @colleenpickeral5095
    @colleenpickeral5095 Před rokem +21

    My husband left me about a month and a half ago. I feel like you're speaking directly to me. I'm slowly starting to feel and understand exactly what you're talking about.

  • @soccerlava8
    @soccerlava8 Před 2 lety +8

    I'm going through a divorce and my son passing. It has been so hard. I been 🙏. This year has been so aching. Heart 💔. Thankyou for sharing your story.

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      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

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      @ameliajones8727 Před 2 lety

      Message him on Whatsapp

  • @yessimora2200
    @yessimora2200 Před 4 lety +80

    Going through this right now. Married 6 years together 10 years and two small children. The hardest thing ever, but with god all things are possible. #sohard

    • @Tesparza19
      @Tesparza19 Před 2 lety +1

      If you don’t mind me asking how are you doing a year later? What’s the experience been like? What are your biggest takeaways thus far?

    • @shedrachomon7192
      @shedrachomon7192 Před 2 lety

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      @shedrachomon7192 Před 2 lety

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    • @yessimora2200
      @yessimora2200 Před 2 lety +1

      With GOD

  • @zalonscott7033
    @zalonscott7033 Před rokem +8

    I been Divorced almost a year I lost almost everything when she left but God keep me through it in 2022 I’m getting better by the day

  • @HP-yx1ny
    @HP-yx1ny Před 4 lety +63

    Ive been dealing with the fact that my husband wants a divorce for the last two days. I feel so broken and i feel like it’s going to take a long time for me to heal. I didnt want to let him go. Im watching divorce videos to help me feel like im not alone. Thank you for making this video

    • @joshuafalade4754
      @joshuafalade4754 Před 4 lety

      NokiePokie I feel absolute trust shouldn’t be overemphasized in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they’re toxic!. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call and WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.

    • @HP-yx1ny
      @HP-yx1ny Před 4 lety

      James Cole it’s bad when you dont trust them so much that you accuse them constantly. My husband isnt a narcissist

    • @celestinebowman5887
      @celestinebowman5887 Před 4 lety +2

      It something in the water that is making this men think that divorce is the only option.

    • @HP-yx1ny
      @HP-yx1ny Před 3 lety

      @@brandon556 doing pretty good! How are you?

    • @goodnessgaladima5190
      @goodnessgaladima5190 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
      *I know of a spiritual man that can help you☺️*

  • @tiffanyaldridge7380
    @tiffanyaldridge7380 Před 4 lety +12

    I wish I had seen this when I was going through a divorce. I tried to plead with him on why she should stay together instead of just trusting God. Now I am so closer to God and although it’s painful I am starting to work on myself.

  • @crisy_5979
    @crisy_5979 Před 11 měsíci +7

    Wow! The visual image of you and your children under God’s protection and shelter hit me! Thank you for being real and honest.
    After 24 years of marriage my husband has left our home.
    He is my best friend and I can’t see myself without him. Its so hard to function now 3 months separated.
    I wont give up on him until he gives me a reason to. I will be in the sidelines praying and fighting for our marriage and future generations.

  • @gonurseyourself__
    @gonurseyourself__ Před 4 lety +3

    you are an absolute Godsend 🌟 I love what you said that your feelings of insecurity had nothing to do with him, they were triggering old inner feelings/hurts

  • @Itsmeehhhhh
    @Itsmeehhhhh Před 5 měsíci +2

    “You take you wherever you go….so let yourself feel the pain..and deal with it.” Greatest quote I’ve ever heard.

  • @moneytalkswithjonathanthom4150

    Great video and it struck a cord with many...
    Joy comes in the morning! Keep going!

  • @HARMONIZETHEWORLDBootcamp
    @HARMONIZETHEWORLDBootcamp Před měsícem +2

    I've been on this divorce journey a while. I resonate with your journey. I'm praying God's continuing blessings on your life ...

  • @teemiller7499
    @teemiller7499 Před 2 lety +1

    Amen about talking to those who wouldn’t pick a side, people who wanted both of you to win. I wish a lot of us could understand how important that is. Ty for sharing this was so helpful 🥰

  • @natural4203
    @natural4203 Před 4 lety +95

    Girl you are gorgeous and came through that storm flawlessly 💕💕

    • @OliviaAshrei
      @OliviaAshrei  Před 4 lety +5

      Thank you beautiful ♥️♥️

    • @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844
      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 4 lety

      Smartness is important in a relationship and cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone and I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share my husband’s phone number with cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone without having to touch his phone. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m here in UK and able to access my husband’s phone messages with a link on my phone even while he was away in Canada cheating on me. I got to discover that my husband who is legally married to me here in UK is also recently married to another woman in Canada and I’m finally going through a divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his Whatsapp, Facebook,Skype,Instagram and Snapchat messages Including the deleted text and recent messages. You can contact this great Hacker Gavin via Gmail (cyberhackinggenius) or text and speak to him directly on his phone and WhatsApp : +19256795146 and don’t forget to thank me later.

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      @hazminzayyad1768 Před 2 lety

      Hello friend, I can connect you to the powerful love specialist that helped me get my husband back after divorce, he can also help you

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      @hazminzayyad1768 Před 2 lety

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  • @leedq3329
    @leedq3329 Před 4 lety +21

    I’ve just found your videos and making my way through them. I hope they keep coming- I’m so devastated during this time and I feel like the grief will never end! No one seems to understand my pain and I keep being told to just move on. I pray God helps us all through this horrible time & has some restoration coming our way 🙏🏻

  • @aoconnor2933
    @aoconnor2933 Před 2 lety +1

    Currently just beginning this process of divorce and I genuinely appreciate your video. Best of luck as you continue to grow and move forward.
    Thank you for your desire to help others.

  • @kimberlysanaa25
    @kimberlysanaa25 Před 4 měsíci

    This is God sent. Thank you for being honest, vulnerable and open to sharing your story and journey. This has been a huge help. Thank you

  • @latoriarush2524
    @latoriarush2524 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you! I agree with EVERYTHING you said because I'm going through this now. None of my friends are going through this. So I feel like you're the friend I need but never met. God bless you!

    • @dionavaughan3071
      @dionavaughan3071 Před 4 lety

      I am casting producer working on a new series looking for married couples in crisis. Would love to speak with you. You can email me directly at dvmankcasting at gmail.com

  • @taniafino3393
    @taniafino3393 Před rokem +3

    I’ve listened to this video every time I’ve had a breakdown and your words help me focus back on God, my kids and myself. Each time I arise from a breakdown stronger than before. My advice for everyone going through this is to take your time healing will come with Time be gentle to yourself

  • @Mariana05167
    @Mariana05167 Před 10 měsíci

    Im so happy i finally found a channel on this topic from a godly perspective!! Thank you!

  • @davidmossholder3610
    @davidmossholder3610 Před 2 lety

    This is so real and so good. Thank you!!!
    “Steadfast & immovable.” ❤️

  • @janellcampbell2975
    @janellcampbell2975 Před 4 lety +53

    So helpful!! I’m literally 22 going through a divorce! You have no idea how much this video means to me!

    • @bellemarcellano235
      @bellemarcellano235 Před 4 lety +21

      I'm also 22 and going through a divorce. It's been tough but we can get through this ❤️ we're still young and better things are coming. Stay positive 🙏

    • @richardbradshaw7830
      @richardbradshaw7830 Před 2 lety

      I'm so sorry about that okay. You know at times loosing a spouse one has spent so many years with for some important reasons can be so painful. But that's not the end of the world! Cos something's must go for we to get a better one. And what matters is one's happiness. It's a foolish decision to be with someone that doesn't guarantee your happiness.

  • @passion4fashion672
    @passion4fashion672 Před 4 lety +4

    THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! You are definitely an inspiration and proof that you control your destiny. I'm a new subscriber and you have really helped me with direction through my situation!

  • @lelibelashabakabel8035
    @lelibelashabakabel8035 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for making this video,I'm crying and my mind is running 6 days from now I'll be 50,been married for 24 years and now it's over,I'm really hurting but your voice is soothing very soothing thank you.

  • @TheNicoleDream77
    @TheNicoleDream77 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m so glad you share❤️ I so needed this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰

  • @040103maria
    @040103maria Před 4 lety +5

    Such amazing video. I really do appreciate the tip on who you let on your circle. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @robinspeaks7
    @robinspeaks7 Před 4 lety +1

    What a difference a year makes. May God CONTINUE to keep you close & bless you💖💕💅🏾🙏🏽

  • @stacysmith2874
    @stacysmith2874 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. You spoke to my soul on and reinforced that I need to focus on the blessings of my marriage ending. I needed to hear everything you said.

  • @kgg248
    @kgg248 Před 4 lety +27

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey. My husband of 6 years packed all his things and left today. It’s been a roller coaster ride for of emotions today. I’ve cried hard, grieved, felt lost, abandoned, guilty, hated. At one point I felt like fainting from the shock. I knew deep down our relationship was destined for divorce so it didn’t come completely as a shock but I was very shocked coming home to an empty house. My heart is so heavy right now. My heart aches for my dog too because every car she hears outside she subtly wags her tail thinking it’s dad. I feel guilty that she will have to go through a grieving process because she loves my husband so much.
    It’s so hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel to be honest. This is the most painful thing I’ve ever felt. But I have this overwhelming sense of just letting go. I’m so terribly heartbroken. What makes this harder is that we were planning on starting a family this year.
    My head hurts, my heart hurts, every hurts. I saw your video and it gave me hope. I really want to avoid letting this situation lead me to suicidal thoughts or depression so I think I’m going to start going to call counseling.
    Again, thank you for sharing your journey. It’s just the kind of positivity I needed to hear.

    • @joshuafalade4754
      @joshuafalade4754 Před 4 lety

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  • @bosslady667
    @bosslady667 Před 4 lety +38

    I just experienced a break up from a two year relationship. Where I lost my identity to this person. I pray that I can be healthy mentally for myself and my daughter. I'm thankful that this video has crossed my path very helpful.

    • @godwinn9860
      @godwinn9860 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here. It's been a week

    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

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      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
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  • @mayramartinez892
    @mayramartinez892 Před rokem

    Thank you so much. I'm just walking through this and I really needed to hear strength from someone who thinks similar to the way I do. And especially with God as a foundation ❤❤

  • @patricehart633
    @patricehart633 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for being transparent. This is helping me as I am going thru a divorce myself. God has saved me from destruction and I just need to rely on him for all my strength and guidance.

    • @jessegadzama9486
      @jessegadzama9486 Před 2 lety

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @aliviyha18
    @aliviyha18 Před rokem +23

    Thank you Oliva, I needed this…I’m now going through this it’s very sad and I’m carrying our 2nd child.

    • @thetarotpriest4L
      @thetarotpriest4L Před rokem

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  • @tmr5974
    @tmr5974 Před 3 lety +36

    This is literally the process I am going through now. This is just confirmation I am on the right track and there is hope that I will get through this grieving phase. Thank you for sharing.

  • @nikytamay8282
    @nikytamay8282 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for your honesty and your heart. Needed this today.

  • @suzannechurch4771
    @suzannechurch4771 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for your wisdom and support for people going through this.

  • @BrooklynBrooklyn-ke2qx
    @BrooklynBrooklyn-ke2qx Před 4 lety +96

    I thank you my sister for sharing your experience it has helped me. Ironically I'm a male going through the same thing but most advice I get as a male is to just move on because you are a man. Tough it out. But although a strong individual your message was needed for me to hear. Thanks again as I take it day by day from a loving Dad if 2 boys

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      @emokiriemiabednegoabed2844 Před 4 lety

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    • @carlwana.b1985
      @carlwana.b1985 Před 4 lety +2

      Great comment at the end of the day its your situation and the ones pushing you to move on arent the ones that have to live your life. So choose wisely king and just know that you got this!

    • @Bruh_D89113
      @Bruh_D89113 Před 4 lety +3

      I’m going through this too bro

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Před 4 lety +2

      Wow. It's so great that you're admitting that it's more than just moving on with your life and it's nice for us women to remember that men go through emotions too maybe not in the same sequence as women but they do. Thank you

    • @teemiller7499
      @teemiller7499 Před 2 lety

      It’s refreshing to here a male side of view on this matter and to know you too go through the pain. I wish none of us have to but that’s life thank you as well for sharing

  • @someonesmommy1
    @someonesmommy1 Před 4 lety +12

    You have inspired me to stay "above" the pain going through my own divorce. It hasn't always been easy. Thank you
    mickey c.

    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
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  • @queenpisces9080
    @queenpisces9080 Před 4 lety +2

    I was randomly strolling on here and came across one of your videos and I am actually glad I discovered you ; you have gained a subscriber , as a young lady I can use the advice you give 👍🏽💯

  • @SunshinesSoapbox
    @SunshinesSoapbox Před 4 lety +2

    I needed this today! Thank you so much!!!❤️

  • @ScaryToRemarry
    @ScaryToRemarry Před 4 lety +52

    I’ve been through a divorce. It’s something we don’t talk about enough (especially in the Black community). God helped me see ME while going through my divorce. I’ve grown so much since then

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  • @kamaraimani266
    @kamaraimani266 Před 4 lety +45

    Hey girl Hey! As i've commented before we separated around the same time. June 26 God restored my marriage after 20 days shy of a year! To God be the glory! I pray restoration and reconciliation on your home sis! You helped me sooooo much! Your videos gave me a voice when i was around people who just didnt get it! I'm so grateful to you and your transparency sis! may you be blessed abundantly for your selflessness!

    • @BrooklynBrooklyn-ke2qx
      @BrooklynBrooklyn-ke2qx Před 4 lety +11

      Good to hear that your marriage has been restored. God bless. As a male I'm going through the same thing now and I'm looking for some hope to restore mine, so when I hear your story it gives me hope.

    • @OliviaAshrei
      @OliviaAshrei  Před 4 lety +2

      I’m so happy to hear that!! Thank you for coming back and sharing that with me♥️

    • @Alicia_W413
      @Alicia_W413 Před 4 lety

      Amen!

    • @gafarigafari4235
      @gafarigafari4235 Před 3 lety

      Hy i am 35 age man want marriege

    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
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  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much. My divorce is almost final…..and it has been sooooooo rough. Thank you for the reminders about how we need to stay connected with God so we can hear her and follow. I’m gonna look at recent content to see how you’re doing

  • @egillogly1
    @egillogly1 Před rokem

    Just come across this video. Thank you so much for your honesty and bravery to share all you did here. Very encouraging!!

  • @pilar8ful
    @pilar8ful Před 4 lety +4

    You are truly an inspiration. Thank you.

  • @nakeshaj
    @nakeshaj Před 4 lety +5

    I know you are aware of the help and positive effect you are having on us in these times of spiritual battle. Thank you so much for your steadfastness and obedience in your personal battle.

  • @simiculebra
    @simiculebra Před 4 lety

    Thank you for this! In 5 days it will be the first year of my divorce and all you spoke in this video resonate with me. Thank you! It's a breath of fresh air to know there are people with a like mind and conviction.

    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
      *I know of a spiritual man that can help you☺️*

  • @MsSgregor
    @MsSgregor Před 4 lety

    Beautiful inside and out! Thank you for making this video!

  • @JH-zi9jh
    @JH-zi9jh Před 4 lety +12

    You talking about your situation was very moving and calmed me to know that what im currently feeling and going through is ok and that i can and will improve myself through God. Thank you and God bless

  • @TheGlossyLife222
    @TheGlossyLife222 Před 4 lety +8

    Thanks for always being transparent and sharing the good news which is Jesus Christ. It’s always a pleasure seeing you on my timeline. May God continue to bless and direct your path. 💜💞

  • @willkoeppel
    @willkoeppel Před 2 lety +1

    Beautifully laid out and honest. One must speak from the heart in order to touch the heart…Your video has Accomplished this… Thank you.

    • @buharibmansurkt17
      @buharibmansurkt17 Před 2 lety

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      @buharibmansurkt17 Před 2 lety

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  • @traykin123.
    @traykin123. Před rokem +1

    I've been praying to God for a sign. I'm going through a similar situation with my kids father. He left me after asking me to have another child. I was finding it hard to extend grace and forgive. Usually I'm the opposite. I felt so hurt. I've been praying for a sign on which path to take. Be bitter mean, seek revenge or follow what God tells me to do. You just confirm which on I have to do. Although my pride and ego wants me to do the opposite. To be frank, I was watching your passion twist video and ended up here. I'm thankful I found this video. Thank you

  • @cheriseliesdek5166
    @cheriseliesdek5166 Před 4 lety +21

    You're such an inspiration. Also, going through a separation. There's good days and bad days. Focusing on my children, my faith and bettering myself. I know this pain shall pass and there will be better days to come.
    Keep the inspirational videos and vlogs coming.

  • @ThisSouthernGirlCooks
    @ThisSouthernGirlCooks Před 3 lety +8

    You are such a beautiful soul...so inspirational. God bless you and your family.

    • @ntsakomavunda9018
      @ntsakomavunda9018 Před 2 lety

      So so true, more grace to her ...amazing soul. Thanks sisi for sharing!

  • @carlwana.b1985
    @carlwana.b1985 Před 4 lety +2

    LOVE YOUR VIDEO!❤❤ Your speaking straight FACTS! Im coming up on a year since my marriage ended and I can relate to EVERYTHING you side. Great video keep them coming 😊😊

  • @Brien117
    @Brien117 Před 2 lety +2

    I tapped into your channel and stumbled across this and I'm a man and I feel ALL of your pain. We've JUST gotten married last July and this coming July would've been our first year of marriage. My emotions, my rough past, my anger (granted it wasn't a abusive or violent marriage) and my PRIDE really took a toll in my marriage. And it's now done. Along with her insecurities, lack of love and love for herself really mixed into what I was going through. I wasn't happy myself with the relationship in general. I TOO am a son of GOD and Now Is my time to really dig deep and find myself, and reanalyze myself again. I LOVE your segment on this. Stay BLESSED and I WILL subscribe to your channel. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 #salutefromOhio

  • @keyannawest1347
    @keyannawest1347 Před 4 lety +8

    I needed this ❤️

    • @dionavaughan3071
      @dionavaughan3071 Před 4 lety

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  • @shaneeraparker5866
    @shaneeraparker5866 Před 4 lety +8

    I think this is helpful. I’m not divorced or married but I think the video is helpful even for me to remind me to be anchored in the Lord. Thanks sis

  • @Thehumansmilyface
    @Thehumansmilyface Před 3 měsíci

    I cannot emphasize truly how much this video means to me. Thank you first of all for being so vulnerable to share such a personal story to help help your other sisters in Christ in this painful journey. My divorce has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever been through in my life and to have someone take the time to help me to think about it all and who I want to be and go about this marriage ending means so very much to me. I want to say it’s so beautiful. You had the strength to not try to force him to stay because it’s such a temptation to try to get them to stay and it’s beyond painful to be ripped apart someone you became one with. This video has been one of the greatest things that has helped me in this journey. Praying and answered prayers, The Lord giving me strength to keep going. Is Ben there greatest medicine for me, I am healing. Thankyou so very much again, this means so much. ❤

  • @crystaljukewilliams3238
    @crystaljukewilliams3238 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing! Your testimony has really been a blessing to me on today!

    • @jessegadzama9486
      @jessegadzama9486 Před 2 lety

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

  • @CobraDove1111
    @CobraDove1111 Před 4 lety +6

    You are very wise beyond your years....and beautiful too, I might add

  • @Myahjadeforever
    @Myahjadeforever Před 4 lety +42

    This is EXACTLY what I’m going through!!! Thank you so much for sharing this 💕 such a blessing for me to hear that I’m not alone in my journey!

    • @StevenGregoryJayy
      @StevenGregoryJayy Před 4 lety

      Same! How are you doing?

    • @dionavaughan3071
      @dionavaughan3071 Před 4 lety

      Myah - I am casting producer working on a new series looking for married couples in crisis. Would love to speak with you. You can email me directly at dvmankcasting@gmail.com

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  • @indyd9322
    @indyd9322 Před rokem

    Wow, this is incredibly helpful. Pearls of wisdom!

  • @ritamaetolentino7540
    @ritamaetolentino7540 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this video. Going through this and there are so many days that I just cry.

  • @amilcarojeda712
    @amilcarojeda712 Před 4 lety +3

    thank you for reminding me how strong I've been . I feel like I'm on the same path as you are. you're right... we have to build up a faith and stay strong in faith. ive been going through .the same as you have for .the past year and have been doing a lot of research on self healing . reading books on self improvement helps lot and keeping the faith that it will work out fine in the end no matter the outcome. thank you.

    • @joshuafalade4754
      @joshuafalade4754 Před 4 lety

      Amilcar Ojeda I feel absolute trust shouldn’t be overemphasized in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist shouldn’t be trusted, they’re toxic!. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact him ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call and WhatsApp him on +15713758467. Thank me later.

  • @lisaibata6366
    @lisaibata6366 Před 4 lety +6

    You have summed up everything a woman feels, thanks for sharing, forgiveness and growing as a person is of upmost importance

  • @Liz-id7hd
    @Liz-id7hd Před 2 lety

    Thank you for making this video. I'm going through this right now and I really need this.

  • @rebelwithahaloxx1002
    @rebelwithahaloxx1002 Před 2 měsíci

    You're such a wise person and so intentional. You're very blessed ❤

  • @cynthiafedrigon179
    @cynthiafedrigon179 Před 2 lety +4

    You’re an AMAZING example!!! Thank you so much. I truly needed this right now! May God bless you for being so brave!

  • @KeysBeMe
    @KeysBeMe Před 4 lety +4

    You are a blessing...and not just to woman. Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent and allowing God to use you so that we, who share a similar journey can also grow with God and see what pain and heartache often prevents us from seeing while going through the storm. To Him who sits on the throne, be Glory, Power, Dominion and Majesty forever and ever, Amen!

  • @tammymarbury5199
    @tammymarbury5199 Před 4 lety +1

    she is awesome this is what getting through no matter what looks like

  • @ange.7804
    @ange.7804 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for giving me hope. I'm currently going through divorce in my 20s and you've given me strength to move forward and love myself.

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      @buharibmansurkt17 Před 2 lety

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      @buharibmansurkt17 Před 2 lety

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  • @lillianpitts9853
    @lillianpitts9853 Před 4 lety +3

    I'm hurting I needed this

  • @theonlyheavennn
    @theonlyheavennn Před 4 lety +34

    I’m in a process where i want to be numb.... & i feel like he’s living his life .... thank you for this video ❤️

    • @Nico5890
      @Nico5890 Před 2 lety

      Love you sis. How are you holding up?

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      @Nico5890 Před 2 lety

      @Owoicho Gabriel ohhh I see. you're preying on broken-hearted people for cash. go away creep

  • @diamondthehygenic1093
    @diamondthehygenic1093 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing and helping others it hurt so bad leaving a person you truly love

  • @amandabee3385
    @amandabee3385 Před 3 lety +1

    This really helped me, thank you so much.
    Great advice❤️

  • @fatimafisher
    @fatimafisher Před 4 lety +18

    Thank you so much for being so vulnerable over the last year, you have helped me through my own separation which I am still dealing with and trying to work through. I've barely done any work on myself so I am inspired to really take the time to focus on myself and getting closer to God. I have no idea where to start, everything feels so overwhelming but I know the first step is to pray. Thank you!! Xo

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      @gafarigafari4235 Před 3 lety

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    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
      *I know of a spiritual man that can help you☺️*

  • @davidfrey5654
    @davidfrey5654 Před 2 lety +21

    Olivia, this was so helpful. My biggest takeaway was learning how to define who you are and who you want to be. Here is a list I wrote out as I listened to you. These are attributes I want to have. And I really like that you added the second part. The part where you allow the other person(s) to be who they want to be, even if it is the exact opposite of who you want to be. Here's my list. Thank you!
    I am someone who forgives, even when the other person hasn't apologized.
    I am someone who extends the olive branch of peace, even when the other person wants war and revenge.
    I am someone who cares about other people, even if other people don't care about me.
    I am someone who keep his composure and speaks calmly, even if the other person is angry and shouting.
    I am someone who is fair and equitable, even if the other person wants to take advantage of me unfairly.
    I am someone who doesn't hold grudges, even if other other person constantly brings up old wounds.
    I am someone who is flexible, even if the other person doesn't allow me an inch of leeway.
    I am someone who apologies for his mistakes, even if the other person never admits the wrongs they've committed.
    I am someone who admits his flaws, even if the other person thinks they are superior and never wrong.
    I am someone who empathizes with others feelings, even if the other person couldn't care less about my feelings.
    I am someone who doesn't get their feelings hurt, even if the other person gets triggered by insignificant things.
    I am someone who shares his feelings, even if the other person never opens up about anything.
    I am someone who lovingly asks for what he wants, even if the other person just criticizes and complains.
    I am someone who listens calmly and patiently, even if the other person cuts me off and doesn't allow me to talk.
    I am someone who tries to give the benefit of the doubt, even if the other person constantly points out my faults.
    I am someone who is always trying to learn and grow, even if the other person refuses to do any personal learning.
    I am someone who lets little things go, even if they other person nitpicks me for everything.
    I am someone who tries to accept other people's differences, even if the other person call out who I'm wrong and they're right.
    I am someone who is open to trying new things, even if other people always want to do the same thing over and over.
    I am someone who pursues spirituality, even if other people think it's silly.
    I am someone who is thrifty and careful with their money, even if other people like to spend wildly.
    I am someone who loves, despite whether or not the love is being reciprocated.

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      @beckyanna7287 Před 2 lety

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    • @PEn-le9ji
      @PEn-le9ji Před 2 lety

      This will help many to seek God's Devine intervention.
      Great video. Thanks for sharing.

  • @nicolleeooo
    @nicolleeooo Před 2 lety

    Thank you so so much for sharing! God definitely helped me to find your channel. Your words are exactly what I'm going through 💕 God bless!

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  • @smdoran86
    @smdoran86 Před 4 lety +6

    I am starting this process now, and I so appreciate this video. It is truly an answered prayer.

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  • @renee2105
    @renee2105 Před 2 lety +3

    omg beautiful lady, i am just stumbling on ur channel and u have NO idea how much HEALING God just brought my heart thru this video!! im only 8mins in & im bawling. God just touched me with ur words. Thank u for making this!! I am SO encouraged to see another Christian going thru the same thing I am going thru...God BLESS YOU for sharing ur journey, cant wait to watch when this video is over. :)

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      @rosnijonahs868 Před 2 lety

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      @rosnijonahs868 Před 2 lety

      Message him on Whatsapp

    • @renee2105
      @renee2105 Před 2 lety

      @@rosnijonahs868 I have Jesus. I'm good.

    • @hemantchaudhary3773
      @hemantchaudhary3773 Před 2 lety

      @@renee2105 i want marry with divorced woman .i want only true love . divorced no matter

    • @ukejeatim9865
      @ukejeatim9865 Před 2 lety

      *hello friend i feel your pains 😥😥😥*
      *do you want to free from this struggle that you are right now*
      *I know of a spiritual man that can help you☺️*

  • @jacquelinepureromance8375

    Another video that hit the nail right on the head! Would you please talk about managing finances while separated? You’re not actually divorced, so the financial obligations are still both parties, but they may not be handled that way.

  • @sjwjsw2658
    @sjwjsw2658 Před 2 lety +1

    Olivia, here I am just 6 weeks into my husband suddenly leaving me, after 27 years of marriag. I decided to lift my crying head tonight from my pillow and look for hope. Your video speaks volumes to me! Thank you thank you for sharing your story. I’m praying that God gives me strength to get up each day and try to move forward and be the woman that He made me to be. ♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Julie W