PARIS HILTON ON: Overcoming Abuse, Toxic Fame & Finding REAL LOVE | Jay Shetty
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Today, I sit down with the one and only Paris Hilton to talk about past trauma and healing. Paris opens up about her life as a teen where she dealt with abusive adults without asking for help, living in shame and trauma, being portrayed as someone who is completely the opposite of who she really is, and finally finding the support system that she needed to find healing and create a safe space where she can be her true self.
Pari Hilton is a CEO, New York Times bestselling author, philanthropist, DJ, designer, recording artist, actress, host, model, and influencer Paris has defined and dominated pop culture commanding her position as one of the most recognizable faces on the planet. She has masterfully harnessed her self-made spotlight to architect a thriving entertainment and consumer products empire which spans an impressive range of businesses and verticals, including tv, film, audio, music, publishing, licensing, consumer products, brand partnerships, and so many more.
In 2006, she created Paris Hilton Entertainment, a multi-billion dollar company consisting of 45 branded stores, 19 product lines, and 29 fragrances that has amassed over 4 billion in revenue. In 2001, Variety declared Paris as a billion dollar entrepreneur in recognition of her successful business and global brand.
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
05:19 Trusting people too much can sometimes negatively impact us
07:48 Paris explains how fame and money can drastically change people
09:52 Opening up about your struggles and abuse is difficult but somehow rewarding
13:27 Holding on to uncomfortable things and finding the courage to talk about it
16:09 “The shame shouldn’t be on you, but on the person that hurt you.”
19:39 Children are so often scared to tell their parents about their struggles and they tend to keep it to themselves
21:52 How does Paris view her grandma and what role she played in her life
24:10 When everyone is telling you that you’re broken and you need to be fixed
26:59 Turning your supposed ‘incapability’ into your own super power
30:01 Paris recalls how she was abused and how she tried to hide it because of shame
34:58 Finally getting the understanding you deserve for going through so much suffering as a child
38:44 Getting women support from other women as a celebrity
42:38 Pushing for a change in schools where abuse are happening
44:47 It’s helpful to know that you have friend who listens to you and you have a safe space where you can feel at ease
47:00 Finding it difficult to deeply connect with someone because of fear and past trauma
52:54 Finding genuine love and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and intimate with another person
55:57 Why living a very public life made Paris more protective of her own family
01:01:59 Parenthood can completely change you and make you understand your parents better
01:04:23 Does money truly translate to having complete freedom
01:05:24 Believe in manifesting who you truly want to become and it shall happen
01:09:06 Going through a painful moment and finding the courage to be brave enough to take control of your life
01:13:18 Paris on Final Five
Regardless if her parents had good intentions, they can say sorry. They can say sorry that she went through that. Sorry they let themselves be manipulated. Sorry they threw in the towel. Sorry they gave up on her. Part of being a good parent is apologizing to your kids when you make mistakes. Regardless of your intentions.
I wish my parents would apologize to me, but apologies come with changing your behavior, and THAT they have a problem with.
Sadly it doesn't seem like they ever have told her they are sorry. 😞
As a survivor of the Troubled Teen Industry, our parents were lied to as much as we were. My mom was dying from brain cancer when I went away. My dad dropped me off at the school and they looked him in the eye, shook his hand, and promised that they would help me. I will never be the same person that I was the day he dropped me off, but it is because these people are promising scared parents that they will help their children. The blame needs to be on the industry. They need to do better.
Exactly. Heck the first thing I wrote Paris on her channel was that I was sorry! And I hadn't done anything to her, other than collectively judge her I guess, based on her cultivated image.
So many lessons learned, the one that resonates with me the most is: " guilt is for the offender, NOT the victim!"
Thanks to you both for creating this podcast.
so true
Paris Hilton is a powerful advocate. She thinks her experiences were dark, and should be hidden - but no. She is like a light that shines into dark places to expose and remove problems!
She is - i have been a fan of her personality for years , not soo much her looks, or her products , but her music and her business sense and being standing on her own feet --- her confidence & creativity --- not so much of that of Nikki, her sister....
So beautifully said ❤
God chose her & she’s using her fame to make a difference for the better. She let her friends get ahead in the industry by putting her popularity at bay so she can make sense of her experiences. That’s honorable
I don’t think she thinks her experiences should be hidden otherwise she wouldn’t have released a book and wouldn’t be doing multiple interviews talking about it all
WTH 😂
Paris is KILLING it rn - mom - wife - bad ass - business aficionado - genius - advocate - DJ - and Americas Sweetheart. She is an ICON and the nicest person you could probably ever meet. I’ll always have a spot in my heart for Paris Hilton
She's gonna be president one day!
The reason women/girls especially in the 90’s didn’t come out is we were blamed. Our clothes were too revealing. We were drinking. We were “asking for it”… and if we weren’t blamed… we still had to, “prove it”… that in itself is traumatic
Yes, exactly. Thank you for sharing. 💜🕊
Paris is no victim smh get real
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How brave that she came out with that personal story. And especially with the amount of hate people give her.
true. i think the hate comes from the fact that she's effin rich.
she is cries, baby all are same
It's hate born out of envy and you don't need Hilton money or looks to attract it.
I kind of pity those who are so consumed by envy it makes them hateful.
I can remember when I was a teen, I hated a girl for being prettier than me. It takes maturity to realise what that really means, not every one catches on.
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Fame and money can't buy class. Well said ❤. Another great episode! Paris is helping so many women by sharing her stories of trauma and abuse.
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I love Paris Hilton !!
She’s authentic from her young age til her current age and it’s Bc if her Kim k was ever noticed!
so true
This is one of my favourite interviews so far. Paris Hilton's vulnerability is so deep and authentic. There's such a strength in her that's so inspiring.
She has a lot of forgiveness in her heart. When she once told the story that the guys from the school were kidnapping her in the middle of the night and her parents were hearing her screams for help and did nothing. That's so traumatizing and how could you trust anyone ever! What a sweet woman she is
58:30 I love how jay is subtly offering therapy as he interviews because he knows what she is trying to say and helping her get those things out and realize them on a deeper level.. jay, you are truly a blessing to this world my man ❤👏 I have learned so much in a short time from watching your videos
Absolutely. I really notice how much he helps those he speaks with.
Paris Hilton talking about having ADHD as a kid and getting in trouble but her parents and teachers thinking she intentionally acting out is so relatable. I remember having ADHD as a kid and getting kicked out of school because of it. I just couldn’t focus and had just lost my mom to the system so I didn’t know how to express my emotions. :(
This is our reminder that no matter how beautiful the packaging is, doesn't mean that it can't be empty inside. Ultimately, we are all searching for inner peace and love and to be loved. Way to go Paris! You will help others be brave and realize that bad things happen to them and doesn't define them!
I often think this, I do agree, ppl think beautiful n rich are happy and lucky maybe in someways yes but their still human and still suffer sometimes. Maybe NOBODY Really has it easy!
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Beautiful? I couldn't stomach this for more than 20 seconds with the fry. Clearly she's got her old fake voice back as well as the blue eyes and even more fake hair than b4. I mean, this world lol.
I think one of the reasons why trauma stucks with us for so long is that we experienced moments where we are vulnerable, mortal and hadn't got the chance to punch back in that moment and feel shame because we experienced our weakness. No one told us about the predators out there and there is never a reason to send a young girl into circumstances that harms, we are raised to be kind, friendly and too blind to see something bad coming. Paris deserves all the love she needs and deserves to feel her strenghts to the fullest, because this is what she is, a really strong woman!
Exactly, our inner critic frames it as us being passive, and it becomes a self-feeding loop (believe the inner critic, feel more passive, prove the inner critic right).
Yes, and the more we speak about abuse and violence, the more we understand how it affects us. Rape or abuse is not a white, harmless crime, nothing to put on the table and discuss the behavior of the victim and the predator, it's a real crime! We should stop blaming women for being abused and give them respect and honor and support!
It's so refreshing to see her out of the limelight and watch her sitting there sharing her story, being vulnerable yet brave enough to face her fear makes you want to protect her at all costs.
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She is probably one of many Hollywood celebrities who has stayed true to herself no money or fame has changed as who she is and that is honorable. Very humble and nice lady,
It's so important to differentiate between strictness and a toxic relationship. They're too often thrown together. A parent can be "strict" -- have house rules, certain manners expected of their child, etc -- and also be loving, affectionate, have open communication and be aware of their child's emotional states. Way too often are emotional immaturity from parents, abuse of power, no communication between parent and child, etc, mistaken for "strictness". I'm glad they touched on that a little bit.
I like how she has come to terms with who she is and acknowledged the person she created to survive to the ordeal. all my best and love to you Paris.
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Paris is such a soft and gentle person. Its great to hear her sharing. Considering the stigma that victims "ask for it" or deserve sexual abuse as a result of their behaviour or dress code. The truth is predators know how to spot a soft, vulnerable person.
The sad part of the older generation is the women who have experience fighting off a predator because they have tough personalities and still blame sexual abuse victims as if it didnt almost happen to them. There are way too many women who villianise sexual abuse victims.
We are often so quick to judge celebrities and we need to remember they are just like you and I when you remove all the fluff. She is so brave and I hope that she never loses that drive to create magic and conversation.
I have not read Paris' book yet, but I will. I did watch her documentary. It was so eye opening. For the first time we were watching the most real Paris we had ever seen. I kept thinking while watching, my god she had to be a strong individual to get through that hell. She moved so fast through life so she didnt have the time to think. It was the nights of the quiet times and stillness that panicked her, she couldn't turn her brain off from the trauma and fear she had experienced in her younger years. Several times through the documentary I found myself crying. I could literally could feel her anguish and panic. It was heartbreaking to realize her true reality was nothing like what we thought. She was truly dealing with some heavy hell. Thank you Paris for sharing to help others.
Same here, about finding myself crying. Truly eye-opening. However I disagree that the truth was heartbreaking... it was ecstatic to say the least, I mean so she really is this genius tomboy who puts animals first, and NOT the spoiled, glitzy, prissy drama queen we all thought?! How on Earth, that's amazing!!!
I used to feel the energies of people in my generation around me, there was lots of tomboy idealism in the '80s but one day it all suddenly went away, with everyone becoming obsessed with money. The fact that she actually found a purpose in her hell, exposing those schools, pushing for legislation etc. gives me back a sense of hope.
Paris is an example of how all of us can have the courage to turn our past pain into power and use it in our maturity to positively impact the lives of others. Good one J. P.... touche' Paris. 🙏🏽🦅🇺🇸💪
I love Paris she's so honest about her mistakes and has been through so much yet has built such a successful life! ❤❤❤
Lol built? She got everything handed to her, opportunities regular people can just dream of. And her abuse...sounds a bit of sad fishing that celebrities looove cause they know there will always be dum-dums who buy that
What mistakes?
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Pretty easy to build a successful life when you come from that kind of money. Imagine building it from scratch like her great grandfather did.
@@t.j.5574 Not easy at all, otherwise all the rich kids would build their empires. She did not inherit hotels, she made her own brand that people like, when all the media were against her.
Years ago I judged you and I’m so, so 😢
Oh the lack of understanding I had as a woman who only looked as deep as the tabloids and TV! I’m so sorry I judged you and in essence contributed to your pain. Well I’m more mature now and especially when I saw your documentary it really opened my eyes not only about you but others growing up either wealthy or famous. Thank you for helping myself and others such as myself understand that there is always more to the picture.
Stay strong beautiful soul that you are!
listening to your podcasts while working has been the greatest part of my journey to purpose and specially when 36:25 you said "Little Paris " it melted my heart , the genuine feeling of love and kindness with absolute presence is what i see in jay and i aspire to be like him in that way . and to who ever is sectioning the video with time stamps and captions thank you
Seeing Paris’ bravery and growth is so inspiring. I’m so glad she shared with us her journey in healing and authenticity. From the beginning of her documentary to now is a pretty amazing transformation. And by being real she was able to attract real love and the life she always wanted.
I’m all inspired over here. Extremely impressed.
I've always thought she was someone who was misunderstood and we should be friends because I understood her. I loved this conversation! This podcast is such an amazing tool and gift to the world!
Yep! That's Jay. He can make people talk of things that really matter in a way that honest and humbling! His viewpoint and questioning are dipped in spirituality even when God or the Universe have not been mentioned once.
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@@Renaissance_usmmmm...hmm
I always felt a connection to her too.
I could relate so much, having gone thru a similar experience at the same age and undiagnosed ADHD at the time, and also same family dynamics. Thinking about it, calling it out for what it is, even saying the word..it’s gut wrenching. It’s easier to reason with ourselves that it’s better that we just keep it to ourselves or no you’re overreacting. The confusion, shame, anger at yourself. 😢
Then you grew up and finally connected the dots and realized how much of an impact the trauma had had in all the years of your life since… and still terrified to honestly talk about it. ❤️ You’re not alone Paris. Thank you for being so brave for all of us. Thank you Jay for giving her the safe space to tell her story, be heard and inspire.
One of the best episodes. And old saying "Never judge a book by its cover" definitely hit me. Society has this a general idea tha t pretty girls always have gorgeous lives
This interview is one of the very tiny moments in life where it is such a APSOLUTE JOY to live in this time period and be here for this!! So exited! I love her I've always loved her! Thankyou Paris and many many blessings to come your way, you are such a sweet soul! 🙏🌷💗
Watched her documentary last year and it was truly heartbreaking hearing what she went through. So happy she is finding some peace and love now. Great interview Jay! Can't wait to read this book! We love you Paris!! xxx
I love listening to Paris’s book. Im so glad she read the book herself as it feels like you’re sitting down having coffee with a friend. Paris is absolutely incredible and I love her energy!
Oh god. I hope it's not her narrarating. The fake fry voice is unaliving inspiring for me unfortunately.
My god Paris went thru so much pain, but she is so so strong, power to you, Paris, actually we are all powerful, we just need to find & rediscover our true powerful nature. ♥️
I admire Paris for her stregth, courage and vulnerability. The fact she survived all this and didn't have it break her spirit just proves how strong she is. She is an inspiration ♥
Thank you Jay Shetty for going deeper than anyone else. Also for Paris, to bringing to light being violated and taken advantage of by men. the only way to let go of these things is to bring them to light and to have someone like this to relate to on this subject reminds me, that I shouldnt have to carry the shame of what someone else did and I'm not alone
I grew up watching Paris and listened to her audiobook cause I too am someone who believes hearing the message from the person directly is so much more powerful than reading the words and I was in tears throughout the whole book. I could relate to some of the experiences she went through and broke my heart with other things she endured. She is a badass for not letting her circumstances dictate her outcome in life.
I really felt the part about shame with abuse that has happed TO you and how we end up being the ones who carry it. I really needed to hear that !
So powerful and honest, she was portrayed a certain way in the media to sell their papers and shows etc.. very damaging cruel and untruthful not to mention deeply hurtful. This is so awesome so brave of her and not just do her abusers have to have a lot to feel shamed for so to do the media. That was one of THE most POWERFUL shares I’ve ever seen and heard. Thank you Paris and Jay. I’m so glad you’ve found peace and tranquility with your husband and Son
While I was watching, something what Paris said resonated with me and I had a very strong physical reaction and saw myself as a small girl, around 4 years old. I don't remember what happend to me when I was that age but apparently my body did remember. It felt like releasing stored trauma from my body. Jay and Paris, thank you for sharing this, it takes a lot of courage to speak up and allow oneself to be vulnerable again❤
Amazing, i remember watching Paris on mtv almost 20 years ago, you would speak or joke, in character, but whenever it wasn't received well it just made it clear to me - you are beyond the audience you attracted then. It was always obvious how genuine you are, always amazing.
This is the first time I’m watching this channel and i’m amazed by the host. He was so professional and the questions was on point. Also he feels and hears the guest very well. Can’t wait to see other episodes. No wonder so famous people come to share their stories to him. Applause 🤩
Paris is doing such a wonderful and brave thing by talking about this. I have been in those situations too. So many of us have. Hearing this story in the past would have given me the strength to speak up. I know this will help young people in the future. Wonderful work! Thank you!
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This guy is a great interviewer! He asks intelligent, thought provoking questions!
This made me cry by the end. What a gorgeous, beautiful, powerful woman... inside and out. So much to be learned from this
I love how jay just keeps making her feel understood and explains almost every answer she gives its very clear how hard it is for her to talk about such things while also being someone that’s not so talkative..
I'm so happy that she is showing her real self to the world. Because she is one of a kind and so inspirational. 💗
I’ve never seen Paris being so serious and sad. I think it is hard for her to open up and show real herself. I’m glad she illustrated her other side. Great job, Paris! You are wonderful!
The people jay-shetty talks to it really had a great impact in my life coz i always try to put in action and the advise i lve it and i learn alot from yu THNKS ALOT JAY its really rewarding in my life
She is so beautiful, heartfelt, pure and well intentioned. It broke my heart hearing her answer to what she would say to so many individuals who tried taking from her. That is impactful!! I’m so proud of the incredible woman she has grown into. God bless you!
She is such a beautiful soul. I wish her all the best. When we forgive even though we sometimes never receive the desired apology we slowly but surely move on and can focus on love. Thank you Paris for being real ❤
I’m happy that she has trusted people around her that she can open up to now and that she let this stuff out. It’s the right thing to do for her mental health 🧡
Paris I'm so proud of you!!! It's such a beautiful thing to see all that you have been through and come through strong and still so kind, not letting bitterness become you. You have such a great head on your shoulders!!! May you continue to shine.🎆🏅💜
The ending was wrapped up so beautifully. And you're right, Jay -- Paris really did light up as she talked about Carter (as well as her son). She really encapsulates being beautiful both inside and out. And to emerge from the cocoon of the travesties of her brutal past, which would suffocate 9 out of 10 humans...she is a Light in this world.
You create such a magical space in these podcasts/conversations, Jay. Thank You!
I was crying to watched this podcast especial on the moment when she said about her mom that she was the generation who never tell about the feelings, and after all the things she watch the documentary and read the book she understood what her daughter had been through… it’s really hard 😢
she is so calm, so cool, so down to earth, so sweet, so kind, so beautiful❤
Shot your shoot my friend. Aim for the stars... and maybe your Stars will Align
@@LeifGarretstein Thank you 🙏🏻🤩❤️ may God bless you with good health & happiness & fulfillment in life.
I went to one of these schools or at least something very similar and it was brutal. I'm still healing from the trauma.
Much Love to you 💞
Kia Ora Jay, I enjoy your podcasts because you often interview People from a deep perspective, in relation to ones energy and spiritual wellbeing. This podcast was interesting and in some areas of her life very sad in terms of her experiences, but it lacked authentic depth from a spiritual well-being perspective. I often will listen for what I can’t hear, it’s in those moments where I feel the journey. My hope is she goes on a deep self discovery journey to enable her true essence. The voice of spiritual well-being can always be felt, especially when it’s voice is regularly encouraged to speak. I wish Paris only the best moving forward❤
she speaks alot in third person,like she has separated herself from her old self, p.s love how Jay created a safe space and kept reassuring her, and his empathy was real.
I didn't hear her speak in the third person, as in refer to herself as "she"? But she does something else, uses Simple Past instead of the Participle in Present or Past Perfect, ie. "I have went through"/"I had went through" instead of "I have gone through."
You can hear the hurt & trauma she endured. 😭 I'm so sorry to hear you went thru that. You're one of the bravest women I know. ❤
Paris, you are such an amaing soul, it shows through. Sending you lots of love ❤️ Remember, we are all in this together. Thank you for being honest and courages for so many others. You have paved the way for many of us. Thank you, beautiful lady ❤
I was abused by my ex-boyfriend when I was a teenager. He forced me to record videos of me masturb***** and I did that for him out of “love”. After that, during 4 years of the relationship, when we had fights or when he was jealous, he would bring this up saying he would blackmail me and blamed me with lots of rude words. I cried almost everyday. Eventually, I had him deleted all the videos and broke up with him. Now, I’m 32, thinking back, I want to say thank you for the lessons learned. I have learned to be more careful when taking actions and choosing a friend, and to forgive myself, to forgive him, and be my new self. 🌟🌞
I am glad for you that you let him destroy These Videos...but you never know...stay strong and be careful in These Times....good luck❤
He doesn't need forgiving, he needs to work out his own damn issues with power and control.
Same i was 13 years 😢
This resonates so much to the book I'm currently reading "Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld". Please interview him for further expansion on the theory behind the current fabric of society 🙏.
Thanks for this Jay and Paris.
My favourite line from this interview "I've turned my pain into a purpose"
This is an excellent interview of Paris Hilton! I've learned so much more about her and the positive things she's doing in support of children. I cannot wait to read her book.
I've followed Paris since her early MTV days.. It makes me so happy to see how she talked about her husband and son. The subtle shift into real happiness... I'm really glad she's gotten that. She deserves the world 💙
Wow i have never even dreamt of the day you would bring her. So thankful jay for how inclusive your talks are. I was never a fan of her until she shared her story and made me realize why is it she is the way she is and i stopped judging
Thank you Paris for sharing your story. There are so many of us that need to learn to let go of the shame & pain, so we can move onto the healing process. Truly grateful. Best wishes for joy & happiness to your inner soul.. Hug!
Very powerful interview and admire her willingness to be vulnerable in your book sharing painful stories in hopes to help other young women. Another impactful episode Jay!!! Well done!
A journey back to her true self. I watched her doccie after this interview and it changed my entire perspective of her.!
Me as well, a Hollywood film industry x pat myself, I was always very judgemental of her. My pet peeves are shallowness and superficiality (another reason I escaped L.A.). Unfortunately she epitomised that for me. I've done a 180 here. I can relate to her story in many ways and have complete respect for her authenticity in this wonderful interview. Truly inspiring and empowering. Bravo Paris 👏
@@jasminealixandranorthIt's so great isn't it, I feel like I was given a gift with her docu. People often assume their true selves are not interesting enough or will get judged, but the response to her sharing is so overwhelmingly positive that it should make many reconsider. We really like the genuine stuff better.
Lol I had to laugh when she said in this interview that now she cares more about babies than billions 😅 sure Paris, undo decades of feminism! Just kidding lol.... I know what she means, because I am a tomboy too. She used to not give herself permission to enjoy anything "until" she achieved this or that milestone, but then she recognised that setting goals will only keep on going.
Incredible interview as a mum this breaks my heart she went thru so much. I have such an open relationship with all my kids and sometimes embarrass them with how open however they know and do come to me with very personal stuff even my son who is 29 ! They know I’m here for them 24/7 until I die. Being a mum is my life purpose. I wish I could do more for others . Your work your doing Paris is saving and changing lives and that’s a gift. Keep going ❤
Good people exist in all classes of life. There are some good monetarily rich people in the world. Paris is definitely one of them. I've always felt positive energy from her. I have always liked her. Unfortunately I can't say that about many monetarily rich people. I'm a proud of you Paris and I respect and acknowledge your courage to share your journey with complete and total strangers. This one is going to help a lot of people Jay. Thank you both.
Wow so powerful! Exactly, shame should be on them! This is such an eye opening sentence 🙏 thank you Paris for sharing it!
This story doesn't have a happy ending. Her now husband abandoned HIS daughter and now the trauma cycle begins again.
Thank you so much for sharing this. May this help to bring more justice and freedom to all mankind. Especially to the youngest, because we need a healthy society and we all must stand up against abuse and corruption. Greetings from Guadalajara Jalisco México
Such a beautiful conversation! Thank you Jay and Paris for sharing this conversation to us. I love that you said that shame is not for us to hold it’s for the other person that caused it. That resonated with me so much because I’ve held shame from experiences I have gone through and not shared it with many people because of how I would be judged and embarrassed by it. It’s so important to know who to trust and to open up to in order to begin healing.
Wow. Thank you, Paris. I have experienced soooo much of the same trauma and I ALWAYS blamed myself. I even told myself that it was normal....that it happened to everyone. I can't thank you enough for sharing your story. I mean, I'm 41 years old and I have been through so many traumatic experiences because I've put myself in BAD situations because of the drugs or the drinking I was doing... but I KNOW in my heart and soul that so many things that have happened to me, I didn't ask for. I said NO but I was too fucked up to fight back. The shame that I've carried has led me to drink and drug continuously just to block it out. Wow. I can't describe how much you have helped me by speaking out in this podcast and I will be reading your book asap. You are my shero. ❤❤❤
It's really sweet she acknowledged your awesomeness at the end. What a nice way to end it❤️😊
How is this my favorite interview ever!! Thank you both. So open and kind.
I used to think Paris was a valley girl but I watched her show on CZcams and just because someone is Rich or poor doesn't mean they aren't going through difficulties in life Jim Carrey is also a person who is the same they are both very good people my heart goes out to her being someone who went through trauma and difficulties in life ❤go Paris
It’s great to see her talk about such a topic! It’s not about how much money she makes, it’s about the person within and she clearly exudes beauty from within, intentionally. Her having more money is a bonus for her, but is no reason ppl should invalidate her emotions or her words. This social media realm can get so “projecting”.
Beautiful podcast! Thanks guys! Repect and gratitude for Paris openness. Helped me a lot to work through my issues. Much love❤
Jay, you’re so kind and patient and just really seem like such a well rounded individual.I’m sure you made her feel good about the interview
Love, how calm is Jay-voice, position & respect for other ppl life & experience 🙌🏻
Jay you are doing great work. Paris I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Many of us can relate.
I love Jay and his way of making his guest feel comfortable and safe opening up about everything to him and us. Thank you Jay. Paris thank you too. Fantastic interview.
I relate to Paris so much. As a teenager I felt so much shame for other people’s actions and mistakes. And we are both Aquarians, we’re very similar.
Listening to the intro part where he describes her “hawk eye” and how observant she is and I was wondering what her sign was again… of course Aquarius. Ugh I love it so much.
It's understandable to feel shame or embarrassment for other people's actions, especially when we are younger and still learning to navigate complex social situations. However, it's important to remember that we are not responsible for the actions of others, and we cannot control what other people do.
It can be helpful to practice self-compassion and remind yourself that you are not defined by the actions of others. You can also try to reframe the situation and focus on what you can control, such as your own behavior and reactions.
Additionally, it can be beneficial to seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or therapist who can help you work through these feelings of shame and develop healthy coping strategies.
Remember, it's okay to feel these emotions, but it's also important to take care of yourself and not let them consume you.
She Has expressed every thing so well and it will definitely help so many people.
Paris is the original of everything. Influencer, trends, etc. And so classy and just being herself. She is indeed a light in this world. So classy and pure at the same time. Thank you Paris, as a 31 year old woman, I was and still am a fan!
I got to the good part of her story🙌🙌🙌 This is beautiful!!! God Bless her family✨🙌🙏 The best part ever when someone who's been through a lot finds happiness 🌷✨💛
Good for her for effecting change thru her story and platform. I wince however, at the misuse of past tense- people will respect you more when you understand how to speak your own language correctly. I'm sorry but I can't not hear it...
I wish Paris all my love and luck..God Bless thank you for this interview.
So ridiculous how we are so alike. I am so attached to Paris Hilton memories come back minus the famous part. I grew up on a farm country world small town in Ontario.
Happy for you, Paris! I’m sure you will have a big impact with your book.
I always knew that Paris is the best . Thank you Paris for sharing
Women don’t realize how much power they have. In a dating world, tell a guy you want s** after marriage, you’ll know a guy’s real intention. No need to do those other tests of needy, controlling etc. us guys need to be better controlling ourselves. We need to protect all women. 🙏🏼
There's nothing wrong with wanting sex at any time whatsoever. Just be truthful about it, and don't resort to manipulation just coz you think girls are not that into it or whatever. Women can and do want release with no strings too, but you just gotta listen to the tomboy-types too when they tell you all they want is a friend or just making out. Because that's real too, and the stupid pressure is annoying.
I have so much admiration for her and I feel grateful to have heard her story and the lessons she has learned. She is truly a gift and carries herself beautifully.
One of my favorite interviews. Thank you Paris for making the world a better place for our babies ! 💚
I'm so glad she has done this she is so strong and has been so brave for so long
It's funny because I went through very similar experiences to Paris, and in all honesty, I remember when she was on The Simple Life and I hated that show, because it seemed so shallow and I couldn't fathom someone getting to have a life that was so stupidly easy! But watching her documentary a few years back I was blown away and all that stuff made sense. I'm so glad she found her way to telling her story for herself. It's so important, especially for women and girls. I hope her work exposing those facilities and helping other people who were subjected to that flourishes. xx
Yeah, it's Unreality TV 😅
It was incredibly brave of her to be so open and her doing so will help so many other people. On a random note: I would LOVE for Harry styles to do one of these amazing interviews
Yes, l believe in the best way is giving to others open up love towards others.. be happy in giving.
wow, this interview is so important. So impressed