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ASMR| You're NOT a Failure [Anxiety/Panic Attack] [Mental Health 'Setbacks'] [TW*]

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  • čas přidán 12. 12. 2022
  • Setbacks does not mean failure. It is just a step back, that is it.
    It doesn't mean that you failed. It doesn't take away from any progress you've made. It doesn't make you weak. And it doesn't mean that you'll continue to have setbacks if you try again.
    Be kind to yourself 3
    TW*: This audio deals with the topic of anxiety and panic attacks. If you find this topic triggering, I would advice you to skip this one.
    P.s. If you're wondering wtf happened to my voice, it is still recovering from having the flu but I hope it isn't too bothersome.. :)

Komentáře • 111

  • @mrcwillis6970
    @mrcwillis6970 Před rokem +121

    Ty for this, Ive have real bad anxiety for years and panic a lot. My first panic attack was awful, felt like I was gonna be sick or pass out. My mental health has worsened more and more. I feel so bad because of how I am, and feel like a failure all the time. Ty for the comfort and love you give once again, these ASMRs help make me feel so much better all the time. Ty Ty Ty ❤🌧😖

  • @dohinator4092
    @dohinator4092 Před rokem +61

    The timing of you posting this video couldn’t have been better. Had a major depressive episode today that had me exactly as the scene described in the audio, stuck in bed buried under the covers, staring at the wall in a nearly pitch black room. No panic attack, but my mood was the lowest it has been in weeks. Lazily checked the time on my phone and saw the notification for this video. Content like this is a godsend for those of us who don’t have anyone around to help them back up after a fall. People really underestimate the necessity of having a good support system when it comes to mental health. Took hours for me to get back around to comment my thanks, but I made it. I hope you have the goodness you put into the world returned to you tenfold. Seriously, thank you!

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +19

      I'm sorry to hear that. Depression is truely the worst. But you're not alone in your struggles, I hope you know that. Be kind to yourself, you deserve that. ❤ And thank you for your super sweet words, they put a big smile on my face :)

    • @timetraveler9518
      @timetraveler9518 Před rokem +1

      I'm in the same position

  • @fallen7199
    @fallen7199 Před rokem +25

    Had a bit of a panic attack just last night, while i feel a bit better, this certainly helps. Your voice is so calming, great work as always

  • @damianmorningstarr
    @damianmorningstarr Před rokem +33

    I, We all hope you’re okay Sarah. You do so much for us and you’re so nurturing we wouldn’t want anything bad to happen to you. In case you’re not hearing it enough, You’re loved

  • @amandagresham1298
    @amandagresham1298 Před rokem +15

    Your sooo amazing. I suffer from depression and anxiety and I can't tell you how much you help me with your audios you have been my guardian angel and I'm blessed to have found you thank you love you Sweetheart ❤❤❤❤💖💖💖💕💕💕

  • @aberrationiv6826
    @aberrationiv6826 Před rokem +5

    Oh, to have someone see and accept this side of me. Oh, to hear such kind words from a genuine connection in a time of need. It would be a dream come true.

  • @SolarGirlASMR
    @SolarGirlASMR Před rokem +41

    Love the depth of your audios, makes them even more enjoyable and so, so special 🙌💛

  • @ahmyalaine9452
    @ahmyalaine9452 Před rokem +9

    after I got home from school, and went straight to my bed, this ASMR suits the sour mood of my failure in the Exam, and I just realized, I'm crying silently. Thanks for all the sweet comforting words. ❤️

  • @ell1sk1
    @ell1sk1 Před rokem +5

    It’s been a really hard month between life and highschool midterms and collage finals. My mental health has been on a downward spiral, feeling like nothing is good enough and it’s been hard not to fall back on old habits. Your videos help calm me down and actually get a good nights sleep and I’m so grateful…I hope that you’re feeling better and thank you so much.

  • @KJetixsSuccessor
    @KJetixsSuccessor Před 6 měsíci +2

    I didn’t known what to expect from this. It didn’t move me but it did touch me. And it felt like what I needed for the most part. Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @spidergalva
    @spidergalva Před rokem +4

    Everyone needs a reminder of this. I need it too.

  • @brickmariobros
    @brickmariobros Před rokem +7

    Did I have a panic attack today? No. But there was something about this audio that made me feel safe, and calm. I didn’t realize I needed this today until now, so thank you.

  • @MrSHADOWANGEL999
    @MrSHADOWANGEL999 Před rokem +4

    Support for anxiety is always nice

  • @The_darkest__knight
    @The_darkest__knight Před rokem +2

    When you said “your scaring me” it brought me back to some really bad times, I couldn’t stop thinking sorry

  • @busterkich68
    @busterkich68 Před rokem +1

    This audio really helped me today. I'm having a terrible night, and I feel like I'm failing at everything, but thanks to this. I feel a bit better. Thank you so much.

  • @airchunk2621
    @airchunk2621 Před rokem +3

    I...needed this...

  • @michaelkruk
    @michaelkruk Před 2 měsíci +2

    I feel like I’m failing my math course, that I’m a failure but I’m happy I came across this video, thank you

  • @Area1G
    @Area1G Před rokem +1

    Thanks so much for this. Things havent been going to plan in my life lately and ive been feeling really down and worthless about it, so I really needed this. You’re truly a blessing. Take care of yourself this season ❤❤❤

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +2

      Aw.. Sorry to hear that. Life is really rough sometimes ☹️🫂❤️

  • @doblc943
    @doblc943 Před rokem +2

    I always get the feeling that I fail at a lot of things. But I just keep my confidence going. And this really helps by the way. You’re the sweetest ❤

  • @JesusJuarezGutierrez
    @JesusJuarezGutierrez Před rokem +4

    nice audio Sarah and i hope you feel better and get well soon. 😊❤

  • @hanna_smr
    @hanna_smr Před rokem +2

    having really bad anxiety over finals week and feeling so defeated. this really helped me 💖💖

  • @joshuatan1878
    @joshuatan1878 Před rokem +6

    Damn, I needed this, *pain*, anyway, this is a very well done audio, good job. Stay safe and take care 👋

  • @toybonniesfm
    @toybonniesfm Před rokem +2

    This released at like the perfect time.
    Well after it, I have to go out and do stuff but whatever I’ll listen to it later

  • @madi.1187
    @madi.1187 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for this. I had to stop a sport that I have been doing for 12 years due to permanent injuries from it. It hurts so bad but what can I do. You really comfort me when I need it the most

  • @Dragons_FBR
    @Dragons_FBR Před rokem +2

    Thanks I needed this. After my break-up. I haven't been feeling myself.

  • @CutzeSapphic
    @CutzeSapphic Před rokem +2

    I don’t think I’ve cried so much listening to an audio thank you 😭

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +2

      Aw ☹️🫂❤️

    • @CutzeSapphic
      @CutzeSapphic Před rokem

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR fr tho your videos just make my day so much better light just walking home and started listening to the audio and immediately felt better thank you

  • @thestylishman5074
    @thestylishman5074 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this video. I struggle with anxiety myself and most ASMR videos that I put on in the background to help me sleep just don't seem to do the trick. But this one really tapped into my own struggle with anxiety and having a low opinion of myself. Not only did I let out a few tears but I had a damn good sleep which is something that I haven't had for a very long time. Love to hear what you do in the future!

  • @Iden_in_the_Rain
    @Iden_in_the_Rain Před rokem +1

    Air quotes around ‘setbacks’ was nice thank you (:

  • @1Dreamsmakers
    @1Dreamsmakers Před rokem +3

    Thank you for always being here help me and everyone out ... I hope you feel better 💙 you are totally sweet and caring person I hope could you a friend

  • @apdofficer2104
    @apdofficer2104 Před rokem +3

    APD APPROVED
    Fun fact: The stick is the world’s first toy.
    Until we meet again

  • @maro2402
    @maro2402 Před rokem +2

    I cant say how happy i am to see Your another video ❤️

  • @romaramirez5578
    @romaramirez5578 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for this audio, really needed to hear those kind words ❤️

  • @benceklock4831
    @benceklock4831 Před rokem +2

    I needed this. I just failed like 3 classes in university and felt like a total fuckup.

  • @Maito89
    @Maito89 Před rokem +5

    Your GF: "You're not a burden" 😟
    My (ex)BF: "You're a burden and I'm so gonna use this against you in the future" 😒

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +5

      Sounds like you got ridd of your burden a.k.a the ex 😊 You deserve better than that 🫂

    • @Maito89
      @Maito89 Před rokem

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR Nah, he got rid of me 😅but thank you anyway 😊

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +6

      AW, but you're better of without someone like that regardless.

  • @epicsandvich014
    @epicsandvich014 Před rokem +1

    I’m a very negative person by nature and deal with massive self hatred issues, I see my flaws perfectly and rarely my accomplishments.
    It’s genuinely difficult to see myself or what I do in a positive way, so I often feel like a failure, and I feel like a burden for bringing it up to others. So I just keep it to myself.

  • @Kazuto2713
    @Kazuto2713 Před rokem +1

    This is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for this! You’re wonderful! I’m happy to be a patron supporter

  • @yasu0rain627
    @yasu0rain627 Před rokem +2

    from the title, it sounds gr8,i'll definitely play that in bed while i try to sleep.
    P.S:
    Appreciate u uploading 4 us while ur still sick, get well soon❤‍🩹

  • @oliwood3542
    @oliwood3542 Před rokem

    thank's you for the new audio the past month have been really hard and hope you get better soon.

  • @F.M671
    @F.M671 Před rokem +1

    Thanks. This is great!
    And the voice is just fine dw

  • @sofiavalente9911
    @sofiavalente9911 Před rokem +1

    Just in time for my new anxiety attack exactly because I am feeling like I am failing You have a lovely voice, thank you for your asmr's

  • @csight13
    @csight13 Před rokem +1

    It’s finals season for some of us right now, and I’m sure this will help a lot.

  • @lorenraft89
    @lorenraft89 Před rokem +2

    thank you for this video It comforts me even tho I know still that I'm a fucking failure that fucks up everything he does so let me leave this comment as memory of me, goodbye

  • @Pinktulipzz
    @Pinktulipzz Před rokem +1

    when I saw this earlier I didn't click on it because I've never had a panic attack before, but Ive been feeling worse lately so I decided to just press on it later on

  • @leah2271
    @leah2271 Před rokem

    the only thing in my mind now is that if I just was here and listen for that it will be much different I had my first anxiety attack not too long ago its like month or something and I didn't know what was going on with me it take me like couple of weeks to understand it
    and these words the most things anyone go throw this need it you really good at this thanks 💚

  • @javargriffin1771
    @javargriffin1771 Před rokem

    Definitely could watch this for hours if I need to my anxiety hasn't been the best I don't know what case it I could be perfect fine then boom anxiety definitely need more part 2 or 3 it's just that good and helpful

  • @byonemesis
    @byonemesis Před rokem +2

    To answer that question...
    Am I? Because...lastly...I miss her. A lot. I struggle a lot to keep our promise. All that because I feel alone, and I am afraid to be what I'm scared the most. I feel like crap. For real... so yeah, am I not failing to keep living and being happy without her?

  • @evix6039
    @evix6039 Před rokem +1

    🫂❤️ Ty, hope you're feeling better

  • @mimidepp47
    @mimidepp47 Před rokem +3

    Literally In the best time I’m panicking and overthinking and my head ganne kill me cuz I have an interview tomorrow:)

  • @Tentacult_Sapling
    @Tentacult_Sapling Před 3 měsíci

    All I feel is pain. I want to get better, but I'm not sure how to define myself if I don't mention the suffering. It gets hard to cope but thank you for this, because it's at least a small comfort in this place...I just wish I knew someone that I felt safe telling them about how I feel inside

  • @Jay5mics
    @Jay5mics Před rokem

    Remember yall. Keep working towards whatever you goal you have. Success ain't Final and failure Is not the end. Love yall stay safe

  • @bishopmerriman2419
    @bishopmerriman2419 Před 6 měsíci

    I saw the title and clicked on this because right now I'm having a lot of mental health problems and I can't tell my parents even though I'm 16 and I still will get in trouble for talking about my mental

  • @AliBazz
    @AliBazz Před rokem +1

    Ayyyyyyye preciate ya

  • @skurtlehateshimself
    @skurtlehateshimself Před 3 měsíci

    I can't take it anymore

  • @IdioticMonke
    @IdioticMonke Před měsícem

    I am just laying here in my bed. Crying, staring at the blank ceiling. Like every night😔

  • @applerancher5329
    @applerancher5329 Před rokem

    Such a good one!

  • @DoctorJ-nx6eo
    @DoctorJ-nx6eo Před rokem

    This was my final year at UK college in a nutshell except nobody helped me through it

  • @thegoldavenger.3829
    @thegoldavenger.3829 Před rokem

    God i haven’t even watched the video and the description made me choke up lmao

  • @larrybryant8714
    @larrybryant8714 Před rokem +1

    Nice audio when is the next video coming out

  • @joshjackman326
    @joshjackman326 Před 7 měsíci

    Her: You’re NOT a failure.
    Me: clearly you haven’t seen my exam results. Also I don’t believe you.

  • @sarahk.2381
    @sarahk.2381 Před rokem +1

    I know I have failed everyone hopefully I have enough value to listen to this but that is doubtful it's ironic I found this right now because currently I have no worth 😞😞

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +3

      You absolutely have worth. A lot of it. 🫂 Making mistakes just means you’re human, it never makes you a failure.

  • @two_face
    @two_face Před měsícem

    Real.

  • @conanninteeneightyeight3512

    Hey Sarah, hi. I'm passing for a really hurtful moment rn, could I make a consolation video as a request please? So I can have sth to help me cope with this moment I'm passing through... Please, please my friend, it would be of great help... Thank you
    I'm sorry if I don't write properly, English is not my native language

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +3

      I'm so sorry you're hurting :( ❤ I'd love to do an audio like that. Let me know if you want it to be more of a general comfort or for something specific ❤

    • @conanninteeneightyeight3512
      @conanninteeneightyeight3512 Před rokem

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR thank you so much for your kind words, uhm... maybe something about self esteem? Like for bullying, sth like that, I hope that vague idea helps. Thank you so so much Sarah, you're an angel

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +3

      Absolutely ❤ Take care of yourself, ok? Eat something you love, watch your favorite movie and do some self pampering. Anything that makes you feel even a tiny bit better. That is an order.

    • @conanninteeneightyeight3512
      @conanninteeneightyeight3512 Před rokem +1

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR 🥰 ok Sarah, I will I promise, thank you so much for your help and your words. Lots of love for you, you made me smile, thanks a lot again

  • @user-oj5uu1dh7v
    @user-oj5uu1dh7v Před rokem

    I sometimes feel like the main character of the fight club 😅😂

    • @user-oj5uu1dh7v
      @user-oj5uu1dh7v Před rokem +4

      HOLY FUCK WHEN DID I LEAVE THIS COMMENT. I SHOULD GET MY LIFE TOGETHER

  • @Deadweight06
    @Deadweight06 Před rokem

    Thanks I guess

  • @Eald_Englisc_beon_micel

    I am though?

  • @cheif9OO
    @cheif9OO Před rokem

    Are you certain?

  • @madison_drew
    @madison_drew Před rokem +1

    😢😞🫂❤️

  • @eduardopereyra9285
    @eduardopereyra9285 Před rokem

    Can't hear you

  • @Emily_North
    @Emily_North Před rokem +84

    Comment For Engaygement🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +15

      @emilynorth Thank you for always supporting! :)

    • @Emily_North
      @Emily_North Před rokem +18

      @@YourgirlfriendASMR You're welcome, always happy to support your great content ☺️
      And yeah, I definitely get a lot of harassing messages. I always find it so weird when people tell me to kill myself over a gay pun. It's a slight overreaction imo

    • @YourgirlfriendASMR
      @YourgirlfriendASMR  Před rokem +22

      WTF what is wrong with people... really! That is just insane to me. I hope you don't take it to heart, they're just a**holes with nothing better to do with their life then to try and make others just as miserable as they are.

    • @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary
      @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary Před 6 měsíci +3

      Love is dead
      Glory to the revolution

    • @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary
      @AntiLovePeoplesRevolutionary Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​​@@Emily_North
      Why do you think love wins?
      When our rifles can crush it

  • @greenpinapple820
    @greenpinapple820 Před 7 měsíci

    Man... imagine having a driver's licenses or a car or a job or a gf...
    Anyway back to telling people on youtube shorts comments to sewerslide.

  • @Brainstormbazaar
    @Brainstormbazaar Před 2 měsíci

    😢❤4yrs gone still fighting for life
    Thank u

  • @JordanGates-ep2pg
    @JordanGates-ep2pg Před 3 měsíci +1

    I really needed this, because sometimes I degrade myself and brush it off as something i can worry about later. But in reality...I just want someone to understand me. Not the strong face i put on, not the girl who always makes others laugh and feel better. I want people to know the girl who deep down just wants to br accepted for who she is, for the art she makes, for the girl crying out for someone to finally be the shoulder she needs. So i say thank you. Thank you for brightening my days, thank you for being who you are. Some days i feel like i cant go on, but when i listen to your voice or watch your streams. I feel like i can keep going on. I feel like i have a reason to live. Thank you, thank you for everything.