COURT SANCTIONS FOR THE NARCISSIST
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COURT SANCTIONS FOR THE NARCISSIST//Ever wonder how the narcissist gets away with ignoring court orders? Do you want to know what you can do about it? If you are divorcing a narcissist and want them to be punished for their behavior by the judge then this video has the answers for you. If the narcissist violates a court order then he or she can potentially be subjected to sanctions or contempt punishments. Find out more in this video.
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Are any of these rules differant in family court in New Hampshire? I was trying to research state law to request a sanction in federal civil rule 11, I apparently only stated federal not state rule at my last hearing.
I think i was married to one 15 yrs 3 children... ..i devorce 20 years ago my sons are over 20 yrs old i left thro shelter for domestic violence
From Ontario Canada 🇨🇦, separating from my narc husband, currently going through court proceedings. He refuses to sell me the matrimonial home for my 5 year old son and I to live. But the housing crisis here is horrible. I feel he’s trying to take away my options to have a safe home for a child. Subjecting him to a life of instability. How can I convince him that this is for the best interest of the child and not about my monetary gain. If we have to leave this house it’s inevitable that we will be in a one bedroom basement apartment, and likely not in a good part of town. I’m so scared.
For now i just love for give . I don’t want to die with hundred cuts . Thanks
Fighting narcissism is actually an activism
Rebecca Zung 💯
EXCELLENT 👌
It truly is...
Agent Smith's everywhere.
Wow, your comment is simple and so TRUE! I have a trial April 2nd the Judge promised me this is the last day for an 11 year battle! I wasn’t a senior citizen when this started! No attorney, I have as much evidence as I could get. It is up to God to speak to this Judge now. The good news, no children, only physical possessions. So, I will be thankful it is over and the NARC has no power over me.
After 2 years, 11 court sessions I got custody of my daughter, everyone involved was told by the judge if anyone tries to stop me seeing my younger daughter they will be arrested, it can be done but you have to hang in there
Trying
Wooh the part I hate.. yearssss😭😭 my case is already 7months in
Thanks for sharing! It will inspire us to keep going
This is just heartbreaking that you have to go through this lengthy process in order to make sure you can see your own child.
@@gigglekeyon
Expect to keep going to court until your child is 18. Especially in high conflict cases.
Going to defend myself but more importantly going to stand up for all victims I can't take this anymore. This is a f.fuck ing crime
You are a light in the darkness of the legal system for those of us who feel we were blinded, yet we see you.
@@RebeccaZungEsq It feels aweful to deal with narcs, your videos are supportive and encouraging that we could fight these evils. Would you please make some content on female narcs and dealing with them in the court?
You sure are right. You have to find the toughest roughest part of yourself and pound it out to the Narcissist. My mom is 83 and fighting a Narc in North Carolina. and going to court alone and got a no contact order and search warrant of Narcs house while legally blind and severe hearing loss. I'm so proud of her. What you say I'll share. I send her U tubes now on Narcissism. Thank you for all you do as a fearless leader against Narcissistic Abuse
I am so ready!! I am tired of him getting "his" way. This has to stop!
Everything you speak to is something I have experienced in my divorce from my narcissist husband, which is now surpassing the year long mark, and promising to "keep on giving". He has also been taking Adderall, and has demonstrated psychotic behavior. I'm just very thankful there are no kids to contend with in my divorce. Having friends, family and even other attorneys discount my claims on the hell a narcissist can conjure, and who assume I'm just obsessed with labeling him, instead of trying to understand how in the hell I can deal with him, without losing my own sanity has been very hurtful and challenging. Your videos and advice have been so valuable for me from a logistical and emotional standpoint. Thank you for sharing so unselfishly!
Ugh I wish I discovered you when I was going through my divorce last year. I found out about narcissism after my divorce. I almost lost my mind and custody. Everything worked out at the end but I wish I watched these videos 3 years ago! 😏
My dad and my husband are exactly like this. Even when I’m having labor pains, my husband would sit there and ignore me
Yep! Mine told me how uncomfortable and tired he was while I was in labor at the hospital
Same with me, mine was yelling @me &was telling me I was pretending during labor.
I’m ready. He took out credit cards in my name and I had no idea. He ran them up to the limit and over. The credit card company told me I could file fraud charges even if he is my husband.
Mine bm did the same she actually told me she used my social to get more money but the card is in her name found out it was in my name and they sent two cards only one that was ever activated was her
Thank you so much, Rebecca. I am low income and cannot afford to pay an attorney to go to family court against my narcissistic Ex-husband. Your tip about filing a motion as soon as he violates the order is gold. I've been documenting & collecting police reports, etc. We have a communications order that he consistently violates. Our last incident, he withheld the kids for 6 days. I had the DA call him. The DA said that if he charged him,, he would only get a misdemeanor citation. So, I'm finally gonna take him back to court it'll be our 4th or 5th time going back. I want my kids to have a relationship with him as they love him and I believe that he loves them. Unfortunately, he loves his hate, anger, and resentment towards me more. Any tips for me, when I go back to court?
I am done everyone tells us all to just walk away. Well I heard a couple people say if we don't stand up this will never become a chargeable crime. I am going to stand up for me all before me and most of all try to help those after it is time to stand up for the abused people that have been hurt and suffer as much as I have and still do.wish me luck and know this is for all as much as me
You have been a life saver
Texas checking in .
What if the courts are aiding them in getting away with everything
As you are always on top of a narcissist in court my bill goes up.
I’m ready. I’m the Empath you speak about Narcissist targeting. I am 50 and I still have them after me left and right.
Rebecca Zung thank you for helping us to understand and teaching us what to do. Thank you and Bless Your Beautiful Soul 😇
Rebecca Zung what do I do when it’s also my own daughter. I’m going to have to prepare for serious emotional pain because I know what’s about to happen. I’m not going to let anyone do that to me again. Not even my own daughter. I need help in this case. I’m totally in shock she can’t see beyond her selfishness. I just don’t have the strength and energy after my 8 yr relationship with only 2 mo ago I became aware of who he really was. I’m alone and still in shock and it’s like a death to me. My daughter just kicked it into 3rd gear for me.
I do too
Can you do a video on a narcissist spouse being ordered to take a psych evaluation? Do judges take them seriously? Can a narcissist fake it? Any experience with this?
I was able to get one but it was incredibly hard. First step we were sent to mediation. I insisted on separate interviews. Our stories were so different they gave him 30/60 visitation. I knew he was in a prolonged psychosis from narcissistic collapse but the court, understandably, doesn’t just take either of us at our word alone. However his behavior was erratic, impulsive and dangerous so I had a TRO in place for me and our 3 younger children. Our oldest, who’d just turned 18 had her own retraining order. Ex’s behavior became more erratic and I constantly pushed for a psychiatric evaluation, for the safety of the kids. He’d managed to charm the hired visitation supervisor to the point that she CRIED to the judge about the “injustices being done to this amazing father” 🤢
At this point the judge ordered separate children’s council and appointed a lawyer for my minor children to represent them neutrally. She was a gift from God!! Saw right through the path-narc. She ordered a psych eval for the whole family. The judge limited visitation to 13/87 until completed. It took a long time to complete because ex delayed payment to the Psd for 4 months.
But having it gave me my children and my power back in countless ways.
I’m also curious about this
If there are children involved, get a court ordered custody evaluation. The evaluator will use their own psychologist or what not for the evaluation.
If it is just ordered that they go, both you and them will be able to pick your choice of place and the narc will doctor shop island I've seen them pay for a clean eval.
No, a narc can't fake it enough to get past an in depth evaluation. Ideally you both go to the same evaluator and you provide them with a binder if evidence.
Rebecca, you are a rare find and awesome lawyer. Thanks for your work to improve our lives.
Recoupment of Attorney Fees is a Magnificent concept!
Once I stumbled onto one of the spreadsheets my highly narcissistic father kept on co-workers and associates. He had all kinds of information, name, addresses, likes, information he could use against them, family members, and so on.
When think of taking a highly narcissistic person into court, you need to realized they have been building a case against you since day one. As such, you MUST carefully document everything you can and get any documents or statements from others in writing.
I'm trying to clean up the mess the narcissist made from federal court to family court & state court .
Thank you so much for giving us a road map to understand what we are dealing with. London 🏴 .
My narcissistic ex's lawyer is a narcissistic.. this is soooo what I'm going through... contempt of 5 court orders, no accountability, 9 years.. I consider this physiological abuse... all those filings are more costs I can't afford... another one of their tricks
I am SO ready!! From St. Louis
Thank you Rebecca!! You are just so awesome and give us hope for getting thru this as winners!! Empowering
2 years? Hah. Been dealing with this crap for 7 years post divorce, 60+ instances of false allegations, she's never follows court orders, and now she's said the magic words and I only see my kids an hour a week if I pay their extortion fees. There's no such thing as justice for fathers.
Absolutely brilliant! Thank you 🙏
The content in your videos is exceptional. Thank you 🙏🏻 so much for leading the charge and disseminating this very valuable information. Your passion project has become a saving grace for MANY. You are empowering survivors daily. Thank U for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for taking the time to make these videos !! Education education education
Thank you
I do have full custody of my 16 year old autistic son. We split in 2012 and things got worse as he manipulated my son. Despite being on disability when I left I got back to work and paid for divorce myself. Joint custody meant me continuing to do everything, compensate for him, change jobs, reduce hours, lost jobs due to constant needs of my son, and trying to overcome constant counterparenting and manipulation while being traumatized. Eventually the Marc was lax enough that my son got in trouble on his watch and CPS stepped in. They took over and got full custody but because I allowed unsupervised visits tge brainwashing of my kid and abuse by proxy has continued. I have to file for modification of visitation again and stop giving him any wiggle room to ruin my relationship with my son and harming my son. My son now treats me just like his father did. To turn him around I have to put him in short term residential (which dad also tried to stop by telling my son he was cancelling insurance) while I file for no contact and he can be immersed in therapy. Moral- don’t be nice. You will lose your children even with full custody if the narc has access to their minds.
I am so thankful to hear this today.
I am ready!
It's so enough and I'm ready to start being on top of it.
The gaslighting and emotional abuse has kept me quiet 🤐 and I cant anymore!! It's time
I am a SLAY Alumnus and have started the divorce process. I am loaded with leverage that is well organized. My lawyer could not be more happy. Let's hope it works. Thanks
Well just yesterday at court for my motion to enforce parent plan the judge punished me for not coparenting! And ordered us a parenting seminar! And ordered us to write an essay reflecting on how we contribute to our conflict!My ex was breaking the timesharing schedule for 4 months by not returning daughter in the morning to me like he’s supposed to! Manipulating his way out of it!
Once again, I wish I had learned all of this before going to court to get restraining orders and finally divorcing the narc.
I am about to take a narcissist to court for stop paying her rent as I was the co-signer. This is dreadful knowing that she will tried to win and make things up. We don’t have a formal repayment contract but lots of text and email confirmations. Wish me luck!
Thank you for pointing out how hard it is for empaths to be hard on the narcissist. As much as he put me through I actually felt bad for him when the judge was coming down on him. My attorney even noticed and was asking me after court why was I feeling bad for him.
Ireland 🇮🇪♥️ thanks for sharing such informative videos x
I found an attorney who is a financial bulldog but he doesnt want to hear the drama. He said if he listens to the drama, it will cost more money. Nobody cares. Court’s only interest is division of property. Is this a bad move to use this atty? Im ready
I tot that problem with my barrister... Thinking of changing...
What effect is the drama having? Are kids involved?
No attorney wants to read through reams of texts and emails and transcribed conversations. That's the job of a therapist. Get a custody study.
Now I m becoming readier by watching videos on this issue...
I have been dealing with a jerk that got his way his whole life... Thank you for your kind words... I will follow you from now on...
Thank you, from San Diego!
I’m ready!!
I'm READY!!! 💪🏼
BRAKE COURT ORDER AND HAVE HER LAWER TO MODERIFY COURT ORDER IN HER FAVOR.
I’m ready
Prayed on my next steps after my STBX covert narc has now let two Friday’s pass without giving a cent to what was ordered from the order to show cause- and this video popped in my email! Talk about divine direction! Will be telling my attorney to file a motion of contempt tomorrow- thank you 🙏
@Paul Foxworthee not sure why you say it’s “gotcha litigation” if I’ve been peacefully asking (texts politely asking as per our agreement when he left me and our boys, requests from Chase zelle) for support from July 2020 - September 2020. After September he wrote back via text, “not sure what to tell you- you went back on everything so my attorney will speak to you next week”. It took from October to December for us to get a court date via video conference and in early December, he was ordered to pay. It’s now inching towards the end of January and he no longer picks up calls to his own attorney. Not sure how much more person can be in contempt if his own counsel isn’t Abe to get through and he’s pretending his whole past doesn’t exist 🤷♀️. I’m on this channel for a reason- I feel very badly for the men who are on the opposite side of this battle because they aren’t treated fairly or with kindness but I’m not that same woman who does “gotchya” moves. I am like the ultimate patient “stupid” woman who believed he only needed forgiveness and extra love for 18 years to then be dumped so nonchalantly when he knew he handled our house payment- so he doesn’t know or care of I’m hanging by a thread financially 😣
Hopefully it’ll be apparent to the courts in 2 weeks, I did all that I could before I request they just garnish
@Paul Foxworthee one things certain- HAHAHAHAHA you’re BIG MAD Narc!
@Paul Foxworthee great for you Narc 👏👏👏 🤣
She’s supposed to send me weekly videos and has stopped for 2 months, I filed motion for enforcement but nothing happened by court, my county has a bad judge.
Hi Rebecca, Ally Mchere from Nassau County Long Island NY!
Thanks for your content, it is very informative and fills a niche that thankfully most people don’t experience. I am in a legal battle with someone that was just a platonic friend and not a spouse by any stretch of the imagination. I rented this friend my house with an option to purchase. She could not fulfill her obligation so I proceeded to try and evict her. She then filed a family law claim that I was her spouse. After 1 1/2 years the claim was discontinued with costs to me as her claim was based on lies. She then filed a civil claim for breach of contract which is also based on lies and easily disproved. All the while the Rental Tenancy Board refuses to grant me an order of possession because it is in front of the Supreme Court. It will realistically take another 6 months to a year to remove her from my house legally.
In the meantime she owes me tens of thousands of dollars which I am resigned to the fact I will never collect. I truly believe the laws are created to protect the weak and vulnerable but has the potential to be abusive from fear of a judge that is too terrified to call someone out for fear of repercussions of stepping on someones rights.
I am
Claiming duress in our custody agreement because I had primary custody and now he has 57% to get child support, but hule owes 50k in child support. He did it during the pandemic and I was scared I’d lose my son so I signed but I confused plaintiff and defendant. I miss my so. So much :( dad was absent for 7 years.
James. Raleigh North Carolina. You rock!
Thank you Rebecca for all your advice, and the therapy sessions, its all helpful.
The one I am dealing with every time we end up in the courtroom just goes off into random made-up nonsense that sounds relevant, if you have no knowledge of the situation we are there for, but has nothing to do with anything let alone with why we are there.
My Lawyer will point out a hard fact of why we are there and need the judges ruling on and then they get on the stand and just makes up random nonsense that drags the discussion off into nowhere land. The judge will then ask my lawyer/me for a rebuttal but we have none because we have no clue how to reply to a 5-minute run of completely made-up random nonsense that doesn't really address anything.
All it does is just leave everything hanging in limbo and make more work for us to have to go through and disprove for the irrelevant nonsense it is and waste more of my time and money building more evidence against them that feels a lot like it will never get looked at in the next run through the courtroom anyway.
They never bring anything real to the courtroom, just empty claims of having all this evidence that proves me wrong that never shows up ever (Because it does not exist.) backed by excuses for why they could not bring it in that day and that leads into the endless nonsensical made up stuff that drags the day's meetings into nonsense land and way from why we are there.
I had a phone hearing this morning, courts is resumed till June, I'm able to filed a motion fire 4th public defender for not getting me out of jail for wrongful arrest and false imprisonment.Now working on a civil lawyer, and Devorce Lawyer to bring the narcissistic Husband to Justice for having me locked up in a Jail cell. For 5 months ,and injured in a wheelchair over a year.
i am locked in a real estate setting with a brother who is a malignant psychopathic narcissist of the worst kind...but after 3 years, I am escaping this weekend!! My question is that, once I move, I was thinking of telling his wife about a SECOND affair she doesn't know about.My question is is that a bad idea and what are the legal complications? There is litigation coming later - his tax evasion, trust Fund misconduct, embezzlement, and breach of contract....Seattle, WA
I’m also curious what you think about her question should she tell the wife about more affairs?
What do you hope to accomplish by divulging this info?
@@FerrellBill nothing
So ready!
Going on three years. He’s ignored every court order and it’s been 5 contempt hearings. When will this end?!
So your motions for Show Cause for Contempt are just getting dismissed? You've got to have evidence and exhibits that prove why they are in contempt.
hi rebecca i live in roswell new mexico thank all your help !!
Tx for your info about Narcissits .. had ho clue I was being manipulated by one for years.
I've just had my flat flagged,last night someone put their hand through my letter box and rattled it the police don't seem to do anything they keep saying I need proof had broken court injunctions,been trespassing,etc, been going on 13 years, from UK
Yes how do you prove?
Thank you Rebecca for all your great advice,I appreciate you so much for all the help you give .Thank you.
Can you please do a video on false allegations against the new stepchildren?
I'm ready!
14 months ongoing divorce & we have no children together. Hes getting plenty of supply, hes been non compliant in HIS own divorce, he filed
I am ready
Tuning in late from Philadelphia suburbs! Soaking up info...
Barb Loftus,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist…
Hi from toowoomba australia
Hi from Fraser coast Australia 🇦🇺
He has through me out of the marital hm.Got Doctors slandering me in medical records I'm homeless,and we are still legally married,and he work at a hospital. I'm ready to take him down ,and who who ever else helping him to commit the crimes,and fraudulent acts that they have caused me for false arrests, and the conspiracy to commit the crimes that did,that caused me bodily injuries for life.
As a divorced father, just know this - a female judge will never rule against a mother. A mother will be allowed to do just about anything - clean out the bank account, hide assests, take what she wants. The judge will say " it's for the children". Trust me, I know this first hand. As a man, keep your money and reduce your layer bills. The lawyers won't this
Illinois, and yes naracist have no low
My Narc husband won’t do what his lawyer has advised him to do so his lawyer just petitioned the court to be dismissed from the case.
How can you send them to jail? My narcissist agreed to follow the court order and then the next day not Ollie the court order
How can they get away with sitting in court waiting on the judge. The narcissist calling the defendant names while both lawyers just sits there. And when the judge comes out the lawyers acts like nothing happened. Can something be done to the lawyers. My daughters ex got away with everything
You really know and care thank you.
I'm a 67 disabled woman living next door to my narcissist sister and brother in law. He actually pulled his penis out and played with himself looking right at me behind my sister's back until I yelled his name. My sister is so oblivious to him. She's all about herself. I've gone no contact and will never step into their home again. Sickos. I have been trying to think of anything to do to let them know I will fight back. They've already turned my family against me. (I have another sister) It's despicable. I may call adult protective services to report elder abuse. I just want them to leave me alone.
I would post and or join discussions but the fact is my narc had convinced himself that i was the abuser and he the victim, and has joined lots of discussions under different profiles
Thank-you.
Tax documents confirmed she made less than $35k and he made more than $200k. But he "lost" his corporate piloting job that was on the books, and claimed he made exactly $0. He's probably flying rich people around and getting paid under the table. That's what he's done in the past as an independent contractor. Her lawyer said she knows his type and, "He will won't pay alimony". He'd rather go to jail than see her win. I could write so much more about how petty and narcissistic he is. How he's hurt my husband emotionally and physically. Maybe I just need to vent somewhere. There's a lot of anger here on the East Coast, and he's in Napa living it up. I'm honestly afraid he'd hire a hitman.
I wish more people in my life read books.
Rex Stout's Nero Wolfe corpus.
Lots of classic, like Ivanhoe, Don Quixote, Uncle Tom's Cabin, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court, Plato, Shakespeare, Gelven, Kant, Schoepenhauer, Einstein, Iris Murdoch, etc.
Thanks for that tender smile...
Nothing works and when you represent yourself you’re screwed! None of my motions have EVER BEEN GRANTED OR EVEN ACKNOWLEDGED!
So helpful! Thank you dear 🙏 Andreja from Croatia.
Great content, as always! Thank you.
I currently have a $1,000,000+ lawsuit against my NarcEx for stealing over $60,000 of my Dept of Veterans Affairs disability compensation in several unlawful child support orders while ignoring her denied claim for apportionment rendered by the VA Secretary.
Okay I wanted to know because I have proof of All Monique Jacksonville FL Thanks You
It was like pulling teeth to get his check stubs and I never received his monthly living expenses I fired my attorney hopefully the new attorney will get him sanctioned.
Judge found ex in four contempts, should of been five, no penalties. Dates are wrong, support amount along others are wrong, many things r wrong on final judgement. I filed for appeal. Am scared. He took me to court for contempt and no contempt was found. Can he be sanctioned for falsely filing. Man am exhausted! He like putting me down in front of judge. I didn't care. He is such a con, liar, narrs. Am pro per
Venetia from Alaska
I'm sorry I missed the live event. Is there another one coming soon?
My question is what do we do when the child (in my case a teenager) is affected by it and lives with my ex.
I left a comment on your Facebook page
This was so helpful thank you so much.
I need you know in my custody battle
I'm Ready!
How does a narcissist respond to loosing in court & also theres a do not contact order in effect?
Beyond ready if you saw my case you would shack your head. Been a year still trying to get child support. We were not married so I feel like I have less rights. Even though together 8 years
🙏🏽❤️& Thanks for the excellent content!
Thank you so much! Great info...I really appreciate it!
@@RebeccaZungEsq You, too!❤️
Hi Rebecca, thank you for very informative video. My girlfriend of 5 years has charged me for Assault GBH. I am guilty. This is the 4th time she returned to my house. She is very manipulative & lies excessively. She always go on a smear campaign before she starts a fight and leaves home. Any advice
Thanks