I Slept With My Stepfather To Revenge My Mother, Now I Live to Regret It
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- čas přidán 23. 03. 2024
- In this heartfelt and educational video, we share the story of Furaha, a young woman from Congo, who made a decision she deeply regrets.
Driven by a desire to get back at her mother, Furaha took a step that has since filled her life with regret. Through her narrative, we aim not to glorify or promote such actions, but to highlight the consequences of decisions made in anger and hurt.
Our goal is to educate on the importance of seeking healthy ways to resolve family conflicts and to hopefully pave a way for Furaha's reconciliation with her family.
Join us as we explore Furaha's journey, the lessons learned, and the path towards healing and forgiveness.
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⚠Let's approach this story with empathy and respect. Our goal is unity and healing, not division. Please keep comments kind and constructive. Thank you for joining us in this journey of reconciliation.
Dear Afrimax thank you for these documentaries which bring to the open the complexities of human relationships.I decided to send in my comments directly to you because indeed you have well meaning people with moderate opinions which are really needed in these painful situations where healing is needed.These are the right thinkers who have love for God and man and do not have knee jerk reactions,and offer self righteous and judgmental opinions which have a similar effect like that of pouring petrol to put out a raging fire. That great religionist Mary Baker Eddy wrote "Let human justice pattern the divine" and in the Scriptures it is written He that is without sin let him first cast a stone" sadly in social media the point that free speech comes with a responsibility is overlooked and truth is sacrificed on the alter of human opinions. Keep up the good work and thank you very much for these insightful and thought provoking documentaries.
My heart has never beat this fast
There is NO excuse for what this young lady did. She really hurt her mother. That was madness!!!
She is just a bad girl. Somebody you didn't like from the beginning, how then sleeping with him?. She was against the idea of the mother marrying again!!.
If she was against her mother marrying that man why did she choose to sleep with him,what did she stands to achieve by sleeping with him ,and also dating the step brother yoo ,you did hurt your mother really .My sister may God Forgive you and forgive yourself and be delivered from that mentality of destroying other people 's relationships.May God heal her mother and forgive her daughter coz ,it's not worthy it to be angry with vanity
Most children tend to be selfish. They are not considerate of their parents marrying again yet the parents also have needs
A rat is a rat
I don't see any sorry or regret in her face 😢😢 she deserves to learn more while out there in the world
I agree with you, she's a very selfish child
She’s and evil girl with no remorse in her face. She’s still proud of what she did. How sleep with someone you never liked from the beginning
Self serving and pathetic daughter to have sex with her step farther to prove his unworthiness...She did exactly what she wanted to do because he didn't force her!!
Exactly
You are mom to be remarried after your father, is none of your business
This girl will continue ruining her mum's life by spoiling all her mum's relationships. She'll also never settle.
This girl is just evil and proud
If mom’s husband is willing to sleep with his wife’s child, that relationship was already ruined. A grown man should know better than to sleep with a girl. Especially a girl who is the daughter of your new wife. He was a pig. Had mom listened to her daughter that he had been saying inappropriate things to her, this never would have happened. I have an 18yo daughter. I would believe her above all else. She is more important to me than any man. I do not understand the women in this country. Mom’s competing with their daughters over men. That’s so weird and disgusting. If my daughter told me a man I married was saying sexual things to her, I’d kick him out immediately. Choose your children. Men come and go. I’ve been married 16yrs. My husband looks at 18yo girls as just kids. He would never sleep with a teenager. Absolutely disgusting. It’s weird that you are defending this awful selfish mother and her perverted ex husband.
@@christinethemommy6094tell them loud and clear…it’s appalling that no one is mentioning the pedophile.
The friend must be careful. She might sleep with her friend's boyfriend/husband 🚮
Her mother not believing her doesn't give her the right to sleep with her mother's hubby,she's trying to defend herself with lame excuses,
She could have told her mother that he is asking her to come to hotel and just arrive just before the act.opening her legs for her father.terrible man also.Even the son will not like him
Thr mother should have believe her daughter and dealt with the situation. Oftentimes parents do not believe their children when they have perverted spouse. She did tell her remember
Most children are sexually assaulted after informing their mother. When this mother is in denial or trying to safe their marriage. May God protect children of the whole world.
That still doesn't mean she should sleep with him; it only shows she wants him too
I see almost everyone is cursing the girl bt we need a hand of God to heal the earth cz wen EVIL deeds happened God can punish us all whether right or rong... God we pray hv mercy on us and give us the way to go.. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can nt do bt courage to know the difference
Our God forgives and gives a second chance, may she be forgiven and be restored AMEN
You don't do that to your mother it heart broken
The stepfather groomed her since she was 12. Our community is full of those pedophile
Some ladies trust men than their own kids.if she had warned the man when her doughter told her all couldn't happen.she hahas to forgive the doughter because she's the one to be blamed because she trusted the husband than her own kid.
Remember that you will experience the same with your children and to the next generation,whatever you plant is what you reap,i can never do that to my mother no matter how evil she may be, see now you've made it worse and you have become your mum's worst enemy,I pity you,😭
Let's hope for unity and forgiveness instead of curse. We serve a merciful God when we come in brokenness.Their reconciliation is important
@@praise-tehilam3167For God Sake where is the moral here? She seems to be have a psychological problem. She hasn't any remorse to ruin the Mothers reputation. How can she sleep with the men that shared the bed with her Mother. First the Son and than the father. She likes to get passed? No matter how bad the Stepfather was, it was not her Business to proof any whatsoever. She should had told her Mother about the Behaviour of her Stepfather. Atleast she is 18, she can look for a Job and earn her own money. Is she feeling any remorse what she did, she should help her Mother with Household and give her Money back.
Is she really 18 yrs old? She looks older. No forgiveness from me this knew what she was doing she is just a bad gal. How dare! Her mothers husband! She hard and I bet she may do something like this again she have respect for her mother and brought down shame on mother and family. For the rest of time I personally wouldn't bother with her. SAD SAD SAD.
Very true ,she looks ,older than the mum
Sure wouldn't want her as a friend; because I wouldn't trust her ( if you could do that to your own mother).
This girl has no regret about what she did at all
You didn't feel good about him but you have the guts to sleep with him it clearly shows this girl is selfish 😢
Lord have mercy on your people 😢
The mother and daughter both looks older then the age they say they are
My thoughts exactly 🤔
Yup
The mother has 5 children how do you expect her to look
@@HolySpiritInspired it doesn’t matter i gave birth to 9 children and I and I am 38 I have aged gracefully thank God. Her and I are the same in age
@@HolySpiritInspired having children doesn't make u look aged,yes it can cause some changes..stress among other reasons can also have an effect on the body.
Furaha, I hope your mom forgives you, and that you can both enjoy being with each other again. Most of all, I hope you forgive yourself. You made a mistake, but you have admitted it, and taken responsibility for it.
I don’t see no remorse in this girl’s face
Nothing surprises me anymore coming from.this part of the world.
Because nothing bad or perverted ever happens in other parts of the world?
Sad story but hopefully thing will get better in the family.
Thank You for sharing this story. God bless this women. Forgiveness is The most important so that God the Father forgive us all our sin. Bless u all! In Jesus Name.
You create your problem girl don't blame your mum
The mother acknowledged that the husband had feelings for her daughter!
She was revenging being separated with her step brother boyfriend. Period.
And she wants to fight her mother. This girl is rebellious
Thanks for sharing this cautioning as well as transformative story;
Perfectly put NEVER make rush decisions out of anger; patience and understanding leads to self control and above all FORGIVENESS as the Swahili saying states"hasira hasara" and "maji yakishamwagika hayasoleki"
Be dearly Blessed AfriMax for being solution oriented as you create awareness;
Information is POWER indeed 👌👀😇☮️🙌
The friend is a good girl that make alots of sense. I hope she changed and God heal and restore them
Girl please I see no sorrow and regret
She mean to own mother even you can see the way she talking her.
Very touching and painful story.
If she didn't like the New father,why she didn't go to her real father?this girl is something else
Sad and heartbreaking.
Hmmmmmmmm 😳🤭😔thanks sir amazing job GOD bless you all the best 👌👍👌💓💓💓
eeeeh😢! 18 !? ( age doesn’t matter ) how now !! that made her look order than her age 😢she will understand her mothers’ pain when she herself becomes a mother .
what a mature kids❤...Bless them
18 year then you are not developed all the way. Why did the stepfather sleep with his stepdaughter… why is nobody talking about that
She doesn't look like her age tbh
Stress will do that
Both her and her mom.look older than their age
that's how people from there look, I am from there, in DRC
The friend should be careful
Very
Mmmmm, am speechless!
In my opinion both of them played a role in this situation, Though her approach was wrong her motives were pure and we shouldn't judge her for it instead we should look at it in different perspective moreover what has happened has happened we should now pray and hope that their relationship get better and instead of blaming either of them we should look at the bright side
Furaha at 18 years old really shouldn't have done that 1:14
Her daughter went too far. If she really wants to proof to her mum that her step Dad wasn't a good man, she should have done that by showing her mum the text message she had with her step Dad. Showing her mum the text message her step father sent to her to meet him in a hotel was enough evidence. Sleeping with her step Dad just to proof a point is very bad.
This goes to all single parents getting married and not listening to her children but trusting their spouses... remember when you go with that kid, it's not his unless he wants to make them his....
Who betrays his own mother and has so less worth for herself will be able to betray everyone.These are unforgivable mistakes and with the most important person in ur life which is part of uur flesh and blood.Lets show respect to urself first ...poor girl she has a lot of hard lessons in front of her
It's absolutely evil this is what you call curse , this is how Satan want people to remain in deep bondages.
Facts!! 💯💯
True my dear
YES FACTS.
Where then she gone, this is shame.
Time heals you they will be fine
Things fall apart walahi,this is sad story
That drunk man that passed the at the ending of the video, did anyone noticed him?😂😂😂
What the girl did was wrong...... your mum wouldn't understand.
I like the mother ❤
She disliked him, had nothing good to say about him, but still slept with him multiple times most likey without the use of any form of protection. Strange behavior from someone who claims that she hated her mother's husband. According to the mother her daughter was meeting up with her husband multiple times in a hotel which implies that this girl slept with her mother's husband multiple times.
Why not staying with the stepfather or carry on with stepbrother, live your mother alone
I can't for give you knew what you were doing from Zambia Evelyn Nsali
She was right.. Her mother hurt her , she suffered a lot.
Why would she kick out her daughter? She was a child when this happened. The man should be held responsible, he’s the adult.
YOH WONDERS NEVER ENDS
May God heal this family in Jesus name.
Have mercy God it's too much
This is very kind and clever young girl, who do well in life.
I ask people please to not judge and bully her.
Many cultures can be different and what this woman is doing is right for her 🥰
God Bless this lovely young woman ❤
Maafin dia ibu, dia anak kandung mu Lindungi dia sayangi jaga perasaannya jangan hancurkan masa depan nya dia membutuhkan kasih sayang mu jgn membencinya 😢
She disrespected herself, her body and her mom’s marriage. Sad
Sleeping with your mom’s husband is crazy. I couldn’t even be her friend if I knew that
Very sad 😞
Zvakaomaa ndapera power😢
Very sad. It reminds me of several talk shows like Maury Popovuch and Jerry Springer. Disturbingly more common than you think. 😮💨 Preditory step fathers.
This girl is possessed with evil. She needs serious deliverance
That man is dirty
Sadly because she is also going to have children and Histrory has a Way if coming back. Feeling si sorry for her 😢
Her way of proving her mother is too immature. When you use your body and soul to prove that man's loyalty, you are only destroying the mother and daughter relationship. Most importantly, you are only hurting yourself not anyone else. 🥺
There is nothing to prove about because time will always tell.
Oooh my goodness 😳
The husband stopped the stepbrother relationship coz he was jealous, not coz he cared
Whatever the situation is there no way I would sleep with any family members
I couldn’t imagine choosing anyone or anything over my child. This mom is wrong. Had she listened to her child in the first place, she would not have made such an immature decision. Mom should have been angry at the disgusting man who groomed her, not her child. How selfish she is. I bet she was jealous of her own child.
The lack of education is why this sort of thing seems to happen in Africa or anywhere really.
Always prepare them children before making decision to marry
This story is sick sick sick…….
I have 4 sons and 3 daughters I couldn't imagine our relationship being like this or even close to this. Now on the other hand my biological mother and I have no relationship and I'm her only daughter my mother hates me for no reason at all it's not normal when I say hate I mean real hate. Like she doesn't want to see me happy or with anything all she does is go around lying on me to whoever will listen. She has called everything from the IRS to CPS if I was getting any kind of government assistance she would call anything to stop me from getting anything. Nothing she does ever work because it's lies she tells when she makes the phone call. this is a reason to not trust your daughter but I would never hate my daughter. My situation with my biological mother is that she hates that everyone loves me and she tries to make people not like me but she becomes more upset because nobody ever believes anything she says about me. The crazy part is that she's still with my biological dad and she says that I can do no wrong and he puts me on a pedestal but I don't do anything wrong so I just stay away to keep confusion down
This girl isn’t a good person she started from dating that man ‘s child and her actions her cannot be justified by wat she did
The friend should beware, she can do it to anyone
What a cursed child😭
She's just tunning her mouth.....she messed up!😢😢
It's her stepfather, what's wrong with you guys blaming her (only). He didn't have to do it.
Nothing wey musa nor go see for Uganda habaaa
You want to show her the truth or you showed him the fruit 🍑
This is crazy ...I still Don't believe
Maybe it's staged.
The stepfather groomed her. She said he was saying uncomfortable comment
She looks older than that
I pray her mum to forgive her but she did very worse thing in life. Even if they say forgiveness but deep inside the heart it still pain forever. Having sex with ur mum's husband u expect her to be happy really !!!This girl look even stubborn if I look at her and to a friend place she may end up selling her body since u manage to open it to ur step dad. Ur dad left ur mum sincerely did she want her mother to be single forever? Is her mum a tree not love again? Was she going to select the best man for her mum? Even that man to mis respect u he has already seen it in her eyes . I pray for u guys to connect together but forgetting is hard .
It is not thé daughter s faut thé mum did nt believe her so she wanted to prove should have think wiesly Anyway God is love there is forgiveness John 3 ❤ 16 For God so love thé world God s Blessings upon thé familly
Her heart needs peace, so don’t look at her face
She must live with shame, it was her choice...if she disliked him why would she sleep with him? so I think that she did as if, to prove that that man is not good
The girl knew right from wrong...yes the mother should have listened to her, but how could she willingly sleep with her stepdad if she disliked him so much?? That doesn't make any sense...if i don't like you, I can't lay with you...the ex husband is a mess
The daughter is ill. Sleeping with your stepbrother and father....... that's a no
She could of stopped after having sex with her step brother but no.
She was meeting up with her step father regularly to have sex. It was not only once.
I believe if they were other men like step uncles, cousins and her mothers male friends she would have had sex with them all. Then say I told you he was no good etc.
The only good thing from this is that they both seem like they do want to have a mother daughter relationship in time. However, the daughter is old enough to live elsewhere and should not be allowed back to live with her mother or have any contact with her mothers future man. I am surprised that her best friend trusts her especially if she has a boyfriend.
This is so messed up!
She felt another man will take the attention of her mom from her. She doesn’t look remorseful.
Forgiveness on both sides is a great thing between mother & daughter.
This story sounds like a Greek Tragedy and I hope the family will eventually reconcile. By the way, I love to hear Congolese speaking Kiswahili, their accents with blended Lingala and French influence makes them sexy.
Everyone is blaming this girl but i wonder why ? I blame the mom for not believing her. Even the Stepdad is to blame. She was naiv for God's sake and needed protection from the mom
It's a tough si
Mswahili wa wapi msenge huyu 😢😢😢