TikToker Tells Fans How He'd Like to Be Remembered in Final Video
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- čas přidán 23. 08. 2023
- A TikTok personality shared his last wishes online before dying by suicide. The VonViddy TikTok account had almost 200,000 followers. Fans tuned it for Muchlinski’s comedy skits and original music. The comedian’s sister Martha confirmed his passing by saying in part, “Joe fought a very long and very terrible battle with his mental illness.” If you are struggling, reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 24 hours a day at 800-273-8255.
Man… you’ve gotta wonder how painful living a life with that sort of addiction is to resort to suicide.
RIP Joe
Maybe it's not his addiction that led him to suicide, u should ask the question where did his addiction come from, or maybe is his addiction him running from his pass
It's not fun.... you feel like a failure because no one can change you but you. No one can reach inside and change your brain. It's scary.
Maybe TikTok itself is bad for wanting to be validate and craving attention.
Who cares this is hilarious 😂
Not nearly as painful as suffering in hell forever.
Survived my own suicide attempt 6 years ago, still haunts me to this day but I’m here. Suicide is not worth it, there’s so much to live for always. Prayers to his family.
So I did 14 years ago sometimes we feel there is no way out, I hope your doing well now , sending you a virtual hug
Glad you’re both still here. Life can suck but it can also be great.
U r a surviver, godbless u to enjoy life.😊
Im glad you’re here. Take care
@@ParadoxFreak It can really suck, but I’d rather it suck than to not have one at all. I am appreciative of every day I get to wake up, it’s a blessing.
Sometimes they don’t want to die they just want to end the pain.
Yep, that's how I used to feel. You start thinking there's no other way out.
Exactly
@@avalonjustin glad you’re in a better place now
Exactly
He allowed the demons to get the best of him
My best friend committed suicide twelve years ago. People think they’ll leave all their pain behind when they kill themselves, and they do. They leave it behind for us to bare, along with the almost unsurvivable grief and guilt from their dying the way they did. That being said, I’ve been on the flip myself, so numbed by depression I felt it might be best, and certainly easier, to kill myself and be done with it. Instead I chose to reach out for help. There’s always hope while there’s life. Each day is a new chance. Don’t waste it.
Well said mate well said...
It's selfish to want someone to endure pain that is obviously unbearable just so that you can have them around.
@@phatplates When it happens to you, you may judge.
@@donnacaldwell3267 like I said, wanting someone around just because you want them around is selfish. You certainly can't do anything for them at that point so your point is worthless.
@@phatplates huh?>
My brother also died by suicide at age 32 in 2021, and I miss him everyday.
RIP Joe. You will surely be remembered not just by your loved ones but by all the lives you've touched through your videos. ❤
may your brother rest in paradise. sorry for your loss ,🤍
God Bless You and ALL of your loved ones
My brother Micheal killed himself,August 11,2023,I wish he would've talk to someone about his problems,he was Always happy,we never saw this coming,he was 35,I cry everyday for you Micheal,I wish you was still here.😭😭💔
@@reneaMichealMartin684 my cousin did March 1, 2023 and it has been a rough year. I’ve been so depressed and haunted by it but I loved him as much as I love him now. Just wish he would’ve felt like he could come to me or anyone for that matter.
Sorry for your loss dude!
If you're depressed and having a tough time, ask for help. You don't have to die or be miserable.
Sometimes there is no help that works and his sister says he tried for years, he seemed at peace with his decision.
It's not always that easy to find the right therapist who will actually care about your well-being than their pockets and then nowadays most people don't really care about how you feel because it's always the old saying that "everyone goes through issues blah blah blah". I know I suffer from the thought of ending my life daily but I have my fiancee who cares about me and who wants nothing but the best for me so I can't let her down. But it's seriously hard
If it were that simple, I can assure you nobody would resort to ending their lives.
It takes a lot of mental strength to fight those thoughts and I don't think most people understand that. Rip to this person who had to put on a fake smile every day to help someone else going through something that they couldn't fight off.
How did He kill himself did he hang himself?
I’ve survived 5 attempts. But now that I’m medicated with the right meds my mind is clear and I feel great these days. That was all during my time in the psych ward. Love each day.
Who ask
5 times that's more of look at me I need attention.
@@VideoHouseExtra for your 2 cents. Not me
@@zacharybear7243I’ve been lost with reality since 2012
i constantly think about my last attempt 3 years ago that put me in a coma for 4 days, my life has changed drastically since that day partly for the better and partly for the worse. i still think about how the world would be better off without me but i’ve survived for a reason. idk what that reason is but i guess i’m here to find out. i pray for every single person who has ever experienced any mental health issues.
How did you try to kill your self if you don’t mind me asking with all due respect
I'm glad you're still here
I’m glad your here, the world would, NOT, be better off without you. The world needs you. You got this. We all go through things, but how your able to manage through them, is what makes you. Don’t let society, make you question your worth, or make you question, your character. I wish you well.
@@Hartleymolly much appreciate 💞💞
When i see things like this, it makes me feel so grateful to have my family to talk to. I was going through a rough time back in 2018 and had some thoughts going through my head, i just looked at my wife and said "hey we need to talk" started breaking down to her, next thing you know my parents were at my door. We talked for quite some time, I'm not saying I'm 100% but I'm really close to it. If you're ever feeling lost just talk to someone close to you
Great family network you have there. I pray your healing will be full and complete.
He was so funny😭 I understand the struggle of dealing with depression and other mental illness. Rest in peace 🫶🏾
Never heard of him
@@VideoHouseExtra good for you…👍🏾
I'm sorry he had to go through such constant mental pain 😞
Yeah now he is going through eternal suffering
Remember folks suicide doesn’t cure the pain it only gives it to others. We’re all struggle in some way or another. The world will miss you even if you don’t think so. I ask that you please stay and struggle with us.
I have fought mental health battles majority of my life. Ntm Alcoholic/Addict and burned EVERY BRIDGE I had..
Luckily I SPOKE UP & just saying it out loud took away the power it had on me ..
Find who asked
Man, I know how it feels to be depressed and lonely. This is one of the worse things we all have to go through. It's torture. I was depressed and lonely for 4 years now and I feel like I'm not that special or important to anyone online.
I do have friends and families that I love and care, but I feel like something special is missing for me out there. It's the last puzzle piece. I really don't know what the last special puzzle piece means for me in my life when I find it and it's still out there. Everyone and of course CZcamsrs has one in there videos but not me. I know how it feels to live with this kind of torment. I'm just unhappy! 😞
The last piece of the puzzle is Allah thats what your missing
Fatherless + Touch Grass + Ratio
It’s been 17 long years since I’ve survived my suicide attempt and still have scars where I self harmed myself. It’s a constant reminder of my dark past and how far I’ve come. Even till this day I struggle with my mental health. But it has gotten better. Just try to stay positive! 😃
Lmao who does SH just rope 😂
@@VideoHouseExtrabro it’s not funny
Glad your in a better mindset😊
The only thing that helped me was something my teacher said “think about your family/ the people that love you n see you everyday”. Depression doesn’t go away after u pass instead it gets passed on to the ones that loved u the most. As someone that has depression I would never want anyone, especially the ones I love to have to feel how I feel just cuz I decided to die one day.
So basically they’re the only ones I’m here for so instead of being miserable. I should just try to live as best I could
What if no one cares if you live or d ie?
Man, I know how it feels to be depressed and lonely. This is one of the worse things we all have to go through. It's torture. I was depressed and lonely for 4 years now and I feel like I'm not that special or important to anyone online.
I do have friends and families that I love and care, but I feel like something special is missing for me out there. It's the last puzzle piece. I really don't know what the last special puzzle piece means for me in my life when I find it and it's still out there. Everyone and of course CZcamsrs has one in there videos but not me. I know how it feels to live with this kind of torment. I'm just unhappy! 😞
They'll move on. Not a good reason
unnecessary guilt. when you're depressed ypu dont think anyone cares anyways
My first real attempt at ending my life was when I was 17 years old. I ended up doing damage to my heart and have suffered with depression all my life. I seem to fall victim to so many awful people in this world and I continue to suffer. I am alone now. The only way I can protect myself from these predatory monsters that always seem to know I would be a good victim. Someday I too will end up like Joe, but now I have responsibilities. This past year there has been more suicides than ever before.
My sincere thoughts and prayers for this man’s family. I don’t have TikTok but I am sure his passing will cause many people to feel sad. I am saddened by how many people seem to have no compassion or empathy in these comments.
This is so heart breaking. I’m literally crying. He had his whole life in front of him. God Bless his soul. I hope he’s at rest now. Pheww 😢 so sad. Condolences to his family.
I wish it was easy getting helped but not all of us can be helped RIP Joe
Touch grass
Living is no joke. We’re not taught how to deal with the real nuances of life especially when you have a mental illness. But let’s keep up the fight
A lot of people who have jumped the golden gate bridge, only 4% survive. All of them who jumped on their way down, their whole life flashes and they immediately regret thinking that was it and they wake up in the hospital happy that they survived. Takes four seconds to hit the water, but people who survives said that four seconds feels like forever.
my god! i just discovered his account about a month ago. his British talking "Well, at least-" video made my day. such a horrible and tragic year.
I am no longer crying about someone I don’t even know. Things have to be rough to do that, now that I hear he was an atheist, my sadness has gone away.
❄
@fredmeyer8726
He was an atheist who mocked religion
When you care more about a fantasy land creature than other living, breathing humans… you know you’ve been deceived by the Devil.
@@541F- religion is only good for one thing; finding a common purpose.
Typical "loving" Christian
I know the feeling... rest well my brother 🙏
No rest I hell . Constant torment forevermore.
My God I feel so bad for him and people who leave life in this manner. Heartbreaking
Yes one naturally feels sorry for him, he was a vehemently vile atheist and it led to his demise by his own hands,, he couldn't find meaning in life. Let's be glad he didn't take others with him
@@AlexJones-stratfor-connectionshame on you
It doesnt have to end this way. I only know because i once had crippling suicidal depression and thought the hell would never end. Depression makes you think its forever when youre in the thick of it. You cant imagine better days. You can have better days but you will not discover that by cutting your life short. Depression especially this serious is something you cant go alone, you need to reach out for help.
Good man, I'm glad you're here to experience the beauty of life. May life treat you best and even though I dont know you, i wholly wish you get the best of times, because you deserve it man.
No one helps me with suic idal depression,
Who asked
Rest in peace 😢 mental health ain’t no joke!!
It’s more like a hoax. The hell he is in isn’t no joke.
Sometimes i pray not to wake up. Die in my sleep. Life has been really hard even after putting in your best all these years. Lost a brother, A father and a Mother. Surviving these loses, i have a legacy to sustain. My inner world has been up side down since then. I Sometimes see death as a better place because its sometimes hard to even explain your pain. May we find peace and love someday.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Most communities have a free bereavement support group, there's online ones too if doing face to face is not your thing. Please try to find an outlet for the weight you carry that works for you. Nothing will take it away but finding an outlet or distraction (except drugs or drink of course) may help. The emptiness will never completely go away but one can find ways to fill the void. I'm sorry for your losses, sending you love from Toronto, Canada xo
@@joan-lisa-smith 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
All bad moments come and go in waves. Keep going because you will find something that’ll make life worth living. Wish you the best
Stuck in a rut for a decade here. I understand. No judgement. 🖤
Sometimes it really doesn't get better.
prayers to his family and loved ones
Takes a lot of courage to end one's own life. I could never do it.
Cowardice, not courage.
True. The lizard brain fears self deletion
Rip good man, you will be remembered.
It is sad. Very sad to be torn between two worlds of not wanting to live with the pain anymore or possibly staying alive for tomorrow to see if it is a better day. Just try to see if tomorrow is a better day. Just keep trying. ❤
Everyone writing comments about what TO DO but no one, and I mean no one in this comment section, would go out of their way to actually DO SOMETHING to help those in need. I lost so many Marine Brothers to suicide and I continue to lose close friends in the civilian world. There is no support. I spend most of my free time away from my family to be “on duty” for my brothers and sisters and loved ones. There needs to be a mental health awareness AND solution in this country. Asap. Start with the VA and other agencies.
Sad, Sad News!!! RIP
Bless You, Family n Friends 😢
The last thing id like to be remembered is me being on a tik tok account. The ammount of mental decay in social media for weak people is fatal.
Damn!❤ R.i.P brother 😢
We all have inner struggles some worse than others but we truly never know until it's out in the open🤔
Rest in Paradise, Joe ❤
Condolences to all who Love Joe🌹
This is terrible, heartbreaking and sad rip.
Everyone suicide is real, mental health and illness is real if you having a hard time to deal with it please ask for help go to someone that you really trust because life is worth living
It's incredible to me that someone can clearly recognize they have a problem, be so articulate about it, and still choose to give up instead of fighting and seeking help. I just do not understand it.
sometimes we do seek for help, and it doesn’t work unfortunately.
@@goawayimhigh I suppose it's possible that this guy had absolutely no friends or family willing to help him, but I somehow doubt that.
@@Falcon-um7vo it’s not even that, some of us don’t want to reach out to someone we know, there’s a heavy amount of shame and fear that comes with telling someone you know your deepest darkest feelings. maybe it’s just me but i’m kinda in the same boat as this dude and just speaking my experiences
@@goawayimhigh So you're not seeking help like you said in your first post. I understand about the shame and fear, but why on earth would death be better than that? Makes no sense. FIGHT!
@@Falcon-um7vo it’s not that we don’t seek out help, it’s that “help” isn’t all what it’s made out to be, i’ve been on approximately 10 different anti depressants, 7 different therapists, and a bunch of doctors but i’m still in the same boat as i was when i first started. sometimes the “help” offered doesn’t actually help.
Rest In Peace ❤
He committed suicide he’s not resting in peace
@The servant
You haven't a clue, nor, do YOU get to judge
@@TheServantOfJesusChristyes god loves his creation so much, that when his children suffers throughout their life, they’re gonna suffer for eternity after death as well.
@@xtcyrafa You go to hell because of your own sins
Romans 6:23 (NKJV) For the wages of sin [is] death, but the gift of God [is] eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
@@iseeu5795 if you don’t repent of your sins and surrender to God you will go to hell. God gives everyone free will but it’s up to us if we want to humble ourselves and get right with him.
May the Lord strengthen our spirit in difficult time
Amen
@@TheServantOfJesusChristI wanna snuggle with god and kiss his feet ^_^
So sad. Mental health is so important. To anyone fighting any silent battles. You got this. ❤❤❤ talk to someone now. I’m happy I was saved 😢.
Suicide is stupid. Life’s to be lived. If you don’t like it, you can always dedicate it to serving others.
Sorry but as a Catholic (and I know many people here will disagree) I know he won’t be at peace…. And that’s a shame… I’ve battle also with depression but never once have I thought to take my own life and be selfish. I have a family and a son to take care off….. it’s just selfish. I apologize in advance if my comment is rude not my intention!
Hell isn’t a real place, but I can show you hell. 😂
@@mactastic144 you just contradicted yourself tf
God won't put those with mental illness in hell for mental illness is a circumstance out of human control.
Good thing he took himself out instead of taking others out with him
@@dylanfarnum1488 🍘 🐖 🤣🤣🤣😅
He is smiling because he has control of his life by making the choice to end it. RIP Joe. ❤❤
💔💔💔 My condolences to his family and friends
There is truly no hell you could put your loved ones through that is worse than losing you to suicide.
Your loved ones want you here with them, through thick or thin.
Please reach out when you need help.
I wish my brother Micheal would've,he died August 11,2023,I AM going to miss him.
@@reneaMichealMartin684 🫂🫂🫂I lost a cousin to suicide a few years back.
Oh please they'll move on. Most peoples parents die and they keep trucking
@@scholaroftheworldalternatehist I truly feel sorry for you. The fact that you go out of your way to be cold to people concerning the subjects of grief and loss just shows how broken you are...I'm not being cruel but genuine here. Please reach out to someone and get some help, therapy, spiritual healing etc. Please stop projecting your stuff onto people because it's not going to do anything but make you more miserable. And it's not okay. I'm praying for you and I'm sorry for whatever you have been through. Be kind to people.
@@Samahra01You seem like a child. When you grow up and get older more and more people within your network will die. But people move on because they have to. No other choice.
🙏 Oh Joe ... You should have taken things more easy ... Nobody is perfect in this imperfect & chaotic world ... Everybody has their own personal issues to deal with ... Ask for help & take one baby step at a time to solve them one item at a time ... 🙏 Deepest condolences to the families & friends of Joe ... May Joe be blessed to a better world & realm ... 🕯🌼🌿🌍🕊
Rest in peace love 🙏🏾🥺
Heartbreaking ‼️💔RIP Joe‼️‼️‼️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Rest in peace 😢
Condolences to the family
Rest in peace pal.
Can you do a video of Windham Rotunda (aka Bray Wyatt)? He was a professional wrestler and a WWE legend, and he unfortunately passed away today at 36 years old :(
What a beautiful spirit, may he fly high in the arms of his angels now and be at eternal peace…. My heart goes out to his family
Suicide is a selfish act so he is not with angels. He is in quite the opposite place
@@FIr3BLZ Maybe you'll be going to the opposite place, but that's not how this works. The man was pained and did what he had to do, that can be forgiven. Passing judgement in the way you're doing cannot.
@@featheryfemme He did not do what he had to do. What he should’ve done was go to Jesus. Jesus would’ve shown him the path that he was meant to have. But he ended his life before his purpose was revealed to him. So it was selfish and he has to pay the price because of it.
@@FIr3BLZ Jesus would understand his decision. Jesus would not understand your keenness to tear down a suffering man in death and make claims on what he should or should not have done. I can't say whether you will or won't go to Heaven, but you've clearly got a tarnished soul. It would be great if you could work on that.
@@featheryfemme I was given my calling this summer and have been doing some deep studying of scripture and other research and with all that I have learned before I am sure where I stand. Where do you stand?
I feel this, RIP.
Suicide is so tragic. A permanent solution for a temporary condition. 😢😢😢
It's not temporary most of the time.
I wish there were more resources for people like him and me.
We'll miss you... ❤ Rest easy Joe.
Nah the demons won't let him rest 😂
He wanted to leave, so he left. Movin on.
RIP Joe.
(1991-2023)
I can’t believe he’s really gone 😭
How horrible. This story felt very insensitively reported. Sorry to Joe and his loved ones.❤
Oof. And I just turned 32 today.
I feel for his family
This is bad. Social media is not for announcing your death by suicide. I hate TikTok anyway and that video in itself should be a trigger warning.
We have lost a sweet soul...
Too young to die 🥹😭💐💐🙏. R.I.P.💐💐💐
Damm. I’ve never seen or heard of this guy, but poor dude.
Very sad. RIP 🕊️
RIP Joe. My great uncle and my friend died both by suicide. It was yrs ago. When my grandma died that was it for him. She was all he’ve got. He felt completely alone and not his family like my father did much about it. He needed attention 24/7.
Lmao L family
@@VideoHouseExtra You don’t wort it
Rest in peace 🙏
RIP JOE 🥀
Breason
God bless this family with everything they need through this heart breaking time in their lives and beyond . In Jesus name we ask of you and thank you Father God . Amen Amen and Amen..
😭😭😭❤🙏
It's hard out there but don't stop trying!
Rest In Peace.
God have mercy.
Rest in peace
Tik tok needs to do a better job because of this person and someone else who passed away ! Rest in peace
RIP❤
I have become anxious and had some mild depression. All over money issues. I need about $50k. I never had issues before.
I just sometimes want to end it all and stop the suffering. My family would be fine due to insurance, but I do not know how much longer I can live with this burden. I never had these emotions before I ran into my financial issues… it really sucks to worry all the time !
Please get help and talk to someone. This is no joke.
Rest in peace ;(
If only people prayed from the ❤️ to GOD. Repent your sins, pray to GOD, believe in your heart JESUS IS LORD, turn from all sin, have faith in Jesus, baptism of water AND SPIRIT, ask god for the Holy Spirit to come UPON YOU, and BAM depression is HEALED IF YOU BELIEVE and you have the Holy Spirit to cure you. People forget to BELIEVE, have FAITH, AND ASK FOR THE SPIRIT TO COME UPON you. After that you can FEEL THE SPIRIT and that spirit helps you. Inside your body
R.I.P. Joe ❤
No one rests in peace heaven or hell is your options simple as ❤
Lord have mercy.
Maybe I'm wrong, but it seems like when ppl talk about how much pain he must've been in, it's almost like they're advocating for suicide. I feel sorry that this guy didn't get the help he needed, it should never have come to that.
He spent his life making fun of religious people...while he couldnt even get his own life together. Bye bye
And people like you who would so callously dismiss the lives of others and forget to forgive as the lord instructs will answer at the gate for your willful disregard of his word and commandment.
god must think we’re adorable in a way
TikTok taking peoples lives.
So sad, anyone know how he did it?
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The Internet and Sports Betting is going this to the world
Ohhhhhh No. RIP sweet soul.
Sounds like his own family failed him.
Feel free to go next
May he roast in peace
Life is dark and society is cruel, I think it's disgusting how they chalk his suicide up to mental illness he probably felt a sense of normlessness maybe he was tired of life and wasnt happy in his situation and how his life turned out..... its pretty easy to feel ur behind everyone else In such a technologically Advanced Society especially one that's only concerned with the brand images
I have a family friend that has mentioned about suicide and mental health issues. But also being seen by a doctor and on medication for it. Is there still something the hotline can help with this? Should I have the family friend call the hotline?
Have them call it, and be there to support them. You’re a great friend.
I guess tiktok prolonged his life a few more years, but that internal battle can never be won with external stimuli.