How a Southerner shed his racism

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  • čas přidán 13. 08. 2015
  • Franklin McCallie, 75, grew up in the segregated South as an admittedly ignorant bigot. Today, McCallie dedicates much of his time to promoting strong relationships between whites and blacks. So what caused McCallie's views to change? As he tells it, it was a conversation he had in 1961 that forever changed him.

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  • @henriverbrugghen8715
    @henriverbrugghen8715 Před 4 lety +20775

    He wasn’t racist, he just was too scared to challenge his parents beliefs

    • @erichkaufmann5284
      @erichkaufmann5284 Před 4 lety +131

      Just because something is racist, doesn’t mean it’s not true.

    • @BennTenn100
      @BennTenn100 Před 4 lety +1071

      @@erichkaufmann5284 What?

    • @wavyturkmusic
      @wavyturkmusic Před 4 lety +142

      Bryan Castillo not everyone is equal, however much that annoys some SJWs it’s still true. However, doesn’t mean that everyone doesn’t deserve equal opportunity, of course they do.

    • @ls200076
      @ls200076 Před 4 lety +21

      @@erichkaufmann5284 So you also hate the people from Yakutia

    • @kaihinds926
      @kaihinds926 Před 4 lety +11

      @@erichkaufmann5284 like?

  • @vipermad358
    @vipermad358 Před 4 lety +8311

    It takes a strong man to admit he is wrong.

    • @meanmistermustard1041
      @meanmistermustard1041 Před 4 lety +202

      Yes. Donald Trump, for instance, is not a strong man.

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak Před 4 lety +147

      @@meanmistermustard1041 Well, he does have one strong suit: He's got to be the the Best Liar the world has ever seen.

    • @masongianakos1334
      @masongianakos1334 Před 4 lety +9

      @@meanmistermustard1041 cap

    • @adayinoctober
      @adayinoctober Před 4 lety +86

      NevoyFN nope not cap, Donald trump acts like a child

    • @isaplane8889
      @isaplane8889 Před 4 lety +5

      B Bodziak what did he lie about? Im not a supporter I’m just curious

  • @ZenkaiGamingZ
    @ZenkaiGamingZ Před 2 lety +2932

    The part he said his stomach got tight, he knew it was wrong. That's the conscience inside of you. He wasn't racist, he was taught to believe that he was

    • @MotionX01
      @MotionX01 Před 2 lety +85

      @Mary It may shock you that not everyone judges someone on who they are based on their race. They may notice it but that doesn't drive their opinion of them.

    • @imnotreallyjess4318
      @imnotreallyjess4318 Před 2 lety +46

      @Mary wow you must live a terrible life huh

    • @PoorEdward
      @PoorEdward Před 2 lety +3

      @Mary primeval man, that’s right

    • @spice5458
      @spice5458 Před 2 lety +9

      @Mary shutup you mean your racist

    • @cristopherpino9689
      @cristopherpino9689 Před 2 lety +2

      @Mary I’m not racist. 🤨🤨

  • @oneshotman45
    @oneshotman45 Před 2 lety +1699

    It's actually insane what having an actual conversation with someone and really LISTENING to what they say can do for you.

    • @MatthewSmith-vc8go
      @MatthewSmith-vc8go Před 2 lety +33

      We've sadly lost that ability in this society.

    • @Travybear1989
      @Travybear1989 Před 2 lety +2

      If I were in the room with that racist I'd just cancel him.

    • @mrlofi333
      @mrlofi333 Před rokem +2

      Overall the years of racism I’m sure he did can’t be forgiven in one apology it is what it is

    • @EclecticallyEccentric
      @EclecticallyEccentric Před rokem +7

      @@mrlofi333 Of course not. No one can change the past. You can do your best to make up for it and be better in the future.

    • @albertoaguilar9773
      @albertoaguilar9773 Před rokem

      .

  • @s0uptim3
    @s0uptim3 Před 4 lety +9084

    Proof that just because you’re raised racist, doesn’t mean you can’t shed it.

    • @slothyy9503
      @slothyy9503 Před 4 lety +36

      True dat

    • @tristan583
      @tristan583 Před 4 lety +6

      Just an interview and you believed it ?

    • @sebastianmuenzberg4197
      @sebastianmuenzberg4197 Před 4 lety +59

      Everything that you acquire can be dropped

    • @hooper157
      @hooper157 Před 4 lety +71

      Tristan yes because he would took the time to do this and exposed himself he clearly has changed

    • @deuberry9784
      @deuberry9784 Před 4 lety

      The residuals remain in his face and tune of voice, I’m not convinced.

  • @SkyjackGames
    @SkyjackGames Před 4 lety +9081

    I don’t think he was ever racist, just living by his parents beliefs until he was old enough to think for himself and realized how wrong that is.

    • @dpolanco96
      @dpolanco96 Před 4 lety +32

      kase linden yea so true

    • @StuartFuckingLittle
      @StuartFuckingLittle Před 4 lety +118

      Same with religion, friend.

    • @StuartFuckingLittle
      @StuartFuckingLittle Před 4 lety +122

      If we can believe that there is a magical sky fairy dictating our every move, like an overprotective parent, then I believe we can (if indoctrinated of course) believe something as stupid as segregation because of 'skin colour.'

    • @parkersposts
      @parkersposts Před 4 lety +40

      @@StuartFuckingLittle That is a amazing comment I am showing that to my highly religious friend I'm trying to get him to like gays because I think I might be gay and I want to come out to him

    • @ThisaraGamalath
      @ThisaraGamalath Před 4 lety +4

      @@StuartFuckingLittle well said...

  • @aterriblesliceoftoast4096
    @aterriblesliceoftoast4096 Před 2 lety +322

    The fact he feels the way he does, feels so remorseful, brought to tears, due to societal failure toward people just because of where their parents or grandparents might’ve been born.
    What a man.

    • @BobsVagene
      @BobsVagene Před 3 měsíci

      It's not about where they were born, it's the content of their character that's the problem.

  • @andrewmitchell7850
    @andrewmitchell7850 Před 2 lety +101

    I grew up in Arkansas, was raised around nothing but racists. I joined the army at 21 and that’s when I shed my racism. I couldn’t believe I had been so ignorant my whole life. I was ashamed to say the least. I’ve told the longer version of my story to black soldiers I serve with. Some tell me the same except with roles reversed, they grew up in an environment hating whites. I have connected with them as friends on a deeper level because of it. We are all more alike than we are different.

    • @PabloJones819
      @PabloJones819 Před měsícem

      That’s the whole point. Everyone is fuckn racist. It’s called tribe mentality.

    • @StonefieldJim4
      @StonefieldJim4 Před 18 hodinami

      ✌️

  • @sayetazonen6607
    @sayetazonen6607 Před 4 lety +12023

    the greatest difference is that he listened to a black man. racists are quick to regurgitate what they learned without hearing the other side. he was brought up racist but was gifted with the ability to listen.

    • @LaurenJewel
      @LaurenJewel Před 4 lety +90

      THISSSSS

    • @bland6004
      @bland6004 Před 4 lety +256

      1:24 is the most important part. If you want to get someone to understand you, insulting them and hating them is the worst thing you can do.

    • @bland6004
      @bland6004 Před 4 lety +53

      @Happy Stressy it's all about whether you did your best or not. You can't get through to everyone, but at least you know you tried. And treating them like a friend who could use some help is better than treating them like an enemy who needs to change. Everyone in hate just needs help, not more hate.

    • @libbymills4432
      @libbymills4432 Před 4 lety +3

      I love it.

    • @JSmellerM
      @JSmellerM Před 4 lety +58

      I actually think the black guy he met had the ability to talk. Mr McCallie clearly said 'if John would've insulted my father the conversation would've been over'. How many of you would've told him his father is an idiot? John just asked to make your own experiences instead of taking over your predecessors stereotypes.

  • @akashsuresh1369
    @akashsuresh1369 Před 4 lety +6021

    The regret in the man's voice is painfully obvious. If only humans learned.

    • @akashsuresh1369
      @akashsuresh1369 Před 4 lety +16

      @Mr Glass
      True, but we humans never learn.

    • @Rationalist101
      @Rationalist101 Před 4 lety +12

      @Mr Glass But it seems like the bad is just overcoming the good.

    • @S_u_n_Flower_
      @S_u_n_Flower_ Před 4 lety +10

      @@Rationalist101 In the end times the Bible said the wrong would be right and the right would be wrong.

    • @Rationalist101
      @Rationalist101 Před 4 lety +2

      @@S_u_n_Flower_ Yep

    • @JoelKRO
      @JoelKRO Před 4 lety +4

      @24delagarza7884 exactly what I thought 🤔

  • @wmckain
    @wmckain Před 2 lety +80

    This is really inspiring. That young black student invested 3 hours of patience and calm and look, it changed this man's life and countless others. And he had ears to listen too.

  • @LeedleLee457
    @LeedleLee457 Před 2 lety +223

    This guy isn't really a bigot, he was just raised in a bad environment. That's why he was able to shed it. Trust me there are plenty of people who are truly ignorant bigots that are beyond shedding their racism.

    • @eddie2745
      @eddie2745 Před 2 lety +2

      Answer me this are you a white man or woman

    • @JL-zo1wd
      @JL-zo1wd Před 2 lety +9

      well he isn't anymore but he was before........

    • @Travybear1989
      @Travybear1989 Před 2 lety +2

      Well, he was born white...

    • @thefighter6071
      @thefighter6071 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Travybear1989 Im curious what you mean by that. Don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you are accusing anyone born white of being a bigot.

    • @Travybear1989
      @Travybear1989 Před 2 lety

      @@thefighter6071 My social studies teacher in United States of America said that people who are born white have privilege from birth and I believe her because I know a lot of black people and they have way more problems than white people do. I am Thai and my parents had to move here and experienced racist attitudes for many years from white people so I can't imagine how black people must feel. In Thailand black foreigners are looked at as lesser and white people are looked at as superior because they are rich.

  • @lilahmarie5846
    @lilahmarie5846 Před 3 lety +6013

    "I don't think you and I know enough about that to discuss it intelligently."
    That is maturity right there.

    • @SirFloofy001
      @SirFloofy001 Před 3 lety +129

      Its so much more to. Maturity, intelligence, respect for him and his father not to embarrass them.

    • @pt4963
      @pt4963 Před 2 lety +20

      @@SirFloofy001 Asians call it saving face.

    • @gametastic6928
      @gametastic6928 Před 2 lety +13

      Amen, that is one of the smartest quotes I think I have ever heard someone say. If only more people thought like that today.

    • @swimfan752
      @swimfan752 Před 2 lety +14

      @@pt4963 cringe asf

    • @pt4963
      @pt4963 Před 2 lety +10

      @@swimfan752 Get out of your tiny bubble.

  • @danielbloomfield9452
    @danielbloomfield9452 Před 4 lety +5874

    This is a guy who wouldn’t say the N word even if I gave him a pass.

    • @ThePagoy
      @ThePagoy Před 4 lety +135

      Daniel Bloomfield N word as in Nerd?

    • @ns7353
      @ns7353 Před 4 lety +152

      You really let that word define you and white people. You include it in your language as a type of leverage, you should stop

    • @m.h2247
      @m.h2247 Před 4 lety +203

      Nathaniel Sheehan or you can just not say it and move on with your day

    • @Yeecourse
      @Yeecourse Před 4 lety +37

      @@ns7353 leverage for what? And how does it define me?

    • @ns7353
      @ns7353 Před 4 lety +32

      BiggieCheeseTheLord leverage to say there is a ethnicity that has a right of superiority of speech. What if they prohibit further words they deem unsuitable? handing out “N word passes” is a dangerous road to censorship.

  • @jwilcox4726
    @jwilcox4726 Před 2 lety +71

    My daddy was a racist cop that beat us regularly. So we never liked him when kids, afraid of him really. So when he didn't like dark brown people we made sure we did. Momma was so afraid when I brought my girlfriend home and she sat in Dad's living room chair. She was so afraid he could smell a dark brown person like he said that she sprayed his chair with Llysol. OMG. So we had dark brown friends over when both not home and no daddy never could tell that they had come over. Daddy got educated in college and by me and he changed realizing how disgusting and stupid it was/is to feel this way about anybody ever. We are all just different shades of brown. That's how I raised my children and how I told my grandchildren and now how I will teach my great grandchildren. Every body is a child of God. Satan can't have children. So we are all potential bros and sis' for Christ. Praise God for this man's change and now God has given him a heart

    • @faby_baby
      @faby_baby Před 3 měsíci

      Amen!!
      if anyone reading this doesn’t know, Jesus will fulfill you more than anything in this world, I speak from experience (from when i did Romans 10:9-13), he loves you and wants to be in a meaningful (not romantic) relationship with you. :)
      “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭10‬:‭9‬-‭13‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
      ‭‭Mark‬ ‭1‬:‭15‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      If you want proof that Jesus and the Bible are true look a documentary called “Ron Wyatt discoveries 2022” on CZcams and a CZcams channel called Expedition Bible. They both examine archeological sites and discoveries that prove the Bible, and even reference secular sources. (Just don’t convert to 7th day Adventism after watching the documentary) And lastly if you don’t know the gospel and want to be saved search up “abc’s of Salvation Teenmissions” on Google and it should be the first or second result. When you click on it read the whole thing, and do what it says and have faith in Jesus while you are doing it, do not doubt, and if it is hard for you to do what it says, ask Jesus to help you, have faith that he will, and *he will.*
      God Bless :)

  • @LegionIvory
    @LegionIvory Před 2 lety +340

    2:32 This part is VERY important. It is the key to understanding why, ironically, systemic racism still exists.
    Many white Americans refuse to even hear about what people of color go through, not because they don't think it's real, but because it's too painful for them to listen to. The amount of shame and guilt that surfaces upon hearing you got it better than others because of something as trivial as pigmentation is too much for them to bare. So, they tune it out.
    They ignore it, and they let the injustices continue, because it's easier to pretend like it's not happening than admit so many people suffer from it.

    • @BelieverOfChrist2
      @BelieverOfChrist2 Před 2 lety

      like 80% of all coloured people in the us arent long generation families of slavery, but just a bunch of immigrants who want to profit off of wealthy countries

    • @shineayandrews1869
      @shineayandrews1869 Před 2 lety +6

      I learned that when I was trying to get to know my mother in law. I haven’t experienced much racism living in NY, but when I moved down south with my husband it’s just been wild. I had a woman walk into me with her shopping cart in a Walmart while I was standing well out of her way.

    • @BelieverOfChrist2
      @BelieverOfChrist2 Před 2 lety

      @@shineayandrews1869 pretty sure NY is full of black people

    • @iraniansuperhacker4382
      @iraniansuperhacker4382 Před 2 lety +6

      I think a contributing factor in why some people have a hard time understanding systemic racism is because that phrase gives the impression the system is inherently racist everywhere but that isnt the case. There are these pickets of racism, sometimes its only a town sometimes its almost an entire state but not every single person is going to live somewhere that its a problem. There are huge areas in america where there is functionally no racis. I always go back to MLK with this topic (naturally). I think he way way way a head of his time on how he understood racism. He partially viewed racism as inextricably tied to income inequality and lack of social mobility for all ethnicities so when economic justice stalled out so did racial justice which is why he was trying to start the poor mans march and why our goverment likely killed him. That is why these little pockets and echos of extreme racism from the past were never truely stamped out. The day he died was one of the darkest days in American history, America would have been infinitely better off had he not been assassinated.

    • @BelieverOfChrist2
      @BelieverOfChrist2 Před 2 lety +2

      @@iraniansuperhacker4382 that is your opinion, but i find it a good day

  • @dwiletteatterberry2231
    @dwiletteatterberry2231 Před 7 lety +16772

    I am a black women who knows Mr. Franklin personally and I have attended gatherings at his home. He is genuine and wise. He is passionate about bridging the gap between blacks and whites.

    • @dwiletteatterberry2231
      @dwiletteatterberry2231 Před 7 lety +311

      D Brother yes, he is the retired high school principal

    • @foodtravel9796
      @foodtravel9796 Před 6 lety +175

      Dwilette Atterberry what about us Mexicans? Can we bridge that gap too!??

    • @thanhdinh3179
      @thanhdinh3179 Před 6 lety +112

      Dwilette Atterberry we need more people like him. A lot of people.

    • @waterandafter
      @waterandafter Před 6 lety +24

      BelligerentTruth
      So you're for socialism then? That would get rid of the poor.

    • @mrfester42
      @mrfester42 Před 6 lety +19

      Bless you and him!

  • @divelea
    @divelea Před 4 lety +3792

    He took this so close to his heart, he looks traumatized. His family did this to him.

    • @giulianacr2638
      @giulianacr2638 Před 4 lety +63

      But I'm glad he faced his fears and is trying to help others do the same by creating awareness.

    • @ThEDIPPA1
      @ThEDIPPA1 Před 4 lety +30

      That is what’s called true repentance.

    • @CaesarsLegion1
      @CaesarsLegion1 Před 4 lety +4

      "Tramautized" over Racism 😂😂

    • @dreamer9375
      @dreamer9375 Před 4 lety +40

      @@CaesarsLegion1 Why is that funny to you?

    • @shadowslasher5875
      @shadowslasher5875 Před 4 lety +9

      @@CaesarsLegion1 he was most likely forced to be racist and was scared to challenge his parents beliefs

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one Před 2 lety +49

    This is so touching. I’m glad he cared enough to find things out for himself and it made him a better person.

    • @faby_baby
      @faby_baby Před 3 měsíci

      Same
      Also Jesus will fulfill you more than anything in this world, I speak from experience (from when i did Romans 10:9-13), he loves you and wants to be in a meaningful (not romantic) relationship with you. :)
      “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭10‬:‭9‬-‭13‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
      ‭‭Mark‬ ‭1‬:‭15‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      If you want proof that Jesus and the Bible are true look a documentary called “Ron Wyatt discoveries 2022” on CZcams and a CZcams channel called Expedition Bible. They both examine archeological sites and discoveries that prove the Bible, and even reference secular sources. (Just don’t convert to 7th day Adventism after watching the documentary) And lastly if you don’t know the gospel and want to be saved search up “abc’s of Salvation Teenmissions” on Google and it should be the first or second result. When you click on it read the whole thing, and do what it says and have faith in Jesus while you are doing it, do not doubt, and if it is hard for you to do what it says, ask Jesus to help you, have faith that he will, and *he will.*
      God Bless :)

  • @leigh4326
    @leigh4326 Před 2 lety +15

    Much respect to you for finding the light, unlearning racism and hate. It’s so beautiful and touching to see you spreading nothing but love. Be blessed always ❤️🙏🏽

  • @WarXxandXxPeace
    @WarXxandXxPeace Před 3 lety +18047

    This was my High School Principal, and he told his story at one of our pep rallies. He got choked up, and was so apologetic. He cared so much about all of us students. Black, white, Asian, Hispanic...he knew EVERY student's name. Such an amazing guy.

    • @WarXxandXxPeace
      @WarXxandXxPeace Před 3 lety +419

      @@wydAri Kirkwood High School. I didn't graduate from Kirkwood, but was there for my Sophmore & Junior year, then transferred to Valley Park. Lucky me.

    • @AlatOnDemand
      @AlatOnDemand Před 3 lety +46

      @@WarXxandXxPeace
      Lucky you? Was it bad over there or what?

    • @Luis_Facil
      @Luis_Facil Před 3 lety +287

      @@WarXxandXxPeace most people would replace the word hispanic with mexican and i never liked that because they assume that every hispanic is mexican

    • @WarXxandXxPeace
      @WarXxandXxPeace Před 3 lety +284

      @@Luis_Facil Yeah, I don't say "Mexican" unless I'm referring to a Citizen of Mexico. Always with love, too. I LOVE my brothers and sisters from Mexico, Spain, the Caribbean, etc... Beautiful cultures, amazing foods, gorgeous language... Can't wait to go back to Spain.

    • @zkittlezthabanditt604
      @zkittlezthabanditt604 Před 3 lety +34

      Wow... It's crazy your comment doesn't have more likes

  • @spaceonisorceress4406
    @spaceonisorceress4406 Před 4 lety +7676

    As somebody who comes from a racist family:
    Thank you.

    • @youngfunny1824
      @youngfunny1824 Před 4 lety +344

      Wow, that must be terrible. Glad you're not like them.

    • @spaceonisorceress4406
      @spaceonisorceress4406 Před 4 lety +613

      @pate heckerwoods There are many reasons I moved 1,000 miles away from them.
      That's one.

    • @corneliuswoodson1401
      @corneliuswoodson1401 Před 4 lety +95

      Nobody I love you man and Always be you and be kind brother

    • @Savage-te5zs
      @Savage-te5zs Před 4 lety +33

      Plot twist: He meant he’s also part of the racism

    • @timaa_4193
      @timaa_4193 Před 4 lety +15

      Savage123 lol

  • @joshuahamby2199
    @joshuahamby2199 Před 2 lety +229

    Something similar I went through. Grew up, and still live in Alabama. Grew up with a racist father, and other racist family members.
    Racism is definitely taught, you’re not born with it.
    I was very fortunate enough to learn and catch on to it when I was young, and when I was out of that house, I never spoke to them again. My own flesh and blood, but racism, I will disown anyone in my family or friend group for acting it and believing in it.
    As a white man, I’ve been humbled numerous of times about race and African American culture, and it’s made me a better person, but as a white person, learning and advocating for better change, never stops.
    We white men and women, need to stop ignoring the everyday systematic racism and be better human beings.
    It may be very well uncomfortable for you as a white person, to have a conversation about race, but it’s necessary. You will feel small, embarrassed, ashamed, but if you experience those feelings, that means your listening.
    Most importantly about those conversations, shut up and listen. Don’t down play someone’s testimony based off of your experience as a white person, because you will never learn anything that way trying to refute someone’s feelings/testimony that is not the same race as you.
    White men and women have privilege. That’s a fact. Know it and remember it. Be the change and seek change white people. We have the ability to make a difference, so let’s do it.

    • @clintonjameshuddleston-apo9385
      @clintonjameshuddleston-apo9385 Před 2 lety +5

      For me it was different. I have never been racist my entire life. But I was born with an anti white father, a German immigrant who had part of the RAF in his youth. The white man is not to blame for racism. Media is. ALL LIVES MATTER!!!

    • @MrBooYa-yd5er
      @MrBooYa-yd5er Před 2 lety

      You’re anti white.

    • @moniquewest3277
      @moniquewest3277 Před 2 lety +14

      @@clintonjameshuddleston-apo9385 Who's older, the white man or the media?
      Exactly. Take a permanent time out; your comment/last sentence is a stark contradiction to this entire video. And you have the gall to call yourself a patriot.

    • @clintonjameshuddleston-apo9385
      @clintonjameshuddleston-apo9385 Před 2 lety

      @@moniquewest3277 I didn't call myself a patriot.

    • @timstanford995
      @timstanford995 Před 2 lety +4

      @@moniquewest3277 would you say racism against whites exist? I'd say yes

  • @mistersippi2945
    @mistersippi2945 Před 2 lety +24

    I LOVE stories like these! As a southerner with family history these guys are role models not just for us, but for anyone whose challenged themselves with self reflection. I think if a lot of people just sat down with someone they respected and said “maybe it’s me?” there’d be a lot less problems.
    Not only just for changing ideals mind you, but it also allows you to see where others are coming from. I’m sure everyone will/should have things that they don’t really need to change, but the experience means you take your ideas seriously enough to question. That’s very hard for some people to get, and even people who do, fall into it unknowingly.

  • @terrellcoleman2795
    @terrellcoleman2795 Před 6 lety +3777

    He was my old high school principal. He truly care about his students.

  • @m_b4
    @m_b4 Před 4 lety +6565

    I can barely hear his story because of the damn piano.

  • @mkl5448
    @mkl5448 Před 2 lety +10

    Even in 2021, it's hard to hear how it used to be. This man clearly made a difference, and I truly wish more people would adopt his philosophy. The world would be a much better place.

  • @avaccian629
    @avaccian629 Před 2 lety +102

    I was racist a few years ago. I’ve been told countless times “once a racist always a racist” it’s been a hard ride.

    • @krazyxki
      @krazyxki Před 2 lety +29

      Thank you for changing and being willing to be humble despite having hate thrown at you. You should be proud, but maybe don't tell too many people that you were a former racist. 😅 You should be able to tell your story, but people are so quick to demonize people now.

    • @ogman6553
      @ogman6553 Před 2 lety +8

      @@krazyxki much love to the black community from this Mexican ❤

    • @krazyxki
      @krazyxki Před 2 lety +3

      @@ogman6553 I was just in Cabo san Lucas last weekend haha. Have so much love for the Mexican community too. 🥰🥰

    • @avaccian629
      @avaccian629 Před 2 lety +2

      @@krazyxki true

    • @Tis-I
      @Tis-I Před 2 lety +8

      That is so untrue. People are capable of change. Don't listen to them

  • @Jinipoem
    @Jinipoem Před 3 lety +3894

    No one is born racist its the environment that makes them.

    • @davisweaver2856
      @davisweaver2856 Před 3 lety +38

      This is actually false, there were tests done on babies and they preffer to play with their own race

    • @wornstrat5517
      @wornstrat5517 Před 3 lety +123

      @@davisweaver2856
      Shut up , man

    • @denenterpriesesorwhatsleft6386
      @denenterpriesesorwhatsleft6386 Před 3 lety +161

      @@davisweaver2856 where is this test?

    • @seafood4life477
      @seafood4life477 Před 3 lety +35

      @@davisweaver2856 Proof

    • @bogiman1265
      @bogiman1265 Před 3 lety +256

      @@davisweaver2856 That doesn't make babies racist. It's natural to feel more comfortable with people that are your same race. However, it is racist to have biased views against someone else because of their skin color.

  • @LegitKiller4Life
    @LegitKiller4Life Před 3 lety +5678

    This is a man who broke out of the mindset society told him to have and started to think for himself.

    • @Wubsabi
      @Wubsabi Před 3 lety +6

      @@blackeniitan3552 who doesn't like their lips? Everyone likes having their lips

    • @pt4963
      @pt4963 Před 2 lety

      @@blackeniitan3552 lol...more like he's trying not to cry.

    • @Caramelbunnyy
      @Caramelbunnyy Před 2 lety +1

      @@blackeniitan3552 chillll why u lookin at his lips

    • @Huckleberry68
      @Huckleberry68 Před 2 lety +19

      @Ice Cream Man delete Twitter problem solved 🤣

    • @texarican1489
      @texarican1489 Před 2 lety +2

      @Ice Cream Man delete Twitter. You’re welcome. Twitter is trash and only trash use Twitter.

  • @williamramos3350
    @williamramos3350 Před rokem +7

    I have a friend from Tennessee who told me a story when he was very young about a girl who was black and how she was treated so badly by whites. He treated her with kindness and respect. She did not know how to react to him because she was always treated like she was nothing. He knew that it was wrong. He currently lives in Florida and never plans on returning to Tennessee. He also told me that his father would disown him if he ever had a black woman as a wife. We have been friends for about 6yrs now and I would not change that for anything.

  • @mileyrocks852
    @mileyrocks852 Před 2 lety +7

    Ah yes, one of my favorite stories of all time. Love getting this recommended once in a while to remind me of this beauty. 💜

  • @nabeelzazaiantv4860
    @nabeelzazaiantv4860 Před 6 lety +2252

    "It isn't a case of good or bad blacks and whites. It's a case of good and bad human beings."---Malcolm X

    • @babyblueLEGEND
      @babyblueLEGEND Před 5 lety +1

      @@ajh.7868 Did you know Malcolm X?

    • @ajh.7868
      @ajh.7868 Před 5 lety +74

      @@babyblueLEGEND no I didn't. But if you read about him you'd know that he changed his views and stopped hating the white man. He wanted us to work together to create peace. So as a young black man I hate when black people are hateful towards all white people in Malcolm x name. Hateful Black people are always quick to say Malcolm said this and Malcolm said that. They don't even realize Malcolm died having hope that black and white people would unite.

    • @K_Love36
      @K_Love36 Před 5 lety +3

      I would like your comment, but I'd rather keep it at 💯

    • @inactiveandsavedforarchive9312
      @inactiveandsavedforarchive9312 Před 5 lety

      @@ajh.7868 then provide the proof

    • @ajh.7868
      @ajh.7868 Před 5 lety +28

      @@inactiveandsavedforarchive9312 omg. Research any documentary on the internet on Malcolm x. Or better yet read his book. Malcolm changed his views about white people when he went to Mecca and back to the u.s.. He was a different person no longer blaming the white man. Like all these other lazy black folks.

  • @saamamerat1061
    @saamamerat1061 Před 6 lety +1844

    After my dad sold his business. He started volunteering with old people. One day he was feeding an old man. And the old man started crying. My dad asked why he was crying. And the old man said because he is ashamed, because he used to be racist when he was younger.

    • @iBOXRIVER
      @iBOXRIVER Před 5 lety +26

      Saam Amerat wow 😲

    • @peachesdaily6152
      @peachesdaily6152 Před 5 lety +39

      PaganHammer7 why

    • @jasonm7973
      @jasonm7973 Před 5 lety +9

      Yes then all the homeless people cheered and clapped and your dad got a new business which is now Google.

    • @ogsupremelyvida
      @ogsupremelyvida Před 5 lety +58

      PaganHammer7 you should feel ashamed by your comment

    • @vincentjoubert5514
      @vincentjoubert5514 Před 5 lety +12

      We can all change, you just have to want to!

  • @Rose7576_
    @Rose7576_ Před 2 lety +13

    This is proof that you can change no matter how you grew up. “It’s just how I was raised” is not an excuse. You realize your faults and you change for the better.

  • @taichichuansifurob
    @taichichuansifurob Před 2 lety +8

    When the issue comes up about racism and how it is taught/addressed in the school systems, having a person like Ms. McCallie speak about his experiences would be beneficial. Real life experiences speak louder than textbooks.

  • @pappadeux9159
    @pappadeux9159 Před 4 lety +5859

    He was my principal at Kirkwood high school. I'm black...and this was genuinely one of the most kind, caring, genuine, men I have ever met....edit....I came from an impoverished area of the country (Memphis) in all honesty I expected at 14 to come to Kirkwood and have experiences of being the outcast. I feel this community..Kirkwood, gave me the opportunity to meet others outside my realm of comfort which helped me to bloom and grow as a person. I say this because the world that we live in now seems to be one where individuals are afraid to engage in social commentary and interaction with one another. It's truly is sad

    • @sayak4253
      @sayak4253 Před 4 lety +28

      He seemed like one too..

    • @jazzychaz8527
      @jazzychaz8527 Před 4 lety +9

      Wow

    • @pameliam4024
      @pameliam4024 Před 4 lety +5

      Fr33f411 Thank you

    • @ShannonCrane
      @ShannonCrane Před 4 lety +26

      That is beautiful - Thank you for sharing that this man was your school principal. A wise and gentle soul makes the best school principal! :)

    • @Jojo77020
      @Jojo77020 Před 4 lety +13

      As a child and into adulthood, his racism was carefully taught and reinforced. Through exposure, association with other people and maybe curiosity, he changed overtime into the decent person that became your principal.

  • @jamisons9971
    @jamisons9971 Před 4 lety +2607

    Nobody is born a racist! It’s always taught! (Edit: Wow this generated a lot of disgusting replies, CZcams fails to surprise me though!)

  • @cieper4735
    @cieper4735 Před 2 lety +11

    Now That's What I Call Black And White Peoples Are Blessed For Both Of Them.

  • @kimcarter7453
    @kimcarter7453 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Knowledge and communication is everything!! ❤❤❤❤ I know this old but I needed this.

  • @NinjaTowTow
    @NinjaTowTow Před 4 lety +5381

    I wish they’d report on news like this more often. Stop giving hate a spotlight, and maybe it won’t shine as much.

    • @BrokeTruckerGyal
      @BrokeTruckerGyal Před 4 lety +50

      Very valid point made. Smh.

    • @dtrainx931
      @dtrainx931 Před 4 lety +64

      Most underrated comment in CZcams comment section history

    • @rigobertojulian-garcia1113
      @rigobertojulian-garcia1113 Před 4 lety +16

      Sadly people love drama and honestly so do I

    • @kingpenny1793
      @kingpenny1793 Před 4 lety +31

      Lol it’s more of a warning to other people that’s going on. Everything needs to be covered. People don’t need to be left in the dark. Then people would complain about others thinking there’s nothing wrong in the world.

    • @joecarroll209
      @joecarroll209 Před 4 lety +22

      Stop giving hate the spotlight and it wont shine as bright..
      Bro..you have no idea how right you are.That is honestly one of the best quotes Ive ever heard in my 42 years of life..thank you.

  • @ElChuyonWiwi
    @ElChuyonWiwi Před 4 lety +27635

    Imagine if at the end he was like , “still can’t stand Mexicans tho” 😂

    • @xPersianxKing
      @xPersianxKing Před 4 lety +1521

      Jesus Gonzalez
      Hahahahaha only someone from Cali would understand this joke. Good one brotha

    • @rbchill
      @rbchill Před 4 lety +647

      Lol. That would make for a great sketch!

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Před 4 lety +354

      Yeah I disliked this video a long time ago and I disliked it because they put “white privileged boy” I’m not white I’m Hispanic and I think that was racist in of itself so.

    • @shinigamireaper101
      @shinigamireaper101 Před 4 lety +17

      @@xPersianxKing same here, guey

    • @ryanflores4414
      @ryanflores4414 Před 4 lety +10

      Jesus Gonzalez 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

  • @wondersoftheworld5
    @wondersoftheworld5 Před 2 lety +14

    the key to this story is what he did after he got that gut feeling and wept in his dorm room. he didnt just feel empathy, he acted on it. he recognized his privilege and the reality of what his parents tried to hide from him. racist people are racist at the heart, this man was brought up by those who are way too damn hateful to recognize skin color is meaningless, but this man is not that. he is an example of what everyone should strive to be: a better person. beautiful story.

    • @lullaby.for.arsonists7329
      @lullaby.for.arsonists7329 Před rokem +1

      @@LazloNQ the privilege of being white man especially in the 1950's as the government is majority run by white men, therefore will have more sympathy for them. Kinda a stupid question when that's fr wide spread knowledge

    • @ameeaty4088
      @ameeaty4088 Před rokem

      ​@@lullaby.for.arsonists7329 hi i really didn't understand how he did change, john told him he had two uncles fight in ww2 too,after this i don't understand what he means,please explain

  • @srivatsadamaraju1473
    @srivatsadamaraju1473 Před rokem +4

    I can’t imagine the sheer will and self determination that this man, and everyone with a similar story, have to undo decades of social programming, and keep their self in the whole turmoil. Everyone Is capable of immense greatness.

  • @Coreyahno
    @Coreyahno Před 4 lety +5030

    Do we really need the sappy piano music over this? Just let the man talk.

  • @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx
    @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx Před 3 lety +6998

    I can feel his pain. He genuinely feels remorseful, Jesus, if this isn't proof that racism is taught

    • @warrenwright5576
      @warrenwright5576 Před 2 lety +139

      There will come a day when we all will be held accountable for our personal deeds. All injustices will have to be accounted for. I was never raised to hate another race, and I thank and appreciate my parents for that. Until we as a society learn to respect one another we will all fail.

    • @rvdnagel1963
      @rvdnagel1963 Před 2 lety +38

      This is proof racim cán be taught.

    • @TheLaurkenGroup
      @TheLaurkenGroup Před 2 lety +140

      And proof it can be untaught.

    • @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx
      @xXPurpleLoliTranceXx Před 2 lety +18

      @@corniboi5711 STFU, please. Do you hear yourself?

    • @TheLaurkenGroup
      @TheLaurkenGroup Před 2 lety +18

      @@xXPurpleLoliTranceXx thank God for miscreants like Kids4Cornish who think critical race theory is a strategy invented by NASCAR

  • @randomguy1453
    @randomguy1453 Před 2 lety +10

    I think we can all learn from this guy, it doesn't matter where you are from, who you were raised by, or what beliefs you were born under, it is a choice to be hateful to others. Not to mention that it shows even when one is hateful, there is the possibility of change that is bred from a calm discussion with zero malice involved.
    I hope to see the day we all try to be like him.

  • @godsbabeborn-again5945
    @godsbabeborn-again5945 Před 2 lety +5

    I'm black, it's 2022 and I'm lying on my bed crying, listening to this story. Hatred because of racism is disgusting. Much as it's heart-warming to see an ex-racist, it's infuriating to witness that blacks have it bad. We just have it bad. But God's great and He's watching.

  • @okaythen480
    @okaythen480 Před 4 lety +3990

    The fact that John didn’t insult his father but tried to reach a point of understanding. Nowadays we don’t have discussions, we just have people calling each other stupid and not trying to actually learn or change anything. This is why politics right now is so messed up in the U.S.

    • @andrewmcgregor9691
      @andrewmcgregor9691 Před 4 lety +32

      True. God bless you and all great and small♥️✌️

    • @andrewmcgregor9691
      @andrewmcgregor9691 Před 4 lety +4

      Abu Rahim sadly true :/ God bless ♥️✌️

    • @quantumwitcher9376
      @quantumwitcher9376 Před 4 lety +54

      I get having discussions over two valid opinions but how is being a racist bigot a valid opinion? And how would you try to reach a point of understanding with a racist?

    • @quantumwitcher9376
      @quantumwitcher9376 Před 4 lety +20

      @Abu Rahim so you're telling me to try to see the point of view from a racist?

    • @aburahim4864
      @aburahim4864 Před 4 lety +25

      ​@@quantumwitcher9376 All opinions are valid. The supreme court ruling is nothing more than an opinion. Its how they interpret a particular clause in the constitution. A racist will have an opinion based on the information he or she has processed along with the psychological make of that person. Having a dialogue with such persons beats the alternative. Behaving like this voodoo president Trump- conjuring up military language to compensate for his inability to empathize.

  • @p.ellet.1314
    @p.ellet.1314 Před 4 lety +4116

    I can almost not understand him because the piano is so damn loud

    • @steverossen2816
      @steverossen2816 Před 4 lety +37

      turn your volume up them, he speaks loud and clearly if youd try listening

    • @p.ellet.1314
      @p.ellet.1314 Před 4 lety +285

      @@steverossen2816 only that the piano gets louder as well if you do that. It's just an incompetent production, doesn't serve his words justice.

    • @ubayyd
      @ubayyd Před 4 lety +15

      P. Elle T. Lol ikr

    • @andrewolsen9380
      @andrewolsen9380 Před 4 lety +5

      I was to focused on his Dwight shrute glasses

    • @jaypealoveliest5195
      @jaypealoveliest5195 Před 4 lety +16

      @D Bra do have any shame?🤔

  • @patriciaabraham9294
    @patriciaabraham9294 Před 2 lety +9

    I'm glad he told his story. It was heartfelt 🙏

  • @diplovely72
    @diplovely72 Před 2 lety +2

    I wasn’t born racist or taught racism. I was a victim of it when I lived in Mississippi. It shaped me for life towards my outlook on race and America.

  • @redbb2680
    @redbb2680 Před 5 lety +3751

    I don’t understand racism, skin colour is irrelevant, it’s the persons personality you judge them on

    • @deborahminter6231
      @deborahminter6231 Před 5 lety +50

      I agree!

    • @UwuUwu-pw6tm
      @UwuUwu-pw6tm Před 5 lety +166

      RedBB, wise people, judge people by their character. People who have no wisdom, judge people by their skin color. I am glad that you are wise.

    • @ropac8026
      @ropac8026 Před 4 lety +2

      In that order.

    • @etmeyutub
      @etmeyutub Před 4 lety +12

      right. But can I judge you when you walk around with your pants sagging and drawers showing with no shirt on out in public in front of old ladies and children? Or is that just racist to hate that too?

    • @majidcherif1476
      @majidcherif1476 Před 4 lety +60

      are you allowed to judge that one person? yes, but not everyone else who shares his skin color.

  • @jusbcurlee
    @jusbcurlee Před 4 lety +3548

    This was my high school principal!!!!! He is an extraordinary person!!!! I was so blessed to have his wisdom in my teen years. He changed our community when he left the community has made a 180 degree turn sadly.

    • @TitanicRobot
      @TitanicRobot Před 3 lety +37

      I wish I could shake his hand

    • @The6thRonin
      @The6thRonin Před 3 lety +14

      Wait, you mean he became Racist again?

    • @motchie
      @motchie Před 3 lety +224

      @@The6thRonin no, I think what she meant is that the community changed after he left

    • @The6thRonin
      @The6thRonin Před 3 lety +53

      @@motchie Ahh ok excellent to hear, so to speak. Glad he's going strong but sorry the community couldn't stay strong without him. thank you so much.

    • @milesedgeworth132
      @milesedgeworth132 Před 3 lety +41

      @@The6thRonin No, she said that the community had changed back to what it once was. Probably racist again. "Sadly" means it's a bad change.

  • @darkphoenix3846
    @darkphoenix3846 Před rokem +2

    Thank you sir for taking the time to listen and being open minded and let it lead you down the positive path.

  • @bubblegum1948
    @bubblegum1948 Před rokem +2

    What an extraordinary man who speaks with such purpose, speaks with such honesty, speaks with Passion, conviction, sentiment, and from his own Heart...and you know if it's from his Heart, it's an awfully big place. I will never forget this video or listening to him. This was incredibly moving to me.

  • @dontchastop
    @dontchastop Před 6 lety +1208

    He looks like a man who thinks with his heart -- and with an open heart.

    • @usctrojanfreak
      @usctrojanfreak Před 6 lety +1

      dontchastop well said!!

    • @jespergotthelf9421
      @jespergotthelf9421 Před 6 lety +1

      dontchastop exactly what I thought...

    • @ladylefteye
      @ladylefteye Před 5 lety

      dontchastop yes thats the only way of humans

    • @Moneyg73
      @Moneyg73 Před 5 lety

      @Unknown Scar anyone can be evil, judge accordingly.

  • @kaijha
    @kaijha Před 4 lety +1654

    Now this is a penitent man. This brief story had me in tears. I pray that we learn to love and forgive each other.

    • @PoopyBarfy
      @PoopyBarfy Před 4 lety +2

      Don't move to Israel my dude. Not that they let you.

    • @kaijha
      @kaijha Před 4 lety +4

      Adrian At And T Your accusation would ONLY make sense if you knew me, but you don’t. Let’s hope no one falsely accuses you.

    • @trevorsmith6506
      @trevorsmith6506 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes its time to be united instead of divided

    • @lancesmith3716
      @lancesmith3716 Před 4 lety +1

      you look so clean, would you like to work for me?

    • @2killzore
      @2killzore Před 4 lety

      Lance Smith .....that's such a private school name, you can't be so posh and casually racist...its too much of a living meme😂

  • @vashonrobinson360
    @vashonrobinson360 Před 2 lety +6

    I wish we have more people like him!!!

  • @KatherineUribe-1
    @KatherineUribe-1 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow. That truly moved me. Only by honest and open discussion backed by actions will things change. This man is living proof.

  • @anthonygibbs4215
    @anthonygibbs4215 Před 4 lety +4399

    I cry for all the Black children who are mistreated and dont know why.

    • @feefs2139
      @feefs2139 Před 4 lety +54

      💯💯💯 and we will fight for them.

    • @kensyskye8965
      @kensyskye8965 Před 4 lety +16

      anthony gibbs in England I’ve not seen this much at all but I’m really getting distressed thinking this is still happening......Are you in America? ✌🏻

    • @CloroxBleach-nu8vo
      @CloroxBleach-nu8vo Před 4 lety +71

      Sock Cucka lol it still happens, do you live in the south?

    • @tedubadu2536
      @tedubadu2536 Před 4 lety +20

      ​@@kensyskye8965 The media would have you believe that the US is still that 1960 southern town this guy is from but I assure you it's not.

    • @Gbeebaby
      @Gbeebaby Před 4 lety +50

      I cry for all the children who are mistreated and don’t know why.

  • @GoodLifeIncLLL
    @GoodLifeIncLLL Před 6 lety +736

    Can't believe this almost brought me to tears, the power of love.

    • @tonyalandon3275
      @tonyalandon3275 Před 5 lety +12

      Juz B1az3 this did bring me to tears. Power of love is an amazing and beautiful thing. I just wish more people would open their minds and hearts and absorb it in the manner he did. Deep self reflection after listening to sad truth. Glad that he changed his view and helps bridge the gaps of hate and division. There should not be racism and hate.

    • @janetbrowning9089
      @janetbrowning9089 Před 4 lety +8

      Actually, it did bring me to tears...the power of love is what we need more than anything today, in order to change this and make it right, once and for all.🙏💖

    • @Ironwill85
      @Ironwill85 Před 4 lety +1

      Me too

    • @devinebeaut
      @devinebeaut Před 4 lety +1

      Don't believe it brother. It's still in all of them.

    • @SirBrucie
      @SirBrucie Před 4 lety

      Meh this did nothing.

  • @godsgrace5503
    @godsgrace5503 Před 2 lety +6

    I felt this gentleman's heart. This brought tears to my eyes.

  • @laserfloyd
    @laserfloyd Před 2 lety +4

    I was born and raised (and I still live) in the south. One of the things I'm grateful for the most is that my parents didn't teach me to judge people on how they look. A person's character is what defines them.

  • @ZERO_O7X
    @ZERO_O7X Před 4 lety +628

    My grandfather ran a cafe from the 40s to the late 60s and he always allowed black people to eat in the restaurant even though he didn't have to. He set up a large table in the back just off the kitchen for them. No other restaurants in town allowed them to come in and eat but he knew that wasn't right. Later in life, when his former black employees passed away, he paid for their funerals as well because those wonderful people who worked for him were our family. He knew that the law was wrong and that all humans were equal and he taught me an important lesson that I have lived by my entire life. We're all the same and nothing else matters.

    • @lukegreen341
      @lukegreen341 Před 4 lety +42

      That's a great story, your grandfather was a good man!

    • @matthewphillips1890
      @matthewphillips1890 Před 2 lety +12

      He sounds like a wonderful person.

    • @toasty4890
      @toasty4890 Před 2 lety +10

      dude sounds like a good person

    • @Ozymondias99
      @Ozymondias99 Před 2 lety +6

      Smart man. Probably made more money due to more customers.

    • @iyanasymone5597
      @iyanasymone5597 Před 2 lety

      @@Ozymondias99 out of everything to say you think of the profit he made off of black people not that he was a empathetic compassionate man you’re sick😒

  • @steamwings.6532
    @steamwings.6532 Před 3 lety +1971

    the shame in his eyes when he tells the story is heartbreaking a good, honest man like this struggling to tell his story and how he still feels it. It just hits different. it's powerful. it drives home just how wrong he felt. just how much he regrets it. lets all remember, no one is born hating another person for their race, their creed, or their orientation. We learn hatred. lets unlearn it.

    • @frankforster706
      @frankforster706 Před 3 lety +12

      And that good, honest man or woman too often stays hidden with narrow-minded people, unfortunately

    • @mandalorian1994
      @mandalorian1994 Před 2 lety +10

      I always say that it takes a stronger person to admit that you're wrong, rather than pretend you're always right and that nobody can tell you nothing.

    • @fredwright5954
      @fredwright5954 Před 2 lety

      are you?

    • @sticksnstonespatriot1728
      @sticksnstonespatriot1728 Před 2 lety

      This is a made up fairytale....
      It's Marxist propaganda

    • @leahartlee29
      @leahartlee29 Před 2 lety

      AMEN. SO well said!

  • @jackfrost9466
    @jackfrost9466 Před 2 lety +4

    Bless this man. He was raised a racist, but he's got a heart of gold.

  • @lsteber9774
    @lsteber9774 Před 8 měsíci +2

    This shows what wonderful, positive things can happen and change if we would only just listen to each other. It's so simple and doesn't cost us anything, but gives us so much. Let's all start listening.

  • @BostonSox41
    @BostonSox41 Před 3 lety +795

    Racism is learned either at home or from people you associate with. My Alabama born father and mother moved to Chicago with 2 toddler girls. Our neighbors were black, Alice and Benjamin Banks. My sister and I loved them! We were lucky to have had them in our young lives, and also lucky that our father taught us early that the color of a person's skin isn't important - it's the color of their heart and soul. My dad died when I had just turned 10 (he was just 36, we shared a birthday), but his words have lasted me all through my life. I'm 70 now and have both white and black friends that I care very much about. I have witnessed racism from both sides, and it's not good. People need to open their minds and their hearts more. Life's too damn short to miss out on knowing a wonderful person because you judge by skin color!

    • @iyabinghiashantitafari1360
      @iyabinghiashantitafari1360 Před 2 lety

      Blacks cannot be racist by definition as it denies the inherent power of racism. Racism equals racial prejudice plus institutionalized power! That is something most white people needs to understand before you start labeling us as racist!

    • @TarantuLandoCalcuLingus
      @TarantuLandoCalcuLingus Před 2 lety +4

      @@iyabinghiashantitafari1360 wow. Have you ever left your house?

    • @iyabinghiashantitafari1360
      @iyabinghiashantitafari1360 Před 2 lety +2

      @@stankpotion when you understand the meaning of institutionalized racism then maybe you get the right to ask me even stupid questions!

    • @iyabinghiashantitafari1360
      @iyabinghiashantitafari1360 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TarantuLandoCalcuLingus I live in a tropical climate I am outdoors every day! And your point is???

    • @TarantuLandoCalcuLingus
      @TarantuLandoCalcuLingus Před 2 lety +6

      @@iyabinghiashantitafari1360 the fact you think racism is institutional is outstanding.

  • @BlackMayne
    @BlackMayne Před 6 lety +892

    My high school principal. Pioneers. Didn’t know this side of him

  • @stvargas69
    @stvargas69 Před 2 lety +3

    He was taught how to be racist by his parents. He goes to college and has a black classmate who he talks to. If he was truly racist, he would have never had a conversation. His mold was cracked when he sat next to that black woman. Her kindness in a racist south showed the world a glimmer of hope.

  • @ligbzd837
    @ligbzd837 Před 2 lety +4

    One of the kindest teachers I've ever met growing up when we first immigrated to America was a black man. Sometimes it blows my mind thinking how they stay so kind despite being discriminated against all the time... Now, as an adult, I always speak up against people who try to discriminate against another race for being who they are.

  • @joeyrogers8193
    @joeyrogers8193 Před 5 lety +1520

    You can't judge a man by the color of his skin!

  • @leeolsson5271
    @leeolsson5271 Před 7 lety +2075

    Well thank heavens that John had the sense to react the way that he did!

    • @MonnyYell
      @MonnyYell Před 6 lety +12

      Yeah because it’s people who are not like John that makes people hate People because of the hue of their pigment before those interactions.

    • @billathanbilldogovich6716
      @billathanbilldogovich6716 Před 6 lety +2

      abu hudhayfah edwards that wasn't what they implied

    • @KingdomInnovateX
      @KingdomInnovateX Před 6 lety +1

      John had overt racism on his side now things are covert.

    • @Mike-01234
      @Mike-01234 Před 6 lety +2

      You can't change people by just calling them haters have to get them to think a different way that's what he was saying when he was referring to the story how black people surrendered in WW2. He's saying if you simply sum someone up and call them a hater or a racist it won't change they way they think. You see people were taught those things by their parents or others who influenced them.

    • @tquannadubose8973
      @tquannadubose8973 Před 6 lety

      Joshua Mack True, Mississippi is still very Overt racist.

  • @chancharrabb9277
    @chancharrabb9277 Před 2 lety +6

    racism is taught, at the core of every human is the capacity to love, im glad this man was able to unlearn that toxicity in his lifetime and has dedicated his time to help correct it in his community, bless him and bless the man that was able to look past it all to love him enough to teach him better, may we all be so lucky.

  • @prettybrowneyes1990
    @prettybrowneyes1990 Před 2 lety +2

    Beautiful heartfelt story; this video should be played all over America... God bless Mr. Franklin :)

  • @samanthasimental3788
    @samanthasimental3788 Před 5 lety +704

    Brave man. It is hard to go against your family. True hero.

    • @tapsofosiris3110
      @tapsofosiris3110 Před 4 lety +5

      He never went against his family. He just formed his own ideals.

  • @Daktangle
    @Daktangle Před 3 lety +820

    He was willing to listen and learn and change. That's what is important.

    • @datboi_6952
      @datboi_6952 Před 3 lety +1

      i talked to guy online just today he was racist he was saying the hard r so much i tried to get him to change he woudnt eventually me and my buddy just started calling him a waste of space

    • @D4unt1ess
      @D4unt1ess Před 3 lety +2

      @@datboi_6952 sure.

    • @datboi_6952
      @datboi_6952 Před 3 lety +1

      @@D4unt1ess i did but ok idc if you beleveive me

    • @janshiff9942
      @janshiff9942 Před 2 lety

      I, love your comment .🤗🤗🤗🤗💕

    • @maliceleaf8162
      @maliceleaf8162 Před 2 lety +3

      @@datboi_6952 That's Good Thing Bout The Internet Told My Uncle In Georgia He Was Racist In Person....Long Story Short It Didn't Go Well For Both Us Southern Boys :P

  • @agent47773
    @agent47773 Před 2 lety +6

    The thumbs down shows me how much hate is still out there as a black man I realised when a person who thinks is far better than you in all aspects of life still wants to hate you that much it means he falsely thinks he's better but he knows the truth and that's where the pain comes from no body in this world can be 100% better than the other impossible

  • @sipstea9794
    @sipstea9794 Před 2 lety +7

    I’m black and I wanna hug this man so badly. He was so hurt bless his soul. I’m glad he’s finally happy

    • @faby_baby
      @faby_baby Před 3 měsíci

      Hey I just wanted to say Jesus will fulfill you more than anything in this world, I speak from experience (from when i did Romans 10:9-13), he loves you and wants to be in a meaningful (not romantic) relationship with you. :)
      “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
      ‭‭Romans‬ ‭10‬:‭9‬-‭13‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
      ‭‭Mark‬ ‭1‬:‭15‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      If you want proof that Jesus and the Bible are true look a documentary called “Ron Wyatt discoveries 2022” on CZcams and a CZcams channel called Expedition Bible. They both examine archeological sites and discoveries that prove the Bible, and even reference secular sources. (Just don’t convert to 7th day Adventism after watching the documentary) And lastly if you don’t know the gospel and want to be saved search up “abc’s of Salvation Teenmissions” on Google and it should be the first or second result. When you click on it read the whole thing, and do what it says and have faith in Jesus while you are doing it, do not doubt, and if it is hard for you to do what it says, ask Jesus to help you, have faith that he will, and *he will.*
      God Bless :)

  • @aflynn6987
    @aflynn6987 Před 6 lety +268

    People like him are the reason I still have faith in humanity.

  • @teslasnow169
    @teslasnow169 Před 4 lety +2478

    Who is hearing this amazing story while in quarantine??

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 Před 4 lety +49

      Who’s fishing for likes while in quarantine?? You are! Yes you are! Oh yes that’s a good boy! Yes you are!

    • @linkven9196
      @linkven9196 Před 4 lety +6

      Dixie Normous Lmfao

    • @MuszZico
      @MuszZico Před 4 lety

      Not me

    • @casualobserver2380
      @casualobserver2380 Před 4 lety +4

      All this time in quarantine and the most profound comment you can up with is a "who is watching in" regurgitation? That's sad.

    • @casualobserver2380
      @casualobserver2380 Před 4 lety +2

      @@r011ing_thunder6 100% spot on correct!

  • @Gurl-5150
    @Gurl-5150 Před 4 měsíci +3

    When WWll comes up, the thing that I always consider is that black men were expected to fight for a country that treated them so abysmally.

  • @nikkinic2269
    @nikkinic2269 Před 2 lety +3

    This was powerful.
    One genuine act of kindness changed his trajectory.

  • @celebrityentertainmentnewslg
    @celebrityentertainmentnewslg Před 7 lety +2253

    You are blessed to not carry that hatred for the rest of your life. This made me cry. Thank you for sharing

    • @craigacook8360
      @craigacook8360 Před 6 lety +16

      Bojack Horseman what some people do is take the bible and use it in the wrong context of what God is really saying. You have to ask God for understanding and study for yourself. God bless

    • @oakinw8361
      @oakinw8361 Před 6 lety +9

      Bojack Horseman You think humans are stronger than an omnipotent being yet you dont have enough power to not be an idiot.

    • @smithsmitherson9449
      @smithsmitherson9449 Před 6 lety

      ^^^
      how can something fake make me scared?

    • @bigdaddycremecheese4911
      @bigdaddycremecheese4911 Před 6 lety +4

      Lydia Graham I agree completely I feel bad for a racist because 9 times out of 10 they were brainwashed by their family and didn't have an experience that opened their eyes. To live with hate because of others who decided we need more hateful people in this world is sad in my opinion

    • @bigdaddycremecheese4911
      @bigdaddycremecheese4911 Před 6 lety +2

      Bojack Horseman as someone who isn't an atheist but doesn't really practice any religion if someone does something good and uses a bible or whatever religious materials to complete good acts let them...but I agree with you when people use religion to explain simple acts of humanity is does annoy me also

  • @madametia5379
    @madametia5379 Před 5 lety +1592

    I want to hug him and tell him thank you.🌻🌸🌻🌺❤

    • @beyondthesea2228
      @beyondthesea2228 Před 5 lety +13

      WOW.... WTF are you thanking him for???? Smdh

    • @thesweuteen
      @thesweuteen Před 5 lety +108

      @@beyondthesea2228 Probably by devoting his life to make peace between whites and blacks...

    • @beyondthesea2228
      @beyondthesea2228 Před 5 lety +6

      @@thesweuteen 😂😂😂😂 yea ok. Happy Malcolm X day !

    • @thesweuteen
      @thesweuteen Před 5 lety +67

      @@beyondthesea2228 When someone responds the way you just did, it tells me I'm right.

    • @beyondthesea2228
      @beyondthesea2228 Před 5 lety +3

      @@thesweuteen right about what ?

  • @QuincyBrown-di5gl
    @QuincyBrown-di5gl Před 10 měsíci +2

    I am Isac Quincy Brown, I have been in prison now for the last 29 years, and I aim to use my losses to give teens better choices than prison. I like the video because in the man's experiences, he was willing to listen to the other side, regardless of his upbringing or beliefs. I ask your consideration in helping me to get an interview with your TV news station, so i can be that one man to make a difference, difference in respectfully changing the hearts of today's angry youth, guided by the bad examples myself and so many people in prison left behind. Please consider my request. Sincerely, Isac Quincy Brown.

  • @omnione12
    @omnione12 Před 2 lety +3

    What a wonderful man. He saw through the ignorance, I thank God that he was able to meet someone who knew how to reach him.

  • @jamesoreilly777
    @jamesoreilly777 Před 3 lety +782

    Why is any intelligent human giving this a thumbs down. amazing story, brought me to tears.

    • @tzargaming5527
      @tzargaming5527 Před 2 lety +20

      Maybe they're racists🙌🏽

    • @You-dn8ep
      @You-dn8ep Před 2 lety +38

      There prolly racists homie

    • @rossm2444
      @rossm2444 Před 2 lety +25

      Intelligent being the operative word there lol

    • @Licw-Luxus
      @Licw-Luxus Před 2 lety +11

      Welp. No more dislikes now, I guess.

    • @kingslob3422
      @kingslob3422 Před 2 lety +4

      @@tzargaming5527 What's wrong with that?

  • @_assembly
    @_assembly Před 4 lety +549

    We're not born to be racist we're taught to be racist

    • @DrummerJacob
      @DrummerJacob Před 4 lety +5

      If we're taught to be racist, who was the original teacher? God?
      Where did it originate if it's not within all of us, just like potential for good and evil, happy and sad, etc...Who taught it first? Id be interested to hear your answer.
      My thought is, it's in us to discriminate. We (and every other living creature on the planet) have millions of years of biological evolution that has developed due to our ability to discriminate heavily. Our ability to determine a good mate from a bad one, a safe passerby from a threat, a good friend from a bad one, food safe to eat or not or a safe area to live or not is key to our survival.
      Discrimination between things and other beings has served us good for a long period of time as we wouldn't have survived and thrived this well by employing unnecessary skills to our detriment.
      In today's world of order and law, worldwide literacy rates, internet and communication and other factors like a general understanding and empathy toward other humans not seen in human history, its clear why we should change our ways, but I disagree that were not born with racism. Let's not be naive. And I also disagree that everything should happen instantaneously.
      Movements all around the world aim for acceptance. A few countries have made no strides whatsoever and yet worldwide paradigm is shifting in the direction of racial equality but never cultural equality, and that's a whole different topic.

    • @natheniel6447
      @natheniel6447 Před 4 lety +10

      @@DrummerJacob you have alot time on yer hands

    • @ivyrogers7585
      @ivyrogers7585 Před 4 lety +9

      DrummerJacob this is coming from someone from Alabama. As a little kid, I remember looking at black people as another equal and kind person. That was changed when my parents started to tell me that they were “unsafe” and that I should never marry a black man. They told me that I should be nice to them but they also said to never trust one. I, as a kid believed this. I didn’t try to hang out with them or include them. Now that I’ve matured and lived a little more and seen more, I finally can see that we’re all equal no matter what race. The racism still lives though. And it’s not our fault. As kids, we see the good in everything and everyone, but soon we are taught to see the “bad” in the world. Racism is not natural. It is brainwashed at a young age. And some people do not have the mental capacity to understand that it’s wrong because it’s how they’ve always been taught! Now hopefully through the black lives matter movement and many others, we can start changing more of these people’s beliefs and we can begin a new future, clear of discrimination. Just like god wanted.

    • @pengupunsy1945
      @pengupunsy1945 Před 4 lety

      you are wrong people are inherently bigoted for a REASON

    • @ivyrogers7585
      @ivyrogers7585 Před 4 lety

      Alicia Otto no. He didn’t choose. Racism is brainwashed into society. No little kid would just choose that they didn’t want to accept the fact that people have different skin colors and that’s okay. It’s taught to them! And that’s why racism continues, that’s the problem.

  • @drelocs2878
    @drelocs2878 Před 2 lety +6

    Wow I can tell how much he cared. You reach a certain point in life where you see how foolish Things are. We need more people like him, Both black and white. ✊🏻✊🏿

  • @SupremeBros2012
    @SupremeBros2012 Před 5 měsíci +1

    America has a lot to learn about its deposited hatred and bigotry
    It’s deep and it’s worse when you don’t want to come to terms with it
    You need more people like this man

  • @javiercastaneda2555
    @javiercastaneda2555 Před 4 lety +229

    It’s not your fault when you’re programmed. It only matters if you choose to break free

    • @mirelam2692
      @mirelam2692 Před 4 lety +3

      Very good said.

    • @benjs.mp4
      @benjs.mp4 Před 3 lety +3

      Well said. Two years ago I fell into a group of people who had those beliefs and unfortunately for a year I joined them to fit in, didn’t realize how awful all the jokes were until I opened my eyes and am glad to see stories like this

  • @justinh2448
    @justinh2448 Před 4 lety +325

    The fact that he cries years after this has even happened shows that he is a good person

  • @chevacamaro68
    @chevacamaro68 Před 2 lety +7

    That is a man who’s done something extraordinary. He listened to his heart and not the indoctrination he’d been given all his youth. You Sir are not a racist or a bad man. You’re an honorable and good man!

  • @shannsimms9072
    @shannsimms9072 Před rokem +2

    It’s so incredible to hear someone who decided to listen and learn about race rather than dig their heels into their racist beliefs.

    • @Chief-et6xk
      @Chief-et6xk Před rokem +1

      They dig their heels in because if they acknowledge that it exists they have to basically change the entire foundation of who they are because a lot of people are narcissistic and can't admit their wrong

  • @sspann11
    @sspann11 Před 6 lety +549

    I understand why some people are questioning the title, but I am a black man who grew up in Mississippi. My parents and grandparents as well. The video is about a man who shed his racism in the 60s. During that time, the South was the WORST place for a black person to live. Yes, there was racism in the North as well, but no where near what was going on in the South. The biggest issue in the South was the white people who stayed silent while all the injustices were happening. These people may claim they weren't racist, but their silence made them complicit. It's not as bad now, but this video is about his transformation in the 60s, so the title makes perfect sense.

    • @kelleeking1023
      @kelleeking1023 Před 6 lety +2

      Cant show himself without the address first, just saying

    • @johnsanders4122
      @johnsanders4122 Před 5 lety

      sspann11 What part of Mississippi

    • @winterybanana
      @winterybanana Před 5 lety +3

      Even now I realize that there are a lot of ppl who discriminate others for being different, and for being a minority. And the others do not only stay silent, they actually speak out and proclaim that those ppl have the right to treat others as less worth than themselves. How can any person have the right to mistreat others?

    • @sarahhess464
      @sarahhess464 Před 5 lety +1

      Perhaps this is because the left wing anti-racist ideologies always end up being harmful even offensive to the white general population and is always about trying to damage and destroy and never to preserve and seems to be more about hate in agenda and intent.

    • @sarahhess464
      @sarahhess464 Před 5 lety +3

      @@MrGodpk3 The opposite of racism is anti-whiteness and hatred towards white people.

  • @HarrisonModel
    @HarrisonModel Před 4 lety +532

    We could definitely learn from him. Especially now. Rip Ahmaud Arbery.

    • @davidmannion6361
      @davidmannion6361 Před 4 lety +10

      Joe Blow Um excuse me wtf please elaborate?

    • @kaedenjohnson4743
      @kaedenjohnson4743 Před 4 lety +12

      Joe Blow what are you talking about?? And was yesterday’s manslaughter acting too?! And also the white lady with the dog calling the cops on a black man for nothing ? Were all these things fake?

    • @joycoolcat9140
      @joycoolcat9140 Před 4 lety +9

      Joe Blow Mann how dumb are people.....a black guy being killed because he’s black is acting????please go sleep and use your brain better when you wake up

    • @thecrown_jul
      @thecrown_jul Před 4 lety +3

      He's probably wants attention for making a comment like that. If not, he's a real idiot.

    • @eldebtor6973
      @eldebtor6973 Před 4 lety +2

      Riots in Minneapolis. Who would have predicted?

  • @kayomholt-montague7661
    @kayomholt-montague7661 Před 2 lety +1

    I need to seek out more of these kinds of stories. I always said there needs to be more of these kinds of stories shared publicly. Then I realized it was I who was not seeking them. What a lightbulb moment for me. I vow to seek them out from now until the day I die.

  • @parduetheholyman
    @parduetheholyman Před 2 lety +5

    Regardless of your leanings, you gotta admit this is inspiring, what a great soul.