The 5 questions… I. Tell me the 3-5 things you learned from your last relationship… 2. If you lost everything financially what would you do to rebuild it ? 3. If you had $20,000 today, just free and clear, what would you do with it? 4. What are the top 3 goals and aspirations that you have? 5. What 2 things must any successful relationship have?
I’ve never had to ask these questions directly. The answers to these questions come up naturally in the conversations I have with men I’m dating. They volunteer their relationship history and their aspirations etc.😊
I would ask how many times a week do you feel you need to see me even after 3 months, 1 year, 2 years? This allows you to see if a person is lonely and needs to be in a couple where you are joined at the hip. I'm super independant and secure so I do not take it personal when someone is busy or doesn't want to see me because they are doing their own thing. I would also ask how long has it been that you have been single on your own? I don't want someone who just jumps from one person to the next to fill a void. No way.
Agreed. One really important thing I learned to ask a guy is, Do you think couples should do everything together? Or spend all their time together? Wish I had known to ask that before getting into a relationship with someone who needed all that. Could've saved myself from being in a toxic relationship.
The trick is to not ask all of them in one day. Space them out to about one of these questions every two days, so that it doesn't make him feel like you are grilling him. 😂
1 do you have any other men in your life that you are sleeping with me 2 do you have a job that you can support yourself with and any dependent if you have in it 3 are you lying about number one and number two 4 I have no outside women that I am having sex with 5 yes I can support myself and I may have one dependent 6 if you can't be honest with me I don't want you
I've got to ask my self these questions.... Forget him lol😂
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Same thing I'm here thinking 😂😂😂😂
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RIGHT
What is the angriest you have ever been in life? Who elicited this anger? How did you resolve it?
Great question! Who knows if they would be honest though.
Great questions like these encourage REAL communication. They get to the heart instead of wasting time on frivolous conversation.
The 5 questions…
I. Tell me the 3-5 things you learned from your last relationship…
2. If you lost everything financially what would you do to rebuild it ?
3. If you had $20,000 today, just free and clear, what would you do with it?
4. What are the top 3 goals and aspirations that you have?
5. What 2 things must any successful relationship have?
I’ve never had to ask these questions directly. The answers to these questions come up naturally in the conversations I have with men I’m dating. They volunteer their relationship history and their aspirations etc.😊
so sorry to ask are you guys still dating?. how that going?
Thank you.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Thanks a lot
I would ask how many times a week do you feel you need to see me even after 3 months, 1 year, 2 years? This allows you to see if a person is lonely and needs to be in a couple where you are joined at the hip. I'm super independant and secure so I do not take it personal when someone is busy or doesn't want to see me because they are doing their own thing. I would also ask how long has it been that you have been single on your own? I don't want someone who just jumps from one person to the next to fill a void. No way.
Agreed. One really important thing I learned to ask a guy is, Do you think couples should do everything together? Or spend all their time together? Wish I had known to ask that before getting into a relationship with someone who needed all that. Could've saved myself from being in a toxic relationship.
Correct me if I’m missing something, I only heard you list 4 questions?
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Asking these types of questions allow you to dig deep and get to the core of a man.
Your videos has a very positive energy in me . When I see ur face and hear you it make me happy for some reason. 🌸🌸
Wow, thank you
I love open ended questions. You get more information when the person has to think
Hi Coach
You only gave 4 questions, will you be following up with the 5th question?
Yes, soon
Wait, Coach! That was only 4! 🤔🤷♀️😂
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@@CoachKenCanion so what’s the 5th? 😊
@@candican9853 The fifth was don't asked any questions ..hahaha
Great questions!!!! 💯🎯☝🏽
Im really so thankful for your advices,,, really appreciate it,,🙏🙏
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#1. Should the things that they learned be about themselves, other people or, relationships period?
Maybe I am wrong but how does this have anything to do with the reality of their character
Excellent questions!!! Thank you!!!
You are so welcome!
Those are some good thoughtful questions !
Glad you think so!
The worst thing to do on any date with someone knew to your life is asking or talking about your last relationship...hahaha
Great questions
He did say 5 questions
🎶🎼🎶🎶 music to my ears sweet Facts.
That’s right I’m learking ,
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Great great great
Great questions, thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Sounds like an interview lol
It is!
The trick is to not ask all of them in one day. Space them out to about one of these questions every two days, so that it doesn't make him feel like you are grilling him. 😂
Hi coach. What is the 5th question please?
What 2 things must any successful relationship have?
What are the correct answers to these questions? 😊
Right it was only 4
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Damn
Don’t want to discuss anything pertaining to my past relationship
1 do you have any other men in your life that you are sleeping with me
2 do you have a job that you can support yourself with and any dependent if you have in it
3 are you lying about number one and number two
4 I have no outside women that I am having sex with
5 yes I can support myself and I may have one dependent
6 if you can't be honest with me I don't want you
Number 12345 , do me were dating, why ask, this is my time
He tight and seeking . He wants what I have
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Gave them to the poor ...hahaha . Because my two hands , two legs, two eyes, two ears and my brain worth more than $20k ..
With 20K I would hope he would invest in something worthwhile
I must chean the way l think
That's only 4 questions.
The 5th question cut off. It was ..What 2 things must every successful relationship have
Great questions