My Response To Fatphobia Claims

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  • čas přidán 14. 07. 2020
  • I was scrolling through reddit today and came across this post saying I have “fatphobic tendencies”. This was really hard for me to read and caused me to take a critical look back at my previous comments regarding obesity, bariatric treatments, and diet recommendations (Keto, intermittent fasting, vegan, etc.) Our culture demonizes people for their weight, from rogue marketing pushing “ideal bodies” in media to a lack of representation for large bodied people on stage and on screen. That being said, I am a doctor, and my job is to help people live longer, healthier lives, and often those results can be achieved through a variety of tactics that will reduce the weight of people who suffer from obesity. It’s a fine line between helping my patients and making sure they don’t feel judged or criticized for the way they look, and I’m working hard to get it right.
    ORIGINAL REDDIT POST: www.reddit.com/r/antidiet/com...
    COMMENTS ON BARIATRIC SURGERY REDDITOR REFERS TO:
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    RESEARCH ON OBESITY AND WEIGHT IN REGARDS TO HEALTH:
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    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
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    MY APPEARANCE ON PHIL DEFRANCO’S SHOW DISCUSSING FAT SHAMING: • Dr. Mike on Dealing w/...
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Komentáře • 59K

  • @DoctorMike
    @DoctorMike  Před 2 lety +4535

    Doctors Reacting To Controversial Cosmo Cover On Weight - czcams.com/video/AyMyocRiw9M/video.html

    • @bingyyt
      @bingyyt Před 2 lety +40

      how did i find a comment from 23 minutes ago. This video literally came out 1 year ago

    • @cakeisyummy5755
      @cakeisyummy5755 Před 2 lety +5

      Ooohhhh....
      SECOND!

    • @cakeisyummy5755
      @cakeisyummy5755 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bingyyt Magic, i guess?

    • @bibibibi23le
      @bibibibi23le Před 2 lety +6

      @@cakeisyummy5755 Yup

    • @tomcotter4299
      @tomcotter4299 Před 2 lety +22

      This video should be titled “Sane Doctor Responds to The Critical Theory Cult” 🤣😂🤣

  • @Snackery24
    @Snackery24 Před 4 lety +9131

    “I’ve never watched his videos”
    Proceeds to defame and discredit him.

    • @GarnetsWeb
      @GarnetsWeb Před 4 lety +320

      Right. The world gets dumber by the day.

    • @Jaros
      @Jaros Před 4 lety +116

      Tbf that point was specifically that they know he did videos about certain diets but hasn't watched those so can't comment on them, not that they've never seen his videos full stop.

    • @sarahamaris5383
      @sarahamaris5383 Před 4 lety +160

      Jessica right but it’s basically an irrelevant statement and makes their argument weaker lol

    • @real_lampcap
      @real_lampcap Před 4 lety +35

      Literally. Like wtf. You can't even say anything if you've never watched.

    • @zoev2051
      @zoev2051 Před 4 lety +10

      @@sarahamaris5383 Not really, they conceded that they didn't know his stance on a particular topic. Keto, IF, etc. are all diets which that subreddit - a subreddit for many people recovering from eating disorders - was against. The fact that he tried these diets is a supporting point in the post because it can be triggering for people recovering from eating disorders, many of whom would hope that a doctor wouldn't advertise them. I'm not taking a stance against Doctor Mike, but the feelings the poster had were valid considering the location of the post and the mention of those videos didn't weaken the argument at all.

  • @luckypichuwu
    @luckypichuwu Před 4 lety +8814

    Fat shaming is laughing at someone for being fat
    Doctors help people when they are overweight

    • @PatrickMcCawFitnessOfficial
      @PatrickMcCawFitnessOfficial Před 4 lety +559

      Yeah. There's a clear difference between "Laughing at fat people" and "Suggesting a different life style".

    • @laurarossi8678
      @laurarossi8678 Před 4 lety +41

      EXACTLY! 💜💜💜

    • @phyllishahart6111
      @phyllishahart6111 Před 4 lety +17

      Exactly

    • @andythierry5402
      @andythierry5402 Před 4 lety +101

      Yes although that’s not what they said. I wholeheartedly disagree with what they said but they used the term fat phobic not fat shaming. The difference is that fat phobic is the notion that one fears fat people so to them they shouldn’t be a thing, i can see why this vision could be attributed to health professionals as doctors would normally never advise one to be overweight or stay overweight for obvious health reasons but i mean that’s the point of their profession, no one should blame them for promoting a healthy lifestyle with healthy life goals and them doing so doesn’t mean they are judgemental either so their stance on the matter is just stupid to me.

    • @onlyf676
      @onlyf676 Před 4 lety +5

      @@PatrickMcCawFitnessOfficial exactly lol

  • @willz8092
    @willz8092 Před 11 měsíci +680

    "Obesity puts you at a higher risk for certain diseases"
    That's not called Fatphobia, thats called Facts.

    • @stickstoff6870
      @stickstoff6870 Před 11 měsíci +47

      factsphobia

    • @RaeRaenicorrrn
      @RaeRaenicorrrn Před 2 měsíci +4

      And certain diseases put you at higher risk for obesity. I feel like you have clearly never experienced fatphobia.

    • @FluxDeimos
      @FluxDeimos Před 2 měsíci

      You can't just tell these people facts, they are factphobic!

    • @RaviSingh-ph2uw
      @RaviSingh-ph2uw Před 2 měsíci +4

      Absolutely correct and because of your comment I'd like to Coin a the term called "factsphobia" for people that completely
      ignore the facts.

    • @willz8092
      @willz8092 Před 2 měsíci

      @@RaeRaenicorrrn k ty

  • @brookemills1217
    @brookemills1217 Před 10 měsíci +889

    I lost over 200lbs with bariatric surgery. It saved my life. I have been told by many people that I am fatphobic, that I am lazy, and I should have accepted my body for what it was. I would have died young.i am so much happier and healthier. And I will never stop advocating for that treatment because it changed my life. I refuse to apologize for that

    • @mamaya311
      @mamaya311 Před 10 měsíci +89

      The people that told you not to get the surgery had their best interests at heart, not yours. Congratulations on your health win!

    • @leeknow8299
      @leeknow8299 Před 10 měsíci +8

      thank you for saying this! i guess a lot of people do not like what happens when you lose a lot of weight and how others treat them better when theyre finally skinny but id like to look at it like theyre proud of you for finally taking care of yourself

    • @CelineNoyce
      @CelineNoyce Před 10 měsíci +1

      You are just guessing that it saved your life. You want that to be the case because you made such an insane decision. I am sure you have all kinds of medical problems.

    • @mamaya311
      @mamaya311 Před 10 měsíci +43

      @@CelineNoyce tf? Why would you talk to someone like this? I am guessing it’s better for you to believe the surgery doesn’t work for some reason. To assume you know this person’s situation more than they do is insane.

    • @leeknow8299
      @leeknow8299 Před 10 měsíci +29

      @@CelineNoyce ooooohhh youre so hostile,, its definitely the insecurity speaking within u
      if it changed their life in a positive way, how come youre so negative abt it lol

  • @elle_aye112
    @elle_aye112 Před 4 lety +31032

    "Obese" is a medical term, not hate speech. People really need to realize this

    • @_worldwide_shoulders_3974
      @_worldwide_shoulders_3974 Před 4 lety +924

      Periodt💅🏻. Since in this generation the medical term “Obese” is being used to fat shame others and it just really needs to stop.

    • @chazking8137
      @chazking8137 Před 4 lety +1111

      @@_worldwide_shoulders_3974 agreed. Idiots thinking "obese" is some people using it to shame when medically that's exactly what they are. It's like telling people "So and so have autism" when that certain person DOES have autism. Is it hate speech? Don't think so.

    • @pmfreekick8333
      @pmfreekick8333 Před 4 lety +161

      @@_worldwide_shoulders_3974 How can be "obese" to used to fat shame somebody?

    • @luc5547
      @luc5547 Před 4 lety +390

      @@pmfreekick8333 when a medical professional uses the term "obese" to describe a patient's weight that's not fat-shaming. but it can be when people who aren't doctors and don't know what they're talking about use it to bully someone. i don't know whether you've ever seen comments under posts calling people "obese," but oftentimes those people are only slightly overweight and either way, some random kid making such a comment under someone's post is extremely insensitive. bottom line, i think what she's trying to say is: a medical professional saying it during a check up is very different than kids bullying each other on social media.

    • @pmfreekick8333
      @pmfreekick8333 Před 4 lety +81

      @@luc5547 Im not from US and im not common with your fat shaming problem but now I get it thanks

  • @humanatee6639
    @humanatee6639 Před 4 lety +4204

    Calling someone “morbidly obese” means “you should lose some weight for your health”, not “haha ur fat!”.

    • @demi0758
      @demi0758 Před 4 lety +262

      I love this because this actually shows how people psychologically respond to things they do not want to hear...

    • @Northflowo
      @Northflowo Před 4 lety +236

      Especially when it's coming from a MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
      Like i get that people could get upset if some random person or even a family member with no medical knowledge called them that, but a doctor??? binch that's a medical term not a slur

    • @Nick07900
      @Nick07900 Před 4 lety +94

      I think people are just in denial that is unhealthy. You wouldn't get mad at a doctor for telling you that any other disease is unhealthy. Then again, it's just how our brain's are wired, you can't blame them.

    • @SuperKing604
      @SuperKing604 Před 4 lety +17

      True it can be both also and i get people feeling put down by it but truth is needed especially from a doctor

    • @ayoayo1044
      @ayoayo1044 Před 4 lety +5

      @@Nick07900 ive seen so many people upset about it and in denial and its just mind boggling

  • @caoixhe
    @caoixhe Před 10 měsíci +1399

    My uncle is a doctor. He always makes fun of overweight people at the gym and has called them disgusting. That is fatphobic. Dr Mike is literally caring about people's health. There is a difference.

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 10 měsíci

      Dr. Mike is being manipulative

    • @bizzybezz940
      @bizzybezz940 Před 10 měsíci +230

      ​@@MorganKing95 no he's not he's a whole medical professional and knows most of what he's talking about

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 10 měsíci

      @@bizzybezz940
      Exactly! Doctors are manipulative psychopaths

    • @may51973
      @may51973 Před 10 měsíci +38

      ​@@MorganKing95why?

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@may51973
      They're miserable and have realized that life is cruel and nobody wants or likes them, so they compensate by ending everybody else's lives, and making them feel as miserable. Doctors also has an innate inability to feel emotions or empathy

  • @scottresch9912
    @scottresch9912 Před 9 měsíci +557

    As a man who is 370 pounds at 6'2" and a full time electrician. I move around a lot still because of my job. My eating problem is because, I don't have a lot of self control when it comes to food. But I can say that I really appreciate the videos where Dr Mike brings up obesity. They have gotten me motivated to overcome my self control issue. To this day I have lost 30 pounds in three months. Thank you Dr Mike. You have motivated me.

    • @tiffany7023
      @tiffany7023 Před 9 měsíci +23

      Keep going!! 🎉💪

    • @mkfki4126
      @mkfki4126 Před 8 měsíci +17

      good job, keep at it!

    • @colton88
      @colton88 Před 8 měsíci +15

      Good job man, I’m proud of you and I’m rooting for you! You’ve got this!

    • @livafunder7559
      @livafunder7559 Před 7 měsíci +9

      Thats awesome, im so proud of you. Keep trying to prioritise your health my man

    • @kevinriley8928
      @kevinriley8928 Před 7 měsíci +6

      That's awesome dude, keep pushing

  • @LabRynthisist
    @LabRynthisist Před 4 lety +15410

    Imagine calling a DOCTOR FATPHOBIC cause he promotes HEALTHY lifestyle.

    • @jacob1931
      @jacob1931 Před 4 lety +185

      Ikr

    • @kathlens182
      @kathlens182 Před 4 lety +172

      Exactly my thought!

    • @haydenbrayton
      @haydenbrayton Před 4 lety +199

      Im just picturing these reddit losers fuming behind a computer

    • @rosealbert7480
      @rosealbert7480 Před 4 lety +112

      I hear you, but just to play devils advocate, a lot of fat people hear this again and again from people who don’t know anything about their lifestyle. I just think there’s a possibility that this person just took it personally because maybe they’ve heard it before from people who aren’t actually knowledgeable and since he’s not their doctor, they felt like he made blanket statements (which may or may not be true, I haven’t seen many of his lifestyle type videos). Like I said, just playing devils advocate

    • @juanmanuelmoramontes3883
      @juanmanuelmoramontes3883 Před 4 lety +467

      @@rosealbert7480 Well, lemme tell you he's only suggested healthy diets/alimentation, nothing related with "skinny" or "fit" I'm sorry, if I sound rude, but even if it were like u say, it doesn't give those people the right to be so butthurt.

  • @chad-thundercock3378
    @chad-thundercock3378 Před 2 lety +6555

    Imagine trying to cancel someone for telling you that being unhealthy is bad

    • @pinkminipuff
      @pinkminipuff Před 2 lety +70

      *Twilight Zone music starts up*

    • @Thetravelingmonke
      @Thetravelingmonke Před 2 lety +188

      “Me unhealthy but me no want to own up to it and acknowledge it so i blame others”-them

    • @madara.n
      @madara.n Před rokem +44

      That whole comment sounded completely stupid to me honestly...these type of doctors are rare and there's someone out there whose willing to bring a non-existent quality to light and make a scene out of it 😐

    • @raghadsaleh2063
      @raghadsaleh2063 Před rokem +56

      Not just any someone but a DOCTOR😭😭

    • @annie-dang
      @annie-dang Před rokem +10

      @@madara.n You are talking about the fatphobic comments right?

  • @bigtizzle1488
    @bigtizzle1488 Před 9 měsíci +157

    As a formerly obese person, I appreciate Dr. Mike and wish I had someone like him in my corner when I was younger. He is not fat phobic, he is a doctor who obviously cares about his patients and is trying to share his extensive knowledge. Not all Doctors in the media are “Dr.” Oz.

  • @megan7292
    @megan7292 Před 10 měsíci +342

    I don’t think these people realize that it is possible to be body positive and promote healthy lifestyles at the same time

    • @Strobobel
      @Strobobel Před 9 měsíci +32

      Exactly. Body positive is supposed to mean, hey this person is heavier than others but they’re still a human being so we should treat them like everyone; not if you workout you hate fat people

    • @user-nz6ho5si5h
      @user-nz6ho5si5h Před 9 měsíci

      I think often it more comes with the territory as his job is to pressure people about fat, cholesterol, and blood pressure. I think when your a person body positivity is overall a good thing because everyone has the doctor to tell them this stuff.

    • @Hi_Im_Akward
      @Hi_Im_Akward Před 2 měsíci +1

      There is a small group of people in the body positivity movement who legitimately think there is nothing unhealthy with being fat. I've seen it go as far as shaming people for losing fat for their health. But body positivity isn't about saying being fat is healthy, it's about recognizing that fat people are people with value and worth. And yes, you can be, by all measures healthy and overweight... But all the evidence points towards the fact that it causes stress in all the systems in the body and eventually leads to disease.

    • @moodlethenoodle
      @moodlethenoodle Před 2 měsíci +2

      Being body positive simply means not to hate on people. Nobody's body is absolutely perfect and there is always something you can help yourself with

    • @dante6985
      @dante6985 Před 2 měsíci

      It's not monolithic.
      Some 'fat' people really can't lose the weight, even if they're healthy. It's a small percent, but it's worth taking into consideration.

  • @galaxygamer3645
    @galaxygamer3645 Před 4 lety +17769

    These people really wrote “DOCTOR says being obese is bad for health. I can’t believe he is fatphobic”

    • @Ogree111
      @Ogree111 Před 4 lety +959

      It's Internet logic, we all want to die at age 30.

    • @marinaSassygUrl88
      @marinaSassygUrl88 Před 4 lety +1175

      What made me burst into laughter is “ Doctor mikes tells them to “ watch what you eat” “ 😂😂💔 noo I am losing my mind smh.... how dare he advise them something so fucking right

    • @BakaryD
      @BakaryD Před 4 lety +262

      Reddit is pure leftist garbage

    • @mettakilla
      @mettakilla Před 4 lety +142

      Welcome to radical left ideology that is becoming rampant in our society. I haven't watched the full video yet, but if he apologizes, then he is only playing into their irrational ideology.

    • @Ilanca
      @Ilanca Před 4 lety +288

      @@mettakilla or they could be a 14 years old who only knows that calling people fat is bad. Better educate this people than label them

  • @Tiffany-de9wo
    @Tiffany-de9wo Před 3 lety +5492

    "watching what you eat" is not fatphobic. THAT IS LIFE ADVICE.
    Édit: mom I’m famous.

    • @bluesoul1260
      @bluesoul1260 Před 3 lety +50

      @z z they think it's just about appearance and letting themselves indulge in the bad eating habits is loving themselves bc it makes them feel good. I think the "body positivity" thing is actually just abt appearance bc the hourglass skinny body is what women are pressured to achieve. Like that's the reason for the mouvement. It's bc of the pressure society puts onto people to achieve the desired body or "body goals" and it's talking abt appearance. Loving yourself genuinely imo is taking good care of yourself, eating what's best for you, getting exercise and sleep and just listening to your body's needs in general. Not just doing what makes you feel good just to then have your excuse being body positivity

    • @arianamarasco2158
      @arianamarasco2158 Před 3 lety +70

      “When skating, use helmet” is so concussion-phobic it makes me want to throw out 🤢

    • @rango962
      @rango962 Před 3 lety +8

      I'm kinda chunky. And I try to do it but if I see a pringels can it is gone in 10 minutes. I really need to stop buying them

    • @Tiffany-de9wo
      @Tiffany-de9wo Před 3 lety +5

      @@rango962 yes! Just don't buy unnecessary snacks! If you don't have it in your house then you wont eat it!

    • @rango962
      @rango962 Před 3 lety +5

      @@Tiffany-de9wo I know that. I jsut can't control myself. I swapped all my drinks with water but I just can't resist does nasty little cans of hot and spicy pringels. They are like the one ring. I dotn want it, I don't need it but I don't want to stop. However, I'm starting to do some sports, push ups and jogging to lsoe a bit of weight. Becuase not buying pringels is like not buying alcohol for and heavy alcoholic

  • @adamel-nagar8258
    @adamel-nagar8258 Před 6 měsíci +24

    Bro, you have the patience of a saint. Like, beyond what is expected of any person ever. Imagine a decade and a half dedicating your life to medicine, just to have uneducated people condemn you for trying to help people. Damn, your patience is actually motivational for me, inspirational. Put all the actual medical topics aside, your personality and good nature has legitimately given me so much respect for you. I appreciate you, Dr.

  • @ThatWTFGuy
    @ThatWTFGuy Před 9 měsíci +87

    I’m still obese (barely now) and I’m losing weight by following the advice of Doctors just like Dr. Mike and it is working! Adhering to the plan (consistency) that you and your doctor come up with is vital to success.

    • @user-qm5iv9ox7x
      @user-qm5iv9ox7x Před 9 měsíci +3

      good job

    • @zonesquestiloveunderworld
      @zonesquestiloveunderworld Před 8 měsíci +4

      Keep it up bro, you're worth it! 💪🏻

    • @danjoredd
      @danjoredd Před měsícem +2

      We're all gonna make it bros! Keep it up!💪

    • @danieloneal7137
      @danieloneal7137 Před měsícem +1

      I’m in a similar place. I was nearly 300 lbs at one point and over the past 2.5 years, mainly just through eating more healthily, I’ve gotten down to right about 200. Still technically “obese” but I am in such a better place now with my overall fitness and wellbeing. Even when I was at my heaviest, I never once tried to kid myself that it was a healthy way to exist. Wanting someone (including yourself) to be healthier and have a better quality of life is not fatphobia.

    • @Jimmyvdpost
      @Jimmyvdpost Před 25 dny +1

      King! 🤴

  • @jk-nz9bq
    @jk-nz9bq Před 4 lety +4391

    "hes fatphobic because he recommends healthy eating" like what

    • @danielhu6485
      @danielhu6485 Před 4 lety +135

      So he should obviously start recommending unhealthy eating so he can stop being fatphobic XD

    • @mitztrick
      @mitztrick Před 4 lety +31

      That’s gen z for ya surprise they didn’t cancel him

    • @ghost_cities
      @ghost_cities Před 4 lety +73

      marcus The poster and commenters are millennials.

    • @puffeyfish3860
      @puffeyfish3860 Před 4 lety +31

      Me in my head "Ok Karen/Susan."

    • @vesibrooker5309
      @vesibrooker5309 Před 4 lety

      Right

  • @EmilyBemilyBop
    @EmilyBemilyBop Před 4 lety +53022

    “He talks about watching what you eat” um yes because he’s............. a doctor.....

    • @MaxWoudenberg
      @MaxWoudenberg Před 4 lety +3526

      Kinda feels like the people who would complain about wearing a mask :P

    • @MrAlberonen
      @MrAlberonen Před 4 lety +501

      Max lol yes

    • @StutterinSeuss
      @StutterinSeuss Před 4 lety +1482

      Apparently being reminded to put down the fork offends some people.

    • @har1997
      @har1997 Před 4 lety +326

      Lmao exactly...the haters are so weird

    • @TheyCalledMeT
      @TheyCalledMeT Před 4 lety +324

      you don't need to be a doctor to say that any person on this freakn earth should have this thoughts .. ofc you can poison yourself with realy bad nutrition .. i.e. daily fast food, excessive calories and sugar .. a galon of lemonade a day .. and so on

  • @kylemarkley8615
    @kylemarkley8615 Před 7 měsíci +25

    His ability to stay calm is probably what makes him an incredible doctor while standing up to some of the dumbest claims I've ever seen. I admire his ability to have compassion when dealing with tough situations.

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 7 měsíci

      Doctors stay calm because they don't have feelings, and they've normalized infantilization and paternalism for centuries now

    • @timohara7717
      @timohara7717 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@MorganKing95wjat

    • @Daviddd8892
      @Daviddd8892 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@MorganKing95Okay incel. What's next?

    • @Daviddd8892
      @Daviddd8892 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@MorganKing95in your life, silly incel.

    • @Daviddd8892
      @Daviddd8892 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@MorganKing95still an incel irl.

  • @j-lew
    @j-lew Před 10 měsíci +106

    It truly bothers me that, according to these kinds of people, if you are at all concerned with your physical fitness, then you are fat phobic. I've actually heard someone say that if you are a person that *isn't fat* then you're fat phobic. This is just insane to me.

    • @umburon
      @umburon Před 9 měsíci +6

      The same people that say if you're fat and are losing weight on purpose you're fatfobic.

    • @cubicinfinity2
      @cubicinfinity2 Před 7 měsíci

      This sounds like saying if you're white then you're racist. (Most people don't think like this, but there are some out there.)

    • @Replayeble
      @Replayeble Před 23 dny +6

      It's because they know they're the problem, but changing that is too difficult, so they blame it on everything and everyone else.

    • @notchpoodles5864
      @notchpoodles5864 Před 21 dnem

      As a queer person, that’s basically saying that if you’re not queer then you’re queerphobic (I️ was going to say the same thing about race but I’m white so I️ have no place bringing POC’s struggles in society into this (genuine)). Like that kind of cognitive dissonance or delusion or what have you is absolutely mind boggling to me

    • @winterwithawhyknudsen5166
      @winterwithawhyknudsen5166 Před 17 dny +1

      One time someone said that if someone goes to the gym for their appearance they’re fatphobic

  • @spyrothedragon9137
    @spyrothedragon9137 Před 2 lety +9068

    Making fun of someone for being fat is one thing, but a doctor educating someone on the risks of being obese is NOT fat phobic

    • @taylermarie7916
      @taylermarie7916 Před 2 lety +97

      Exactly. I agree

    • @sorryifmycommentwasmeanwro2065
      @sorryifmycommentwasmeanwro2065 Před 2 lety +239

      IKR. Like, what the hell? I had obesity and trust me, fat acceptance is evil of the 21st century. You know those "Karens" who believed in NWO, satan worshipping celebs, Anti-Vax propagandas and the 'plot' to destroy the world? I would believe it if they say fat acceptance is one of those 'plots'.

    • @AyeshSilva-e7e
      @AyeshSilva-e7e Před 2 lety +96

      Even then this is retarded. People shouldn’t be offended by things like this. If people drop these peeps in a 3rd world country they’d die from becoming too offended.

    • @RedPaintSpray
      @RedPaintSpray Před 2 lety +59

      One of the few things that encouraged me to lose weight was people making fun of me. I thank God every day for people that make fun of fat people, because if they were pushing this fat activism back in the day and anti bullying, I'd probably be stuck in a house somewhere being encouraged to keep eating myself to death.

    • @Mohit-iu3ge
      @Mohit-iu3ge Před 2 lety +14

      neither of them is fatphobia

  • @aqilhizam4073
    @aqilhizam4073 Před 4 lety +2426

    “He’s fat phobic because he said ‘watch what you eat’”
    THEN WHAT DO YOU WANT HIM TO SAY, “eat whatever you want and don’t care about your cholesterol, sugar levels and others”???

    • @Skytho
      @Skytho Před 4 lety +151

      yes, because that hurts the guilty brain that wants to live in blissful ignorance.

    • @Violettahh
      @Violettahh Před 4 lety +4

      Right

    • @bennypika3575
      @bennypika3575 Před 4 lety +64

      "eat whatever you want and die whenever you want"

    • @ovrdedge821
      @ovrdedge821 Před 4 lety +2

      Idk why i laughed so hard at this 😂😂

    • @NathanielSnider1017
      @NathanielSnider1017 Před 4 lety +26

      If they want to die a slow, painful death and refuse all doctoral help
      just let them

  • @petofiarkwright3236
    @petofiarkwright3236 Před 7 měsíci +18

    I'm not exactly fat, but my bmi says overweight, so I really appreciate Dr. Mike caring so much for the patients. I would love doctors to treat people like... well people. Just like dr. Mike. Thank you ❤

  • @goeatsanta5600
    @goeatsanta5600 Před 10 měsíci +40

    the problem with doctors hyperfocusing in weight is that they tend to ignore everytging else because of that. i know for me, its completely fair to bring up my weight when i talk about the issues i have because im sure it affects it. but just saying "just loose weight" completely ignores the other symptoms that i have that arent necessarily caused by weight. like i seriously doubt loosing 10 pounds will lessen my extreme migraines. i personally really struggle with exercises because my joints so badly i can barely move the next day, regardless of my intensity. weight is definitly a big factor in health, but its not always the big boogieman people think it is. sometimes its just a symptom

    • @aki20
      @aki20 Před měsícem +5

      Exactly! And it’s an all too common experience for people. But I do know that in one of Dr.Mike’s videos he does actually call this out. He had a patient where other doctors had dismissed all their health concerns because of the patient’s weight saying it was because they were obese. But Dr. Mike was the first one to get him properly checked out and he turned out to be something incredibly serious and had nothing to do with the patient’s weight.

    • @zorbl8463
      @zorbl8463 Před 22 dny +2

      Also, some health conditions actually cause you to be overweight even when leading a healthy lifestyle

    • @aki20
      @aki20 Před 21 dnem

      @@zorbl8463 exactly!

  • @TheSaxAppeal
    @TheSaxAppeal Před 4 lety +8661

    There's a difference between:
    -you are less worthy because you're overweight
    -being extremely overweight isn't healthy
    And people seem to forget that

    • @P1ranh4
      @P1ranh4 Před 4 lety +267

      That step to self worth comes from them, not the doctor. They've seen the pattern so often they get easily triggered. Mike's exactly right that they come from a place of pain.

    • @CoCo1989
      @CoCo1989 Před 4 lety +16

      💯

    • @abdulrahmanabuarqoub4163
      @abdulrahmanabuarqoub4163 Před 4 lety +51

      Small, Emily proof?

    • @RizzRoss9001
      @RizzRoss9001 Před 4 lety +77

      @Small, Emily You had me at the first half. You do need some proof

    • @nazul9502
      @nazul9502 Před 4 lety +29

      @Small, Emily well you better not assume, bc i'd say that with no bad intentions

  • @komilkhatamov1251
    @komilkhatamov1251 Před 4 lety +3170

    Imagine studying for 8+ years then have to respond to people like this🤦‍♂️

    • @llPHAzERll1
      @llPHAzERll1 Před 4 lety +78

      Way longer than that, but I agree haha

    • @bg5827
      @bg5827 Před 4 lety +62

      Agree. Most adults can’t have deep meaningful conversations with toddlers and most people encounter in the world have not matured in terms of emotions or intellect past that of a 16 yr old.

    • @zammymynakersnackstbmoth
      @zammymynakersnackstbmoth Před 4 lety +23

      I know!!! My 3 year old nephew is smarter than the people saying these ridiculous things. He legit really is. His comprehension level would have him wanna smack these ppl 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @belbarcelos9264
      @belbarcelos9264 Před 4 lety +42

      He was so polite in his response, I would’ve lost my patience in the first line. “He also overall talks about obesity and watching what you eat” like mf, do you know a doctor that doesn’t????

    • @user-xl6bm1xz3i
      @user-xl6bm1xz3i Před 4 lety +18

      We actually study even longer that and trust me, it takes ALOT of patience to not pop veins when "woke tumblry" shows up.

  • @burntcoolantproductions8607
    @burntcoolantproductions8607 Před 10 měsíci +97

    He was unbelievably patient and courteous while reading utterly asinine and ridiculous comments criticizing his work and his advice.

  • @ShreeNation
    @ShreeNation Před 10 měsíci +12

    Telling obese people that their character is bad is fatphobia. Telling obese people their health is getting bad due to obesity, is not fatphobia.

  • @brattneyrose5652
    @brattneyrose5652 Před 3 lety +65370

    "Obesity puts you at a higher risk for certain diseases." That's not fatphobia. That's medicine.

    • @sportdoge1
      @sportdoge1 Před 3 lety +708

      @Give me Idea about Names! natural selection

    • @JellyAntz
      @JellyAntz Před 3 lety +1295

      ​@@sportdoge1 that's dark but sadly true if they don't help themselves after being given advice

    • @MrJonezy541
      @MrJonezy541 Před 3 lety +1731

      Feelings over science, it's the 2020 way.

    • @user-cu1so2wf2g
      @user-cu1so2wf2g Před 3 lety +1118

      OH NO! I'm fat so you can't mention anything related to it! I'm not unhealthy because I'm fat! My knees ain't painful because my wight! How do you dare to tell me to loose weight to help my knee pain? You are Soo fatphobic!!!!

    • @sexysadie2901
      @sexysadie2901 Před 3 lety +382

      @@MrJonezy541 It's like being back in the Middle Ages.

  • @josuenavarrete3701
    @josuenavarrete3701 Před 4 lety +14089

    He’s a doctor, why wouldn’t he condone eating healthy. Just cuz he condones doesn’t mean he’s fat shaming. He’s just trying to help guide people to being healthier and happier

    • @DianneAlexander4858
      @DianneAlexander4858 Před 4 lety +170

      Facts

    • @g-4642
      @g-4642 Před 4 lety +290

      maybe people need to take some advice, why do people want to ignore his advice when he's trying to helping them?

    • @adendarican640
      @adendarican640 Před 4 lety +115

      Don't pay any mind to the people with below average iq

    • @ughmuggles1815
      @ughmuggles1815 Před 4 lety +383

      Most overweight/obese people have this mentality that if you speak about diets, exercise, weightloss you're automatically fatphobic. This isn't something new, its an issue happening daily on the internet and Dr Mike isnt the only one that has addressed this problem. Plenty of fitness content creators who have been on a weightloss journey have spoken up about this. Unfortunately those people refuse to listen because they blame it on their family history of obesity saying how they can never lose weight, theyve always been fat, and so forth.
      Any healthy advice they take it as fat shaming. Its quite sad honestly.

    • @yawninghamster7238
      @yawninghamster7238 Před 4 lety +92

      ​@@ughmuggles1815 Most overweight/obese people know that they have a health problem and want to reverse it. You're describing the keyboard warrior fringe who take scientific facts as personal attacks. Not to mention some of us have had exceptionally rude, or shitty doctors who were 100% not helpful, so there's that.

  • @NasuNanu
    @NasuNanu Před 10 měsíci +70

    No matter who you are you’ll always be criticized when you become popular enough

  • @gergelyfruttus5058
    @gergelyfruttus5058 Před 10 měsíci +8

    As someone slightly overweight (84kg at 180cm height) I whole heartadly agree with Doctor Mike. We have to realise how great of a man Dr. Mike really is. Love from Hungary

  • @-roxanna9216
    @-roxanna9216 Před 4 lety +3939

    There's a difference between doctors talking about how being overweight can harm your health in a medical way, than someone who is prejudiced against big people.

    • @ipsharoy7398
      @ipsharoy7398 Před 4 lety +24

      Yes

    • @satan9487
      @satan9487 Před 4 lety +61

      people need to understand this.

    • @raheeqsuhaib299
      @raheeqsuhaib299 Před 4 lety +2

      Yup! And hey Armyy✨💜👋🏻

    • @theylovemyaesthetic
      @theylovemyaesthetic Před 4 lety +39

      Exactly!!! Them ppl either paranoiac or just strongly uncultured and ignorant about the subject. Hes a doctor ffs

    • @Yetaxa
      @Yetaxa Před 4 lety +24

      Not to the 'health at every size' crowd
      Who refuse to believe that weight can in fact have a direct impact on their health

  • @allymills7089
    @allymills7089 Před 4 lety +40947

    Telling someone they won’t be able to find love because they’re fat is fatphobic.
    Saying you’re at a risk of type 2 diabetes when you’re overweight is not.

    • @charlieisacatwithseizures
      @charlieisacatwithseizures Před 4 lety +3021

      This is an excellent point. Fatphobia is when people say you are: lazy, disgusting, mean, stupid, ugly, worthless, don’t deserve respect or rights, should be treated unequally and should be shunned in society because you are fat. Health is important and should be sought out. I think health is less tied to the number on the scale or bmi and more about your habits. Do you eat balanced meals and exercise often? Do you avoid harmful habits like smoking and excessive drinking? If you get the recommended amount of exercise and eat with nutrition in mind, weight, shape, or size shouldnt really matter. As someone who is very anti-fatphobia, all i ask is people stop judging me, being cruel to me, prevent me from opportunities that i am well equipped for such as jobs, and constantly pressuring me to take up extreme measures that lead to eating disorders because of my size. Really, unless you are my doctor and you know my lifestyle and habits, you shouldnt be commenting on someone elses weight or what they eat. Its not your place. And i think its toxic to expect everyone to sustainably be able to be thin. Thinness does not equal health, and sometimes people cannot sustain a weight that someone else can. Yes, if we all starved, we could be thin, but that isnt sustainable. And i ask people to understand weight loss is a lot harder than it looks. It takes both mental and physical effort. It can consume your mind until its all you think about. I want everyone to be healthy, find food that is nutritious and satisfying. Find movement that makes them feel happy and do it often as possible. But that does not mean its ever ok to bully people because of how they look.

    • @ramenriver6016
      @ramenriver6016 Před 4 lety +2046

      @@charlieisacatwithseizures i'll pretend i read that

    • @kkiitchhh
      @kkiitchhh Před 4 lety +143

      Lisa Torro exactlu

    • @mfn83
      @mfn83 Před 3 lety +115

      @@charlieisacatwithseizures True, try the book "Essential fat", it is quite enlightening

    • @bimborard7486
      @bimborard7486 Před 3 lety +70

      exactly it’s as simple as that

  • @Grace12811
    @Grace12811 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I’m so glad there are still some genuinely good doctors out there😊

  • @UniversusVasator
    @UniversusVasator Před 9 měsíci +24

    I broke all my bones and my doctor told me to rest?!?!?!?!? My doctor is so brokenbonephobic!

  • @ohno3358
    @ohno3358 Před 3 lety +8264

    Doctor: *does his job*
    Redittor: and i took that personally

    • @Bigqueefofficial
      @Bigqueefofficial Před 3 lety +19

      👍

    • @ajinkyatarodekar9099
      @ajinkyatarodekar9099 Před 3 lety +327

      Also,
      "I didn't watch his videos, so I don't know much."
      These people dishearten me.

    • @Pastelleraisthebestytchannel
      @Pastelleraisthebestytchannel Před 3 lety +7

      Yeeeeeuuuuuup

    • @enlightendbel
      @enlightendbel Před 3 lety +67

      @John Tremblay the annoying thing these days is that the person making that comment isn't even certain to be overweight.
      PC culture and SJWs have this tendency to white knight "minority" groups because it makes them feel better about themselves, not because it's a subject that affects them and they feel they need to speak out, no, it's because they want attention and that's the way they found they can get it.
      Case in point, Doctor Mike felt he had to make a video about these allegations giving that shmuck the attention they were looking for.

    • @themodernblonde6249
      @themodernblonde6249 Před 3 lety +1

      Lol

  • @BlitzCity10k
    @BlitzCity10k Před 4 lety +7212

    People are literally upset at him for encouraging people to be healthy...🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @nottweet
      @nottweet Před 4 lety +314

      that's America for ya

    • @ezzdudley1584
      @ezzdudley1584 Před 4 lety +79

      So true people want to not be told there wrong most of the time. Edit: I thought I saw a mistake it wasn’t

    • @juliawalker139
      @juliawalker139 Před 4 lety +13

      Yes sir

    • @CyberCy2
      @CyberCy2 Před 4 lety +8

      R/fatlogic

    • @creatiwitty5817
      @creatiwitty5817 Před 4 lety +9

      No wonder so much of America's population is obese

  • @rinameunier3200
    @rinameunier3200 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Pretty late to the party, but I have only recently begun to turn my life around.
    I think you're doing an amazing job and I especially appreciate your reactions to that show with Marla, I think, where you show a lot of empathy and understanding for the mental health aspect.
    I had my doctor call an ambulance for a possible pulmonary embolism and essentially just saying "quit the birth control pills and lose weight". He wasn't wrong but the delivery sucked.
    I developed a drinking problem that I only quit after being prescribed anti-depressants. Looping back, I understand that I than began to eat too much junk instead of alcohol on top of not eating well to begin with.
    I now have a not as stressful job with good cafeteria food in appropriate portions for very little money and a gym membership that my company partially pays for. I will have lost my first 10 kg by the end of the month.

  • @jamesgadd8440
    @jamesgadd8440 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Dr. Mike, this may be an old video, but it's my first time seeing it. I used to weigh over 400 lbs. Im now down to just over 200 lbs. I have personally dealt with fat phobic people, and I've also had to come to terms with the dangers of being so big. You're an amazing educator, and I have never once seen anything that comes close to fat phobia or hate. Keep rocking, brother.

  • @aristo1915
    @aristo1915 Před 2 lety +9924

    He's not fatphobic, he's a doctor.

    • @danate3849
      @danate3849 Před 2 lety +30

      Doctor isn't an adjective.

    • @two67gh
      @two67gh Před 2 lety +163

      @@danate3849 it can be

    • @danate3849
      @danate3849 Před 2 lety +14

      @@two67gh No it can't. "I'm so doctor!", it just doesn't work.

    • @halycon4923
      @halycon4923 Před 2 lety +419

      @@danate3849 Doctor is a verb and a noun. This post uses it as a noun.
      English lessons 101.

    • @danate3849
      @danate3849 Před 2 lety +10

      @@halycon4923 I am not paying for this.

  • @Aadams700
    @Aadams700 Před 7 měsíci +1

    As someone struggling with weight the way you talked in this video made things much easier to understand. I wish more doctors took an approach like you do

  • @midziak6802
    @midziak6802 Před 11 měsíci +15

    I feel like it is all about the communication. I have met a doctor who was slightly fat something about me. Im not a morbidly obese person, but... Lets just say my BMI is quite high. And my obgyn refused to give me any form of contraception unless I lose weigh. She said that straight to my face. Literally the first thing she said to me, even before any form of check-up.
    And while I know all medications are counted per 1kg of body weigh and too much can hurt, or just simply be ineffective... Well she could use at least different language. Cuz I knew that and I was hoping that as a medical proffesional she could see more about me and help me find a solution.
    It was my first visit there years ago and I am very much afraid to go anywhere else again just to hear the same thing. I am struggling with that weighloss process and those comments are not helping. I wouldn't call her fatphobic tho. More like biased, uncaring and unkind.

    • @ShechinahRetzer
      @ShechinahRetzer Před měsícem

      So fatphobic. You spelled that wrong. There's plenty of healthy fat people. The medical industry isn't God. Theres alot modern medicine gets wrong not just about body size.

  • @QwerAsdf-vs8pz
    @QwerAsdf-vs8pz Před 4 lety +1642

    Doctors telling you things you don’t want to hear because they’re true, doesn’t make them fat-phobic, it just makes you, health-phobic.

    • @Probly
      @Probly Před 4 lety +22

      Oh it all makes sense now, she’s fat and she doesn’t like to admit it or admit that it impacts her health. What a moron honestly

    • @QwerAsdf-vs8pz
      @QwerAsdf-vs8pz Před 4 lety +17

      Probly Not: I don’t think calling people morons is gonna help the situation. They’re not a moron, they’re emotional, being emotional means you make mistakes, but making mistakes doesn’t make you a moron.

    • @RyushiroK
      @RyushiroK Před 4 lety +9

      makes them fat-centric rather. Anything said that mentions the unhealthiness of being overweight is wholly discarded, even if it's from dozens of renowned physicians, doctors, nutritionists, etc.
      Anything said that says being overweight is fine and healthy is instantly accepted, even if it's from the random homeless person around the corner.
      And then they use the random person's quotes to negate the doctors' research, since those two have obviously equal value as truth. (sarcasm)

    • @QwerAsdf-vs8pz
      @QwerAsdf-vs8pz Před 4 lety +6

      Vanesa: Right I agree with you, but pointing that out, isn’t something that will lessen the tension surrounding the issue, in fact, it’ll probably amplify it. I like Dr.Mike’s approach, he understands that where these people are coming from is a place of pain, and yet he acknowledges the fact that what they themselves are doing, is only causing more pain.

    • @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063
      @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 Před 4 lety +2

      Just insecure

  • @sofirichof
    @sofirichof Před 4 lety +2494

    This whole video is basically “I’m not mad... just disappointed” deservingly

    • @Crurned
      @Crurned Před 4 lety +4

      @@hetvi865 It is refreshingly consistent, as a healthy debate should be, backed by facts and knowledge instead of emotions.

  • @hamishpaterson2413
    @hamishpaterson2413 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Dr Mike talks sense and the truth, from a medical and logical perspective. Some people don’t like hearing the truth! BMI is a dangerous measurement tool but is sadly quoted all to often.

  • @TheKnowledgeObtainingAdmin
    @TheKnowledgeObtainingAdmin Před 10 měsíci

    Dude I love my doctors and I’m happy you exist, and that’s because I love learning more about diseases and stuff about our bodies

  • @Chris-bx6ux
    @Chris-bx6ux Před rokem +7165

    A medically licensed doctor is advocating for a healthy body weight and people are complaining he's fatphobic. I've officially seen it all

    • @doms.6701
      @doms.6701 Před rokem +109

      Because they think "fat at any size" and that you can eat anything while still being healthy

    • @ArnoldFrost
      @ArnoldFrost Před rokem +72

      The thing I'm fond of about Dr. Mike's advocacy isn't the message itself but how empathetic he is delivering the message. He knows from the patients he's had the struggles of diets and whatnot which made him very sympathetic towards people who struggle with the mental part of weight loss for obese people (which is the biggst hurdle really; since dieting is the only real thing you'll need for weight loss unless say you got a couple pounds of sagging skin where physical activity will be welcome)
      He even sympathizes well enough for those who pretty much get harsh words from others' doctors

    • @REDACTED-1
      @REDACTED-1 Před rokem +27

      @@ArnoldFrost Yeah. He really feels for the people who just can’t control themselves at all. Thank God were empathetic toward that weak and pathetic mindset and approach it with more weakness.

    • @ochukwu
      @ochukwu Před rokem +1

      Western culture's race to the bottom, and removal of all objective standards.

    • @Art.eating.rat1
      @Art.eating.rat1 Před rokem +2

      Honestly yes

  • @pepsicxla
    @pepsicxla Před 4 lety +2436

    "he tells you to watch what you eat" yeah like every other doctor would tell you???

    • @gummieworms3909
      @gummieworms3909 Před 4 lety +4

      69th like 😏

    • @21DesertRose
      @21DesertRose Před 4 lety +38

      lol for real, I wonder what that person's doctor is telling them O.o

    • @kev9622
      @kev9622 Před 4 lety +39

      "how DARE he tell me to watch what I eat in a CZcams video that I'm watching" it is insane the number of people who ascribe to this type of thinking

    • @madhavraghu
      @madhavraghu Před 4 lety +10

      Well, they did say that every doctor is fatphobic

    • @oakley3412
      @oakley3412 Před 4 lety +12

      "How dare you advise healthy eating habits! Unbelievable!"

  • @kristincrisher7963
    @kristincrisher7963 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I am overweight and recently motivated to do something about it. It can be a difficult subject if you aren't in a place to hear or talk about the issue. That doesn't make the person discussing it fatphobic. I appreciate Dr. Mike and his open and honest conversation on all topics. I wish more doctors practiced medicine like him.

  • @zanderhernandez2030
    @zanderhernandez2030 Před 4 lety +3099

    People are ACTUALLY offended of a goddamn doctor doing his job 💀

    • @anntran9840
      @anntran9840 Před 4 lety +176

      he's giving us advice FOR FREE and these people still have the audacity to say that he's fatphobic-

    • @jotakyininoo2758
      @jotakyininoo2758 Před 4 lety +30

      That’s how it be with these people

    • @Lucivius27
      @Lucivius27 Před 4 lety +31

      Yeah let them die quickly.

    • @0u70fSync
      @0u70fSync Před 4 lety +9

      well... when we have the president attacking Dr Fauci.

    • @brightestmoments101
      @brightestmoments101 Před 4 lety +8

      I am honestly perplexed!

  • @bringbackbomber7io110
    @bringbackbomber7io110 Před 4 lety +5651

    Why do some people act like having a high amount of fat isn't a detriment to your health? He just wants people to be healthy.

    • @consultantadanemarca2132
      @consultantadanemarca2132 Před 4 lety +394

      Because of political correctness. I am fat, I don't like it, but I do not mind if someone points it out. If there is someone who says that fat is healthy....get your facts in order. I don't sleep well, I can not move well, i get tired very quickly and I am "just" 10-12 kg overweight. In some more years doctors won't be allowed to tell you that you have cancer, because it will hurt your feelings.

    • @nmoomoo
      @nmoomoo Před 4 lety +8

      Consultanta Danemarca not just being pc but because of the fat-shaming that can come with it, even from doctors

    • @Lindseyisloony
      @Lindseyisloony Před 4 lety +118

      It's because some people only achieve body positivity through denial. That is the #1 reason right there. A lot of fat people are completely aware of the very real health risks that come with being over weight and for some of them that makes it really hard not go through life hating that extra weight. Some fat people want so badly to feel good about their bodies that they strive for body positivity in the most mentally (and physically) unhealthy way possible, which is denial. This denial is a process that usually starts by looking for other fat people who have already achieved some level of body positivity. They observe these people and weed out the ones that take the "body positive while working to be healthier" approach because having to address the health aspect gets in the way of the goal. They then start focusing on fellow fat people who adamantly insist that they are perfectly healthy and who tend to cite bogus medical articles as their justification. Body positivity without denial DOES exist but only when people have psychologically healthy reasons behind it. People who just want to be told that they aren't actually unhealthy so that they can feel good about what they see in the mirror are the people who throw around "fatphobic" and insist that anybody who claims to care about their health is a liar who just hates fat people. Their friends and family can have been expressing concern for their health for years but as soon as they achieve unhealthy "body positivity" through denial they suddenly accuse those friends and family of just hating fat people. It's a really big problem that's becoming more and more common as more and more false information is spread. It's very unfortunate that this problem has also started to fuel the misconception that all fat people are in denial and just don't care about their health when that's not true at all.

    • @jaydeo7850
      @jaydeo7850 Před 4 lety +34

      My friend has already had a heart attack, but I'm scared to tell him to eat better because he'll think I'm judging him. I live in obese state so I'm actually seen as pretentious for caring about my own health in the first place.

    •  Před 4 lety +16

      @@consultantadanemarca2132 that has nothing to do with political correctness. they just are feeling shitty about their size in society and the body positive movement is an excuse to give up and not try anymore and since it has gotten so much popularity they stay reinforced with their believes. no political supports obesity. this isn't political. just idiots who don't want to admit they need help or feel like it won't change how other people see them.

  • @Valdez591
    @Valdez591 Před 17 dny +2

    We are in the me too movement. Dr. Mike is the best. 👏🏽

  • @susiesmith2543
    @susiesmith2543 Před 10 měsíci

    I love you Dr Mike. Keep doing what you're doing. People get so defensive and don't look at whole picture. I wish you were my doctor. Rock on. Keep up the good work

  • @Denizyarsuvat
    @Denizyarsuvat Před 4 lety +1517

    A doctor: "Watch what you eat"
    People who are obviously not doctors: "it goes to show that even doctors can learn a lot in their own fields"

    • @DARTH-R3VAN
      @DARTH-R3VAN Před 4 lety +59

      Karens with short blue hair in general.

    • @lambgaming1347
      @lambgaming1347 Před 4 lety +8

      @@DARTH-R3VAN yeah

    • @saveyoutub
      @saveyoutub Před 4 lety +3

      Anyone that makes fun, good-hearted videos that promote healthy living (buff-dude or woman) are people we need more of in this world and the negativity is a never ending rip current. Fighting it my friend will cause you to drown. Just like with a rip tide you need to pick a side to swim to and then swim in when it's gone, and only respond to the audience that knows you better than this. Sure, clear your name but the haters will never go away, enjoy your vids

    • @LaraVlach
      @LaraVlach Před 4 lety

      Doctors can learn a lot in their own fields. So can people in a lot of other fields. Doctor Mike agreed with this statement in the video. Initial medical training isn’t all encompassing, professionals should spend their careers continuously learning, as they are confronted with new challenges and because the field evolves constantly. I quite like Doctor Mike, and still feel he could still continue to learn about working with fat people and considering our bodies from a health at every size perspective. Not because his way is inherently or always wrong, or because I think he’s fatphobic, but because there are other approaches and considerations about obesity. There are a growing number of people who are living fat and healthy. He would do well to talk with an actual fat person/fat health advocate about this.

    • @karthikrox6310
      @karthikrox6310 Před 3 lety +2

      @@LaraVlach fat at all sizes is complete BS

  • @hivavlogs3255
    @hivavlogs3255 Před 4 lety +19699

    Bruh, he’s a doctor. It’s his job to teach people to be healthy

    • @senza4591
      @senza4591 Před 4 lety +565

      Bruh that fake check lmao
      But yeah i agree

    • @mihailnikolovski
      @mihailnikolovski Před 4 lety +68

      The comment checks out to the actual good comment section section

    • @BlueScreenOfDeathPL
      @BlueScreenOfDeathPL Před 4 lety +263

      They don’t want people to die - They are deathphobic!
      But seriously, if you don’t trust doctors ask them for background. Ask them why they think something is a problem and discuss it.
      People who want to be always reassured will never develop and it applies to every “internet truth”.

    • @monkelove5725
      @monkelove5725 Před 4 lety +14

      arham_ hahah yeah that fake check

    • @tessajones9393
      @tessajones9393 Před 4 lety +18

      That's not true. For example they're not trained in nutrition which is massive for our health

  • @matthewskids3986
    @matthewskids3986 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I'm an overweight girl because I am twelve years old but I weigh 188 pounds, right now I'm trying to eat less but it turns out that for the most part I'm overweight because i have mental health issues, and I'm sad about it because it is like REALLY HARD TO LOSE WEIGHT!!! So really please pray for me (Ruby) and thank you Doctor Mike for all your videos 😁

  • @sunshinedaydream147
    @sunshinedaydream147 Před 15 dny

    I’ve been overweight my whole life and I’ve never met or seen a dr with this much compassion toward commenting on overweight/obese people. He’s working to educate so we are comfortable to come to physicians for help. Thank you Dr. Mike❤ working to break all medical stigmas

  • @MyJustMeLol
    @MyJustMeLol Před 4 lety +50127

    Imagine having to explain that being obese is unhealthy

    • @Surfing566
      @Surfing566 Před 4 lety +3819

      This is the point we have come too.

    • @rihanna7092
      @rihanna7092 Před 4 lety +602

      It is unhealthy though-

    • @diamond09162
      @diamond09162 Před 4 lety +2368

      Christina Winther Lolk what does the left have to do with this?

    • @orange_orange1985
      @orange_orange1985 Před 4 lety +1325

      Christina Winther Lolk wtf are u talking about..

    • @SnekkySnek
      @SnekkySnek Před 4 lety +1855

      @@ChristinaWintherLolk why yes, everything has to boil down to politics...

  • @GregbertTheGremlin
    @GregbertTheGremlin Před rokem +4772

    Guys my psychiatrist prescribed me with antidepressants, what a sadphobe!

    • @blueroses4373
      @blueroses4373 Před rokem +755

      right? my dentist told me to brush my teeth, what a cavityphobe 🙄

    • @GregbertTheGremlin
      @GregbertTheGremlin Před rokem +457

      @@blueroses4373 I know! Like when my eye doctor gave me prescription glasses, what a sightphobe!

    • @Man-eater0
      @Man-eater0 Před rokem +414

      Guys, My doctor told me i need to quit Smoking, what a lungcancerphobe.

    • @herbyfurby223
      @herbyfurby223 Před rokem +233

      My doctor gave me anxiety meds what a tensephobe!

    • @JoonieGurly
      @JoonieGurly Před rokem +224

      Guys my doctor told me to stop starving myself, what an eatingdisorderphobe”

  • @paullafferty7573
    @paullafferty7573 Před 9 měsíci

    Well stated. Keep up the good work. Don’t forget about the increased risk of infections following surgeries.

  • @yvesr825
    @yvesr825 Před 2 měsíci

    Keep doing what you’re doing doctor Mike! You brilliant at it👍🏻

  • @jadeoreo
    @jadeoreo Před 4 lety +4024

    Doctor: being obese/morbidly obese is proven to be very unhealthy.
    Person on reddit: he's fatphobic!!

    • @Violettahh
      @Violettahh Před 4 lety +10

      😂

    • @Prodawg
      @Prodawg Před 4 lety +85

      More evidence that reddit is for morons

    • @jimothyjimmz8372
      @jimothyjimmz8372 Před 4 lety +82

      Prodawg I often go on reddit so this is my response to your comment: yes, definitely.

    • @penyu1913
      @penyu1913 Před 4 lety +1

      while the culture of looking down on others while having opinion is prominent jere pn youtube doctor mike here just chillin

    • @sanadima788
      @sanadima788 Před 4 lety

      Literallt

  • @SharifZ4335
    @SharifZ4335 Před 4 lety +13581

    As an obese person, ive never felt that he was calling me out or was making me feel bad about myself.

    • @GriffinGal1991
      @GriffinGal1991 Před 4 lety +256

      Couldn’t agree more!

    • @reems4325
      @reems4325 Před 4 lety +443

      Same here, in fact he actually helped me be more aware and in tune with my body

    • @leonamay8776
      @leonamay8776 Před 4 lety +164

      Yep. I've been working on getting my weight down (sometimes more and sometimes less successful but it's been going in the right direction) and I really never felt like he was disrespectful or hateful in any way.

    • @lexicalgap5191
      @lexicalgap5191 Před 4 lety +159

      Same! I've seen many doctors with a fatphobic attitude and Dr. Mike's is not. Could he maybe improve in his inclusive language and general wording? Sure, we all have room to grow but he's the kind of doctor that actually has in depth conversations with patients.

    • @JayPlusForerunner
      @JayPlusForerunner Před 4 lety +47

      Yeah same. I'm not overweight but I started to get there. Thanks to these videos im not though.

  • @HannahMull-iq8mt
    @HannahMull-iq8mt Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for making this video! I'm overweight and i think you are doing what a GREAT dr would do!!! People overweight are just like all the other people just be sweet to people who are different and LOVE THEM THE WAY GOD WOULD!!! Love GOD love PEOPLE!!! THANK YOU!!!!

  • @mcjester1523
    @mcjester1523 Před 10 měsíci +21

    A doctor gives good health advice, and get labelled fat phobic. Wtf is happening in our world

    • @joelwhite7098
      @joelwhite7098 Před 9 měsíci

      The problem is that it's incorrect advice being given with someone in a doctor's coat on.

    • @carissa8949
      @carissa8949 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@joelwhite7098what advice is incorrect? Doctors talk to their patient and always try to find the best way they can to help their patients live a long healthy life

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@carissa8949
      They infantilize their patients, and what you're describing is pure paternalism

  • @rk-wq2wb
    @rk-wq2wb Před 4 lety +1736

    people don’t realize that when he says he wants to help people be “happy and healthy” he isn’t saying he wants to make them have a “bikini body.” he wants to help them lost weight so they can be at a healthy weight.
    not once does he say “skinny is healthy” because it’s not. a healthy weight is a healthy weight. you don’t need to be skinny to be healthy. you need to be at a healthy weight to be healthy.

    • @dongsicheng170
      @dongsicheng170 Před 4 lety +71

      Wow you're completely right. At this point, I think it deals with the person mindset and their correlation to the standards on society's perspective of "beauty" which they may believe is being skinny. Therefore, a simple inoffensive comment may come across as attacking when it's actually harmless and now dependent on how a person dissects it.

    • @lorddoge2268
      @lorddoge2268 Před 4 lety +6

      This is true right here

    • @NajwyzszaKaplanka
      @NajwyzszaKaplanka Před 4 lety +22

      exactly people dont understand than when he is talking about weight loss he isnt doing it from estetical point of view but health point of view

    • @lynnboartsdye1943
      @lynnboartsdye1943 Před 4 lety +5

      PREACH MY COMMENTER!!!

    • @kazimierzuu
      @kazimierzuu Před 4 lety +11

      People think that's only 0-1 type of situation. Fit or fat. And it really isn't.

  • @eviegarciaaa
    @eviegarciaaa Před 3 lety +7787

    if i went to my local doctor because i was morbidly obese and they said “no don’t worry about it you’re beautiful” i would be very concerned

    • @stansman5461
      @stansman5461 Před 3 lety +149

      Probably because it's beneficial as a business to have people be obese and then come with much more problems.
      Although it's scummy

    • @kingvincentarchcravenxiii1141
      @kingvincentarchcravenxiii1141 Před 3 lety +67

      Are you holding a knife?

    • @Jaminux
      @Jaminux Před 3 lety +181

      obese people can still look beautiful, so i really hope you're not implying that they're ugly. however, i agree that a doctor shouldn't dismiss problems that are very obviously there, especially if a patient comes in for help with said problem
      edit: PLEASE stop replying to this, it's a year old and i won't respond anymore, go do something better than talk to a brick wall

    • @xqy4888
      @xqy4888 Před 3 lety +130

      @@Jaminux if you are obese, go do some sports and eat healthy stuff. the results will come with time. also, if you think that being obese is a normal thing then you are an absolute, uneducated, misleading, disgrace to humanity.

    • @pennyw2226
      @pennyw2226 Před 3 lety +40

      Sabih Shahid most doctors don’t care about the money, they just want to help people.

  • @user-nz6ho5si5h
    @user-nz6ho5si5h Před 9 měsíci +1

    I lost 40 lbs on keto, thank you mike for your video covering it. I do understand the criticism on doing surgery, it's invasive and often will cause complications compared to diet and exercise method but I'm sure you are taking that in mind while reading the people it has helped, and benefits to it.

  • @BOMISpirit
    @BOMISpirit Před 4 měsíci +2

    There are a lot of people who have trauma around their weight and especially so in the context of attempting to seek help for it. I have been shamed and dismissed by many doctors when attempting to address my own weight. I don't condone the post this person made, but I get the feeling they have been shamed and probably not helped by the medical community. Sometimes, there is a disconnect between the emotional impact of this trauma when a doctor says "eat right" or whatever. For some people they've tried it all to no avail and I think there could be some benefit from doctors having more sensitivity training around this topic when addressing patients directly, and utilizing more comprehensive programs that address emotional impacts and trauma that affect someone's weight loss journey...the medical approach isn't always enough. One specific treatment or diet won't work for everyone, and it's not always someones fault if they can't lose weight. I do think doctors can be fixated on that last one...it must not work because you didn't do it right mentality. Maybe it didn't work because their weight loss journey requires something that wasn't previously considered. That being said I love Dr. Mike and I'm sure receiving that post was heart breaking on a certain level.

    • @ThaFuzzwood
      @ThaFuzzwood Před 3 měsíci

      That is still their problem. They don't get to accost a doctor for that who is genuinely doing their job.

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@ThaFuzzwood
      Are you really justifying condescension on the doctors' part? I guess when patients experience forced hospitalization and physical restraint, and develop serious trauma from it, it's also the patients' fault then

  • @Emi-ee4gw
    @Emi-ee4gw Před 4 lety +3111

    This guy isn't even defending himself, he sees the "attack" as a chance to educate. Respect.

    • @elixx1649
      @elixx1649 Před 3 lety +2

      Haha i ruined the no comments now theres one mwahahaha

    • @JesusGonzalez-mj5fn
      @JesusGonzalez-mj5fn Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly 👌🏼

    • @thorH.
      @thorH. Před 3 lety +19

      Bc the “attack” was a bunch of bs

    • @JesusGonzalez-mj5fn
      @JesusGonzalez-mj5fn Před 3 lety

      Chelsea Kirk lmao yup

    • @philip6579
      @philip6579 Před 11 měsíci +9

      Doctor literally means “teacher,” so he’s doing what doctors always should, teach. Doing a great job at it too.

  • @Bellg
    @Bellg Před 4 lety +887

    Imagine being angry at a doctor for saying "hey kids, hot take here, being overweight is not healthy"

    • @HypocritesExposd
      @HypocritesExposd Před 4 lety +8

      Belg- Fat shamer! Fatphobic! I have the freedom to choose to be fat and unhealthy! So what if he’s right! I’m outraged!
      For real though. Even the fatphobic made up term is cringeworthy. I’m fat and it’s ridiculous to say that. I thought being phobic means you have a fear of it. Like “I’m skinny and I have fatphobia, I’m scared to become fat.” Not “I hate far people therefore I’m fatphobic. Am I wrong there? Anyways, still an idiotic term made up there.

    • @alliew31
      @alliew31 Před 4 lety +4

      @Don’t be Triggered They’re trying to make it as bad as the transphobia problem. The people pushing it are either 1) in denial about their health 2) worried about the poor people who can’t speak for themselves or 3) been bullied their whole life for being healthily chubby and want an apology. Probably mostly the last category that don’t realize My 600 lb Life is actually a reality and people should be swayed away from it.

  • @lexigonzalez8308
    @lexigonzalez8308 Před 9 měsíci

    You make some very valid points Dr. Mike I gotta give it to you

  • @matthewdethlefson586
    @matthewdethlefson586 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I have new found respect for this doctor. He didn't back away or apologize. He stuck to his guns in what he believes. Good for him. It's not easy to stick to what you believe in especially today where you can be so easily labeled as a bad person.

  • @Jsjshsjanxj
    @Jsjshsjanxj Před 4 lety +4097

    Dr. Mike: I just want people to be happy and healthy
    People on reddit: *How dare you???*

    • @gioumris2423
      @gioumris2423 Před 4 lety +13

      @@DUSKvsDAWN The only subbredit I actually like on Reddit is r/HistoryMemes

    • @hironyx
      @hironyx Před 4 lety +30

      i read that in Greta Thunberg's voice. LOL

    • @Lolmaker632
      @Lolmaker632 Před 4 lety +13

      Karen Logic

    • @Oxideacid
      @Oxideacid Před 4 lety +10

      Remember how Reddit was home to civilized people?
      Boy how the turntables

    • @chunkysweirdtoaster3081
      @chunkysweirdtoaster3081 Před 4 lety +9

      @@Oxideacid there's actually a decent number of places in reddit where people are pretty chill though

  • @lukeflaherty4806
    @lukeflaherty4806 Před 4 lety +2566

    I swear if he didn’t warn people about obesity the same people would claim that he’s not doing his job properly

    • @binabaneen8741
      @binabaneen8741 Před 4 lety +33

      Periodt 😂

    • @bethykennedy8662
      @bethykennedy8662 Před 4 lety +63

      It's considered medically negligent not to inform people of a condition that is affecting their health

    • @VictorDude98
      @VictorDude98 Před 4 lety +16

      If he didn't tell people to try to be healthy I wouldn't listen to his advice actually

    • @jadebethj4807
      @jadebethj4807 Před 4 lety +11

      Exactly. There's no way to win with people.

    • @bleechrcreechrr
      @bleechrcreechrr Před 4 lety +11

      No they wouldn't. The people complaining are "fat acceptance" people. They're fat and don't want to be told it's unhealthy.

  • @charti1308
    @charti1308 Před 28 dny

    hey man you helped me loose weight and get in shape tbh more then a lot of stuff i was not really fat just really out of shape and chubby and you helped me change so thanks

  • @TheSilverwolf97
    @TheSilverwolf97 Před 10 měsíci +3

    The one that picked my interest more is the comment about doctors mentioning your weight on a medical checkout. I mean what do you expect! it's not like a doctor approached you on the street to say you're fat, you came to the doctor to ask what is wrong with you AND YOU PAID FOR IT!. It's like going to a restaurant, paying for the meal and then the restaurant ghosts you and never give you your meal, it would be stealing if the doctor didn't say what your health issues are.

  • @corbinh1477
    @corbinh1477 Před 3 lety +7909

    He is a doctor. he just wants the best life for his patients.

    • @kindnessisalie5411
      @kindnessisalie5411 Před 3 lety +282

      ikr like wtf. Being obese is clearly unhealthy and as a doctor, he needs to treat and advise people to be more healthy. Hes not fatphobic, he just wants the best for others. Yet egotistical people on the internet thinks they are smarter than a doctor

    • @glotslinget2528
      @glotslinget2528 Před 3 lety +6

      He said this in the video so...

    • @SkyBooFast
      @SkyBooFast Před 3 lety +142

      @@kindnessisalie5411 yup being fat is unhealthy, when I was fat fat, i could'nt even get up, my knee hurts, my chest feels tight sometimes, even though i am still fat today, but its better than before and I can see the changes straight away.

    • @marshalravello
      @marshalravello Před 3 lety +51

      @@SkyBooFast nice bro/sis! keep it up

    • @yousifyounan6579
      @yousifyounan6579 Před 3 lety +41

      Day phobia is not real, it's just people that don't want to lose weight. Any people that believe in fat phobia, can you please explain to me why?

  • @arijvirani6065
    @arijvirani6065 Před 4 lety +1931

    He looks so upset. He so doesn’t want to be perceived like this. I can see how much it’s hurting him.

    • @victorcastro9853
      @victorcastro9853 Před 4 lety +33

      I like you’re happy in your photo

    • @annatuani5748
      @annatuani5748 Před 4 lety +8

      Not related at all but
      " It hurts you, I can see in your eyes" Paternity court fans have heard it so many times ☠️

    • @lordzoltan8903
      @lordzoltan8903 Před 4 lety +16

      All he wants is to help people but some portion of the internet just like to demonize what they don't like

    • @angeged9419
      @angeged9419 Před 4 lety +8

      @@lordzoltan8903 it's always like that. When someone is good and is trying to help, there is always someone out there who will try to bring you down.. Not just for this but in general

    • @taradiane
      @taradiane Před 4 lety +8

      It's ridiculous. There's a segment of the body positivity movement that has warped into a celebration of obesity. When the reddit poster and those supporting the post say 'fatphobic' I suspect they mean that being any level of overweight shouldn't be seen as harmful, which is simply never going to be backed by medical science. Excess weight is never not harmful in some way for the human body (animals, too). I hate that he even felt the need to respond - I say this as a fat girl who doesn't hate herself, but knows I need to do better for my health and I don't get butthurt when my doctor points it out.

  • @user-zy9uu8ml7p
    @user-zy9uu8ml7p Před 10 měsíci

    I really respect you patience because you could easily have lost your temper since there were so many things you could say to turn down their claims, if I were in your feet, I would have lost my temper for sure!

  • @DionStephenOn
    @DionStephenOn Před 3 měsíci +1

    As someone who is obese, i totally agree with your standpoint. I see doctors as helpers. That's why i want to be in the medical field. Fatphobia is different than helping people

  • @mastertrey4683
    @mastertrey4683 Před 4 lety +1454

    A doctor is against obesity and supports people by giving them health and longevity. In other news grass is green

  • @LillySty
    @LillySty Před 4 lety +2289

    I feel like there is a point in this that wasn‘t quite clear enough:
    He doesn‘t want you to lose weight because you‘re fat. He wants you to lose weight because the risks for certain health problems are so much higher if you‘re obese. Yes, you can be obese and live a healthy lifestyle, you can exercise, eat well, take good care of your body. But being at a healthy weight (not „skinny“, healthy.) still lowers certain health risks.

    • @snigdhaprakash6485
      @snigdhaprakash6485 Před 4 lety +29

      Exactly thank you ♥️♥️

    • @BrianaLynn7
      @BrianaLynn7 Před 4 lety +19

      nobody cares if you're healthy though, just SKINNY. Thats why they take one look at you and judge you. THey don't ask what you eat and determine if its healthy. They just want you SMALLER.

    • @justsomestuff1513
      @justsomestuff1513 Před 4 lety +137

      @@BrianaLynn7 but that's not Dr. Mike. We are talking about him here but you are right for other people.

    • @jaz1756
      @jaz1756 Před 4 lety +7

      Yes. I wish Dr Mike emphasised this more

    • @avoicecallingout7487
      @avoicecallingout7487 Před 4 lety +25

      Yes! And also you can be fat (according to your own standards, like not as skinny as you wish to be or whatever fat means for each indivudual), and doctors actually consider you to fall within a healthy weight. They would never tell you to lose weight in these kinds of situations.

  • @zorahoffish2610
    @zorahoffish2610 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Wow. This was incredibly based and I seriously believe that you're doing some insanely remarkable work here, Doc. My dad was obese for a long time. What has been helping him remarkably is a keto diet and working out, and it's helped him sleep better. He doesn't suffer from insomnia and sleep apnea in the way he used to anymore. He's the healthiest and happiest I've ever seen him. My stepmom is incredible with natural and holistic health matters and she is the healthiest person I know. She has changed my dad's life for the better and I cannot thank her enough. This all goes to say that keto isn't for everyone! And that's okay. Just in my dads experience, he's gained back so many years of his life. Overall, I'm sharing this story because it proves that people are different and different things work for different people. And as for Mike, I appreciate that you are as unbiased as you are because that is so incredibly hard to do these days without potentially receiving backlash.

  • @tailscape
    @tailscape Před 10 měsíci

    i think the way doctor mike goes about reading these posts is very credible - he maintains his composure well and isn't reactive and works out where various perspectives stem from instead of reacting or being swayed by anything

  • @12345themadguy
    @12345themadguy Před 4 lety +1652

    Its almost like he is a doctor and knows that being overweight is bad for health, crazy

    • @gabrieldiezdiez8650
      @gabrieldiezdiez8650 Před 4 lety +41

      people be like: i have not fucking studies but surely i now more about health than a doctor

    • @nickbyrwa9188
      @nickbyrwa9188 Před 4 lety +30

      Gabriel Díez Díez “he posted about this but even tho i never watched it im still gonna judge him for it”

    • @2silver144
      @2silver144 Před 4 lety +1

      ikr crazy dude

    • @bruhmoment-bo1mb
      @bruhmoment-bo1mb Před 4 lety +7

      Yeah bro, it almost like, he has like, a degree or something dude, like, don't you know that, like, Facebook is better than, like, doctors and scientists dude? Like, bro is so dumb to like, study to help people and like, better their lifes dude.

    • @caleyholland7601
      @caleyholland7601 Před 4 lety +1

      Nick Byrwa yeah, why would anyone do that? (not saying you did btw)

  • @alinajanin9297
    @alinajanin9297 Před 3 lety +2776

    The AUDACITY one must have to tell a medical professional that he still has a lot to learn in his field because he is “fatphobic” is just beyond me.

    • @reluctant4611
      @reluctant4611 Před 3 lety +5

      Dumb man dumb man yea that's themm

    • @BFFforu
      @BFFforu Před 3 lety +90

      Obese people tend to have problems with doctors, who blame their weight for all medical issues they might have, making it hard for them to get a proper diagnosis. Sadly some of them take it too far and don't understand that their weight can in fact be the reason for some medical issues

    • @kilerkane
      @kilerkane Před 3 lety +24

      The reason for this is that things like the fat acceptance movement have made plenty of people, simply on there principles (Good or not) question if life in excess, or if obesity is actually unhealthy. The problem with this individual that Mike is talking about is that they simply, probably, do not believe that being fat is unhealthy. And Mike confronts them as if they think that, so mike is probably talking on deaf ears.

    • @gon9684
      @gon9684 Před 3 lety +5

      @@BFFforu To be fair being obese or simply not exercising, sleeping or eating properly on a regular basis is way worse in general than most of the examples I see of that hapenning, but I guess there's so true to that, some doctors don't know what is hapenning at home or anything and they don't treat obesity seriously enough, and the mental health issues or bad habits that probably lead to that. But still, it is fair to advice every obese patient to lose weight, they should just teach how.

    • @firstnamelastname8790
      @firstnamelastname8790 Před 3 lety

      true lmao

  • @huswsimonbla
    @huswsimonbla Před 4 měsíci +5

    "I have never watched him" yet goes on to judge him.. typical

  • @nlboyd7647
    @nlboyd7647 Před 3 měsíci

    This is only the 2nd show of yours and i have to say everything i have heard so far I appreciate and respect. I look forward to watching more videos from you in the future

  • @douglasguzman2622
    @douglasguzman2622 Před 4 lety +1840

    The man is a doctor, of course he’s gonna promote healthy lifestyle and eating habits . It’s not fatphobic to say being overweight has health risks.

    • @noahmaruschak5823
      @noahmaruschak5823 Před 4 lety +74

      As someone who is fat and dieting I completely agree with him.

    • @samiraansari5686
      @samiraansari5686 Před 4 lety +3

      Hmmm...I agree, but they do have a point that some of the diets he has tried out here are quite extreme and often lead to people developing eating disorders. Something like keto, for example, ist often practiced by people who don‘t understand the risks in unsafe ways and his videos did not really deal with that as much as they could have. So I can see the angle of: Maybe a popular CZcams doctor shouldn’t be trying these because people will carelessly imitate him.
      Of course that doesn‘t mean he‘s fatphobic and I understand why he‘s done these videos- I just fear that they might do more harm than good.

    • @otakutrash-zp7vs
      @otakutrash-zp7vs Před 4 lety +39

      @@samiraansari5686 hes not promoting those diets he dose them because people are curious and ask him to smh

    • @latisamedic7303
      @latisamedic7303 Před 4 lety +8

      Noah Maruschak sane I’ve gotten big and I know it’s unhealthy people need to get the stick out of their asses he’s not fatphobic for calling obese unhealthy as it is

    • @latisamedic7303
      @latisamedic7303 Před 4 lety +5

      otakutrash13 14 exactly he does it to inform not promote

  • @stickthelanding4785
    @stickthelanding4785 Před 3 lety +5473

    He’s a doctor telling us to be healthy is literally his job and he cares for us.

  • @OriginalYonta
    @OriginalYonta Před 2 měsíci

    i like what you do and how you do it, keep up the GOOD work.

  • @PrettybuoyJones1992
    @PrettybuoyJones1992 Před 4 lety +1960

    I can tell that the comment really bothered him,he seems like a really nice and caring guy. ..

    • @maxfimbres8661
      @maxfimbres8661 Před 4 lety +23

      He really is tho like he makes docters for common problems pretty free

    • @d8a489
      @d8a489 Před 4 lety +6

      He is

    • @hkr667
      @hkr667 Před 4 lety +36

      He is bothered because if those posts get traction then that will directly result in bad health and ultimately people dying sooner.

    • @JKLoans
      @JKLoans Před 4 lety +39

      It really seemed like it bothered him; and, I hope he doesn't get discouraged. Because, truthfully, he has been an amazing resource when it comes to our collective understanding of medical issues, our rights as patients and the ethics of medical professionals.

    • @zahraa-ld3yg
      @zahraa-ld3yg Před 4 lety +11

      He is a nice and caring guy :)

  • @benlee5039
    @benlee5039 Před 3 lety +2256

    I'd rather be slapped with the truth than being kissed with a sugar-coated lie.

    • @some_icedtea5205
      @some_icedtea5205 Před 3 lety +86

      Clearly alot of sugar

    • @Natasha-il7gz
      @Natasha-il7gz Před 3 lety +7

      Exactly!!!

    • @reluctant4611
      @reluctant4611 Před 3 lety +7

      @@some_icedtea5205 😳

    • @biggyd336
      @biggyd336 Před 3 lety +24

      @@some_icedtea5205 this man woke up and chose violence

    • @TessG9107
      @TessG9107 Před 3 lety +22

      I wanna post this on a wall or something.
      "I'd rather be slapped with the truth than being kissed with a sugar-coated lie."
      - Ben Lee

  • @Sniperkitten971
    @Sniperkitten971 Před 9 měsíci

    You've been very patient and kind doctor.

  • @trabbit2332
    @trabbit2332 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Imagine wanting what is better for people and then getting hate for that.

    • @MorganKing95
      @MorganKing95 Před 6 měsíci

      Paternalism and infantilization are not desirable practices

    • @Daviddd8892
      @Daviddd8892 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@MorganKing95okay, incel.

    • @whatisgoingon505
      @whatisgoingon505 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@MorganKing95explain?

  • @billytessio6326
    @billytessio6326 Před 4 lety +6326

    It's ok Mike. These are the same people who called Adele fatphobic for losing weight. They just want people to be miserable like them.

    • @fe.rya.lazeem
      @fe.rya.lazeem Před 4 lety +357

      110% agreed

    • @NikoboiNFTB
      @NikoboiNFTB Před 4 lety +220

      Lmao they really said that lol

    • @lancejohnson3278
      @lancejohnson3278 Před 4 lety +331

      @@NikoboiNFTB it was more framed around her being a hypocrite as a person that was body-type positive and then had the audacity to go lose a bunch of weight, but yeah pretty much, ridiculous

    • @jae4427
      @jae4427 Před 4 lety +671

      @@lancejohnson3278 Wow. How dare she want to feel healthy and beautiful in her own body? Shameful! 🙄

    • @laya1901
      @laya1901 Před 4 lety +453

      @@lancejohnson3278 as if being body positive and wanting to lose weight weren't compatible 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @emilyb3875
    @emilyb3875 Před 4 lety +2720

    What is fat shaming: “if you’re fat and happy you are a TERRIBLE INFLUENCE and you should be MISERABLE and hide from social media until you lose weight” What is not fat shaming: “Having an obese/morbidly obese BMI has some health risks, and everyone should care about their nutrition”

    • @finleybriggs-webb4158
      @finleybriggs-webb4158 Před 4 lety +59

      I think the issue is that the parameters for "obese" are really vague, and BMI doesn't take anything but height and weight into account. For example I am technically considered obese, but I am a size 10 and have perfect blood pressure and am considered extremely healthy by the doctor I go to. Obese doesn't necessarily mean unhealthy, but it can in some cases.

    • @guillemmoreno5522
      @guillemmoreno5522 Před 4 lety +51

      @@finleybriggs-webb4158 Then you're not obese.

    • @nt78stonewobble
      @nt78stonewobble Před 4 lety +53

      @@finleybriggs-webb4158 BMI is and always has been an approximation... a rule of thumb... If the BMI gives a warning sign and you're not eg. muscular, you go have a talk with your doctor about it, who then takes that more comprehensive look at your weight and overall health and then if you're in good health as you, they'll probably tell you not to worry about it.

    • @jaisotheunfathomablybased7135
      @jaisotheunfathomablybased7135 Před 4 lety +40

      @@finleybriggs-webb4158 he said in the video that it takes more than just looking at the number on a scale but the person as well

    • @aparna2701
      @aparna2701 Před 4 lety +32

      @@finleybriggs-webb4158 BMI fails to be accurate mostly only in people who have a lot of muscle mass. If you're 400lbs and you're not a powerlifter or something, then BMI obviously is right when it says you're morbidly obese.