AITAH for suspecting my wife of doing something awful at her friend's bachelorette week in Mexico?

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AITAH for suspecting my wife of doing something awful at her friend's bachelorette week in Mexico? She spent virtually 0 money and took no pictures.
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AITAH for telling my in laws that I will go through and get rid of whatever I choose to and kicking my BIL out of their parents/ grandparents home
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