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This. As a WOMAN is apalling to me??? Shes 11, health class should and DOES explain most of the effects and ways to solve the problem of mood swings etc, this was blatant assholery and the boyfriend incorrectly handled his daughter by coddling her.

15? Jr high school? How?

Pre-menstrual Dysphoric Disorder with Psychosis, rare. Some women do get vi0lent and @busive on it, although rare. Intermittent Explosive Disorder. Oppositional Defiant Disorder. Conduct Disorder. GYN. ENDOCRINOLOGY. PSYCHIATRY.

Yeah they would've never ganged up on OP if OP was a woman. They'd even justify the affair and would encourage him to have an affair. Humanity is twash

Naw she said it because she felt that way, she wasn't attracted to him anymore and isn't now. Just slinging him pity sex. Fuck those assholes.

Yea…he’s actually the 🍑 🕳️

I absolutely don't see any form of cheating

As ever, the comments are biased and definitely would be different had the OP been a woman. Classic Reddit.

We had to move into a bigger house when I 6f and 10M because we were to old to share a bedroom

Hey man... your body, your choice. Plus that dude was mad wishy-washy, flimsy with his promises, possibly manipulative... it wasn't gonna end well. He doesn't have to birth it, go through any 9-month long pregnancy struggles, or risk his life during labor, hell, he could just leave you a struggling single mother and be on his next woman while you're stuck suffering. That 9 months will then turn into 18 years. Do what's right for yourself and have children when you're stable, secure, and actually willing to. NTA.

OP did nothing wrong. "emotional cheating" ROFL. Imagine if the genders were reversed, my god.

Personally, the age difference makes me feel icky BUT if Op is good, his wife is good and the kid is good my feelings don't exactly matter. I'd just avoid OP most likely and keep an eye out for the wife. Openly calling someone a groomer behind their back though and implying he's a pedo is stupid and can be escalated to a genuine defamation case where I live.

He's probably use to tightening the jars and doesn't realize it and needs to remember he has a wife and think about her

I know exactly what he's talking about. My Husband of 17yrs and I have a 20yr age difference. When we first met he thought I was at the least 22 and I thought he was many 28 or so. We dated for a short time before marrying and I was a month shy of 19. People try to claim I was groomed or other absurdities. We worked at a place that required all workers to be at least 21 (I can't give specifics because there's certain ppl i don't want finding my profile and the job was somewhat unique) they had a real hard time filling a specific position that I was perfect for (I'm a military brat, both Mom and Dad, we traveled a lot and us kids (my brother, cousin who was being raised by my parents and myself) were made to learn as much of the languages /dialects/accent recognition, customs and cultures as we could and absolutely loved it. This made me perfect for the position that employer needed filled so badly so they hired me but I was told to never tell i was under 21. So it was an easy mistake my future husband thought I was older. He also looked (looks) much younger than he was (is). Him and another man were both flirty and had taken me out. My future husband took me to the County Fair and it didn't bother him a bit I brought my (an abuse rescue) pet Mink on a leash that kept trying to run up his pant leg. lol. Anyway, we kept dating. By the time we realized the massive age difference we were both pretty smitten. We left after things got serious since they had a strict no dating policy. He created his own business about 3 years after we married and it worked out fantastically. He's really got a talent and I'm so proud of him. I'm the Field Medical Officer for a Search and Rescue/Recovery and Rapid Disaster Response Team. Specifically L1 Trauma field specialized. We're coming up on our 18th anniversary so it has obviously worked out. People make some pretty f-ked up assumptions and accusations that really p*ss me off... We've learned to ignore them. My parents, Brother and cousin love him and His parents love me. He puts up with all the furry little creatures I bring home and adopt. We're happy.

Any one ever think that if that is that the only thing he does may be she is being over the top so he says ok but takes no notice because there are plenty of device's on the market to deal with the tightest lids so I don't believe it's a real issue

The comments are so typical. "Women good, men bad." $90 says half his depression was cause by his wife emasculating him. Another $90 says she was cheating, and that's why she was refusing s3x.

$30,000 in property tax? I am with the husband on this one.

She gave him an honest answer to his own question. If my wife let herself go I would find her less attractive. If it went too far I might not desire her at all. OF COURSE. Physical attraction is not a choice! She still showed she loved him. He’s a self centered a-hole.

Maybe it would help the husband to actually hire a professional baby care nanny and he can learn how to care for the baby. Not everyone automatically knows how to care for an infant. 9:08

I mean, he's 30. What is He doing with a 22 year old???😂😂😂

If this was reversed and the mom changed her mind and wanted to go back to work. Everyone would have been on her side.

Simps are shaming a man. So what about that part of him being rejected because of gaining weight? I would build up my self better and leave a woman like that. She pushed him out of relation and somehow it's his fault? Those who blame him are nothing more than a doormat. "But a man should work to save the marriage" shouldn't a women have done the same in a first place? She had no interest so why should he bother?

People jumping conclusions is amazing. DAMN!!!!!

I feel like OP, who was already in bad mindset, allowed the answer to eat away at him until he started to resent his wife.

Op talks to a woman and they immediately dogpile on him for "cheating".

He's doing it on purpose I can't believe you married this jerk.

If OP was a woman, they'd have said she did nothing wrong. They'd even justify the "affair".

My Dad stop over tightening Jars when people start to wake him up or wait for him to be in the middle of something and make him stop are argument back was we have to stop what we are doing to come to you because you over so it XD make it an inconvenient I will make it your inconvenient XD

The very definition of gaslighting. Thank god he couldn't resist the paste.

John Lennon got his wish. It's Reddit and it's terrifying!

1st dtory: That eoman is so stupid she deserves to be alone.

Creating a problem so he can be the solution. He's just manipulating her so that she'll think she can't function as an independent human and that she needs him.

Oh he's absolutely doing it on purpose, probably just to make her need him or some bs.

Wow! The comments towards this OP is ruff! He was depressed and had mental issues and like a bunch of wild dogs they attacked him! He has issues and attacking him doesn’t help we don’t know what kind of wife he has so we can’t just make her out to be a saint! and sometimes yes the coworker is just a friend and yes he makes guts be having an emotional affair but still there is two persons in a marriage!

Bro no one wants the comments just skip to the updates

I would have done the same thing. And would have been happy because I love hotdogs!

So the wife handed op the divorce papers! Well i guess that the trash tok itself out🙂👍

Does anyone else remember hamdoggers?

I know of a couple of guys who put things where the wife and kids can’t reach them or see them on purpose. Both are narcissists

Nothing says "I am a man here me roar" than a psychological abusiv3 AH tightening jars because he is in some way insulted and emasculated.

Lol, black man married to a Filipino woman here. I have hosted many family parties and been to many family parties with my wife's family. The only rule about food we have is that if you as a guest, aren't taking multiple plates of food home with you after the party ends then we have embarrassed ourselves thoroughly, and we have failed to put on a decent party. We always have mountains of food left over after every party because the one thing refuse to have happen is we run out of food, no matter how late you came to the party.

Of course there’s people shaming the dude.

I really wanna know if there’s an update to this one but I have a feeling OP probably deleted his account…

Yes

I'll save some time, yes, aborting a child is bad at the best of times. You owe it to the father, especially one you're in a relationship with to tell the truth.

"You've only known him 3 months, you can't expect to raise a child with him!" Uhhh she thought that was enough time to have sex with him!

Is that supposed to be tragedy? Yikes . Also literally there was no difference in pronunciation lol

See ladies? Prenups aren’t just for men, if you’re smart and loyal they can protect you too.

He's not apologetic and remorseful because he cheated. He's remorseful because he's going to lose the money. He signed the contract - actions have consequences.

It worked for you but OP says she couldn't have raised a child on her own . So she did what she thought best .