Own your mistakes | Cristel Carrisi | TEDxZagreb
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- čas přidán 29. 05. 2017
- It's abpout recognizing, understanding and owning your mistakes. She came from famous entertaining family and was raised olmost 'on stage'. After her music career she start designing swimwear. What happened after was a great school and life expirience.
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When crippled with the thought of the mistake and of failure, remember that this is one incident out of over thousands of daily correct decisions and achievement's you make daily.
Thank you.
thank you for this
i agree with her, before you come to succes you must go first to a failure, never blame somebody else for the things you did.
Yes you are right
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Owning your mistakes, especially if you are in a position of leadership, makes you more human. Love it
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"The major mistake that everybody makes is waiting! Waiting to fuking feel like it, waiting for somebody to pick you, waiting for the right time, waiting for you to feel motivated. It’s not coming!" - Mel Robbins
Thanks mate. I will look for a job tomorrow.
I have made same mistake and I hate myself for that
@@sayaligawande2208 Epictetus, a Greek Stoic philosopher from the 4th century BC describes the same situation. It has happened to countless people, from countless walks of life in every era of human history. Those mistakes brought you unnecessary pain, yes, but now you know what you shouldn't be doing. You got a lesson out of it! You learned something! You can't hate yourself from comitting mistakes like that if it is in our nature as people.
You can always realize that, although it was your fault for staying oblivious, you couldn't have avoided happening just like that, and that it was just a bump in the road. Maybe you could even find forgiveness for yourself. Who knows.
@@mayorgeneralramirez1997 thanks🤗
My parents did not like when I made mistakes. They made it there mission to point out my mistakes and things that I did wrong. I was always the child that needed to be on her Ps & Qs. So, I eventually found comfort in isolating myself. I did not like being around no one but my grandmother. She was the one who taught me that in order for you to grow you must make mistakes. She also taught me that mistakes does not equal failure. Giving up is when you failed.
It is so painful to grow up trying to satisfy unachievable expectations. How lucky though to have had such a cool grandmother. Thank you for sharing.
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I am also a failure. I wish I can share my words and stories with millions of those who are feeling the same and hopefully we can get each other out of that hole.
I know the feeling man...😔
make a yt video maybe? Maybe it reaches out to people some day bcos of the algorithm you never know. Take a chance. it'll take nothing
Hope you opened to self love
Yeah man I wish I could move on too
Hi,... I know it's been a yr. How are you now?... we're you able to accept?.. and as they say: move on, it's in the past...
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My problem is when I mess up I always tend to beat myself up about it and let it get too me.
Naaah, you need not allow your past mistakes get to you, as this will only slow you down the more. After every mistakes, take the vital lessons from the mistakes and move on...Thanks
@@rayoghweniale6025 Thank you for the advice have a wonderful day. :)
I just shared this to my son, cause these are lesson of much worth, and I had never found them expressed so clearly. Life is about enjoying the ride, not the destination, it's not only about success, success is a part of it.
This is a message to myself for now and in the future:
Do not make that mistake again. Own up to your actions and be truthful, don’t forget just to avoid the consequences of being scolded, being afraid will make things much much worse. Gain her trust back. Do not mess this up. Learn from your mistakes. You’ll be okay
I finally braved enough to myself that I am responsible to my failure without involving anyone to my mistakes. The confession to myself was still hard and bitter, but I need to face it because it is true.😞😢
This girl is truly opening her heart! Truth is worth spreading, thank you 🙏🏻
She told me great lesson of a life
I like her topic and her talk but I also wanna say:
She's such a great speaker.
Right? She nailed it! My my, what an orator!
Nobody talks how to go through failure or how to own your failure
#1 be responsible : we always blame other for our mistake. we should not do this rather we have to take our responsibility.
2# focus on you : we should not focus on other. what other opinion about our life, we should not do this. we should focus in ourselves.
3# balance: it is important in our lives when we become failure. we have to understand failure is a part of our live.
This is really informative video.
damn she's so strong and confident in facing her fears of telling about her failures :(((( thank you for this message
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Cristel this is not failure. Sometimes we tend to look at things as all or. nothing. Just look at all the good you did do in all that time with the fashion brand. It most certainly not be taken for granted not at all. You are great and you will continue to do more. Think of the accomplishments
Thank you Cristel, this is the first time I've ever posted any comment under any video, but yours came suddenly at the right moment when I need it most. I'm 22 and i'm now trying to solve problems caused by my mistakes. I honestly don't know where to start and what to do. I'm trying not to face the problems, and even wanted to run away from them. But thank you for showing me what to do and where to begin. Thanks :)
How's everything as of late?
It's really frustrating, when you make a mistake as an entrepreneur it's painful, all the sweat and effort, and then you realize it was all a huge mistake, my biggest lesson so far is having patience, and not rushing things, mistakes have to be seen as stepping stones, its a lesson god has put in your path that will be very valuable in your future.
Really right!
Untill you’re successful, you have to make some number of mistakes( individually here).😉
experience teaches wisdom. It is okay to fail we just need to learn from our mistake and also accepting all the consequences and everything that failures brings.
As long as you are trying to accomplish a goal, failure should always be praised.
In summary: Own up to your mistakes( take responsibility for the mistake you did ) (as lont as it was something under your control) so you can be responsible for your success (when you learn from it)
Focus on yourself (live your own reality)
Find the right balance ( don't judge yourself and also take responsibility)
Mistake is natural.
Regret is foolish.
The greatest glory of life is not to never have fallen down
but to always get up every time we fall.
To overcome difficulties is to experience the full delight of existence.
A man's true delight is to do the things he was made for.
how you can get through on your a failure and own up to one 1-be resonsible 2- focuse on you don't waste your time looking what other ppl are doing 3- find your balance
This is a very valuable message for each individual, however, at a societal level, we should also remember that the right systems and processes play an important role in helping individuals succeed.
My gosh, I needed to see this. I have been struggling with admitting to a mistake for weeks. I have a massive fear of life altering consequences, which is making me drag my feet. It is literally eating me alive with guilt. Thank you for this video. Life will continue after coming clean and I will be OK.
It doesn’t matter who you are or where you’re from. No matter how hard we try to avoid making mistakes, we will make mistakes regardless and all that matters is we own up to them so we can evolve and learn
Draga Cristel, ti si strasno "dijete", sad si mama i budi mirna i zadovoljna sa tvojom familijom..jako obozavam tvoju mamu Rominu (super donna), sve najbolje u zivotu sa tvojim Davorom i sretno sa buducem rodenju....all the best with my heart...
This is THE MOST INSPIRING TED Talk I have ever seen. She is so young, yet so profound. She becomes my role model instantly. Gonna save this offline to watch it once a month or so.
i am so depressed about my own deficiency of talents in various aspects like language, elocution, writing skills and always thinking about what the others may think of me. it is so embarrassing, even after watching this eloquent, inspiring talk. i will follow your advice now on wards and try to concentrate on myself than others. thank you very much for sharing..
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DrSayyad Masthan Vali embarrasement and thinking on what others think and say to me are main obstacle for succeed.
after viewing hundreds and hundreds of motivation and procrastination videos i finally came to the conclusion that if we don't point out, what is holding back and proactively take positive and specific action in small and consistent steps it is not going to help our positive motivation. it is essential we must know exactly what is our deficit and we must take bold and specific actions... finally what others think about is immaterial, if we hold strongly to truth and benefit of humanity..
Good decision you have decided to get change your self Hope you will try to concentrate your self First .. i am Leadership psychologist for Successes and Failures !!
those are not talents but skills, and they can be learned and perfected with a little effort
I was sure,that my studing is very important part in my life.But,seeing it and other ones,i have thihk,that my life is a balance,a balance of different things and moments!Thank you.
such an open-hearted talk. very inspiring
I’ve been working at my dads business ever since I was 14 and I really want to move up in the company but I feel like my past mistakes are holding me back at a position I don’t want to be in. And I find it hard to accept my failure cause I fear that’s all I’ll be remembered by. And it haunts me every day
Truly worth spreading!! I really like the way of her speaking and story. It genuinely touched my heart.
"Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new" -Albert Enstein
"Stay hungry, stay foolish" - Steve Jobs
We all know that making mistakes is better than faking perfection. But how many of us will ever acknowledge or take resposibilities for their intentional or unintentional mistakes. Not many will be willing.
It's great to see such an inspiring speech delivered in Zagreb.
What's interesting is the parallel between Mate Rimac and Cristel Carrisi, who both share narratives of beginning their journeys with minimal resources, relying on just a bit of savings. This, despite the fact that they come from backgrounds where their fathers were pretty affluent in their own countries.
I feel frustrated knowing people close to me just won't accept their mistakes, even after the ones hurt are able to forgive.
this is one of the best ted talk on youtube
You are so inspirational. Uplifting 💪💪
I am gonna have to save this offline and listen daily. 💕💕💕
Truly inspiring. Thank you so much.
I think is true, we always have to take responsability of our own mistakes. Love your video.
Thank you so much for sharing what you are! Yes life is not easy to success anything unless we work hard.
The biggest mistake that one can make is in giving up, we have to recognize our mistakes in order to be successful, do not care about the opinion of others about us, do not give them importance, because they only try to destroy our future, let's accept our failures, in case we are worthy of accepting them, we will give that despite the problems we have, we continue forward, in search of our purpose in life.
Amazing ,i agree with her especially when she said don't blame anyone ,be responsable : when you could be accountable of your success ,achievements ,goals ,dreams you should also be responsable of your failure.
This was truly wonderful. Thank you I needed this ❤️💙💛
Super amazing! Thank you for this wonderful talk
Wow there are actually some of us. Expressing the experiences that many of us, especially my person. Need to know were not mad just missionaries. Being still the best impact.
I feel on point a little slow but the quality of understanding can not be ignored nor rushed.
My mistakes affects my family and some people too in my life and it hurts , I can't move on I'm so ashamed , I just to want to hide forever or disappear!!! I'm so so ashamed!!! If it only affected me it was alright but I pulled people into my mistakes and I hate it I hate myself for that!!!
The most influential people would add to the value of the world by showcasing the realness in their life journey and emotions, too.
this gave me a brand new perspective, thank you
Someone told me to follow in what you're saying. Because he happens to be related to you. I am very proud of you and all others. Someone who has a heart that knows you inside and out. You're a good person at heart, the wisdom of life and we all must follow our own Positive goals and never waste our potential son, others we must follow our hearts. That's the most important thing, and that's the true fact. Reality is, God has gave us so much to follow. It's to being ourselves and not to be somebody we're not. Yes, I agree with you. And I was told everything that comes from another individual's mouth is about them telling us who they are. It's not about us.
Life is 100% of what happens to us and 90% of how we react to it!!!!!!
Thank you for all ur words🙏🏽so inspired me
Her presentation is more about failure than mistakes, failure is about not succeeding in something and it is sometimes because of a mistake, but the word mistakes is broader than that it is about making a wrong decision, sometimes you make a life changing decision and later realize it was a huge mistake, this is different from failure to do something..
A failure is like taking a path and not being able to reach the end of it, a mistake is like taking the wrong path independently of the results
Not showing us her slides.. :( We're missing her photos, thus a part of the story.
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Yes you r right
yes ! that's what i said while watching
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Thank you for the message. Very Helpful!
you are truly opening my heart! Truth is worth spreading, thank you
I loved the speech 😍. Failure is stepping stone of success ❤️
So much appreciate your struggle.
Great inspiring talk. Thank you
Thanks for your precious sharing!!!
I failed badly and was totally my mistake . The world collapsed on my head in 1 month I ve lost home , a boyfriend , the money I be saved for 3 years that should he helped me finish my studies and my health . Not.easy . I knew was going to be a long read to recovery . I made another mistake after recovery that one . And lost money again . I really do work hard but at a certain point I made the mistake . You know what I ve learned ? I made mistake because I overthink situation and because of fear .. if i Just do what I feel true for myself I think would be much more rare to make mistake . Listen your instinct !
That’s actually true 👍🏻great work
i love her authenticity
wow excellent. Life changing speech.thanks for valuable speech.
Thank you so much 🙏🏻😊
Worth watching this.
Thankyou😊
Am I the only one who loves loves loves her outfit?!?!
Thank you for sharing and inspiring others. Great speech!
I really learned many things from her topic thanks for sharing this video
Excellent presentation with depth of the life + charmness
super message! I will try and follow this way of thinking
you are looking awesome and a good speech cristel carrisi
a great talk
magnificent melodious speech delivery
she is beautiful and very smart.
she is really beautiful
what
Yeah. She empowers herself.
Super Awesome!!! Super Super Super thanks!!!! Thanks a lot!!!
Wow, I am from India. Never did any business or anything. Not any professional. I mean, I'm totally in a different situation than yours but I can relate to this talk so much !!! The core values and problems seems same everywhere. Anyway, It was wonderful !!! Thank you !!!
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Just amazing lecture, thx a lot! ❤
In my country failing means YOU ARE DEAD. the BRUTA FIGURA(I think that is what she said) the losing face thing is really really a brutal reality in my country. Specially so if you succeed before and suddenly failed. It is seen upon you going astray and like you are nothing anymore. It is hard to move forward with such a mindset in my country.
Thank you 💞
It's awesome! Thanks 😊
I feel so inspired
Thankyou
wonderful english! good luck from an apulian guy! ;-)
Sidenote: Her cheekbones are amazing
I love the way she gives her speach.
I also love her clothing.
i love her guesture and honesty
Great inspiring speech
I will really impressed after watching this. video
Superb video. Short, sweet and with Powerful msg....
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I am someone who is just so fixated on comparing myself of everything in my life to others pretty much out of control.what I am usually destroying myself is to compete my drawbacks with advantages of others. am I loving to screw myself ??? I know this intuitive reaction will definitely kill my ideals ,my identity ,but I just can't help it .when I got the same information from this talk, I feel nothing but a little bit relieved .I own up to the fact that I was affected but honestly not that intensively that I can get rid of it.sometimes nobody can help drag you from the dark spiral of life going wrong even if we are so bombarded by mass lessons and speeches. the only medicine for you getting over it is you yourself somehow realized it by the hit of sth at some point uncertainly in your life just like her accountant to her
You are comparing your life (which you know every single flaw off), to what other people *choose* to show to the world. Their failures and mistakes aren't openly showcased.
Stop comparing your life to a highlight reel.
Really benefit me a lot thank you very much.
Very humbling...especially being a prideful person whoms failure to admit short coming have affected me.
Vert thoughtful and inspiring.
Great talk. Pick yourself up and move forward!
Really liked this talk...just missed the visuals she provided (her moving rocks, the rain and carrying bottles, etc). Maybe TedX could review their tapes and update please? Thanks for the great information.
This is great, thanks!
Success is good when u learn anything from your failures.
A sweet and good message.....
Thank you for inspiring
Great. Perfect. Inspiring.
thanks your share . it inspired me !
well done, great content, it helps me alot