Elegant Living: Daily Habits & Rituals That Will Make You Feel More Elegant | Jamila Musayeva
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Elegant Living: Daily Habits & Rituals That Will Make You Feel More Elegant | Jamila Musayeva: In this video, I share with you some of my daily habits and rituals that I have created to make my life feel more serene, elegant and beautiful. You do not need a big budget to make your space and daily living more elevated. All you need to do is tweak your daily habits and turn them into beautiful rituals that elevate your mood and make you enjoy the little things. The quality of your daily life is a sum of all the actions you take throughout the day. Living beautifully and elegantly is a choice.
Sincerely yours,
Jamila Musayeva
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What are your top tips, rituals, or habits for feeling sophisticated and elegant at home?
Lovely video as always, Jamila. Thank you. It's a pleasure learning from you.
When it comes to loungewear, my goal is comfort and effortless, demure but classy elegance. Natural materials, such as cotton, silk, wool, cashmere or linen are always good choice for me and they don't have to be expensive. I feel that H&M has excellent choice in this particular category - my favorites would be their knits in various combinations and sets, also cotton and linen sets. Very minimalistic, clean lines, comfortable but classy and timeless. You can look and feel like a lady inside your home, you can safely step outside in the same outfits and still look classy.
I also love layering silk or satin tops with soft cashmere or wool slightly oversized and relaxed cardigans in more special occasions in the evening - the feeling of softest wool that glides over silky garment is very sensual.
Ballet flats/slip-ons lined with soft fury or wool are great choice for indoors.
I love to have fresh flowers in my home.
The scent is very important to me - I choose breezy, fresh and clean fragrance for both myself and my home. I never combine lounge or sleepwear with strong perfumes. Instead I opt for original Nivea or Dove deodorants which smell creamy, soft and clean and for my home I usually choose similar, clean cotton or linen scents in a form of diffuser. I love candles but I find them to be to hazardous and not particularly healthy option.
I love lamps with warm, soft light and cozy vibe in my favorite spaces at home. It creates special ambiance.
I recently made a rule in our house that the last person out of bed (between my husband and I) should make the bed. 9 times out of 10 that is me since my husband wakes up at 5:30am for work weekdays. But weekends I usually am rising earlier.
I've found making the bed and doing a quick tidy of the room really elevates the feeling from sloppy/unorganised (if left unmade) to clean, tidy, and elegant. My husband also got me a glass essential oil nebuliser (no plastic parts) so that we can scent the room with calming aromas. Lavender is my favourite for the bedroom.
I also adore fresh flowers from our garden for the kitchen table under a table runner. Keeping the dining table free of clutter with a daily tidy also is a small ritual that helps make the home feel elevated & elegant.
I stopped using candles after finding they were triggering my asthma (unless plain beeswax) and hearing of a family friend's home which burnt to the ground due to a knocked over candle. 😢 I'm Catholic so I still get to enjoy candles at the Church, lighting one when I make my prayers. 🕯️
Another thing that I want to work on is putting on makeup daily. I always feel so much happier, elegant and more confident about myself. It's not something that I currently do however, but it's something I want to work on. 💕🌸
I'm trying to adopt elegant living these days, but the ritual you set for coffee/tea is amazing, I'll add it ❤. I'm university student, most of the time special mornings are rush but still I try to maintain it, all because of you. My favorite thing to do is wearing a light scent (I don't reveal it either 😊) and coffee and my notes to memorize. Thank you for everything ❤
I am 19 year old girl from India. I am on treatment of depression and you really have elevated my life. You made me confident and most importantly you made me happy from the core of heart. Thankyou my sister. 🤗
II was raised with the adage "You just never know..."who you are going to run into"..or "who might show up at your door"...You only have to be caught out once in your pajamas when someone pops by to visit to prove this true. 🌹
0:00 Intro
3:22 Investing in good lounge wear
5:50 Create a scent ritual
8:41 Turn coffee break into a ceremony
Thankss😍
I am 15 years old, and I found myself in elegace/classic way living. Love your videos 🤍
18 year old young girl here, looking forward to learn more about elegance and a better living....your videos are so educational and informative...❤ Please don't stop posting videos in future....
May Almighty Allah bless you 💓
Hello Jamila ! And everyone here. I would like to share that I used to love scents, candles, perfumes, oils etc. but now, I am suffering from severe allergies to scents (any strong smell good or bad) to the point that I cannot wear any perfume anymore. Maybe my message is for all just to be careful on the products you will use. Make sure it's mild or hypoallergenic in nature because in the long run your nose or sinus will suffer the effect . Just a friendly reminder to all. Lovelots ! ❤ - Divine 😊
This is the reality of using products with artificial fragrances...thanks for your concern dear❤
I don’t even care about etiquette that much, but I love her voice. It sounds so nice.
yes，I love her voice🤣
This is much of the same advice my Syrian mother always gives me. My lounge wear is soft caftans, and shorter ones for days i'm cleaning. The tea tray is basically what I do for breakfast and i'll usually light an incense at that time and write in my journal. perfume (always an attar, I got rid of my alcohol based/synthetic perfumes) is a must. Its my last step of getting ready for the day before going to make my tea and it puts me in such an uplifted, elegant and luxurious mood.
Learned the same from my Jordanian mother❤❤ much love!
When i do my matcha ritual I feel so elevated and uplifted. I have this ritual for 25 years and I never tired of it. It sets up the mood for my entire day. Even when i fly and go somewhere i have my matcha with me. My lounge wear is from MOTF or silk coordinates that is made of mulberry silk. Rcen working at home i feel like its a vacation. I use minimal jewelry at home too. We're the same I have signature scent at home and it's attached to my bed silks too.
The first thing I do each morning is, make my bed; that way, I start the day having done something useful and productive.
I love bubble baths to end the evening and clean my environment to make me feel at home. I will try to invest in loungewear and lap tray to make my life feel sophisticated and elegant at home. Thank you for sharing, Jamila!
I've subscribed since 2020, and look forward to every new video. If you are new, congratulations: You just found the best etiquette and self-development channel on YT. Welcome!
Lovely video! I agree with you on the secrecy of our perfume! I never liked when someone asked what I wore. I lost a friend because I said the name of my fragrance. She bought it without trying it on her skin. When she wore it, it was very different from my skin reaction . She acused me of trying to hide my fragrance, saying that it was not the same!! Well... So this was a lesson trully learned. The tea ritual... you're so right Jamila. I was sick (gut issues) for some time, and I only could drink water and tea, and eat soup and fruit. I did it with all my silverwear, with flowers on my table, with music on the background. Now i'm better, but looking back, it trully gave me strenght to deal with an unpleasant situation (i was in a lot of pain). Oh and I was always dressed, even when in pain. And that, also helped a lot.
The easiest way for me to feel elegant at home is by using lovely plates and cups. Brands like Spode, Burleigh, Royal Albert, and Gien make lovely dining ware. Spode and Burleigh have factory sales and sell Seconds, so it makes some of their items the same price as cheaper brands.
If you can get to France, there are dozens of markets selling used plates for very affordable prices.
Dear Jamila I am fully agree with you, we don't need wait for special days or events to see or be in front of creativity we can do it very low income also as you sad, just we need only to understand our value, thanks for you that every your video you keen on us be more elegant and as a real women to accept our reality see how we can change our environment for better side if we change our mind our character will change then it impact our live, everything depends on us❤
Yes!! This is so accurate! When I take my pinkish cup, I feel really like a princess! And I love buying things to see my house more elevated and balanced. ❤
No flowers in your video this time....I always look forward to them :-) Loved your video!! You are my FAVE CZcamsR
love you!! your channel makes my life better, I'm feeling better with myself and my lifestyle really improving with your wise advice! Thank you so so much Jamila.
I’ve been watching this channel for a few years now and these are the videos I used to be like “mm nah won’t bother” but now I GET it
Thank you. Because of you, I've improved my style, daily habits, and comportment - in only 6 months. Thank you for touching lives one video at a time. ❤
Your hair looks very pretty today!❤️❤️ and your videos are the best, thank you so much for talking about this interesting topic! :)
Thank you for touching this topic. The summer is just approaching and at 95°f already with a ton of humidity just simply not going towear a blazer. Even now on deck my phone is so hot its hard to type this message. Thank you for your videos. Much appreciated as its a technique only mastered by the best. Truly an inspiration
I love videos like this and I'm glad that you made one, Jamila. The idea of turning coffee breaks into a ceremony is a great one. I should definitely do that. Looking forward to your future uploads!
That's interesting you mentioned lounge wear specifically bought for home, because i recently got that idea on my own. I was like "omg i really need something elegant and comfortable to wear at home", and i bought some pretty silks (powder pink and champagne) and fake pearls to sew myself kaftans
These rituals uplift us and we are worth these small efforts! Stress can be reduced with your tips. Thank you! I do agree with the comment about the introduction of this video. It is possible this introduction would cause some to lose interest if they do not know how valuable your videos are. I say this with great respect for you and how you try to help us. Your voice alone is my relief! I forward your videos to friends with stress and ask them to subscribe.
Love your videos so much, thanks Jamila❤️
I feel elevated when i watch Jamila's videos
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I came here to say this❤
Thank you so much Jamila, for this wonderful content ❤
Have a great day.
Love, Jennifer
Thank you Jamila, for such a relaxing and inspiring video! Yes, rituals, perfumes, nice and comfortable clothes, bring real pleasure and joy to our life at home!
Love from Brazil! 🇧🇷
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Great video, thank you!!❤
Loved this video! 🕊️
Love all your videos Jamila! Thank you!🤍
Exactly my kinda mindset❤️❤️❤️
Thank you,this was really helpful❤
Hello Ms. Jamila, I’ve always seen you as elegant, courageous, and wise so a video about how to make one’s adversity into power or how to remain elegant even when facing bad situations and or poverty would be amazing.
A noble attitude is one way. The character Sara Crewe in the film A Little Princess (1995) starring Liesel Matthews demonstrates this, as well as Scarlett O’Hara in the film Gone With the Wind (1939).
Beautiful and inspiring as always😊❤
Jamila you are blessing.❤
love your videos 🎀
Love the outfit💋
🩷 Jamila, I’m watching Netflix’ “As the Crow Flies” and wondering if they modeled Lale Kirnan after you? So poised, gracious and elegant! Thank you for another lovely video🩷
THANK YOU
Mi tip es dedicar unos minutos a peinarme bonito, hacerme unas ondas en el pelo sin calor la noche anterior. ♡
Your videos are so amazing and useful Im learning new techniques and habits every day ❤❤❤
Go a head 🎉
Imperfections are perfect
Thank you for your videos. I have learned a lot from you. Çok güzelsiniz 🩷🙏
She's so very calm
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i love ❤️ ur videos 🎀
My thing is teapots and yours is gorgeous
Awesome My friend stay blessed stay conected ❤
@jamilamusayeva Thank you for this wonderful video, you have given me some really good tips!
Thanks!
Welcome!
Miss the bloopers you used to include at the end.
Hi Jamila I liked the ideas! especially aromatherapy, thank you for the content, this is one of my favourite youtube channels❤
Yay! Thank you!
Great topic! But i think you could've covered more in this! Thank you though 🌸
I think you look great in that hairstyle😊
Ma'am u r absolutely true in ur words but plz bring the tips when kids r present at home coz carrying white at home is elegant but with kids it is horrible
Dear Mrs. Musayeva, as always a lovely video.
I was wondering if you'd make a video about ballet. Tell us about its history, and your favorite pieces (mine is Swan Lake), also, show us a theater in Baku, if it's possible. Hope you have a wonderful day.🥰
Hi. I love all your videos. What is your hand cream? Thanks a bunch 😍
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Thank you for this outstanding insightful information.👍
Love you❤❤
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Can you leave a link for the top, skirt and slippers, please?
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Thank you for the video. Tell me, please, have the basics of etiquette been ingrained in you since childhood? Or is this your personal conscious preference?
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I don’t have any lounge clothes. I just wear my regular clothes all day, whether I’m working or going out. I don’t bother changing when I come home from work, unless I’m cleaning and then I’ll throw on some comfy pants and a t-shirt. Can you share your thoughts on this?
I love the lipstick that u r wearing. Could u tell us which brand and color it is?
My ritual is to wake up, stretch a bit, make a matcha in a pretty Japanese cup, and say my morning prayers. After that I check my messages but God comes first.
You’re so beautiful my dear princess God bless you ❤🙏🥰❤️😇
What brand and model of the coffee bean ground you are using, please. I am trying to take your advice as instant coffee doesn’t taste as good. Thank you.
I'm digging Paper Incense from Zarahome. What are you using for your face? It looks so porcelain!
Inpresiniran sam , gospođom Musayevom, veliki pozdrav ood srca, Radomir Eric, Beograd, Srbija, veliki pozdrav, Radomir!
Good morning,
thank you very much for this lovely video, may I ask you about the essential oil/perfume mixture? Where I live it is uncommon to wear this kind of scents, can you please tell me the name of the brand, so I could look it up online?
Thank you very much and have a wonderful day 🌸
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I love this! Thank you, Jamilla, for the fantastic content. As usual, it's very helpful. I take details very seriously, primarily since I work from home. I ensure that I have a ritual for every role I'm in and don't mix spaces. But I have taken my morning coffee for granted, so I'm excited to implement some feminine elevated touches.🤍✨
where do you buy your loungewear? Could you do a video on outfits?
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Hello Jamila, I’m interested in purchasing one of your books “Etiquette the least you need to know” but since I reside in the United States I have to pay $30 in shipping which is more than what the book costs. Are there other bookstores or websites that I could purchase your book without having to pay such a high shipping? I look forward to hearing back from you
hello, what is the brand of the top you are wearing
I'm looking for a personality development course...do you provide ?
Is it ok to sleep in the middle of the day with pj on the bed? Do i have to change to nighty even though it's mid day? Or should i avoid sleeping because it became my habit.
I love the recommendations you provided but I have a small problem hehe how do I look good in my loungewear when I have a hairy dog and all my clothes is full of his hair? Asking for a friend T_T
My grandma was a very elegant woman who loved to rescue dogs and would let her dogs inside the house too. Her ritual (I suppose) was to have a number of lint removers around the house (the reverse velvet kind not the disposable kind) and a couple of times a day she would stop and give herself a little brush. I thought it was the cutest thing since it was really a never ending battle! I think if she were still alive today she would probably have gotten a nonshedding dog to help relieve the hair everywhere!
Pl make a detailed video on perfume usage etiquette
She already did it
@@ACAjc152 oh thanks, I will browse her old videos ❤️
Mam your book is not available on amazon(INDIA). Please do something if possible
It is available on my website
❤ i love watching your soothing videos but i wish you could slow down your speech, you speak way too fast and i think your audience whose english is not a first language will have a hard time catching up.
you know what I need Jamila? i need to learn how to lower my voice, I don't scream but my voice is very strong and I want to speak like you 😢😭
A voice coach can help.
I have a coffee first think i wake up tgen hot drink at 11 am
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Didn’t expect to be first 😊
I never thought of buying for loungewear. Interesting!
May I ask, how does an elegant person express anger? Because it seems difficult to express anger when you want to preserve the elegance. Especially at home; it’s my safe space so I wanted to be able to freely express my emotions there.
I also use wax blocks to put in the wardrobe. It’s always amazing to open the wardrobe to get my outfit, like opening a treasure 😊
What is the name of the brand of slippers again? Im sorry I can’t seem to discern it right 😅
COS
@@JamilaMusayeva thank you 🙏🏾
What was her favorite brand for loungewear called? 13:19
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Great topic. Not sure if the video has been stead up or something as this is not your normal speaking pace. It is very difficult to understand at this speed. Just thought you might want to speak to your video editor about it. Still a lovely video❤
Hi Jamlila, i love your content but may i please suggest that you leave out the introduction to your books and courses till half way through the video or the end. in this era of short attention span, the easiest way to throw people off especially first time viewers is by asking them to subscribe to your chanel or course in the first minute without giving them a reason to or atleast giving them the chance to know you through your content. not to mention its boring to watch introduction for a whole minute before getting to the actual content.
Hi Jamila Musayeva
You are from which country?
Me watching this while wearing an overwashed hoodie with potato chips crumbs all over👀👀👀
Did you Reading Books pleas if you do chow me what IS your favorite if you do'nt have a problem❤
What were the brand of slippers? Cost? I can’t find them online. They look super cute and cozy!
COS
My apologies, I think your introduction is too faster. I think your video overall has a good pace. You could slow down the intro. Blessings. I love your videos!