How To Make A Good First Impression | Jamila Musayeva

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  • čas přidán 20. 06. 2024
  • #jamilamusayeva #etiquette #firstimpressions
    How To Make a Good First Impression: In this video, I will tell you all the important elements of making the very best first impression starting from the grooming finishing up with a perfect handshake. They say, it takes less than 7 seconds to make the first impression. Truth is, it is even less than that. A lot is told by the untold and that includes what you wear, how you carry yourself, the way you shake hands, the way you handle your business cards, etc. If you are going for an interview, meeting in-laws for the first time or trying to network, make sure to watch this video beforehand. The first impressions can make or break the deal. Be ready to impress!
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Komentáře • 119

  • @miscuitsmarmelade
    @miscuitsmarmelade Před měsícem +155

    We, women, need more role models like you in this day and age.

  • @poonambagari
    @poonambagari Před měsícem +81

    1. Dress well and appropriately, groom well
    2. Have a good posture
    3. Pace yourself
    4. Give a firm handshake
    5. Know how to introduce yourself
    6. Carry your business card with you
    7. Give undivided attention
    8. Master the small talk
    9. Have good table manners
    10. Maintain good impression throughout the event

  • @DanisDiamonds
    @DanisDiamonds Před měsícem +81

    this came out right before my job interview this morning! wish me luck!

  • @logicalbeing1897
    @logicalbeing1897 Před měsícem +63

    1) Dress well, Grooming
    2) Hold yourself, postire
    3) Pace Yourself
    4) Give Undivided Attention

  • @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955
    @hehehehehehehehehehehehehe5955 Před měsícem +28

    Jamila, you are the epitome of elegance!

  • @dimitrap2505
    @dimitrap2505 Před měsícem +10

    It's amazing how the small talk makes all the difference, no matter how good the hand-shake, eye contact and smile are. I am a shy, not very talkative person and I come out a little awkward in conversations, then I end up being the "sweet, naive girl". The small talk is a torture for me, unfortunately. I bought some books to improve my skills there. I have seen some improvement, it's clear that people feel better around me when I engage in the small talk and feel relaxed to open up more and have mature conversations with me.
    Your videos have helped me a lot with posture and etiquette and being more confident in social settings and the work environment so thank you very much!!

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if Před měsícem +10

    Every person should watch this, Jamila! Extremely well done, and honest and true… I am somebody who, even at 60, has a lot of energy… Almost everybody loves it, but I do have to remember to slow down… I’m grateful that people can feel my energy, especially at my age!

  • @user-ib3mh7su8h
    @user-ib3mh7su8h Před měsícem +4

    Your posture say who you are not only to others but also to yourself)) Or even dictate it))

  • @user-hp7qe3tg7p
    @user-hp7qe3tg7p Před měsícem +3

    Drinking my morning tea while watching your videos, what could be better!

  • @lubnan3033
    @lubnan3033 Před měsícem +4

    I feel very comfortable when I watch your videos because your face is really peaceful and I loved it that you are learning Arabic 😍 good luck for you ❤

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 Před měsícem +11

    I read in the book, Vanity Fair recently that the world is a looking-glass, or a mirror 🪞 in today's world. What you give out is what you get back. I know personally people treat me well. The way you carry yourself and the way you dress definitely gets you noticed and people remember you because you've made a good impression. But what's worth more than that is the way you treat people, good manners and consideration for others, smiling more. Where I live in Spain I will smile at a perfect stranger. And those people that I pass regularly then start to speak to me as I pass and that leads to a conversation. It really is all the things that are free in life that matter. You don't need to be a millionaire to get noticed. 🌼🌷🌸

    • @UnPeuDeTourisme
      @UnPeuDeTourisme Před měsícem +1

      Yes, that’s why when I smile to some men, they have the right to bother you. This is probably why when I was there some « friend », they wasn’t there for me.
      What a very good mirror.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Před měsícem

      Love this!

  • @toybaworku7339
    @toybaworku7339 Před měsícem +11

    My role model ❤❤❤

  • @harleyz2643
    @harleyz2643 Před měsícem +3

    You are just awesome sister ❤️

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926 Před měsícem +8

    Pure elegance❤

  • @geethanjali7733
    @geethanjali7733 Před měsícem +2

    I'm gonna join in my first job in the next two days and this is the only video I ever needed. Thankyou so much Jamila.

  • @useraymoon926
    @useraymoon926 Před měsícem +7

    Bye blazer looks sooooooo good,you should wear these type of these more often💕

  • @Anthophile03
    @Anthophile03 Před měsícem +4

    Mam your video are fabulous, thanks for helping ❤

  • @rachfayee
    @rachfayee Před měsícem +7

    I love this coat and outfit

  • @_.booktrovert._
    @_.booktrovert._ Před měsícem +2

    Thank you so much for this video Jamila. 💖

  • @blqkhle
    @blqkhle Před měsícem +3

    جميلة حقاً ❤

  • @Imad_bake
    @Imad_bake Před měsícem +10

    Sending love from pakistan 🇵🇰 , freedom for Palestine 🇵🇰 ❤️ 🇵🇸

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Před měsícem +6

    Jamila Love Watching your Back to Back Videos so so much and your Back to Back Videos are really helpful to me✨✨

  • @elviradupcheva
    @elviradupcheva Před měsícem +2

    Always an amazing quality and content I will refer to and apply to my routine. Thank you, Jamila. I know so much about etiquette and manners from your videos only. You are precious.

  • @mariellegrant6248
    @mariellegrant6248 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you Jamila for such interesting and useful advice!🌹🙏❤

  • @secretscarlet8249
    @secretscarlet8249 Před měsícem +2

    But how do you define the line between pacing yourself and stretching the silence until it becomes awkwardness? I’m not great at thinking on my feet so when I go too slow I think I’m going too slow.

  • @kaisankamal
    @kaisankamal Před měsícem +3

    Hi jamila! Thanks for uploading valuable contents on CZcams, I like your video about table manners and since then I started to see other of your videos. The reason for me to comment today is because I would like to request for a video about table manners/Dining etiquette for certain other cuisines. I have a doubt on how to eat some middle eastern meals, I have an issue with kebab breads (Turkish grill bread/pide) and how to dine them (I mean you usually don’t eat bread with knife and fork and also not sure is it the same way as eating bread roll with butter on a dinner). If you find it’s not enough for a video, You can teach how to eat rice, just imagine a scenario in dubai and there is biryani/pilau served in a buffet. There are people who struggle to eat rice with knife and fork (eating spoon is simple) with an etiquette. Chopstick is not really necessary unless needed. Thanks a lot in advance. If you uploaded a video, please reply me with a confirmation. If you can’t do it please let me know, I’m cool if there is an issue and infact you can suggest me somewhere else other than here.thanks in advance.

  • @Mariammia77
    @Mariammia77 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you so much, your video are super informative as always🌸

  • @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz
    @ZilolaTursunova-dc3gz Před měsícem +1

    Thank you ❤
    Your videos help me a lot 😊

  • @sitbone3
    @sitbone3 Před měsícem +1

    Excelent video. Thank you once again.

  • @user-sg5bm3xh9i
    @user-sg5bm3xh9i Před měsícem +1

    Very inspiring video. Thank you

  • @marylou3995
    @marylou3995 Před měsícem +5

    As a woman ( Christian) I hate shaking hands - a man think he’s been polite, if you don’t shake, he look like he done something wrong...difficulty .

  • @Dashya.
    @Dashya. Před měsícem +1

    Thankyou for this video.. Pls make one on smile.

  • @Marci82
    @Marci82 Před měsícem +2

    Excellent video as usual ❤

  • @pinkgreenmelon2209
    @pinkgreenmelon2209 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for the advice. In my case, I have to do my first impressions in a language I’m not entirely fluent in so I sound really nervous and end up probably not giving off a good impression. 😂

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Před měsícem +1

      It is normal and nothing to be ashamed of. Always good to notify the person that it is not your first language in case what you say might be lost in translation.

  • @clairenesubs
    @clairenesubs Před měsícem +2

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @lisatiptoes
    @lisatiptoes Před měsícem +1

    A great video. And a good reminder for me to actively listen. Also, business cards are still used. They are something tangible to give someone. Other than putting it in your phone. It also shows that you are are professional and prepared to meet people.

  • @xeilentynhiazekairva
    @xeilentynhiazekairva Před měsícem

    I love your OOTV 😍
    Thank you again for this...❤

  • @nur641
    @nur641 Před měsícem +2

    Please do a video how to pack and organise a suitcase for travel.

  • @_BLUEZ_666
    @_BLUEZ_666 Před měsícem +3

    Grate video❤

  • @equilibriumtorque577
    @equilibriumtorque577 Před měsícem +3

    Hi jamila can you make a video on how to be organizable in this fast world we women often lost our feminine trait which is been organizable.

  • @MyLearningofQuran
    @MyLearningofQuran Před měsícem +1

    I like your every video.
    Your outfit is minimal and easy to carry.

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if Před měsícem +3

    Oh, and the handshakes…I try to teach every woman and young woman I know how important a strong firm, just two pump handshake is… I think I do see more women getting better at this! It is almost the grossest thing when somebody gives you a ‘fish’ hand!

  • @noname.1890
    @noname.1890 Před měsícem +11

    this came right before I am going to meet my boyfriend’s parents! Hope it goes well ❤

  • @jasppt
    @jasppt Před měsícem +1

    You are so elegant ❤️‍🔥

  • @Heidipoptime
    @Heidipoptime Před měsícem

    Hi Jamila! Thanks for always providing such great content. Could you create a video on etiquette for when a friend hosts another friend in their apartment, in a spare bedroom, for let's say 7 days? Should the guest clean their own bedroom before leaving? Should they participate in cleaning shared areas like the bathroom and living room? Should they pay 50% of the groceries if they eat together during meals? Etc. Many thanks!

  • @maroshka_
    @maroshka_ Před měsícem +1

    Hello Jamila! Your tip about business cards got me wondering, what makes an effective and visually appealing business card?

  • @evelin2019
    @evelin2019 Před měsícem +1

    Very nice video. So much information that I didn't thougt about. Would love to meet you at a meet&greet event. Maybe there is some space to come to Vienna | Austria - otherwise Germany, Italy, Switzerland would also be an option!

  • @AichaMaraf
    @AichaMaraf Před měsícem +1

    Hello, I am Aisha, I followed you from Algeria. I really love you. Could you please make a video for us that talks about how I take care of my hygiene in the summer with simple things? Thank you

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Před měsícem +2

    First I Love your videos
    Lots of love from India 🇮🇳♥️

  • @officialpurplejoy
    @officialpurplejoy Před měsícem +1

    How to network with clients? What are the business etiquette?

  • @user-hd4kl6jz9n
    @user-hd4kl6jz9n Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @jishajain7341
    @jishajain7341 Před měsícem +3

    Time stamps? 👀

  • @luxpursuits
    @luxpursuits Před měsícem +2

    My two biggest issues:
    1) Posture
    2) Blabbering

  • @sinchitaghosh
    @sinchitaghosh Před měsícem +1

    Ma'am, I try to follow every step you explain but I face a big problem with sneezing since I have really bad dust allergy. I tend to sneeze pretty loudly. I've tried to lower the volume but in the process my nose just itches and leads to more sneezes and it becomes really messy. Is it a bad thing to snneze loudly in a social setting? There's nothing I'm able to do about it. I know it's more of a medical issue but I also think sneezing is considered a manner?

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330 Před měsícem +1

    You are angel my princess God bless you 🙏❤️🥰😇💋

  • @selyemperzsa1
    @selyemperzsa1 Před měsícem +2

    Great summary video, thank you! For the outfit, the jacket looked great on the street photos, however in sitting pose it seem to have swallowed you, also maybe improve the lighting in the room to bring more light to your face, overall mood, liveliness into the video, just like ont street photos, which looked full of live, dynamism, sexiness! :-)

  • @TheLTNO
    @TheLTNO Před 20 dny

    @10:45, are handshakes necessary in this post-covid world? I was a germaphobe before covid and have become all the more since. Thank-you for your work. Your channel has been a great resource to me for several years now 😀.

  • @Lisa-sp5if
    @Lisa-sp5if Před měsícem +1

    PS, I have friends who have terrible posture, and I always have to hold myself back from pulling back their shoulders!😘🧐

  • @AnkitaSharma1111.
    @AnkitaSharma1111. Před měsícem +1

    ❤❤

  • @kellyroy7248
    @kellyroy7248 Před měsícem +1

    How do you feel about women not wearing nail polish in casual situations? If the nails are still groomed and clean, but not polished with color?

  • @JezzTeo-de4wp
    @JezzTeo-de4wp Před měsícem +1

    Hi I am a college student and will be graduating with a business degree in 2 years. I belong to a professional business fraternity and will be interning with a company this summer. Will you suggest that I have a name card to give to potential companies in the social events? Also, as I am thinking of my internship this summer,what would be an appropriate tag in the new work place. Thank you

  • @laurawolf9613
    @laurawolf9613 Před měsícem +2

    🥰

  • @knjigoveznica
    @knjigoveznica Před měsícem +1

    Jamila veliki pozdrav od , Radomir Eric Beograd, Srbija.

  • @scrap_donetsk
    @scrap_donetsk Před měsícem +2

    черпаем вдохновение для наших работ 🪡🧵👠на вашем замечательном канале 🌿 с уважением, от коллег по обувному ремеслу 🔨✂ Jamila, as always, we draw inspiration for our work 🪡🧵👠on your wonderful channel 🌿 respect from collegues shoemakers 🔨✂

  • @antoinette4729
    @antoinette4729 Před měsícem +5

    Dear Jamila, having been a microbiologist over 40 years, I am a germaphobe. I believe handshakes should be banned as a social gesture. Retired to Thailand, the “ wai” is an accepted greeting and farewell. No touching of skin is involved. It is similar to a “ namaste” gesture. Again, a respectful greeting without skin touching skin. Many people have hand issues: arthritis, trigger finger, carpal tunnel etc. and a handshake can be somewhat painful. These reasons could explain a weak handshake. Thank you an excellent video.

  • @denisbasirov
    @denisbasirov Před měsícem +1

    Спасибо что вы делитесь знаниями. Не хочу вас обидеть, но для меня ваш голос слишком тихий и приторно слащавый. Между прочем смотрю и слушаю вас через онлайн переводчик яндекса, где голос больше подошел бы для вас. Жду каждый ролик с нетерпением.