10 TACKY THINGS TO GET RID OF ASAP I SPRING CLEANING
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- In this video, I'm sharing my very personal opinion about 10 Tacky things to get rid of, ladies it's time for a Spring cleaning! Donate, recycle or change your closet! ❤️ Please give a big thumbs up and click on subscribe to support my channel : bit.ly/2UON6Y4 - Thank you for watching and sharing xxx Frederique ❤️
Things to get rid of:
1. Dated Clothes
2. Shopping Bags
3. Cheap Earrings
4. Makeup
5. Prints
6. Nail polish
7. Dye clothes
8. Graphic tees
9. Platform shoes
10. Perfumes
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Great job! My saying: "Fragrance should be an invitation to come closer, not an announcement that you've ARRIVED."
Love that! I’m stealing it!
OMG this is so true 😍
So well said thank you so much
I don't want people to come closer though. I want them to stay right where they are.
@@spacequeen8329 lol
I would never keep the bags from shopping. My husband would ask too many questions!😉
Haha
Love this!
Lolol!! Exactly! 😅
Haha!!! Yup 👍🏻
😂
The part about women walking around with t-shirts saying vulgar words! I'm so glad you pointed that out. We should never put ourselves into that category of referring to ourselves in vulgarity! So happy you brought this up and I really hope MANY ladies take notes!
I have a friend that had a date show up to her door with a tee shirt on that read "I pooped today".
I would have shut the door right then and there!
@@lesahardman9914 oh no!! Did she end up going out on the date? I agree close the door and don't look back!
My Dad told me when I was a teenager that perfume should "whisper" never scream!
Hahaha
wise man!
I love this! Great advice Dad.
My Pappy told me not to wear makeup. Men want to see what you like in the morning. LOL
@@patriciakatz7866 lmao
I agree with just about everything except the wedge shoes I love those lol can't give those up (can't wear heels anymore) I can walk in the wedge
Platform is different from the wedge style :) The platform is tacky like a "Commando" shoes LOL. Wedge is chic and has not dated yet :)
Good for you thank you for sharing
Yes. My feet are little. I’m small, my husband is not. Wedges are comfortable and I need them. I do not wear blocks of wood on my feet but tapered small wedges, sometimes heels.
Love platforms, and there are loads out there that look very chic and stylish, especially those "Oxford-ish" ones, like the Prada does, can elevate a plain suit perfectly! Same goes with wedges. What is totally passé and (probably, hopefully) never coming back is the pump version of platform, the Lady Gaga style if you know what I mean, making your feet look like huge duckfeet😁 Other than that, wear your wedges as it makes you feel good!👍
I love wedge shoes too and happy they are making a comeback!
A recycled "good" shoppong bag is nice to have around when a visitor to your home needs a bag for a to-go plate, or anything else they maybe leaving with. It beats a crumpled up grocery bag.
I keep bags just for that reason...reuse & recycle!
Good idea
Nice idea actually….
I agree. I do the same for this reason. I don't like plastic bags.
I started having a wardrobe clearout and was shocked that the dresses I'd been holding on to that I'd loved in 2007 now look absolutely horrendous - I must have been blind, insane or both!
Funny thank you
2007 was a bad year for fashion. We all got caught up in them. I got rid of all mine from that time , I also got more curves since then too.
No-U were 'styling' sadly I live in a huge closet of the gone or left-to marry or school but may want(asked long ago) daughters&admit mine too!fixed the 55+ - 3 yrs ago I sprayed colors hair&wore a huge flowered dress& horrid platforms (mine) &sent pics&my girls asked if I searched goodwill-All the "save them mom to make over"
no one seems to know Poule&a heart❤️ fille- a tee my grandgirl bought in a head shop in the city🤔
the shoes n clothes before covid dont look nice anymore. i got rid of 90% of it for jumping from 40 to 42. now. i buy slowly but surely. same for shoes.
Bonjour my lovelies, thank you so much for your funny and kind comments. Btw my top is from Zara i love it I’m thinking of to get another one in black! Have a great week more videos to come this week! Kisses 😘
Yes to the top. Love it. ❤
I have a similar one in navy from Talbots. I always get compliments when I wear it with white jeans.
I thought it was a dress!!!😨 Hard to tell when one is sitting down.
I put away my platform shoes in the attic in the 1970's, My son sold them on Ebay , $1500, 00 later that week I gave him my 1960's Time magazines and Mad Magazines ( you boomers will remember Veranda Porch). More money in our pockets! More to sell, so much more in the attic.
How funny- and great😊. We three sister’s in the 60’s would read MILLIE THE MODEL comics while my brothers laughed thru MAD. Millie had a boyfriend named Clicker who was a photographer!😆 I may have to go buy an ARCHIE comic book now. And we would call it Veranda Beach in the summers as my brother lay with a tin foil wrapped double album cover cradling his face to acquire his perfect tan😂😂👍👌❗️
The shopping bag tip had me laughing! I’ve seen SO many “Home Tour” videos where the Chanel shopping bag was front & center on a shelf...And now I’m laughing again at the idea! Spectacular video!
Never knew shopping bag insanity existed.
😂
I'm 15 years old, and watching your videos makes me feel like your my aunt giving me advice.
I'm your auntie Freddie anytime sweetie xxx
“You’re” is the correct spelling. Which means “you are”. Not “your” which means “belonging to you”. Learn this while you’re young. And you will go far in life. From another one of your aunts.
@@barbiec4312 I’ve learned something new today. My English writing, kind of got lost in my brain at ( 82 ) that I have to question myself. Thank you so much. I want to still do it properly. ❤️ 🇨🇦
You're correct in that it's a contraction meaning 'you are', but I think the way she used it was correct. ' you are ' would not have worked in her inital sentence@@barbiec4312
@@barbiec4312 YOUR is the correct spelling.She is “ belonging to her” by being her Aunt - anytime she needs advice❗️
Frédérique, don't hold back lol 😁 You're so funny but most importantly honest ... you are the best friend every girl should have 🌼🌸🌼 x
Your comment makes me smile thank you so much always your friend
Cheers to this!!! I love all of your videos and learn from you in every one of them!
I agree with everything except for vintage items from the 1920's , 40's and 50's. There is a huge market for them.
20’s, 40’s and 50’s showcases some of the most beautiful clothing. Ever since the 60’s, it’s pretty much gone down hill except for timeless designers who ignore tends and focus on class such as Armani.
@@hollygolightly8048 I wish I could afford Armani.
@@samsmom1491 I love Armani! I’ve actually gotten quite a few lovely basics from TheRealReal for a very reasonable price!
Thankfully, I haven't seen one in years, but tees shirts that say baby with a down arrow pointing to the abdoman were something I detested. Currently the trend to wear ultra-tight clothes while pregnant, especially ones that clearly show a popped navel is totally tacky.
My sis had one like that kind of 70s but she was so talented. Anything she wore was beautifull beacouse she was so beautifull.
👍
@@takeittodehart1507 and then there was only one.
I can’t stand the baby below shirts either. If it isn’t a baby, what the hell is it? Do we want to know? Beer gut? Menopot? Alien?
@@halliebass I have tried to avoid any shirts with writing on them with the belief that what I'm thinking is for my inside not to be displayed. Then covid came my shirt now says eeewww people.
Listening to this whilst washing my face with very old Clarin makeup remover, wearing my tie and dye T-shirt. 😂😂😂😂
😅
me: wearing my African HUGE print fabrics because I live in Africa and have my clothes made here...when a print is that big doesn't it cease to be a print and just be color blocking? 😂😆
@@vkngwmn6636 lol!😂
I have all my clothes in the storage in Milan, italy, as when I came here to my Jakarta home for a visit that ended up as living permanently, I only had dated clothes in my wardrobe here. But thanks to my Milan's sense of unspoken rules of style, I keep wearing them with confidence and panache because as long as you know "style" - old clothes or dated clothes do not make any difference in my personal opinion lol
I’m allergic to fragrance, and I have begun to notice that more cosmetic companies in America are becoming aware of this issue and making their products fragrance free. Agree with you about outdated clothing trends today!
Thank you for your comment and watching x
I can’t wear fragrance perfume due to my asthma. I just use lavender essential oil in the form of a roller .
@@nerdgeekcosplay909 I’m allergic to lavender. 😞
"You made a mistake... but not anymore. In the bin!" Great attitude and well said 😁
thank you darling x
Throwing clothes away is never a good choice. Please recycle or give it to second hand. I wear a lot of clothes I dont look "good" in anymore because its no good for the environment to throw it away...just to buy something similar with a different cut or print.
BTW-I really enjoy the white top you are wearing--very cute and flattering!
Thank you
@@ms.frederique I was distracted by your top too, love it! Where did you get it?
Girl! I was about to say you can pry my rock n roll concert tees out of my cold, dead hands - and then you clarified! 🤣Loved this list so much! :)
Thank you for sharing and liking xx
LOL, I'm both tie-dye/graphic tee and I was literally saying the same thing as you. I can't give up my rainbow accent colors, everyone knows me as the "sunshine girl".
Love this comment lol Yes, a Cure or Radiohead T-shirt under a black blazer and jeans....chic and classic for this Gen Xer 😆
I have 15 sweat suits, some are very casual and I wear them at home. I have others that are much nicer and with a nice set of athletic shoes I would wear them to run to target for a quick run. I am disabled and I have fibromyalgia and clothes that are itchy or tight or too warm all can ruin an outing. I also have issues with my balance so heels are something I rarely wear. And spanks,skims whatever you call your shape wear. It also makes my stomach hurt, sometimes my back too. I am trying to say Don't judge everyone! You have no idea how much pain they are in. If wearing a track suit is the difference between me getting to go out. I am wearing the tracksuit. And the same with makeup, I love makeup but I only have so much energy so should I spend it on eyeshadow or having lunch with a friend? I will keep my tyedye and my Journey also.
Take your 20 year old clothes, call them "vintage" and sell them to 20 year old fashionistas.
Totally, with a y2k tag on Depop. I’ve seen clothes tagged “80s 90s y2k,” it’s all the same to them.
@@angiespradlin3511 yep. I’m a perpetual prairie/hippie/boho/whatever else they call them this month gal.
😂
LOL
🤣🤣🤣💕
I LOVE videos like this! It's not about about needing to agree, just so fun to hear people's actual opinions! Shake things up! Unafraid, genuine and hilarious. Loved it! Dying at the "Can I say...biiii***'" Lol!
I do like tie-dye patterns that stick to my rules: no rainbow palettes or starbursts. I like the one color on a white base ones, and they are making great ones that look like soft stripes, chain patterns, etc. I just bought a beautiful white and pale blue silk shirt in a subtle tie-dye, it looks almost like a soft sky and cloud pattern, there is very low contrast between the blue and white and I love it. I think the bolder the patterns, and the greater the number and strength of the colors, the more quickly they look dated.
thank you so much for sharing xxx
I keep my eyes. I rarely wear them, but I was married to a living master of a specialized technique. Each piece was made for me. They are intricate, always tended to forestry/earthy colors, so fading looks good. And I rearmed them in a big way! They are Hermès for hippies.
I agree and I just purchased a blouse like the one you described it’s like a watercolor white and blue tie- dye it’s a subtle pattern.
Nooooo tye dyes at all!!
I agree with Kimberly. I also have two comfy around the house pieces that have a white background and subtle blue and pink-not together-tie dye. Keeping them. I go though my wardrobe twice a year when transitioning from summer to winter and visa versa. Otherwise, Frederique, I agree with your choices!
I just discovered your videos. You’re brilliant and hilarious. Now it’s time to go binge watch your videos!
Yea thank you so much and welcome darling
Oh my yes, those t-shirts! It makes me upset to see that the next generation is picking up on this too! I have seen very young girls with 'Bitch' shirts, and calling each other that, and it feels so degrading to me, when we should be building each other up, not tearing down even further.
T-shirt vulgarity is disgusting on everyone
I agree! Vulgarity is not cool!
The latest trend are T shirts with
Queen. ?
I hate the shirts that glorify 🍷 wine. Stupid sayings that make you seem like a lush. Wine o clock, etc. Google wine t-shirts, some as soon bad. And I'm not judging, not a teetotaller or anything...
I can’t believe that I actually had done this before you did this blog. I sat with a smile all the way through and agreed with everything you said. Just needed a push on nail varnish and lipstick. Really enjoyed the whole thing and you looked gorgeous
You are so kind thank you so much for watching
Thanks for nail varnish advice. All my old ones are thrown away and I now have 1 base coat, 2 coloured and 1 top coat. Plus more storage space!
If you want coffee table books, choose books that are actually classic novels with neutral covers. Not everything has to be Tom Ford and Chanel. I think it says more about you when you display actual novels rather than style icon books. Especially if you’re somewhat poor. You aren’t fooling anybody. Gardening books are also a lovely choice.
You are so correct!!
I have one on flower arranging and a potato themed cook book. Mostly because the colours go in my living room but it's also I find them more useful as a talking point when people come over, they want to pick them up or talk about them. I think it's better to reflect your interests rather that use someone else's personality/character as a stand in for your own.
To me, the best choice of coffee table book is one that reflects the interests and style of the homeowner/s. I have one that is literally about the history of coffee culture; and a similar historical overview of swimming pools. They’re both good reads with beautiful imagery, but also suit our coastal home and my love of coffee, to a tee 🤌🏼💗
Love love the 80/20 rule! I’m guilty of a few blunders so it’s good to get a reminder to get reeled back in!!
You made a mistake… but not anymore 😂
You encouraged me to go through my makeup, nail polish, clothes…now I will have space! Thank you!
Love your honesty! Like a sister giving sound advise. 💐
Thank you lovely lori xxx
Always enjoy your videos. You have a great sense of humour and aren’t afraid to tell it like it is! Throw out old makeup….Nix the cheap perfume. Etc. I retired a year ago and am not dressing up every day, but still want to look stylish. I culled my closet and have recycled a lot of stuff. Got rid of things that were still good but didn’t fit. I took most of it to the girls at my former workplace and the rest to the charity shop. It has been fun actually. Thank you for your style tips and advice!
My friend was visiting this week, so we cracked open some wine, and decimated my wardrobe. Got rid of anything dated, worn, or ugly. The few things we didn't agree should go, I tagged with her comments. I will likely get rid of them when I am ready, but I am unlikely to wear them now!
I love the reactions!! Especially the strong parfums!!
Great reminder to be mindful of how I present myself
Always thank you
Thank you to keep us on track with all of your good advices:)
Frederique, your hair looks so cute. Love the side swept bangs. As usual..I agree with all of your suggestions :)
Amazing thank you for your comment
Speaking of shopping bags, in Toulouse a few years ago I would see women shopping in Tati or Monoprix, then dropping the bag into one from a prestigious store they had brought with them.
Pas seulement à Toulouse, à Tokyo aussi
I feel fancy when I have a bag from the poke bowl restaurant. 😂
Have seen this happen in Palm Beach. At least they are reusing a shopping bag!
Good grief 🙄
If it gives them moments of joy, don’t knock it 🛍
Thank you so much for the video! There are several mobile applications that track expiry dates of your beauty products, reminds you when it is time to replace them . They literally have changed my life!
Great advice thank you
Great tips!! Perfect timing for spring cleaning. BTW, I love your top in this video. So classy.
Many thanks darling
Always enjoy your videos 🤣 I'm guilty of the bags but I only keep them to use as recycling bags or when family come over and take leftovers back home.
Recycling is the right thing to do darling
Bonjour Frederique!! Great video!! I agree with everything and I so enjoy your delivery!! You make my day!! Merci!!
Thank you and you make my day
Shopping bags are fabulous to send Christmas gifts that my grandkids have opened. Sturdy receptacles! They are also great to carry my art work to galleries.
Merci!
I agree with all your points EXCEPT for the platform shoes! I’m so glad they’re back but I do have long legs so I guess I’m fine 😆
Lol same, at 5'10" I always felt that neutral espadrilles in this fashion were a classic for me.
Oh my gosh, I love your sense of humor! Just started following and I adore all of your commentary and advice. I want to be beautiful like you!
Thank you so much sweetie x
Lovely video. You are such a delight, Frederique❤️❤️ I always laugh along with you
Faith faith that was my point
@@ms.frederique ❤️❤️
Oh yes, I agree with everything!- especially the comments about perfume. (Although I will admit to liking a chunky wedge heel now and then).
Your info in this video is right on target of things to declutter! Women need to hear and know things to get rid of from their closet. It’s a good habit to develop and apply year round! Thank you!
You are so welcome thank you so much for watching
You’re welcome! 🥰@@ms.frederique
Here we go: I have a t-shirt with "Oh là là" on it... and always get some laughter when someone recites😅...
And the experience of hunting some stunning new dress with small floral print is also not new to me anymore. So, seems that it's an understood fact about small vs. huge prints...So, as always, you are so right! Thank you very much for your great tips, dear Frédérique!🥰
Thank you so much Maria for watching loving olala
Thank you for another fantastic video! I agree with you 💯 I’m moving so going through everything I own asking “Does it spark joy?”... I will now add “Is it classy?” 🤔❤️
Love it 😍
Excellent video! I love the idea of getting rid of items in my wardrobe, and now that I’ve watched this video, I’m going to do it tomorrow!!!
Thank you!!!
you can do it Donna xxx
I agree with all your suggestions especially cheap perfume.
Maybe everyone should watch this! Lots of great tips we should all get out of our closets!!👍😃
I love wedge shoes wear them every summer
I love mine, too! They fit my body type
Mine are such an old design, I'm considering tossing them. But never my wedge luxury rebels I love them, perfect for long winter gown.
She's not talking about wedges though she's talking about stomper shoes.
Brilliant video, totally agree with you on all subjects. Thank you. Love your videos and your so funny because your brave and honest.❤
Hello Frederique great video and so true. You actually said out loud what many are thinking. Thank you💕
Count on me to be blunt and direct and honest ha ha hah
Exactly! It's definitely not easy to tell someone face to face any of the points you've mentioned- so thanks on behalf of all who want to say something... But ,😇
Dear Frédérique, I laughed a lot at your explanation😂 Awesome! Well said👌. 😍 greetings from a Portuguese women living in the Netherlands😍
What a mix thank you
My Dear, I agreed with most of your recommendations. However, I must say I purchased and wore a tie dye t-shirt for casual wear with shorts or jeans and got tons of compliments.
Thanks for sharing!!
Looove it😂😂 I totally get most of the things. But for garments - there are some super classy items I literally have for 20 years: a long black coat, a straight leather trousers, a leather coat and jacket. And for example, there is a about 50-60 years old pure silk red prom dress, my grandfather (he was a tailor) made for my mother, when she was young. It's still GORGEOUS!
And with jewellery - I'm in my 40s now and have worn all my life cheap silver jewellery. A couple of years ago I started to treat myself with earrings, rings and necklaces in solid gold, some have diamonds. And gosh it makes such a difference and these pieces are forever 🤗💕
My fav of all your videos. The passion! The honesty. Great Work. Bravo.
You are so welcome 🙏
The bags are a statement that I have enough money to buy one item by a designer. In Texas the ladies would wear ALL the labels on the outside if they could. As it is they wear the bags with the labels stamped all over it.
Aaahaha, I live in Texas and yes, I see it all the time and 95% of the people can’t afford the bags. They can’t pay the rent, but by God, they find a way to buy an LV. I have one that was a gift, and I won’t carry it because of reasons stated. Seems vulgar to me. There are still some very classy ladies left in the state😊
Lol! That’s awful!
So, I have one floral print shirt that I love so much and I'll never get rid of it, I cant! :) xo But other than that, it's a solid list! Thank you Frederique!
Thank you Libby
Super fun video! I love how you call it like you see it. Fabulous honesty.
Yes! You’re on it, Frederique!
Especially with the graphic tees; the minute one is out of college, DONE. Even better, before that!
Thanks for reminding me hahaha its's tiime for me to clean out my closet 😄😄😄
I’ve been paying attention to the shelf life of my cosmetics for about a year or so now. I do have to say that I’m guilty of hanging on to nail polish too long.
Aside from my good perfumes: Dior, Chanel, and Jean Paul Gaultier; a little Bath & Body Works mist is a way of having a bit of freshness after a nice shower before bed.
Time for a change
Absolutely!!! Thank you ! Totally agree especially about those vulgar T shirts!!!
I love going through my closet each season on the pantone at fashion week and look at basic or cuts that still work and then rearranging accessories and then just buying one or two quality ones or shoes for the season.
Thank you so much for watching xxx
You are hilarious! Going now to throw out most of nail polish. So true that I only wear 3or 4 of the colors regularly. Keep on being fearless, Frederique!
Ha ha Ha will do darling
My earrings have always been silver and hooked. Semi precious stones, jade, rose quartz, amethyst.
Frédérique, you look beautiful, that jumper is gorgeous.You are wearing the perfect outfit to make this video.Thank goodness that you talked about avoiding tacky tshirts, cheap perfume that give people migraine headaches and earrings that are starting to turn green.
I have to admit that I am guilty of keeping some makeup products for too long🤭 so I make my own expiry date tags and tape them to the items.This helps.
This video is great because here in the US, fast fashion and name brands are the go to and to move to more sustainable living, having staple basic pieces saves money and the planet. You are amazing for doing this! ❤
will do! thank you lovely for your kind comment xxx
Thank you for calling out the shopping bags!! 😂
You are welcome
I didn’t know it was a thing huh 🤔 😆
I seriously cannot believe people would do this. It’s just ridiculous.
I have to disagree... they put a lot of time of effort into the design of the bags, and I think you honor and cherish that by framing them like the artwork they are.
@@stephanieray6587 🥳Hoorah!
Go Team Graphics!🎉
🛍️ I would never frame a Chanel shopping bag to impress anyone. That is pathetic😖.
🤔I might, however, treat a Tiffany's blue signature box 🎁 that came with a gift as a prize worthy of museum quality display.
Not only would it be done in celebration of a 💗cherished moment 💍, it might even inspire me to add a beloved 📷 photo of Audrey Hepburn as Holly Golightly right next to it. That's how to 🥰marry magic 🪄, memory📸, and movies🎬❕
♥️Homage is 💯% accurate. Glamour is a part of my make-up & madness❣️ Using a logo as decor would be the highest form of tribute. It would be a nod to the contribution of haute couture🥻, in 🎥 film, media, on the runway, and in my life. 🏆As appreciation for all the years of beauty and spectacle they have given me.
💞 Love of graphics & typography are also a part of 🎭Pop Art🎨. It's a passion steeped in it's own fascinating historical detail, incl. the development of print, production, and advertising art. It comes with a specific commercial context.
☂️Under the umbrella of Pop Art, you can also find 🪧Word Art. It appeals to 🧑🏫scholars, 👩💻nerds the 🙏devout, 🌹romantics, cheeky ppl😁 and much more.
📖 A true bibliophile or lexiophile will like seeing their favorite poetry, verse or word expressed in some sort 🧱 wall art🖼️ or on a t-shirt 👕.
🔔I whole-heartedly believe in the sanctity of freedom of speech & artistic expression. 🤝I also staunchly believe in civility, courtesy and consideration over contempt.
I do not 🎊celebrate misogyny. 🤬Hate the double standard in language that denigrates
♀️ females for the same freedom of sexuality that ♂️males are heralded🛡️.
👭 I will support other women who use those foul terms (mentioned in this video📲) playfully or satirically to poke at that oppression.
😠Not as thrilled when any female uses those vile terms to characterize their own sexuality (i.e., participate in their own exploitation). 😡Worse, if they sling them as a 🗡️lethal weapon toward other women👎.
😔One unfortunate reality about anything in popular culture (i.e., low brow society🍻) are often denigrated by those who feel a superiority over them (i.e., high brow society🥂). That speaks of elitism & classism.
👩💼Leading tastemakers tend to promote the highest quality, hand-crafted, sustainably sourced, responsibly made, bespoke goods 💰 that few ppl can afford🤑.
They historically rejected commercialism, sensationalism, mass produced goods, and sentimentality😍. They openly sneered at folks who valued the ordinary over the extraordinary.
🤔To me, that thinking easily translates into:
Popularity =s Negativity
Exclusivity =s Positivity
So by definition, Pop Culture is tacky. Period. The 💕 love 💕 of it is an even more egregious and reprehensible offense🤮.
😱The other unfortunate side of pop culture is knowing when a fad has played out. Buh-bye👋.
Frederique's 80/20 formula for classic vs popular design will also work outside your wardrobe.
🏠Keep 80% focus on timeless home decor. You want it appear as if you gracefully acquired a series of quality pieces over the ages (as time and budget would allow). While 20% of your budget can be spent on 🔥hot trends that coordinate with your style.
In 👗fashion & decor 🛋️, you always need an element of freshness. 😵You've gotta know when something has passed it's "sell by" date 📅, and it's time to toss. Not in the trash🗑️, but donate for someone else to use, treasure or repurpose ♻️.
Fashion is fickle. Nothing is 💯% sacred. Set aside your most beloved decor (or garments) for future rotation when the trend resurfaces. Hopefully, you won't be caught with fatal floral 💐 on your watch 👀❕
💚 Bridget from Cali ☘️
(using my pal's YT acct)
The prints are driving me nuts, I can’t even find one classy dress for summer. So frustrating. ❤️
And so many empire waist dresses. I'm already long waisted. Now my lower wsist is 2 feet long🙄
GREAT advice! So refreshing when someone tells it like it is! And I hate platform shoes too! SOOOOO clunky!
You are funny. Love your comments because I agree with all of them. I enjoyed listening to you and reading the comments other people sent you.
SO EXCITED to go PURGE my closest and drawers and yucky stuff! When you said lipstick💄 for 3 yrs I won't even tell you how long I've had mine~eek🤮thank you for setting me straight!👍You're Wonderful 💋💋
Oh no don’t do that
Thank you darling enjoy your spring cleaning
Speaking about shopping bags, one of the first things which stopped me dead on my tracks was a trend among younger girls - they get a linen bag usually from the organic shops and wear it instead of a proper purse or everyday bag. This is meant to transport your organic zucchini and tomatoes home, not go out with it, it is not a fashion item ...
Gosh, I just love your energy so much!
Your charm comes from how GENUINE you are! Such a refreshing quality in every video ☺️
Thank you so much 😀
Shopping bags! This was a new one for me....
Ha ha Ha
I have a lot of mine😲
You are so right🥰
Thank you
You cracked me up in this video. I completely agree with this list 🙂
I too have finally learned to separate “wants” from “needs” … your videos are terrific and greetings from Canada ❤
Yay, thank you!
Oh my god, love, love, love, your accent and attitude! Just discovered your channel and will subscribe and watch more vids 👍
Love your hair. Great advice. Thank you!
Thank you for watching
Brilliant video !!!!!!! Bravo on your honesty!
Totally agree with your list…hate the dye clothing .. hate prints too….you’re great
Lovely thank you xxx
lol you make me laugh and I love your content!! I agree with all, however there are some exceptions for the platform wedges. I have several very cool, chic pairs and I love them. The pics you showed though are spot on. xo
You are so kind thank you so much darling
"Dirt woman" in French?
OMG! Where can I get one?
I run the scalehouse at a gravel pit. I need this in my work wardrobe!! 😁
lol...
Lol
Yes!
‘Du woman’
Your comments are so true and speak to all of us. Merci
you are so welcome thank you x
Shopping bags can be used in your art journals! I love it!
“It’s no chic. It’s not nice!” 🤣🤣🤣 You are so funny!!!
Thank you my darling
I'm watching this video wearing Dye dress🤣, but I only wear in my home.
Are you over ten years old😜
Accepted then ha ha hah
Salut Frédérique! Great, great video. It's funny and you're so right. I got the pin earrings after watching one of your videos, they were cute but they didn't last long. Merci Frédérique!👍
You are welcome darling
This video is wonderful! Thank you Frédérique!!
Lol. Thanks for the laugh Frederique xx that was fun. I do have three bias cut pieces in my wardrobe from 20 years ago (bought in Sydney and Rome);that I will not part with, they still fit ;).
20 years ago oh my time for spring cleaning
I like to keep shopping bags, especially for higher quality brands. The bags often have higher quality and they are great in re-using for transporting items to a friend or a family or whereever. I do not like to use plastic as it is environmentally bad and cheap shopping bags fail pretty quickly. I always have a bunch of quality shopping bags put aside for a case I need to re-use them.
Thanks for sharing!!
I use to take a covered dish to work. They're sturdy & they're disposable. I recycle them.
I don't use them as a fashion statement.
Good job for being straight forward....no need to apologize... speak your mind....love this content. 🤗💗 merci mon amie!
Thank you my dear friend
I totally agree with all the items you mentioned!