😱Unprofessional Doctor’s Appointment🥼 - Paul was Kicked Out😡
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Hate to say I told you so, but 🤷♀️ You're going to run into this over and over, and this is coming from a medical professional. As I mentioned in a previous comment, insisting on specialist care (such as a high risk obgyn) before you even have an issue (or are even pregnant) sends off warning signals to docs. Combine that with the controlled substances you're on and having a port that's not currently under a doctor's care (yet you are still using medically unsupervised), not many doctors are going to want to deal with that. You may consider yourself a "complex" case, but all your recent labs have been relatively normal. So you insisting that you're a very ill, complex case does make them wonder what's going on...could be they think you're fishing for meds and unnecessary treatments.
I was told previously by different doctors that I needed a High Risk OB/GYN when we mentioned wanting children. We did NOT ask for it, we were sent to them. We don't show and tell everything on our vlogs, but we are taking the necessary and approved steps to ensure everything is done correctly. My port is not medically unsupervised, our insurance is refusing to pay for the supplies needed to our home health company. Just because I feel good somedays doesn't mean that I am 100% healthy everyday. My labs can be somewhat normal but other days they are abnormal. In the next vlog we will explain in more detail that the doctor made the assumption and accusations that I had fake my lab results.
I never go in to a doctors office asking for medication, In fact I have made a months worse of medications last several months.
@@TheRawLife1 have you asked yourself why a doctor would just randomly accuse someone of faking lab work? What type of lab work and for what purpose?That's a very odd accusation for a doctor to make, which only reinforces the idea that you're definitely sending up red flags to these med profs in some way.
HELL YES.
I think you hit the nail on the head there Shawna. Some people are messed up in the head huh!
Agreed, Shawna.
The law clearly states Florida is a two party state meaning in person BOTH parties have to consent to recording. 😉 Two sides to every story. 😊
The office was following protocol, you can't be mad at that. I don't think it's an intimation thing.
I love Paul & Janiece but they seem to have a lot of issues with doctors offices. I don’t know that it’s always the doctors office. That... or they have bad luck with doctors
At my obgyn's clinic only the patient is allowed too. I think that's how it is at most places like that because of the virus. It sucks because this is our first pregnancy and I would've liked for my husband to have seen the ultrasound in person but they didn't let him in. I also get a lot of anxiety when I go to my appointments, so having someone accompany me helps me feel more calm but that's not possible anymore because of damn covid.
The thing is that Paul was allowed in the first time during June. Which was a really bad time for Covid
I am sorry you experienced this :( I have chronic illnesses, too. When my husband and I were searching for a fertility clinic several months back, we went with the one that was the highest rated. I always go to the reviews, from Amazon to doctors lol! Even if the treatments do not end in a baby, the need and desire to be treating and respected as a valuable human being is indispensable requirement, not option. Best wishes, P & J!
Thank you so much for the love and support and the suggestions....reviews are everything! Lol
I think the largest problem here in FL especially at doctors offices is there not all following the cdc guidelines which does create frustration and furthermore confusion, currently I have 3 doctors appointments coming up and only 1/3 require me to go alone into the office . It’s frustrating and honestly difficult to go to one office where their doing the upmost to keep patients safe then going to the next where everyone’s basically doing what they want. I completely get Paul’s anger about the situation though, if something/ ANYTHING at the office changes especially something so drastic as no longer allowing anyone else with the patient you should be notified before hand so everyone knows what to expect nothing more anxiety inducing for me then when something drastic at the doctors office changes and I’m not told
Things can change and that's fine. But the way the talk to you and inform you of the "changes" is what made it even worse for us in this instance.
That is so rude! It is always good to be prepared. To many people have kids without planning. I work in daycare, so I've seen so many families struggle. You are doing the right thing
The obgyn has to ask the person if they are safe here in my state. So that might be a reason... idk.
Sadly I asked and the doctor said they only do this for cases such as myself....which I asked for clarification and did not get any.
I have several illnesses. I can share stories! In Georgia, a doctor can fire a patient for any reason. Even if you pull for a team that he doesn't like to anything you can think of.
There is an app that you get to put on your phone and I forgot what it is but you can record the conversation that you have with your doctor and then you can play it back to Paul when you get out of the doctor's office
Thank you for the suggestion!
The Raw Life app is named Abridge
Janiece, I’m so sorry this happened to you. This is such an infuriating and painful and rollercoaster of emotions type pf experience to go through that none of us should have to deal with. I had an allergist (the head of allergy and immunology at LSU 🙃) do this EXACT thing to me. He kicked my mom out of the room then accused me of being mentally unstable and even threatened to get cops involved when all I was doing was crying. He was a nightmare and it is the only appointment I have ever walked out of. You deserve better treatment and a doctor who appreciates your, frankly, impeccable planning. I’m taking notes cause I need to be more organized
Wow, I would have needed the cops.....cause I'd be throwing fists at some doctor that would do that and threaten me that way.....I'm glad nothing happened!
Also I will be doing a vlog sometime, showing my method of organization of doctors information, medication, diagnosis, past surgeries!
I had a similar experience but it was a few years ago, I was at Celebration hospital because I was sick to the point I couldn't keep anything down, and I had to sit in the waiting room with an IV in my arm giving me fluids instead of in an actual room
Edit: this was on a Disney trip also
I have gone through that too my friend, it's traumatizing when a medical professional treats their patients with such unkindness,disrespect and no compassion. Your just trying to be prepared and take the best care of yourself possible, she came at you like she was intentionally trying to belittle you and it was uncalled for! It brought me right back to the doctor who said the same thing to me....those people are cowards and they have no business being in the medical field. I'm sorry you had to experience that unprofessionalism and unkindness. Keep fighting for your health until you find a better obgyn. You have support from all of us who have been where you are on this journey. Stay strong and please disregard the comments from those people who are rude and don't know what going through this is like, they have no idea what hell we go through to get the treatment we need, our medical journeys are all different and complex but we also deserve the best care possible!! And we have to fight harder just to get it. Brush the nasty comments off and you keep doing you my friend!! And Paul, hubby said to tell you, he has been in that boat too, and it sucks you cant be there to ease the nervousness for your wife and provide support, because as a husband, you want to protect them from crap situations like that, and when it happens you want too give those people a piece of your mind when they hurt your wife like that, it's a tough situation to be in but he totally understands. Sending you guy's positive vibes and a big hug! Stay strong. 🙌🙏💪👫🙋♀️
What are you going to do about not taking meds since you are pregnant and some are controlled
Relax
@@teresabrewer1483 cope
My mother is very sick and I make lists like yours. The doctors who diagnosed list is wonderful! I never thought of it and am going to make s list for her and me.
I'm indurated that some drs have such utter disrespect to patients. One I would have secretly recorded her and two I would definitely report the dr and office to the medical board it definitely uncalled for and not professional. I have had many altercations with some drs saying it was in my head and when I presented info like you did I was asked do you think you are a Dr? And why are you even here? So sorry you guy's had to go through all of this but in the end you will prevail and will be amazing parents.💗
Thank you for the love and support!
use the abridge app!
Thank you for the suggestion!
I've experienced this before, it is insulting as hell, and I thoroughly understand the BOILING RAGE that rises up within.
It was cathartic to hear someone rant just like me about this same topic I have ranted about multiple times, but with a super fun cartoon sound effects 🤣🥰
Stay strong 💪
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Most people or at least some people aren't prepared as you are but I think that's good. That doctor had no business telling you that. 🙄. Wow!
Exactly, buy we will keep moving forward and stay positive
Highly recommend ivf so you can do genetic testing so as to prioritize your embryos so as to not not subject a child to as many chronic illnesses
IVF is a great option but it can be VERY VERY expensive and insurance womt cover it most of the time unfortunately
I also wish IVF were more affordable. I have a disorder that has only been diagnosed in about 200 people WORLD wide, and I also am diagnosed with infertility. My eggs are messed up, so to have a child myself, they would either be very ill or not make it to term. IVF would be able to prevent the error in the chromosomes from occurring... But naturally trying to conceive just ends badly for me. I have been pregnant 3 times, but have no *living* children.
You need to download the Abridge app, you can record your appointment
Thank you for the suggestion!
Holy snikey. When I was in my twenties I had a knee surgeon telling me I was depressed I came back at him hobbled out reported him because he did it all in front this in the check in part . I wasn't the only one resorting him.. turns out he was drinking and had his own issues.. I am in my 40s now was diagnosed with spinal stuff and Arnold chiari malformation it's a family genetic. Years of drs misdiagnosed. Thank you for sharing your journey
Wow I'm sorry you had to go through that with a doctor.
I'm glad you got some answer, even if it took years💚🤗
I feel you, I have had doctors that are similar, not a bitch but yeah similar. I hope you can find someone who can treat their patient properly. I am the same, I don't take crap, If a doctor treats me like crap I will tell them off.
Exactly! Give them a piece of your mind and then go find another doctor to help you
I'm so sorry you were treated so poorly. Good for you for sticking up for yourself.
Thank you👍👍💚💚
I have found out it is the same everywhere I have been. Had to fire a bunch of doctors over the last few years. I have doctors , specialists in two different states.
Wow, in two states! Lol
I totally understand. You need to have a good medical team on your side.💚👍🤗
Ohhh my heart goes out to you guys.
I've been in the very same thing that happen to you. You go in for one thing then next its in your all in your mind. 🤬🤯🤬🤯
And like you i didn't go back to those quacks.
So go scream and beat up a pillow. It helps.
And Paul...BOY you have patience. I wouldn't, virus or no virus, if it was my mother going alone.....🤬🤬🤬🤬 no
Its insane the things that we have and soooooo many others have gone through with bad doctors..... I don't get it, if you don't want to genuinely help people why be a doctor?!
I dont think anyone should have to be alone when seeing a specialist and the way this one treated you was so unacceptable. You guys have amazing mental strength and your responsible ways that you approach areas of your health is so inspirational. Taking ownership of our bodies and how they are functioning is a great thing
Thank you for the love and support!
We appreciate it💚👍🤗
I’m so sorry you went through this horribleexperience. Keep being proactive like you are. You are doing everything right. ❤️
Time for you to see mama Dr. Jones
I don't understand the reference, can you please explain lol
You need to know when you ovulate which means ovulation predicter kits. test until you can pin point your exact right time. I had a fertility monitor which helps you gauge exact day & times.
We have the kits and I'm doing them daily to track everything!
Yikes! It is as if we have regressed back to the 60s. Even in the late 70s I couldn't get a doc to prescribe an already approved for arthritis drug that had been shown to work for dismenorhea (I had been I such a study and found it to work AMAZINGLY) but was willing to approve a heavy duty benzodiazopam! As if it were all I my head rather than lower down.
I was later diagnosed with PCOS., but not bey THAT doc!
That's insane, I'm sorry you had to go through all of that.
I hope your getting the proper treatment!💚🤗💚
I am so sorry you had to deal with a doctor like that. Good for you for standing up for yourself. I envy that. I always have a hard time standing up to doctors when they tell me I am too young to have health problems. I hope you can find a new one that meets your needs.
Know your worth my love!
Don't let anyone ever talk down to you! You don't have to kick and scream, you can simply get up and say I'm not putting up with this treatment and walk out!
I have faith in you💚💚💚
It may be that the doc is just thinking out loud and really means to be sympathetic. As in, it sucks you have gotten this so young!
Omg! Holy crap! That is awful! I’ve had a doctor do me the same way! You did the right thing by putting that doctor in her place! When you have a lot of medical diagnosis you have to be prepared! I’m the exact same way I always bring a folder of my medical diagnosis, a list of my doctors and my medicine list! It’s so hard now days finding a good doctor! I’m so sorry that happened to you guys!
It is very hard to find a good doctor but we will keep moving forward, and stay positive💚
The Raw Life I 💯agree! Stay positive! Keep moving forward!
I went to a rheumatologist who when she came in promptly kicked my husband out and told me he wasn’t allowed (pre covid) totally illegal and then ended the appointment by saying everything was in my head and to not tell my boyfriend now husband about any medical problems because he’ll get scared and leave me. I left the appointment in tears. Some doctors are awful. I should have stood up to her like you did haha, I did call and yell at them when they called for a follow up appointment like um no I’m never going back!
I always go with my mom to her doctors. She is very forgetful, and forgets to mention certain things. If a doctor wouldn't let me go back there with her I would be mad too!
I'm not doing any appointment if I can't have my husband back there with me.
Janiece, are you a capricorn?, why I ask is because I'm of the same zodiac sign, and I've being told the very same thing ( something is mentally wrong with you ), and well darlin, maybe there is - cuz when it comes to be insulted and attacked, we can literally go from 0 to 100 like that. We are very gentle and kind individuals, but when we're hurt, that person better watch and look out. I don't appreciate being messed with, and atm I'm feeling like I was the one being attacked, and if I were you, I'd ask for a refund, I'll also report them to ( whichever ) department that's responsible for them, they ought to lose their license for the way they treat you. Don't let this discourage you from being an organized individual/patient, I'm the very same way. Jeniene, let me tell you, I was actually sent to a mental health institution because the doctor in charge of my case and care isn't familiar with the way in which I do certain things, do you know how I got discharged?, I had to literally tell the doctor within the mental health clinic, " the reason why I'm here isn't because I'm crazy, it's because his colleague isn't familiar with my case ", then ask him " how can he do that?, is this the way you treat patients?, I guess he must have realized that a mentally unstable person can't and won't be able to use those words, nor ask those questions, he had no choice but to release me., .... so them telling you, you need to see a psychiatrist is their way of saying "STOP!!!, what you're doing, because you're not educated like us - I've being getting and hearing those words all the time, it's just a deflective mechanism, yuh see - they would never bow to defeat nor admit that they can't, so that is what they use. It's ok, just ( breath, dust yourself off, pick yourself up and start again )
P.S. It's also a control ploy. No overly prepared person would get that, because they can just throw anything at them and they'll accept, but with you guys, they can't, hense the comment " you need to go an see a psychiatrist " - it's to throw y'all off your guard, and distract you. Don't allow it.
Be blessed janiece and paul
Thank you for the love and support, its crazy what we have to go through sometimes
I’m so proud of you Janiece! I agree what is wrong with this doctor!?! If there is a way to report this doctor for her ill mannered way of speaking & not being professional I suggest you do so. I hope you find someone who will gladly listen to you and help you guys out! Good luck!
We are in the process to get in contact with the office managers right now👍
I'm sorry you had to go through this ... also you had to edit the footage so you had to go through it twice! ugh. Nightmare doctor... :(
Your absolutely right. Sometimes editing things brings back the emotions and it does get hard
I think that you know when Paul had to wait in the car and they were so rude to him that's when I don't never never stayed as long as y'all did to see that doctor keeping you waiting like that was already wrong
Oh, I'm so heated by hearing how they treated you! I've been treated this way by a couple of doctors and a physical therapy office. Yeah. I did just what you did! I cussed the fuck out of them then I left and never returned. 🤨🤯🤦♀️
I would definitely find another OB/GYN.
Ohhh we will trust me lol
There is no reason he couldn't have been on the phone with Janiece's permission! What a poor excuse for a doctor - she sounds TERRIBLE AND ABUSIVE
I went to a new Dr once and gave him my history and he did not that I gave it all to him. Never went back. Being in health care for years I think sometimes Dr are intimidated if you know medical info.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that horrible doctor.. that is absolutely not okay that she said that stuff to you. Just because you're young has nothing to do with you having or not having conditions. You are doing a great job preparing for getting pregnant. I hope you can find someone who takes you seriously and that isn't a complete idiot. Prayers for you guys!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You should tell the office that she has memory issues and you need to be with her as well as other issues!
This won't ever happen again. If Paul isnt allowed back with me I'm not doing the appointment.
That's not okay. I never understand why doctors are like that because they studied so hard to get into that position you'd think they would be better. Stay strong. ♥️🙏
You would think that right?
Nope they go on a power craze and think they run the world.
I’m only 25 and got diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. There is no “normal” age for anything. It can be abnormal for your age group to get certain diseases but that doesn’t make them any less valid. That is not ok and should never have happened. Take a deep breath, find a new OBGYN and understand that you are not the only one that probably had to deal with her like that. This will be a blessing in disguise because the new OBGYN will have fresh eyes and can take a look at the whole picture. I know a male obgyn could be scary but maybe try for a male. I’ve heard a lot of women prefer a male because they don’t compair their own reproductive system to yours. Just a thought.
I love the way you said it. " it may be abnormal but that doesn't make them less valid"
If you don't mind I would love to say that on another video cause it hits the point perfectly 👍👍👍💚💚💚
Also I've heard that to of a Male Obgyn....so that may be a possibility for me too
The Raw Life I do not mind if you use that line at all. It does explain the problem perfectly. Being only 25 with RA is hard because nobody wants to believe me saying I’m too young but it is still valid because it is a medical diagnosis. My rheumatologist said that yes it is abnormal but it is still valid. She is amazing and I hope you find an OBGYN that can help you conceive a child. ❤️
I've been treated like that because of my age started when I was 16 I still get it now that I'm 21 it's kind of ridiculous the amount of times I have to look at somebody that is supposed to be a doctor and not lose it on them for being that level of rude to me.
I can see why she didn't want Paul on the phone she didn't want him to hear what she was going to say to you. That is totally wrong and they should've let him in the room with you and I'm glad you're never going back! I'm glad you stood up to her and I think Paul should go to the management or who is above her as far as the doctor bored or what because that is not acceptable for her to ever treat a patient like that I would write a bad report I bought her and tell everybody never to go to see her again! I would've walked out as soon as she said the thing about you needing to see a counselor.
Paul is working on speaking to the office management, to talk to them because this is beyond ridiculous.
Sorry you had to go through that but I understand it’s happened to me. I was brought to the hospital via ambulance in severe pain due to IBS. The doctor saw me on the stretcher said I’m not treating her. My husband had to carry me out and take me to a different hospital to be treated. The paramedics who I worked with were pissed and so was the doctor that ended up treating me. Stay strong 💪. From what I see you and Paul together can do anything. ❤️
Wow that is BEYOND ridiculous for that to happen.
Obviously if your being taken by ambulance you NEED medical attention......it really angers me how these doctors treat us sometimes
Im so sorry you had to go through that, I really DESPISE doctors like her....excuse me Miss- its YOU that need your head checked for treating the patient like you do, f... offf!!!! Sorry, bad memories came up when I heard agat she told you. ou will find a much better doctor who treets you with RESPECT.
I agree with you, Janiece. I've seen condescending doctors like that as well. I only see them once and then move on. There are good and understanding doctors out there. Sometimes it just takes a while to find the right one.
It sucks to have to go through the bad ones but when you find a good one you hang on forever!💚🤣👍
I hope you have put in an official complaint against this surgery. That is outrageous that they treat you both like that... This so called Doctor is No Psychiatrist and by that I mean she has no right whatsoever to comment on your mental health. I would feel just the same as you are feeling. Hope you can find someone who can actually help you.
We are in the process of filing formal complaints cause this was to way to far.......thank you for the love and support 💚👍🤗
If the se sends u a bill u can say on the bill that the bill is in the sea head because of what the Dr said to u
Haha love it
That is so unprofessional and rude. You have a lot of medical conditions, you are trying to take the best route for you, and your baby. Your planning is important and is a good thing for you and your situation. And drs who dont know how to help or are not experienced in dealing with someone with health conditions they are not familiar with usually go for "theres something mentally wrong with you" or "it's just a mental health issue" verses being honest and saying they are not comfortable with treating you or saying they dont know how to treat you. And honestly you are very lucky to not have had this occur very often because myself and others I know have went through this so so so many times its ridiculous. I hope you find a dr who will help you and who will be the right fit for you because you deserve it. You deserve a dr who will make you feel comfortable and who will listen and who will appreciate that you are taking the initiative to do the planning before you get pregnant to make sure that everything is safe and goes well for you and your baby. And I am truly sorry you had to go through such a horrible and unprofessional experience.
It's crazy the things we have gone through, I just don't want anyone else to have to go through this either
So sorry that you had a hard time at the doctor visit. I went to the ER because I was in a lot of pain and the ER doctor ask me why are you here? He was totally rude. I hope you find a good doctor who cares. You did the right thing to just walk out. Doctor shouldn’t treat patient like that.
I hate it when an ER doctor asks that. Thankfully I haven't had that often but still it's crazy to think there are doctors treating people this way
Actually, that may be just asking you yu, "what are your symptoms", but not very adroitly.
Some of these doctors offices are getting ridiculous. I can’t even get medical care right now because I’m a single mom and they won’t let my 12yr old come in or sit in the waiting room while I’m being seen.
Wow.....that would piss me off so bad
I understand where your coming from, hopefully they can be more understanding 💚👍
You go girl I would not have held back
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Did you tell them you were on youtube? While you were waiting so long could she have looked you up online?
We don't advertise to any doctors or nurses that we do social media. We just go in like any other patient.
You haven't seen unprofessional until you come to the clinic that I go to. I was at an appointment and the doctor I saw that day as mine on vacation decided to mention the name of the patient who was having a covid test done basically she was breaking patient confidentiality
WHAT......yeah that's insane that a doctor would actually do that.....I hope you have your regular doctor or found a better clinic for you
@@TheRawLife1 I actually got my regular doctor back.
I'm sorry that you are going to this you should not have to go through that at all.. I just think you need to find someone else
Oh trust me we will find a new doctor. We are NEVER going back to that office
I don't understand why some health care professionals act so unprofessionally. I felt Janiece was very prepared for her appointment and knows her medical conditions.
I know what my precribed prescriptions do and what condition I have them for.
I had the same experience here in California. They are everywhere.
They also told my husband that he couldn't be in the waiting room. Apparently, only the patient is allowed in the waiting room too. We complied because both of us understand why those rules are there in the first place. It's for the safety of everyone, so it's understandable but there's been so many times where I've seen other people aside from the patient in the waiting room and they aren't told anything. So, I found that odd and unfair! but I haven't pointed that out to them and I probably won't because I'm just scared of confrontation
Don't get wrong, if they would have informed us it wouldn't have been a problem. Two front desk people didn't say anything. Then another came in full force and went off.
@@TheRawLife1 yeah I agree, they should've been more polite about it.
Not only is that a very responsible thing to do(keep note of all things necessary) you would (NORMALLY) be considered a Drs best kind of patient. My Drs would love all your organization skills!! Just sayin
I'd be heated...
I would look into a high-risk Maternal Fetal Specialist or a high-risk Ob-Gyn. Because of your complex medical conditions I had to do the exact same thing.
So I do have a high risk OB/GYN. I'm going to see her soon, but I still need a regular OBGYN as well. Both of them together coordinate my care
ooh I know this feeling, this is what I call passing the book. If a physician can't handle a case they pass you along.
Sending love and prayers❤️
Thank you 🤗💚👍
Send her a brief letter & request a refund of your co-pay.
Oh yes we will 🙌💪
I would be beyond pissed if my husband couldn't be there for that type of appointment or even on the phone like seriously it's my husband he needs to know what's going on with me to so you can try for a baby like what the heck that is ridiculous I'm so sorry you guys went through this I'm mad for you like seriously that is just absolutely ridiculous I have had doctors do crap like this to me making me wait when I was early to appointment like they told me to be they made me wait so long in the waiting room and even longer in the back which made me go into an anxiety and I was told I wasn't allowed to bring my service dog so even worse and I have also been told that my disabilities are all in my head by a doctor and that I should just grow up and be a big girl and not rely on a stupid dog like seriously i mad with you I'm so sorry that you had to go through this i hope and pray everything works out for you and you guys have a child i really do deserve it God bless you both
I also like you tried to be prepared for high risk pregnancy. But dr's don't judge that normally until your pregnant. Sounds dumb to me if your have chronic illnesses you want to be prepared.
Exactly 🙌🙌.
I'm speachless, I'm just red with anger. This is so messed up, I'm so sorry that this happened to you.
Thank you so much for the love and support 👍🤗💚
Janiece I'm so sorry sweetie, about yet another horrible Dr appt.
Don't take her attitude personal, (its hard not to) it's not about you.
Its about some doctor don't come preprepared by checking out the patients for the day who they are seeing & why, You never know if she had a rotten morning which added to her rude behavior. This was about her speaking without thinking. Most professional people filter their rude insensitive thought before it spills out. You need to do a consultation first interview your doctor first to see if they are a good fit for you & Paul.
We did another appointment with this off but only with the Nurse Practitioner. And she was great, very nice, understanding, caring, excellent bed side manner....but the doctor is where it all went out the window lol
Who does she thinks she is and what gives her the right to speak to you in that manner, Janiece! Totally unprofessional...you don't deserve that kind of treatment. Report her a**!
she's a trained professional...
An OB/GYN has NOTHING to do with sending someone to a psychiatrist for a mental evaluation when you don't show any signs of mental health issues
Also being a trained professional doesn't give you the right to be rude and talk down to people
I’m so sorry, Janiece. The way the doctor treated you was unconscionable. Sending love to you.💚
Thank you🤗💚💚💚
Dear Janiece and Paul:
If a provider isn't showing you rudeness and no bed side manner you can say ft o the provider I'm going to write a bad review on Google about u. I would also call ur insurance company and tell them not to pay this Drrs bill because she gave u the excuse that it's in ur head
Yeah we will be calling in the insurance company to make sure they have the complaint on file and to get my copays refunded
I would also call the Florida licensing department that license this Dr and tell them that the Dr needs to looosec her license
Not all drs should be drs... actually a LOT of them shouldn't be. I'm so sry you were treated this way, I've been there and it's an awful, defeating and sometimes humiliating feeling. I was one fired from a new practice bc I asked the new dr if i could record our convo due to a recent brain injury and cognitive problems--i needed something i could refer back to. She immediately got bug eyed and i got the letter 2 days later.
One app i found helpful was Abridge. It picks up key words in a medical convo that will help you quickly refer back to a particular date of service among other things. I've found that it doesn't pay to ask if you can record the convo, just do it even if you need to be descrete about it. Otherwise it just puts them on the defensive and alters the whole visit and tx of you. Do what you need to do for You. It's not like you're planning on using it for litigation purposes-- then you'd have to make sure if you live in a 1party or 2party consent state.
I'm glad you stood up to her. Kudos to you. Stay strong and much love to you both!
So in florida you need both parties to consent to a recording from either audio and or video, for use in a court case. Other then that....RECORD lol
I have learned my lesson trust me lol
I hate to say it, but I think it's time to leave Florida. I've lived there and the Northeast, and it is night and day medically.
😂😂😂😂 love that idea but paul loves Florida
Wow, that dr shouldn't be treating ANYONE! what an ass! Excuse my french......
I did want to share with you and Paul. Its going to be hard not to but try not to dwell on getting pregnant or not getting pregnant. I truly believe that the stress prevents getting pregnant. I too had trouble getting pregnant with my 2nd child. We decided to actually hold off trying and treat my chronic hip problems......I quit thinking about it and lo and behold we got pregnant! Its hard....but good luck to you both.....
Makes me mad 😡
Makes me PISSED lol
Wow this is not a way to treat people. Paul and Jeneice need to report this doctor. Why can't they do all the research they want to do to plan to have a baby.
Exactly, we are just trying to be responsible and have everything covered instead of winging it
So sorry Paul wtf!!!!
The Drs down in Florida are the worst and they don't have mal practice insurance
I didn't know that!
File a grievance with your insurance company -- that is BS!
We will be!
Trust me, this isn't falling on deaf ears!
I’d also request a refund of your co-pay and file a complaint with your insurance company
That is something we will be doing as well!💚👍🤗
😤🤬🤯 I’m so furious that you were treated this way!!
Trust me I'm pissed lol
I’m so sorry you guys had to go through this!
Not good
Not at all😤
If a Doctor wont let your other half in the room even like that kind make a B line out the door,
Never again will I do an appointment without Paul by my side
WTF!!! How dare she even hint at mental problems,you are there for very valid reasons that are physical good grief this must be so hurtful and frustrating for you,her bedside manner is appalling,definateley get her reported,sorry for all the struggles you both have with health professionals,who don't appear to be professional at all and have zero empathy,I'm so sorry for your struggles
Thank you so much for the love and support💚💚🤗
Oh I’ve dealt with a doctor like that. She actually told me, I did not have Ehlers-Danlos. I couldn’t wait to get my genetic results back I do I’m hyper mobile, carrt RCCX, inability to break down oxalates I lack the DNA to host a specific bacteria. That breaks down oxalates.
I as well have vascular Ehlers-Danlos. Oh and I made an appointment to hand her copies, she read through was shocked, tried to play this sweet DOCTOR. I laughed at her...
I told her how ignorant and disgusting she was the last time I saw her if she remembered if she doesn’t look at her notes. I’m sure she wrote some thing rude about me. I then said you’re disgusting I fire you will never see you again. And I wrote the worst review about her. how she assumed, because I did not fit the direct, explanation of a classical EDS‘ er... which I pointed out I was not my grandmother with that.!!! Everything she said I was not I was. In a different sense not exactly as she thought. But she wouldn’t even consider the idea. It has brought so many answers to all the issues that I’ve had my whole life. I’m 43.
Absolutely disgusting. I will not take ignorant doctors. Ever...
I have more experiences than just that.
Edit typos sorry talk text is terrible
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That doctor is the one who needs the shrink! You are more prepared than she is.
The way she came off made everything 100000000x times worse
Yup!!
I seem to remember an app you can use to record a visit to a doctor. I think you should make a habit of using that and not even say it.
No need to apologise, they are in the wrong for saying what they said x
Thank you💚👍🤗
Oh. My. Bleeping. Expletive! 🤯 😖 😤 🤬 Janiece & Paul, I'm so sorry you went through that experience, each in your own way. It absolutely makes my blood boil when doctors act similarly. Patients are people- precious, unique, and uniquely qualified to understand their own body. If only your experience were unique & unheard of...😑 💚💚💚💚
That’s not right
Not at all. But we will keep moving forward 💚
If you are her caretaker then they need to allow it.
You would think so lol
The Raw Life at the beginning of Covid they said that caretakers would be allowed. I too have been told my husband cannot come into my appointments. I explained he is my caretaker, he is on my records as being my caretaker and all my doctors have now allowed him to be present except for my pain doctor who forces me to come in monthly when I am high risk.
You should not have to put up with this and also you both should report them.
We are in the process of doing all the reports to anyone and everyone we can