The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 1 Episode 2 | Recap | Review

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  • @SlaySlytherin
    @SlaySlytherin Před rokem +118

    Rae seems to lack self-confidence, no wonder she is attracted to Vanessa that keeps making her feel special. But Vanessa is for the street!

  • @destinylove1673
    @destinylove1673 Před rokem +108

    Vanessa is too performative and manipulative for me. It’s sad to see Xander protect and vouch for a person who doesn’t see much value in them.

  • @aunetjie1559
    @aunetjie1559 Před rokem +58

    I love Lexi for calling Vanessa out!

  • @peachyy666
    @peachyy666 Před rokem +158

    This whole "you dont understand her like I do" from Zander is so painful

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Před rokem +12

      Basically "she convinced me to come on here for her storyline but we're not really together" 😐

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před rokem +3

      Xander 😅

    • @joyous1011
      @joyous1011 Před rokem +12

      I think Xander is so allowing of Vanessa because she's her " first"

  • @bydivadream
    @bydivadream Před rokem +27

    When Xander genuinely brought up the idea that a couple would ever not BOTH be parents to a child, my heart sunk. Vanessa is so traumatizing on so many levels.
    It also makes perfect sense why Rae, who is very surface level and emotionally immature, fell for it.
    Tiff speaks on feelings and emotions as though they are a choice, like there's no awareness of natural chemistry.

  • @RachelAli1791
    @RachelAli1791 Před rokem +113

    In addition to the love bombing...Did y'all notice that Vanessa's favorite thing about Rea had nothing to do with Rea? It was all about how Vanessa couldn't figure her out... she just talked about how well she (Vanessa) can read people, and know all about them right away.

  • @spicyni6530
    @spicyni6530 Před rokem +63

    Vanessa is the ultimate player.
    this is a game for her😭

  • @tea6306
    @tea6306 Před rokem +22

    Yal when Tiff said "Do you feel like we're connecting now" & then kissed Mildred I FUCKING DIED laughing🤣🤣🤣. Like girl be fucking fr lhh.

    • @hommefataltaemin
      @hommefataltaemin Před rokem +3

      RIGHT especially when they are concerned that there’s only sexual chemistry between them and that’s it 😂😂 I cringed when they kissed seriously like y’all how will that change anything ?!?!

    • @Selenee77
      @Selenee77 Před rokem +3

      I bet they thought they were in a movie 😂😂

  • @simonesanaa5331
    @simonesanaa5331 Před rokem +53

    Vanessa is a whole disingenuous weirdo. And I see Xander was/ is insecure and is holding onto the attachment and longevity she’s had with Vanessa. I feel like once she experiences something healthy she would look at herself and say what was she thinking

    • @destinylove1673
      @destinylove1673 Před rokem +4

      Lmao I hollered at the first sentence! 😂😂😂

    • @joyous1011
      @joyous1011 Před rokem +1

      My exact thought! 💯

    • @pearlosibu
      @pearlosibu Před rokem +3

      @@destinylove1673 😂😂😂me too. Never seen that specific combination “disingenuous weirdo”. I’m laughing again.

    • @Cosmeticjunkee
      @Cosmeticjunkee Před rokem +1

      Nailed it! 😂😂

    • @simonesanaa5331
      @simonesanaa5331 Před rokem +2

      @@destinylove1673 😂😂 sorry, like she’s that one personalities that actually gives me a weird feeling and I would probably just run away from her. She’s able to twist and manipulate her words and tears to just get her way and it’s weird.

  • @Randomhandle442
    @Randomhandle442 Před rokem +18

    Vanessa looks like the girlfriend from Get Out and her being the manipulative villain of the season isn’t helping her case lol

  • @Meganb1286
    @Meganb1286 Před rokem +17

    Love how you addressed the pronouns girl. I think it’s okay when we don’t know but you are so quick to say that you don’t know and that’s dope. ✌🏻💕

  • @TheDawnofVanlife
    @TheDawnofVanlife Před rokem +28

    Pronouns:.. Tiff goes by they, Aussie is at the very least questioning if they are NB, Xander and Mal go by she/her/they interchangably.
    I wasn’t sure either. (i am Queer btw) but the pronoun use wasn’t clear in the episodes. Had to look it up.

  • @regankelley243
    @regankelley243 Před rokem +19

    So happy I found your videos bc none of my friends are watching this show 😂 but yeah, I think Mal has no one else to connect with but Lexi. In the real world I don’t see it going anywhere 🤷🏽‍♀️Vanessa is a gaslighting narc. The way she was shook when Xander said she likes Yolie lol I just cannot

  • @coralbluenumber7lipstick688

    Vanessa is a lovebomber that's the word for it

  • @Jade-soso
    @Jade-soso Před rokem +14

    Yoo Vanessa is for the streets 🗣️😂😂

  • @Nay-wd1tp
    @Nay-wd1tp Před rokem +12

    Vanessa is definitely there for TV and nothing else

  • @zagorskaewelina
    @zagorskaewelina Před rokem +16

    Yeah, some of them are seemingly non-binary but it wasn't explicitly said who etc., so there is actually no way you could know.

  • @thesmalltowndreamer
    @thesmalltowndreamer Před rokem +19

    Vanessa seems like she's playing out the" quirky love interest in an indie movie" persona but it's cringy to watch

  • @PeaceLoveSassy
    @PeaceLoveSassy Před rokem

    "Sparks can cause houses to burn!" Sticking this proverb in my back pocket.

  • @cheetahkc1775
    @cheetahkc1775 Před rokem +5

    That gagging gif of Vanessa pops into my head whenever she opens her mouth. I think that it has to be a character. Who is that heartless?!
    I love your content Queen E!

  • @joanna0988
    @joanna0988 Před rokem +42

    Ok so my theory is that Vanessa is not really with Xander, I think they're just friends and Vanessa needed someone to do this with for fame 😂 edited to add that Vanessa is also an actress, she was in a movie in 2020 called Desert Swingers 😬

    • @chenni4127
      @chenni4127 Před rokem +2

      Oh wow

    • @chenni4127
      @chenni4127 Před rokem +3

      Interesting

    • @marisabelcabrera5704
      @marisabelcabrera5704 Před rokem +10

      🤔🤔🤔🤔 it would explain why Xander is unfazed by Vanessa going into instant single mode and throwing herself at everyone (and how Xander behaves in later episodes)….

    • @joyous1011
      @joyous1011 Před rokem +1

      No wayyyyyyy!!😮

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Před rokem +1

      @@marisabelcabrera5704 I think so. Xander has a training business so she could use the exposure as well.

  • @deeperteet8123
    @deeperteet8123 Před rokem +14

    Vanessa is there to be seen

  • @cassie_6540
    @cassie_6540 Před rokem +29

    I read a blog last night, and apparently Vanessa is a social media influencer soooooo we can put one and two together 😂

    • @joanna0988
      @joanna0988 Před rokem +7

      Influencer for what ?? 🙄 She's so irritating.

    • @alyssiab.
      @alyssiab. Před rokem +3

      With 1000 IG followers 🤔

    • @abigailo4661
      @abigailo4661 Před rokem +4

      She literally said that in the episode

  • @ZivaIsNotATraitor
    @ZivaIsNotATraitor Před rokem +20

    I personally feel like Xander may be in a toxic relationship with Vanessa and I feel really bad for her. As for Vanessa... it's giving personality disorder. Obviously it's impossible for me to diagnose her, but those are the vibes I'm getting.

  • @andreas.671
    @andreas.671 Před rokem +11

    Your braids look amazing!😍😍😍

  • @heartshooz3912
    @heartshooz3912 Před rokem +8

    This has proven the theory that women GET women and understand another woman’s emotions naturally. This is something that takes men years to NEVER get. I may have to take this under advisement 😌

  • @sakatakataaaa
    @sakatakataaaa Před rokem

    love love love this show and your take!!

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 Před rokem +1

    I keep saying Vanessa was wild af for saying Xander would be asexual if not for Vanessa. Cuz later Xander says they’re very sexual.

  • @ImpishlyDevious
    @ImpishlyDevious Před rokem +4

    I agree with last episode’s review that it opens up the house for all to possibly enjoy/explore. Annnnnd…GO! 🎉

  • @spicyni6530
    @spicyni6530 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the double upload ♥️

  • @amirariyama2349
    @amirariyama2349 Před rokem +3

    Vanessa needs THERAPY and to stay away from dating

  • @coralbluenumber7lipstick688

    Tiff is non binary

  • @user-pm2gr8mg2p
    @user-pm2gr8mg2p Před rokem

    I think vanessa is mocking lexi regarding being an influencer while lexi and yoly is listening coz its actually lexi who is an influencer

  • @ashleyfordyce9659
    @ashleyfordyce9659 Před rokem

    I think it’s also because Xander has been with Vanessa since high school

  • @destined2bebossy
    @destined2bebossy Před rokem

    Vanessa has some childhood trauma thats bonded Xander to her. Has to be

  • @St.OlGa.
    @St.OlGa. Před rokem +4

    Vanessa is love bombing! She callesly throws words like - love, passion and getting to know eachother - whilst simultaneously saying that she doesn't know if she wants anyone and she wants to be free, and have threesomes. At the same time, she says that she wants to take things slow, on the day she has seggs with Rea! Sadly, Rae is insecure and uncertain enough to actually fall for this, when everyone else immediately senses how fake Vanessa is. I don't like to throw terms like this likely, but 'narcissism' is the key word that comes to mind 😬

    • @madeanaccountjus2say
      @madeanaccountjus2say Před rokem

      no spoilers, keep comments relevant to the episode at hand in the video come on now

    • @St.OlGa.
      @St.OlGa. Před rokem

      @@madeanaccountjus2say all of the episodes were now released babes, you gotta avoid comments if you haven't seen them yet ✌️

  • @chenni4127
    @chenni4127 Před rokem +4

    1:54 I think Lexi was drinking a lot

    • @madeanaccountjus2say
      @madeanaccountjus2say Před rokem

      they all are. notice how every scene has nothing but an abundance of alcohol present. no food no water but netflix/kinetic has time to supply open bars. definitely not beating the abuse allegations

  • @UrbanDecayLova247
    @UrbanDecayLova247 Před rokem +3

    Mal’s insecurities have nothing to do with Yoly. Yoly is the one who gave the ultimatum, she is the one who wants to marry Mal soooo while I feel for Mal in terms of her insecurities…if it’s that much of an issue, she needs to let Yoly go 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @jessicafarmer3910
    @jessicafarmer3910 Před rokem +14

    Aussie uses Aussie as a pronoun, not she/her or they/them. It's pretty easy to find online as soon as you start reading about the show, as are the other cast members' pronouns. I will say, a lot of the people on the show are also misgendering other cast members, which is a bit confusing. I'm not sure why that hasn't been addressed.

    • @TheQueenE
      @TheQueenE  Před rokem +8

      That makes sense. I was wondering where the gender convo happened because I clearly missed it

    • @JNDReacts
      @JNDReacts Před rokem +6

      @@TheQueenE I only found out because someone made a post on Reddit that included everyone’s pronouns from I think a press release. Also in one of the episodes I noticed Tiff was referred to with they/them pronouns, but also she/her. Yet according to Reddit Tiff only uses they/them pronouns.

    • @pearlosibu
      @pearlosibu Před rokem

      Aussie as a pronoun - as in talking about them in the second person? Yeah, not doing that!

    • @jessicafarmer3910
      @jessicafarmer3910 Před rokem +15

      @@pearlosibu I'm not really sure what you're doing in the comment section of a recap of a queer dating show if you're unwilling to respect someone's choice of pronouns. It's not really asking much and deliberately disrespectful to do the opposite.

    • @madeanaccountjus2say
      @madeanaccountjus2say Před rokem

      @@jessicafarmer3910 💯

  • @thisismyinferno
    @thisismyinferno Před rokem

    Vanessa comes off narcissistic. Could never know but its triggering to me how she is.