We as Africans need to kill the perception of white men are wealthy, we should never allow to be intimidated in our own country regardless of who we are or what we have. Ladies out here before you get to know someone, obey your instincts and never ignore the RED FLAGS, be financially independent and no one will ever degrade you. As fr you babygal, you are beautiful, intelligent and talented, pick up the pieces and move forward. May you shine like a queen👑. I wish you nothing but the very best🙏
Exactly our sisters fall prey of wealthy men just because of being desperate unaware of the repurcusions behind it , it's high time they learn to be independent.
That’s a lesson learnt ✅as a woman be independent and have your own money ✅Veronica looks so young and beautiful 🥰it’s not always about the pain,God will change her story of tears to a story of blessings and happiness 💕💕💕
hahahaha Anna Nyaguthii we would be loosing focus of the guest's story. But you have a point, we appreciate that Wambui is not hiding this her pregnancy journey from us. All the best Wambui wa Mwangi
Mum wazungu don't give money coz ulaya kuna equal rights. He is expecting you to work and help each other. I am married by mzungu but nafanya kazi ili nijifanyie mambo zangu
Aki how can someone live with a person who sees you as useless and nothing, someone who does not value you and he is your husband or wife, just love your self more and value yourself.
I have raised my 4 kids alone since my hubby died for more than 20 yrs now. When he died they took everything including money and l was a housewife but l thank God this far he is Ebenezer. I have sold fruits. Hawking, washing clothes etc and l thank God Atleast l didn't depend on a man. I can do any job as long as l don't depend on anyone. So sorry beautiful. Thank God that rent , food , fees are met...sisi nyumba tulizoea kulipa na fees na unga
Let me give you a little advice marriage does not matter mzungu, African or American what matters is who you get married to,you can even get married to your tribe and face more troubles than what you are going through
True! But i think there is a bizzarre fixation on 'mzungu' by some people, I think they think white people are special in some way? It's embarrassing. Watu ni watu..skin has nothing to do with it. Kama mtu ni mbaya ni mbaya, despite their skin colour.
I think by virtue of a long cohabitation with kids to boot you could be considered married. Your relationship was never based on love from both parties so I suggest you continue to persevere there for the kids sake but try to get something to occupy yourself and get some money. You are both using one another so get as much out of it as you can . Jaribu muwende kwenyu ama Kwa dC
It's important for our young girls to learn that Jesus only recognises the first marriage. Dont be cheated by any mam who is already married or divorced. Those who are not truly saved, have demons and will continue to cheat unless delivered. Veronica accepted to stay with this mzungu knowing very well he was married. Dont expect to be the special woman. In addition, our girls should finish their education first, get a good job and get married when mature like from 26 yrs. I hv watched many of Wambuis show and other shows and noted that girls are getting married at the age of 15 & 19 yrs thinking they are running from financial problems but end up miserable. Accept Jesus as your personal saviour and only depend on Him not men or people. Pole sana sister.
so we should wait till our partners kill us in the name of "God only recognizes the first marriage"??? there are so many marriages that are working even after they had divorced before ...
May will not agree with you but it's true that's was someone's husband she engaged with knowing that's very well,it's not right for what the guy is doing but is also good to reflect back on what you did ,repent,forgive yourself and ask God for guidance.
Well articulated but it's like you have a perception of how things should work .. there are exceptions, for example she didn't wish to not finish school ,also circumstances kinda forced her when she lacked the basic need of shelter and food....
court injunction to bar him from taking children out of the country without your consent and involvement is an urgent matter here please let's help her get a count order or we get pro-bono legal help or via government ombudsman.✍🏽📖💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
This lady is so great if she can just get to being up her kids on her own no matter what she may go thru' my advice may b is if she can just decide to start again without fear of facing it especially the kids, just hide from the man n b safe with your kids , it may seem soo hard but has no regrets in future, try girl try n all the best you are a worrier
Most of Wazungus don't give women money..girls should be cautious...but if she could find her way to live in Netherlands she has all the rights and support being a mother of Dutch children.
A man will get away with whatever you allow him to do. You allowed him to play you, you allow him to control you, you will continue to suffer until you take control back from him. One of those ways is earn your own money.
I have a white husband (he is 36, I am 32. We have been married for 4 years after dating for 2 years). When we met, I already had a masters degree. After marriage, we moved to his country and because he wanted to empower me, he encouraged me to go back to school and he paid for my 2nd master’s degree (May I add that we’ve always had a joint bank account because he did not want me to feel like I was lacking anything). He would even take days off from work to stay with our baby, while I study for the exams. My first job interview, he rehearsed with me for hours! I got that job(in a field I am very passionate about) I had not even graduated when I got the job. He believes in me more than I even believe in myself. I honestly think being white or black does not define an individual.
Hey siz don't mind about that mzungu husband of yours claiming you take a matatu about Uber simplicity is the best thing ever remember you yourself where you come from and where you are heading to
My sister you are married to gikuyu guy. He must be born in cities. Yes when you are married by a luo guy but not a gikuyu. In gikuyu culture men speaks women make food and children.
I Truely second you JH, it depends on individuals who choose to be human or in human, we cannot put everybody in the same sac, but we should consider red flags
@@priscillanjenga7581 wako better 100% times than gikuyu men.mzungu can cook for, clean house for you.they are very romantic compare with gikuyu men commander in chief .they put their ass down waiting women to cook. I hate this!!I can live without a mzungu
Its not about the mzungu, men are men! The moment you put your self worth aside and decide to sleep with anyone just so you can be accommodated and maybe cover yourself from the shame of going back to your parents you've lost it and it will take you more than you can imagine to regain your dignity in that mans eyes, him sleeping with your relatives and you still there🙆 wangekuwa wangu they'd be in Kimende Primary. Wueeeh! You got strength mama. May God see you through.
Sister and aunt from the devil. Whatever you sow you will reap. I hope that guy does not steal those kids from her. May the God of justice fight the battle for you.
The first time this guy saw you , he knew he can manipulate you because of who you are . May God open your door. He knows exactly what he’s doing. Ps for all those commenting here that she was after money , listen to the whole story, he went looking for her . He needs to know his day is coming . There are good men out there and there are bad ones . May God locate you .
Sad story. May you get something to do and stabilize.. I wish once you are a bit stable you can leave.. Even if it means lowering the standard and changing the school, to keep your children safe... than losing them..Also it messes you mentally to be in this kind of relationship... JUST KNOW you are so pretty and a happy soul. I pray that things work for you and God make away. 🙏
For now thank God for whatever little assistance you are getting from him. If he is not torturing you physically, hide the kids documents and teach them to be contended with what they have. "bibi ya mzungu" isikusubue saana develop shock absorbers and say there is no difference; whether black or white all are men.
They were both immoral. The man for sexual favours the woman for comfort. There was no marriage, just a convenient relationship as with many others we have nowadays
Haha Dunia ni ndogo😂😂...Vero tulifanya marketing Vikings uchumi house tukiwa na Ivy and the rest😂😂😂...such a bubbly and cute lady ...Vero ukisoma hii comment salimika sana.
I feel sorry for you little gal, I can assure you that not all mzungu are bad, I was married by a Kenyan and I went through hell for a whole year. He was bitting me like daily after a small argument, everything I bought in that house with my own money he could make sure he break them every time we had a fight, sometimes he could hammer my toes, throw a knife to me, sometimes he could pour the food I cooked on the floor, ... The list is endless.... , I saw I was not worth or this disrespect and I left, but I can say by good luck I got a boyfriend from Netherlands and he is soo respectful, caring and loving.He has taught me how to be independent, how to love myself again, computer skills, driving, how to do business and through him I got back my self-awareness, respect and at this time I can't allow any bullshit or disrespect from anybody, irregardless whether you are my friend, family member my happiness comes first. I can say that it was a bad luck for you to be married by an animal, this is not a human being, he just wanted kids from you and nothing else. Don't allow again people to bring you down because you are the one who is giving them all freedom, take heart and start a new life.
God is good your comments gives me hope been through the same and more he could brought in women to the house we we're splitting rent,countless times I slept at chief office with my daughter..it's 2yrs now since I walked away and vow never to look back..may God remember me also and bless me with someone who will love me unconditionally 🙏
@@Shikuwanjoki trust in the process dear, the God who gave you courage to leave your toxic ex-husband will provide you with your other half and its good that you have learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship, love yourself more and always enjoy life whether you have money or not, peace of mind and freedom is priceless. Take care and good luck
Haki what a complicated story. Sasa ikifika hapa mtu hufanya nini? Watoi in an expensive school so huwezi toka kwake. Now what to do? Mungu tu afungulie njia
May God bless you young lady with a very beautiful heart. God will make a way and everything will be in Control. We never judge coz what goes around,comes around. Today it's her ,tomorrow me so we just need to pray for each other. Amen 🙏
@@gracemaina673 I would advocate for this too coz in Holland, schools are free, insurance is affordable, support from the state is available and she can look for a job or train in her preferred career. I hope the children have Dutch passports and if not, they might require an acknowledgement of paternity to establish if the hubby is the father more so if the children were born out of wedlock.
Am following and after some time you bring her again to tell us what happened coz it's as if she can't move out but it's good to prevent than cure siatoe kids Nairobi aende nyumbani without minding what people will say aai Sasa anangoja watoi waende Netherlands aanze kulia huku na hajui how soon 😱
Woooi mama shunga sasa kunyanganyua watoto heri yote ukose na uichi na watoto... njipange pole pole...Naa utafaru but hapo hakuna maisha...omba sana Mungu akufungurie njia mama.
Muthungu ucio ti muru Tondu Niragura irio wee niwe kiguta urenda guikara maisha maiguru.tena ujue huyo mzungu ni kenya kimbo amechanuka sana.hawezi kuwa fresh ideas. My dear menyaga uhikitio ni njoroge ti muthungu ucio ni muchanuku muno
My life lesson is usikae na mwanaume bila pesa Yako...they will never respect you and his family will beba you as the man does....siwezi aki I learnt the hard way...
But my African sisters please let's give ourselves a bit of dignity. Why run after these men? They will misuse and disrespect you. They think we are useless don't give them such a chance
I would rather get married to mzungu than my fellow okuyu. Sarah stayed in comfortable zone thinking is for her.kama mimi ni Sarah ningekuwa na Mali mob kuliko huyo mzungu uojorithie na pesa kidogo and you reach hata yy akuheshimu.unakaa maisha ya kizungu na Huna pesa zako.i am richer than my husband. I used him to buy 12 plots .saa hii kenya na earn 40k so nikirundi nina hela zangu bila joined
Many women think a mzungu is a demi god😌empower yourself first before giving yourself away to someone..if you have nothing going on in your life, you will stomach any B/S from anyone
Wazungu are simply the best because of their culture despite they don't give you money. They help you to look for a job and have your own thing different with gikuyu men.gikuyu men want to control you never haver have anything you own zote ni zake na akipata pesa ana marry second wife mzungu don't that
@@cytkl yes wazungu they are pure evil because you don't know their culture. Wazungu and their culture are simply the best.in wazungu culture women are not given money because you don't own.it is abusive to give money to a woman. In wazungu culture woman and men are equal. I am married to a mzungu 21yrs and he doesn't give me money infact I do help him to pay bills because I work and I am left with a lot of money.
@@janewangombe5668 thats why He is with you because you are foolish. 🤣🤣🤣 unasaindia mzungu Saindia waafrika wenzako. But maybe wee ni aria mahoyaga jesu muthungu. Mentally enslaved selfhating fools
That lady should look for fomer inoro presenter waithira muithirania ed she will help her to secure her kids Custody, wambui wa mwangi hawezi kosa number ya waithira,hope she get help
wambui I can't believe i am watching this 2 years later and feels good still. Hiyo ngombe in background chukueni panga mwende hapo kando ya bárbara mufyeke manyasi mrushe thru fence itawapea peace and love❤
Can relate..but atlist your kids are big enough now you can find a job and take care of them usijali wataenda shule gani..but am sure he'll take of them ata ukitoka..so stay strong usikae apo utazeekea apo n the way you're beautiful..
It would be dangerous to let those kids leave with this man. She needs justice
Ujue your siz amesikia hii story atamwabia mzungu you're planning to secure your kids so mama be careful
We as Africans need to kill the perception of white men are wealthy, we should never allow to be intimidated in our own country regardless of who we are or what we have. Ladies out here before you get to know someone, obey your instincts and never ignore the RED FLAGS, be financially independent and no one will ever degrade you.
As fr you babygal, you are beautiful, intelligent and talented, pick up the pieces and move forward. May you shine like a queen👑. I wish you nothing but the very best🙏
Exactly our sisters fall prey of wealthy men just because of being desperate unaware of the repurcusions behind it , it's high time they learn to be independent.
That’s a lesson learnt ✅as a woman be independent and have your own money ✅Veronica looks so young and beautiful 🥰it’s not always about the pain,God will change her story of tears to a story of blessings and happiness 💕💕💕
Aki be independent as a woman,,,,a big lesson learnt as well.
She's so beautiful 😍❤️ moral lessons don't get married to escape poverty because you will make it worse
Unfortunately, that's what most girls are doing.
True true. She ends up getting children, the man abuses her and leaves. Back to square one with more problems.
Not true..you just have to be wise
@@florencemusei3843
Waooooo very true 💯💯💯💯
Si wote wabaya, i went through hell from a kenyan man until i met my mzungu husband i thank God for him
Wah iwish naeza pata mzungu
Imagine naogopa mzungu siwezi lala akiwa karibu
Nobody is talking about how the interviewer is beautifully pg...kudos for the good work
Absolutely we wish her well in Jesus name
hahahaha Anna Nyaguthii we would be loosing focus of the guest's story. But you have a point, we appreciate that Wambui is not hiding this her pregnancy journey from us. All the best Wambui wa Mwangi
She is my neighbour ..meaning her hubby's place🥰🥰🥰
Toroka na watoto wako bana wataenda even the stories unapeeana utajinyonga bure the early the better achana na mzungu
She is a great story teller, despite the challenges she's going through... May she find happiness in her life.
Mum wazungu don't give money coz ulaya kuna equal rights. He is expecting you to work and help each other. I am married by mzungu but nafanya kazi ili nijifanyie mambo zangu
It's not equal rights, it's called equal opportunities my dear 👍🏿
Make a choice, and be wise Enough. Muthungu tiwe Ngai .. Hoya ngai akuonie njira
Aki how can someone live with a person who sees you as useless and nothing, someone who does not value you and he is your husband or wife, just love your self more and value yourself.
It's takes time to heal,,and to move out
She is a good story teller despite the challanges amepitia...all the best mama
Please leave and hide away from this narcissist. Please leave before you pregnant again. Good bless
🤣🤣🤣🤣she is from kiambu very sharp girl. Si kajinga hata mukimuona hivi
Ngai. Mutumia WA Muthungu🙆. The solution to your problems is within you! Make a choice my sister...
Well said ..
It is ONLY GOD WHO HAS the SOLUTION not man
Ndio huyu mimi hapa na mzungu wangu alikufa this year na shida yenye nimepatana naye nitafute nikupee story.
Woiye am sorry 😔 take heart. I would like to be your friend 💯
I have raised my 4 kids alone since my hubby died for more than 20 yrs now. When he died they took everything including money and l was a housewife but l thank God this far he is Ebenezer. I have sold fruits. Hawking, washing clothes etc and l thank God Atleast l didn't depend on a man. I can do any job as long as l don't depend on anyone. So sorry beautiful. Thank God that rent , food , fees are met...sisi nyumba tulizoea kulipa na fees na unga
Ooh dear, pole sana.
Ask for Wakili Ndegwa.
The one who helped Virginia Kamotho to get her kids back
Let me give you a little advice marriage does not matter mzungu, African or American what matters is who you get married to,you can even get married to your tribe and face more troubles than what you are going through
True! But i think there is a bizzarre fixation on 'mzungu' by some people, I think they think white people are special in some way? It's embarrassing. Watu ni watu..skin has nothing to do with it. Kama mtu ni mbaya ni mbaya, despite their skin colour.
Ata afadhali ungekaa na Nyakundi...
True 🥂
Very true
@@betty541 inaitwa white jesus complex. Minyororo ya akili
Despite everything she's such a good story teller 🥰🥰
What
She is , i can listen to her the whole day
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣uchio ni njoroge muthungu
I think by virtue of a long cohabitation with kids to boot you could be considered married. Your relationship was never based on love from both parties so I suggest you continue to persevere there for the kids sake but try to get something to occupy yourself and get some money. You are both using one another so get as much out of it as you can . Jaribu muwende kwenyu ama Kwa dC
@@marynjeri5176i have only listened like 3 minutes from where wambui apologizes on behalf of cow mowing
This lady is very pretty God remember her
True
Wazungu are so stinjy ..u are a good story teller ..may God see you through qnd your babygals
Let's not judge may God be with you and walk with you,she is a good story teller👍
It's important for our young girls to learn that Jesus only recognises the first marriage. Dont be cheated by any mam who is already married or divorced. Those who are not truly saved, have demons and will continue to cheat unless delivered. Veronica accepted to stay with this mzungu knowing very well he was married. Dont expect to be the special woman. In addition, our girls should finish their education first, get a good job and get married when mature like from 26 yrs. I hv watched many of Wambuis show and other shows and noted that girls are getting married at the age of 15 & 19 yrs thinking they are running from financial problems but end up miserable. Accept Jesus as your personal saviour and only depend on Him not men or people. Pole sana sister.
I tend to disagree with you on the issue of that God blesses first marriage
so we should wait till our partners kill us in the name of "God only recognizes the first marriage"??? there are so many marriages that are working even after they had divorced before ...
May will not agree with you but it's true that's was someone's husband she engaged with knowing that's very well,it's not right for what the guy is doing but is also good to reflect back on what you did ,repent,forgive yourself and ask God for guidance.
Yesu is a Mission allies demon ya kudanganya akili ya weusi.
Well articulated but it's like you have a perception of how things should work .. there are exceptions, for example she didn't wish to not finish school ,also circumstances kinda forced her when she lacked the basic need of shelter and food....
What is striking is her strong will and beauty.
court injunction to bar him from taking children out of the country without your consent and involvement is an urgent matter here please let's help her get a count order or we get pro-bono legal help or via government ombudsman.✍🏽📖💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Hugs Vero ,yaani napenda vile unaelezea. Your beautiful, I hope she can find a way to support herself financially. I love her story is authentic
So beautiful and wambui love your work!
Potea uende far na watoi! Acheni kusema mnawatumia muende ulaya! Without papers utaangamia huko and wazungu wenzake will not care! Oh my Goodness
You are such a beautiful girl,,,,na uko na a long way to go mamaa,,,never give up
She is very authentic.
This lady is so great if she can just get to being up her kids on her own no matter what she may go thru' my advice may b is if she can just decide to start again without fear of facing it especially the kids, just hide from the man n b safe with your kids , it may seem soo hard but has no regrets in future, try girl try n all the best you are a worrier
I love the story! Life ya wazugu Yawa, 🤣, You're beautiful girl!
Most of Wazungus don't give women money..girls should be cautious...but if she could find her way to live in Netherlands she has all the rights and support being a mother of Dutch children.
True..
Mzungus in africa hukunja kutumia watu. But Most fools suffer from white jesus complex
Very touching story but be strong,,,me I'm married by white na ako very cool na i thank God because all time anakuanga my side
This is so sad!This beautiful girl has been through alot!I pray that you find stability and ability to leave that toxic relationship.
Ladies get empowered, so that you don"t have to force yourselves on men who don"t care about you!
True.
Dat very true
A man will get away with whatever you allow him to do. You allowed him to play you, you allow him to control you, you will continue to suffer until you take control back from him. One of those ways is earn your own money.
Kairitu, I wish you all the best, mzungu anamfaitia mtoto wake kabisa! Hope you get a good lawyer
She is such a great story teller
I have a white husband (he is 36, I am 32. We have been married for 4 years after dating for 2 years). When we met, I already had a masters degree.
After marriage, we moved to his country and because he wanted to empower me, he encouraged me to go back to school and he paid for my 2nd master’s degree (May I add that we’ve always had a joint bank account because he did not want me to feel like I was lacking anything). He would even take days off from work to stay with our baby, while I study for the exams. My first job interview, he rehearsed with me for hours! I got that job(in a field I am very passionate about) I had not even graduated when I got the job. He believes in me more than I even believe in myself.
I honestly think being white or black does not define an individual.
Hey siz don't mind about that mzungu husband of yours claiming you take a matatu about Uber simplicity is the best thing ever remember you yourself where you come from and where you are heading to
My sister you are married to gikuyu guy. He must be born in cities. Yes when you are married by a luo guy but not a gikuyu. In gikuyu culture men speaks women make food and children.
I Truely second you JH, it depends on individuals who choose to be human or in human, we cannot put everybody in the same sac, but we should consider red flags
I second you my sister 👏🏾 not all white men are bad,iam married to a Dutch guy and i can’t complain
@@priscillanjenga7581 wako better 100% times than gikuyu men.mzungu can cook for, clean house for you.they are very romantic compare with gikuyu men commander in chief .they put their ass down waiting women to cook. I hate this!!I can live without a mzungu
Take heart dear, it is well, ciana ni ciaku he cannot be granted their custody, huku ni kenya si ulaya,
She is wow ..veroh big up . And wambui kazi safi💋💓💗💗💖❤💯💥👊👊👊👊
Mimi kama ni wewe I'll run 🏃♂️with my kids heri niende nika hustle Turkana. This wazungu sio mchezo.
Anamalizwa akicheza mzungu adui yako milele na milele
hawa wakikuyu watatuonyesha mambo hii ndunia
These foreigners are so so good to see of us,,and some of us are crying...
We are never equal..
Its not about the mzungu, men are men! The moment you put your self worth aside and decide to sleep with anyone just so you can be accommodated and maybe cover yourself from the shame of going back to your parents you've lost it and it will take you more than you can imagine to regain your dignity in that mans eyes, him sleeping with your relatives and you still there🙆 wangekuwa wangu they'd be in Kimende Primary. Wueeeh! You got strength mama. May God see you through.
You sound like a very strong lady, l know you will make it without him.
Waooooo very true 💯💯💯💯
Sister and aunt from the devil. Whatever you sow you will reap. I hope that guy does not steal those kids from her. May the God of justice fight the battle for you.
You never put boundaries especially towards your family members
Kikulacho kinguoni mwako?
You open your doors to the demons!!!
Not all family members are bad,some r very good,the bad ounce,avoid them.
The mzungu never loved her lakini mweusi mpumbavu yesu mzungu aliwaroga
God is the answer to everything just surrender to him with Thanksgiving. he will do good to you because he cares.
Huyu Dem ni comedy 🤣🤣 Dem wa muzungu but huyo alikuwa masikini muzungu
She is very passionate woman I love her spirit...if you can help her in a legal way kindly help her
The first time this guy saw you , he knew he can manipulate you because of who you are . May God open your door. He knows exactly what he’s doing.
Ps for all those commenting here that she was after money , listen to the whole story, he went looking for her . He needs to know his day is coming . There are good men out there and there are bad ones . May God locate you .
Sad story. May you get something to do and stabilize.. I wish once you are a bit stable you can leave.. Even if it means lowering the standard and changing the school, to keep your children safe... than losing them..Also it messes you mentally to be in this kind of relationship... JUST KNOW you are so pretty and a happy soul. I pray that things work for you and God make away. 🙏
You are a beautiful young lady, I hope you get help and fight for the rights of the kids. For your sis and aunt wangonje karma.
Pole Sana kwake, she is a wise girl she is speaking a lot wisdom
We all make mistakes, I wish you the best, may God protect Ur kids. You shall overcome ... Trust in God.
This gal is such a hilarious lady,😁😁😁
🤣🤣😅😅this is for the best story telling character😭
Simple and clear story
For now thank God for whatever little assistance you are getting from him. If he is not torturing you physically, hide the kids documents and teach them to be contended with what they have. "bibi ya mzungu" isikusubue saana develop shock absorbers and say there is no difference; whether black or white all are men.
I really feel for her and I believe a good lawyer can take this issue based on his immorality he can't be trusted with a girl child.
They were both immoral. The man for sexual favours the woman for comfort. There was no marriage, just a convenient relationship as with many others we have nowadays
Haha Dunia ni ndogo😂😂...Vero tulifanya marketing Vikings uchumi house tukiwa na Ivy and the rest😂😂😂...such a bubbly and cute lady ...Vero ukisoma hii comment salimika sana.
😅she is a story teller,haay....be strong mamaa..may God see you through
She needs to start recording everything what that mzungu is putting her through for a strong evidence to defend herself with in court .
Sure
Indeed
I feel sorry for you little gal, I can assure you that not all mzungu are bad, I was married by a Kenyan and
I went through hell for a whole year. He was bitting me like daily after a small argument, everything I bought in that house with my own money he could make sure he break them every time we had a fight, sometimes he could hammer my toes, throw a knife to me, sometimes he could pour the food I cooked on the floor, ... The list is endless.... , I saw I was not worth or this disrespect and I left, but I can say by good luck I got a boyfriend from Netherlands and he is soo respectful, caring and loving.He has taught me how to be independent, how to love myself again, computer skills, driving, how to do business and through him I got back my self-awareness, respect and at this time I can't allow any bullshit or disrespect from anybody, irregardless whether you are my friend, family member my happiness comes first. I can say that it was a bad luck for you to be married by an animal, this is not a human being, he just wanted kids from you and nothing else. Don't allow again people to bring you down because you are the one who is giving them all freedom, take heart and start a new life.
No sex tourist is a good man.
God is good your comments gives me hope been through the same and more he could brought in women to the house we we're splitting rent,countless times I slept at chief office with my daughter..it's 2yrs now since I walked away and vow never to look back..may God remember me also and bless me with someone who will love me unconditionally 🙏
@@Shikuwanjoki trust in the process dear, the God who gave you courage to leave your toxic ex-husband will provide you with your other half and its good that you have learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship, love yourself more and always enjoy life whether you have money or not, peace of mind and freedom is priceless. Take care and good luck
*regardless
Haki what a complicated story. Sasa ikifika hapa mtu hufanya nini? Watoi in an expensive school so huwezi toka kwake. Now what to do? Mungu tu afungulie njia
What I can say she is cute and young .fight for your kids mum till you win .good luck
It's not about whether muzungu or not..It's all about personal character
May God bless you young lady with a very beautiful heart. God will make a way and everything will be in Control. We never judge coz what goes around,comes around. Today it's her ,tomorrow me so we just need to pray for each other. Amen 🙏
Pole sana, you can be a good story teller. May God see you through
😂😂🤣such a good story teller ..huyu afungue CZcams channel
I wish you can get a way to come here in netherlands,because here you have alot of rights to be here with your Kids and he has to support his kids.
She should go straight to the embassy in Nairobi. For sure they will help
Exactly, because she has Dutch kids,and that guy has no right to treat her the way he’s treating her .
Can you inbox me plizz
@@gracemaina673 I would advocate for this too coz in Holland, schools are free, insurance is affordable, support from the state is available and she can look for a job or train in her preferred career. I hope the children have Dutch passports and if not, they might require an acknowledgement of paternity to establish if the hubby is the father more so if the children were born out of wedlock.
@@priscillanjenga7581 its true,
At times having relatives, friends in your home when you are married is a recipe for disaster, help them at a distance
Oh plizzz the mzungu is the issue here hampendi mweusi asipolala na relativ atalala na wengine. Black women tuwapende wenzetu .
@@cytkl ata relatives ni shinda mbona wakubali kulala na yeye ...I don't blame mzungu I blame the desperate relatives Kasia tu
True
Am following and after some time you bring her again to tell us what happened coz it's as if she can't move out but it's good to prevent than cure siatoe kids Nairobi aende nyumbani without minding what people will say aai Sasa anangoja watoi waende Netherlands aanze kulia huku na hajui how soon 😱
Woooi mama shunga sasa kunyanganyua watoto heri yote ukose na uichi na watoto... njipange pole pole...Naa utafaru but hapo hakuna maisha...omba sana Mungu akufungurie njia mama.
Pliz take care don't and never give those documents to this man Kuna rafiki yangu alinyang'anywa watoto hivyo tu it's not easy
Ilike this testimony coz it proves you reap what you plants.
Bt ilike our mountain life full of genuinity.
Wambui May God protect you and your family,May God bless you and your family, May your pocket's Never lack in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 ❤❤❤❤❤
She is a good story teller fungua you tube channel we follow you there more stories.....sorry for what you've gone through
May Jehovah lord be with you, with your little innocent kids 🙏.
Muthungu ucio ti muru Tondu Niragura irio wee niwe kiguta urenda guikara maisha maiguru.tena ujue huyo mzungu ni kenya kimbo amechanuka sana.hawezi kuwa fresh ideas. My dear menyaga uhikitio ni njoroge ti muthungu ucio ni muchanuku muno
Waaaah pole sana my sister Kwa yale umepitia juu ya family yako.
My life lesson is usikae na mwanaume bila pesa Yako...they will never respect you and his family will beba you as the man does....siwezi aki I learnt the hard way...
But my African sisters please let's give ourselves a bit of dignity. Why run after these men? They will misuse and disrespect you. They think we are useless don't give them such a chance
Tob cohen and sarah cohen story has a lot of lessons for dutch men and mountain ladies....not all that glitters is gold
Ng’ombe kama itige kwania wee wa mwangi
I would rather get married to mzungu than my fellow okuyu. Sarah stayed in comfortable zone thinking is for her.kama mimi ni Sarah ningekuwa na Mali mob kuliko huyo mzungu uojorithie na pesa kidogo and you reach hata yy akuheshimu.unakaa maisha ya kizungu na Huna pesa zako.i am richer than my husband. I used him to buy 12 plots .saa hii kenya na earn 40k so nikirundi nina hela zangu bila joined
@@janewangombe5668 Nice uko wise,na umejipanga
@@janewangombe5668 akili mtu wangu👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@janewangombe5668 key words "I used him to buy 12 plots". So you are a user, not a genuine lover.
She is beautiful and funny alltogether
May. The lord see you through and fight for you dear. You are beutiful n ambitious. God will bless you.
Many women think a mzungu is a demi god😌empower yourself first before giving yourself away to someone..if you have nothing going on in your life, you will stomach any B/S from anyone
Wazungu are simply the best because of their culture despite they don't give you money. They help you to look for a job and have your own thing different with gikuyu men.gikuyu men want to control you never haver have anything you own zote ni zake na akipata pesa ana marry second wife mzungu don't that
Mzungu mkora ni mkora .ukiona mzungu analala na your sister and aunt don't allow him to be with your daughters.
Mzungus are pure evil lakini mweusi mpumbavu.
@@cytkl yes wazungu they are pure evil because you don't know their culture. Wazungu and their culture are simply the best.in wazungu culture women are not given money because you don't own.it is abusive to give money to a woman. In wazungu culture woman and men are equal. I am married to a mzungu 21yrs and he doesn't give me money infact I do help him to pay bills because I work and I am left with a lot of money.
@@janewangombe5668 thats why He is with you because you are foolish. 🤣🤣🤣 unasaindia mzungu Saindia waafrika wenzako. But maybe wee ni aria mahoyaga jesu muthungu. Mentally enslaved selfhating fools
Ciku thanks for sharing your story. May God remember you 🙏
You are not alone some Kenyan men are worse than huyo mzungu
Nice for the information,may God bless u ed see u Through.
That lady should look for fomer inoro presenter waithira muithirania ed she will help her to secure her kids Custody, wambui wa mwangi hawezi kosa number ya waithira,hope she get help
wambui I can't believe i am watching this 2 years later and feels good still. Hiyo ngombe in background chukueni panga mwende hapo kando ya bárbara mufyeke manyasi mrushe thru fence itawapea peace and love❤
Wewe madam be careful the mzungu will kidnap his own kids . Meanwhile let the embassy know your fears
Aki so true🙏
Atammaliza. Kaa wengine huku ulaya
One thing that you don't understands, there was no Love ,no marriage ,you was just a house girl ,then it happened that you get children with him
Exactly mweusi hanjui mzungu anamtumia tu hakuna mapenzi
Very true
Hi, my dear sister ,,,let me tell there is God of another chance,,,,mungu atachuka na Malika wake
Story ni tamu🤗Wacha nikae chini vizuri
She is a good woman.. she is in pain. May God heal her and give her a breakthrough.
You are young try get wakili Ndegwa he can help you.
Wambo you are a gem enlightening young ladies and our ladies in general
Can relate..but atlist your kids are big enough now you can find a job and take care of them usijali wataenda shule gani..but am sure he'll take of them ata ukitoka..so stay strong usikae apo utazeekea apo n the way you're beautiful..