6 Signs You're Depressed, NOT Selfish
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- Depression doesn't just warp your sense of time; it also prevents you from seeing the world clearly. You’re so distracted with your thoughts that it feels impossible to focus on anything else. So, how can you explain that you’re not being selfish but are merely undergoing an endless, difficult period? In this video, we’re going to discuss the signs you’re depressed, NOT selfish. This video is also intended for you to know that your experience is real and valid, and you deserve love just like everyone else.
DISCLAIMER: This video is for informative and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling.
We also made another video on the signs you're depressed, not lazy: • 6 Signs You're Depress...
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Do you think that I have cause to be depressed? All of this death and betrayal happened to me in 2017: 1) My
beloved father died in slow agony from an incurable disease while his evil
abusive wife made the situation much worse as my father was hen pecked and his
evil abusive wife had power of attorney. 2) I lost the woman I wanted to marry
when her mother secretly blacklisted me on the false charge that I had sided
with her ex-husband's hidden history of child abuse and then the sister of the
woman I wanted to marry fixed her up with another man while I was with my
father on his deathbed. 3) The nearly 90 year old grandmother of the woman I
wanted to marry (who is the mother of the father who had a hidden history of
child abuse) who said to me "We are adopting you." and I called her
grandma and looked up to her as a religious leader, made a disgusting pass at
me during a church service and at her home which I mistakenly thought of as a
god granted sanctuary when it was really a trap when her recently divorced son
with a hidden history of child abuse moved in the year before. 4) A close
friend I was renting a room from betrayed me 3 months before my father died
when he brought in a dangerous convicted felon who threatened me and when the
police did nothing to help me, I had to move out quickly to protect myself.
There is even more to this story, it is complicated. Yes, I am talking to a
councilor. I also have a friend about 700 miles away who has been through
equally terrible trauma of death and betrayal. We both agree that it annoying
when people give a knee jerk response to this level of death and betrayal
"You'll get over it.". It especially annoying when they say
"You'll get over it." when their father is still alive and they are
happily married with children. I just want to tell them to shut up unless they
have been through equally terrible experiences of death and betrayal.
Hello
@@davea6314 ye life is not a fairy tale , here on this world always bad things won , thats just broken useless world on that we live , but you have decision about your life , you can escape every time you need
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How do I defy gravity then? Cz yknow, I'm kinda attached to the ground 😛🥵
Now I kind of understand why everyone hates me and I suck at socializing...
Thanks for sharing. Did you relate to this video?
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The fact my mom knows I have this, yet still calls me lazy, and threatens to take away my possessions then wonders why I’m upset. She doesn’t understand that it doesn’t just go away like that and never comes back and even if I told her to her face I doubt she’d even remember by the next day.
Relatable man, i told my mom that i could possibly i have a mental illness but she said the exact same thing as what the video said. Maybe it's just me being selfish but after seeing this video, i have made a conclusion that i do have depression ;-; but ofc, you're not alone, and i hope you are well💖
Well my mother calls me lazy by saying that these things only happen in movies.
@@amal-wu1sy she ain't a believer then. Jeez what's with adults these days :/
@@anniesyazana415 can't blame her, I'm an INFJ, I don't really open up well too.
Another one of these moms i see them everywhere, god damn i hate these people. they dont even try to understand or at least google search
they think "if you have depression just be happy"
Depression is a real thing, shame on those who joke about it or are mean to others that have it or see someone struggling
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@@ralphmarbler27 Did it
I'm depressed and I joke about it myself lol
If they joke about wait until it happens to you because once depression grabs hold of you won't be laughing any more
1. You constantly withdraw.
2. You feel down despite everything else.
3. You overly talk/joke about suicide.
4. You don't remember 'the before'.
5. You don't care. Nothing matters.
6. You consider your feelings more than others.
(: take care
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thank you :)
@@Jayleneee.3
I hope my brother see this. He doesn't talk to us that much anymore. He's withdrawn eventhough we reach out to him. I'm worried because I'd been through depression and I now see all the signs to him. 😔
Send him a link and tell him do me a favor and watch. You need to be proactive
Off topic but who's on your pfp, Is it Mark ?
Hope you and your brother the best
Hey there. Keep trying with your brother. Keep studying with how to help. Get your family to read more information too. If you can, keep us updated - thinking of you all. Sending you love from the United Kingdom x
Help the best you can, you can send him the link, but just be careful not to lose yourself while trying to help him, I lost both my sisters cuz of that, they tried so hard and didn't see results from me and they just couldn't take it anymore, now they barely/don't talk to me anymore, I hear abt them through my mother, so just be careful otherwise your brother will be even more isolated and lonely if he loses you and he'll think it's completely his fault even if he tried his best also.
Anyways good luck, I hope it goes well for you both
*6 signs you’re depressed, NOT selfish*
0:54 - You constantly withdraw
1:17 - You feel down despite everything else
2:12 - You overtly talk about suicide
2:59 - You don’t remember “the before“
3:28 - You don’t care. Nothing matters.
4:15 - You consider your feelings more than others
A big virtual hug to those relating to these signs. I hope you will be smiling soon ❤️🍀💪🏻🌈
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Thank you!
Thank you gives virtual *hug*
спасибо мужик
Thank you :)
i hate how my mom tells me everyday i’m selfish when i just feel empty
Same
thats fucked
she wanna drag you with her so she won’t feel alone.
Us.. 🫂
recently i started a therapy session to a psychologist, and she said that i have a serious depression, social anxiety, social phobia, and i do self harm too (im suicidal 😀), i’ve always felt like that, but it got worse in the past few months and now i go to the psychologist twice a month, but i realized that this is helping me a lot, finally someone told me “yes, ur right, you are depressed and im here for help you” instead of “you’re so weird, why don’t you hang out with your friends( friends lol😀), why don’t you stop looking at those stupid japanese cartoons, you don’t do anything all over the day, how can you feel tired?” and stuff. for the first time i feel understood, not alone and someone is really helping me. im 15 but i’ve always felt like this since i was like 5/6😀, i did it all by my self and if i think im a burden i also think that im strong at least. i really think i can do it :( pls guys just keep going, i really hope you can be fine and safe :( luv you😤😤
I hv social anxiety aswell even in online class i'd rather stay quiet
OMG... That's too emotional ... I really hope you being great and safe 💝 I really appreciate you ... Please take care of yourself it's just a period of time and all of that will be a memories 💞
Hey, idk if u need to hear this, but I'm proud of you 💜
I feel like I have the exact same things too and my parents already took me to a psychologist since I cam't call anyone myself or even go there alone and he also said that I have depression, although I became allergic to my anti depressants and my therapist quit his job after I visit him 3 times so here I am, back in laying in bed all morning until 16 to achieve absolute nothing all day :D
Yeah you can do it ! We can do it
What does it mean when you feel as if you’re losing your sanity?
Existential crisis.
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It means you're becoming evil
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you're lost, you don't know what to do anymore. you need rest for a while, you'll be okay soon.
"Depression is not selfish. Anxiety is not rude. Schizophrenia is not wrong. Mental illness isn’t self-centered, any more than a broken leg or the flu is self-centered. If your mental illness makes you feel guilty, review the definition of “illness” and try to treat yourself with the same respect and concern you would show to a cancer patient or a person with pneumonia."
you mean continued to have 0 respect , ok no problem
Very enlightening .
It’s not your fault but you are responsible if you blow up on someone that was acting normal.
My parents say being Depression is being selfish and it's just painful...
Doesn’t help that I try not to acknowledge when I’m sick because even that feels like I’m being selfish and self centered and that I’m just bothering people with unnecessary or over dramatized “problems”
Depression is quite complicated and scary. If you’re depressed, just know you’re not alone. It’s quite literally caused by some disabilities.
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This made me feel worse because I was born slow and I'm depressed because I will never amount to anything.
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 if you don't beleive in yourself there's no hope don't be scared your not alone don't think that we won't understand we will i will we can talk if you want don't be too hard on yourself love yourself
Is it normal to feel as a burden for peoples around you? Like whenever I sit at my family dinner table, I think about how they are wasting money on food/electricity/ water on me, I never do anything, never participate in family conversation, never done anything significant for my family or ever achieve anything as great as my brother and sister did. Or whenever my friend inviting me to go out, I feel as if it is out of pity, and/or they are forced to be with me. I don’t know anymore
Me too! I really struggle with these kind of feelings, especially after I fight with my family...but believe me, you deserve everything great, just the fact that you're around is enough.
I am sure your existence alone is a blessing for your family & friends, after all u were given the present of life for a reason. I know how u feel bc i felt the same a while ago but just remind yourself of valuable moments you share with others. You should never understimate the value of a human life for the people around u. But you also should never forget to do things for yourself bc this is your life and you choose what to make out of it.
Hope i could help
i do ghink like tgis but pls dont think like thiss. sometimes appearing in a dinner is gd enough too. u may return to them later too
??? I want to know why compare or even try to compete with other people ? 🙄 You all are probably really different in hobbies, jobs, and even dress (fashion sense). I would just try and be yourself and maybe seek professional help especially if it is not do to being sick(injury)., I know when I shattered some bones in my hand ,I went through something like that. My hand is fine and
it's my dominant one .I had a great surgeon and worked really hard to get .it back in shape.
Yes this is normal. My family and friends constantly have to reassure me that I’m not bothering them but I still feel like a huge burden
One of the worst perils to carry is losing yourself, losing yourself to the point where you no longer have a memory of who you were. This, together with loved ones giving up on you because your predicament has become a losing battle for them gives new meaning to being lost.
This level of being lost while existing from day to day is the embodiment of grief, pure grief. The years go by so fast, that the only way you can explain having slipped into this hellish experience is, gradually then suddenly.
*EATEOT flashbacks*
I dont remember who I was before- I dont know when I just can't really remember when I think about it. I know what I did but I don't know what I was like. I think some of my coping is to forget things too. I can't really tell but I'd assume so due to gaps in memory. It doesn't help though. I can't figure out things like what happened, why I am the way I am or anything because I hardly have any memories. I'm so young but I still struggle to recall a few years ago. I also hate that whenever I try to look toward the future, for something better, I can only find the worst outcomes. It's like I'm stuck in misery and nothing happens in the now to subside it. Almost like I hardly exist, my past is over and forgotten, my present is empty and my future looks the same way.
I'm sorry I started venting, things just started coming out. I'm tired
@@fangborealis4629 it doesn’t seem right, but we have strength in numbers. This strength doesn’t save us from being lost, but maybe there’s comfort in knowing that we’re not the only ones feeling lost trying to figure things out. It doesn’t seem as though things will get any better, but there’s some peace in knowing and remembering we are not wondering around all alone in this abyss of nothingness.
It’s not a whole lot of positives, but understanding the pain we feel and why we feel it can be better than everything being a mystery.
I lost myself to the point where i dont feel alive, I dont know how to act, I dont know how to be me anymore.
I often question whether anything happens "suddenly"... especially in psychology. I doubt there's any "just one thing" that burns down your mental castle or emotional standing so that you wake up one morning and just like that {snaps fingers} you're officially depressed...
It's a series of things building up to whittle down your resilience, and often they're little things... Friends and Family consistently overstepping boundaries, regardless of their intent. It's still a broken boundary you were trying to establish... and however small the breech, they DID THAT TO YOU... BUT there's a lot more along the way... from the over-stepping to outright abuses and mistreatments, and it all reinforces thoughts that maybe you are more strain than you're worth or whatever other self depreciation you care to pile on there...
Then the "Suddenly" part isn't about it happening, but about you REALIZING just how far things have slid. It's like finding a Lucid moment or Waking Up to the fact that you've been abused, gas lighted, lied to, and sold out like junk by a lot of people over the years and now you're in a serious and severe mental health crisis because of all that, and NOT just because a significant other, parent, or close sibling or friend just died horribly... That kind of thing is only the trigger to the Lucid Moments...
It's too easy to shrug it off, "Yeah, my mom ransacked my room and made me clean it all up, even though we agreed she should stay out of it when I'm not home and even knock to get invitation so I can have SOME tiny piece of real privacy in my life... BUT she only did that because she really cares and worried that I'm addicted to drugs or internet porn. She must love me."
BUT no... If you established the boundary, you NEED it kept more than you need "Momma P.I." to make up excuses for treating you like a LITTLE child. Back when she had to clean up everything behind you, that was all part of the care for you... back when you were still just barely figuring the world out in the scale and scope of your household and maybe school... BUT ESPECIALLY teens need to start learning privacy and boundaries with others. It's not a "tit-for-tat" game either. It takes an investment of trust, even when you KNOW (as a parent) that the trust invested will get dinged up and bruised from time to time. They gotta learn somewhere and somehow.
...AND the parent (mom or pops) IS the adult who SHOULD ALREADY understand the values and importance of boundaries. There are far better ways to concern yourself with "checking up" on your kids. Addictions are fairly easily ferreted out... regardless of the addiction. Stooping to be "the bad guy" is going to accomplish little more than the resentment of the child, and that WILL be well deserved. ;o)
“You don’t care. Nothing matters.”
I think that’s just me having a crappy personality and my nihilism
I completly understand you I'm exactly the same
there is nothing wrong with being happily depressed
kek
blessings
Average Nihilism fan vs Average Hope enjoyer
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I hate how frequently my caring nature is overwhelmed with Fear and Resentment towards people, and I often keep to myself to avoid hurting them in any way.
I feel the same way
Me too
My problem is, more i realize or feel people around me are apathetic, more depressed i get.
Same problem
I experience this as well
I like to see depression as an evil doppelgänger of yourself who’s constantly bullying you and making your life as miserable as they possibly can
YES! You are definitely on the right track with this. I have it and hate the fact that the "bad" me is just as smart as the "good" me, and obviously knows all my secrets.
i would see it as something that would pull me down and not give the chance to do well in school and life
but again idk what i even feel so i wont say i am depressed
And they're wining
@@pheemer I hate how the "other you" is like that. It's just as smart and self-aware, it's like "Leave me alone, I get it. You know how to get me down." Or in my case it's like having a heated argument sometimes. Course the dark side tends to win if nothing is done.
The persistent feeling of sadness or loss of interest that characterises major depression can lead to a range of behavioural and physical symptoms. These may include changes in sleep, appetite, energy level, concentration, daily behaviour or self-esteem. Depression can also be associated with thoughts of suicide
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That is pretty detailed, are you okay?
Hmm I can relate but I'm giving up goodbye
I once want to commit suicide and i held the knife. At first i want to injure myself.it is a past memory. Now i just eant to see my good memories. But i didn't feel happy/ dont care about the memory, i just think that it is the past? It shouldn't get in my way. And i forgot something again
I always sending knowledge. But when people hold me back.like giving me warning to send it on another group. So im angry i just like want to kill/breaking something. I dont have a friend that truly know me. I just asocial and i dont know what to do. When i talk to someone i just cant think and i ignore them. Its a good thing that i still can have fun with my family. But there's some weird personality i just found myself and it is i like the music of violence, chaos and massacre. When i thinking about killing i just dont care. But i know its a sin to kill people. Should i go to therapist?
For those who are sad, depressed, single, unhappily in love: I love you.
I love you. You are so sweet.
You don't even know me
I have been dealing with Depression since I was about 12 years old. I am 19 and a few days ago a family member of mine told me to stop being selfish and that I need to wake up. It definitely motivated me but at the same time it made get into mind even more. It made me feel horrible knowing my struggles with mental health is coming off as selfishness to the people around me.
Thinking of that, i was so alone filled with constant painful thoughts that i couldn't have a good sleep. All i can say is, at that point of time i just needed someone someone who could listen to everything i feel.
I realised that letting it go is the best thing that could be done. I feel happy than before now. No matter, i do not blame, everyone have their own reasons, i just accepted and so moving on.
How did you let go ?
“If today’s the worst day ever, then tomorrow has to be better. Right?” Stay connected😀😀🍊🍊
It's just too bad that a new low always comes, right?
A few of the things I struggle with reminding myself the most: is social interactions aren't always positive they can be neutral. But if I'm depressed enough neutral even seems negative.
People aren't always in sync with each other. Mood impacts the energy being exchanged.
Topics I love can be weird to different people, they might not always know what to say and feel off put. I have no control over this, their emotions are not my responsibility.
Unless someone initiates it first do not discuss politics, religion, sex or pregnancy. Even then make sure you know how to steer away from those conversations; topic change.
I've noticed because I haven't been interested in anything I've been quite boring to talk to. That happens. I shouldn't feel bad. So I won't make myself feel bad.
Self-love is super important for surviving a depression episode.
For some people it's really easy to find similar interests with, that's the exception at the rule. Socializing is work. Relationships are work. Everything takes a type of coordination and energy. And it's okay, when you try your hardest that it doesn't work out. It's not a failure. Human interaction is more complicated than what people give it credit for.
I am saying these things mostly to myself but for anyone else that needs to hear it.
I hurt a lot.
Sometimes the happy experiences might not always be easy to access in memory. I know they're there though. I'm ready for the next one.
Ahh thank you this resonates so much UwU *sends hug*
I hope everyone is doing well
We always have a way to escape this dystopia
Just remember, hope is always around you ❤️❤️❤️
Nope I'm to hopeless to be cured.
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 uhhhhh so you wanna be emo or maybe soend some time on gaming idk.
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 uhhhhhh
@@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475 Lots of hugs \o/ \o/ \o/
I personally have been doing a lot of research, and so far I'm showing a lot of symptoms. But, I have related to this video a lot. I just want to thank you for taking your time and to help people with their mentall health. Have a nice day.
Get professional help dude, I'm sure that will help :) we all have issues and it's super important to have therapy or visit a psychologist every once in a while
I love this channel so much, it makes me feel like I'm not alone with my problems
We hope this video helps :) Did you relate to these signs?
@@Psych2go yea but I've also been diagnosed with severe depression 2 years ago, but the vids on this channel always make my day a bit better.
@@creeperkitty0576 hey, we're here with you. I might be gone soon but the whole Psych2Go community is with you. ❤️
@@nakshatramusic21 are you okay? Do you need someone to talk to?
@@creeperkitty0576 no I'm not. Thanks for asking though you warmed my heart 🥺❤️
I read the tittle as "6 signs you're not depressed, you're selfish" WHOOPS
Lmao same I think I really need some help 🔪😭
I did the same but with the video about signs that you are depressed, not lazy, and I was like "hey, I know that!.. Oh, wait, I read it wrong... ._."
oh shit
Same
I can relate to all of this and didn’t realize it. I always thought I was selfish and lazy because I only thought of my emotions. When I do talk about how I feel though no one is there for me. It hurts.
I know what you mean every time I tell my family about how I feel ,they think I am crazy,they don't believe me and make fun of it ,so I stopped telling them how I feel when they ask me ,and in this situation they think that i am acting just to seek attention , my mum once told me that I am a burden and she don't have time for "my problems" so since then I hide how truly I feel and pretend to be happy in front of them
Amanda Silvera you really got a God gifted voice which definitely can heal and sooth our mental health.
Who agree👇
1. You constantly withdraw 0:55
2. You feel down despite everything else 1:18
3. You overly talk/joke about suicide 2:18
4. You don’t remember the before 3:00
5. You don’t care nothing matters 3:32
6. You consider your feelings more than others 4:17
Thank you for putting them together
@@Simon0501 no problem!
the fact that i relate to literally all of these…
You're not alone...not at all
This channel really helped me a lot to identify other's feelings
Glad to hear that :) did you relate to this video?
@@Psych2go Yesss not just this video! And thank you for noticing me. I didn't expect that to happen.
My depression is due to dysphoria..
I'm 16 years old and i've been living with it my whole life
My parents are so religious and conservative
So they would never understand how i feel
My life is so myserable, i really wish i was born a girl...
If i take the desicion to quit this life, i just want to thank this channel for helping people, it means a lot and you really have a beautiful heart
I'm so sorry. I feel you. Why do you wish you were born a girl? How would it be different?
It always hurt, there's hope, but it always hurt. It's so easy to smile, yet it hurts even if you want to. It always fucking hurts and it always get worse.
I knew this was me, and I didn’t know how to explain it to my loved ones, especially my partner. I think this one says it all and I will undoubtedly be passing it on in hopes of being understood. Thank you for putting this video together. ☺️
My depression has come back so strong since moving out of my mom’s house. I feel like my friends have given up on me, sometimes I wonder if I meant to be alone. Anytime my depression has acted up, people disappear….
#4 is a big problem for me. I barely have any happy memories. All I can remember are bad things all the way back to pre-K and I'm 45 now. Having so many years of only bad memories in my head really takes a toll.
I’m so confused. Sometimes i have a thought that i should just enjoy my teen age as how am i supposed to enjoy it. But at the same time i also remember that i got a mom and dad to satisfy, whose had gave a lot of effort for me.
I just had the best Mandarin of my life.
Scrolling in CZcams to find something might to help me with this so much emotion inside me , and this video came up sooo I think God still love me and he want me to live my life more :’|
Oh, the animation and sound effects are just getting amazing day by day !!!
1. You constantly withdraw.
2. You feel down despite everything else.
3. You overtly joke/talk about suicide.
4. You don't remember the 'before'
5. You don't care. Nothing matters.
(Anhedonia).
6. You consider your feelings more than others.
Oh, well this is quite worrying
- Lots of love from me and Wario
My mum considers me selfish, though, I never felt selfish. Now I know it’s my depression that makes it act like this and I can actually work on it.
Thank you so much once again Psych2Go
Same
6 Signs that your DEPRESSED,not SELFISH
1.You constantly withdrew.
2.You feel down despite anything else.
3.You overtly joke/talk about suicide.
4.You don't remember the before.
5.You don't care,nothing matters.
6.You consider your feelings more than others.
keep fighting guys, trust yourself and hold on tighter in your life! God created you on purpose and that purpose is not to please the other people, be safe.
Thank you so much for making this video. This has basically been my mentality for the past year and it's really helpful knowing that this is normal for depression and I'm not being self-centered or holding grudges for the sake of holding grudges
“If you are reading this, you have survived everything life has ever thrown at you.”
I was crying through this whole video, trying to hide the tears from my mom☺️
Wear sunglasses
I really need to send this to my parents.... idk if they would completely understand but it's better than me telling them.
I just wanna thank this channel. I related to every sign in this video and i was always feeling burnt out or lazy and my parents would get mad at me. Heck this happened to me. I dont really know how to word this but, thank you for getting the thought of laziness out of my mind.
just wanna leave a quick appreciation for the art in this video, it was really beautiful
These videos always makes our days better
If you found this comment, God bless you and your family, stay safe and GOOD LUCK IN YOUR LIFE 🌷
This brought me to the verge of tears, thanks for the video
This is a seriously good video, and im gonna put it on my social media wall to educate those who care about me, about the magnitude of depression.
Psych2Go, you may not realise this, but not only you make my day, you are helping me get out of my depression. I don't know you (in real life), but, I would like to give you a virtual hug🤗
I actually was really open about having depression when I was in primary.
I joked about killing myself over and over, and once I actually pressured myself to do it.
I took the sharpest knife and I pointed it to my chest. I paused and then put it back.
TW for anyone, sorry for the late warning!!
I have experienced all these signs btw
I'm so sorry you feel like killing yourself. You don't need to go through that. You made the right choice. You almost do it, then at the last minute, you hesitate and stop yourself. Just know you're not alone and I love you my dear friend. You can call the suicide hotline at any time at 1-800-273-8255.
It's a wonderful thing that you added the music it makes the video interesting and less boring (tho your videos are very informative and has amazing animations) . Amazing video!
Just the fact that it isn’t just me helps me a lot. Thank you!
3:17 The thing is, according to my research, depression can also be caused by trauma/abuse. So, even if they were taking things for granted, it's probably justified.
Funny how this showed up in my feed right in the middle of such an episode. Man depression really sucks
Last one is the biggest problem to me. Whenever I try to make my mother understand what I feel, she says something ignorant, like "Why doesn't your college mates have a depression, but you do?" or "Everyone have a tough situations time to time, and they can handle them, why can't you?" or "Your doc said you'll be fine in a year, why you're not?!" My mind understands, that she's been ignorant, not mean, she loves me still, but my soul hurts so bad that I just bursts in tears, and she says I'm too sensitive and impossible to speak. I want her to support me, but I can't even explain her how.
Same, why can't I be as tough as my mom? I also don't like tough people much because they never try to understand.
The animation on this video is just amazing!
Mr Nugget hopes that everyone here has a great day!
I'm never lazy, depression sucks so I never stay that way very long, and whenever I contemplate suicide, I just think about all the A-holes still living out there that truly deserve to die. If each on of us just takes a few with us on our way out the world will eventually become a better place right? LOL
I appreciate this video very much. I am depressed and have been for a long time. If I thought I was ever selfish that would make things even worse
My family doesn't notice my depression. I've been called lazy, been told I don't care and have been called other names.
Hey
Whenever I hear the word "depression"
I get anxiety
Why?
All drawings are so amazing and detailed, good job artists!
I swear to God I love you I can finally feel that there is someone who understands me I have started watching your videos almost every day and I love it.
My parents dont help with my depression. They just get angrier and say stuff like "its because your not on your computer" and like they dont actually ask how I am feeling. They are very harsh, restricting parents.. What should I do? If i tell them that then they just yell at me
You can tell us
We will listen ❤️❤️❤️
Even if we know were depressed, how can we even get help when we bearly have time for ourselves, I'm rn struggling in school because of stress even though I have all A's I always think to myself if I'm not working hard enough and it's very exhausting to study for a test and the next day after the test I have to start studying for the next one. I just dont have the time to look from a professional for help! What's worse is that I know that they arnt free and I'm not gonna force my family to use money because I'm depressed...
Are you in the USA? Over or under 18 years old?
This video explains my current situation exactly. Thank you for your work.
It’s crazy to think how far your animations have gotten keep up the good work :)
I've just felt so burnt-out the past 2 years...and I don't know how to make my parents and family understand it, I've suffered with several issues that are still undiagnosed, even after I told my parents about my problems...
My mom is very religious, so she keeps insisting that I have to pray and ask for help, because that worked for her, and my dad is literally on the other side of the world...and even though he went through something similar, I just feel like he is guilt tripping me into getting better, instead of actually helping...
And I'm just so tired of making excuses...I wish I could make my parents feel the way I feel so they can understand why I act in the ways I do...
I'm a junior in high-school, I'm probably failing this year...
I always feel guilty for the way I act or react, but I just don't know or realize in that moment that I'm doing something wrong or upsetting...
If anyone else feels of felt this way, can you please like or comment or whatever, so I can at least know I'm not alone?
You're definitely not alone. Burn-out is a difficult thing to explain to people who don't get it, and it can last a really long-time. I've been feeling burned out for the better part of the last 5 years, and while I'm doing a lot better now than at the start it still has its really bad days.
I would definitely recommend seeking out a counselor or teacher at school to talk to if you're not sure how to do it at home, and honestly if you're having problems in school a little extra time there wouldn't hurt. One-on-one time with some of the teachers who might have a bit of psychology or counseling understanding (whether professionally or just from dealing with this personally) won't make the problems go away, but it will help to dull the edge of it. Its also entirely-normal to not want to talk too much, but being open about where you are and how you feel is incredibly-important.
And I definitely understand the problem with your parents not being able to help properly. People who want to help with depression, even some who have experienced it personally, are particularly liable to say the wrong things either by transmitting their own negative self-thoughts onto you (this was my problem, so maybe I can help you deal with it better than I did), or they focus too much on "fixing" things and not enough on "healing" them. People have a bad habit of trying to be surgeons or mechanics when dealing with depression rather than doctors. The good thing here, at least, is that you recognize what doesn't work for when you meet others with the same problems.
The best things you can always do with depression is to find people who are able to listen well to talk to (particularly if they don't need to fix you in the process), and learning how to think about your own thoughts. There is nothing as helpful with depression as being able to separate yourself from the negative thoughts you have, though it is a very hard thing to do and something you will have to do repeatedly. And for burnout, recognize that it's a twofold problem: the things that are draining your energy (and they're not always bad things, but they can still drain you), and not enough things that are refilling it. Passions are a critical part of living satisfied, and refueling us to deal with the rest of life.
Something I didn't mention before is that when my mom says I should ask for help, she means from God, and I do, but I'm still in my head when I do it, so it doesn't help with the panic...
But I want to thank Psych2Go for the amazing content and for the extremely supportive and welcoming community they created, I've said it in previous comments on other videos, but Thank you, none of your creators know just how much you touch all of us, and help us understand not just ourselves but others as well...you are all real life superheros.♥️♥️
(Even if you're on the other side of the world)
Much love from South Africa🇿🇦🌹
I create fake scenarios in my mind to make myself happy but it isn't working anymore I'm 20 years old having no Friends literally 0 friends noone really cares about me in my family I also have stammering problem and diagnosed with depression and anxiety everyone bullies me laugh at Me noone cares about me all I want is to just die in my sleep.
Even now I'm praying that I won't wake up in next morning :' )
It’s the fact that these videos understand me more than my parents
so.... when I searched "how to stop being selfish" that was the first thing that shows to me... and I relate to every single thing soooooo deeply. I'm kind of... satisfied that it's not just being selfish... but now we have a bigger problem to solve
Hi Pysch3Go, can you do a video on how to deal with a "depressed" friend? Im putting it in quotations as were not really sure if shes depressed or just attention seeking because all she does is rant about it, and its been years of being her "support friend" and "rant friend" and it has absolutely exhausted me and drained all my energy.
I feel you
yea i know someone whos like that.
edit: they also use emojis in their rants and stuff and its made me fucking despise emojis now
I tried telling my mom that I had depression once, but she called me ungreatful. LOL😂😭
Your mom just doesn't know what to say, so she comes up with an excuse to not deal with it. My sister does the same thing to her son, except her excuse is that he is just looking for attention. Many parents just have no clue on how to deal with some things, and because they are prideful, they don't want to admit that. So it's a good thing that we have videos like this to help us address these things.
@@Leoo117 The worst thing is if you actually have a problem people are to prideful to solve, but they make you believe you're prideful, instead.
Maybe because you're living a periode of talking about s*** and egocentrism, named teenage
@@Leoo117 thanks, you're probably right
It’s very kind and thoughtful you put up the suicide hotlines at the end. Thank you 🙏
loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty...
Depressed people aren't selfish.
Depressed people are self centered so they can survive
Suicidal hotline ain't changing anything, they act like they care, same like other ppl
Being dead is boring, though. You just sit there in darkness unsble to feel anything. At least when you're alive you can eat tasty food or sleep a lot.
I really appreciate this video. It makes me feel better and makes me understand myself more. Your awesome. Thank you. 🙂
Thanks for doing what you're doing, it is very important part to learning how it works and how to start getting over the problem.
My frndship for 6 yrs is almost ending,becuz I didn't respond to her calls and messages.Its not like I dont love her,but I cant talk or interact like before.But she dont understand this .So she texted me that she wont call or text me anymore
Now I'm even more depressed becuz my frnds put so much effort to talk to me but I dont even care abt them...I'm really being selfish!!,if its depression I need to stop this.Becuz my frnds are drifting apart from me🥺
How did you guys meet?
@@greatwavefan397 we are frnds since high school🙂
Why did u ask?
3:30 4:09 :my life
mine too (:
I am so happy I found you made this video
Thank you so much psych2go!
I have been in a depression for a long time without relizing it.
You're video helped me get help and I'm a lot better now!
Thanks!
You guy's should have your own Funko pop or Youtoonz figs 😊
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I feel awful for ending a friendship because I wanted to see and help a friend who was depressed. It made me depressed seeing my friend doing things on social media without contacting me, but its nothing compared to what my friend went through. I will regret it for the rest of my life
The timing could be more perfect. I’ve been feeling upset because I know I’ve been letting people down & it is hurting them. I am thankful for this video.
love the artwork in this video so far and the music I am 1:11 into it. I really love your channel you do a lot about depression, I would like to see you tackle different topics as Depression seems to be the bread and butter staple of the Psycho profession. But keep making these videos and I will keep watching them and stay subscribed :)
You made the best video I saw about that. It makes me understand more my friend that have it, and maybe thinking different ways to help he. I'm thankful.
Why did I relate to everything in the video. Now I’m over here bawling my eyes out and can’t stop.
I used to cry over Psych2Go videos too))) Now I'm getting meds, having a therapy, and I can finally watch videos about depression with dry eyes. Don't be afraid. And don't believe people who says you're just selfish. If you feel like there is might be something wrong with you - just ask a professional. That's a right thing to do.
I really appreciate all the videos because my sister and my mother are both really depressed so I try my hardest to understand what they are going through and I really appreciate everything:)