Dad when family comes over.
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- čas přidán 9. 03. 2024
- When we have family over, we try not to treat my dad any differently than anyone else. This is a pretty good example of what it’s like during a family function, or get together. Mark uses humor and my sister, tries to answer his questions as best she can.  Josh deals with him in a very similar way to Mark. Sometimes you just have to make light of the situation to get through it.
Sis has a good demeanor with Ed. She talks close to him, looks at him, speaks slowly and clearly - in short sentences and she's sweet in her tone. You can see she taught for years.
That’s about what I was gonna say. She is the best speaker and listener and has a gentle soul.
Which explains she was a teacher and I’m assuming she was great just as she was with him.
Yeap I observed that to
Yes, I noticed that too, I love her maybe it has something to do with her teaching skills as well, She's an awesome communicator and very sweet.
I think girls have special place for fathers in their hearts. I wanted to see their relationship.
Dan is caring for his Dad with all the love he can give him. Great Son.
I wonder how it was decided Ed would live with just Mark & Dan?
Thank u Dan and your beautiful Danielle. I felt so honored when u said Roll Tide Tony our precious dad Ed. I do have 2 wonderful grandsons who never got to meet my husband but they talk to me Granny about Grandpa Jack. ❤❤❤❤u and Danielle and the most important Grsndpa in your lives. God. Bless you All Joni 😂
Sorry don’t see well and did hit wrong keys don’t know a Tony
@@samanthab1923i was wondering about that too
I dont like Mark he is not kind the way he speaks with his dad
Considering he's 91 and with dementia I think Dr Ed is fitting in fabulously ❤ your family is BEAUTIFUL
He is 92 now! ❤
Grandpa is a gentleman. He wanted to take a cookie but opted to wait.
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Ed is blessed with INCREDIBLY LOVING KIDS!!!! MOST KIDS SHOULD LEARN FROM THESE KIDS!!! ED MUST HAVE BEEN A GREAT DAD!!
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Sadly all kids did not grow up with great parents like him… They don’t have to learn from these, if you get what I mean…
Do you call MILKING CZcams incredible .???
@@donnywenner4998they are educating viewers about day to day caring for a person with dementia imo❤
@@donnywenner4998seriously?? He is showing what it is like living and caring for a person with alzheimer. Dan attends seminars, what do you do to help or care for a loved one????
Thanks for sharing Dan! Beautiful family! I love how cute “sis” is with her dad!!! Precious! He looks at her with such love and tenderness
Thanks so much
Yeah so awesome to see the family. What a blessing!!! Cherish each moment ✨️ I wish I still had my parents but they are in heaven looking over.
@@dsalnorcal1434I watch from Belfast mate ❤
@@dsalnorcal1434you are the best son in this world.🇸🇳
sis is amazing , entire family is awesome..❤❤❤
😂❤ Grandpa "I'm still getting used to being retired"
I think Danielle is a very special person. The fact everyone is gathered at Dan and Danielle's house speaks volumes.
Dad did good. He went around and talked to everybody and he walks and he talks. That’s still the best part. It’s when they stop all that so I’m glad dad was having a good day.
Star comment for today! So true! He can walk and he can talk and he certainly can love and he does!
All his kids are educated and doing well, Ed and your mom really did a great job!
Did they all stay instate for college?
Well, Mom did a great job! Ed was with another woman. Danielle's Mom! Left Joann with five young kids for a younger woman & didn't see his five kids much at all! But God bless Dan & Danielle for taking care of him!
Even through all of Grandpa's dementia, I can see the love he has for his children. There's one thing dementia can't steal from Grandpa and that's the deep love he has for his children ❤️❤️ I love you grandpa 🥰
he is a gentleman in all aspects , very kind and lovely person ..
I think pop did a great job of fitting in. He showed interest. He didn't sit in a corner by himself. ❤
Yes a lot of people with dementia would have done just that, he did very well.
MARK IS A DOCTOR???????WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW JUST ASKING?????????
I’m a real fan of Sis. The way she is with Ed is so loving ❤
As far as your dad not having a great day is subjective. To us, especially to the ones who lives or lived with loved ones with dementia or who sees his interactions, sees this as a good day. He didn’t go off to his bedroom or wanting to leave the area with people. Our dad would isolate himself either in his bedroom or in the garage (we’d go out with him). He was highly agitated, would punch or hit mostly things but also us. All I can say is to all of the dementia family caretakers, cherish the good times. Even when you have to answer the same questions repeatedly! Love them for who they are to you and who they were before dementia. Tell them you love them because before you know it, they’ll be gone. Then you’ll wish for just one more minute to see them again. Ok, I’m done…as I’m crying.
God bless you 🙏 you are the greatest
"... cherish the good times..." your encouragement is priceless. My dad is 96 and this applies to our family.
Thank you❤
I was happy to see that she kissed her father ❤
She is lovely isn't she 😊
@@senorra941 yeah she looks like a very nice lady just loves her father ❤️
And he kissed her cheek too
Me too! A hug and a kiss, means a lot!
Grandpa is just a caring and loving dad ..❤
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He raised them very well and now they takecare of him.great family.
Even on his not so good days, Grandpa Ed is going to know Dan's mom 🥰
Ed is enjoying the conversation and his family give him a cookie please.
Mark seems pissed 😡
No he doesn't lol ^
@@kylah.3061YES HE DOES
Yep @@wrtp1008
This family is from heaven! Thank you for reminding us that there are some FEW good people like you exist in this troubled world. God bless you guys!
At 4:20 you see grandpa still has the 1 on 1 skills of a professional.
4:20 Yes, I can see what Dr Ed might've been like when a patient would come into his office with a medical issue and he would likely have been very attentive and understanding. Not like doctors of today who keep you waiting on them and then rush when they examine you.
What a lovely man. You can see why his children are so successful and kind.❤
Tank you Dan you are a good person may God bless you
You really take care of your father
He's actually doing quite well interacting great to see
Yes I don't get why he thought Ed was struggling. Unless he just didn't realize he didn't show that part of the video. Looks like he was enjoying himself and looking forward to that cookie 🍪🍪🍪 mmm!!
Dan you’re so good with your dad I just really appreciate the way you just treat him like “hey Pop”
Beautiful family, great support group. I know all families have issues here and there but your family really has come together for your Pop's golden years. ❤
Even thru all the dementia he still always worrys like a father does abt how well the kids are doing❤❤
He fits in perfectly, I LOVE how he's concerned for others!!! We all should be like Dr. Ed.
Gotta love him.
Dan you truly are a wonderful son to pops. You are exactly who he needs in his day to day life now!
It's all good Dan! Grandpa is healthy, grandma is healthy, Sis and Mark are healthy, Grandpa is happy to see Sis and both Sis and Mark are so patience with grandpa! And most importantly, grandpa can eat cookies! Wishes you and your family happy and good health!
Ed is a lovely man and he really try’s hard to chat. Bless him.
Dan, despite dementia, Grandpa Ed is doing an amazing job with the family gathering. That is one of the most difficult scenarios for dementia patients!! So proud of him!! ❤️❤️❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes. I agree.
It is obvious he has a hard time hearing. So when there is conversations around him, it's even more difficult to hear what people are saying. So inspite of this, he really stayed engaged in his conversations.
Sis is an absolute beautiful human being, she's so patient and such a loving lady 💗
Bless him, he’s really trying to fit into the conversations even though, as you said, he’s not having the best day
Grandpa is really blessed to have you Dan by his side❤
It's hard for him to be in a crowd, trying to place everybody and keep the thread of a conversation. Bless his heart, his love shine through.❤
Ed is so fortunate to have such a loving family and for you Dan, taking care of him in your home. We should all be this fortunate at 90+. ❤️
Looks like Dad is enjoying himself, with his family. I especially love the father daughter inter action, I'm a only girl with three brothers so I totally know the specialness of the bond between a father and daughter So beautiful! Blessings to all of you!
We learn so much from your videos. For us that have loved ones that suffer from this thing called dementia. Love you all and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for taking the time to share your experience with us.
Mark is hilarious.
Sweet interaction with Sis🩷
Everyone needs a t shirt that has their name, occupation and relationship to him. So sweet how everyone is so patient with him.
Such a wonderful man, even his 91 with dementia wow may God bless you all ❤❤❤❤❤
I just need to mention how I love Mark’s input to the conversation “ Occupation Fool” ❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ed is always concerned when he hears someone is retired 🤣 he’s got that capitalistic spirit.
Wondering if you've got enough $ to make it? Lol. My Dad used to throw a dig at me when I retired at 61- "So you left sooner than you should have didn't you"? Lol.
But HE retired at 62
I like that he’s always concerned about their pensions 😂
@@samanthab1923 lmao, the man sold his house and car…put the money from that in his bank, and is still concerned that he doesn’t have any money 🤣
@@maxdslr They say when seniors get up there, they only care about money & sex! 😆
Awe Ed is such a sweetheart and always worried how everyone is doing. Wants the best for his family. ❤ thanks for sharing Dan
As a teacher myself, I can see that Sis’ teaching skills are still shining bright, even though she retired years ago. Once a teacher, always a teacher. Most of us are born nurturer’s at heart. 👩🏻🏫👨🏫
How do u guys resist giving that sweet old man hugs all the time❤
Jolly gpa❤....Mark distant. Dan doing a great job❤
Dad has generations before him, and he looks to be overwhelmed, yet so elated. I like the question that Mark posed to Dad, referencing if he would like to choose another family other than the one he has, and Dad so candidly answered no, not at all!
Such a wise man, who doesn't let his illness determine whether or not he can still give logical and concise responses to even the most important questions when asked his opinion.
The moments you all share together are precious and priceless. #CHERISH
Let nothing interrupt these last days.❤
Totally agree. These type of gatherings are priceless when our loved ones are no longer with Us. Our dad is remembered every single day in many situations or conversations. Great kids.
Wow Dan, I hope you and your brothers and sisters thank God every day for giving your parents such long lives and that they can still be a part of your daily lives. Sure, maybe dad is not 100% all there anymore but at least he is still around which is way more than what many others can say who have no father or mother anymore. In my case I thank God I have my mom relatively healthy at 81 years old and my dad is still around somewhere in Southern California as well whereas many of my high school friends have already lost both of their parents. Those of us that are in our 50's and 60's and still have mom and dad around are few of the lucky ones and should thank God everyday for blessing them with long lives.
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He's kind of confused but he is still having fun❤😊❤ y'all have a good time with the rest of the family❤😊❤
Thank you as always for sharing your beautiful family with us❤
Thanks for watching
I loved it! Pops was just kicking it with his crew - his tribe! You could tell he was happy!
Dan, thank you for sharing these moment's when your Dad is visiting with his family. So heartwarming to watch how much he enjoys it! Beautiful Family! 🙏❤😊
What a beautiful family. They say "The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree." Your good people with an amazing matriarch. Dan please tell your sister I love her outfit. Love the color.
She has her dad’s character … a very sweet spirit . God bless Dr. Salinger and his family
Mark's got the best sense of humor in the whole family. 😂
Yes. His occupation is Fool, he said. 😂
What a beautiful family. Dad is so lucky to have all of you. And you all are so blessed to have him as well!!!
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Yes!🙌
Grandpa is still always sweet and caring. The repetition of his caring statements shows how much he loves his family even though he can't recognize them sometimes. The love is truly there.
Let's give Danielle and Dan medals,you are doing great deeds.I love grandpa's interactions with his family.His approach is loving,humble and with respect.
You are all so careful and patient with him. This is how it's done. ❤
Our dad had Alzheimer’s. All three of his sisters had Alzheimer’s. It was very difficult at times. In May 2024, it’ll be 4 years since he passed away. There are three of his kids, all in their 60’s now and we wonder which is or will it be all of us that will suffer from this terrible disease. Mom is almost 86 and her memory is pretty good. I pray she passes away while sleeping and awakens in heaven.
I don't know if this is true but supposedly it passes through the Mother's side. So, you might be OK.
I love how your dad likes to talk to people.
I love how your mom mostly just ignores her ex 😂
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Yes, but when she does interact with Ed is very kind. 😊❤
I noticed that too... But she's never mean to him. ❤😊
What exactly did u want her to do with him??? U arecjust being unnecessarily mean!!! Why are people just so bitter in life, and they have to take it out on people they don't even know! Is this their very first video u are seeing with their mom in it, interacting with her ex of many decades??!! U aught to be ashamed of yourself!! Good night!
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Calm down, it's not that serious. 🙄
Beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are so kind
Every family has its own struggles and cope with it their best and own way, a peak into your daily life is not a day walking in your shoes, all my respect to you and your family for the loving and kindness that your family is, grandpa is a lucky guy❤🇬🇧
Can’t wipe the smile off of his face❤
Ed was doing fine. responded well to questioned asked of him. He's always so polite.
Your sister is very pretty
Ed did well!
In fact, he shined... 🌟
As always, his attention to others is paramount and is evident in all his interactions.
His lovely Spirit is strong.♡
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He's trying to get it right by remembering everyone, hang in there Doc socializing is very good for you. It helps to take the cobwebs out of your brain.
I just love your dad he reminds me so much of my great uncle who we took care of when he had dementia
Your whole family is so caring and sweet he sure loves his family God Bless you ❤
Yup he’s struggling a bit more today than we’ve seen on video in a while. He’s still the man!
Yes, probably because there's a lot of commotion and it's difficult for him to keep up with conversation.
Really? Because I actually thought his conversation with Linda was pretty good considering the dementia. I guess different strokes, different folks...
He seems stressed.
He seems out of place although he's trying too be sociable.
Thank God Sis is affectionate and speaks lovingly on a day when he's trying not to get in the way. There are challenging days for the best of families dealing with dementia!!!
"Sis" seems really nice and super normal. Her interactions with Ed were so genuine.
He is on them 🍪 cookies ❤.
I identify with Mark. He's totally comfortable in his own skin!
Disagree. I think he’s insecure.
@@dobedobedooo There is no pretense. He's not hyper-competitive. Just a man who lives life his way.
Yes I’d agree on that, Mark is wonderful in his own way
@@dobedobedoooand with zero personality
@@dobedobedoooI agree, something is off with him. I hope he's not mean to his dad when he has him. He seems very impatient.
Pop is so funny. Laughs at himself. Gotta love him! ❤
You are doing a great job with your Dad!!! As someone who took care of both of my parents until they both passed away. My Mama was paralyzed on her left side from a stroke and my Daddy had Alzheimer’s. I know how hard it is to see the decline of them. To have them not be the strong independent people they used to be.
My only advice is take time for yourself once in a while.
I think it’s amazing how you are sharing him with us!! We all love you all very much!!❤❤❤❤
I can't believe your Mom is 87, she is amazing for that age!
❤❤❤Family❤❤❤GRANDPA you're a very blessed man....😊
What a blessing you all are. There are so many families that put their loved ones in locked facilities. He is thriving because of you all and the lov3 and the patience you have. God Bless
He just adores sis
It seemed like Pops was in a good mood to me? The only struggle i see is that you were all so close together having different conversations and i can imagine it was harder than normal for Ed to hear. It would be hard for me too and i don't have dementia. When he and Sis went over to the couch talking it was a little easier on him. Thanks for sharing with us!!! 🥰🥰🥰 We love you Pops!!!! 💖💖💖
Mark is a funny guy, he was squeezing himself through the small space between Grandpa and and the chair, only to go nowhere 😂😂😂😂
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It is fascinating to witness the progression of your dad's condition. It is unfortunate that he feels out of place and struggles with remembering you and your family. Thank you for sharing your experience with us and allowing us to see how dementia affects the lives of elderly individuals.
Granpa wanted that cookie bad asf😂😂😂
I think your dad did very well with the family
I love your dad. My dad is in the same boat and I lost my mom who was in the same boat. 😢 So many parents suffering through this these days. Abnormal numbers. Be blessed.
Mark is funny 😊. Such a lovely family !
Thank you Dan it was wonderful to see how he reacts to the whole family,,,,, I see Mark uses a sense of humor to deal with Dad, sister is love loving and compassionate,,, and then the video man and the patient man,,
You guys are role models and very inspiring even when it’s hard you stay the course
He is not doing too badly at all, I love him so much, I enjoy when you both are conversing. So much love is put into taking care of Him. I salute you guys. God's richest blessings. Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲❤❤❤
Dan, thank you for showing us your dad and sharing such a valuable moment. These videos are making history. Love you all from Australia.
You guys are great inspiration for millennials like myself. Thank you.
Wow, thank you!
Such a loving man. I think he was enjoying all the family tho he gets confused. And that’s ok! ❤️
Im happy to see ED surrounded by his loving family. Its a first for me so informative
What a BLESSED family🩷🩵🤍❤️💙🤎🧡💜💛🖤💚🩶
Nice to see your family getting together...grandpa is a good man❤
Dan, your sister is so gentle with Dr Ed 💝